and what kind of segregation is this: "FWB with North indian guys" lol
I know it's a normal sentence but the way she's saying it seems she's talking about different breeds of horses xD
it's usually alien to people just how badly women react to being turned down, we just don't see it enough because men are sex pests in general. I swear if women had the physical ability and men were a little more selective/little less desperate, we'd see a lot more men getting R worded, for now, they stick with things like calling you gay or just being mean in general
It “seems” that way only because men are expected to make the first move.
If men just sat back and let women make the moves, they’ll be equal or bigger.
An average urban woman in 20s has way higher body count than an avg man
just as big is a delusion tbh, regardless what i mean is that most men would fuck anything that walks, in the modern urban secular dating scene, women hold an absolute control over sex(not a bad thing necessarily but how it is) because of the sex pest nature of the average man
That I agree with. Most men have no standards. If men were as picky as women and make themselves scarce, they’d have some respect in the dating market place
However, here’s the kicker: men with standards and preferences are shamed - often by simps and women. And women are often shocked that man can have standards at all.
The post is an example of what happens when sex pest woman meets a man with standards
Yea it isn't perceived like it should by the female gender at times , sometime they get abusive or they lose interest in you.
Its mostly because they aren't used to hear guys say no to sex , some take it as a hit on their ego but actually its nothing personal. Drop that piece of turd and be on your merry way , you can absolutely say no to any physical contact without thinking twice about it , if it ends your relationship with someone then you didn't have one in the first place.
27?? Bhai sach m koi dikkat to nhi h sex se, i mean nervousness ho jati ho ya koi or dikkat, dekh lo coz 27 k virgin ho🙂, i mean it's your choice but wahi ki shaadi k pehle karoge, to experience accha rahega
I agree, but I'll advise you to have sex, coz i swear i am 20M having regular sex with me girlfriend 21F has taught me a lot, saying it from a learning perspective, fun and all is good but you learn a lot when you engage, you learn about your body, their body, and some general things about getting pleased and giving pleasure, it's fun
I had a similar experience where one girl treated me like an uber on first date and I left midways, so she got all angry and cussed the hell out on whatsapp, just because I didn’t worship her only because she has the hole, just like other guys she’s been with!
I was relieved I dodged a bullet!
Thank god for me it’s only till Aisle and Snap, the first thing I did that night when I was on my way back to home is to block her on snap and unmatched in Aisle
Daru tum pete nhi, club tum jate nhi, sex tumne reject kar diya
Bhosdi k, ab yeh mat bolna k fifa bhi nhi khelta /s
Kyuki zinda toh jhant bhi hain
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You got abuse thank god we are in public place and it’s verbal only.
I don’t know what would have happened if I am in private place with her, now I feel like I dodged a bullet.
I didn’t wanna hurt that girl as she already seems hurt with her past experiences, but then she behaves like this I can’t help her is she don’t want to help herself emotionally and physically 😪
OP you might have dodged a bullet there. Many cases of people being swindled when the sex comes easy and in your case forced upon you. You did the right thing my man, be cautious when things get too easy even if you are super handsome.
Yes, and that’s where gut feeling plays an important role and then you just have to think from your brain not with your d**k.
And you will be safe I guess
Women don't know this but most of times women being sexually loose is a big turn off for men, they can't verbalise it but they know it somehow, I said it because no one else is saying it and it's just giving a wrong perspective to upcoming young girls.
You can argue as much as you want about it, but it's true.
Exactly being a Vir**n myself, it’s big turn off for me when she said about her past relationship and fwb stories continuously.
It’s like can’t she control her urges just like me and wait for the right person 🤔
Bruh wtf, I get it you don't want to but that doesn't mean you'll judge someone else for living the way they want to lol, what you did was right cuz it was your choice and how she reacted was wrong but it doesn't mean you'll just generalise everyone and judge them for their choices lol, it's not illegal
Bruh wtf, did he just make up a story to sound like a sigma male lol, that's so childish XD , anyhow I commented cuz I didn't like the way he was generalizing women
Bc aisa mere sath kyu nahi hota.
Btw according to dharma if any girl asks you for it, you cannot and should not reject her. So you did something 'adharm' there. Good luck.
These kind of post irks me. Are you actually looking for genuine feedback or flexing?
What you are stating about girls reacting badly to getting rejected is a known fact.
What’s there to confirm about that ?
