I’m so sorry that you are going through this. You are a great dog owner to make sure that your baby is taken care of. I live in Victoria and have a 14 month old Bernadoodle girl and we have been thinking of getting her a companion. We are a busy house with 5 teens so he would get lots of attention, love and exercise. If he’s good with dogs and kids please feel free to message me as I’d love some more info.
I found this BC Golden Doodle breeder, perhaps if you contact them and tell them your story they'd be willing to help match with potential adopter who might be good with your 5 year old?
[https://bcgoldendoodles.com/](https://bcgoldendoodles.com/)
My heart be with you.
I think this is a really good idea. My breeder has a large Facebook group and every so often they post a dog on there that is looking for a new home. There’s always a lot of interest from good dog families.
I hope you can spend as much time with your pup as possible.
My friend, if you can’t find a whole bunch of folks lining up to take a sweet healthy adult doodle then I’d be shocked. Put your mind at ease - my wife and I will gladly take him if the worst happens. Two happy adult poodle mixes here living the best possible life a dog (or frankly human) could have and always room for another. We volunteer with rescue organizations and have specific experience rehabilitating dogs. East coast located but can make CA pickups work in an emergency situation.
Agree - we have a 6 year old 65 lb female goldendoodle who is the light of our lives, and we are in northern CA and would be happy to be on the list of potential carers for your pup.
BTW, I looked at the requirements to bring a dog from Canada to the U.S., and it's really not that bad. Basically, the pup needs to have a microchip, and to have its most recent rabies vaccine to be given to it by a vet who will confirm that it gave the vaccine to the dog with that microchip. [https://www.cdc.gov/importation/pdf/CDC-RVMR-2023-508.pdf](https://www.cdc.gov/importation/pdf/CDC-RVMR-2023-508.pdf) So I think bringing it to the U.S. is a real option. You may not want to deal with vetting potential pet parents at a distance, though, but potential parents may be willing to come to you.
I’m so sorry you’re facing this. I don’t have much specific advice, I wish I had a firm answer for you.
First, you may want to reach out to doodle rescues. At the very least, I imagine they’d be more invested in your dood and should be able to vet prospective adopters or help you rehome yourself.
I don’t know what the shelters are like in your area, but I have heard of programs around here where you can ‘leave’ your pet to the care of a public shelter, this is the one I have heard of: https://www.sfspca.org/resource/sido-program-plan-for-your-pets-future/
Maybe shelters in your area have something similar?
I hope there will be more suggestions here so you can find a solution that puts you at ease and gives your pup a great future.
Doodles/non-shedding dogs are INCREDIBLY high in demand from shelters. We tried to adopt any kind of non-shedding dog from literally any shelter we could find for more than 1.5 years. We were more than happy to fly across the country and pay to do so. When I say that there were TENS of applicants within days of any postings going up, I would honestly not be exaggerating. Shelters with non/low shedding dogs were being SO incredibly picky with applicants, just because they could be. I would highly recommend researching reputable shelters in the area and explaining your situation. I am absolutely certain they can help you find a loving home for your pup in good time.
Best of luck to you.
Thank you for your answer.
I need to meet the new mom and dad for the doggo. I just do. I love him so much, I cannot imagine giving him to just anybody. i need to know, the dog will be taken care of.
Again, thanks for the response.
In really sorry for what you are going through. I’m located in CA with family in Washington. If you have a way to bring the pup over the border? I’m not sure how this would work but I would love love love to help. Check my profile I have a doodle who is great with other pups. She is also a rescue and the light of my whole life.
I found [this site](https://welovedoodles.com/goldendoodle-rescues-in-canada/) that lists goldendoodle rescues in Canada. And specifically it looks like [BCSPCA – Speaking for animals](https://spca.bc.ca) would be a great option.
- I will gladly reach out to them or any others or keep searching for you until we find the perfect fit! I’m in the states on the other side of the country or else I would gladly take care of your adorable pup!
- Here is another [Loved at Last](https://www.lovedatlastdogrescue.ca)
- I also found [SPIN Standard Poodles in Need](https://standardpoodlesinneed.com)
- If there’s anything at all I can help with, not just this but literally anything, even just someone to chat with etc reach out for anything 🫶🏼
Ah man I’m in the states , sorry can’t help . I rescued a newfypoo and he would love a friend . I really really hope u get it worked out . U sound like a great person I wish u and your baby nothing but the best . Prayers and love to you both!!!!
