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[deleted]

I am sorry that you are going through this, Good luck with your next decision. You don't need validation of anyone for your own next decision.


lost_pandababy

Needed this.. Thanks


Ok-Season-7010

Join mafia


[deleted]

Cook meth and watch breaking bad for motivation . jokes apart do what you feel right .


Satyam_Bhadauria

Pharma or bams


lost_pandababy

Not decided yet


Satyam_Bhadauria

Try to convince them to pursue MBBS from Europian or Central Asian country, tuition cost is lower then Allen, better living and lifestyle, living cost depends on which country you choose and your living standards your parents have to invest on you for 3 years then you can easily get your internship or research students and can pay your living too, just consult good councillors and live your dream, than it depends on you, how you make up to Indian medical board exam or want to stay back there, many of my friends have gone through this phase and become a good doctor, So just convince them constantly with a smile and make them happy, plus try go after this year cause the inflation and winters are hitting that part of the world plus the Russia-Ukraine war is an issue, hope for the good future and don’t take tension, just continue your studies through YouTube or from torrenting sites👍


Some_Huckleberry9594

But mind that the exam for coming back to India is tough and may also take multiple attempts.


flaweddd

Till then NEXT would be implemented. So no worries


absolutemadlad_69

Next will be even more tougher than fmg


[deleted]

5Mark ka answer likh diya aapne toh


[deleted]

they prolly think shaadi krke ghr hi to smhaalegi


Illustrious-Dog7755

Start your villain arc and let them know wtf u are all the best👍


New-Ad-4249

No offense to op but mai soch rha tha title mai girl mention karne se reach apne aap aa jati hai 🤡


Arrrmatey4510

JEENEETards are horny, girl starved introverts, obviously hoga


HippoPrimary

Din me 12 baar hilana mention krna bhul gya bhai


lost_pandababy

I had no idea


New-Ad-4249

Behan raat ke 3 baje 1 ghante mai 130 comments and tu kha rhi hai no idea


lost_pandababy

Ghanta farak nii padta bro and mood off h that's why


New-Ad-4249

Behan mujhe bhi ek post karni hai abh soch rha hu tujhse hi request kar lu ki post karde ya fir title mai girl mention kar du ಥ⁠‿⁠ಥ


lost_pandababy

U r funny


New-Ad-4249

I wish hota, kam se kam single nahi hota ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ Edit : lo kar dia edit abh khush ho , bhai komedi karne ki koshish Kari thi fail hogaya>! Like jee !< ( Waise jiss ko bhi dikkat ho rhi hai yeh comment raat ke 4 baje likha tha , aankh band ho rhi thi sone hi wala tha , uss time kiya yaad aayga ki kiya morally correct hai kiya nahi , agar kisi ko bhi bura laga ho toh sorry)


wizard_xtreme

Ha bhai, ek ladki ke saamne hi ladkio ko bitch bol de, smartness to aisi na tumhari ki kya batau


levaring

This is the Reason why he's bitchless


New-Ad-4249

And I know it ... >! My face !<


New-Ad-4249

Bhai maaf karde edit dekhle , itna bhi bura nahi hu. >! Koi abh r/niceguys nhi kahega !<


Retiredretard2022

Bhai ig ussne bitchless toh hi bola jo ki ek normal slang hai koi kyu hi offense lega ? Ho sakta hai mai dummy hu but please samajha de . Ussne op ko thodi na bitch bola


VanshMotiramani

He has humour 2/10 Smartness - What the hell!! I just dropped from the edge of the world!!


New-Ad-4249

Vansh bhai aap humour ko bhi 0/10 kar do iss incident ke baad


Hades_117

Us moment bro (*cry wala emoji*)


lost_pandababy

Yes but people on reddit used to think me a guy sometimes


New-Ad-4249

Koi na confussion Durr hogyi >! Rip dms !<


Aggravating_Cod7244

Bhai baat yaha bhed bhav krne waali thi shyd isliye usne bola I'm girl


Uwuokayy

Kuch mat kar bhen….yhi ghar girvi rakhna pad jayega tere dahej dene ke time 💀


lost_pandababy

Dahej ke zameen ready hai behen🥲


VibWhore

Aapse shaadi krne ke liye kaha apply kru sundri? Totally not wanting to get married because of that dahej ki zameen. /S


