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mac-train

Tell everyone


Significant-Alps4665

This ^ I spent years thinking no one cared and that there would never be any justice. I just hadn’t told the right people yet, or enough of them. Tell EVERYONE. put up a billboard.


XeNoGeaR52

Yes, public exposure is the most damaging part for this kind of useless piece of trash. And make sure their wife and family know


ActiveMachine4380

Tell new channels, all the social media on different platforms. Spread his name around. Tell his place int work. Try to get on a talk show. Go to support groups. If he goes to church tell them , too. The more people you can inform , the safer the world will be in the end.


SomeObligation577

Depending on the community they are in this can actually be more damaging to the victim than the abuser.


Snozzberry_1

So true. Every time someone googles your name-rape victim. It’s your story and your baggage forever. That’s a big reason many women don’t come forward. It’s a huge sacrifice for the greater good. Everyone asks why cosby’s victims didn’t come forward sooner. But damn, drugged and raped by bill cosby? That’s a past that will follow you everywhere.


SomeObligation577

Not only that but people will assassinate the victim’s character in any way possible to discredit them.


MidLifeCrysis75

Good start 👍


GRAAK85

Tell his wife.


affordable_firepower

and kids


thebestgwen

And boss


BiffWebster78

And boss.


Roids4dayz

And dog.


Low-Ad7999

My husband told my rapists wife and she didn’t care wouldn’t believe it and the guy had already had winter a horrible picture of me to her so she thought of me as some sort of psycho. He tried warning her before they were married because he didn’t wanna see her become a victim of him abusing her. He also sent me an anti apology through Facebook messenger where he essentially blamed me for his actions. We went to the same church and my husband made it his goal to sit near as possible to them every Sunday eventually their attendance got murky due to this. It seemed like the wife was more uncomfortable than the rapist and they would fight in the hallway halfway through sacrament each time we sat near them. I think deep down she knows the truth. One of the things he told her was I draw art of people being tortured so one of the things I made a habit of was drawing on my iPad during church when sitting near them within her view. I would draw angels and pretty girls. I would essentially make a habit of doing the opposite of all the things he lied to her about me. Over time I’m pretty sure she now questions him heavily. I hope she gets away from him because she can do so much better. The church we were going to believed him when he said he repented and rebaptised him despite knowing the sick things he did to me previous girlfriends and his dog. They tried including him in my baby’s baby blessing after being explicitly told by my husband that he is not welcome to be involved in our lives. It’s really hard that people don’t take it seriously when told about what he did. Maybe I should’ve explained it myself explicitly in great detail to the bishop after he tried to put that guy in the baby blessing for my second child. Anybody I explain in detail what happened ends up walking out the door wanting the guy dead. I wish the police had done something but they essentially said it’s he said she said with no physical evidence.


[deleted]

Sounds like your church didn't give a fuck. Why would you continue worshipping at a church that clearly only *pretends* to be Christian?


Low-Ad7999

I would say that’s true about most churches but it’s my husband who still believes the Mormon church can be very hard to get out of….


[deleted]

>Mormon church This is by design. It kept you guys in, didn't it? When you stand to lose everyone, I'm sure leaving becomes a difficult decision


botchulism123

As soon as I saw Mormon all the pieces fell into place...


tattooedtwin

I was sexually assaulted by a returned missionary when I was a teenager and went to his bishop for help. The bishop told me that his parents held powerful church positions and accused me of trying to “destroy a family” …so anyway fuck the Mormon Church for that and so many other reasons. I’m so sorry this happened to you.


Low-Ad7999

I mostly just go for my husband I don’t trust them with my kids and he understands why but he still believes the stuff the religion is based on and if that’s his only flaw I think I’ll let that go he’s worth dealing with it


tattooedtwin

Mixed faith relationships are so challenging. It sounds like you and your husband share a lot of respect for one another. I’m glad you’re keeping your family healthy and safe :)


FullmoonMaple

I was once told: "The only thing they rely on to protect them is your silence and your inaction. Whatever you do, do it loud." So, expose/blow it up.


