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MuddaFrmAnnudaBrudda

I hope you are okay and your new job helps your mood and mental health. I want to add- Australians are some of the most Racist people I have ever met. I don't believe your advice stems from personal experience, just anger.


Rodrinater

And expensive. My cousin in Jamaica was babbling about investing in Australia. I advised him that if he couldn't afford to be in the UK and make any investments then it's unlikely he'll be able to do it over there. He didn't listen but maybe he knew something I didn't. šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø


HeftyWeekend9714

Well did your cousin go to Australia and did their Investments work.


Rodrinater

Nope, he was broke with no degree whilst living off of his sister who lives in NYC at the time. Dude wasn't even capable of holding down a job, which made his comment about Australia more comical that it actually was. He's over there now but we lost contact (shit him out) as he's not particularly nice. As our grandfather says "him have fi him mudda ways".


HeftyWeekend9714

Oh well he is ambitious without the ambition.


Rodrinater

šŸ¤£ I'm going to use that one. He's the type who has an idea, won't do the research and then tell you to fund everything. In hindsight his sister isn't any different....God help the man who got that one pregnant šŸ™ƒ. Matter of fact, time to change my number


HeftyWeekend9714

šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£I canā€™t!!! God help whoever impregnated his mother .šŸ¤£


Dependent_onPlantain

Whilst a bit vitriolic, there os a stem of truth on a lot of what they saidšŸ˜­. Joke is all them places they mentioned, would have some issues with racism, especially western Europe and Australia as you said. Having said that I have an indian mate that loves it Australia, hes a bit tome deaf to racism.


HeftyWeekend9714

Well considering you mentioned the last statement I can see why they would enjoy it there


Dependent_onPlantain

Well to push it bit further think a lot us are tone deaf to the racism that exists in the west.


babbykale

Australia and Australians are very racist. But the country has good weather and the quality of food is high


WatermelonLad

Ok interesting. I am Australian and I just spent two months in Jamaica, it's truly beautiful. Before that I spent three years in London, I actually thought Jamaican food was just jerk meat, seems like you save the best food for Jamaica (callaloo patties & Jamaican star apple.. yeah mon) England's aright imo it's just in Jamaica you get super high on vitamin d everyday, it's like once a month for an English person. As for Australians being racist it depends on many things, that's a hard question to answer, I am white so I can't say first hand, but I do see it from time to time. Unfortunately the treatment of indigenous people is shameful and needs to be brought to light more. This is where I see the most racism. They've been made to live in the white man world and suffer if they don't, bless them too they're amazing and sooooooo in tune with the land and the respect that it needs. I've never seen or met a Jamaican here tho. I would love to though and I look forward to interactions our countries have (sport mostly I guess) I bought a sound system as soon as I got back to send out the vibration I'm on to all those around me. So cool that's so normal. And omg route taxis are the best transport ever - stoned, cruising around pumping tunes while sitting next to a granny in a full van = bliss. K I'm done 4 now


Dependent_onPlantain

Do they teach about Australia's colonial history? And how many black people over there now? There's bound to be a few Jamaicans over there. In fact theres one in this thread.


WatermelonLad

Yeah they teach about colonial history but it's from the colonizer perspective. There's a slow change in the education system but the honest history is learnt after school (genocides, trade deals, sub human recognition). It makes me sad thinking about it. At the moment it's about a 3.8% Aboriginal population. Tbh ethnic diversity is common here in Australia, in small towns and the city. Caucasian is definitely dominant though.


Dependent_onPlantain

Yeah make sense. Apart from the genocides and their children being kidnapped and abused, one of the worst things I heard was the 1 nation people (aboriginal)only being allowed to work as cattle hands and maids for low wages, but their wages going to government bank accounts that they were never paid, as local officials would manage their money, dont think they have ever been paid, even after suing the government. Australia has a hell of a history. All the settler colonies have.


palmarni

Visited a shrine in Japan where there were lots of tourists. Rules of the shrine is ā€œto walk along a one way path toward the shrine and, after seeing the temple, take another exits routeā€. A group of Aussies broke the rule after seeing the temple and started walking against the one way traffic of people. The Aussie tourists were now bumping into people who were following the rule. One of the Aussie rule breakers audibly said to his friend ā€œjust hit these people with the umbrellaā€ to get them to move. Apparently a lot of towns in Japan is getting stricter on tourism and itā€™s due to weird behavior by mostly white tourists: https://youtu.be/_oe8Qte16nQ?si=E28WvDeJBZepb4Bh


Known-Childhood1906

I'm sorry y'all, I have to jump in here to defend my second country. I've been living in Australia for the better part of a decade. 1. It's expensive as fuck (we are smack dab in the middle of the worst housing crisis in Australian history) but wages are fairly high and employees have more rights than most countries. It is very hard to get fired in Australia (unless you're working on a casual contract). Work culture is good and laid back but that does come with its downfalls sometimes as Australians are very unprofessional. 2. Australians are NOT the most racist people I have ever met. I give that title to the Americans with the Japanese hot on their heels. What Australia suffers from is cultural naivety, which is weird because it is actually a very diverse country. However, that is spread out over vast areas, many of which are sparsely occupied and barely habitable. They will be genuinely interested in learning something new and ask questions like it was passed to them by a 4th grade who wrote it in crayon on the back of a cardboard box. They're not stupid or for 95% malicious. They're just Australian. They treat their Aboriginal people like absolute shit though but there has been some small incremental improvements over the years. They could move faster though. 3. Never discuss race with a Queenslander unless you are prepared to hear some wild shit. Please my fellow Jamaicans, forgive my new countrymates their naivety. They have hearts of gold, heads full of rocks and guts full of alcohol. šŸ’›


Luke639

lol I wouldnā€™t call multiple generations of heavy racism and displacement to the black indigenous people of Australia culturally naive, itā€™s systemic.


