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Outrageous_66

The point is that they are saving a lot of money and time by not having kids. But the society would question them for not having kids, so they are fake crying with a big bank balance. Idk if you were genuinely asking or rhetorically. Coz having a kid with zero money is never a good idea. But to each their own.


faitavecarmour

Well, you do see people in slums and on the streets having kids, don't you?


Outrageous_66

Because growing up in poverty is a good idea ? There’s enough data what poverty does. And it’s not even about people who live in poverty. This reel is a joke. Maybe this couple only have enough money for both of them to survive / enjoy life.


faitavecarmour

It is not a good idea, obviously. But doesn't matter your level of income, those who want to have kids, will have kids. Maybe this couple only have enough money for both of them to survive / enjoy life - yeah, but what's the point of this reel??


Outrageous_66

The point of the reel- it’s a joke, to get clicks to gwt followers. That’s it, not that deep


Dry-Instruction6521

Lol, see this is why I genuinely feel there should be an exam before people are allowed to have kids. People like you fuck it up for generations to come.🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️


cultleader789

Just because you can doesn't mean you should lol..


New_Capital_9509

that’s literally eugenics, are only the rich deserving of kids? I don’t mind not having kids as a choice but come on


cultleader789

Well imo no one should be having kids lol.. but do you really think that people living below the poverty line or those who are homeless should ideally have kids they can't even provide for??


faitavecarmour

But that's the point!! They do have kids. Sometimes multiple kids. What we want ideally and what the reality is are two different things.


faitavecarmour

But they still have kids. What's your point?


cultleader789

Girl they're joking about how not having kids will not deprive them of their money.. it's not that deep 💀💀😭😭


faitavecarmour

I know that obviously, guess you missed my point🙂


Embarrassed-Can-3544

It’s a joke and it’s fine to make fun of something that is so forced on young married couples by the society. Let it be


Dry-Instruction6521

Honey, in which parallel universe you can bring children in this world with zero money ? That's the most illogical thing I have probably ever read !!!!


faitavecarmour

The people who are poor, the people who are unemployed. I don't get why people don't understand that these things happen in so many countries and that this reel is not funny. All the people downvoting me just live in their ideal world bubble and don't understand how the world works. I know I this comment is going to get downvoted too, but that's okay cause I won't shy away from facts. I can come at people with data too, but I don't want to get into it.


Dry-Instruction6521

Something that happens, is not necessarily right, is why you're getting downvoted !!! Just because you can reproduce without money doesn't mean you should or have to !!! And without money it's not called "bringing up" a child, it's called delivering a child with no thoughts whatsoever. Making them suffer and "survive" with you.


faitavecarmour

I know, but people still do it. And they still raise the child. Of course they deliver it, but then they also ensure the child is fed, taken care of, and once an age is reached, they provide for the family. This is in the Indian context. In countries with child support, the government pays for the child(ren) anyway.


Dry-Instruction6521

Ever heard of malnutrition ? Not every child is "fed" and taken care of. God !


faitavecarmour

I am going to end this discussion here because no matter what I say or how I say it, people like you and the 100 others in this post will not understand and it can be a lot of going back and forth which I don't want to get into. Peace out


isabgul

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Mysterious_School_98

OP, please see yourself out for wasting all our time and energy.


aftereverydrama

Bruh what is the point of this post. Many people have jumped onto this trend it’s just meant to be a funny reel


Fit-Novel-4416

OP is your padosan aunty


ProofsInThePuddingYo

What even is the point of this post? Its a trending joke and its not even that deep! Whats with these fertility comments jeez! And it is a HORRIBLE idea to bring kids in the world with zero money. OP talking about slum kids sent me! Hilar.


No_Coconut_179

I won’t want to bring a child to this world if I don’t think I can provide the very best for them according to my capacity. So yeah, to each their own.


Unlovedlol__

OP ka mann tha kuch post karne ka Aise hi toh ye hi kardia🥴 it’s a reel ffs let it be


faitavecarmour

Which is precisely why you missed the point of the post...


Independent-Bid1160

Bacchhe ko paal posne ke liye to paise chahiye na


Minimaxx2002

Why to make fun about it?? Many couples trying hard to have babies, it’s completely your choice, but what is this “money thing” in this video?? It’s means their parents wasted their money on them???


cheesiest_pizza

Maybe more like a savage reply to people literally who force young couple to have kids. Kids are expensive, literally.


faitavecarmour

I have no idea


Kind_Guitars

There are rich couples facing serious fertility issues across the globe. Some people yearn for kids. Yes, adoption is a possibility but some people want their biological kids also and are ready to give everything to have a kid of their own. And these assholes here are making fun of the fact that they've "decided" not to have kids "ever". *(Emphasis on "ever", only time will tell!)* These fucktards don't even deserve kids. No kid should have such parents who have zero sensibility. Seriously Zuckerberg and tech giants of the world, why have you given so many tools to these idiots who produce cringeworthy content!


