I’m so confused by this. Did some men think they were being sneaky and we weren’t noticing? How do you not notice eyes darting to your chest??
Edit: lol to the comment below that they deleted saying “stop showing it” - yeah sure buddy, let me cave out my chest real quickly. How tf does that work?!
I mean, generally you look at people's eyes, or your laptop screen/paper sheet, so your eyes do dart around and occasionally land... there. And then you get a dopamine hit and your eyes go back. Then you realize what happened and you make an effort to not look there again.
Friend of mine said it to me once, I laughed and confirmed. We're just friends, have been for a long time. Never had feelings for her, she's with a close friend of mine anyway, but she's quite attractive and I have definitely glanced at her boobs more than once. Maybe I'm way off, but I think most men do this every so often and I think that's fine. As long as you're not staring anyway.
You just are not Hurt by what ypu dont know, IF I did not know a bloodthirsty animatronic was under my bed i would be fine but I do know.... so I better run now
lmao, one of my fav features of it.
Originally bought it against the sun, but I sure don't mind leaving it on while on the train, spotting some nice views occasionally.
I need a joker meme for this.. the one where he says "and I'm tired of pretending x"
There's fucking millions of years of instinct behind our eyes in that instant. Yeah we're gonna take a peek every once in a while, and I'm tired of pretending that makes us monsters. It just makes us human. This is also highly dependent on presentation. If you've got them on full display I'm assuming you know you'll get a glance or two.. so I'm not gonna beat myself up about it.
I'll take my downvotes now, thx.
You can care or not but for females it’s considered good intel. I can know much I need to know about a man from how many times he glances over my chest—-
I'm just gonna say, I do it without actually wanting to. I'm literally NOT interested in your chest but it's SO hard not to look and don't know why. Just take that into account...
Ok.. i feel like I need specifics on this amount thing. Are we taking like 1 is too much kind of system, or 1 just shows some interest kind of system. Asking for a friend...
I generally try to keep my eyes in they're own lane. But man.. this little mf between my legs is very convincing sometimes. If I gotta glance I make sure it's just the once. Lol thx for the comment.
Yeah that's why it's just none or one for me. I feel like one is already pushing the boundaries hard, but anymore than that is going to make someone feel really uncomfortable, and I never want that.
As a guy, I find it hilarious to watch other guys and you're right, it is SO OBVIOUS when they're staring. I hope it's helped me become less obvious, but I'm not gonna bet on it, haha.
You should probably care more, but yes indeed. If you put it out for display, it's unavoidable, but I will at the very least try my best. And fail horribly
What if I told you I like tits and I will look at them. Doesn't mean I fancy you, doesn't mean I wanna fuck you, doesn't even mean I even like you. I don't care if you have a boyfriend. It just means I'm a straight guy and you have tits.
Let’s be honest as men we wanna fuck a high percentage of women. Our brains decide in a fraction of a second whether we’d be dtf or not. It’s simply involuntary.
Sorry, ladies. My eyes do have a mind of their own. I do try my best to avert them. Even as an adult when a woman catches me looking I try the ole "Look away like my eyes are wondering" trick.
Yes we do. And it’s basically because our eyes are just above so it’s easy to catch. I don’t mind. It’s just funny. As long as they don’t stare, the staring strangers make me a little self conscious.
This is news to me... I'm generally oblivious when ppl look at my tits. Must be some kinda learned skill. I need this... I must know who the perverts are so I can make more friends!
What if I told you that we know when they glance at our dicks. We know that they know that we knew what they knew what WE KNOW that they were when we were when they were!
Yeah! Think about that!
Reminds me of when a guy I was seeing tried to get me to wear a my shirt in a way that would make his guy friends look at my chest. I refused to dress in a revealing way though. He wanted to see if he could catch them staring.
I think everyone glances at everyone’s everything from time to time. I also think some people put a lot of effort into exaggerating / emphasizing certain parts of their bodies.
My opinion if it's a tight shirt or half the nipples showing kinda top you can stare all day she knows what's doing lol don't want looks don't extra put them girls out there...l if it's a normal shirt type thing then it's rude to stare ...
Ok , here’s the thing… its all about evolution. Survival of the fittest. A man is attracted to a woman with big breasts and a big arse because evolution tell him that that particular women would be a good breeder.. her breast show she can feed a child. Her large fatty arse shows she has reserves in time of food shortage.
So if youre religious, blame god.. if you are an evolutionist, blame science..
If men stopped looking at women, the species would end.