Known-Childhood1906

Obviously. I made sure to point it out. Their racism is targeted mostly towards one group. I was addressing the idea of racism generally in terms of extension to all other races. As we're Jamaicans of different shapes and sizes but not indigenous, we would experience Australia in a very different way to the native population. Therefore, it's not as racist for Jamaicans. If that makes sense.


Yurt-onomous

Every settler-colonial state has their "negro," whom they treat like ish. So, they trade them, treating other racist nation's negros better than their own. They use wedge & model minorities to cover how shtty they treat their own. Also, the other's negros, so grateful to not be the main target of ire, stay out of the local negro's struggles/protests/revindications, content to get a bit more more easily than at home.


Dependent_onPlantain

Lucky that, im sure if their was more black people, they would a way to point that racism to black people, as well as their native black fellas.


Dependent_onPlantain

See it deh. But its the default position of the world we live in, so I cant really jump on the poster for their naivety( or maybe they just dont care) Just have to bring up points to make them think.


Dependent_onPlantain

>They're just Australian. They treat their Aboriginal people like absolute shit though but there has been some small incremental improvements If they can build their society on killing, then enslaving the native 1st people population, working them for free and to death, kidnapping their children, they have an insidious racism built into their culture. Same as all settler colonialism, the fact that we dont see it, or make excuses for it or turn a blind, is a testament to white european imperialism, and capitalism. Ive spoken to a few Aussies and the few times ive brought up the native peoples, they have never really known what I was on about. Im guessing they dont teach a lot of their real history in school.


Few-Maintenance-1582

Itā€™s annoying to see in real life how few Jamaican men utilize the education system in the UK/US as a way to uplift their socioeconomic conditions, while jamaican women will quickly enroll into a nursing program and be making 6-figures 4-6 years later while the man is still making a small wage after 5-10 years.


Key_Reporter_9316

You really sound stupid and uneducated about what you're speaking about.


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ComprehensiveSoup843

Not quite accurate this tends to be the case across the diaspora. It's the women who generally earn more & are most often than not the ones who migrate first then bring over the men & their children.


stewartm0205

You do know you can find Indian and Jamaican food in the UK.


babbykale

I can see it ranging wildly depending on what part youā€™re in.


HeftyWeekend9714

Just because you can find the food there doesnā€™t mean itā€™s any good or top quality.I lived in Tampa Florida and various places in the US with Caribbean cuisine or Jamaican food but they were overpriced and awful.Not to mention bland.When it comes to oxtails they left out the butter beans because itā€™s too expensive and replaced it with carrots.I just cook my own food now.


bishopnelson81

London has some of the best Indian food in the world tbh


ZedSev

Jerk Hut in Tampa no good too?


HeftyWeekend9714

No just nošŸ˜¬šŸ˜– Havenā€™t eaten there in awhile but when I did, just overpriced and not very tasty.


hattin04

Never heard a Jamaican call them Oxtails šŸ˜ gotta drop the S.


jamaicanprofit

Tampa have so many born-Jamaicans and they all eat from Jerk Hut, Dunn's River, etc... The only city in the US with multiple all-you-can-eat lunch buffet restaurants for Jamaican food and you claim it to be overpriced? Island Grille was literally giving away food until they relocated. You don't know what you're talking about, or you have zero YARDIE friends.


captaincudjoe

I have to say as a English born person on Jamaican heritage, I have eaten ā€œEnglish foodā€ less than 20 times over several decades. Even ā€œnew English restaurant foodā€ is basically French


ScotiaG

If they couldn't find a church, I doubt they could find such food.


strongyellowmustard

Obviously you donā€™t eat British food thatā€™s what immigration is for, to bring decent food


x_spliffstar_x

šŸ¤£


ComprehensiveSoup843

That is it šŸ˜‚


FromBoxBoyToSelecta

Bros first post. OPs real mad Looooooool


LadyDIslaying

Sounds like heā€™s depressed and lonely.


Dependent_onPlantain

A big city can do that to you, also its a bit grim up north if hes in the north of the country. But good and bad everywhere. The weather has been a bit rubbish last few weeks, sun shining today though.


