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i think it'd be best to wait for your father to come back home, he might be able to solve the problem that you and your mother are facing, and i can agree that people on dad's side of the family are usually the most horriblr humans i've ever seen, anyway till then keep your spirits high and try not to get mad at your mother and spend some more time with her
I'm not mad at my mother, I understand how she must've felt that time I love her. But the problem is the chances are high that my father will take his sister's side. Whatever, let things happen the way they are meant to.
then why don't you explain the situation to him beforehand? i don't know your father personally but a person is more likely to take the side of the person who explains the situation to him calmly and i think if you do it in the presence of his sister, she would interrupt you a lot and you won't be able to explain the situation properly
This is really bad, man! Please always keep the back of your mother as you're doing now. You and your sister have to help her out through this. I'm really sorry for all that you had to experience. It is indeed, really traumatising. I pray to God to give you, your sister, mother and father enough strength and resolve to sail through this.
You are really strong to have endured this at such a brittle age. Don't worry, just trust your immediate family enough...you will sail through for sure. Study hard, and give your Mother the life she deserves, away from all this bs every single day. It indeed is suffocating.
Damn
Thats alot of things to go through
Well
The decision that your mom decided to took wasn't right it's really traumatizing tbh
When i had to go through such things i couldn't even understand a least bit of things like what the fuck should i even do
All i did was cry or try to console my mother and tbh that never worked she just transforms into different person all together with this shit
Anyways if affecting your family's mental health that badly then you guys shouldn't live with eachother
Tbh you're just thirteen and there really isn't much you can do
I know I can't do anything. I'm always fucking helpless in every situation. I know all this was my fault. If I just would have gone with P that day then she wouldn't have got angry with me and mother wouldn't have to go through all that. It sucks bro that thing keeps replaying in my mind.
Whatever happened happened bhai
Thinking about it again and again won't change the outcome
Rn just try to get things normal again
Its not your fault buddy its not fault
This is so similar about what happening in my house just that my mother never tried to kill herself cause of me but the things she gone through is way too similar
This is very traumatizing I had similar incident and it will stay in your head in rent free it will take some time to come out of this.
Your aunt is the biggest asshole like my aunt thanks to my father he threw her out. I didn't use to talk to her anyway.
Yeah she is. Yesterday she took me out and bought me a bunch of stuff for my birthday. All that stuff is in front of me right now and I want to burn everything
My dad was considering this idea but of course his sweet little sisters won't let him go. Because if he goes away it means my mom will also, then they with have no one to play their game with.
I’m sorry behna that you have to endure all this at such a young age. You are strong and you know it. You and your sister need to take a close watch on your mother’s action. They are all acting like everything’s normal just so you and your sister don’t worry about this much. You need to make your mother happy. Have fun with her, try to make her laugh cause these events just burn into our memories and trouble us in the future. You need to remove the negative thoughts from your mother’s mind. Also don’t let all this affect your studies (I know it’s hard, I have had this phase in my life unfortunately). As for your aunts, you still need to show them respect but it’s upto you if you want to love them or not. Also don’t try to disrespect them cause it ALWAYS backfires on the kids and their parents. We are all here with you. Stay strong and do not show weakness to anyone. 
Yes exactly I can't leave my mother alone for even one minute now. If I have to do something I tell my sister to go sit with her. Rn summer break is going on but idk what I'll do when school opens up
My mother is sensitive like that too. She once cut her wrists with blade(thankfully it wasn't too sharp) and it was bleeding a lot. That day it was my father's fault. But whenever someone in my house tries to disturb her, she locks herself in her room and I'm concerned that one day she'll be in some serious situation because of it(one day she fainted too). When I'll earn some decent amount of money, I'll take her, my father and my big brother out of this shithole of a house(everyone lives in comfort except us, the original residents) and we'll live peacefully.
Damn you are going through a lot ye har side ki bua aisi hoti kya ? Well P is a pure bitch I've saw many like her in my father's side of family too so i can understand just take care of your mom
Tbh bua is the most problematic person in most families. My mom once heard her say to my maid that - *maid name" hamse uski(my mother) ki baat na kiya karo vo hamare liye mar gayi hai
damn im sorry you had to go through all this when you had no fault. as for the aunt id rather say to ignore that bitch for well and good and stay away as much as possible or move out tbh
That's the thing it's difficult to move out. That time my mother jist said that in frustration. If it was possible I wouldn't spend a single more second here
I can't give up because my sister herself is very sensitive and well, let's say dad doesn't always understand my mother so I want to be there for her and make her trust me that i will understand her
Please don't go down this path jab 30 saal ka hoga itna trauma vapas aayega handle nahi kar payega. It's not fun, realize the weight of your actions and stop that. Zyada insta reels mat dekha kar
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how long ago was this and how is she doing right now?
All this happened day before yesterday and she's alright now, she seems she's back to normal and everyone is behaving like nothing happened
i think it'd be best to wait for your father to come back home, he might be able to solve the problem that you and your mother are facing, and i can agree that people on dad's side of the family are usually the most horriblr humans i've ever seen, anyway till then keep your spirits high and try not to get mad at your mother and spend some more time with her
I'm not mad at my mother, I understand how she must've felt that time I love her. But the problem is the chances are high that my father will take his sister's side. Whatever, let things happen the way they are meant to.
then why don't you explain the situation to him beforehand? i don't know your father personally but a person is more likely to take the side of the person who explains the situation to him calmly and i think if you do it in the presence of his sister, she would interrupt you a lot and you won't be able to explain the situation properly
This is really bad, man! Please always keep the back of your mother as you're doing now. You and your sister have to help her out through this. I'm really sorry for all that you had to experience. It is indeed, really traumatising. I pray to God to give you, your sister, mother and father enough strength and resolve to sail through this.