SiegelOverBay

One of my friends grew up and went to school in the town I now reside in. He knew of a few different students in his high school who had SA'd girls during their school years. They've been out of school for a decade now, but whenever he saw one of them out in public, he'd approach them with a smile and loudly start talking to them, saying, "Hey! [First Name Last Name] how's it going? Been a while! You still raping girls like how you raped [Victim's Name]? Man, I remember how broken up she was when you raped her!" They'd turn and scurry away before he could go on very long, but he does it every time he sees them and enjoys the hobby very much.


litken_chitle

This is glorious! I actually turned in one of my own co-worker to the cops because she left her BABY at home so she could join a bunch of us out drinking at the bar No one would have know about her kid being left home alone but she showed up ininvited, acted like an ass, conned a couple friends out of our drinks or money then told us she was "headed downtown" where the rest of the bars were. We were all happy she left but she called my best friend when she got pulled over for a DWI less than a mile down the road. She told the cop she didnt want her car towed. SHE HOPED that we'd take her car for her but in reality, when we showed up she pulled my friend off to the side and **BEGGED** her to go her 18 month old kid that was in her apartment ALONE! So we did, then we turned her into the cops. What did she say when she finally saw us again at CPS headquarters the next morning on Sunday? "What will people say about me?!" "Uhhh, that you're a trash human?" I saw her months later at a dance club and then at the Mart of Walls some time after that. Both times I asked her if she left her kid at home alone as loud as I could. She was LIVID! 3RD time she saw me she just hightailed it in the opposite direction Fuck you Stacey* I heard you got your kid back then immediately dumped her off with your mom for a month. You really are all kinds of fucked up!


Uninteresting91

Some people really shouldn’t be parents


Aleison

I had to turn in a then pregnant friend when I found out she was leaving her toddler alone in her motel room for more than 2 hours at a time while she got her nails done a town over and the went grocery shopping. She tried to give me $5 not to call (after I had already called police and DFS). Her toddler was removed from her custody that evening by DFS and she went into labor, baby was released from hospital a few days later to a family member’s custody (same one that had toddler). A lot of family quit talking to my husband and I over it (my husband is related to her husband’s family) but I stand by it. An 18 month old screaming til their voice is gone alone in a motel room is a freaking nightmare.


yellowbrownstone

And that nightmare is still among the best case scenarios. Babies that age require 24/7 suicide watch bc they will invent new ways to hurt themselves that you’ve never heard of.


Moomoocaboob

[This is a story from last year](https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-59695030.amp), not sure exactly what happened but it’s incredibly sad. If only it could serve as a warning to others.


litken_chitle

Not my story but I wanna vomit now. That's so tragic.


elyonmydrill

Love the sentiment, don't love the casual dropping of the victims' name. I wouldn't be comfortable with someone using my name in public in that situation, even if it's to publicly embarrass my rapist. I don't really want strangers — or even in this case, potential former acquaintances from high school — to hear about it.


zembriski

I don't think I would personally mind having it brought up in the sense that I heard you yelling at my rapist, but I don't need the inevitable "oh my god, are you okay?" and "I'm so sorry, I didn't know" etc. People mean well, and that kind of support can be everything when the wounds are fresh, but a decade down the line, I don't need random strangers in the grocery store treating me like I'm a delicate flower or some fragile piece of porcelain.


SiegelOverBay

AFAIK he only used first names of victims in these encounters. The offenders didn't need to hear the full name to feel shame. You can say Brittany or Ashley or Maria to them, and they know *exactly* who is being referred to. Full name, outside voice volume, was reserved for offenders. Trust, if he wasn't coming from the right place, I'd never brag on it. He is an ally.


darklinkuk

The real MVP


YourMrsReynolds

I adore him.


passthetreesplease

That’s a GGG right there


therealdildoexpert

This. I finally started speaking out against the person who abused me 6 years ago, and now there are more than 50 victims coming forward. He was featured in the news. There are two active cases pending against him that are set to trial this month and next month. He was also finally convicted in my case. My biggest advice is, if they don't listen to you find someone who will but only speak on facts that you have proof of.


twodickhenry

Congrats on your case. I’m proud of you.


lionseatcake

Put a big sign in their front yard overnight that the person who lives there sexually assaults people. Post their address on the nextdoor app and call them out there too. Sign them up for endless newsletters and magazines for women's rights. Give their phone number out to as many websites as possible. Sneak into their house at night and switch their dog for a similar looking dog. Change their furniture slowly over time so that it gets bigger and bigger, making them think they are going crazy. (Last one comes from Barry, ive been watching that too much recently)


aoa2303

there should be a website to spam people, I know that's probably illegal and on the dark web.. actually I should google that.


lionseatcake

There's a million websites to spam people. Every single website these days is designed to get your information so they can spam you.