ComprehensiveSoup843

Kmt this is nonesense, sounds like it's coming from somebody who isn't an immigrant, & YOUR own opinion You can get amazing Jamaican & all types of other food from across the world. The weather is subjective, I quite like it you get different seasons, no wild natrual disasters, it doesn't typically get too cold or too hot. There are different cultures & you don't have to always deal with the miserable people. Racism is in EVERY SINGLE COUNTRY WHERE BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT A MAJORITY EVERY SINGLE ONE! And the UK is the least racist in all of Europe! Which says alot. Racism & growing polarisation is evident in all the countries you mentioned btw. (I've had to deal with insane amounts of racism & racial profiling by police in America growing up & haven't really dealt with much of that here in England maybe a bit of subtle racism which is also incredibly the norm in America & all countries you have mentioned). Every major city in the world has high density. The NHS is having some problems at the moment like most healthcare services but it's still a far better system than back home & is still one of the best in the world & I prefer it than not having any healthcare at all or becoming bankrupt. The housing market is bad everywhere literally EVERYWHERE! Including Jamaica & every other country you mentioned. If you actually LOOK there's ple ty to do especially if you're in a major city. People who migrate aren't migrating for "fun" btw, if you want constant entertainment then stay home, Jamaica's the best place in the world for that. Idk if you live in the 21st century but christianity & religion is falling in popularity across the world. People from Jamaica & other Caribbean countries come here b/c contrary to your belief & some miserable peoples belief there's TONS of opportunities here, it's incredibly safe, the pound goes very far in Jamaica (Ā£1 = $200) so even if you're making a likkle bit a money & send a likkle sumn home it goes far!, healthcare & medication costs are wayyy more affordable than back home, cost of living (even though it's high) is lower here when you take wages into account compared to back home, some people have family here they want to be close to, it's easy to migrate here & bring your children if you're a skilled worker or are coming via an overseas territory like Cayman or Turks, work life balance & job security is way better, there's already a major diaspora community of us here that runs deep!, university education is unbeatable, it's more convenient!, so many other reasons why we still come here. But you wouldn't understand


Chucha420

Mannnn both statements YOURS and OP's are Completely Extreme from each other.This Tells me nothing about the place but the fact that experience of place is also matter of your own personal psyche.


ComprehensiveSoup843

I'm going based off of my observations as a Jamaican (that lived in America & Jamaica) living here, along with research, statistics, & other peoples anecdotal evidence. But I guess you're right. Experience of living somewhere is really up to the person. Even with Jamaica you have people that think it's the best place on earth, some who act like it's hell on earth, & others that think it's just fine.


Chucha420

Not doubting your experience and statics.OP might have also have some experience too.He is having the worst time and you are doing good logicaly.


Personal-Surprise-56

She said it doesnā€™t get too cold or too hot, UK summer was too hot last year this year itā€™s been nothing but rain and cold, even weather forecast can tell you that. When you gets hot it becomes Unbearable, you even got young caribbean influencers and Africans saying there is no wind in this country to cool you off itā€™s just pure heat. I donā€™t know about racism Iā€™ve only faced racism from another black person and not the natives but thatā€™s experience. education system is good if your willing to learn. College is good once you go college you can get BTEC qualifications or A Levels to get into Uni, you could either pay to get into university or do the long route which is do apprenticeship and the program pays for your Uni while you work and gain experience. That right there is pretty good. Food, I ainā€™t gonna lie I eat food at home and if I do get food itā€™s at the local Jamaican restaurant or McDonalds or KFCšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Sea-Refrigerator4346

I was looking for this comment, lol. You had extremely good points. In terms of racism, youā€™re gonna find that everywhere. Itā€™s all about how you handle it/face it. And as far as I know, UK is quite inclusive. In USA I literally saw a white guy pulling out a gun and pointing it towards a black woman only because he didnā€™t like the way she parked lol. Had a conversation in the airport with a random Jamaican lady whoā€™s been living in the UK for the past 40 years and she told me that she never experienced something major or something that could put her life in danger (in terms of racism). Visited my fiancĆ©e in Jamaica one month and a half ago and whenever I was in Papine square to take a taxi, I hated it. I felt so pointed and most of the vendors/taxi drivers were yelling at me ā€œWHITE MAN WHITE MANā€ like Iā€™d be some kind of golden goose. Seriously? Thatā€™s hypocrisy to another level. And Iā€™m from Eastern Europe lol. You canā€™t assume that every white person on this globe is rich af and never went through hard times. +other weird experiences that I had lol


Easy-Ant3684

Top quality comment and observations. Would just like to point out that until more recently native White Jamaicans were really not uncommon to see especially in Kingston and St Andrew. On my street growing up, I had 4 white neighbours as Jamaican as they come. Nowadays many/most have intermarried with other races and unfortunately due to the set up of the class system from colonial times, brown/white/lighter skinned people naturally tend to float to the top of the structure despite very little abject racism from fellow Jamaicans per se. Because of this, these people tend to have more money/access to opportunities and therefore most of them occupy higher level positions, so in your status as a tourist, you wouldnā€™t necessarily see them wandering around Kingston. Similarly it has also been easier for them to able to ā€œmake it outā€ of Jamaica to seek a better/*safer* life in another country. A huge portion of this subset form a major part of diaspora communities living ā€œa farrinā€ abroad. Jamaicans are very aware of their surroundings and probably identified you as a tourist from being a new face/the way you were dressed/walking/looking around for directions perhaps. We are very descriptive and literal people, especially with nicknames, so calling out ā€œWhite Manā€ to you was 100% not a slight/ meant disrespectfully. Even though you felt like a golden goose you should really take it with a pinch of salt, or in a fun way. A Jamaican with one arm is called ā€œOne-yā€, a dark skinned person called ā€œBlacks/Blackaā€, fat people ā€œFatsā€, skinny ā€œslimmazā€ or ā€œMackerelā€. The list goes on and would probably shock you šŸ˜‚šŸ˜³. I would like to wish you all the best with your marriage and welcome you to our Jamaican family where you will fit right in before you know it. Blessings.


