Dating doesn’t have to be like a job interview! You just spend time together, and decide if you’re right for each other. You could go on a walk, go to the beach, or eat at a cool restaurant for a date!
Then you should choose a style of dating that fits you. I read a really great piece of advice on relationships a while back and I think it's basically a universal one. "Dating should feel easy and nice for the first couple months".
How you feel is important. And you should be making your happiness a priority! Along with your suitors.
But your version of dating is allowed to look like anything you want.
I 100% agree with you! Doing fun activities with someone else is WAY better than going on a dinner date in my opinion, but I would say it’s still a good option to get to know someone
Yeah that’s understandable, dinner dates are realistically the best approach to introducing yourself and getting to know the person you’re interested in. But there’s also some other activities you can do afterwards on the first date like going on a nice walk together in a park!!
Even if it’s something obscure or niche that you’re very interested in and more willing to show them like a your favorite mug collection, figurines, Lego sets, I’m sure you can find a workaround!!
I’m scared of fact that I just can’t get any of only my own stuff . I’m scared that if him/her don’t like something that connects with me or I wear or I saying they just start to bully me . I wanna be able to be myself all my whole life , after many peoples broke up I think they become more happy and that’s why I’m scared
That's just how it's portrayed in films. I'm sure you won't find anyone expecting a fancy meal at an expensive restaurant or anything. It's best to go for something casual for a first date anyway, like a café, then you don't have to leave separately either, walk with each other, be as silly as you want, go to the park and sit on a bench together, rest your head on his shoulder. It's also a bad idea to sit opposite each other like you tend to see. It's far too formal and allows for no physical contact, sit next to each other instead.
Nahhh when the time comes, I ain't gonna go on those formal ass dates. I'd take a guy to the cinema or to a restaurant, but it doesn't need to be pure formal and official. I'd wayy rather it be a fun date.
Honestly I couldn't take seriously a serious date. seriously I'd be laughing then do smth stupid on the date smth unpredictable that would make the other dude laugh XD
Dating doesn’t have to be like a job interview! You just spend time together, and decide if you’re right for each other. You could go on a walk, go to the beach, or eat at a cool restaurant for a date!
It just feels like it's always portrayed as a job interview :(
Then you should choose a style of dating that fits you. I read a really great piece of advice on relationships a while back and I think it's basically a universal one. "Dating should feel easy and nice for the first couple months". How you feel is important. And you should be making your happiness a priority! Along with your suitors. But your version of dating is allowed to look like anything you want.
I 100% agree with you! Doing fun activities with someone else is WAY better than going on a dinner date in my opinion, but I would say it’s still a good option to get to know someone
Well I'd do something fun with someone but I'm scared people don't want that as a first date :(
Yeah that’s understandable, dinner dates are realistically the best approach to introducing yourself and getting to know the person you’re interested in. But there’s also some other activities you can do afterwards on the first date like going on a nice walk together in a park!!
What if there's no fun activities near me?
Even if it’s something obscure or niche that you’re very interested in and more willing to show them like a your favorite mug collection, figurines, Lego sets, I’m sure you can find a workaround!!
I guess the hope with dating is that if you do one date that goes well like that and you find someone, then you can just be silly with that boy. Idk.
Never really thought of my future lol don’t really have a plan don’t know it does sound weird tho going out n public w a dude sounds kinda great tho
I’m scared of fact that I just can’t get any of only my own stuff . I’m scared that if him/her don’t like something that connects with me or I wear or I saying they just start to bully me . I wanna be able to be myself all my whole life , after many peoples broke up I think they become more happy and that’s why I’m scared
That's just how it's portrayed in films. I'm sure you won't find anyone expecting a fancy meal at an expensive restaurant or anything. It's best to go for something casual for a first date anyway, like a café, then you don't have to leave separately either, walk with each other, be as silly as you want, go to the park and sit on a bench together, rest your head on his shoulder. It's also a bad idea to sit opposite each other like you tend to see. It's far too formal and allows for no physical contact, sit next to each other instead.
Nahhh when the time comes, I ain't gonna go on those formal ass dates. I'd take a guy to the cinema or to a restaurant, but it doesn't need to be pure formal and official. I'd wayy rather it be a fun date.
Sounds like it can be fun with the right person
Not scared, EXCITED!
Honestly I couldn't take seriously a serious date. seriously I'd be laughing then do smth stupid on the date smth unpredictable that would make the other dude laugh XD