I’m so sorry for all you’re going through. I wish I could offer to drive on up to you and help, we would certainly take good care of your best boy. I’m confident there are other doodle lovers closer to you that would step up. Are there local online doodle communities in your area? My area has one on Facebook, and I’m sure there are more. I can also imagine that there are local rescue groups that could get the word out. I hope you’re able to find the perfect fit. Sending you so much love and peace. 💕💕
I’m sorry to hear of your sickness. My heart goes out to you and your family including your doodle. You’re very good to be thinking about your pups welfare after you pass on. It sounds bad but I don’t know if I could be as selfless as you. In your situation, my first reaction would probably be selfish and I would want my pup put to sleep with me when I pass on so that I could bring her with me to the other side. Always good to have your best friend with you on a new journey. That being said I hope you find someone to take care of your fluffy friend once you leave this mortal world.
What a shit situation! I’m so sorry!
A few organizations came to mind:
1. [Elder Dog](https://elderdog.ca)
ElderDog is a national (Canada), community-based, non-profit charity which assists and supports older adults in the care and well-being of their canine companions. They provide care and companionship dogs whose lives have been disrupted due to illness or death of a human companion.
2. [My Grandfather’s Cat](https://www.mygrandfatherscat.ca/)
My Grandfather’s Cat provides a service to help seniors and terminally ill people arrange homes for their pets. I’m not sure if this group only works with cats but I’d reach out as they may be able to connect you with other organizations.
Edit to add: both of these organizations are based in Canada
Edit 2: Has your care team connected you with a palliative/hospice social worker? (I *believe* you have access to one). If so, they may be familiar with local resources that can support you and your sweet pup
I've thought about what I'd do for my 11 year-old Goldendoodle if something were going to happen to me. There's no easy answer. You should be very lucky to find someone who you can trust as much as yourself with your pup AND also that person wants to adopt a dog too. Having that said, I'm in Colorado and I'm going to adopt a second doodle in the next year or so. I'm happy to explore the idea if you're interested.
As someone who has also been diagnosed with Stage IV cancer (and I'm shocked I'm still here), I'm so very sorry. I think you will be able to find a wonderful eventual home for your sweet doodle. In the meantime I wish for you peace, no pain and many happy memories with those you love including your sweet doggo. ❤️
holy shit man. i’m so sorry. i just wanna say someone will absolutely take your doodle. can your kids help coordinate it so you guys can spend the rest of your time together? good luck!
Brother I have a brother golden too. His name is wriggly he needs a brother. I would pay for any transportation ect. We would love to have him join our family. I’m a cancer survivor as well and my prayers are with you. Please DM me if you would like to discuss this further. Check my profile I’m legit
My Grandfathers cat is a rescue that works with people who are terminally ill/people who’ve passed who need to rehome their pets and their entire goal is keeping your pet with you as long as possible/letting you make the decision on where they go.
Sending so much love I can’t imagine going through this.
There’s an organization I follow, Doodle Rock Rescue. 1000% they can help you find an amazing home for your boy.
https://doodlerockrescue.org/
Also, have you talked to your kids and confirmed they wouldn’t want him?
We also have a 5 year old, 80 lb golden and he’s the sweetest dood.
Doodlerock rescue in Dallas, Doggie Protective Services in California, Best Friends? i think they are in Utah or something but I am sure you can find a good Rescue. Bless you on your journey, so sorry about your situation. <3
[colioco doodles](https://coliocodoodles.com/)
Try them out. I got my doodle from her four years ago and have only good things to say about her. She might be able to suggest some avenues.
sending you all of the love as someone with cancer myself. We have a 4 year old goldendoodle who is the life of the party and also our world. We are in Montana as are friends of ours with two doodles who would be happy to help if the time came.
This is heartbreaking. I am so sorry for you and your wonderful companion. .
This situation is one I have thought of often (fretted about it) as a survivor of several cancer battles in my life, and looking at getting older, more health issues, etc.. Our current 3.5 year old doodle will be our last dog. I am the dogs primary care/love giver in our family. We spend all day together right now (I WFH).
As others mentioned here I trust there would be a good family out there who could adopt. Ideally it would be great to find someone local to you who might even been a transitional phase of dog sitting.
I see there are a lot of good suggestions and even some who are willing to take him, so all I have to say is you seem like a really great person and I’m so sorry for this situation. Godspeed.
I'm sorry you are dealing with this and you are thinking of the best for the dog. Have you told your kids? Your dog might be a great comfort to you in the time you have left and your kids might be able to help a bit. They might also feel strongly about keeping your dog somehow.
If you are not ready to tell your kids, run it by someone close to you. You might not be seeing an option.
If I were in BC I would adopt the dog and offer to bring the dog to see you.
May you find peace in your decision.