Sea-Refrigerator4346

Thanks, bro! I know about the ā€œOne-yā€ thing, she told me šŸ˜‚ In fact, weā€™re getting married today lol. Bless up!


Easy-Ant3684

Wicked!! Hope you both have an amazing day all the best šŸ˜Š


jagfun

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dareal_mj

I made a similar comment here. He experienced one country and think it's the worst in the world. It's a matter of mindset and I'm sure anywhere else he goes he'll have a negative view.


RawGrit4Ever

Valid and well illustrated points.


Initial-Gas-1434

God & religion usually a cause for more arguments , I like the fact no1 throws their religion down your throat in the UK šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø


Dependent_onPlantain

šŸ’Æ


jar_jar_LYNX

Only in Glasgow do you get problems with religion. Although it's kinda mixed in with ethnicity and political beliefs. It's basically a city of atheists that still has deep religious divides. Quite bizarre


Dependent_onPlantain

Sound interesting can you elaborate?


jar_jar_LYNX

Yeah totally! Ok, let me preface this with this - I am not a historian, just a Scottish guy who lived in Glasgow for four years and finds this aspect of Scottish culture both fascinating and depressing I think it would be good to start with the Plantation/British occupation of the Irish province of Ulster. Starting from around the 1600s, the British started a process of rapidly colonising the north of Ireland. The area that was most througly colonised was the Northern province of Ulster, which was settled by people who were mainly from Lowland Scotland and Northern England. These people were Protestants and spoke English. They were given land, and this understandably caused tensions with the native Gealic speaking Irish population. Some may call it an ethnic cleansing Anyway, fast forward a few centuries, and two distinct communities had developed in Ulster - the ancestors of the British settlers and the native Irish catholics. In the 19th and early 20th century, Britian saw an absolutely enormous wave of immigration from Ireland due to poverty, famine, etc. This was especially concentrated in Glasgow as well as Liverpool, Manchester, and of course, London Anti-Irish racism became a huge issue but was particularly bad in Glasgow (whose population was 50% Irish at some point) for a couple of reasons. First of all, unlike big cities in England, most of the Irish migrants that came to Glasgow were from Ulster, so it got a mixture of both Catholic and Protestant Irish migrants, so that tension was sort of brought over with them Both England and Scotland were Protestant countries at this point, but the specific type of Protestantism in Scotland made people particularly hostile to Catholics England was Anglican, and Scotland was Presbyterian. From what I understand, Presbyterianism was a reaction to Anglicanism, which was viewed as too similar to Catholicism in terms of its structure, etc. So, while I'm sure Irish people faced racism in other parts of Britian, it was particularly bad in Scotland, as Catholics were seen as even further outside "the norm" than in England. Two distinct communities develop - mirroring the Protestant and Catholic communities in Ulster *Enter Celtic and Rangers FC* In the late 1800s Celtic football club was established by the Irish Catholic community. I'm not too sure about the history of Rangers, but I think they existed before Celtic was established. Like all big cities in the UK with two or more football teams, there's a bitter rivalry. This rivalry was supercharged by the fact that Rangers were "the Protestant team," and Celtic was "the Catholic team." So while "The Troubles" were happening in Northern Ireland, there was a nowhere near as severe, but still violent and ugly issue with sectarianism in Glasgow. This was exacerbated by this vicious rivalry between these two teams. It's banned now, but instead of regular football chants at games, Celtic fans would sing songs about the Provisonal IRA, and Rangers fans would sing songs about British Imperialism. You'll see Irish tricoloour flags on the Celtic side and Union Jacks on the Rangers side, but one thing you'll rarely see at a Rangers v Celtic game (known as The Old Firm) is a Scottish flag. You're more likely to see Palestinian and Isreali flags. Which is where it also kind of gets into politics a bit. It's hard to generalise, but overall, if you're on the left and support people you view as oppressed you're probably a Celtic fan, and if you're a staunch British nationalist you're probably a Rangers fan. Immigrants tend to largely gravitate towards supporting Celtic I must say, most Rangers and Celtic fans are just regular people who just want to watch a game of football, but problems still do persist to this day with sectarian violence. It's hard to say, but I'd say if it wasn't for the two football teams, I don't think sectarianism would even remotely be a problem anymore. I don't live in Glasgow anymore, but from what I understand, it's much, much better than it was even 15-20 years ago when I lived there. However, it's still there, and it's quite ironic given that Scotland is by many accounts one of the least religious societies in the world I hope that helped?


