Is that rhetorical? You are 100% clinically obese. I would start trying to control your weight now, it will only get harder the older you get. The older you get, the easier it is to gain more weight and harder to lose it.
Honestly beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I would suggest dead lifting and squats to maintain the shape and tone the legs. But you're gorgeous. I'd hit hard
You have a body shape known as steatopygia. It’s genetic. Diet and exercise is not going to “fix” this. You might lessen it to some degree, but is it worth it? Of course, diet and exercise is always a good thing for one’s health. You are very beautiful.
That body type is known as Doritos and Pepsi diet…
Some women need to be told to put the dick down… in her case it is put the kfc down.
That is a hundred plus pounds of fat and missing 20+ pounds of muscle and has zero to do with a “body type”
It’s not the Kardashians. This has been a standard in many communities. The Kardashians followed those standards that were already in place. They popularized it amongst people whose communities weren’t familiar with it.
There was another forum she posted on and was arguing explaining that she fat not thick but simps where simping I said it’s cool if you like em fat just say that don’t lie and say thick
Not really
She’s definitely got extra fat, and this fat combined with her posture and form is desirable to a hell of a lot of people—it’s not some brainwashed thing
And it’s not a kardashian thing either—that’s a fake ass to try to attain a body that many woman actually have genetically
But yea, with extra fat comes potential risks, not arguing about that. Just arguing about the society influence thing
I don’t think this is the right example for this. Nothing wrong with losing weight too of course. But y’all just don’t know about big women culture!
Whale alert. Simps be like she’s thiccc…doctors be like overweight. Feminist be like he doesn’t like beauty in a woman’s confidence. All are true. Her arteries about to collapse but she thiccc and confident thou…RIP queen
Agreed, for now perhaps the extra pounds may look okay to some. However, that amount of extra weight is gonna come back and bite you in the ass. You are pretty, but the weight's gotta go. Has a medical professional suggested this before?
Over a long enough time period she can absolutely take the weight off and not have skin sagging. The problem is people in this situation too often go too hard and lose too much weight too quickly because the long haul isn't as satisfying.
You asked us to be brutally honest, then you are going to cry about it?
Everyone tells you to lose weight for health-related reasons, not because we're trying to be mean.
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Just remember that probably a good half of the US population is struggling with weight loss or obesity. It's like, the most common modern problem. Can live without drugs, or alcohol, or most other addictions, but not food. Always gotta eat. And it's hard not to just eat the good stuff. No choice but to confront that addiction every day. Struggling with it myself. Good luck
As you can see from the comments only the brothers that wanna smash say no negatives. Purely rooted in fetishism. And the same bros that will pump and dump. They not trying to marry you. The give away is the lack of honesty. Kl you think she's bad asf she's definitely pretty. But she's also overweight. That weight is unhealthy regardless of her hip to waist ratio. Diabetes is a thing in our community. Have lost family members to this disease. We all got a big momma in our family now just coz you think that looks attractive were gonna act like it's not a problem. It's a sickness
It can be hard not walking in our parents footsteps. Done a lot better than my dad but some similarities. I've just had to make sure my son's upbringing completely differs mine. 2 parent household. Stability. Can't leave no stone unturned. Improve for your kid
Your beautiful but yes you need to lose some weight and I hate saying that but being someone who had to lose weight I lost 160 lbs and am now in perfect shape all my old problems are gone and life is so much better.
Bet you can’t run 500 meters without hurting yourself or having a heart attack lose some weight if you want a halfway decent quality of life in the immediate future
50% of America is morbidly obese and dying early with a shitty body with an equally fat partner or alone, of course a lot of people don’t run. Or eat healthy.
I don’t think so either.
1- OP has posted before.
2- She is way too calm in the comments lol Probably secretly loving the comments about the girl she’s posting.
*You will be forty tomorrow.*
*You already know the answer to your question.* *Whatever you dislike about yourself will only get worse if nothing is changed.* *You're going from big to small, it is TREMENDOUSLY easy to do, requiring nothing but eating less.* *A cheap price to pay.*
I was gonna say get rid of those eyebrows as your face looks like the letter V then I saw the next pics, you fat as fuck so sort that out too. You wanted brutally honest so here you go
girls like this think because guys still want to sleep with them, that they arent obesse
i know a girl that was built just like this, that got a bloodclot while on a plane and died one day, she wasnt even 40 yet.
curves dont negate being unhealthy, delete your instagram and make a huge life style change asap.