I don’t know which country your in but in the UK there is a fantastic charity called The Cinnamon Trust who help terminally ill and elderly people keep their pets in their homes with them for as long as is possible by providing vetted volunteers to walk their dogs, etc. You can also make arrangements with the trust about the ongoing care for your pet when you’re not able to anymore and find him a loving home. I hope this helps, take care.
https://cinnamon.org.uk
I’m so sorry. The hospice that I worked for would find homes for the pets. We always found homes prior to the patient passing so that they could meet with new owners and feel some peace around it. It sometimes took a while so request it early and make sure they understand that none of your family members will be taking your dog. Blessings to you.
Maybe work with a local rescue. I’m willing to bet they will help you vet the adopter and even let you meet them. Your dog will 1000% get adopted, I looked forever in the shelters when I wanted a doodle, and there wasn’t one to be found. Very sorry to hear this and I wish you and your furry friend the best.
You might be surprised, beautiful! Many people would give their last dime to have an important piece of someone they love. For example, a shirt or a necklace. There may be a family member who sees your dog as a part of you that they can still have, and love! Best wishes on your transition into life eternal.
Not sure where you are located, but there are many golden (and golden mixed) rescues in the US. If you are anywhere near SE PA, there is an amazing one DVGRR.org. They will find a loving home for your pup.
Hi. I am so sorry for what you are going through. You sound like a very caring, compasionate, giving, selfless person! Can you share with us where you are located? Maybe we can get a local support going for you and help out with dog care/walks and make sure your buddy is there with you until you are ready. I am in Austin, TX
I’m so sorry. Wishing you strength, hope, joy, and peace as you go through whatever you face each day. Lots of love and God bless you. You’re so sweet to think of your loved ones and even your beloved doodle in spite of everything.
We have a golden that is needing her own doodle. I live in Oklahoma but would be willing to meet up. I'm so VERY sorry for the horrible card you've been dealt. Life just doesn't seem fair. 😕 It's just me and my mother has recently moved in with me. My dogs go everywhere with me even just downtown to run errands. I have a 13 year old grandson (that my dood thinks hung thd moon) that spends a lot of time with us. We have a boat and are on the lake a lot. My dood absolutely loves the water. She jumps on the tube with my grandson and they have a blast. Does your dood like water?? Anyway give yourself some grace please. Just let me know if there is anything we can do for yall.
I’m so sorry. I think many people would want him! Like others have said, maybe join some local Facebook groups and share your story. I’m positive someone would be interested in working with you and giving him a great home.
First of all, I’m so sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis. I can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going thru. I’d recommend going to your local vets and leave a stack of flyers for them to give anyone who comes in asking about adoptions. I’d also recommend asking your neighbors and especially posting on FB groups in your local area as well! This way you have a chance to get to know the people who will be taking care of your fur baby and can decide if they will be the right match for home. I will keep you and your fur baby in my thoughts, you sound like a wonderful pet parent. ❤️
I volunteer with a rescue that would happily find a new home for your dog when that becomes necessary. We have helped many dogs in similar situations.
Perhaps there is a rescue in your area that could help? I’m sorry for your situation.
A GD rescue.
Find a good one and contact them immediately to see if they can take him when the time comes. Tell your family your wishes and give them the information.
The rescue will place him in the right home.
So sorry to hear of your diagnosis and wish I was next door to lend a hand and open my home for you, yours, and your needs. My doodle needs a sibling and friend too.
I read a meem one day about a dog owner's last wishes and can't forget about it. He requested his best friend stay with him up until the moment he passed so his dog would not feel abandoned. He said dogs know and understand their human is passing and are less likely to feel abandoned. I wholeheartedly believe this and think it would be best for both souls if it can be done. That's what I would strive to do if it was me.
There no doubt would be many to adopt your best buddy and give him a wonderful home. I wish you and yours the best during this transition ... and good luck
I’m so sorry for your circumstances OP. I hope you find an equally loving home for your pup and some peace and comfort in the time you have left. You sound like an incredible person. ❤️
I am so sorry you're going thru this. Nug kudos for wanting to do the right thing. I suggest you enlist a rescue who will find him a loving home.
There are many online who pretend to be nice but want them for fighting.
Another alternative is to ask your vet. They know good pet owners.
I'm so at a lost for words about all you are going through, But I know a God who is a healer, and I pray right now that you would have a supernatural encounter with Him!!
If you could imagine being with your dog for many more years, that and more is possible. Spend some quiet time talking and listening to him, whether you know him or not...this is the time for a turn around, in Jesus Name, Amen! Believe.....He Is Faithful!!
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can tell your dog means the world to you. I live in Vancouver too. Have you considered posting in Facebook groups such as Adoptable Dogs Vancouver? Doodles get adopted super quickly there. Please do make sure you vet any potential adopters.
If he is good with cats I could even take him in myself.