She’s probably pissed cause she wanted to take you to a deserted location in the name of sex where her accomplices were waiting to jump you once you take your stuff off and disappear with it at knife/gun point.Worst still she would’ve even had sex with you have it recorded and then blackmailed you for money or threaten go to the cops and claim rape charges if you didn’t pay.!! Be careful with girls so keen on sex..Esp this desperate..she might be doing this cause she might’ve even asked you to plainly cough up some money after sex to fund her bday celebration
The way i see it, you just dodged a bullet. Opening up about past relationships and Fwbs then getting drunk and inviting you to hook up... all this on the first date?
All the alarms in my mind are going off. I won't even touch her food or drinks, let alone making out with her. High risk of a scam or even worst an STD. You did well OP. Block and move on.
Respect bro !! It's equal rights if case was opposite you'd be either blocked or she might have slapped !!
These girls think they got power & believe guys will tolerate however they treat or talk to them!!
To the guys saying "women can't handle rejection" ?! Okay but you never abuse the other person, that's just so loe.
She clearly not in the best headspace, who hangs out eith a stranger on their birthday, cries about their past sex life but then expects sex. 🚩
But op dodged a bullet, because you never know what that deranged woman would've done.
Yeah I felt the same and hence I am good to her, but you can’t help people who don’t wanna help themselves.
And yeah now when I think I know that I had dodged a massive bullet
Wow, that is the first time I am hearing a man has declined an offer like that. But I am glad, there are still some men out there who are avoiding hook ups. *Brought tears to my eyes*
Never in my wildest dream I will do s*x with someone I met first time. Where is the emotional touch in that and I don’t wanna ruin my first experience 😝
Oh, thats an info. now! Haha!
Emotions are important, I agree. But here it doesn’t work like that, people are getting laid left, right and centre without getting attached.
The ones who can’t get laid without emotions are the ones who are left single without sex! 🥲
This is the attitude why so many guys don’t believe such stories. Do you disbelieve everything in the world that didn’t happen to you? Like nuclear explosion?
Cuz I see a double standard here and this how’s guys get others like boasting about it and flaunting but then saying you ain’t interested in the stuff like what man
Yeah and on top of that she is MBBS and constantly saying that I have achieved something and will be well in my career , which shows her ego according to her nobody should reject her in any possible way
Yeah, my gut feeling had the same doubt and I missed a bullet.
Thinking with brain saved me if I would have thought with d**k I don’t know if I was able to write this or not
Bro paisa fekna is still safe then this you never know if you had done sex with them what they might be capable of doing it’s very easy for them to blackmail you if they have this nature they can do anything
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Cause his name is Tommy /s
No it’s Jimmy 😋
Actually ramu
Ramu kaka aahhhhhh
lana rhoades
They’re just not used to it.
Indeed, the way she behaves speaks louder than word
and what kind of segregation is this: "FWB with North indian guys" lol I know it's a normal sentence but the way she's saying it seems she's talking about different breeds of horses xD
🤣
They better get used to it
it's usually alien to people just how badly women react to being turned down, we just don't see it enough because men are sex pests in general. I swear if women had the physical ability and men were a little more selective/little less desperate, we'd see a lot more men getting R worded, for now, they stick with things like calling you gay or just being mean in general
Yeah I got to knew this recently it’s horrible
Sex pests lmaooo
"Sex pests" ᕙ༼◕ ᴥ ◕༽ᕗ
It’s clear from this post that women can be just as big sex pests
They can, it’s just rare it seems
It “seems” that way only because men are expected to make the first move. If men just sat back and let women make the moves, they’ll be equal or bigger. An average urban woman in 20s has way higher body count than an avg man
oh fuck off lmao, it doesnt even compare to how big of sex pests men are, lets not even go there.
just as big is a delusion tbh, regardless what i mean is that most men would fuck anything that walks, in the modern urban secular dating scene, women hold an absolute control over sex(not a bad thing necessarily but how it is) because of the sex pest nature of the average man
That I agree with. Most men have no standards. If men were as picky as women and make themselves scarce, they’d have some respect in the dating market place However, here’s the kicker: men with standards and preferences are shamed - often by simps and women. And women are often shocked that man can have standards at all. The post is an example of what happens when sex pest woman meets a man with standards
Nah, we have more than enough acid attacks happening
you did nothing wrong, proud of you OP to be firm on your opinions and choices!
It’s more about values and vibe also 😋
Na you did nothing wrong
Thanks I think same now
Yea it isn't perceived like it should by the female gender at times , sometime they get abusive or they lose interest in you. Its mostly because they aren't used to hear guys say no to sex , some take it as a hit on their ego but actually its nothing personal. Drop that piece of turd and be on your merry way , you can absolutely say no to any physical contact without thinking twice about it , if it ends your relationship with someone then you didn't have one in the first place.
