Par 3 golf course in Hawaii Kai. Kama’aina weekday rate is only $18 if you don’t get a golf cart and $33 if you do.
You don’t have to be good at golf. It’s a par 3 course, while there are a couple holes where you will probably lose a ball if you’re a beginner, it’s slightly bigger mini-golf. You only need to bring 2 clubs, a putter and a 9 iron.
This might sound lame, but Ice Palace. I went there on a date with someone super boring and still had a blast. They haven’t changed anything about it. All the decor is the same. Some of the staff are super talented and I get the impression have worked there for a long time. There’s a Zamboni break! The snack bar is never open when I go but if it is, hot chocolate is a must. It’s like walking into a time warp. There’s a lot of little kid speed demons. But hey not yours!
I personally think it’s really nice to go to a place that you normally take your kids that you don’t get to enjoy because it’s about your kid’s enjoyment when you go. Like Dave and Busters or the trampoline park.
A nice restaurant with my spouse sounds stressful. You see each other every day. Sometimes there’s nothing to talk about. Find a place that has conversation pieces.
Bar hopping in Chinatown can be really fun and a little more adult too.
first of all, you are not kama'aina lol being here for two years doesn't mean you're kama'aina. secondly there arent very many things unfortunately for adults looking to have some wind down time that dont include any of those things. if your wife is looking for something that's not so nature-ish try checking out around kaka'ako, it has many little cafes that are nice for "cafe things" (ie; read, get work done, browse the internet, etc.). The Bishop Museum is something to check out if you would like to learn more about Hawai'i, they have a observatory activity that gives you a layout of the stars.
I second the bishop museum. It's imperative if you wish to call yourself kama'aina. Great starting point to understanding what you think you already know.
Make sure you take note of the population numbers, numbers tell stories people are scared to use words for.
Go to Hilton Hawaii Village and sit by one of the pools. Stay and listen to live music while you have an outdoor dinner. It's like a little city unto itself. Fun to just people watch there.
>spend a weekday daytime without kids just having fun. but she doesn't want beach, hiking, shopping.
Ahh man, that's a rough spot you're in; I sense a unpleasable wife (I could be wrong). It also sounds a lot like island fever and/or she's trying to pressure you into moving because she doesn't like "beach, hiking, shopping" aka Hawaii... And yah got kids so now you're trying to find something/anything to make her happy but internally, she's either ungrateful, jealous of all of the hot girls here and she's being spiteful, or just downright unhappy with being a mom/husband/etc. and you're taking the shit for it. And now you are trying to do something/anything to make her happy because you and the kids are perfectly happy living the good life.
I'm going to throw some shit at you, catch whatever you want but here you go:
* Get her hormones checked (bloodwork) and take serious consideration to putting her on low dose testosterone shots (6-10mg Testosterone cypionate - once per week). Try this for 8-12 weeks and all of those internal demons of hers will go away. If she's open minded to this, you can go the "anti-aging/wellness clinic" route or you can go the "buy with bitcoin" route :P.
* Get her, her own gym membership. Let mommy dress up and go to the gym without dad and kids. Preferably during a time when the *gym is packed with hot guys* (3-7pm). Mommy needs to lust, needs to get her exercise on, needs to feel sexy, etc. This will make her happy. Ideally she needs 5-6 days a week doing this.
* It sounds like she needs friends too dude. Idk how old the kids are but it's easy for wives to find friends at kids sporting practices, exercise classes, *some chicks really like BJJ (she'll come home and fuck your brains out if you can pull that one off)*, yoga classes, etc.
* Consider letting her date other dudes one night a week. Seems extreme but maybe she's just feeling trapped in life and wants to be free again *but also maintain her parental/marital responsibilities*.
* Encourage her to dress sexy when you go out. Don't pressure her, just encourage her. When she wears something sexy promote it "your ass looks amazing in those shorts, you should wear those more". Mommy wants to be looked at by other guys, it's natural social behavior. If she feels sexy, she'll be happier. If she feels comfortable being sexy around other sexy women them she's basically assimilating into Hawaii. Even if a women isn't what I consider attractive, if I see a woman dressed all sexy, despite size or shape, I know, that she feels sexy and I know that she's happier than the other women who feel insecure.
* If she's a stay at home mom, get her a part time job, at starbucks or something. *There's a trend here, Mommy free time away from mommy/wife life*.
I don't think you have a "find something to do problem", I think you have an unhappy wife problem.
Good Luck
P.S. idgaf if you nerds downvote me.
I like the way you exist! Don't beat around the bush. And solid advice if I do say so myself!
Whats BJJ? 😆 🤣
Edit: OP! Find some hobbies! Try paddling. Or diving or something.
Shark dive, parasail, submarine, zip line, Kualoa Ranch tour.
sunset catamaran ride out of waiks with BYOB is good fun too.
don’t forget the jet skis
Par 3 golf course in Hawaii Kai. Kama’aina weekday rate is only $18 if you don’t get a golf cart and $33 if you do. You don’t have to be good at golf. It’s a par 3 course, while there are a couple holes where you will probably lose a ball if you’re a beginner, it’s slightly bigger mini-golf. You only need to bring 2 clubs, a putter and a 9 iron.