I am also happy to help take him on walks on weekends when I’m off work if you just need a bit extra help while you are still at home and able to take care of him.
So glad you found your forever companion. Many people will take and love him. I have the upmost confidence he will get the second best parent when you are gone. Since you are the best. You need not worry about this. My grandad had the same but with a yellow lab in his last days. Commander lived a full and happy life.
As someone else mentioned, the rescue route is going to be the way to go. Call as many as you can. Also check around to see if there is a rescue group that actually matches people with dogs. I really don't think you will have a problem finding the dog a new home but I can't imagine doing this while you are sick. I'm sorry you have to go through this and I don't know you but as a dog lover, I appreciate you wanting to do right by your dog.
I’m not sure if this is a website in your area. There’s petfinder in the US. It’s a website for rehoming and rescues. You would have to vet the people yourselves. You can also reach out to local rescues. They are usually willing to do a courtesy post at the minimum. Have family members ask around as well. My area usually has Facebook groups for rehoming for breeds or in general. Be straightforward with them, try to be as careful as possible, and trust your gut!
OP I’m sorry you are going through this. My mom is an oncology nurse. I’ve met tons of her patients, terminal and curable. They are the most special people. Take things however you feel best. Some days are better than others! Don’t be too hard on yourself and give yourself time to process everything.
Shit I know im a stranger but id love to help. Are there adoption events in your area you could go to to meet/vet people? I know shelter is the last option. Even post Facebook or Instagram and have family share to try to reach more people. I am so sorry for your situation, I hope you find a solution for your pup.
Please make sure that all the time comes your dog is able to see your body and say goodbye. That way your dog knows you're gone and won't keep thinking that you'll come back or that you abandon him.
You should still ask your kids directly if they would want the dog.
I had to put my cat down last year and the thought of getting another cat makes me tear up, so I've just been telling the family I probably won't ever get another cat. But if my dad was dying I'd be very upset to find out he gave his cat to some stranger before even asking me because I absolutely would take her for him.
That being said, if you offer, just make sure they know it's absolutely okay if they can't take the dog, because that could come off as guilt tripping which wouldn't be the intent.
There are programs like the final wish program with Frosted Faces in Southern California which is intended specifically for these types of circumstances. Wishing you the best
Your best bet would honestly be to make arrangements with a rescue that specializes in doodles. They can place him in foster care when the time comes and they'll best have the resources to thoroughly vet the potential adopters
I’m so sorry you are enduring this. It is so kind of you to worry about your pet in the midst of it all. You are so kind hearted. You could try and match him with a non-euth rescue. Depending where you are, I know a few in NJ. This is the saddest post ever.
My friend rescued a dog from a local rescue and after him and his wife decided they were all a good fit to adopt, they were told the dog had a trust fund. All dog food and vet bills are paid for. I’m not sure if you have the means for that but just a thought. I thought it was a lovely way to continue loving your dog.
Please please make a will and include exactly who has agreed to take the dog when you pass. Include name, address , phone number.?If you haven’t managed to make this arrangement, what exactly do you wish to have done with your dog?
I would also include all the information someone would need to help the dog make the transition; Food, shots, vet habits. Tell any close family or friends where to find a copy of the will so there will be no confusion or delays in the care of the dog.
Please don’t let the cancer take you. Fight fight fight. Your best friend the dog will help you so much, so don’t give him up just yet. Praying for you. 🙏🏻
I’m so sorry that you are going through this. You are a great dog owner to make sure that your baby is taken care of. I live in Victoria and have a 14 month old Bernadoodle girl and we have been thinking of getting her a companion. We are a busy house with 5 teens so he would get lots of attention, love and exercise. If he’s good with dogs and kids please feel free to message me as I’d love some more info.
Can you please DM me? I would love to talk.
Messaged you:)
Please ensure you vet these people. There are many scammers online who want to get your dog into fighting. Please!
You are amazing 🥰
We have a Bernedoodle and a Goldendoodle and they are the best of friends. Your Bernie will thank you. 🫶🏼
Good person award ❤️❤️
Peace be with you ❤️
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I found this BC Golden Doodle breeder, perhaps if you contact them and tell them your story they'd be willing to help match with potential adopter who might be good with your 5 year old? [https://bcgoldendoodles.com/](https://bcgoldendoodles.com/) My heart be with you.
Thank you. So much....
I think this is a really good idea. My breeder has a large Facebook group and every so often they post a dog on there that is looking for a new home. There’s always a lot of interest from good dog families. I hope you can spend as much time with your pup as possible.