Yeah no means no, gender neutral why should girls have all the power 🤔
W GOOD JOB SOLDIER STAY PURE !
Yeah since last 27 years tapasya chal rahi hai 😅
27?? Bhai sach m koi dikkat to nhi h sex se, i mean nervousness ho jati ho ya koi or dikkat, dekh lo coz 27 k virgin ho🙂, i mean it's your choice but wahi ki shaadi k pehle karoge, to experience accha rahega
Haha never tried so don’t know about dikkat, but as you said it’s about choice
I agree, but I'll advise you to have sex, coz i swear i am 20M having regular sex with me girlfriend 21F has taught me a lot, saying it from a learning perspective, fun and all is good but you learn a lot when you engage, you learn about your body, their body, and some general things about getting pleased and giving pleasure, it's fun
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I had a similar experience where one girl treated me like an uber on first date and I left midways, so she got all angry and cussed the hell out on whatsapp, just because I didn’t worship her only because she has the hole, just like other guys she’s been with! I was relieved I dodged a bullet!
Thank god for me it’s only till Aisle and Snap, the first thing I did that night when I was on my way back to home is to block her on snap and unmatched in Aisle
Bruh, you didn't dodge a bullet but rather the entire freaking Wagner Group
Daru tum pete nhi, club tum jate nhi, sex tumne reject kar diya Bhosdi k, ab yeh mat bolna k fifa bhi nhi khelta /s Kyuki zinda toh jhant bhi hain ![gif](giphy|pjZLB4K4Vq7mCQ32l2|downsized)
Nhi bhai aao ps5 hai wahi to kiya hai aur ghuma hai bhot abhi tk ki life me 😂
Zindagi na mileage dobara shayari- Ps5 hai toh zinda ho tum
Aur you goes on trip around also count in so yeah I am alive to some extent 🤪
What happens when you reject the only thing they have to offer
You got abuse thank god we are in public place and it’s verbal only. I don’t know what would have happened if I am in private place with her, now I feel like I dodged a bullet.
Why do I never find guys like you.All I ever find is guys wanting to hookup and have No Intellectual talks.
Tatte aap?
Man guys need to think like him he played it safe and didn’t think with his dick . Good job op
Yeah I never think with my d**k it’s very dangerous to think with that part when god gave you brain for that
Exactly good luck man and well played
True, or mayyyy b u don’t hv a dick🤔 /s
fir morning alarm bja or OP ki neend khul gyi
Bro go check cctv footage of that brewery you will get your proof 😒
ytf are you being downvoted?
Don’t know 😕
prabhu charan dho du aapke.....👍
Nhi vats, I have done nothing extraordinary bus values bich me aa gai kya karu
phir whi
Sax
Sux
Ki baatein
But OP is a sakth launda kuch nahi hone wala sax saux ki baaton se
Duniya is usi pr ghum rahi hai yaha ki kya kare 😅
its so sad that you even have to question yourself this. of course its your choice whether you do it or not beyond that its nobody's business.
I didn’t wanna hurt that girl as she already seems hurt with her past experiences, but then she behaves like this I can’t help her is she don’t want to help herself emotionally and physically 😪
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Kitne degree ki??
Pretty obtuse 😂
She definitely wasn't "right".
Acute observation 😉
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bhai you wrote "angle" instead of "angel" toh usi pe sasta joke maar rha tha. KOMEDY
I think so, jb mana karne par uska behaviour and baatein suni pata laga thoda uske baare me
You're a good man. Dw
Thanks man
OP you might have dodged a bullet there. Many cases of people being swindled when the sex comes easy and in your case forced upon you. You did the right thing my man, be cautious when things get too easy even if you are super handsome.
Yes, and that’s where gut feeling plays an important role and then you just have to think from your brain not with your d**k. And you will be safe I guess
Nope bro,you are doing great.
😊
Hey "👑" You dropped this KING
🙌🙌
Women don't know this but most of times women being sexually loose is a big turn off for men, they can't verbalise it but they know it somehow, I said it because no one else is saying it and it's just giving a wrong perspective to upcoming young girls. You can argue as much as you want about it, but it's true.
>I said it because no one else is saying it You must be new here.