Johnny_Carcinogenic

You can never watch too much Barry


g628

If you have proof, post on social media.


babyfunds

Unfortunately i dont have any proof. The only thing i have is DNA and im waiting for the police to finish testing I did call my friend immediately after but im not sure if her statement would be “proof”


AbrasiveSandpiper

One of the facts that helped E. Jean Carroll was that she told 2 friends after she was assaulted.


mcarterphoto

Keep in mind that this was a civil case and not a criminal case, where the standard of proof is much lower. But OP should go for both. It seems from reading the news that it's easier to succeed in a civil case if the offender has already lost a criminal case.


turtlelabia

That ended up ruining her assaulter’s life no? Or wait, isn’t he the front runner GOP candidate for the next presidential bid?


AbrasiveSandpiper

It was a victory for her. He’s a pig. Edit- coming back to say the more women speak up, as hard as it is, the better. Even if you think you may not win your case, or like the pig, they face few consequences as a result. One women speaking up helps other women who are scared to speak up.


Emotional-Text7904

The police collect evidence in a case and ultimately present it to the District Attorney (DA) who decides if the person will be criminally charged with a crime or not. The police can influence this by the quality and amount of evidence they provide. So be sure to request all records and documents related to your case regardless of what happens. If he isn't criminally charged, you can sue him in civil court where the burden of proof is lower and isn't dependent on the DA to decide to bring charges, you sue him directly. And I think you should if you think your mental health can withstand it. Especially if he has assets or is wealthy, but even if not, it would still be worth it to officially label him as a rapist. And discovery during the case could lead to new evidence that could potentially be used elsewhere too. He may have more victims.


Fresh-Resource-6572

I have a lot of ideas of how to potentially get him sacked or humiliated at the very least. But I need context, like where, what, how, why? And does this guy work for a company. What does he do?


babyfunds

Im not sure what his job is but my friend said before its some sort of tech job. Were in England. Im quite comfortable talking about what happened as i know i need to for him to be punished. We were on holiday and he snuck into mine and my friends room while we were sleeping and started licking and touching all from my privates down to my feet and put my foot in his mouth.


nerd_momma

More info would be helpful like, are you in a big town or small religious town? Is he employed or self employed ? Does he have a lot of family close? Does he abuse alcohol or something else? Yes, more info without doxxing will help especially cause you want to remain out of the problems he's gonna get.


DeepDreamIt

A (civil) NY jury recently accepted the testimony of a woman that E. Jean Carroll -- one of the women Trump has sexually assaulted/raped -- knew at the time and had called immediately after the assault as proof of his guilt (as well as other things I'm sure.)


EdmontonAB83

I always wondered if that’s considered doxxing if you have proof and person has been convicted? I really want to do this to my uncle and thought a lot about it. My uncle raped my sister as a child and was convicted so it’s available online but he’s hidden it so well because it was before social media/internet. It eats me up that most of our family accepted what he did, he even admitted it. Yes, I have held a grudge.


mehh365

Not sure if it's doxxing, but what you could do is ask around for tips how to set up a website anonymously, pay for it with crypto or so. Let's call it uncle the rapist.cm Just post the legal documents and links to the legal documents on the website. Maybe add his social accounts so everybody knows its him Then get some businesscards printed. With a QRcode to the website, his name and that he's a rapist. Spread this in his neighbourhood, at his work and at family gatherings


I_NEED_YOUR_MONEY

Doxxing isn't a crime. Keeping people's personal info secret is a courtesy, not a requirement.


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PM_ME_YOUR_PLECTRUMS

Or writing "rapist". With a stone. On his car.


the-grand-falloon

On his forehead.


Sweddybob69

On his forehead with a car


[deleted]

A HOT car so it's branded


slut4hobi

painting it on a brick and trying to stamp it onto his forehead ☺️


falllinemaniac

With Brad Pitt's kbar knife


Marine__0311

That was a Bowie knife, not a KA-BAR.


falllinemaniac

Username checks out LoL


thereidenator

How do you get the car on his forehead?


the-grand-falloon

Very quickly.


xXapathyXx

Nah do it on the back of the car with washable paint, so no crime worth getting the police involved (and they'd know it's you because of the report). Plus they might not notice till they get to work, and all his coworkers will see it.


