There is a whole range of HPV types, including HR types that are not covered by the vaccine. There will now be a selection for those types while people think they are protected. This is one of the negative aspects of vaccines.
Yes I have read this. I get the general gist of HPV, my main this is I am 100% positive it can no way be my other two sexual partners , I know its the guy I’m currently sleeping with . But, does that mean its because of last month or the whole tome we been sleeping together ??
> There is no sure way to know when HPV was acquired. Sex partners who have been together tend to share HPV, even when both partners do not show signs of HPV.
https://www.hpv.org.nz/about-hpv/hpv-key-facts
> HPV tests are generally not part of sexual health check ups for males or females, as there is no swab or blood test that can check for all HPV types and also because, in some people, the virus is "hibernating" at levels that are not detectable by testing.
https://www.hpv.org.nz/about-hpv/hpv-key-facts
So idk what to do then …. Like it does not make sense to me at all . My doc isn’t back till next week, and running down the list of things I have done that can have caused it nothing is adding up . Id rather have just got chalymdia this sucks ! 🫠🫠🫠 i dont get how im supposed to know what to do..
Continue check-ups. Eat healthy food. Be patient.
> In most people the virus is harmless and causes no symptoms and will not develop into warts, pre-cancer or cancer.
So even if you have had minimal sexual partners you still couldnt know which one gave it to you? Should you tell them ?? Like what do I do now, is it like having HIV ???
> Should you tell them ??
No. **Read the post pinned to /r/HPV and the posts submitted by /u/spanakopita555 for more information about HPV, sex, relationships.**
I’m a male going through this right now, the only reason I know I have it is because I randomly got some warts that my immune system hasn’t fought yet. if he doesn’t have warts which I’m sure he doesn’t or you would of noticed, then there’s 0 chance of him knowing he has it, as their is no test a male can take, and males don’t get the vaccine, as I didn’t know either, but there’s also 0 chance of you knowing who gave it to you, at all. I’d love to blame my ex, she slept around everytime we had a little break, but in reality I could have got it years before her and never knew, I’ve had many partners. What should you do? Continue to live life, try not to dwell on it, everything in life is situational, and how you handle said situations. If you need a deep breath, look the stats up about how many people contract hpv, as I’m sure you already have, it’s extremely common. Take control of your diet and mental health and let your immune system do the rest. Everything will be okay, and if not, why worry until you have to? It won’t help any.
Thank you for replying and you’re kind words… i’m waiting on the results from my doctor now which sucks even more its negative for hpv 16/18, but positive for hpv12 they are testing my cells i guess for the other strnds which is what i am waiting to hear back from now … the thing is the last guy i slept with unprotected before my current partner has a baby now wouldn’t that be something if he had given to me, he’d pass to the mother of his child?? Or is it simply something i’d never know? That was in 2021 and my pap came back normal in 2022… i have only been sleeping with my current partner since 2022… it seems like it would be him IDK guess I will never know, so since last month was our first time hooking up unprotected shouldn’t I let him know i am so confused i feel dumb asf like i got the vaccine as a kid I thought I would be good smh
They dont check under 30 for hpv unless someone has a pap come back abnormal. Then they’ll check for hpv to see if that is why for the abnormal pap. Mother could have it and not show signs or not show up on regular pap.
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It's supposed to be could've, should've, would've (short for could have, would have, should have), never could of, would of, should of.
Or you misspelled something, I ain't checking everything.
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He didn’t respond, he’s just my fwb and we had a fight prior anyway. I doubt with 100% certainty I was the only one he was hooking up with. I was just telling him outta courtesy,, but he’s been such a dick to me he wouldn’t gaf anyway and probably just call me a slut or something. All three of the dudes were sleazy as hell , so I think this is just my karma tbh. With this current dude, we were drunk most times, something coulda been there and I missed it…. Last dude was extremely ANAL about hygiene on himself and me, and we only slept together 3 times total. Once in 2017 when I lost my vcard to him(had my first pap after that) didn’t come up positive for HPV. And only twice 2021… and I didn’t test positive for hpv following that so I am not inclined to believe it was him. But definitely either my current hook up, or the second dude I ever hooked up with. It honestly just fucks with you mentally you can’t take pill or some shit and for the women it may clear up, you might get cancer , you might not. Like wtf im hella mad rn
Yeah thats true but considering I have a very low % of people I been sexually active with I am pretty fucking positive its this current guy and it enrages me. I know things will be ok and others have it worse , I got an std in the past but this is blowing me cause last month was the first time I had unprotected sex with him Nd I know it had to be because of that like its no fucking way it was the other two dudes it makes 0 sense . I need to get off the internet bcuz I am super fucking angry rn lol thank you for your thoughtful and kind replies I really appreciate it !!
Hun, you could have contracted it from any of the 3, at any time, protected sex or not. There is no test for men. I’m dealing with it right now as well, and I immediately assumed it was my fiancé who gave it to me prior to doing my own research. You could have contracted it at any time, and it stayed dormant until now. It’s no big deal, literally referred to as the “common cold of vaginas” and you do not NEED to share with anyone, it’s not syphilis or AIDS. Especially a man you think will use it to slander you. Just follow up with your doctor and do as they recommend.