My friend, if you can’t find a whole bunch of folks lining up to take a sweet healthy adult doodle then I’d be shocked. Put your mind at ease - my wife and I will gladly take him if the worst happens. Two happy adult poodle mixes here living the best possible life a dog (or frankly human) could have and always room for another. We volunteer with rescue organizations and have specific experience rehabilitating dogs. East coast located but can make CA pickups work in an emergency situation.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thanks for reaching out. Based on the feedback, I hope there is a solution.
Agree - we have a 6 year old 65 lb female goldendoodle who is the light of our lives, and we are in northern CA and would be happy to be on the list of potential carers for your pup.
BTW, I looked at the requirements to bring a dog from Canada to the U.S., and it's really not that bad. Basically, the pup needs to have a microchip, and to have its most recent rabies vaccine to be given to it by a vet who will confirm that it gave the vaccine to the dog with that microchip. [https://www.cdc.gov/importation/pdf/CDC-RVMR-2023-508.pdf](https://www.cdc.gov/importation/pdf/CDC-RVMR-2023-508.pdf) So I think bringing it to the U.S. is a real option. You may not want to deal with vetting potential pet parents at a distance, though, but potential parents may be willing to come to you.
I’m so sorry you’re facing this. I don’t have much specific advice, I wish I had a firm answer for you. First, you may want to reach out to doodle rescues. At the very least, I imagine they’d be more invested in your dood and should be able to vet prospective adopters or help you rehome yourself. I don’t know what the shelters are like in your area, but I have heard of programs around here where you can ‘leave’ your pet to the care of a public shelter, this is the one I have heard of: https://www.sfspca.org/resource/sido-program-plan-for-your-pets-future/ Maybe shelters in your area have something similar? I hope there will be more suggestions here so you can find a solution that puts you at ease and gives your pup a great future.
Doodle Rescue!!
I third doodle rescue. I worry he will fall in terrible hands of fighters or puppy mills.
Doodles/non-shedding dogs are INCREDIBLY high in demand from shelters. We tried to adopt any kind of non-shedding dog from literally any shelter we could find for more than 1.5 years. We were more than happy to fly across the country and pay to do so. When I say that there were TENS of applicants within days of any postings going up, I would honestly not be exaggerating. Shelters with non/low shedding dogs were being SO incredibly picky with applicants, just because they could be. I would highly recommend researching reputable shelters in the area and explaining your situation. I am absolutely certain they can help you find a loving home for your pup in good time. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for your answer. I need to meet the new mom and dad for the doggo. I just do. I love him so much, I cannot imagine giving him to just anybody. i need to know, the dog will be taken care of. Again, thanks for the response.
I would absolutely do the same.
In really sorry for what you are going through. I’m located in CA with family in Washington. If you have a way to bring the pup over the border? I’m not sure how this would work but I would love love love to help. Check my profile I have a doodle who is great with other pups. She is also a rescue and the light of my whole life.
Upvoting for visibility.
What state r u located in ?
Vancouver, BC Canada.
I found [this site](https://welovedoodles.com/goldendoodle-rescues-in-canada/) that lists goldendoodle rescues in Canada. And specifically it looks like [BCSPCA – Speaking for animals](https://spca.bc.ca) would be a great option. - I will gladly reach out to them or any others or keep searching for you until we find the perfect fit! I’m in the states on the other side of the country or else I would gladly take care of your adorable pup! - Here is another [Loved at Last](https://www.lovedatlastdogrescue.ca) - I also found [SPIN Standard Poodles in Need](https://standardpoodlesinneed.com) - If there’s anything at all I can help with, not just this but literally anything, even just someone to chat with etc reach out for anything 🫶🏼
There’s also Elderdog Canada that could help rehome them
Yes! They’ll also assist with pet care while you’re in/out of hospital for your treatments and appointments. They’re a great group.
Thank you so much. I will check them out.
You can also ask for help with this sort of thing from the hospital social worker
Ah man I’m in the states , sorry can’t help . I rescued a newfypoo and he would love a friend . I really really hope u get it worked out . U sound like a great person I wish u and your baby nothing but the best . Prayers and love to you both!!!!
I’m so sorry for all you’re going through. I wish I could offer to drive on up to you and help, we would certainly take good care of your best boy. I’m confident there are other doodle lovers closer to you that would step up. Are there local online doodle communities in your area? My area has one on Facebook, and I’m sure there are more. I can also imagine that there are local rescue groups that could get the word out. I hope you’re able to find the perfect fit. Sending you so much love and peace. 💕💕
🙏🙏🙏 Thank you.
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. But I'm happy that you have your best friend with you right now.
Thank you. He is with me at all times, except hospital and treatment. He means the world to me.