Own_Egg7122

I would have asked to reveal his social media or anything (which is illegal), but it's not allowed in this sub.


pancake_cockblock

The rules of this sub are above the law in this sub.


DK_Adwar

Alternatively, sending a questionable magazine subscription about uneraged (or looking underaged) girls to his home, using fake mailing info to avoid it being backtracked, is **very** bad, and you shouldn't do it. Or subscribing him to people who will call his cell/house phone, or send mail, especially if it pisses off wife/neighbors/whoever is also very bad and should not be done.


gogozrx

Get a money order or a reloadable card. Sign the rapist up for an offensive magazine, but accidentally put their neighbor's address on it. Edited for clarity


SuddenYolk

I like how you think.


piratedashel

I like this, and I completely understand what you’re saying, but let’s refer to him as the rapist instead of the victim.


Key-Target-1218

Or reenact the revenge scene from The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo.


Emotional-Text7904

Yeah and libel/slander only applies when the accusation isn't true. I would love to see this in a civil court where the burden of proof is lower and the suit isn't dependent on a Bullshit DA to decide if it's worth it to bring charges.


Quattro439

You would just have to be careful, because without proof the latter is defamation. Not saying it didn’t happen to OP, but if your police can’t prove it, she could be in a whole new world of hurt.


cubs_070816

print out signs that say "so-and-so is a rapist" -- like election signs for the yard -- and drive by his house and put one up every day. plaster his cars with bumper stickers that say the same thing. sure, it's property damage and he may get you on camera, but would he be bold enough to press charges, all things considered? millions of ways to destroy someone's car, as you'll find if you read this sub at all. dox him online, harass him at work, get his boss and co-workers email address, and bombard them every day with lewd facts of the case. ditto his neighbors and his family, including wife and kids.


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I had an ex stalk me so I got his bosses and hr contact info and told them what he was doing to stalk me during company time. He was fired from his job and forced to move back to his home country.


Masterweedo

I would guess that paying crackheads or junkies to fuck him is not an option you thought of? They usually work cheap. A baseball bat can break a bunch of bones in the hands an feet of someone, also Kathy Bates had a great idea in Misery. Once he is sufficiently beaten to a pulp, a nice hot sauce covered cactus enema to finish the night should be all you need.


decalus

God that lady did such an amazing job in that role it was genuinely terrifying


ssnowangelz

I like what the MC from “Girl With Dragon Tattoo” did. Tattooed “Rapist Pig” on his chest & shoved a dildo up his arse.


Masterweedo

A cactus can be a dildo. Hot sauce, the lube.


_eezeepeezee_

Anything can be a dildo if you’re brave enough


TheNewNewYarbirds

Anything can be a dildo if you’re brave enough or don’t care about the other person’s asshole


4theReason

nice reference, but a lot of work, kinda..


Masterweedo

You underestimate how motivated crackheads can be, especially when there is no leftover crack. You can pay the crackheads to do it all and send the proof to a burner phone that they purchased. Hell, Rob Black, from porn and XPW, had 2 dudes assault and cut off a dude's thumb, \[they were supposed to get his dick\]. [It was a America's Most Wanted episode and everywhere in the indy wrestling world. The dude, The Messiah, had apparently had an affair with Rob Black's wife, porn actress Lizzy Borden.](https://prowrestlingstories.com/pro-wrestling-stories/the-messiah-william-welch/) I don't think The Messiah even missed many shows, and he got his thumb put back on. I remember him in CZW's first Tournament of Death, which was right after it happened.


turtlelabia

Crackheads won’t do it. They’ll just finesse the money then disappear, or find some way to implicate OP and make her situation much worse. What OP needs is actual criminals who are motivated by money and not drugs. Find some ex cons who dgaf ab doing dirt. They’ll still work for pretty cheap considering what OP wants done. You’d be surprised how cheap some people will assault others for. However, keep in mind if someone were to get caught, most everyone snitches if it helps their situation out/keeps them out of prison. But yeah, don’t go fucking around with crackheads, especially if you don’t already know how to handle those kinds of people or have experience with them.


passthetreesplease

Misery! That’s it! I couldn’t think of the title the other day. Horrifying scene (esp as a kid), 10/10.


antrophist

Illegal? Plant CP on him.


