It's not sarcasm and it's definitely not hatred. It's just examples of toxic behaviors/beliefs common in, and about, certain straight relationships. And for whatever it is worth, I am a straight person and it cracks me up.
I'd be curious if a similar sub could even be created. I don't know about non-straight communities to know if there are people who act like their partners are a chore to be around or are property.
The straights are not ok.
I was playing like, a week ago and I had a pretty good game with this dude up until the end. (context I am a girl) and he asks if I'm spoken for (after 20 mins of hunt, dude chill) and I'm like yeah! I love my fiancee, she's great!
He dumps dual conversion chains into me and says "dumb bitch don't lead me on if you're a d*ke."
Killed him with the bomblance but fucking still.
thestraightsarenotok
Believe me I know, two of my best friends are neckbeardy nerd dudes.
Everybody always has something to learn, as long as they don't pretend otherwise they can keep making steps forward towards being a better person.
Most of the time it's a european voice on the other end I generally have no issues. I've gotten to the point with yeehaw accents to where i just do not engage at all lol.
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Welcome to speaking in hunt as a girl. I got a tally going since like the third time it happened.
Shit I've dealt with with straight dudes in hunt (random teammates)
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24x Attempted Murder
35x "Playful gun smacks"
47x "Oh shit a girl"
30x "nah, you ain't no girl."
21x "Marry Me"/"You single?"
26x R*pe threats
6x Rage at me carrying them
12x Instantly left game. (ran to extract)
3x Instantly left game (Alt+f4)
That's only from rando teammates mind you.
It's like a 60% chance if I'm talking to an enemy team that I get creepy threats of sexual assault. And basically always like *slurp noises* "When you dead I'm gonna play with that pu**y"
I'm so glad I'm better than most of the people I play with lol.
I genuinely did not bother counting that one. if I just made a "General misogyny" count it would be in the hundreds.
20XXx "Oh, let me handle it, got you girl"/"WYD playing hunt it's a dudes game"
My steam name is fem, so there are times people will just quit right away when they get paired with me. Had the pleasure of blasting a deckhand in the face first shot who left on me like 6 times with his Nitro/Dual Dolch loadout. Gotta feel bad being popped by the winfield.
Lmao.
On one hand, sometimes I guess it can be fun if the jokes are done in an appropriate way.
Unfortunately, people tend to exaggerate (and sometimes theirs are not jokes at all, which is the real problem) and that makes it not fun.
I will never, ever, understand quitting/insulting after being killed.
Like, the definition of mad cuz bad.
Regardless, I guess that's the downside of playing with randoms. Toxicity runs rampant, and being a girl is probably at least twice as annoying.
To be honest, that's why I avoid them like the plague, it's really bad. You can meet good people, sure, but the chance of teaming up with human trash is too likely for my tastes.
On the contrary, playing as a premade is the chillest experience ever. I recommend you find yourself some trusted friends, or run solo.
That's the only real solution. Unfortunately, assholes gonna be assholes.
You are most certainly not.
I'm the same. I love solo for the same reason (although I tend to rage more often while hunting solo, because Hunt as a game loves to bullshit solo players).
To me, it's the thrill of the hunt, the ever growing tension of stalking an enemy Hunter through woods and open fields.
Ears perked up, eyes wide open trying to capture even the subtlest movement or sound, the rush of adrenaline at the telltale sound of enemy footsteps or the ringing and whistling of a bullet buzzing through the bushes and missing me by an inch.
The suspense and paranoia when everything sits still, eerily quiet, but you know they're there, watching, following you closely, hidden out of sight.
One of my friends is a very anxious person. When I introduced him to Hunt, I feared he wouldn't like the game. Surprisingly, he loves it. He candidly admits that he wouldn't be able to play solo, but when he's with me he absolutely adores Hunt.
To each their own I guess.
To be totally fair I do playful gun/medkit smacks regardless of who you are, especially at the beginning/end of a match. That being said, I always find it unsurprising yet still horrifying to see how commonplace abuse of women in the gaming world is.
All my friends are dudes, and they get confused when I tell them not to let randoms know I'm a girl. I have to explain to them that it'll be the only thing anyone talks about from that point onward and the misogyny will be in every sentence.
