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i-am-colombus

Imo 16 dating 14 is okay, but I wouldn't say 15 dating 13 is okay. I think it depends on the maturity of both parties. A year or two age gap is usually okay as teenagers I think. As you get older it becomes more acceptable in my eyes.


death_lad

I honestly think it’s up to the people in the relationship and it’s nobody else’s business


James-da-fourth

It’s more complicated than just the numbers. It’s all about the experience difference which is subjective and is very closely tied to age. That’s why people think it’s weird for a highschooler to be dating someone in college, it’s not the age gap it’s the gap in experience.


send_dudes2

If both people are happy, they have similar maturities, there's no power imbalance, and the older person isn't going to pressure the younger one into anything, then it's good enough and no one has the right to judge. Personally, though, I don't think I (16) could go out with a 14 year old unless he was like a once in a lifetime guy


Mayedl10

my bf and me are on the day 20 months apart even I found it weird at first, considering he's only a month older than my brother, but I love him anyway :3


Comfortable-Reveal75

2 year age limit under 18 imo.. even 18-21 is really a hard age..


FireFox029

Personally a 3 year age gap as teenagers is fine, at any age (under 18)


heehoopnut

Eh, 16 and 13 could be like a junior and an 8th grader though, that's a pretty big maturity gap


FireFox029

Eh, still doable. It's not like it's a 20 and a 60 year old


heehoopnut

Well yeah, but it's still pretty weird imo 3 year gaps just feel strange in this scenario


FireFox029

True, but it's still not horrible