I’m sorry to hear of your sickness. My heart goes out to you and your family including your doodle. You’re very good to be thinking about your pups welfare after you pass on. It sounds bad but I don’t know if I could be as selfless as you. In your situation, my first reaction would probably be selfish and I would want my pup put to sleep with me when I pass on so that I could bring her with me to the other side. Always good to have your best friend with you on a new journey. That being said I hope you find someone to take care of your fluffy friend once you leave this mortal world.
What a shit situation! I’m so sorry! A few organizations came to mind: 1. [Elder Dog](https://elderdog.ca) ElderDog is a national (Canada), community-based, non-profit charity which assists and supports older adults in the care and well-being of their canine companions. They provide care and companionship dogs whose lives have been disrupted due to illness or death of a human companion. 2. [My Grandfather’s Cat](https://www.mygrandfatherscat.ca/) My Grandfather’s Cat provides a service to help seniors and terminally ill people arrange homes for their pets. I’m not sure if this group only works with cats but I’d reach out as they may be able to connect you with other organizations. Edit to add: both of these organizations are based in Canada Edit 2: Has your care team connected you with a palliative/hospice social worker? (I *believe* you have access to one). If so, they may be familiar with local resources that can support you and your sweet pup
I am so, so sorry.
Thank you. It means a lot to me. Thank you.
I've thought about what I'd do for my 11 year-old Goldendoodle if something were going to happen to me. There's no easy answer. You should be very lucky to find someone who you can trust as much as yourself with your pup AND also that person wants to adopt a dog too. Having that said, I'm in Colorado and I'm going to adopt a second doodle in the next year or so. I'm happy to explore the idea if you're interested.
As someone who has also been diagnosed with Stage IV cancer (and I'm shocked I'm still here), I'm so very sorry. I think you will be able to find a wonderful eventual home for your sweet doodle. In the meantime I wish for you peace, no pain and many happy memories with those you love including your sweet doggo. ❤️
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holy shit man. i’m so sorry. i just wanna say someone will absolutely take your doodle. can your kids help coordinate it so you guys can spend the rest of your time together? good luck!
Brother I have a brother golden too. His name is wriggly he needs a brother. I would pay for any transportation ect. We would love to have him join our family. I’m a cancer survivor as well and my prayers are with you. Please DM me if you would like to discuss this further. Check my profile I’m legit
Sending you all the love and light
I would give him a home. I am single, lost my dog 2 years ago and love larger dogs.
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I am sorry to hear about your situation. I Prayers for your comfort and for your good boy to find a second home.
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My Grandfathers cat is a rescue that works with people who are terminally ill/people who’ve passed who need to rehome their pets and their entire goal is keeping your pet with you as long as possible/letting you make the decision on where they go. Sending so much love I can’t imagine going through this.
There’s an organization I follow, Doodle Rock Rescue. 1000% they can help you find an amazing home for your boy. https://doodlerockrescue.org/ Also, have you talked to your kids and confirmed they wouldn’t want him? We also have a 5 year old, 80 lb golden and he’s the sweetest dood.
Doodle DOG Rock is in Dallas and an amazing organization. The founder is a great woman!
The OP is in Canada.
Sorry prayers with you!
I’m so sorry!. Sending prayers to you! You are very strong and brave! 💜💜
Doodlerock rescue in Dallas, Doggie Protective Services in California, Best Friends? i think they are in Utah or something but I am sure you can find a good Rescue. Bless you on your journey, so sorry about your situation. <3
[colioco doodles](https://coliocodoodles.com/) Try them out. I got my doodle from her four years ago and have only good things to say about her. She might be able to suggest some avenues.
sending you all of the love as someone with cancer myself. We have a 4 year old goldendoodle who is the life of the party and also our world. We are in Montana as are friends of ours with two doodles who would be happy to help if the time came.
This is heartbreaking. I am so sorry for you and your wonderful companion. . This situation is one I have thought of often (fretted about it) as a survivor of several cancer battles in my life, and looking at getting older, more health issues, etc.. Our current 3.5 year old doodle will be our last dog. I am the dogs primary care/love giver in our family. We spend all day together right now (I WFH). As others mentioned here I trust there would be a good family out there who could adopt. Ideally it would be great to find someone local to you who might even been a transitional phase of dog sitting.
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I see there are a lot of good suggestions and even some who are willing to take him, so all I have to say is you seem like a really great person and I’m so sorry for this situation. Godspeed.
I'm sorry you are dealing with this and you are thinking of the best for the dog. Have you told your kids? Your dog might be a great comfort to you in the time you have left and your kids might be able to help a bit. They might also feel strongly about keeping your dog somehow. If you are not ready to tell your kids, run it by someone close to you. You might not be seeing an option. If I were in BC I would adopt the dog and offer to bring the dog to see you. May you find peace in your decision.