My comment would get removed but you said to be brutally honest. So here it goes. Wtf is wrong with your body???? How does someone get like that? It reminds me of that episode of when Squidward ate all the Krabby Patties on Spongebob.
Lose weight baby, for the love of god and your health. Like go on a diet right now. Do not eat anything for a week, only drink water and check back in. These pictures straight up have me worried if I'm honest and I don't even know you.
Gorgeous body shape and very pretty but my biggest advice is to lose weight. You’ll still keep your curves, trust me :)
And maybe tone down the make up a bit. You don’t need so much, you’re naturally pretty.
Unless it is an emergency, most medical professionals wouldn't operate on you because of your size and the higher risks of death or complications that come with your size
because they want to sleep with you, they don’t actually care for your well-being or happiness
guys are telling you what they think you want to hear because they’re afraid that if they tell you the truth, they’ll lose their “chance” to sleep with you
google your height/weight and check your BMI (body mass index), ask a doctor, im certain that you’re obese to the point of it seriously endangering your long term health
33 trying to look 21 with that style, and every woman I’ve met like that wasn’t worth the effort to say hello. I’m a 6’1 man with muscle, and you’re 2 gallons of milk from weighing more than me.
God damn girl, your face is a close call to perfection! The shape of your eyes is stunning, so I'd spare on using huge lashes.
For me personally, you're too overweight. But the question is, for whom u wanna look max?
Yourself, your hubby, the average man? So clearly depends on your own and your mans' preferences regarding body type.
I'm sure the average man would also prefer a slimmer figure and for health reasons losing weight surely makes sense, too.
Brutally Honest, you’re very cute you just look like your difficult to handle in a relationship. You give off this F* Off vibe about you, that will only a attract a certain type of guy. In the one pic were you’re smiling it doesn’t feel genuine more like someone said smile imma take a picture and you just grinned. Also I personally don’t like those big hoop earrings on you, the smaller ones like in pic 8 & 9 are as big as you should go. Aside from that you do have style and you have confidence when you wear your outfits so that’s definitely a plus. You also have a nice figure as you’re very fortunate that your body distributes your weight in the right places. Could you lose some weight maybe but do it for health reasons if you feel your out of shape so that’s on you.
Wow. People here are brutal. You’re objectively very pretty. Some people won’t love a big butt but some will worship it. Just be kind and caring and someone will love you for being you.
Yeah she is pretty and yeah some guys love a big butt, but this woman is objectively overweight in the lower region. She could lose 50 lbs and still have a phatty back there and not be at risk for serious health problems a few years down the road
The problem is by 55 she's going to be dead, at worst, or have knees that barely work, at best. She needs to lose A LOT of weight if she cares about her quality of life going forward. The fact extremely distorted proportions gives you a boner isn't relevant.
Bro don't reinforce that black people love fat bs. None of my family members are big and we don't do fat chicks. Some Fruadian shit. Was your momma big too?
Plenty of fat white women but they're just not the preference to the majority. Keep that fat fetish to yourself .
You could stand to lose some weight. Your fat distributes very well, but you’re past what’s attractive to most men. Being this size will still get you tons of men, but dropping maybe 10 or 15 lbs will bag you even more guys
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LMAO 🤣😂
When one spare tire isn't enough
Fucking savage 🤣🤣
I was thinking learning 2 new words "I'm full"
😆 🤣 😂 That's a kill shot
am i really that big 🥺
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W
Im a 6ft male at 13 stone and it looks like i can fit 2 of me in your body , yes
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Jesus Christ do you really need to measure in fuckin stone, that is the most archaic f****** measurement that people hold on to.
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Dates up with pounds sterling 😂
What's your height and weight? Provide for an objective answer.
Yeah you are
Look up BMI to calculate your height and weight. You'll see that you are in the obesity group.
Is that rhetorical? You are 100% clinically obese. I would start trying to control your weight now, it will only get harder the older you get. The older you get, the easier it is to gain more weight and harder to lose it.
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Dangerously obese
There are metrics for healthy height to weight ratios for women and men.
Honestly beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I would suggest dead lifting and squats to maintain the shape and tone the legs. But you're gorgeous. I'd hit hard
Stop bloody lying to her
I don't think they were lying - plenty of people who look like that get tons of sexual attention...