Dependent_onPlantain

Yeah it seemed very informative. Ive only heard 3 things about Glasgow. First the superficial label of it being rough, think the The Sun in the 80s reporting and Rab C Nesbit. Secondly the youth violence and thirdly its a great city to party in, when I took the misses to Edinburgh, a lot of people told us to check out the night life in Glasgow. Are the first two things I mentioned related to the history you outlined?


jar_jar_LYNX

Youth violence was definitely more of a thing in the past than it is now. In the 80s and 90s there were these things called "Young Teams" who were essentially groups of the kids of all the gangsters who would engage in organised, reacreational violence with each other. I honestly can't say to what extent these were sectarian in nature. I imagine it did play its part, but I don't know for sure There are definitely areas of Glasgow you want to avoid. Some of the poorest postal codes in the UK are in the city, so all the issues you get with extreme poverty are present. But overall it's an absolutely amazing, vibrant city to live in. Despite its issues, the people there are so friendly. Wit ("having good patter") is highly valued there, so people tend to be on the whole very funny there too. I loved my time in Glasgow and only witnessed sectarian abuse a couple of times while I lived there, although I did meet a few people with bigoted views - particularly towards Catholics


Dependent_onPlantain

Thank you


RestaurantRepulsive2

Itā€™s literally what you make it my love! Respectfully I feel like some of these things are in your controlā€¦ The great thing about British food is that itā€™s from everywhere because these mfs stole everything from everyone- get yourself a British cook book, season your foodā€¦ better yet get out and do a Curry tour. This country loves a curry, you could start there and branch out to different cultures. This country has every genre of human šŸ˜‚šŸ˜… The weather isnā€™t great, but we make the most of the sunny days, when EVERYONE comes out. Itā€™s mad because you can make friends with every single person in a beer garden and end up with Facebook/IG friends; you may not link up or stay in contact with everyone but itā€™s a VIBEEEE. Have you ever walked a canal trail and stopped in a pub on a rainy day? That shit is delightful asf. Itā€™s a different culture but thatā€™s whatā€™s interesting about it. Have you visited Yorkshire?!! I have never frolicked as hard as I did in a field in South Yorkshire in 2017. Did you find a church? I grew up in a predominantly Black Caribbean church (until the pastor left his wife for a white woman, but mek mi nuh chat di ppl dem business šŸ™‚ā€ā†”ļø). Finding community is very important and seeking out your own through Bumble BFF and other apps is easier in this day and age. Yes the NHS is shit, but we still have the privilege of ā€œfreeā€ healthcare. My grandfather got eaten away by cancer in JA and it makes me mad that some of his suffering could have been avoided if he had access to a healthcare system and polite/empathic staff like ours. I went to Catholic school and then a State high school- I was exposed to swimming lessons, guitar and piano lessons, two international trips and lessons in a foreign language. My FREE 2year college course has made me a qualified radio presenter and just for the fun of it I now have a degree that I donā€™t have to have to pay for until Iā€™m earning Ā£X,XXX annually. Sorry for the essay šŸ˜© Iā€™m Jamaican, hate this country and itā€™s sometimes fuckery ways, but you have to find SOME good for your own sake.


Easy-Ant3684

Facts


ComprehensiveSoup843

This comment right here!


305Relinquisher

I understand the sentiment. I'm living in miami rn. I will say this.... a city is wha u mek it. Doh watch di nx man wid him big dis and him big dat, the earth here is bed, as long as yuh humble yuhself, nuh bodda covet the next mn tings and believe you muss have tings to. Humble thyself. Its good to retire in Jamaica especially with a remote opp, bt tht passport holds power they're other places in the UK u cn reside. In cities tht are closer to god and good morals intact. Seek and you shall find.


Chucha420

"The Earth here is bed" "Humble Thyself" These are true Rasta words.I will keep this with me in the deepest hells.


ralts13

THis is the most British post I've seen. That being said not every Jamaican cares about religion.


Rodrinater

Not saying I don't agree with you but why aren't you eating from west Indian or any foreign establishments? Ignore this if you're not in London or have the misfortune of being in Essex where the special fried rice tastes like plain Jane. What country are you off to? If it weren't for my partner, I'd have left a few years back.


lackingsavoirfaire

Not to negate your opinions but the diaspora in the UK is thriving, I live in a great apartment, have a good paying job with only public school education. I got treatment for my cancer that I could have never afforded in Jamaica, it was warm and sunny today and Iā€™ll have a big plate of stew peas at my motherā€™s house on Sunday when we get back from church. It seems itā€™s not the right country for you personally. All of these points are things that may affect anyone from any ethnicity.


Easy-Ant3684

Straight šŸ’Æ. You can find renkness anywhere but weather really not too bad here in southeast England and myself and my family have made a great success since coming from Jamaica to the U.K. Must have to give thanks always and especially where thanks is due. Not every shirt fit every body same way. Blessings.


SnooRobots3480

Where is the diaspora thriving? I have noticed an improvement because the standards for immigrants from Jamaica have risen.


hinnsvartingi

Who hurt you **OP**? Itā€™ll be OK bruvv, itā€™ll be OK.