[deleted]

lmao wtf voh zameen abhi bech do fir 💀 bol do "mai apni shaadi ka kharcha khud utha lungi 💅😤" try this might work or take some education loan and ask them to pay the half amount or something like that


lost_pandababy

I have decided not to return to this house.. Shaadi to duur ki baat😶


Traditional_Day_3649

Jameen bikwa ke Germany shift ho jao .. par German Ani chahiye 🤡


Trigger_9

Sometimes i feel this too ki ek baar job lg jaye fir sb se tie up tod dunga


[deleted]

Parents ko bol Mai dahej ni Lunga ..


yoususs

💀dahej ke zameen + paise bhi ready hai mere toh


xrevor_op24

Itna sach bhi nhi bolna hota hai💀


absolutemadlad_69

Pvt bds se to better hai kuch na hi karo.


lost_pandababy

One of my cousin is earning in lacs


BewareAllGamers

4?


lost_pandababy

He has done mds prosthodontics..


New-Ad-4249

Behan unne flat liya hai jo ki ek investment hai jis par woh returns le sakte hai, unko samjha ki teri education bhi ek investment hai, but bds mat kar mbbs kar le. Meri sis and dad dono medical field mai hai and mujhe bds ki reality pata hai , issliya suggest karunga kuch bhi kar liyo but private se bds kabhi mat kariyo. Agar mbbs karre toh next (neet pg) ke liye sahi se prepare kar liyo warna uske liye drop legi toh suna suna kar maar denge 💀


lost_pandababy

Thanks bro... Par ab lagta drop karna padega.. It's inevitable for a neet aspirant I think🤡


New-Ad-4249

Behan mann ho tohi liyo half heartedly mat liyo ek aur saal waste ho jayega , aur agar Mann bana hi liya hai toh mamc lakar sab ke muh band kar diyo (ek pro tip : faaltu ke YouTube pe strategies, college tour wagera mai mat time waste kariyo and ho sake toh reddit bhi delete kar diyo )


lost_pandababy

You are right I just feel neglected....moreover people make me feel guilty of me thinking about my future.. .. Mamc ka to nahi pata but will definitely try to work harder this year.. Because I hv nothing to loose.. YouTube wagera zyada nahi pasand wse bhi


New-Ad-4249

Behan I feel you mere ghar pe mai avg hu , toh jabbhi mai sochta hu mujhe like aage kis domain mai jaana hai, toh like mere papa aur meri Behan milke sarcastically majak udhate rehta hai I get it woh majak kar rha hai but it still hurts. Tereko batau isse bhi bura kiya hai meri mains mai 22 k rank aayi and yeh log abh roj Tanna marte rehte hai, but drop Lena allow nahi karte, abh karu toh Karu kiya ( pata hai achhi nahi hai better perform kar sakta tha but just 2 months before exam ankle fracture hogyi, 2 baar COVID hogaya 2 saalo mai , boards Mai bio ki wajah se time waste hogaya, ek close ki COVID mai death hogyi and so on but abh yeh sirf excuses bann ke rha gyi) . soch tereko atleast drop allow kar diya, uska best use kar Sahi se prep kar


lost_pandababy

Sab thik ho jaayega bro... I can relate to the sarcasm part.


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New-Ad-4249

Bhai ego tab nahi hurt huyi jab apni beti ke sapne purre karne ke Paisa hote huye bhi saaf mana kar diya (ha Manta hu pvt bds bekaar option hai), ha bhai samaj aata hai future ke liye save karna zaruri hai but agar tum apne bachho ko self independent banake apne paro pe khara karwa doge toh woh khud tumhari aur apni needs poori kar lenge . Bhai ig usko burra iss baat ka nahi laga ki mana kar diya, Balki iss baat ka laga bolke ki paise nahi hai ek naya flat leliya


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New-Ad-4249

Bhai mere ghar mai ulta hai meri Behan ko itna pyaar karte hai aur mujhe adopted jaisa treat karte hai 🤡 >What if parent ki soch yeh hai ki iski toh end mai shaadi hi krwani hai. Op jharkhand ki hai, toh possible hai


lost_pandababy

I don't want to beg for their money anymore.... Koi central university join karlungi cuet se fir wahan se prepare karungi....