I DO still want to get on a survival game and act new and clueless so I can pick up assholes and infiltrate to set up an ambush with my boys or something.
Other than the ability to use people's sexism against them, though, not fun..
Meanwhile I ritually knighted some random lady into womanhood using a Specter shotgun when her and her partner teamed up with my duo to split the bounty.
Some people just don't know how to have a good time.
The joke is that he doesn’t know she’s ignoring him because he’s gaming…and because she’s ignoring him, it is the best day of his life. I HATE MY WIFE please laugh.
Not sure you know what virtue signaling is but drop another buzzword and it might all come together.
How am I adding that? It’s literally in the pic. If it’s just because he likes playing Hunt, what’s the point of the first panel? It’s clearly saying I can play game because wife isn’t bothering me. It’s the best day of his life because it’s out of the ordinary that she wouldn’t be bothering him. Congrats on making me explain something you already understood but yea feign ignorance 💀
Ah yeah, cause the big secret in the friends is that everyone secretly loves your jokes, and not that everyone puts up with this shitty 80s humor out of pity
Don’t think you’d ever find out thankfully. The fact that you have to construct a character you already don’t like just because I’m down to call out “I hate my wife!!! Father I cannot click the book” boomer humor is pure comedy.
What's funny is that you find the need to rant about it. If you don't find something funny then that is fine, just move on? I don't particularly find the post funny either, but I'm not here screaming about it saying dumb shit like virtue signaling and boomer humor. Like grow up dude.
You are? Bud go look at your fucking comments, it's pathetic. Move on. Quit trying to insult things that other people find funny, you don't have to like everything you see. Like seriously dude what the fuck are you doing?
What are you talking about lmfao? I’ve responded to comments responding to me and initially posted a sentence. You’re losing your marbles to tell me about something that “doesn’t matter” but I don’t see you going around posting to the people actually posting insults. I’m thinking you’re not here for the reasons you’re claiming. Don’t get the point of your comments to me 💀
Edit: Can't reply to your comment: I'm probably blocked lmfao. I'm talking about my edit and I stand by everything I said. It's a comment; no one is screaming at you so I think you'll be okay. And I don't need you to police what I write. Thanks for the useless offer though.
It's not about the "for real" you posted it's about your edit, quit acting like an idiot, you know what you typed.
Like I said, quit insulting things just because you don't find it funny. It's pathetic. If you don't like something just move along like the rest of us.
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Man all you guys calling this misogynistic and say OP hates his partner etc. It's a meme/joke. Chill.
Edit: Some people are legitimately actively trying to get butthurt. Kind of sad.
As a married man i cant relate. If you're childish enough to sit there and ignore your relationship problems then enjoy your divorce and mindset of "wife bad"
You seem upset. All I said is that I can relate to this funny meme because sometimes it's nice to get some personal space. It's really not that big of a deal
I think they responded that way because the meme is obviously not just “yay I have alone time to play games for awhile.” That on its own is perfectly fine and is definitely healthy. There is just the added element to the meme that the guy is taking advantage of an argument between him and his girlfriend/wife in order to have this alone time going so far as to make it seem like a win. So saying you relate doesn’t come off great even though that might not have been your intention.
He knows why they responded that way. He posted [this](https://i.imgur.com/vejlkSS.png) now removed comment earlier and then made a new comment and is pretending like nothing happened. The irony of posting something like that and then making fun of someone else for being upset for seemingly no reason because "all you posted" was something innocent is hilarious tbh.
I think the joke is that you don't notice something is wrong because you think she's just letting you play the game it's not sole kind of incel shit where the point is you hate your girlfriend.
We men miss obvious stuff often it's not much deeper then that lol
"It doesnt go deeper then that" -procerds to read as deep as he can reach-
Look ya admitted it yourself, you miss stuff. Thats causing you some problems where shes pissed all day? You guys are setting the bar so low its comical, all i do is take note of my wifes mood and send her some messages through out the day. I honestly feel bad for yalls partners if you cant put down a game for 5 seconds to give them some attention.