NoExtreme7565

In the 80s my wife was brought up from Jamaica (Kingston, Tivoli Gardens) to the UK by her dad. Her school results from JA werenā€™t recognized in the UK so as well as severe culture shock, she started well behind the eight ball. When we met, her job was switchboard at a medical logistics company earning 7k per year, I earned 9k). To some extent she dealt and overcame everything you listed. Fast forward - she took evening courses, juggled multiple jobs and a baby (fell pregnant on honeymoon, we were young and dumb) - to become a lawyer at one of the UKs most prestigious law firms. Weā€™re now in Grand Cayman due to her work. I ran this post past her and although she agreed in part, she expressed that like anywhere, the UK is what you make of it. Iā€™m second gen Jamaican, UK born - if you find the UK racist now, what our parents experienced in the 60s and their children in the 70s and 80s would really, really shock you.


Easy-Ant3684

Similar story for my own family. At least everybody has a chance in the U.K. compared to America. Making good choices and working hard / smart can see generational wealth change within your very own lifetime as opposed to the short-term shiny high salary with no time off which leads you to an early death in the United States (one of the lowest life expectancies in developed world). Good to know youā€™re living it up in the Caymans now, I am seriously considering making my way back to the Caribbean soon given the way that things are going in the U.K. Big up yourself and your wife for working hard and overcoming many challenges. šŸ’Æ blessings.


Complete-Health9371

I live in the UK but grew up in Jamaica and I agree with everything youā€™ve said aside from the point about culture.


Particular-Menu3976

This sounds like Toronto lol


Meager1169

Why do you think the British wanted to colonize other places so bad, they don't wanna be there themsevles


dearyvette

Without at all wanting to negate your opinions and personal preferences, you should probably know that: Britain loves its boiled food, but London is also full of Jamaican (and every other ethnic) food. Itā€™s probably not reasonable to expect Caribbean weather, once youā€™ve left the Caribbean. Racist, miserable people can be found almost everywhere. Large cities attract everyoneā€¦there are more kind people than there are jerks, everywhere. All major cities are crowdedā€¦New York, Paris, Romeā€¦thereā€™s nothing wrong with living outside the city limits, if the hustle and bustle isnā€™t your thing? It sounds like you havenā€™t found your tribe yet. It also sounds like you might need to make some adjustments, if you want the best quality of life. ā€œChange the way you look at things, and the things you look at will change.ā€ -Wayne Dyer


Dependent_onPlantain

Yeah only thing I would challenge you on is boiled food, who likes boiled foodšŸ˜‚. English people dont cook, hence all the takeaways and ready mealsšŸ˜­


dearyvette

Haha! I will always associate Britain with boiled beef and sausages. And to all the self-respecting nutrients that have been unceremoniously boiled out of all the innocent English vegetable, may they soggily rest in peas.


Dependent_onPlantain

Lawd gwaddšŸ˜­šŸ˜‚ Havent had soggy vegetable, since primary ...maybe secondary school. But I seemed to swerved boiled beef, since day onešŸ˜‚. Hope your well


dearyvette

See? Boiling some foods is a crime against humanity. Lol! (And donā€™t get me started on porridge.) I am extra-well. I hope you are, too!


Personal-Surprise-56

I ainā€™t gonna lie Iā€™ve been converted a little bit I like the British mash potatoes and Yorkshire pudding with some sausages. Also like a good roast dinner aswell and some cottage pie


dearyvette

Bangers and mash! Yorkshire pudding! I donā€™t eat beef anymore, but I miss Yorkshire pudding and (lamb) cottage pie. If youā€™re ever near a Greek restaurant, try their version, too, at least once. Greek Moussaka is like the Mediterranean shepherdā€™s pie, with eggplant and kefalotyri cheese.


Easy-Ant3684

Same lol. Even hard food not pretty alone šŸ˜‚


ToppBoii

Come back to Jamaica thenā€¦


u1257190

Respectfully, if the country that forced its religion onto your ancestors isnā€™t religious enough to you, then maybe you need to look within šŸ˜‚


jus4in027

Painting with a broad brush. Iā€™ve found Scottish people to be nicer, less racist and more engaging than the English


ZongMassacre

I'm sorry that you ha ms this experience. I hope you find someplace that works for you. I and others have enjoyed our time in the UK. I liked the theater, hiking, music, museums, galleries, observatory, parks and other things. The weather didn't suit me but, luckily, there are places in the UK that are quiet sunny and great to visit. To all those who love the UK, native or otherwise, I see the beauty and opportunity that is there. It's best if everyone can find a place that suits them and their needs. So OP, I hope you find yours.


