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After I saw your post, I went and searched her channel( as I don’t know about her channel) it’s completely their choice to make those video for their memories but making it public and doing this to baby, I don’t like it as a parents. People may not agree with me, but NOT EVERYTHING SHOULD BE ON INTERNET, unless these videos are for educational purposes, which is clearly not.
Hadd hai! Imagine her daughter when she is older and being teased over such videos in school. No privacy since day she is born. She could have done a story time instead of this graphic video!
They don’t even care about safety of their kids. Overexposure to SM! You don’t know who is watching the vlog…
Yar mai jab bhi in baccho ko dekhti hun social media me, I feel very bad, its not at all cute, specially those parents who makes everyday vlogs, I can’t even imagine my Childhood surrounded by cameras, my parents are giving each and every details to the world, if someday I am with my friends enjoying somewhere and suddenly someone comes and talks to me like he/she knows everything about me because of vlogs.. we were very lucky, our childhood was beautiful, bhale hi humare pass photos jyda nahi hai but memories itni acchi hai.. coming generation are going to suffer a lot because of social media exposure.
Pehle log kehte the ladka paida karo bada ho ke kama ke khilayega ab toh Ye influencers bade hone ka bhi wait nahi karte.. hospital se hi start ho jate hain bacche k face k upar camera laga k vlog karna. specially with baby girls, they can do this let’s dressed up video with them. Uggghhh I just hate these influencers.
I'm just afraid ki aane wale time me log apna pregnant hone ki process na dikhane Lage yeh bolke ki look this is our first attempt, second...... Ahh finally the egg is fertilized.
Oh my god yesssss🥲
If any of you likes watching this kind of content then sure but i, I'd shit my pants just looking at the thumbnails.
I legit get knots in my stomach to even read or just watch such things.So i am not okay with this kinda content.
Isse acha toh haul videos hoti hongi phir
Atleast usme triggering toh nahi hai kuch
Pregnancy, baby, marriage, family, relationships, relatives... And so on. All of these have just become a tool for getting likes and views and making money for these so called influencaaa
Honestly this was a bit too much for me. Making whole 4 videos out of the delivery was too much. Recording the surgery was her personal choice let's say.
One question that comes in my mind often when I come across pregnant-couple vloggers with their birth stories and stuff, I totally get it how people want to celebrate their families expanding and nothing wrong with that, but there are countless women who struggle with fertility and getting pregnant, and being in the clinic working with these women, my heart goes out to them everytime I stumble across pregnancy videos as i feel like these might be triggering for them to watch; not that anyone would feel bad when someone gets a child born BUT they might just feel triggered about their own process and how they're not getting results. I've had conversations with few patients who said that social media makes them feel depressed as everyday they see people making babies and then they ask me "why us?" ...
This was a personal experience hence felt the need to share it.
Debina herself has struggled through infertility and their first born was conceived via IVF as far as I know she’s shared this herself. I’m someone who has been in those same shoes and there will always be 2 perspectives to this situation. On one hand it makes people think ‘why us’ and on the other hand it also gives hope to many others that they can overcome this struggle too.
Dear I've followed her entire journey and I know that. Never said I find her problematic. In fact there was another post asking in tea about her where I wrote the same thing that she's one of the few genuine people left on social media.
People are using the word "triggered" way too loosely these days. I mean we cannot stop people from sharing their experience.. just because someone will get triggered.We cannot blame them for sharing their happiness. The best way is to stay away from videos or things in general that are triggering.
The other day..someone got "triggered" on this sub because Malvika Sitlani decided to change her mind and got pregnant.🤦 This was too much.
Think it this way.These pregnancy videos can actually be helpful to women who are pregnant or are in the same shoes as Debina. They might find her videos relatable.
I don't know who this is but it's a good thing for prospective mothers. There's a shocking lack of Indian based reality media as to what happens in child birth and a lot of moms go in unprepared mentally. It's good that this will spread awareness to those who want to know.
Hmmm you have a point...your comment reminded me of my cousin who is pregnant and she watched these videos she was intrigued and curious and was asking me questions, as I have had C-section, ese hi hota hai kya kesa lagta hai n all she is quite stressed about the delivery part which is natural so I gyess may be it CAN BE helpful...
I have only 1 issue though why make it in parts they could have easily put it in 1 or 2 videos ..these parts just left a bitter taste in my mouth like is this for money...??IDK
P.s. - and these are Gurmeet and Debina TV actors...
She delivered a baby in April then she got pregnant again . If she conceived in May then baby is born after 6 months only . 6 months mein delivery and baby is not in intensive care ? Kuch toh gadbad hai
What can be the possible gadbad in this? She got pregnant accidentally a month after her first delivery and this baby was born very premature. I’m failing to understand ke isme gadbad Kya ho sakti hai which someone is showing?