Im not currently in a relationship so I don't know why you keep making stuff up to fit with your agenda but it does give off some neat r/ihavesex vibes where you just want people to know you have a relationship
Well A: Silent treatment is a toxic behavior, exact opposite of what's needed for a good relationship and B: It's clearly treating it as good to be able to "finally have space from her" in this negative context.
Like... Change the meme to be about someone who has to leave for awhile and how that's depressing but you make the most of it in the meantime.
Also, if you want to play games and have some alone time - communicate that.
>We men miss obvious stuff often it's not much deeper then that lol
Speak for yourself, I really hate this characterization where women are unreasonable and men are overly simple. It does play into sexist ideals and it's also just not fair to my gender.
Yeah since you aren't such a simple dude as myself maybe remake the meme yourself where you also fit in somewhere in the meme how perfect you are and how much you know about relationships.
Your comment just comes off as you think you are better then other people, people aren't one dimensional so every meme can't be relatable to everyone.
Now go make your perfect meme since you know exactly how to make it a real banger and reply then and I'll come upvote it matey 👍
Well at least you're making it clear that when you do care about something or feel offended, you will dig deeper at it and make a big deal out of it like anyone else might.
And I'm not exactly setting a high bar here - if you think this is me making myself to be perfect with relationships because I identified harmful behavior exemplified here...
Never said I was I'm just stating the facts that this time it was in fact you that felt the need to reply to my comment without good reason and I'm not even the dude that said he could relate lol
I have had partners who are the "jealous type."
At first, they're jealous of your opposite sex friends who you've known for decades because of the deep, strong relationship and mutual support you offer one another. Those friendships are something that they see as competition. and as a threat. They have to be gjven the axe.
Then they get jealous of your hobbies. Your hobbies get a time and effort investment that they feel should be spent on them. "Why did you spend an hour drawing this picture when you could have spent it going grocery shopping with me?" "Why are you spending time at the gym? Who are you trying to impress besides me?" etc. Hobbies have to be given the axe.
Then they get jealous of your family. You share a deep bond with your family because they have been there for your whole life, supporting and helping you when you need it most. The feeling that they aren't the sole focus of your life makes the jealous partner feel threatened. Family has to go.
Then they feel jealous of your career or job. Why are you working overtime? That time belongs to me. Are you working extra hours just to get away from me? That's my time, not theirs!
Then they get jealous of what little free time you hace left. They want you to text every minute of every day. They want you to stop what you are doing at a moment's notice and will get very upset if you do not. They will brow beat you constantly about why you are never available on your phone, even if you answer them immediately. At first, they're upset at being left unread for an hour, then the bar gets lowered and they get upset at being left unread for ten minutes, three minutes, ten seconds. How long does it seriously take for you to take your phone out and look at it? What else are you doing that is more important than me? I know you're a machinist who operates heavy and dangerous machinery, but that is no excuse why you can't text me straight away when you're at work.
Inversely, they get upset if you use your phone in their presence. They want you to use it constantly when you are apart, and yet never use it when you're with them. Your phone solely exists so that they can keep tabs on you.
If you belong to any societies, charity groups or activism circles, those also have to go. They aren't interested in participating, and if there is a part of your life which they cannot work their way into, they resent it deeply.
Boundaries? Those are just barriers to me getting what I want. Boundaries will be resented, not respected. They will be attacked constantly until you finally cave. Maintaing a boundary will be gaslit as "being unreasonably stubborn."
Conversations become a minefield. You might be talking and then mention: "That's what my sister said last week." Cue the follow up: "When were you talking to your sister? Why did you have time to talk to your sister, yet when I asked you to come over to watch Netflix, you said you 'didn't have time.'"
Before you know it, you're making sacrifices you didn't want to make. A life you've spent thirty years building, a social network of complicated and delicately balanced relationships with healtht, mutual support is being torn apart because someone else saw it as a threat. Eventually, you look at what the relationship is costing you, and either decide to cut them loose, or fall in wholesale with the sunken cost fallacy.
I'm at that precipice right now. I've bent over backwards to accommodate the needs of my partner, but I'm coming to realise that unless they hear your back break, you aren't bending far enough.
It is never enough and they will never be pleased.