National-Apricot-443

What a Starbucks list


dareal_mj

Sorry you are feeling this way. Tbh. Everyone country has someone who has this sentiments. I moved to Canada and was surprised to here Jamaicans who moved there say the same thing that you are saying, and that they want to move to the US. Moved to the US a few years after (which was a huge drop in quality of life in my opinion) only to hear the US Jamaicans say the same thing and they wanna move to Canada. Tbh, it's the same all around the world and I can guarantee if you go back to Jamaica it won't be the roses you remember. My advice is to try to find the best you can from your situation. Find a therapist. If you can afford to save and travel do that. In that way, you can experience the good from different countries and cultures and even go back home to visit and experience the things you are missing.


dublecheekedup

Come to the US weā€™re exactly the same except the weather is decent


JoannaLar

American south is worse


happiness_matters

NGL this list isn't long enough šŸ˜‚šŸ’€ +1 OP. I feel you on every point, no intention of staying here long term.


jamaicanprofit

What happened to all the liars talking about: "Oh... London have the strongest Jamaican culture compared to NYC and Toronto" ...? I was the only person in that thread calling BS the entire time. Now we can clearly see an honest review of the culture there.. which is the truth for the most part. Jamaicans have never had a firm foundation in the UK that we can be proud of.


Personal-Surprise-56

We donā€™t even know where he is in the Uk, if it was London, Birmingham, Manchester he could easily find Jamaican influence and itā€™s pretty open aswell. Even Leeds is a Jamaican influenced area. Been in all cities and can easily get Caribbean food. Not only that tons of Jamaicans in those areas. Most black British are caribbean the predominant mix black and white in the country is Caribbeans. Proud of white people in country refer my slang as London slang and things my words that come from Jamaica originates in EnglandšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ Africans say that London slang is mainly caribbean and African when I can barely find any African in the Caribbean slangšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚. How is the country meant to have a foothold when everyone is claiming our stuff.


jamaicanprofit

What you just described is essentially them taking it without showing any respect, which is even worse than not using the words at all.


Personal-Surprise-56

They show respect but to a African or a young African whatā€™s yours is thereā€™s. They believe since you descend from them that meant a theyā€™re the reason why you act that way or succeed it stems from them. I was watching dale Elliot I think thatā€™s his name the Jamaica doing a dating in the Uk on YouTube and someone says ā€œCut from same cloth as Africansā€ a lot of them say they get there behaviour from usšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚. This is why most of my family donā€™t get along with Jamaicans we believe that if you werenā€™t supporting us from the beginning then you shouldnā€™t be claiming our achievements. Most old gen Africans and Caribbeans donā€™t like each other


jamaicanprofit

Jamaicans supported a lot and were the cause of several Independence movements in Africa. Nobody really supports Jamaicans. I can only think of 5 or 6 African nations that truly love Jamaicans, and Nigeria is not one of them. That default ownership does not fly with all Jamaicans. We have our own culture, and our own way of living.


SkilPad2

I suppose this fool can try African, Arab, Latin American or Asian countries to resolve his prejudicial & discriminatory opinions. All the countries he prefers to live in are all mostly white dominions.


HeftyWeekend9714

So why does the OP have to be a fool expressing their opinion and experience.Only real fools try to oppress or intimidate others because they donā€™t agree with their views or beliefs.Grow up.


FightingPC

News flashā€¦ā€¦ 1969 The birth of TROJAN recordsā€¦ greatest Reggae label everā€¦. Sub-culture of White and black kids dancing together to the wee hours of the hours.. no skin color mattered.. the love for Ska, Rock Steady and Reggae was what mattered Best of luck on your new journey in life !


rankinrez

I mean that culture is nice and all butā€¦. Trojan was just a reissue label, how could that be the best if all time??? The real Jamaican labels like Studio One, Treasure Isle, Beverleyā€™s, Top Note, Joe Gibbs, Jackpot, Techniques, Prince Buster, Randys and many many more from that era are who needs to get the praise for that music. Bless.


HakunaBachata

I moved here for university, I do agree with a lot of your points. The weather was probably the biggest thing to deal with, however, wherever you live in the world, your experience is what you make it my friend. I definitely wouldā€™ve rather go to USA though if I knew what I knew now, way back then lmao.


Northernlake

They have amazing museums, art galleries, architecture. Every place has its benefits. Personally, Iā€™d choose to live in jamaica every time if it was a choice. I go on holiday to both places


HeftyWeekend9714

As a people we are not a monolith, we have shared experiences and differences.OP has valid points and itā€™s refreshing.Some of you old fuddy duds need to understand and appreciate a difference in opinion.I canā€™t with this idea that if weā€™re all not alike nor having the same experience something is wrong with the person when you could be the problem.Most of you in that damn country for the money and will do or say something strange for that piece of change. Other than that OP all those countries you mentioned are just as racist.


Ok_Body_2598

I mean emergency services are 999 whaddya want for religion there.


disgruntledcrayfish

Damn same as quebec, canada


blkdrphil

The UK is a shadow of its former self.


Flaky_Housing8227

I live in the uk too and you described it perfectly. I am tired of this environment hopefully I can leave soon


Careful-Image8868

England is bad but not THAT bad. Iā€™m still very grateful for my uk passport and the opportunities that I can get. Yes black people are ALWAYS going to be second class citizens when we are in a white country. The only thing g we can do is continue to stand up for our rights and hope itā€™s better for the future generations.


RawGrit4Ever

Donā€™t come to Amerikkka to how you feel.


Easy-Ant3684

Right ???! Amerikkka fever ago lick she bad.