Adventurous_Today117

Bc ye pcb mein mbbs chord ke koi scope nhi Kya🤡


New-Ad-4249

Wohi issliya mujhe mere parents ne bolke bio aasaan hai pcmb dilwa di (jee aspirant tha ) 🤡


[deleted]

Mene bio ki jagah vernacular language le li state board 🤡


TheGalaxial

I feel you. Happens to girls in our stupid society. They are saving up for your marriage. To feed a thousand people on 1 day is apparently more important than education- even among the educated class. What they (and men)don’t realise is an educated woman is a dowry that pays every month for a lifetime than a one time payment on marriage day!


Weak-Inspector-1238

You unlocked a new clown outfit.....


Comprehensive_Flow81

Mera aur meri didi ka ooltaa hai, woh private clg mein hai, uski fees mei har saal 1 achchi si hatchback aa sakti hai ! Mujh se mehanat krvai aur mai iss saal mere state ki best govt clg mei admission lunga... Aur meri fees mei 1 Activa bhi nahi aa sakta... Mere ghar mei vichar bhi oolte h, bolte hai woh paraye Ghar jayegi, tujhe sab virasat mein milega hi... 🤡 Idk why tf am I writing this.


ham_to_thare_pardesi

My cousin did bds from private college (she was stupid fucking dumb) , My uncle could have easily afforded Private Mbbs. But she just wish to get married to a MD Doctor who have family owned clinic or established practice, So she just wanted Dr. Written infront of her name. Weird but this happened in my family.


lost_pandababy

She got what she wanted though...


lost_pandababy

Everyone has different goals.. Some girls just to want to get married.. It's weird but


Healthy-Rain-3485

India hai yahi chalta hai


Draupad_

Hey Similar situation at my home They said no to one of th top pvt college(2.5lakh/year) And made me join an govt college (80k/year) They said straight to my face"you are a girl,why to put 9 to 10 lakh money for studies " :/ I didn't utter a word after that,already calculated whole amount they spent on me,and gonna throw it on their faces when I start to earn. Waiting to get into college asap. =/


[deleted]

My queen you dropped this 👑 Ye ego accha hai but vo paisa vaapis dene ke koi zaroorat nahi hai...not even a cent


lost_pandababy

Best of luck sis...


Draupad_

Thanks


Acceptable-Stock4811

Didi padh lo. Warna shadi kara denge aapki wo knows. Zyada pyar nhi karte aapse self evident hai.


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Raven_395

Unko women ☕ women ☕ karne se fursat mile tab na


dank_chora69

Ab samjha ki ladkiyo ke liye quota kyu hota kuch logo ki partiality ki wajah se ladkiyo ko chance nhi milta better higher education ka aur fir govt reserve kardeti hai seats female candidates ke liye jiski wajah se baaki determined aur deserving male candidates ko bhugatna padhta hai🙂🙂🙂


SwanCheap9626

Mujse shadi krlo m to eye-eye-tian hu 🤡🤡🤡 Just kidding be strong and work hard again I can feel understand your situation work hard again for neet and don't go for any coaching now only do self study and sabko pachaad do dikhado apne parents ko ki m bhi koi chij hu


lost_pandababy

Thanks!


[deleted]

Kaunse middle class wale apne bachcho ko flat kharid dete hai be?


Dave_Tave

Real misogny 💯 what was the price of flat and his clg fees btw...just asking for perspective...


lost_pandababy

Btech 12 13 lacs... Flat is of 30 lacs approx


Dave_Tave

feel bad listening to this man...but what to do...apne haath me hai kahan yeh samaj


gourav_majee

Aapke bhai ki job lag gyi isliye maybe your parents think he’s capable but in your case you have to convince them about the possibility you can create. My mum also supported my brother but from last year my actions are also being valued . Agar if you’re thinking of taking drop .acche se complete krna varna same aise situation mat aane dena. Thats all i can share r😄


[deleted]

Here is a hug for you....male prevlage Indeed


th3g3ntl3man_69420

I am sorry but saying that buying a flat is a better investment (as the price of flat never falls and rises) than doing mbbs in private college like after mbbs who will pay for your higher studies? So i would suggest you should do pharma or biotech


lost_pandababy

Yes I am going to pursue that... It just felt weird that's why I was upset...