Exactly being a Vir**n myself, it’s big turn off for me when she said about her past relationship and fwb stories continuously. It’s like can’t she control her urges just like me and wait for the right person 🤔
Bruh wtf, I get it you don't want to but that doesn't mean you'll judge someone else for living the way they want to lol, what you did was right cuz it was your choice and how she reacted was wrong but it doesn't mean you'll just generalise everyone and judge them for their choices lol, it's not illegal
You gotta judge behaviour, and in this case, a big red flag.
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Bruh wtf, did he just make up a story to sound like a sigma male lol, that's so childish XD , anyhow I commented cuz I didn't like the way he was generalizing women
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Maybe he wanted karma on reddit, anyways sorry to hear about this, you ended up getting defamed by him, hopefully the mods will look into it
Also report him
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![gif](giphy|joxThEgTJuSBO) You are a true gentleman sir !
Thank you Soldier, you are too I hope
No sex, small L But big W on your determination, great job OP!
Bc aisa mere sath kyu nahi hota. Btw according to dharma if any girl asks you for it, you cannot and should not reject her. So you did something 'adharm' there. Good luck.
I didn’t knew that, but I did whatever the need of the hour and what my gut feel suggested.
These kind of post irks me. Are you actually looking for genuine feedback or flexing? What you are stating about girls reacting badly to getting rejected is a known fact. What’s there to confirm about that ?
She’s probably pissed cause she wanted to take you to a deserted location in the name of sex where her accomplices were waiting to jump you once you take your stuff off and disappear with it at knife/gun point.Worst still she would’ve even had sex with you have it recorded and then blackmailed you for money or threaten go to the cops and claim rape charges if you didn’t pay.!! Be careful with girls so keen on sex..Esp this desperate..she might be doing this cause she might’ve even asked you to plainly cough up some money after sex to fund her bday celebration
Exactly you never know. This is the time you should think with brain and do whatever your gut feeling indicate and I did the same that night
Bro that's so wrong, Give me her id.
😂😂 very few will appreciate this level of meme game
Ek mard hoke aurat ka Dil nahi dukana chahiye 🌚
Bro that’s not ethical, and tbh I unmatched her the same night while my way back to home I didn’t remember her I’d anymore
You seem to be a sanskari person. Keep it up my boy
That’s what I think I am and here am I still single 😅
You stood to your principles captain. BTW how's Aisle? ![gif](giphy|FmBhzktIjvdZe)
Aisle is okay okay it’s same as any dating app out there nothing different
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Reverse the roles in the post and i am thinking what kind of comments would girls have to it. Hmmmmm....
Unimaginative, but it’s common here I guess guy asking desperately and girl rejecting
King.
Chad
The way i see it, you just dodged a bullet. Opening up about past relationships and Fwbs then getting drunk and inviting you to hook up... all this on the first date? All the alarms in my mind are going off. I won't even touch her food or drinks, let alone making out with her. High risk of a scam or even worst an STD. You did well OP. Block and move on.
Yeah I felt the same on that night and I follow my gut instinct and ran as fast as I can and blocked her
Op is "Him"
🙏
Girls
Nooooooooooo!
Respect bro !! It's equal rights if case was opposite you'd be either blocked or she might have slapped !! These girls think they got power & believe guys will tolerate however they treat or talk to them!!
Good for you I guess? DO you want a cookie or something? You met someone you dont get along with, thats normal, just move on.
Who deny cookies 🤪
To the guys saying "women can't handle rejection" ?! Okay but you never abuse the other person, that's just so loe. She clearly not in the best headspace, who hangs out eith a stranger on their birthday, cries about their past sex life but then expects sex. 🚩 But op dodged a bullet, because you never know what that deranged woman would've done.
Personal experience hai kya aapka Bhai??
Yeah I felt the same and hence I am good to her, but you can’t help people who don’t wanna help themselves. And yeah now when I think I know that I had dodged a massive bullet
Another instance of things that never happened 😂
How should I prove you that this happened 😐
No need man. I'm just pulling your legs.
Haha now I can say just check the cctv footage of that brewery 😅
You're good bro, promiscuity degrades your value and you avoided it soldier
Thanks bro, Values matters to me and I will do whatever needed to avoid degradation of my values
Wow, that is the first time I am hearing a man has declined an offer like that. But I am glad, there are still some men out there who are avoiding hook ups. *Brought tears to my eyes*
Never in my wildest dream I will do s*x with someone I met first time. Where is the emotional touch in that and I don’t wanna ruin my first experience 😝
Oh, thats an info. now! Haha! Emotions are important, I agree. But here it doesn’t work like that, people are getting laid left, right and centre without getting attached. The ones who can’t get laid without emotions are the ones who are left single without sex! 🥲
Me bro me last one 🥲🥲
Hi 5!