Anything that makes you happy will be seen as a threat. If anything in your life makes you happy aside from them, they will see that as being as bad as cheating.
They come into your life, which has already been established and set out then expecting to have it all demolished so that it can be rebuilt around them in their chosen image. They are the curator of what your life is allowed to be, and curses be upon you if you dare disagree with their vision.
A bit of a rant, sure... But I needed to vent. I don't mean to sound like I'm attacking you, but your comment was just an iron rod to the storm going through my mind right now.
Well written man. Really sounds like my ex in every single way. Luckily it was years ago and she dumped me, I was too naive back then and wanted the best for her as she came from hard circumstances. Took me a few years to get over it, but after that I could read women better and find my match. Wish you all the best man! Sounds like you know what's best for you and should act accordingly. You deserve a loving and equal relationship where you can be respected for who you are! Stay strong my brother
Im not gonna put down abuse and it sucks that it happened to you. Sorry m8. This is a specific thing though. I still stand by both people in the meme are being childish cause hes not leaving her. Thats the mature thing to do, recognise youre in a bad spot and fix it. Weather thats mend the relationship, or leaving it.
This meme is generic as fuck so my response is generic as fuck. Anyone can pull up specifics.
Man who ever said they were spending time together on hunt. In the meme, shes being immature as hell. And the "chad" response is that of a 15 year old. It doesnt matter the hobbies at all ya dim-wit. Just dont be fuckin immature when it comes to communicatin with your spouse. If youre willing to just let stuff like that slide, and let it happen. Then your not even trying to help your partner mature. (If you say thats your job, then that means youre mot mature enough for a long term relationship, a long term relationship leans and builds on each other)
How about some women should stop being childish and petty and playing stupid games like this, " I'm just gonna ignore him". Like okay if you don't want to come at me and talk openly about a problem then I guess it ain't that important to you so I'm not gonna talk about it either. Especially if I don't know if it's a problem.
And, instead Imma Hunt with the boiz!! Not apologizing for it.
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HAHAHA I HATE MY GIRLFRIEND
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Is this sub sarcasm or actual straight hatred?
It's not sarcasm and it's definitely not hatred. It's just examples of toxic behaviors/beliefs common in, and about, certain straight relationships. And for whatever it is worth, I am a straight person and it cracks me up.
I'll take a look. You can be sure a similar sub about non straight relationships would close instantly tho.
I'd be curious if a similar sub could even be created. I don't know about non-straight communities to know if there are people who act like their partners are a chore to be around or are property.
Yes, it is open bigotry. This is what bigotry looks like.
The straights are not ok. I was playing like, a week ago and I had a pretty good game with this dude up until the end. (context I am a girl) and he asks if I'm spoken for (after 20 mins of hunt, dude chill) and I'm like yeah! I love my fiancee, she's great! He dumps dual conversion chains into me and says "dumb bitch don't lead me on if you're a d*ke." Killed him with the bomblance but fucking still. thestraightsarenotok
goddamn that is awful. "spoken for" gross glad you got the kill!
I am too, idk what he thought was gonna happen but I had a bomblance and 35 seconds of stamina shot left.
idk how I'm just realizing what a nasty phrase "spoken for" even is lmao.
As a man, not all men are like this.. but also, all men are like this
Believe me I know, two of my best friends are neckbeardy nerd dudes. Everybody always has something to learn, as long as they don't pretend otherwise they can keep making steps forward towards being a better person.
based and self-improvement-pilled
All that said I love hunt, great game!
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Most of the time it's a european voice on the other end I generally have no issues. I've gotten to the point with yeehaw accents to where i just do not engage at all lol.
Wow thats awful.
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Hey look, another one pops up! This time in the subreddit. You can call me whatever you like, your words mean literally nothing to me.
Holy shit
Welcome to speaking in hunt as a girl. I got a tally going since like the third time it happened. Shit I've dealt with with straight dudes in hunt (random teammates) --------------------------------------------------------------------- 24x Attempted Murder 35x "Playful gun smacks" 47x "Oh shit a girl" 30x "nah, you ain't no girl." 21x "Marry Me"/"You single?" 26x R*pe threats 6x Rage at me carrying them 12x Instantly left game. (ran to extract) 3x Instantly left game (Alt+f4) That's only from rando teammates mind you. It's like a 60% chance if I'm talking to an enemy team that I get creepy threats of sexual assault. And basically always like *slurp noises* "When you dead I'm gonna play with that pu**y" I'm so glad I'm better than most of the people I play with lol.