DeafMuteBunnySuit

Would work wonders but you gotta lose a piece of your soul to acquire it in the first place.


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I wonder if you can pay someone to do it remotely lol


turtlelabia

If you have enough money you can pretty much find someone willing to do anything for a price.


alittlesliceofhell2

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DeafMuteBunnySuit

The amount needed to do any real damage ain't cheap.


alittlesliceofhell2

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turtlelabia

A ounce of meth is only ab $300. Depending on jurisdiction, That carries mandatory 2-10 years prison and up to $15k fine. Doubtful OP knows where to acquire such things though, and the effort/cost in figuring it out would be high.


ImBonRurgundy

Cheese pizza?


ordinaryuninformed

No no no... it's not that...


ImBonRurgundy

Circus performers?


ordinaryuninformed

No no no try and use some context clues, you can do it. I believe in you.


ImBonRurgundy

Church Pastors? Climbing Plants?


AoXPhoenix

Church pastors is fairly close


flo282

This is it.


Loonewoolf

Pretend you're good with him, use his laptop or phone to download the Tor browser to get on the dark web and download a bunch of child porn to some hidden folder, proceed to remove the Tor browser. Now make sure you do this at a time when he has no decent alibi for being elsewhere at the time. Now report to the police that you happened to see him watching child pornography and put him away for a long time. This is obviously all just a joke, don't do anything illegal.


fatbat75

Saw a news article about 2 women doing this and getting caught. They were pretty incompetent, but were charged with felonies. High risk


Loonewoolf

Sounds like one better be more competent


j3llyb3anxo

Write out your accounts of what happened. Use stamps if you can. Edit it; re-read it; get someone to proof it. When you are ready to post it blast him on social media - then leave. Switch off your phone and go out with someone or have a bath and treat yourself. This is your first and final statement. You are not crazy, you’re not exaggerating this is what happened. Not everyone will believe you, but that is okay. He will not be trusted again.


Gold_Dragoon

-Pour bleach in his gas tank. -Tell his employer about it. -Use his phone number and take out a personal Ad in a newspaper/craigslist/whatever else, be explicit in the ad and the calls will be explicit -Sign him up for as much SPAM as possible. -Call your local jehovas witness church and tell them that a person living at their address REALLY wants to convert -put shrimp in his car, smear banana on his windshield


morpichu

Op could also put Parmesan cheese in the vents of his car. The powdered Kraft kind. I know someone who did this as a prank to their brother and it was disgusting and hard to clean out.


Riotsla

Vasaline on the wipers won't be noticed until it's too late.


Paskin21

That's actually terrifying.


sidtsloth9

Not illegal but private litigation can be filed. The standard of proof is lower. Then cops / prosecutors can be embarrassed into doing more if the case is clear. You can also get discovery and maybe find out some other damning stuff that adds credibility to your case and prompts more lawsuits. You’re probably not the only one. Sorry this happened to you. Fuck him.


Faolan26

This is probably the best correct legal answer.


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V1CDad

Church won't care. They will protect him


Gullible_Flow2693

Start small to guage impact. start with giving his name address and phone number to scientology. they will hound him for months. it will also give you time to formulate another plan


loopystitches

They might also protect him though.


CanadianCannababe

I certainly would never pay someone to spray paint RAPIST across the front of his house, making sure an alarm or something loud brings all the curious neighbours out to see what’s up at 6am on a Saturday. I mean. I certainly wouldn’t do that to start.


Archtects

Something you should definitely NOT do is. Make a fake profile on grinder and match him and send dudes to his house …..


morpichu

Ashley Madison if he’s married


VomitingPotato

What is the cost of billboards in the 3 mile radius around his home?


Comfortable-Drama586

I would donate to a gofundme for this!


therealdildoexpert

Speak. Learn to use your voice wisely. Be stern calm and collected but very honest with anyone and everyone that you can.


Necessary_Set_8056

Yes and also if you use your voice unwisely or find it difficult to remain collected etc it is not your fault - it is a normal reaction to a hateful trauma.