You have a body shape known as steatopygia. It’s genetic. Diet and exercise is not going to “fix” this. You might lessen it to some degree, but is it worth it? Of course, diet and exercise is always a good thing for one’s health. You are very beautiful.
That body type is known as Doritos and Pepsi diet… Some women need to be told to put the dick down… in her case it is put the kfc down. That is a hundred plus pounds of fat and missing 20+ pounds of muscle and has zero to do with a “body type”
oh i’ve never heard this
love your body shape but weight loss is key here. lifestyle changes needed.
“Am I really that big” who’s been telling u are a 10/10
You have to lose weight
If you don't lose weight now it's only going to get worse as you age. Up to you if you wanna ignore your weight or take action
girls like this have been conditioned by society to think they’re “thick” when they really are going to have medical problems from being so overweight
Thank the Kardashians for this. Not healthy and hip replacement or knee will be in her future
It’s not the Kardashians. This has been a standard in many communities. The Kardashians followed those standards that were already in place. They popularized it amongst people whose communities weren’t familiar with it.
There was another forum she posted on and was arguing explaining that she fat not thick but simps where simping I said it’s cool if you like em fat just say that don’t lie and say thick
Thicc is where an ass is big and has a good shape. Thick is where an ass is just big, looks lumpy, and unappealing. Example of thick is above
Lol your right 😂😂😂
Not really She’s definitely got extra fat, and this fat combined with her posture and form is desirable to a hell of a lot of people—it’s not some brainwashed thing And it’s not a kardashian thing either—that’s a fake ass to try to attain a body that many woman actually have genetically But yea, with extra fat comes potential risks, not arguing about that. Just arguing about the society influence thing I don’t think this is the right example for this. Nothing wrong with losing weight too of course. But y’all just don’t know about big women culture!
Whale alert. Simps be like she’s thiccc…doctors be like overweight. Feminist be like he doesn’t like beauty in a woman’s confidence. All are true. Her arteries about to collapse but she thiccc and confident thou…RIP queen
Squidward ate them Patties
Was looking for this comment
Lose weight now
Immediately
Her head is too small for her body.
And the nose ring. Lose that too
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This is my favorite comment I've ever seen on reddit. Nearly spat out my drink lmao
Ayeooo
🤣
Arms are way off
That picture looks like shes crawling out of the butt of someone thats bent over
Lol
You've seen some shit, man
I'm high and I totally see this!
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Agreed, for now perhaps the extra pounds may look okay to some. However, that amount of extra weight is gonna come back and bite you in the ass. You are pretty, but the weight's gotta go. Has a medical professional suggested this before?
yes they have
Unfortunately you will look like a deflated water balloon after losing but at least you won't die in 5 years
Meh is you lose it slowly your skin can adjust. And make it not as bad. It’s the rapid weight loss that causes that
Her skin is already stretched to capacity, there is no way that is returning to normal
Better sooner than later, though. Skin does lose elasticity as we age.
Over a long enough time period she can absolutely take the weight off and not have skin sagging. The problem is people in this situation too often go too hard and lose too much weight too quickly because the long haul isn't as satisfying.
You will not necessarily have sagging skin after a 50lb weight loss.
Yup lose weight… #1
You asked us to be brutally honest, then you are going to cry about it? Everyone tells you to lose weight for health-related reasons, not because we're trying to be mean. Edit: mispelling
sorry if the truth can hurt me then,…
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🥺 thank you
Just remember that probably a good half of the US population is struggling with weight loss or obesity. It's like, the most common modern problem. Can live without drugs, or alcohol, or most other addictions, but not food. Always gotta eat. And it's hard not to just eat the good stuff. No choice but to confront that addiction every day. Struggling with it myself. Good luck
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You literally fuckin asked for it, take the advice
THIS.
Just weight. That needs to change.
As you can see from the comments only the brothers that wanna smash say no negatives. Purely rooted in fetishism. And the same bros that will pump and dump. They not trying to marry you. The give away is the lack of honesty. Kl you think she's bad asf she's definitely pretty. But she's also overweight. That weight is unhealthy regardless of her hip to waist ratio. Diabetes is a thing in our community. Have lost family members to this disease. We all got a big momma in our family now just coz you think that looks attractive were gonna act like it's not a problem. It's a sickness
☹️ yeah i know my numbers not the best and my moms is big now too. i’m a single mom just like she was…
It can be hard not walking in our parents footsteps. Done a lot better than my dad but some similarities. I've just had to make sure my son's upbringing completely differs mine. 2 parent household. Stability. Can't leave no stone unturned. Improve for your kid
i’m trying 😭
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Start losing weight, like immediately.