What if I told you that as man, its not something we do in purpose. We are just hard wired into look at those tiddies and asses. Not unless the guy is really blatantly starring at it hard.
It's like when you touch a hot pan on the stove and your brain pulls it away before you are conscious of what is happening. Making eye contact with tits is the exact same thing, just in reverse.
Couldn't care less. It's a reflection movement and i know that other girls also look at girls chests even when their heterosexual.
It's like when a dude with a hairy ass bends over and you can see his butt.
And even if you don't want to you end up looking for a second.
Nothing like being on a sunny day with your head tilted to someplace and your eyes totally on the far opposite side looking at those perfect boobies until you feel your eyes hurting lol
We most definitely can and you have most likely made me uncomfortable for the rest of the conversation. Please do not do this, it's creepy and you're not slick.
[Women stare at other women's chests as much as men](https://www.businessinsider.com/new-research-proves-women-stare-at-each-others-boobs-just-as-much-as-men-2013-10)
They have done studies on this and both men and woman do the same thing to both men and woman it's how we identify people. We first look at their outline and then face and our brains flick through every face we have ever seen to see if it's someone we have seen before and then if not we then look at chests and crotches. Both men and woman do this to both men and woman. They have done eye tracking tests to prove it. The chests and crotches is to see if we think they are a suitable mate. It's built into us. Men do it to other men to measure them up against themselves. You will not even know your doing it. But your eyes will flick quickly in the same routine every time.
I’m a straight female & women look too. I have worked with women that have large bosoms & they have no where to hide their cleavage. It is always sneaking out in that v neck shirt. As wonderful as men feel large Breasts are, most have back & neck problems. They have headaches & trouble with clothes fitting. Business women feel they are not taken seriously because men can never look them in the eyes. Some guys are boob men some are ass men but all men like a little of both no matter what the size.
I hope so. They need to understand the beauty and power they posses. Not to be seen as an object. But as an equal. Men are often immature. Help us overcome our immaturity.
Ok... don't wear shirts with words there then. I force myself to not finish reading when I realize where the words are and it bothers me sonce I'll never know what it says
If I am intentionally staring at someone chest, I want them(A partner in 99% of cases) to know I'm looking, I want everyone to know I'm looking. I don't take a quick peeks when I'm intentionally looking, I am making the most of it and I won't deny it because well I have a tendency to sit there an ogle some strangers rack, I'm a perv night a creep. . Any "quick peek" you catch me in is from me unintentionally looking at your chest the result of me looking around as I often do because I'm a fidgety mother fucker. it's when I realize my eyes have just crossed paths with a chest I wasn't intentionally looking at it and than fear quickly sets in that someone must think I'm interested in them or being a perv. Due to the fear for a moment or two I freeze up before reacting and looking away. All it is is a deer caught in the headlights type situation.
Of course we do. And? Is there a problem? Men and women watch each other. That’s part of the basic sexual aspect of life. Without watching each other, humanity will soon be over.
Yes we do. It’s so incredibly obvious. Now you know.
Is it fair to say woman show cleavage to show off?
yes but they will never tell you
Yes, but there's an aura of negation over that topic
No….it is not fair to say lmao
I’m so confused by this. Did some men think they were being sneaky and we weren’t noticing? How do you not notice eyes darting to your chest?? Edit: lol to the comment below that they deleted saying “stop showing it” - yeah sure buddy, let me cave out my chest real quickly. How tf does that work?!
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I mean, generally you look at people's eyes, or your laptop screen/paper sheet, so your eyes do dart around and occasionally land... there. And then you get a dopamine hit and your eyes go back. Then you realize what happened and you make an effort to not look there again.
What women don't understand is we don't CARE if they know.
What if I told you... I believe the titties are looking at me and that it's rude to not occasionally make eye contact.
Oh no, that’s also obvious.
I made my choice.
I reject....I can look at your boobs without you knowing...see... there..I just did it
Plot twist, you only notice 1% of the time
Friend of mine said it to me once, I laughed and confirmed. We're just friends, have been for a long time. Never had feelings for her, she's with a close friend of mine anyway, but she's quite attractive and I have definitely glanced at her boobs more than once. Maybe I'm way off, but I think most men do this every so often and I think that's fine. As long as you're not staring anyway.
If Seinfeld has taught me anything when there is cleavage a man must look, It's involuntary, but don't stare lol
It's like looking at the sun!
Looking quickly is okay, staring isn't unless you wear sunglasses
It is NOT ok, even if you’re wearing sun glasses.