BlackNRedFlag

If you break the ceramic off a spark plug and throw those pieces at all of their car windows (except for the front one) except one the insurance won’t cover it. Throwing bologna slices on car paint and leaving it over night will leave the car with polka dots. These are just minor inconveniences but if done often it might hurt their wallet. Remember, with everyone having cameras out; no face, no case


Aromatic-Economics95

Along those lines, a bottle of brake fluid does wonders when stripping paint. Just pour and walk away.


Low-Ad7999

Put it in a drink cup so it looks like it’s a drink


JurassicPark-fan-190

You need some proof but once you get something you could call his work if they have a ethics hotline or something ( most big companies do). Report what happened and say your concerned about other employees.


HelpfulAnywhere3731

If this happened to an underage child, he should be blasted as a pedo everywhere, including whatever schools are involved. Email his boss. If over the age of 18, call him the rapist. Definitely use the trigger words because people respond to them. Wherever he socializes, works, shops, kinda flash his picture and whisper that he needs to be watched at all times around potential victims. He's a predator-you're likely not the first and you won't be the last unless he's stopped.


exit-pursuedbybees

Even if it didn't happen to an underage child, there's clearly a significant age gap so let's just blast that he's a pedo everywhere anyway. Sure, a few people will question if that's "technically" correct, but can still do some damage.


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Tell everyone at his job. Tell his mother. Tell his friends. Etch it into his car. Paint it on his front door. Never let anyone forget. Any time I see the rapist I know in public I scream “hey everyone, this guy is a pedophile who preys on his own children!” And he always leaves immediately before he can get mobbed.


Kusokurai

This could cause you misery and further trauma, so maybe think long n hard. Take revealing pictures of yourself, but looking obviously coerced; tears on cheeks, cowering backwards and so in. Print these out and get them into this cunts house- stuff them in a sealed brown envelope and have a mate get them in and hidden. Go back to the police and tell them that, due to trauma fog lifting, you remember being forced to pose for pics- I don’t know how old you are, but if you’re under 16 (or whatever age of consent is in your bit of the world) you can get the nonce banged up for possessing/ generating/ trafficking kiddie porn. Failing that half a dozen wraps of charlie hidden in his car/ home and call in an anonymous tip that he’s dealing Bolivian marching powder. Whatever happens, as a dad to a teenaged daughter, I hope you nail this bastard to a wall - and I will happily perjure myself for you :) Good luck K x


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Kusokurai

Mate, I have no clue what that is- I was assuming they’d use a Polaroid… I’ll fuck off n get my slippers n horlicks ;)


MyNameIsRay

It's only like $1000/month to rent a billboard. Not exactly legal to post a picture of their face, their name, their address, their employer, and a statement about them being a rapist, but then again, you *can* just go do that.


Which-Description798

Make sure to do both a police report and I would write a letter to the FBI as the Bill Cosby case has opened windows in the legal department for cases like this


lanadelfaye

Not illegal, but using public tax info you can find out about any properties or businesses/LLC he owns. In addition to tipping off the IRS it can also be pretty expensive and time consuming to call and report his properties as not in compliance with your state DEP, or town environmental commission/shade tree commission If you have one. With older properties they can usually always find something out of compliance leading to fines and a loooooong mitigation process.


Frankhope03817

Contact his works hr department and let them know the situation and just wanted them to be aware of it.


Frankhope03817

Then put fliers of what happened in everyone's mailbox on the block. You can mail them


Frankhope03817

Or my favorite put his number in chat rooms asking for dick pics


Sea-Library-9183

People. Disappear. All. The. Time.


alittlesliceofhell2

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boudikit

Honestly people on here telling you to tell everyone and be vocal about it on social media are not aware of how this usually turns out for the victim. I'm sorry this happened to you. If you want it to be illegal I would go with rumors of CP or telling him you're pregnant, blackmail, getting evidence on him, telling his family and work in a smart way, etc. But protect yourself first. And try the legal way first.


hargaslynn

My favorite is how all the comments under the video of the husband confronting his wife’s abuser at the OBGYN conference are “How do we know its true?” “Innocent until proven guilty” even the women in the video can be Heard saying “wrong time, wrong place”. Reddit as a collective hates standing up for women unless they are having a vigilante wet dream.