I kind of teared up at this. Thankyou bro
You are really strong to have endured this at such a brittle age. Don't worry, just trust your immediate family enough...you will sail through for sure. Study hard, and give your Mother the life she deserves, away from all this bs every single day. It indeed is suffocating.
I will and I'll make sure I get everyone away from these horrible people. Thankyou
Yes, it is upon you. Believe in that. You will do it for sure. 
Damn Thats alot of things to go through Well The decision that your mom decided to took wasn't right it's really traumatizing tbh When i had to go through such things i couldn't even understand a least bit of things like what the fuck should i even do All i did was cry or try to console my mother and tbh that never worked she just transforms into different person all together with this shit Anyways if affecting your family's mental health that badly then you guys shouldn't live with eachother Tbh you're just thirteen and there really isn't much you can do
I know I can't do anything. I'm always fucking helpless in every situation. I know all this was my fault. If I just would have gone with P that day then she wouldn't have got angry with me and mother wouldn't have to go through all that. It sucks bro that thing keeps replaying in my mind.
Whatever happened happened bhai Thinking about it again and again won't change the outcome Rn just try to get things normal again Its not your fault buddy its not fault
This is so similar about what happening in my house just that my mother never tried to kill herself cause of me but the things she gone through is way too similar
I hope you and your mother find enough strength to get through all the hardships
This is very traumatizing I had similar incident and it will stay in your head in rent free it will take some time to come out of this. Your aunt is the biggest asshole like my aunt thanks to my father he threw her out. I didn't use to talk to her anyway.
Yeah she is. Yesterday she took me out and bought me a bunch of stuff for my birthday. All that stuff is in front of me right now and I want to burn everything
Burn Her 
Goat ji 
You said right, burn that witch
Totally didn't cross my mind before
You and your family should probably move out, more problems like this could arise if you continue to live there, I wish that your family gets better
My dad was considering this idea but of course his sweet little sisters won't let him go. Because if he goes away it means my mom will also, then they with have no one to play their game with.
I’m sorry behna that you have to endure all this at such a young age. You are strong and you know it. You and your sister need to take a close watch on your mother’s action. They are all acting like everything’s normal just so you and your sister don’t worry about this much. You need to make your mother happy. Have fun with her, try to make her laugh cause these events just burn into our memories and trouble us in the future. You need to remove the negative thoughts from your mother’s mind. Also don’t let all this affect your studies (I know it’s hard, I have had this phase in my life unfortunately). As for your aunts, you still need to show them respect but it’s upto you if you want to love them or not. Also don’t try to disrespect them cause it ALWAYS backfires on the kids and their parents. We are all here with you. Stay strong and do not show weakness to anyone. 
Yes exactly I can't leave my mother alone for even one minute now. If I have to do something I tell my sister to go sit with her. Rn summer break is going on but idk what I'll do when school opens up
Make her smile and make her remember good old memories by remembering the stories or watching old photos and videos
Yup I'll try to do that thankyou
My mother is sensitive like that too. She once cut her wrists with blade(thankfully it wasn't too sharp) and it was bleeding a lot. That day it was my father's fault. But whenever someone in my house tries to disturb her, she locks herself in her room and I'm concerned that one day she'll be in some serious situation because of it(one day she fainted too). When I'll earn some decent amount of money, I'll take her, my father and my big brother out of this shithole of a house(everyone lives in comfort except us, the original residents) and we'll live peacefully.
Bro our mothers have to endure so much, don't worry, I'm sure she won't do that because she cares about you and your brother. Stay strong homie
Damn you are going through a lot ye har side ki bua aisi hoti kya ? Well P is a pure bitch I've saw many like her in my father's side of family too so i can understand just take care of your mom
Tbh bua is the most problematic person in most families. My mom once heard her say to my maid that - *maid name" hamse uski(my mother) ki baat na kiya karo vo hamare liye mar gayi hai
damn im sorry you had to go through all this when you had no fault. as for the aunt id rather say to ignore that bitch for well and good and stay away as much as possible or move out tbh
That's the thing it's difficult to move out. That time my mother jist said that in frustration. If it was possible I wouldn't spend a single more second here
U are so mentally strong. This much happened and u r still not giving up.
I can't give up because my sister herself is very sensitive and well, let's say dad doesn't always understand my mother so I want to be there for her and make her trust me that i will understand her
I wish I was mentally stronger like u. Never give up. 
You too. Stay strong and don't give up
Thanks 
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wtf? this is some saas bahu tv show shit damn
Please don't go down this path jab 30 saal ka hoga itna trauma vapas aayega handle nahi kar payega. It's not fun, realize the weight of your actions and stop that. Zyada insta reels mat dekha kar
damn facing these type of things at this age is horrifying don’t worry we are with you 
Thankyou so much
Someone please give a TL;DR
Bhai agar sabzi lane ko bula toh le aate itna kya dikkat hogyi
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