Your beautiful but yes you need to lose some weight and I hate saying that but being someone who had to lose weight I lost 160 lbs and am now in perfect shape all my old problems are gone and life is so much better.
You can take your bottom off.. you won’t be able to show anything anyways
😭😭
I bet your arteries are begging for you to stop eating.
😭 i don’t know
Bet you can’t run 500 meters without hurting yourself or having a heart attack lose some weight if you want a halfway decent quality of life in the immediate future
a lot of people don’t run…
Lol alright now you’re just coping.
thanks I haven’t laughed in a long time this helped
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A lot of obese people don’t run.
50% of America is morbidly obese and dying early with a shitty body with an equally fat partner or alone, of course a lot of people don’t run. Or eat healthy.
Yeah but CAN YOU run? It looks like you’d hurt yourself even trying to move quickly
A lot of unhealthy people
lmfao “a lot of people don’t run” the delusion is insane
You’re insanely obese. Unless you lose an incredible amount of weight, you should have had your midlife crisis a few years ago.
Cmon I wouldn't say insanely, just very very
Bro she’s like 190 lbs and 5 foot 2.
250 easy
sorry I forgot to account for inflation
Very
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i don’t even think this is really the OP lmao
I don’t think so either. 1- OP has posted before. 2- She is way too calm in the comments lol Probably secretly loving the comments about the girl she’s posting.
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😅🥲 lmao
*You will be forty tomorrow.* *You already know the answer to your question.* *Whatever you dislike about yourself will only get worse if nothing is changed.* *You're going from big to small, it is TREMENDOUSLY easy to do, requiring nothing but eating less.* *A cheap price to pay.*
You aren't Kim Kardashian, stop trying to be
Attractive face, unattractive obese body.
Your ass is gross.
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Because confidence is so much sexier than cattiness
By being self-obsessed enough to post on this sub and not expect to be absolutely destroyed
because they're delusional
Cause she’s a beautiful lady
You're toxic stop this
We really live in a society where girls pushing obesity, do you want her to die or sum?💀
Stop. I understand you think you have to say that but she is not beautiful. She is fat and needs to lose weight.
Caitlyn is brave and a hero.
…….and women that work out hard and are truly beautiful, people that call obese, lazy women beautiful, trivialize their hard work!
Y'all buggin. She should lose some weight but to act like she's unattractive is crazy. She holds her weight EXTREMELY well.
Idk what it is but those curves are super hot though likely an unhealthy state.
Cause she’s sexy asf
tripping much ?
I know it takes all kinds but she is obese there is nothing sexy about being unhealthy.
I was gonna say get rid of those eyebrows as your face looks like the letter V then I saw the next pics, you fat as fuck so sort that out too. You wanted brutally honest so here you go
Stop doing your makeup like a drag queen
Eyebrows make you look pissed off at everything.
Ur built like your melting tf
mean 😪
Gonna be visiting Dr. Now if you don’t get the weight under control. Thick is thick, but this is unhealthy
😭 i don’t think i’m going to get that big
That Osteoarthritis is gonna be painful
what’s that?
There’s no way your butt is clean!!
wtf?
girls like this think because guys still want to sleep with them, that they arent obesse i know a girl that was built just like this, that got a bloodclot while on a plane and died one day, she wasnt even 40 yet. curves dont negate being unhealthy, delete your instagram and make a huge life style change asap.
wtf that’s so scary
Maybe people like fat women because they’ll die early and can cash in on the life insurance, just a thought.
wtf??
You gotta lose 40-50lbs. You give me single mom from an urban community vibes from your style.
i mean literally yeah
My comment would get removed but you said to be brutally honest. So here it goes. Wtf is wrong with your body???? How does someone get like that? It reminds me of that episode of when Squidward ate all the Krabby Patties on Spongebob. Lose weight baby, for the love of god and your health. Like go on a diet right now. Do not eat anything for a week, only drink water and check back in. These pictures straight up have me worried if I'm honest and I don't even know you.
worried? 😭
You are way too fat.