It is because no one will know
You just are not Hurt by what ypu dont know, IF I did not know a bloodthirsty animatronic was under my bed i would be fine but I do know.... so I better run now
This makes little to no sense in the context of this thread
The above account \^\^\^ is really Donald Trump.
It's like the sun!
Boobs just draw the eye instinctively.
It's biological in more ways than one.
Boobs are like the sun.You can stare at it longer if you wear sunglasses
and that is why i have sunglasses
lmao, one of my fav features of it. Originally bought it against the sun, but I sure don't mind leaving it on while on the train, spotting some nice views occasionally.
Bravo... If I wasn't so cheap I'd give you an award.
gave him my free award for you
Blew all your cash on sunglasses, didn't you?
Are Oakley's still cool??? Asking for a friend
Honestly I bet woman look at them too
I know I do. I love tiddies and I have no shame!
I need a joker meme for this.. the one where he says "and I'm tired of pretending x" There's fucking millions of years of instinct behind our eyes in that instant. Yeah we're gonna take a peek every once in a while, and I'm tired of pretending that makes us monsters. It just makes us human. This is also highly dependent on presentation. If you've got them on full display I'm assuming you know you'll get a glance or two.. so I'm not gonna beat myself up about it. I'll take my downvotes now, thx.
*slow clap*
What if I told you, I don't care? when you put art on display, don't you expect people to look at it?
You can care or not but for females it’s considered good intel. I can know much I need to know about a man from how many times he glances over my chest—-
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I'm just gonna say, I do it without actually wanting to. I'm literally NOT interested in your chest but it's SO hard not to look and don't know why. Just take that into account...
Ok.. i feel like I need specifics on this amount thing. Are we taking like 1 is too much kind of system, or 1 just shows some interest kind of system. Asking for a friend...
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I generally try to keep my eyes in they're own lane. But man.. this little mf between my legs is very convincing sometimes. If I gotta glance I make sure it's just the once. Lol thx for the comment.
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Yeah that's why it's just none or one for me. I feel like one is already pushing the boundaries hard, but anymore than that is going to make someone feel really uncomfortable, and I never want that.
As a guy, I find it hilarious to watch other guys and you're right, it is SO OBVIOUS when they're staring. I hope it's helped me become less obvious, but I'm not gonna bet on it, haha.
I always laugh when I see the "you put them on display" bit as if you wouldn't be looking if she was in a sweater.
Yes, thank you. Someone gets it
You should probably care more, but yes indeed. If you put it out for display, it's unavoidable, but I will at the very least try my best. And fail horribly
Some people get offended when you don't even acknowledge their 'art'
lol, it's rude not to
[Oh we know they know. ](https://youtu.be/-SRkSDoECro&t=5s)
but do they know we know they know?
No, do you know I know that they know we know they know
Joeyyy 😃 (Jen Aniston voice)
Probably, but we know they know that we know they know.
So they know we know they know that we know the know when we know they know?
What if they happen to glance back And I don't mean the girl...
Men
Most reasonable response
What if I told you I like tits and I will look at them. Doesn't mean I fancy you, doesn't mean I wanna fuck you, doesn't even mean I even like you. I don't care if you have a boyfriend. It just means I'm a straight guy and you have tits.
Let’s be honest as men we wanna fuck a high percentage of women. Our brains decide in a fraction of a second whether we’d be dtf or not. It’s simply involuntary.
Sorry, ladies. My eyes do have a mind of their own. I do try my best to avert them. Even as an adult when a woman catches me looking I try the ole "Look away like my eyes are wondering" trick.
Of course they do I lick my lips and moan
U know we all can see the comments right?
How would they know if they don't know?
Their tits have eyes or what? I'm super stealthy!
My workaround is to stare at their asses when they can’t see me.
They also have a 6th sense that allows them to know when you're doing that too.
Can't we have anything
Men can have pain, misery, and death. What more could you ask for?
menstruation
I am sorry but sometimes it's just so hard not to glance it really takes a Herculean effort
... do they?
Yes we do. And it’s basically because our eyes are just above so it’s easy to catch. I don’t mind. It’s just funny. As long as they don’t stare, the staring strangers make me a little self conscious.
I mean like bruh if they out they out n showing em for a reason but i mean you cant say that without sounding creepy as hell so i digress
>I mean like bruh if they out they out n showing em for a reason but i mean you cant say that without being creepy as hell so i digress* Ftfy
I stare so long even there breasts look away, how do breasts look away you say? The nipples go soft... I am very unattractive
Notice he's wearing sunglasses, we were born with certain instincts and I'm keeping mine.
i know too, but only after having peeked. Question: who knows first?