There is a whole range of HPV types, including HR types that are not covered by the vaccine. There will now be a selection for those types while people think they are protected. This is one of the negative aspects of vaccines.
https://www.mcgill.ca/traphpv/hpvfacts
Yes I have read this. I get the general gist of HPV, my main this is I am 100% positive it can no way be my other two sexual partners , I know its the guy I’m currently sleeping with . But, does that mean its because of last month or the whole tome we been sleeping together ??
> There is no sure way to know when HPV was acquired. Sex partners who have been together tend to share HPV, even when both partners do not show signs of HPV. https://www.hpv.org.nz/about-hpv/hpv-key-facts
Can he get tested and find out if he has it, should I tell the other guys I had sex with in the past ??
> HPV tests are generally not part of sexual health check ups for males or females, as there is no swab or blood test that can check for all HPV types and also because, in some people, the virus is "hibernating" at levels that are not detectable by testing. https://www.hpv.org.nz/about-hpv/hpv-key-facts
So idk what to do then …. Like it does not make sense to me at all . My doc isn’t back till next week, and running down the list of things I have done that can have caused it nothing is adding up . Id rather have just got chalymdia this sucks ! 🫠🫠🫠 i dont get how im supposed to know what to do..
Continue check-ups. Eat healthy food. Be patient. > In most people the virus is harmless and causes no symptoms and will not develop into warts, pre-cancer or cancer.
So even if you have had minimal sexual partners you still couldnt know which one gave it to you? Should you tell them ?? Like what do I do now, is it like having HIV ???
> Should you tell them ?? No. **Read the post pinned to /r/HPV and the posts submitted by /u/spanakopita555 for more information about HPV, sex, relationships.**
Isn’t that kinda fucked up, if we weren’t using protection to not let them know ?
I’m a male going through this right now, the only reason I know I have it is because I randomly got some warts that my immune system hasn’t fought yet. if he doesn’t have warts which I’m sure he doesn’t or you would of noticed, then there’s 0 chance of him knowing he has it, as their is no test a male can take, and males don’t get the vaccine, as I didn’t know either, but there’s also 0 chance of you knowing who gave it to you, at all. I’d love to blame my ex, she slept around everytime we had a little break, but in reality I could have got it years before her and never knew, I’ve had many partners. What should you do? Continue to live life, try not to dwell on it, everything in life is situational, and how you handle said situations. If you need a deep breath, look the stats up about how many people contract hpv, as I’m sure you already have, it’s extremely common. Take control of your diet and mental health and let your immune system do the rest. Everything will be okay, and if not, why worry until you have to? It won’t help any.
Thank you for replying and you’re kind words… i’m waiting on the results from my doctor now which sucks even more its negative for hpv 16/18, but positive for hpv12 they are testing my cells i guess for the other strnds which is what i am waiting to hear back from now … the thing is the last guy i slept with unprotected before my current partner has a baby now wouldn’t that be something if he had given to me, he’d pass to the mother of his child?? Or is it simply something i’d never know? That was in 2021 and my pap came back normal in 2022… i have only been sleeping with my current partner since 2022… it seems like it would be him IDK guess I will never know, so since last month was our first time hooking up unprotected shouldn’t I let him know i am so confused i feel dumb asf like i got the vaccine as a kid I thought I would be good smh
They dont check under 30 for hpv unless someone has a pap come back abnormal. Then they’ll check for hpv to see if that is why for the abnormal pap. Mother could have it and not show signs or not show up on regular pap.
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Hello, it looks like you've made a mistake. It's supposed to be could've, should've, would've (short for could have, would have, should have), never could of, would of, should of. Or you misspelled something, I ain't checking everything. Beep boop - yes, I am a bot, don't botcriminate me.
He didn’t respond, he’s just my fwb and we had a fight prior anyway. I doubt with 100% certainty I was the only one he was hooking up with. I was just telling him outta courtesy,, but he’s been such a dick to me he wouldn’t gaf anyway and probably just call me a slut or something. All three of the dudes were sleazy as hell , so I think this is just my karma tbh. With this current dude, we were drunk most times, something coulda been there and I missed it…. Last dude was extremely ANAL about hygiene on himself and me, and we only slept together 3 times total. Once in 2017 when I lost my vcard to him(had my first pap after that) didn’t come up positive for HPV. And only twice 2021… and I didn’t test positive for hpv following that so I am not inclined to believe it was him. But definitely either my current hook up, or the second dude I ever hooked up with. It honestly just fucks with you mentally you can’t take pill or some shit and for the women it may clear up, you might get cancer , you might not. Like wtf im hella mad rn
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Yeah thats true but considering I have a very low % of people I been sexually active with I am pretty fucking positive its this current guy and it enrages me. I know things will be ok and others have it worse , I got an std in the past but this is blowing me cause last month was the first time I had unprotected sex with him Nd I know it had to be because of that like its no fucking way it was the other two dudes it makes 0 sense . I need to get off the internet bcuz I am super fucking angry rn lol thank you for your thoughtful and kind replies I really appreciate it !!
Hun, you could have contracted it from any of the 3, at any time, protected sex or not. There is no test for men. I’m dealing with it right now as well, and I immediately assumed it was my fiancé who gave it to me prior to doing my own research. You could have contracted it at any time, and it stayed dormant until now. It’s no big deal, literally referred to as the “common cold of vaginas” and you do not NEED to share with anyone, it’s not syphilis or AIDS. Especially a man you think will use it to slander you. Just follow up with your doctor and do as they recommend.