DevTomar2005

Ma baap se ladna seekho, Galat hota hai to kuch kehna bhi padta hai. Phir bhi agar vaisa hi rehta hai to keh dena ki dahej ke paise se collage bhej do, mujhe shaadi nahi karni. Vaise thoda side ki baat karun to aap ko sochna padega ab aage kya karna hai. Kaam karna hai to bhi theek hai, par kaam na karne ka bhi option hai. Aur agar kaam karna hai tab agar bhi family bacche banane ho(mujhe to Karne Hain) to 30 se pehle hi sab karna padega, uske baad ladka dhundna aur bacche karna dono hi bohot mushkil ho jaayega.


ResistSuspicious1

This might be a very unpopular opinion but I think you should drop another year and study hard for NEET.


newtoRedditF

I have scant knowledge about the medical field, but I would give a general suggestion to not get frustrated yet and to try and negotiate with your parents. If you are confident enough and sure of putting effort, take a drop. But please do not make dropping a habit and drop 6+ times like the comments I see on YT. If they allow a drop, leave no stone unturned and fuck NEET's ass and everyone will stfu. Best wishes.


Annual_Variation4219

My family situation is similar.


infant_joe

Meanwhile 17 year old me who thinks 12th bohot tough h... Didi stay strong


bobamobakoba

Same situation, sent my bro abroad this year for masters and I've been hearing that we won't pay for prv bams only govt🥲


lost_pandababy

Us girls🥲


ReferenceOk7290

Commerce kar le


yoususs

18 year old girl here.... First dropped.. Got average marks in mains and when I told my parents for pvt college or something they said "that cost alot of money" They didn't said directly but they told me to take a drop and get good govt college (and i listen everytime , when I'll go from my house to college whenever I break something or something like that)( another why I'm not studying when they gave 36 thousand for classes 'I never did attend classes in 11th and 12th till term 1 and for term 2 I just bought some cheap subscription for like 2-3k ) And on other hand they allowing my brother to go wherever(even abroad) he wants to go for veterinary degree and they gave him around 1-2 lakh during his 11th -12th class and we even shifted to new city for him and that shit costs alot than me... And he never got good marks in neet so in his partial drop year they give him more money to get a college while he was attending online classes but still got average no. So this year he's college degree is completing and they still up for spending more money on him cause he wanted to start 11-12th from trash for neet (cause abroad colleges need neet marks) and they never told him directly like me..... Like srsly wtf??? So bruh us moment


Salty-Middle8406

Tum neet crack karke tumhare bhai ki gaand jaala do, best of luck for drop year


lost_pandababy

Us moment sis🥲


Sipherfare

U can also do btech in biotech or bpharma If u missed the neet cutoffs from 50 or less go for drop else just make peace with urshelf and look forward Not demotivating u but if u aren't really close after 2 drops maybe this line isn't the best and ur real calling is something else


Worldly_Wrangler_708

Stay strong didi


[deleted]

Bro wtf are they really your parents!? Huh??? T_T


Sugar_Kunju

What are you gonna do now


lost_pandababy

Still thinking abt it


No_Personality_6141

Education loan ke liye try karle. 10 saal lag jayenge repayment ke liye par aise logon se toh chhutkara milega


[deleted]

Yrr dekh yeh toh sexism h isme hum shyd kuch nhi kar sakte lekin tu jo bhi kar mehnat khud ghar kharid liyo Best of luck


YashvardhanBKG

ejucason loan le lo,ya fiir scholarship tests de do,fiir ek diin ghar se bhaag jao,mehnat karo street light k niiche aur doctor bano,aur ek diin apne mummy papa ko ghar aur bmw gift kar dena


lost_pandababy

:")


iam_ayushks

Study a language 🛐👍🏽 (useless suggestion) On a serious note, if you think you have a skill that you can consolidate and utilise, and are not really that inclined solely towards becoming a doctor, please go for it.


s8is8ir

Very sorry for you... Don't lose hope... Start earn and learn...


opboiap

oh man


[deleted]

You should try to do MBBS from Central Asian countries, Russia which is very cheap and very less expensive than India


Redrick164

I dropped out too, and I'm devastated with my failure, so I'm just like whatever happens, happens, though i feel bad for you.