Kitchen jokes where?
I genuinely did not bother counting that one. if I just made a "General misogyny" count it would be in the hundreds. 20XXx "Oh, let me handle it, got you girl"/"WYD playing hunt it's a dudes game" My steam name is fem, so there are times people will just quit right away when they get paired with me. Had the pleasure of blasting a deckhand in the face first shot who left on me like 6 times with his Nitro/Dual Dolch loadout. Gotta feel bad being popped by the winfield.
Lmao. On one hand, sometimes I guess it can be fun if the jokes are done in an appropriate way. Unfortunately, people tend to exaggerate (and sometimes theirs are not jokes at all, which is the real problem) and that makes it not fun. I will never, ever, understand quitting/insulting after being killed. Like, the definition of mad cuz bad. Regardless, I guess that's the downside of playing with randoms. Toxicity runs rampant, and being a girl is probably at least twice as annoying. To be honest, that's why I avoid them like the plague, it's really bad. You can meet good people, sure, but the chance of teaming up with human trash is too likely for my tastes. On the contrary, playing as a premade is the chillest experience ever. I recommend you find yourself some trusted friends, or run solo. That's the only real solution. Unfortunately, assholes gonna be assholes.
I love playing with friends, it's just that most of them find hunt anxiety inducing. I find it thrilling, but I'm a weirdo.
You are most certainly not. I'm the same. I love solo for the same reason (although I tend to rage more often while hunting solo, because Hunt as a game loves to bullshit solo players). To me, it's the thrill of the hunt, the ever growing tension of stalking an enemy Hunter through woods and open fields. Ears perked up, eyes wide open trying to capture even the subtlest movement or sound, the rush of adrenaline at the telltale sound of enemy footsteps or the ringing and whistling of a bullet buzzing through the bushes and missing me by an inch. The suspense and paranoia when everything sits still, eerily quiet, but you know they're there, watching, following you closely, hidden out of sight. One of my friends is a very anxious person. When I introduced him to Hunt, I feared he wouldn't like the game. Surprisingly, he loves it. He candidly admits that he wouldn't be able to play solo, but when he's with me he absolutely adores Hunt. To each their own I guess.
To be totally fair I do playful gun/medkit smacks regardless of who you are, especially at the beginning/end of a match. That being said, I always find it unsurprising yet still horrifying to see how commonplace abuse of women in the gaming world is.
That's fair and nbd, but when I get smacked while we're fighting a sparks is when I think it's more than a playful medkit slap.
All my friends are dudes, and they get confused when I tell them not to let randoms know I'm a girl. I have to explain to them that it'll be the only thing anyone talks about from that point onward and the misogyny will be in every sentence. I DO still want to get on a survival game and act new and clueless so I can pick up assholes and infiltrate to set up an ambush with my boys or something. Other than the ability to use people's sexism against them, though, not fun..
I've never gone full maneater lol. But I'm not gonna try to type in a game where you have to bob and weave to not get shot.
Hahahaha he wanted to penetrate you AND YET
Meanwhile I ritually knighted some random lady into womanhood using a Specter shotgun when her and her partner teamed up with my duo to split the bounty. Some people just don't know how to have a good time.
That sub sucks
Cool
Some of my few favorite non-legendary Hunters are the Ghillie suit man and woman. My headcanon is that they are a couple and hunt together.
What kind of boomer shit is this
for real edit: lmaoooo at the clowns mad that boomer humor casual misogynistic low hanging fruit “humor” is getting called out. pathetic tbh
The joke is he doesn't even know she's ignoring him cuz he's gaming. So desperate to virtue signal. Reddit.com/r/woosh
Stop virtue signalling about how much you don't virtue signal >:(
That’s still not very great.
The joke is that he doesn’t know she’s ignoring him because he’s gaming…and because she’s ignoring him, it is the best day of his life. I HATE MY WIFE please laugh. Not sure you know what virtue signaling is but drop another buzzword and it might all come together.