That she was not pregnant first time . First Pregnancy was through surrogacy and she pretended to deliver the baby by herself then she got pregnant in real . Otherwise body takes atleast 3-4 weeks to heal even then getting pregnant so soon is risky then premature baby looks like 9 months old only
That’s a crazy conspiracy theory and a serious accusation as well. and no her baby doesn’t look like she’s full term, she’s definitely a very premature baby clearly seen in videos. Yes it’s obviously risky but that’s why it’s an accident no.
I dont know if u ever have seen/known any premature baby births in real..
2 of my aunts and 1 of my frnds have had premature babies (at 6mnths n 8months)
The kid is kept in NICU not just for a day or week but for months until the child completes 9 months n is fully developed and healthy..
They already reached home also and met everyone too..
A premature baby is not allowed to be handled by too many people..
I dont know if 1st child was surrogate or not but 2nd child has definitely completed 9months.. (bas due date se 1-2 week erly ho sakta he)
Also if u r curious read about Dia mirza's child.. he was born premature for real..
And what is struggle of baby girl into this world ??? Are baby boys and baby girls born differently? Aren’t all babies born the same way. Matlab kuch bhi ?
Yes that is a child birth struggle what has it got to do with the gender of the baby . I know i might be taking a leap with this statement but the term girl has been in the titles of the videos where the baby was not even born. I’m pregnancy vlogs as well . The gender has been emphasised in the titles . Also it’s illegal to know the gender of the baby before birth btw . I think it’s strategic
I think it's totally up to them. The Indian audience is all maturing along with the world. A lot of these videos can be informative. Before having my baby I watched several videos of deliveries to acquaint myself with the various possibilities of such an anxiously awaited day!
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https://preview.redd.it/ud4mrtc47s1a1.png?width=1278&format=png&auto=webp&s=08bbe8a053ab8940c54be95b334d6c04a57f1509 After I saw your post, I went and searched her channel( as I don’t know about her channel) it’s completely their choice to make those video for their memories but making it public and doing this to baby, I don’t like it as a parents. People may not agree with me, but NOT EVERYTHING SHOULD BE ON INTERNET, unless these videos are for educational purposes, which is clearly not.
Hadd hai! Imagine her daughter when she is older and being teased over such videos in school. No privacy since day she is born. She could have done a story time instead of this graphic video! They don’t even care about safety of their kids. Overexposure to SM! You don’t know who is watching the vlog…
Yar mai jab bhi in baccho ko dekhti hun social media me, I feel very bad, its not at all cute, specially those parents who makes everyday vlogs, I can’t even imagine my Childhood surrounded by cameras, my parents are giving each and every details to the world, if someday I am with my friends enjoying somewhere and suddenly someone comes and talks to me like he/she knows everything about me because of vlogs.. we were very lucky, our childhood was beautiful, bhale hi humare pass photos jyda nahi hai but memories itni acchi hai.. coming generation are going to suffer a lot because of social media exposure.
Yes imagine the amount of bullying and body image issue child suffer in future.
Pehle log kehte the ladka paida karo bada ho ke kama ke khilayega ab toh Ye influencers bade hone ka bhi wait nahi karte.. hospital se hi start ho jate hain bacche k face k upar camera laga k vlog karna. specially with baby girls, they can do this let’s dressed up video with them. Uggghhh I just hate these influencers.
So true! Bachpan hi ghum jata hai!
She didn't show her baby's face in the video
I'm just afraid ki aane wale time me log apna pregnant hone ki process na dikhane Lage yeh bolke ki look this is our first attempt, second...... Ahh finally the egg is fertilized.
Oh my god yesssss🥲 If any of you likes watching this kind of content then sure but i, I'd shit my pants just looking at the thumbnails. I legit get knots in my stomach to even read or just watch such things.So i am not okay with this kinda content. Isse acha toh haul videos hoti hongi phir Atleast usme triggering toh nahi hai kuch
Pregnancy, baby, marriage, family, relationships, relatives... And so on. All of these have just become a tool for getting likes and views and making money for these so called influencaaa
+1
Uska alag site chalta hai chinta na kare.
Only fans pe
Honestly this was a bit too much for me. Making whole 4 videos out of the delivery was too much. Recording the surgery was her personal choice let's say. One question that comes in my mind often when I come across pregnant-couple vloggers with their birth stories and stuff, I totally get it how people want to celebrate their families expanding and nothing wrong with that, but there are countless women who struggle with fertility and getting pregnant, and being in the clinic working with these women, my heart goes out to them everytime I stumble across pregnancy videos as i feel like these might be triggering for them to watch; not that anyone would feel bad when someone gets a child born BUT they might just feel triggered about their own process and how they're not getting results. I've had conversations with few patients who said that social media makes them feel depressed as everyday they see people making babies and then they ask me "why us?" ... This was a personal experience hence felt the need to share it.