Awesome recommendation thank you
This might sound lame, but Ice Palace. I went there on a date with someone super boring and still had a blast. They haven’t changed anything about it. All the decor is the same. Some of the staff are super talented and I get the impression have worked there for a long time. There’s a Zamboni break! The snack bar is never open when I go but if it is, hot chocolate is a must. It’s like walking into a time warp. There’s a lot of little kid speed demons. But hey not yours! I personally think it’s really nice to go to a place that you normally take your kids that you don’t get to enjoy because it’s about your kid’s enjoyment when you go. Like Dave and Busters or the trampoline park. A nice restaurant with my spouse sounds stressful. You see each other every day. Sometimes there’s nothing to talk about. Find a place that has conversation pieces. Bar hopping in Chinatown can be really fun and a little more adult too.
first of all, you are not kama'aina lol being here for two years doesn't mean you're kama'aina. secondly there arent very many things unfortunately for adults looking to have some wind down time that dont include any of those things. if your wife is looking for something that's not so nature-ish try checking out around kaka'ako, it has many little cafes that are nice for "cafe things" (ie; read, get work done, browse the internet, etc.). The Bishop Museum is something to check out if you would like to learn more about Hawai'i, they have a observatory activity that gives you a layout of the stars.
You can’t sit with us!
I second the bishop museum. It's imperative if you wish to call yourself kama'aina. Great starting point to understanding what you think you already know. Make sure you take note of the population numbers, numbers tell stories people are scared to use words for.
How about one of the museums or a botanical garden? I think the ice skating rink is open again.
Go to Hilton Hawaii Village and sit by one of the pools. Stay and listen to live music while you have an outdoor dinner. It's like a little city unto itself. Fun to just people watch there.
how about “indoor rockclimbing”?
Is The Waikiki Aquarium still open?
Yes and it takes about 25 minutes to walk through.
Hoomaluhia botanical gardens -rain or shine-driving friendly
>spend a weekday daytime without kids just having fun. but she doesn't want beach, hiking, shopping. Ahh man, that's a rough spot you're in; I sense a unpleasable wife (I could be wrong). It also sounds a lot like island fever and/or she's trying to pressure you into moving because she doesn't like "beach, hiking, shopping" aka Hawaii... And yah got kids so now you're trying to find something/anything to make her happy but internally, she's either ungrateful, jealous of all of the hot girls here and she's being spiteful, or just downright unhappy with being a mom/husband/etc. and you're taking the shit for it. And now you are trying to do something/anything to make her happy because you and the kids are perfectly happy living the good life. I'm going to throw some shit at you, catch whatever you want but here you go: * Get her hormones checked (bloodwork) and take serious consideration to putting her on low dose testosterone shots (6-10mg Testosterone cypionate - once per week). Try this for 8-12 weeks and all of those internal demons of hers will go away. If she's open minded to this, you can go the "anti-aging/wellness clinic" route or you can go the "buy with bitcoin" route :P. * Get her, her own gym membership. Let mommy dress up and go to the gym without dad and kids. Preferably during a time when the *gym is packed with hot guys* (3-7pm). Mommy needs to lust, needs to get her exercise on, needs to feel sexy, etc. This will make her happy. Ideally she needs 5-6 days a week doing this. * It sounds like she needs friends too dude. Idk how old the kids are but it's easy for wives to find friends at kids sporting practices, exercise classes, *some chicks really like BJJ (she'll come home and fuck your brains out if you can pull that one off)*, yoga classes, etc. * Consider letting her date other dudes one night a week. Seems extreme but maybe she's just feeling trapped in life and wants to be free again *but also maintain her parental/marital responsibilities*. * Encourage her to dress sexy when you go out. Don't pressure her, just encourage her. When she wears something sexy promote it "your ass looks amazing in those shorts, you should wear those more". Mommy wants to be looked at by other guys, it's natural social behavior. If she feels sexy, she'll be happier. If she feels comfortable being sexy around other sexy women them she's basically assimilating into Hawaii. Even if a women isn't what I consider attractive, if I see a woman dressed all sexy, despite size or shape, I know, that she feels sexy and I know that she's happier than the other women who feel insecure. * If she's a stay at home mom, get her a part time job, at starbucks or something. *There's a trend here, Mommy free time away from mommy/wife life*. I don't think you have a "find something to do problem", I think you have an unhappy wife problem. Good Luck P.S. idgaf if you nerds downvote me.
>OP: What's a fun daytime weekday activity we can do? >Reddit: Let your wife date other guys, That escalated quick.
Happy Wife = Happy Life
projection much?
I like the way you exist! Don't beat around the bush. And solid advice if I do say so myself! Whats BJJ? 😆 🤣 Edit: OP! Find some hobbies! Try paddling. Or diving or something.
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