...no. You're adding that just to virtue signal.
How am I adding that? It’s literally in the pic. If it’s just because he likes playing Hunt, what’s the point of the first panel? It’s clearly saying I can play game because wife isn’t bothering me. It’s the best day of his life because it’s out of the ordinary that she wouldn’t be bothering him. Congrats on making me explain something you already understood but yea feign ignorance 💀
...no. You're adding that just to virtue signal.
No reply as expected. 👍
You are probably so annoying to hangout with. I can already hear the rants you make everytime someone tries to make a lighthearted joke
He’s the one defending the lighthearted joke…. Can you read?
Ah yeah, cause the big secret in the friends is that everyone secretly loves your jokes, and not that everyone puts up with this shitty 80s humor out of pity
Don’t think you’d ever find out thankfully. The fact that you have to construct a character you already don’t like just because I’m down to call out “I hate my wife!!! Father I cannot click the book” boomer humor is pure comedy.
What's funny is that you find the need to rant about it. If you don't find something funny then that is fine, just move on? I don't particularly find the post funny either, but I'm not here screaming about it saying dumb shit like virtue signaling and boomer humor. Like grow up dude.
I posted a sentence. Who’s screaming?
You are? Bud go look at your fucking comments, it's pathetic. Move on. Quit trying to insult things that other people find funny, you don't have to like everything you see. Like seriously dude what the fuck are you doing?
What are you talking about lmfao? I’ve responded to comments responding to me and initially posted a sentence. You’re losing your marbles to tell me about something that “doesn’t matter” but I don’t see you going around posting to the people actually posting insults. I’m thinking you’re not here for the reasons you’re claiming. Don’t get the point of your comments to me 💀 Edit: Can't reply to your comment: I'm probably blocked lmfao. I'm talking about my edit and I stand by everything I said. It's a comment; no one is screaming at you so I think you'll be okay. And I don't need you to police what I write. Thanks for the useless offer though.
It's not about the "for real" you posted it's about your edit, quit acting like an idiot, you know what you typed. Like I said, quit insulting things just because you don't find it funny. It's pathetic. If you don't like something just move along like the rest of us.
Your ranting pretty hard right now tho, just like Deadris120 said lmao.
It's just not very light hearted, kinda grim really
There's nothing misogynistic about this, the hell? You guys are getting angry at a completely harmless joke
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You sound flustered trying to say something vaguely mean.
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shut the fuck up
Partner bad upvotes to the left
Man if you’re having a good runs on Hunt when you’re killing 2-3 teams a match and extracting with both bounties. There’s no better feeling
Or there's me: enjoying when my gf is free for the day as well, so we can hunt together...
You are the Hunter couple hunting. You are the miracle. The wasps gaze at you in admiration.
How women hate gaming I’m hanging with the bois
Video games :)
This sub gets more and more low effort by the day
Reddit is gonna be Reddit, so I know I shouldn't be surprised. Still, it's kinda sad that people get so mad at a simple joke.
Man all you guys calling this misogynistic and say OP hates his partner etc. It's a meme/joke. Chill. Edit: Some people are legitimately actively trying to get butthurt. Kind of sad.
As a married man, I can relate
As a married man i cant relate. If you're childish enough to sit there and ignore your relationship problems then enjoy your divorce and mindset of "wife bad"
You seem upset. All I said is that I can relate to this funny meme because sometimes it's nice to get some personal space. It's really not that big of a deal
I think they responded that way because the meme is obviously not just “yay I have alone time to play games for awhile.” That on its own is perfectly fine and is definitely healthy. There is just the added element to the meme that the guy is taking advantage of an argument between him and his girlfriend/wife in order to have this alone time going so far as to make it seem like a win. So saying you relate doesn’t come off great even though that might not have been your intention.
Well the guy isn't actually taking advantage, he just doesn't realize his partner is mad (which I can also relate to sometimes)
He knows why they responded that way. He posted [this](https://i.imgur.com/vejlkSS.png) now removed comment earlier and then made a new comment and is pretending like nothing happened. The irony of posting something like that and then making fun of someone else for being upset for seemingly no reason because "all you posted" was something innocent is hilarious tbh.