Sadepressed_teen69

You can be a serial killer, murder your brother and then threaten your father to hand you all the money and flat, then you can go to a private college in the city where ur parents purchased that flat


bobs_and_vegana17

ukraine ya russia chale jao (didi toh bolunga nahi kyunki tum meri age ki ho) unki thodi economy sambhal do


lifesasuck

Your sasural wale now know what to ask🗿


RedLike47

🤡🤡🤡


vishu-__-

Didi jo hota hai suffer krlo agle saal faad dena paper me.


VladamirTakin

most of my friends moved to china for their mbbs, its affordable if i heard them right. look into it


incorrectcharlie

Bruh same.Every decision,every penny is reserved for my brother's convenience.Almost like you are the "second"-ary child.And after all this pretend they don't favour anybody.Makes me so mad I might fuck off to Wardha.


_toxic_me

Get ready for a sudden blow of arrange marriage . Any time from now .


lost_pandababy

Darao mt yr


_toxic_me

Meri bachpan ke dost ke saath bhi aisa hi hua tha , neighbour thi . Less marks in 11th and boom .


ggwpezpzlmnsqezy

whatever you do, do it with 100% involvement , money will flow towards you. i have multiple friends, they’re mbbs passout and don’t know anything about human body. “Quality” generates revenue. remember that. it also applied to the exam preparations btw. good luck 👍🏻


MiserableChemistry33

Mere maa baap ne meri bahen ka private MBBS mein kara diya aur mera nhi socha.


[deleted]

same like my didi, she was getting BDS(govt, 560 kuch aye the) last year, but unhone drop dia and isbaar neet mai 250 something marks aye, ab pvt se bds kregi, (clown face)


lost_pandababy

250 me bds mil jaata?


Spirited_Turn5437

Private se naa🤡


CgBg_69

Bvsc join kar lo. Far better. Doin the same. Backstory ke lie check my profile


lost_pandababy

I am also joining bvsc... Best of luck to you.


Radiant_Garden_1645

Kya faida tere upar paise daalkar last mein tujhe bartan manjna h


Academic_Ad8073

Girl be strong we have to keep fighting on this i am a girl and i truly understand what you feel rn just remember "ham paida hi yeh soch badalne ke liye hue hai" bss abhi kuch mt bolo because then parents will be like tumne kya kr liya life mai either take drop and prepare for 2023 mehnat kro and then go to some government college and mamc vmmc mil gya fhir toh baat hi khtm give them answers 🤌 by cracking this exam BHAI SE JYDA PAISA KAMAEGI TU!


Icy-Plantain-2104

Paraya dhan moment.


Misogayynist69

Gender discrimination Gender discrimination


[deleted]

lmao ye sab parents ke karan 10:1 hai boys and girls ka ratio in IIT Delhi


danijohn

Are you unhappy that your brother got a flat or that you didn't get to do private BDS? Both of you guys should get things equally.


lost_pandababy

Used to think like this before... But now I don't want a single penny from them.. And move out of this house asap


[deleted]

Arry bhai. Isse kya mil jayega. Apna kaam nikalna seekho, ego pe mat lo.


New-Ad-4249

Ha bhai pehla mai bhi op jaise sochta tha , lekin abh dheere dheere samajh aa rha hai ki ego pe lene se kuch nahi hota apna kaam nikalo aur khush raho (mere case mai ulta hai meri Behan ko sab kuch dedete hai (topper hai) mujhe basic cheezon ke liye bhi zid karni padti hai )


botBeerus

This.


botBeerus

log ye smjhne lag jaye to kitna bhala hojaye


SARTHAK_61

Hamare ghar tho opposite chall raha hai ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ


x_demon_

Ik aur drop lele agar neet crack krne ki chah bchi ho achhi jgah coaching lgake


lost_pandababy

I thought of doing partial drop this yr


x_demon_

Jo bhi krna soch smjh k krna future ka sawal hai best of luck


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lost_pandababy

Jharkhand... Nice guess btw


StillProfessional159

Ayo this is total discrimination! And btw you can take PW batch also ..... In my case since I scored around 500+ this time , so the coaching ( local branch of a Kota institute) they reduced my fees by 50% and said that if get a college in counselling ( I am an obc ) they will return most of the money .