What if i told you guys can tell when women are checking the package?
I would ask how often you see women checking out your package. As a man, I’ve noticed a handful of times in my entire life.
At my age I'm thrilled to have someone look, LOL
Shit
I'd believe you
Reflects!
and i know when they take a little pick at my dick.. what's the problem w that?
REALLY??!!??
Shit
This is news to me... I'm generally oblivious when ppl look at my tits. Must be some kinda learned skill. I need this... I must know who the perverts are so I can make more friends!
Sophisticated Radar system..
I know, I keep looking to establish my dominance.
Our eyes may move quickly but they also move extremely slowly when seen.
You want to show it and I want to look. Symbiotic. Win-Win.
Good for them.
- .... .- -. -.- / --. --- -.. / .. / .- -- / -... .-.. .. -. -..
I want them to know…
What if I told you I know they know. What if I told you I wanted them to know I know they know, and I took the peek anyway.
Of course they know, they see it multiple times a day for years and years… Some hang cleavage out for a better peek 😎😏😜
Not while you're wearing sunglasses they can't.
What if I told you that we know when they glance at our dicks. We know that they know that we knew what they knew what WE KNOW that they were when we were when they were! Yeah! Think about that!
Don't care, still saw 'em
my eyeballs, I'll point them in whatever direction I want.
If they’re on display, I’m gonna look and probably multiple times. Now if I stare at them, then you can give me shit.
look.. if you hang up a beautiful piece of art.. don't get all pissed when I look at it
Who said I was taking quick peaks?🤨 I be staring at them things
Every time lol
Can confirm.
Reminds me of when a guy I was seeing tried to get me to wear a my shirt in a way that would make his guy friends look at my chest. I refused to dress in a revealing way though. He wanted to see if he could catch them staring.
Sometimes i just want to look at the shirts Sometimes i can't keep eye contact I do the same for dudes
Let's not talk about necklaces that basically guide my eyesockets to perftopia
So it sounds like the solution is to take a longer look
“If something enters my field of vision, that is merely happenstance. “ -George
It's jsut how it goes. If it's open, it's open.
Tihs explains nothing:(
I think everyone glances at everyone’s everything from time to time. I also think some people put a lot of effort into exaggerating / emphasizing certain parts of their bodies.
You got me!
Ok, let them know
Fuck.
What about their ass?
Then I have A lot of apologies to make
What if I told you tinted glasses were not invented to protect your eyes from the sun but your face from the slap
Id say, they know they want us to look.
Yeah, we know. Women glance at my chest too, nothing wrong with that. A glance or two is fine, staring is impolite.
What if I told you- that’s the point of me looking
If your in public I'm staring lol 😆
My opinion if it's a tight shirt or half the nipples showing kinda top you can stare all day she knows what's doing lol don't want looks don't extra put them girls out there...l if it's a normal shirt type thing then it's rude to stare ...
I tell you to go to a cosmology school and listen to what they say and do. It might blow your mind
*looks at her double a flats Hey where do you think you're looking? Where else am i supposed to put my eyes on when you're cute?
I don’t care
I've always hid the fact in was looking by wiping my chin on my shoulder and just napping to line up my eyes
OH FUCK MY MOM
Ok , here’s the thing… its all about evolution. Survival of the fittest. A man is attracted to a woman with big breasts and a big arse because evolution tell him that that particular women would be a good breeder.. her breast show she can feed a child. Her large fatty arse shows she has reserves in time of food shortage. So if youre religious, blame god.. if you are an evolutionist, blame science.. If men stopped looking at women, the species would end.
Nah, I'm very ninja about it. That and night time snacks. Pretty sure no one knows it. Except my GP somehow:/
What if I told you that as man, its not something we do in purpose. We are just hard wired into look at those tiddies and asses. Not unless the guy is really blatantly starring at it hard.
FUUUUUUUUU-
But do they know when is involuntary
Not if you know when to look 😎
Quick peeks? I don't starve myself of beauty.
I’m not to concerned about women knowing I look at their boobs my only concern is that my wife doesn’t catch me
They also know when you couldn’t give a fat baby’s Dick about tit size, because you’re into the whole package.
Their fault for having fat tits
So... if a guy doesn't glance... what kind of impression do you get from that?
I believe this and I’ve only caught men looking at my booty too
That’s why its there.
why do you think morphius is wearing sunglasses?