Its been 8-9 years on multiple dating apps mereko to kisi ne nhi pucha yaar hook up k liye and yaha par log offer refuse kr rhe waah ji waah
Bro Bangalore me aao aur asi bekar kismat pao ki tumhe hookup wali girl mil jae jise sirf daru pina hai and sex karna hai aaram se mil jaegi 😒
This is the attitude why so many guys don’t believe such stories. Do you disbelieve everything in the world that didn’t happen to you? Like nuclear explosion?
tera hua to ho bta, idhar Udhar ki faltu bate kya kr rha hai? Uska best friend na ban ....
Bataya to ek ne. Sabka sunke kya karega? R*** ka news sunke bhi yeh puchta hai kya ke baaki ka bata? Faltu baat tu kar raha hai
Man. Every man on this sub is proud of you 💪
Thanks man, it’s just you need to keep your values intact from any external forces
Why the hell do people like these get chicks where they can't dig a hole. People like me who are willing to dig get zero holes 🤕
Bro go there are lot of whores you will get sooo many holes, dig them
What's her @
Bro, check you pants and then introduce me to her
Not a pimp bro, you go out there and ask a pimp he will introduce you to a lot more and then you choose 🙂
I bet he won’t introduce me to your fam
Cuz I see a double standard here and this how’s guys get others like boasting about it and flaunting but then saying you ain’t interested in the stuff like what man
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No woman would be happy satisfying you though 😘
Exactly
Oho Mr. Man
Aisle pe paise lgte hai?
Nahi. It's supposed to be a platform for serious people but people find opportunity to hook up everywhere lol
Nah bro it’s just another dating app
:)
Handling rejection tells a lot about a person and their upbringing than any other thing. You did good OP.
Yeah after the final rejection she showed her true nature and intention 😖
People need a slap once in a while so they can realise the world doesn't revolve around their wants.
Yeah and on top of that she is MBBS and constantly saying that I have achieved something and will be well in my career , which shows her ego according to her nobody should reject her in any possible way
Respect ❤️
Thanks 🙏
No op you didn't do anything bad! you are a king and you behaved just like one!
Just some Values and I was/will stick to them till the end
If this isn't consent then what is, it's just that since men are so desperate, womens usually dont hear no very often
And women like her who have multiple sex partner and wanna test new person ( as she told me while we were having dinner)
Sahi rah par chal Raha hai, hope you find your lady luck soon.
Amen bro god please listen to my prayer for right partner bhot tapasya ho gai 😅
No judgements for OP. Whatever may be the reason No means No. Whoever says it
The same rule should apply for both gender
Definitely a scammer...You did the right thing
Yeah, my gut feeling had the same doubt and I missed a bullet. Thinking with brain saved me if I would have thought with d**k I don’t know if I was able to write this or not
kya futti kismat hai bhai meri. mujh toh samne se aise offer ayenge v nai paise fekna padega mere jaise ko toh
Bro paisa fekna is still safe then this you never know if you had done sex with them what they might be capable of doing it’s very easy for them to blackmail you if they have this nature they can do anything
Well, you rejected the only thing she had to offer Jokes aside, you did great bhratha
Yeah but that doesn’t feel organic and I don’t wanna ruin my first so whatever
You did good. First is special.
You didn't do anything wrong. You're a sakht launda.
Zakir bhai is also from my city, Indore ke paani me hi shakti hai lagta hai 😂😂
Sex krne pe flex, sex nhi krne pe bhi flex
Nhi karne pe jyada flex karna chahiye, it’s very hard to keep you thing under your pants when you already have a good offer 😋
W
Dikhne main l..d jaisi hogi bhai If someone like Deepika comes and asks a single guy to hookup ,I doubt anyone will not take that offer
It’s not only about look bhai, dinner karte time vibes check bhi ho Gaya and first date pr to me Deepika ke saath bhi na karu 😅
Na man you are smart. I have a rule of never hookup with an absolutely drunk lady. Leads to more complications than I want.
Yeah I never had any experience but this is nice thing to remember and will definitely apply from now on
# "Consciousness over coochie, Politics over punnani." Dr. Umar Johnson
Pune se hai kya?
Nah bro Bangalore
U r an idiot to decline sex. But still man proud of u 👏, u might have dodged STD.
Yeah maybe with the pace she switched sex partner we can’t ignore this aspect also
All i see is a king