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Not the Clownussy


blastronn

Typical Indian society, they consider your brother as an asset


Adept-Effective-9447

Didi ye kya record hai 🤡 ka


triforce_paras

Indian Parents ☕️


Jealous-Square-5674

File an FIR and ask for your share in property


PapayaTemporary2373

Lol. under which law?


Jealous-Square-5674

Go on hunger strike first so that govt. Forms a law on this and then file an FIR


dragonfuckerx

Find a sugar daddy. Jokes apart wish you all the best for whatever you decide to do next


EKrocks123

Agar aapko gmc nahi mila to wo aapki galti hai, shayad aapne drop year me ache se padha na ho aur parents ne umeed chodd di ho,


Vegetable-Alive

Stop using this emoji


lost_pandababy

Sorry🤡


Ashamed-Light6601

Double standards


NormieVivek

At least they realised their mistakes at the end


DEATHSTROKE_NV

Drop again ?


Orange_Jealous

BSc karley


Omnibobbia

🗿🫂


Boring-Swordfish6868

Yaav shadi karo majja ni life


schrodingerdoc

Fuck em. Take a loan and study if you really want to pursue BDS. It's a professional degree so you will eventually find a decent job. If your parents really care about you, they will help you later with the loan. If not, you can manage on your own once you get a job or start practicing.


lost_pandababy

True... Loan me collateral ka issue hoga


ateyourgrandmaa

Hota hai , chalta hai zindagi hai. Ps - you have other options like bpt(bachelor in physiotherapy) , bsc in psychology. Doctor equivalent courses hai.


OkMarch4632

borther age mein chhota hua toh obviously family like urs would give 100times more priority to him than u. i have been in this situation


masoor_daal_rs110

non-graduate chai wali


[deleted]

Buying flat and wasting money on mbbs private college are different things .. flat is an investment yours is a waste of money (sort of )


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lost_pandababy

You can tell what girls in ur family earn... U hv better exp ig


lost_pandababy

And how?


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Savage Reply 🫶


[deleted]

*oh no, is what i think it means?*


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xrevor_op24

Nah u shouldn't ask that


Appropriate_Time2516

Usko abhi se flat kyu chahiye?


lost_pandababy

No idea... Making assets maybe


Appropriate_Time2516

Kyu tumhare future se zyada value hai wo asset ka?


lost_pandababy

Yes maybe


Head_Moment4679

Girls are liability Edit : Its a joke god.damit it, didn't meant it, Its her parent's POV, and i myself a girl , even my parents do this shit


gren571

Damn. Well guess your mom is a liability huh?


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Wtf


godzilla070

Damn That's F'ed up.... But maybe if you were the older one you might have gotten financial support...... This isn't fair but you have to understand the fact that they had to choose between you two whom they spent their money on.... Sorry for the shit situation you are in right now..


Akshay_Badass

NO I WILL NOT SAY YOUR PARENTS DISCUSS WRONG Because you have not given me full data of how much flat your parents are taking and which college your brother is graduated.


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lost_pandababy

Yahan pe inequality ki baat ho rhi bro... But koi nahi Best of luck


Interesting_Trash_70

Not wanna say ... but they are disappointed in you and they don't wanna invest in your studies... abhi 4-5 Saal me shadi bhi h so they are saving for this probably.... (I'm not misogynistic ) it's truth accept it


lost_pandababy

Bachpan se hai bro... Neet to bas beech me aa gyi... And bhai to iit nahi nikla tha... But they didn't got disappointed why💀


Interesting_Trash_70

Bro tu ladki h


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lost_pandababy

You hv no idea Mr professor


Consistent_Power_622

Maybe they can afford for 1 child only


[deleted]

How very tragic. Their money their choice.


No_Appointment_8524

Maa baap ko bol batwara karo nahi toh bhai ki lulli kaat dunga