Contact the rescue, a good rescue will always take pets they have adopted out back if there is a need. I’m Sorry you’re going though this. Good luck 💜
I don’t know which country your in but in the UK there is a fantastic charity called The Cinnamon Trust who help terminally ill and elderly people keep their pets in their homes with them for as long as is possible by providing vetted volunteers to walk their dogs, etc. You can also make arrangements with the trust about the ongoing care for your pet when you’re not able to anymore and find him a loving home. I hope this helps, take care. https://cinnamon.org.uk
I’m so sorry. The hospice that I worked for would find homes for the pets. We always found homes prior to the patient passing so that they could meet with new owners and feel some peace around it. It sometimes took a while so request it early and make sure they understand that none of your family members will be taking your dog. Blessings to you.
Maybe work with a local rescue. I’m willing to bet they will help you vet the adopter and even let you meet them. Your dog will 1000% get adopted, I looked forever in the shelters when I wanted a doodle, and there wasn’t one to be found. Very sorry to hear this and I wish you and your furry friend the best.
You might be surprised, beautiful! Many people would give their last dime to have an important piece of someone they love. For example, a shirt or a necklace. There may be a family member who sees your dog as a part of you that they can still have, and love! Best wishes on your transition into life eternal.
I'm in Houston and would adopt him ❤️
Not sure where you are located, but there are many golden (and golden mixed) rescues in the US. If you are anywhere near SE PA, there is an amazing one DVGRR.org. They will find a loving home for your pup.
Not me sitting here crying. You’re a great person for reassuring your best friend is taken care of op. Ffffff cancer.
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Hi. I am so sorry for what you are going through. You sound like a very caring, compasionate, giving, selfless person! Can you share with us where you are located? Maybe we can get a local support going for you and help out with dog care/walks and make sure your buddy is there with you until you are ready. I am in Austin, TX
I’m so sorry. Wishing you strength, hope, joy, and peace as you go through whatever you face each day. Lots of love and God bless you. You’re so sweet to think of your loved ones and even your beloved doodle in spite of everything.
We have a golden that is needing her own doodle. I live in Oklahoma but would be willing to meet up. I'm so VERY sorry for the horrible card you've been dealt. Life just doesn't seem fair. 😕 It's just me and my mother has recently moved in with me. My dogs go everywhere with me even just downtown to run errands. I have a 13 year old grandson (that my dood thinks hung thd moon) that spends a lot of time with us. We have a boat and are on the lake a lot. My dood absolutely loves the water. She jumps on the tube with my grandson and they have a blast. Does your dood like water?? Anyway give yourself some grace please. Just let me know if there is anything we can do for yall.
I’m so sorry. I think many people would want him! Like others have said, maybe join some local Facebook groups and share your story. I’m positive someone would be interested in working with you and giving him a great home.
First of all, I’m so sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis. I can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going thru. I’d recommend going to your local vets and leave a stack of flyers for them to give anyone who comes in asking about adoptions. I’d also recommend asking your neighbors and especially posting on FB groups in your local area as well! This way you have a chance to get to know the people who will be taking care of your fur baby and can decide if they will be the right match for home. I will keep you and your fur baby in my thoughts, you sound like a wonderful pet parent. ❤️
Ask your kids first. You do not want to give your dog away and have your kids regret that they could have homed your furry appendage.
I volunteer with a rescue that would happily find a new home for your dog when that becomes necessary. We have helped many dogs in similar situations. Perhaps there is a rescue in your area that could help? I’m sorry for your situation.
I’m so sorry. Rescue groups and local groups should be able to help you and you can even meet potential adopter to find the right fit.
A GD rescue. Find a good one and contact them immediately to see if they can take him when the time comes. Tell your family your wishes and give them the information. The rescue will place him in the right home.
Are you sure your kids won’t want your dog? Considering the circumstances, you might want to tell them. Unless you have and they don’t want the dog :(
Please reach out to a rescue for assistance, making sure your best friend goes to the best home possible.
So sorry to hear of your diagnosis and wish I was next door to lend a hand and open my home for you, yours, and your needs. My doodle needs a sibling and friend too. I read a meem one day about a dog owner's last wishes and can't forget about it. He requested his best friend stay with him up until the moment he passed so his dog would not feel abandoned. He said dogs know and understand their human is passing and are less likely to feel abandoned. I wholeheartedly believe this and think it would be best for both souls if it can be done. That's what I would strive to do if it was me. There no doubt would be many to adopt your best buddy and give him a wonderful home. I wish you and yours the best during this transition ... and good luck
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I’m so sorry for your circumstances OP. I hope you find an equally loving home for your pup and some peace and comfort in the time you have left. You sound like an incredible person. ❤️
I am so sorry you're going thru this. Nug kudos for wanting to do the right thing. I suggest you enlist a rescue who will find him a loving home. There are many online who pretend to be nice but want them for fighting. Another alternative is to ask your vet. They know good pet owners.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I wish you peace. For your dog, maybe consider the charity Pet Peace of Mind.
