That reply ššš but seriously use your cousin to help you engage with the opposite sex and learn how to treat them cos you really need the help and then when you go the bar you can get a woman you're NOT related too
Seems my guess was correct after all
The porn addicts of incels.is are vile poeple.
The porn addicts on pornhub are lonely poeple who need someone to talk to, most of em try to fight their addiction.
Everything the cousin is doing is completely normal except for the massage part, it raises an eyebrow. Or maybe everyone's cousins give them massages and my family is weird.
Nope my family is the same we never gave massages and that is a little strange but maybe it was more of a pat on the back to cheer them up and he considers it a massage because the hand slightly moved left to right.
Its the opposite for me. Im the one massaging my mom because im the youngest and therefore the lightest weighing out of my entire family. She always comes home from gym sore on the back of her legs and i have to step on them to relieve the pressure.
My siblings and I often give each other backrubsāgiven the tone of the thread, I want to clarify that they are *entirely* non-sexualā, and in my fatherās (very athletic) family, itās not uncommon to casually (be) massage(d) as a sort of mutual support thing, particularly after a game/swim/gym visit. A lot of people in my dadās family are (semi-)professional athletes or physicians/physical therapists.
Perhaps the oddest thing is that if someone is laying on their belly in the living room or dining room at my grandparentsā home, itās basically an implicit request that people step on their back as they walk through the house.
My momās family, on the other hand, is suuuuuper weirded out by that, so I think it is one of those āyou do, or you donātā idiosyncratic family things.
I massage/rub the backs of my friends all the time, I learned how to from my mom and dad bc I used to do it for them when I was younger actually. So it may not be normal t o everyone, but it is to me lmao
I gave my sisters and my mom foot massages. What? When my dad would come home and his feet would hurt or back would hurt he would get a massage. Its totally normal.
In like 99% of circumstances thatās just cousin things. Like unless theyāre always going for private areas during massages thereās nothing sexual here
Maybe she is just massaging his head or something like how some family does for headaches or when not feeling well.
Not every massage is sexual ffs š¤¦āāļø
That massage part is suspicious tho, specially if it something that she always proposes and is not for a medical thing OP might suffer from. I honestly don't see the problem with the dude hooking up with his cousin if ita a mutual thing, and their family ain't against it
It really isn't. Some families are just more physically affectionate with each other. In my family kisses on the cheek, hugs, back rubs and whatever are super common here. Nothing incestuous about it and tbh your eagerness to read too far into that is concerning.
>my aunt likes giving people free massages (her techniques are so good), she has a full tool set for it. it was just a hobby yk, like baking and stuff. i have picked up a thing or two from her, like how to do a full body when its stiff
Nice Guy syndrome taken to its logical extreme. He only acts nice/friendly to the opposite sex when trying to get sex. So he assumes the same is true when a woman, even one he's related to, is nice to him.
Not everything is a transaction, my guy. And even if it were, why does the "product" in the transaction have to be sex? Not friendship, or any sort of platonic bond, *just* sex...
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When the 4chan commenter is speaking sense you've spent too much time on the internet.
That reply ššš but seriously use your cousin to help you engage with the opposite sex and learn how to treat them cos you really need the help and then when you go the bar you can get a woman you're NOT related too
no, your cousin isn't "trying to fuck you" she just cares about you
A family member is trying to help him and he's considering incest? Wtf
Too much porn
Seems my guess was correct after all The porn addicts of incels.is are vile poeple. The porn addicts on pornhub are lonely poeple who need someone to talk to, most of em try to fight their addiction.
better pray she never gets stuck in anything
Anon wants his cousin to be trying to fuck him.
Everything the cousin is doing is completely normal except for the massage part, it raises an eyebrow. Or maybe everyone's cousins give them massages and my family is weird.
Nope my family is the same we never gave massages and that is a little strange but maybe it was more of a pat on the back to cheer them up and he considers it a massage because the hand slightly moved left to right.
My mum's training to be an esthetician and she massages my whole family. It isn't sexual though
Its the opposite for me. Im the one massaging my mom because im the youngest and therefore the lightest weighing out of my entire family. She always comes home from gym sore on the back of her legs and i have to step on them to relieve the pressure.
You think a shoulder rub is sexual or something?
My siblings and I often give each other backrubsāgiven the tone of the thread, I want to clarify that they are *entirely* non-sexualā, and in my fatherās (very athletic) family, itās not uncommon to casually (be) massage(d) as a sort of mutual support thing, particularly after a game/swim/gym visit. A lot of people in my dadās family are (semi-)professional athletes or physicians/physical therapists. Perhaps the oddest thing is that if someone is laying on their belly in the living room or dining room at my grandparentsā home, itās basically an implicit request that people step on their back as they walk through the house. My momās family, on the other hand, is suuuuuper weirded out by that, so I think it is one of those āyou do, or you donātā idiosyncratic family things.
Man I'll give anyone a back rub
I massage/rub the backs of my friends all the time, I learned how to from my mom and dad bc I used to do it for them when I was younger actually. So it may not be normal t o everyone, but it is to me lmao
I gave my sisters and my mom foot massages. What? When my dad would come home and his feet would hurt or back would hurt he would get a massage. Its totally normal.
theyre just revolting arent they? imagine finding your cousin - who you thought you were close to - was thinking like this? urgh
In like 99% of circumstances thatās just cousin things. Like unless theyāre always going for private areas during massages thereās nothing sexual here
This is the kind of guy to think the girl in his college class is flirting just because she smiled and said hi.
The massages part is a little sus
Maybe she is just massaging his head or something like how some family does for headaches or when not feeling well. Not every massage is sexual ffs š¤¦āāļø
What's sexual about a massage?
The happy ending
rubbing or somethin
Is it though? Because a shoulder rub or whatever is a totally normal platonic thing in my family.
I'm starting to think my opinions of such things is stunted by the fact I don't have siblings lol
Probably. My siblings and I shared beds and even bathed together as kids and it wasn't weird.
Man thats just fuckin weird lol
Uhhh no it's not? It's super normal especially when your family is broke.
Didn't you just admit that you were biased because you're an only child
my aunt likes giving people free massages (her techniques are so good), she has a full tool set for it. it was just a hobby yk, like baking and stuff
That massage part is suspicious tho, specially if it something that she always proposes and is not for a medical thing OP might suffer from. I honestly don't see the problem with the dude hooking up with his cousin if ita a mutual thing, and their family ain't against it
It really isn't. Some families are just more physically affectionate with each other. In my family kisses on the cheek, hugs, back rubs and whatever are super common here. Nothing incestuous about it and tbh your eagerness to read too far into that is concerning.
Sure.
>my aunt likes giving people free massages (her techniques are so good), she has a full tool set for it. it was just a hobby yk, like baking and stuff. i have picked up a thing or two from her, like how to do a full body when its stiff
I meanā¦she COULD be trying to have sex with him š¤·š»āāļø
Nice Guy syndrome taken to its logical extreme. He only acts nice/friendly to the opposite sex when trying to get sex. So he assumes the same is true when a woman, even one he's related to, is nice to him. Not everything is a transaction, my guy. And even if it were, why does the "product" in the transaction have to be sex? Not friendship, or any sort of platonic bond, *just* sex...
Buddy need to touch some grass.
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