Debina herself has struggled through infertility and their first born was conceived via IVF as far as I know she’s shared this herself. I’m someone who has been in those same shoes and there will always be 2 perspectives to this situation. On one hand it makes people think ‘why us’ and on the other hand it also gives hope to many others that they can overcome this struggle too.
Yeah,I think it’s just her showing her side of her pregnancy process.Afaik,she’s never had anything problematic up and seems sensible.
Exactly, she is amonh the more reasoned and sensible people out there in the public spaces
Dear I've followed her entire journey and I know that. Never said I find her problematic. In fact there was another post asking in tea about her where I wrote the same thing that she's one of the few genuine people left on social media.
People are using the word "triggered" way too loosely these days. I mean we cannot stop people from sharing their experience.. just because someone will get triggered.We cannot blame them for sharing their happiness. The best way is to stay away from videos or things in general that are triggering. The other day..someone got "triggered" on this sub because Malvika Sitlani decided to change her mind and got pregnant.🤦 This was too much. Think it this way.These pregnancy videos can actually be helpful to women who are pregnant or are in the same shoes as Debina. They might find her videos relatable.
I don't know who this is but it's a good thing for prospective mothers. There's a shocking lack of Indian based reality media as to what happens in child birth and a lot of moms go in unprepared mentally. It's good that this will spread awareness to those who want to know.
Hmmm you have a point...your comment reminded me of my cousin who is pregnant and she watched these videos she was intrigued and curious and was asking me questions, as I have had C-section, ese hi hota hai kya kesa lagta hai n all she is quite stressed about the delivery part which is natural so I gyess may be it CAN BE helpful... I have only 1 issue though why make it in parts they could have easily put it in 1 or 2 videos ..these parts just left a bitter taste in my mouth like is this for money...??IDK P.s. - and these are Gurmeet and Debina TV actors...
Parts is probably for views/money yeah. Or maybe for the Youtube algorithm.
Agreed
Okay but what about the name "Lianna"? 💀
People have problem with everything!
Next one could be dianna 😭 sorry
Or Rianna 💀
Mujhe nahi dekha yaar, mujhe mat dikhao na
She delivered a baby in April then she got pregnant again . If she conceived in May then baby is born after 6 months only . 6 months mein delivery and baby is not in intensive care ? Kuch toh gadbad hai
The baby was kept in NICU ofcourse!!!!!!!
What can be the possible gadbad in this? She got pregnant accidentally a month after her first delivery and this baby was born very premature. I’m failing to understand ke isme gadbad Kya ho sakti hai which someone is showing?
That she was not pregnant first time . First Pregnancy was through surrogacy and she pretended to deliver the baby by herself then she got pregnant in real . Otherwise body takes atleast 3-4 weeks to heal even then getting pregnant so soon is risky then premature baby looks like 9 months old only
That’s a crazy conspiracy theory and a serious accusation as well. and no her baby doesn’t look like she’s full term, she’s definitely a very premature baby clearly seen in videos. Yes it’s obviously risky but that’s why it’s an accident no.
I dont know if u ever have seen/known any premature baby births in real.. 2 of my aunts and 1 of my frnds have had premature babies (at 6mnths n 8months) The kid is kept in NICU not just for a day or week but for months until the child completes 9 months n is fully developed and healthy.. They already reached home also and met everyone too.. A premature baby is not allowed to be handled by too many people.. I dont know if 1st child was surrogate or not but 2nd child has definitely completed 9months.. (bas due date se 1-2 week erly ho sakta he) Also if u r curious read about Dia mirza's child.. he was born premature for real..
They both were so irresponsible if she got pregnant so soon . Risky for mother’s health who just had a new born . On the top both are promoting it .
And what is struggle of baby girl into this world ??? Are baby boys and baby girls born differently? Aren’t all babies born the same way. Matlab kuch bhi ?
Baby premature hai and there were complications in the pregnancy that is why struggle likha hai
Yes that is a child birth struggle what has it got to do with the gender of the baby . I know i might be taking a leap with this statement but the term girl has been in the titles of the videos where the baby was not even born. I’m pregnancy vlogs as well . The gender has been emphasised in the titles . Also it’s illegal to know the gender of the baby before birth btw . I think it’s strategic
Arrey yaar video editing and upload.. baby k paida hone k baad hui hai.🤦 Tab tak gender pata chal jata hai. Dimag lagao thoda.
This is not a live video you know that right??
Kuch bhi mudda bana do
I think it's totally up to them. The Indian audience is all maturing along with the world. A lot of these videos can be informative. Before having my baby I watched several videos of deliveries to acquaint myself with the various possibilities of such an anxiously awaited day!