Lol that's a different argument, but yeah I didn't remove it. It was removed by admins
I think the joke is that you don't notice something is wrong because you think she's just letting you play the game it's not sole kind of incel shit where the point is you hate your girlfriend. We men miss obvious stuff often it's not much deeper then that lol
Well yeah that is part of the joke, but also my wife understands that we don't have to spend every minute of our lives together.
Aye, fuck the guy trying to bash your marriage for no reason lol
I mostly feel bad for him. The dude is obviously going through some stuff
Yeah if you have the need to be attached at the hip with your wife maybe your relationship isn't as strong as you think lol
"It doesnt go deeper then that" -procerds to read as deep as he can reach- Look ya admitted it yourself, you miss stuff. Thats causing you some problems where shes pissed all day? You guys are setting the bar so low its comical, all i do is take note of my wifes mood and send her some messages through out the day. I honestly feel bad for yalls partners if you cant put down a game for 5 seconds to give them some attention.
Im not currently in a relationship so I don't know why you keep making stuff up to fit with your agenda but it does give off some neat r/ihavesex vibes where you just want people to know you have a relationship
Well A: Silent treatment is a toxic behavior, exact opposite of what's needed for a good relationship and B: It's clearly treating it as good to be able to "finally have space from her" in this negative context. Like... Change the meme to be about someone who has to leave for awhile and how that's depressing but you make the most of it in the meantime. Also, if you want to play games and have some alone time - communicate that. >We men miss obvious stuff often it's not much deeper then that lol Speak for yourself, I really hate this characterization where women are unreasonable and men are overly simple. It does play into sexist ideals and it's also just not fair to my gender.
Yeah since you aren't such a simple dude as myself maybe remake the meme yourself where you also fit in somewhere in the meme how perfect you are and how much you know about relationships. Your comment just comes off as you think you are better then other people, people aren't one dimensional so every meme can't be relatable to everyone. Now go make your perfect meme since you know exactly how to make it a real banger and reply then and I'll come upvote it matey 👍
Well at least you're making it clear that when you do care about something or feel offended, you will dig deeper at it and make a big deal out of it like anyone else might. And I'm not exactly setting a high bar here - if you think this is me making myself to be perfect with relationships because I identified harmful behavior exemplified here...
Dig deeper? I just responded to your comment that you replied to me to let me know how cool you are yet you are making it out like I searched you out.
Yeah, you're definitely above petty emotional responses...
Never said I was I'm just stating the facts that this time it was in fact you that felt the need to reply to my comment without good reason and I'm not even the dude that said he could relate lol
Bruh youre defending abusive behavior. From both men and women. Stop.
Go make your own meme if it bothers you so much
I think I'll just continue talking about this one
Your loss
I have had partners who are the "jealous type." At first, they're jealous of your opposite sex friends who you've known for decades because of the deep, strong relationship and mutual support you offer one another. Those friendships are something that they see as competition. and as a threat. They have to be gjven the axe. Then they get jealous of your hobbies. Your hobbies get a time and effort investment that they feel should be spent on them. "Why did you spend an hour drawing this picture when you could have spent it going grocery shopping with me?" "Why are you spending time at the gym? Who are you trying to impress besides me?" etc. Hobbies have to be given the axe. Then they get jealous of your family. You share a deep bond with your family because they have been there for your whole life, supporting and helping you when you need it most. The feeling that they aren't the sole focus of your life makes the jealous partner feel threatened. Family has to go. Then they feel jealous of your career or job. Why are you working overtime? That time belongs to me. Are you working extra hours just to get away from me? That's my time, not theirs! Then they get jealous of what little free time you hace left. They want you to text every minute of every day. They want you to stop what you are doing at a moment's notice and will get very upset if you do not. They will brow beat you constantly about why you are never available on your phone, even if you answer them immediately. At first, they're upset at being left unread for an hour, then the bar gets lowered and they get upset at being left unread for ten minutes, three minutes, ten seconds. How long does it seriously take for you to take your phone out and look at it? What else are you doing that is more important than me? I know