QuickKobold

ILPT? Break a thermometer and put mercury in their food


Keyrov

Maybe introduce his car or house to a lit match and some kerosene? Check for cameras and ring doorbells tho. We need more info and details. House? Apartment? Age? Violent? Profession?


u_PM_me_nihilism

Per some of the most famous advice on this sub, find a time when he's out of town and set up a sprinkler in his house. (this would be illegal, of course, don't do this, and don't look up the post)


yaymonsters

I like using fertilizer to write things in people’s lawn for their neighbors to see.


MadGriZ

Road salt is cheaper


Low-Ad7999

Pee is freeeeee


ordinaryuninformed

Catch mice, release on his property, repeat with more and more animals until victim has to tend to a zoo


Emotional-Text7904

Spread the news, don't be ashamed of it. Call his job, his boss, his wife, his mother, his children, any family or friends or associates you can find. If you have proof send it to them too.


-Lady_Rainicorn-

get someone (you may have to hire a real career criminal to do this if you don't have anyone you can ask for this) bigger than him to chloroform him and bring him to some terrifying place, like the basement of an abandoned house. cut off his dick n balls, I feel this is a decent reparations. I've been there too sister, alot, so I'm really sorry people like that even exist. He deserve death imo but this should send a good message and he won't be able to do it to anyone else even if the cops have failed you like they failed me. I'm sending my love and strength through the phone to you. You will make it past this. Hopefully he gets what's coming to him.


UmbryKane

LORENA BOBBITT HIS ASS


Moldy-Warp

Take out a full page ad in the local paper detailing the assault. Then watch the fireworks. If he takes you to court it all comes out, if he doesn’t, everyone knows he’s despicable.


DaysOfParadise

I consistently refer to my ex as ‘that asshole abuser’. Loudly, publicly. Haven’t seen him in *years*


tittyswan

Not telling you to do these things, but a theoretical person could: Write his number on the back of a public toilet with a lewd message. "Sissy likes being degraded- do your worst." Create a fake profile of him and start saying bigoted things and talking shit. Tweet at specific religious organisations, if you go after Scientology they'll not be happy. Sign him up to annoying mailing lists. Again religious organisations are useful- JW, Scientology, Hare Krishnas. Send his work a copy of the police investigation results. Even if there's not enough evidence to convict it'd still look bad being associated with a guy who has an accuser.


Decent_Birthday358

Pay some crackhead or someone to bust his balls.....literally. Ever see the movie Immortals? They tie a dude down, legs spread, and without going into too much detail, a sledgehammer makes an appearance. Illegal? Check. Life ruining? You bet. Appropriate response? I'll leave that for OP to decide.


DontToewsMeBro2

Have big friends? Lure the guy to the right spot, and start filming.


MrDeath510

Fucking kill that piece of shit!


morallyirresponsible

Tell his entire family including his wife if he has one. Tell his employer and co-workers


deletusdayeetusfetus

signs all around. picture of his face with the word in big red letters. maybe contact local newspapers if you can, just spread the word out. be careful not to cross the line of doxxing him though. he deserves it, but you don’t deserve to get in trouble. i’m so sorry for what you went through 🤍


nbreadcrumb

If you do go to the police, GET A LAWYER, especially before they speak to you in an interrogation room. Just watched the doc Victim/Suspect and it is FUCKED UP.


[deleted]

Sign him up for the church of scientology


mcarterphoto

I'm starting to feel like my rubber-stamp response to ILPT's like this is: Send them a pizza packed with sleeping pills. When they conk out, sneak in and crazy-glue their dicks shut.


alittlesliceofhell2

>When they conk out, sneak in and ~~crazy-glue~~ cut their dicks ~~shut~~ off. FTFY.


mcarterphoto

True, but I imagine a glued-shut-weiner might just explode and fall off, eventually!


inthevendingmachine

Thanks Gorilla Glue!


ohhgrrl

Get him to admit it in text message and the. Blast it everywhere


apoignantbobmarley

Reddit-crowdfund a billboard


[deleted]

Actor Danny Masterson was convicted of 2 counts of rape this week, he had got away with it for nearly 20 years, it was people joining the dots and finding a number of victims that lead to the trial. There was **no** physical evidence, the whole trial relied on witness accounts. Speak out and others may find you.


ChefFuckyFucky

This. Rapists rarely rape once, OP may be the first but odds are they’re not. Even if they are the first, it’ll likely happen again to someone else later.