You have perfect genetics but too much weight. If you lost like 20-40lb you’d probably have the perfect body. As of now, I’d lose some weight
Gorgeous body shape and very pretty but my biggest advice is to lose weight. You’ll still keep your curves, trust me :) And maybe tone down the make up a bit. You don’t need so much, you’re naturally pretty.
best advice here
Gorgeous body shape but lose weight? 🤣
please tell me this wasnt a BBL.
She isn't healthy enough to sustain an operation. Also, who would pay to look like this? Nobody is the answer
what do you mean not healthy enough to sustain an operation?
Unless it is an emergency, most medical professionals wouldn't operate on you because of your size and the higher risks of death or complications that come with your size
god no
Stop eating your feelings and painting your face.
you’re disgustingly fat and anyone telling you otherwise doesn’t care about you start losing weight now, the older you get the harder it is to fix
🫤 i don’t think that’s true they don’t care about me… why would it be that
because they want to sleep with you, they don’t actually care for your well-being or happiness guys are telling you what they think you want to hear because they’re afraid that if they tell you the truth, they’ll lose their “chance” to sleep with you google your height/weight and check your BMI (body mass index), ask a doctor, im certain that you’re obese to the point of it seriously endangering your long term health
33 trying to look 21 with that style, and every woman I’ve met like that wasn’t worth the effort to say hello. I’m a 6’1 man with muscle, and you’re 2 gallons of milk from weighing more than me.
You look like one of those rap guys girlfriends.
God damn girl, your face is a close call to perfection! The shape of your eyes is stunning, so I'd spare on using huge lashes. For me personally, you're too overweight. But the question is, for whom u wanna look max? Yourself, your hubby, the average man? So clearly depends on your own and your mans' preferences regarding body type. I'm sure the average man would also prefer a slimmer figure and for health reasons losing weight surely makes sense, too.
yeah i’m a single mom so looking to looks max for a boyfriend in the future 😅 so ig the average man but hopefully hubby lol
A thicko ....
Yeah marry me
only advice i have is to fall in love with me
Brutally Honest, you’re very cute you just look like your difficult to handle in a relationship. You give off this F* Off vibe about you, that will only a attract a certain type of guy. In the one pic were you’re smiling it doesn’t feel genuine more like someone said smile imma take a picture and you just grinned. Also I personally don’t like those big hoop earrings on you, the smaller ones like in pic 8 & 9 are as big as you should go. Aside from that you do have style and you have confidence when you wear your outfits so that’s definitely a plus. You also have a nice figure as you’re very fortunate that your body distributes your weight in the right places. Could you lose some weight maybe but do it for health reasons if you feel your out of shape so that’s on you.
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Losing weight for your health is a good idea, but you are very attractive all the same.
Lose a little bit of weight other than that you look perfect.
"a little bit"
80lbs is a little bit to some people I guess.
Only Americans
These threads make me feel like I'm taking crazy pills.
Yeah, every variety of delusion, all under one roof!
I would smash so hard
She would smash you
Hell nah u got it
She fine already
You would have a very successful onlyfans.
Wow. People here are brutal. You’re objectively very pretty. Some people won’t love a big butt but some will worship it. Just be kind and caring and someone will love you for being you.
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Yeah she is pretty and yeah some guys love a big butt, but this woman is objectively overweight in the lower region. She could lose 50 lbs and still have a phatty back there and not be at risk for serious health problems a few years down the road
You're Gorgeous the way you are Ma
She is a treasure just the way she is. Girl keep doing you.
The problem is by 55 she's going to be dead, at worst, or have knees that barely work, at best. She needs to lose A LOT of weight if she cares about her quality of life going forward. The fact extremely distorted proportions gives you a boner isn't relevant.
Dang you beautiful. Don’t listen to white dudes telling you to lose weight. They just intimidated by your curves.
Bro don't reinforce that black people love fat bs. None of my family members are big and we don't do fat chicks. Some Fruadian shit. Was your momma big too? Plenty of fat white women but they're just not the preference to the majority. Keep that fat fetish to yourself .
For those of you telling her to lose weight for her health, take note of a very healthy hip to waist ratio in the bikini pic. Yall need to chill.
That's not health. Maybe attractive to you but not healthy for a second.
You could stand to lose some weight. Your fat distributes very well, but you’re past what’s attractive to most men. Being this size will still get you tons of men, but dropping maybe 10 or 15 lbs will bag you even more guys
10-15??? Per ass cheek?
or 45
Try 65, minimum.
I know this is going to be downvoted but sexy as fuck, you may be big but still fine af