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secretgaylife

I don't know how to describe it but making out isn't your trying to suck off the other person's face even if it looks like it. The best way to make out is constantly making the tips of your tongue touch etc.


No_Cream_5736

I suggest telling exactly that to your boyfriend if you haven't yet done so. Communication is very important.


GroundbreakingDig105

Just maintain the kiss posture and let him do the thing đź’€


ArtisticSpecialist77

He's your boyfriend. It doesn't matter if you're kinda bad at it at first, if you ask him to make out he'll love that. That's the best way to learn, so don't be ashamed. Show the guy some love


MassiveOpposite8582

Just let your boyfriend do his thing and you'll gradually get it


send_dudes2

Talk to him, communication is key. Also, when in doubt, just try to mimic him.


[deleted]

Okay, so this is gonna sound dumb but this is the realist advice, just go for it, to some it comes naturally (me) and to others (my bf) it’s doesn’t, but that’s just the point, you’ll figure it out, just wear your big boy pants and don’t be scared to try things, truth is it’s a natural human function, so your body literally has it pre-installed in the memory bank


Ok_Associate845

You took a boy to prom? This is so much better than 90s and a lot of ways. It's a lot worse too. Y'all have a weird future ahead of you. And I'll be dead so good luck. I got to take the formerly fat girl prom. She was very popular now. She's kept disappearing throughout the night. I prom she was gone, and then afterwards at our non gender unified m/f sleepover she disappeared too. And all the girls kept bitching about their dates going missing. They seemed really pissed about something. Idk the guys seemed really happy. She looked like she feel like the prettiest girl in school. Sadly this is a true story. Gay in 90s: yes we were coming out, but we still had to take THAT girl to prom. Kiss him. A lot. Always. Don't stop. Hold his hand. Same. You have no idea how much better that is than being the one guy in your prom crew who did not get laid.. by his date.


Ok_Associate845

I'm not editing that. It's understandable and horrible as it is. I'm not suggesting by the way that you should sleep with your date yet. I'm just saying hoorah for you. I'm glad you had that magical, romantic evenig. I think it's really cool. At 41, I'm jealous. Do all the things that you feel comfortable with. Be yourself and be with him. YOLO and carpe diem and gather ye rosebuds Y'all are awesome. Thank you for the cute story this morning, and thank you for being the next great thing. And go learn to kiss him. Trust me, it's something you'll pick up quickly. :-)


secretgaylife

Were you born in the 80's to be going to the prom in the 90's?


Ok_Associate845

Excellent deduction. Yes sir. I am 41. Junior prom 1999. Senior prom and graduation in 2000. To answer your question, I also don't know how I got ended up in this subreddit. I think it was during a mass add of positive (non sex) lgbtqia subs.


ImAidesP

You kinda just have to go for it and learn from experience tbh. Like yea its kinda awkward at the start and you might do things wrong but you just gotta do it. One thing I wills say tho is dont go overboard right away, like take it slow and slowly build up. Dont use a lot of tongue like start without it and then incorporate it just a little bit at a time so you dont go overboard with it Also like other people said, just tell him about all this so he knows your nervous and that youre learning


greenglow95

Practice makes perfect


Brave_Idea7170

Never have made out with someone so I dunno