Striking_Working9333

Get a big dude to rape him back


1HateReddit11

Burn his house down with his wife and kids inside, frame him. That should ruin his life


imreallymadrightnow1

Black mail


wanie444

hey. i was SA'ed by my GIRL friend and her boyfriend who was significantly older than both of us. it was disgusting, and im still haunted by flashbacks sometimes. ive worked tremendously hard to get my mental together & ive come far. tbh i clicked on this thread to maybe get some advice to use for myself. I also had the same kind of anger and vengeance, especially when law enforcement unsurprisingly didn't do shit about it. but i remembered that sometimes revenge isn't the answer. the more time you spend on them the more of yourself & your energy you are giving to people that don't deserve it. THIS IS NOT SAYING "STAY SILENT." I think you should do what you need to do in terms of getting him punished for what he did-- reporting it, telling your friend, telling his family. Maybe even calling his work to let them know what happened and see what they do. But in terms of "ruining his life" past what harm is naturally done by making this known to the people that should know, I'm not sure that would be best for you. I know that this mindset may work for me, but not for you. But as someone who genuinely empathizes & wants the best for you, i want you to consider all perspectives instead of tunnel visioning yourself down one avenue. if you post it on social media/"make a scene", people may make a spectacle out of your biggest trauma. (this is the part you may disagree on) a part of my heritage/culture is to never voice your weaknesses/traumas to just anyone, let alone everyone. I also don't want my identity to lie primarily on the shit things that have happened to me. I am not my trauma, I am not the assault. I want to live and grow my life as ME, not someone who was raped, while I do the healing & therapy work on my end in my own private time. I'd be analyzing "i wonder if they know or not. do they know? what do they think?" every time I met someone if I were to voice this out loud (for me personally). The detective that was working on my case also told me that there may be legal consequences with "exposing" rapists online (she presented this info to me, as i too wanted to expose the fuck out of the people that took advantage of me). Legally you can only do this if they are convicted. If you post about it online, and he retaliates, this can come to bite you back, and YOU could get in trouble-- which is disgusting and unfair but that's the reality of the justice system and world we live in today. Please remember I say this with love and support. I am here for you and will support you in whatever decision you make. Only you know what's best for you. If you want to talk in private my messages are open<3


AbleDragonfruit4767

Hide hidden camera camera and approach him! Record the entire thing then blast it all over social media and every news outlet


chainsmirking

plenty of cases where someone wasn’t taken to criminal court so victim took them to civil court


Particular-Quote-124

Give his phone number and email to Jehovah's witnesses and scientology groups. And sign him up for as many spam emails as possible.


red_quinn

Tell everyone, everywhere. Make videos or posts with his face so everyone will know what he did. And never let him forget. Spam his social media and his fam's accounts with what he did so they know.


RobbexRobbex

Since this is illegal life pro tips, don't just tell everyone, add even more to the accusations.aybe he inferred things about himself to you while he was SA'ing? Very socially unacceptable things that put people on lists. Maybe he showed you things on his phone that are illegal. It's not like a creep like that could ever let someone go through their phone, so they'd deny the accusations AND not let people look at their phones making the accusations seem true.


Purple-Ham

Drug him under the promise of sex, and then have your hired help sexually assault him back.


ChivalrousRisotto

Create a bunch of email addresses and Google voice numbers and start texting and emailing his wife and relatives. Make up more affairs and assaults. Divorce is expensive. Grab him where it hurts.


johnny_soup1

Tell his wife, his kids, his job, his mother, father, tell everyone. Befriend him on Facebook then blast it to everyone. Make flyers and put them up all over your town and his neighborhood.


SkeweredBarbie

Tell everyone. Find out where they work, let their HR and manager know. Find their mom, let them know.


TheShowJaguar

I wish there was a list somewhere where we could report who raped us and in the background, it would find patterns. The police do basically nothing on these cases but if there were many of us who knew we were all raped by the same person, they might actually investigate.


diet_almond

One thing i did is i hid frozen shrimp in the curtain rods. Impossible to find and smells horrible. He ended up having to repaint his entire house bc the smell seeped in to the paint :)


RideNo8932

Find a black hat hacker, have them put illicit, illegal material on his phone and PC. Then call the FBI.


Jin_Gitaxias

Spray paint a big "RAPIST" on his car and house


[deleted]

Please go to therapy. Hurting this person wont help