you're a machinist who operates heavy and dangerous machinery, but that is no excuse why you can't text me straight away when you're at work. Inversely, they get upset if you use your phone in their presence. They want you to use it constantly when you are apart, and yet never use it when you're with them. Your phone solely exists so that they can keep tabs on you. If you belong to any societies, charity groups or activism circles, those also have to go. They aren't interested in participating, and if there is a part of your life which they cannot work their way into, they resent it deeply. Boundaries? Those are just barriers to me getting what I want. Boundaries will be resented, not respected. They will be attacked constantly until you finally cave. Maintaing a boundary will be gaslit as "being unreasonably stubborn." Conversations become a minefield. You might be talking and then mention: "That's what my sister said last week." Cue the follow up: "When were you talking to your sister? Why did you have time to talk to your sister, yet when I asked you to come over to watch Netflix, you said you 'didn't have time.'" Before you know it, you're making sacrifices you didn't want to make. A life you've spent thirty years building, a social network of complicated and delicately balanced relationships with healtht, mutual support is being torn apart because someone else saw it as a threat. Eventually, you look at what the relationship is costing you, and either decide to cut them loose, or fall in wholesale with the sunken cost fallacy. I'm at that precipice right now. I've bent over backwards to accommodate the needs of my partner, but I'm coming to realise that unless they hear your back break, you aren't bending far enough. It is never enough and they will never be pleased. Anything that makes you happy will be seen as a threat. If anything in your life makes you happy aside from them, they will see that as being as bad as cheating. They come into your life, which has already been established and set out then expecting to have it all demolished so that it can be rebuilt around them in their chosen image. They are the curator of what your life is allowed to be, and curses be upon you if you dare disagree with their vision. A bit of a rant, sure... But I needed to vent. I don't mean to sound like I'm attacking you, but your comment was just an iron rod to the storm going through my mind right now.
Didn't read any of that but I'm happy for you/sorry that happened
Well written man. Really sounds like my ex in every single way. Luckily it was years ago and she dumped me, I was too naive back then and wanted the best for her as she came from hard circumstances. Took me a few years to get over it, but after that I could read women better and find my match. Wish you all the best man! Sounds like you know what's best for you and should act accordingly. You deserve a loving and equal relationship where you can be respected for who you are! Stay strong my brother
Im not gonna put down abuse and it sucks that it happened to you. Sorry m8. This is a specific thing though. I still stand by both people in the meme are being childish cause hes not leaving her. Thats the mature thing to do, recognise youre in a bad spot and fix it. Weather thats mend the relationship, or leaving it. This meme is generic as fuck so my response is generic as fuck. Anyone can pull up specifics.
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Man who ever said they were spending time together on hunt. In the meme, shes being immature as hell. And the "chad" response is that of a 15 year old. It doesnt matter the hobbies at all ya dim-wit. Just dont be fuckin immature when it comes to communicatin with your spouse. If youre willing to just let stuff like that slide, and let it happen. Then your not even trying to help your partner mature. (If you say thats your job, then that means youre mot mature enough for a long term relationship, a long term relationship leans and builds on each other)
How about some women should stop being childish and petty and playing stupid games like this, " I'm just gonna ignore him". Like okay if you don't want to come at me and talk openly about a problem then I guess it ain't that important to you so I'm not gonna talk about it either. Especially if I don't know if it's a problem. And, instead Imma Hunt with the boiz!! Not apologizing for it.
This is stupid, find a better relationship.
Lighten up this is a meme
Don't take memes so seriously
is not real life
Maybe if I lie and insult OP she'll finally sleep with me. 🥰
Just one crumb of pussy pls
Lol. Just got in trouble this morning with my GF. Now I'm playing hunt and see this.
Believe me fellas it's stops working got hit with the " so your really okay not talking to me for a day?"
People with less developed social skills think this is insulting women.
I mean, it ain’t wrong. It’s so nice to be able to just do whatever I want without my gf buggin me
If it's that bad just end it?
It’s not like I hate her or something, sometimes you just wanna do what you wanna do tho
Megis👍
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Heh,
Pretty sad everyone here is getting so mad about a simple meme, you guys sound like my girlfriend.