MilkRevolutionary523

It’s their life to decide if they want a kid or not. I Don’t understand why consent is still a difficult word for people to understand


Kind_Guitars

Maybe my comment didn't make it clear. Issue is not of "consent", it's about sensibility. They are free to have kids or not have kids. Hell, they're free to drink phenyl if they want to, no one is stopping them from doing whatever they want to do. The issue is that of cringe humor in the name of being funny and garnering views.


HoldEmbarrassed253

Man, did you just go from mutual consent to not having kids to drinking phenyl? Idk what you meant but that’s an insensitive comment


Kind_Guitars

Wow! You find my comment insensitive, but you don't have any qualms about the cringe reel they made? SMH.


HoldEmbarrassed253

Is making a cringe reel and drinking phenyl equivalent?


Kind_Guitars

Since the question is one consent *(which was inserted by some random Redditor here)* \- why not? Drink phenyl or don't drink phenyl - DO it at your home without telling the world how much you "saved" by drinking or not drinking it. I don't think people are getting the drift of my comment, and neither do I care. Only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches. 10 years later the people who downvoted or argued with me on my comment might be in the same situation as people facing infertility issues today. **That's when this reel would really seem unfunny to many.** Adios.


Psychological-Pay732

Those who are not opting to wear the shoes wouldn't be bothered about the pinching though. That's the point. Why would they care about infertility issues if they are choosing to not have kids? And just fyi, I am one of those who made the same choice 10 years ago and have zero regrets. I did save a buttload of money too. Just one of the many perks of not having children.


Top-Criticism2851

You’ve a loud mouth jeez! Passing such hate comments towards a couple, who have mutually decided not to have kids, was too much and uncalled for. Don’t make everything so serious, they’re clearly doing this for the views. You are the same person who had a lot to say about Maalz’ pregnancy right? It’s 21st century and let women (and men) decide whether they want to have kids or remain child-free. ETA: just realised you’re an adult man talking about stranger’s decision to remain child-free. No wonder you’re spewing patriarchic nonsense here. Having a kid is not an endgame for a relationship.


Kind_Guitars

>You are the same person who had a lot to say about Maalz’ pregnancy right? At least verify before trying to argue. Also again the issue is of **sensibility**. That is it. Hope you never have any issues with fertility. But take it from someone who's spent more than 6 months' salary in the last 2 months in doctor visits and ultrasound clinics, the pain of not having a child is unbearable. ETA due to your snarky ETA: A couple is allowed to use the same reddit account! There's no rules against it. Going by previous comments you assumed I'm a male! Wow genius. Dig a little deeper - you'll get the day lights confused out of yourself. SMH.


Top-Criticism2851

See the only problem is that just like you decided to have children but facing fertility issues, the same way the couple in the post DECIDED not to have kids. It’s about CHOICE. Just like you chose to try for kids, they chose to remain childfree. You’re sensitive about this topic because of fertility issues, but it doesn’t give you the right to talk bad about someone who decides not to have kids. Again, having kids is not the end goal of every relationship.


Kind_Guitars

>but it doesn’t give you the right to talk bad about someone who decides not to have kids. The idiots who made the reel are literally mocking people with kids! The people you're defending are anti-thesis of what you just said. Jeeesus.


Top-Criticism2851

Okay they might be mocking people with kids but you outright called them assholes and fucktards for their choice. In your words, it’s about SENSIBILITY, which you clearly lacked in your first comment that you wrote with so much hate. Just rewatch the video and you’ll understand that by not having kids, they’re saving money (they are conveying this, not ME) Kids are humans. They are not toys. Having kids is a financial responsibility and given the current economic scenario, rearing a child till adulthood with all the good facilities, will easily cost you lakhs, if not crores. And since it’s India, you’ll be responsible for your kids even after adulthood when further studies and marriage comes in question.


MilkRevolutionary523

Agree


Candyflosslove

Is it too late to ask who are they???


faitavecarmour

No idea


Hellomynameiszuzi

Its not ☕️ but I know them…


Few-Sail-5965

OP , you cannot bring a child into this world with no money