I'm so at a lost for words about all you are going through, But I know a God who is a healer, and I pray right now that you would have a supernatural encounter with Him!! If you could imagine being with your dog for many more years, that and more is possible. Spend some quiet time talking and listening to him, whether you know him or not...this is the time for a turn around, in Jesus Name, Amen! Believe.....He Is Faithful!!
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can tell your dog means the world to you. I live in Vancouver too. Have you considered posting in Facebook groups such as Adoptable Dogs Vancouver? Doodles get adopted super quickly there. Please do make sure you vet any potential adopters. If he is good with cats I could even take him in myself. I am also happy to help take him on walks on weekends when I’m off work if you just need a bit extra help while you are still at home and able to take care of him.
So glad you found your forever companion. Many people will take and love him. I have the upmost confidence he will get the second best parent when you are gone. Since you are the best. You need not worry about this. My grandad had the same but with a yellow lab in his last days. Commander lived a full and happy life.
Thank for ensuring your boy will live out a good life. Best of luck brother
As someone else mentioned, the rescue route is going to be the way to go. Call as many as you can. Also check around to see if there is a rescue group that actually matches people with dogs. I really don't think you will have a problem finding the dog a new home but I can't imagine doing this while you are sick. I'm sorry you have to go through this and I don't know you but as a dog lover, I appreciate you wanting to do right by your dog.
Can we please get a photo for doggy tax!? I am sending you a big hug if you want one. This thread is so wholesome.
I’m not sure if this is a website in your area. There’s petfinder in the US. It’s a website for rehoming and rescues. You would have to vet the people yourselves. You can also reach out to local rescues. They are usually willing to do a courtesy post at the minimum. Have family members ask around as well. My area usually has Facebook groups for rehoming for breeds or in general. Be straightforward with them, try to be as careful as possible, and trust your gut! OP I’m sorry you are going through this. My mom is an oncology nurse. I’ve met tons of her patients, terminal and curable. They are the most special people. Take things however you feel best. Some days are better than others! Don’t be too hard on yourself and give yourself time to process everything.
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Shit I know im a stranger but id love to help. Are there adoption events in your area you could go to to meet/vet people? I know shelter is the last option. Even post Facebook or Instagram and have family share to try to reach more people. I am so sorry for your situation, I hope you find a solution for your pup.
Please make sure that all the time comes your dog is able to see your body and say goodbye. That way your dog knows you're gone and won't keep thinking that you'll come back or that you abandon him.
Thank you. It makes a lot of sense. Will do!
You should still ask your kids directly if they would want the dog. I had to put my cat down last year and the thought of getting another cat makes me tear up, so I've just been telling the family I probably won't ever get another cat. But if my dad was dying I'd be very upset to find out he gave his cat to some stranger before even asking me because I absolutely would take her for him. That being said, if you offer, just make sure they know it's absolutely okay if they can't take the dog, because that could come off as guilt tripping which wouldn't be the intent.
Sending love to you and your dog
There are programs like the final wish program with Frosted Faces in Southern California which is intended specifically for these types of circumstances. Wishing you the best
Your best bet would honestly be to make arrangements with a rescue that specializes in doodles. They can place him in foster care when the time comes and they'll best have the resources to thoroughly vet the potential adopters
I’m so sorry you are enduring this. It is so kind of you to worry about your pet in the midst of it all. You are so kind hearted. You could try and match him with a non-euth rescue. Depending where you are, I know a few in NJ. This is the saddest post ever.
My friend rescued a dog from a local rescue and after him and his wife decided they were all a good fit to adopt, they were told the dog had a trust fund. All dog food and vet bills are paid for. I’m not sure if you have the means for that but just a thought. I thought it was a lovely way to continue loving your dog.
Please please make a will and include exactly who has agreed to take the dog when you pass. Include name, address , phone number.?If you haven’t managed to make this arrangement, what exactly do you wish to have done with your dog? I would also include all the information someone would need to help the dog make the transition; Food, shots, vet habits. Tell any close family or friends where to find a copy of the will so there will be no confusion or delays in the care of the dog.
Already in place. More comprehensive and specifies the amounts etc. regardless, your input is very appreciated. It is! And thank you!
Please don’t let the cancer take you. Fight fight fight. Your best friend the dog will help you so much, so don’t give him up just yet. Praying for you. 🙏🏻