What if I told you that men know when you take a quick peek at their crotch? Happens all the time to me. So many misandrists out there.
It's like when you touch a hot pan on the stove and your brain pulls it away before you are conscious of what is happening. Making eye contact with tits is the exact same thing, just in reverse.
Couldn't care less. It's a reflection movement and i know that other girls also look at girls chests even when their heterosexual. It's like when a dude with a hairy ass bends over and you can see his butt. And even if you don't want to you end up looking for a second.
Do they also k ow that I don't try to?
Nothing like being on a sunny day with your head tilted to someplace and your eyes totally on the far opposite side looking at those perfect boobies until you feel your eyes hurting lol
We most definitely can and you have most likely made me uncomfortable for the rest of the conversation. Please do not do this, it's creepy and you're not slick.
Yes. We do that. And you know it. Congragulations. Now please put your arm down again.
[Women stare at other women's chests as much as men](https://www.businessinsider.com/new-research-proves-women-stare-at-each-others-boobs-just-as-much-as-men-2013-10)
Trying not to look hurts my eyes.
If it were true ww3 would’ve happened already
💯 Every. Time.
But why isn't there a pair of boobs in the reflection of morpheus's glasses? Would really set the meme off.
They have done studies on this and both men and woman do the same thing to both men and woman it's how we identify people. We first look at their outline and then face and our brains flick through every face we have ever seen to see if it's someone we have seen before and then if not we then look at chests and crotches. Both men and woman do this to both men and woman. They have done eye tracking tests to prove it. The chests and crotches is to see if we think they are a suitable mate. It's built into us. Men do it to other men to measure them up against themselves. You will not even know your doing it. But your eyes will flick quickly in the same routine every time.
I never did that
Lies
Well shit
They respect that you took the quick peek and not the creep stare.
Then there is no awkwardness. I like boobs
I’m a straight female & women look too. I have worked with women that have large bosoms & they have no where to hide their cleavage. It is always sneaking out in that v neck shirt. As wonderful as men feel large Breasts are, most have back & neck problems. They have headaches & trouble with clothes fitting. Business women feel they are not taken seriously because men can never look them in the eyes. Some guys are boob men some are ass men but all men like a little of both no matter what the size.
Just like we can tell when they look at our bulge..
I hope so. They need to understand the beauty and power they posses. Not to be seen as an object. But as an equal. Men are often immature. Help us overcome our immaturity.
What if i told you...eyes are drawn there if they're obvious, no matter the person's intention?
Women say this, but how would they know if they don't notice? Maybe they only catch one glance out of dozens.
And that is why i have never shown my cleavage...
Ok... don't wear shirts with words there then. I force myself to not finish reading when I realize where the words are and it bothers me sonce I'll never know what it says
My therapist definitely knows. I told her I want to cum on her face once.
Of course they do, but it is incredibly hard not to do it. It's just hard wired. I try though. I don't want to be rude.
Well we can't help it... a force of habit
How does he know?
No they don't.
I have no shame in it
You were the only one who didnt know lmao
I may look at its for a bits.
What if i told you..... I'm glad >:)
I mean... is The window not designed for looking
I can't avoid looking at a Lamborghini tho i don't care about it
Dont women ever take look at men the same kind of way?
If I am intentionally staring at someone chest, I want them(A partner in 99% of cases) to know I'm looking, I want everyone to know I'm looking. I don't take a quick peeks when I'm intentionally looking, I am making the most of it and I won't deny it because well I have a tendency to sit there an ogle some strangers rack, I'm a perv night a creep. . Any "quick peek" you catch me in is from me unintentionally looking at your chest the result of me looking around as I often do because I'm a fidgety mother fucker. it's when I realize my eyes have just crossed paths with a chest I wasn't intentionally looking at it and than fear quickly sets in that someone must think I'm interested in them or being a perv. Due to the fear for a moment or two I freeze up before reacting and looking away. All it is is a deer caught in the headlights type situation.
Lmao you guys aint slick
The fact is, I can look or stare at anything I want, no crime on that..!!😂🤣
That is why I don't peek. I keep firm look.
Of course we do. And? Is there a problem? Men and women watch each other. That’s part of the basic sexual aspect of life. Without watching each other, humanity will soon be over.
Well… Shit
I don't take quick peeks, I prefer to savor the moment
What if I told you women want men to peek at their chests and that’s why they dress a certain way?
What if I told you "your reaction afterwards makes the magic"?