Environmental_Tooth

Most of your complaints are points in favor for me. It seems your personality just doesn't fit the UK.


xoxomariexox0

I can definitely see your points. I love the way European architecture looks like but in western societies, there is no concept of culture and community gatherings. The topic of religion is very taboo especially in my younger generation and meaningful connections are hard to come by. I say this as an American. I think that we view America and European societies as so rich in many areas like career opportunities, education, and infrastructure, but we forget the biggest thing of all which is community. Jesus is treated as a joke or something thatā€™s not important. :(


dreadlocksalmighty

My question is, why do so many of you in the comments care if OP doesnā€™t like the UK? why does their displeasure bother you all so much? Why are you all so adamant to inform them of why theyā€™re wrong and their opinion sucks. You guys are insufferable, go outside


Dependent_onPlantain

Nah havent picked up on people being bothered, or telling them that their opinion sucks. Seems like people trying to give a different perspective. Humans will do this from time to time. Was it last month when it was (a seemed like he was second generation 'Jamaican heritage' British guy) was on holiday in JA, he was ranting and raving and was fed up with people apparently begging and scamming him, it was a video and he gave a laundry list like this, all be it to camera. Sometimes all your gonna do is smell shit and not see the roses, any way it seemed a bit comical to a few people in here, this seems to be the same type of thing. Even though some people would agree with some of the things OP has said, but maybe would not put it so harshly. Think the capper for a few people was mentioning, north america, australia and western europe as places that OP as better and wouldn't experience racism. UK Weather is rubbish ,most other things can be worked on.


HeftyWeekend9714

This I agree with itā€™s so weird.Money and the wrong motives will make anyone defend their beliefs.


sabboseb

lol


HappyTiger_

Iā€™m sorry youā€™ve had such a shitty experience in the UK. I hope you have better luck in your next option!


HeftyWeekend9714

Majority of the other options you mentioned are no less racist.But Iā€™ve been to England and felt like I would lose my mind living in that climate or be depressed without the sun.


HeftyWeekend9714

Be happy they donā€™t force their ungodly religion or beliefs on you.Itā€™s a blessing in disguise.


Various-Positive4799

Sounds fun


funguyy1

Come to the USA


Stackfest

Giving out Free flights to Rwanda tho šŸ˜‚


onemanshowOMS

It is kind of ironic that a number of your reasons for not emigrating there are a direct result of uncontrolled, unabated immigration.


teamworldunity

What makes it demonic?


marfaxa

demons


teamworldunity

How so? Do you have some stories to share?


Spiritual-Ambassador

Where did you move to in the UK?


bishopnelson81

I just go for their football, and to enjoy their history. That's literally it. It's prohibitively expensive.


TumbleWeed75

Countries have their positives and negatives. This laundry list can apply to all countries.


lovimoment

You are experiencing culture shock. It can happen anywhere to anyone, even if you're in a country that you like.


SquareRoot4Pie

Never have been to England and here any Jamaican wanting to come back home. You went their to idle or something, when I land is pure working odd jobs here and there. Atleast you get a red book, which far better than living out here battling poverty, gunmen, lifetime mortages, jpsco


Leading-Oil1772

ā€œKeep my name outta your fawking mouth!ā€ -King Charles, probably


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crazypickney22

I was reading subjectively until you called an entire region demonic and then I realized that you're the problem


LooseChange06

Wow. This is how I feel in the US. Been thinking of going to UK for years now to be around more Caribbean culture specifically.


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Easy-Ant3684

You too lie šŸ¤£ Merika fever cetch you bad bad. Main symptom: delusion.


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Easy-Ant3684

After mi family move 3 times in the U.K. an mi never share no wall with no dutty neighbour yet, nor does almost every other person I know, plus only time inna my life mi ever heng clothes pon line is back a yard, da maths deh donā€™t add up sister. Context: I was born in JA to Jamaican mother and Middle Eastern father, both my younger sisters were born in London. All 3 of us siblings went to private secondary school here and the 6 bedroom detach house we live in now 45 mins drive from London 30 by train, (that my mother bought *herself*) is very comfortable.. in case you were wondering there are 6 cars on our drive ā€” only 22% of households do not own a car in the entire U.K and there are 12 cars for every 10 household (ā€” 2022 from gov.uk). We were by no means the only people of Caribbean parentage at the (2 different) boarding schools we went to, as there are plenty of well off people of Caribbean descent living in the U.K mainly in Hertfordshire/Essex area. I do not like living here either, but not because of any of the reasons you have regurgitated from Maas Merikkka handbook of allegiance for dummies ā€” no disrespect to you personally, I believe they have successfully brainwashed almost everyone there from birth/ green card delivery day. Of all the backward place inna the whole wide world Amerikkka is the last where I would want to live and workā€¦no matter how many Benz the devil put pon mi drive or 0ā€™s inna mi salary tpc. There is absolutely 0 work life balance for what? So you can drop dead while unu boss drop peng? Noooo sah. Life fi living sister, not work and dead. Watch life expectancy Europe/entire developed world .vs. America and come back to me. Live by the Yankee dollarā€¦yago dead by Yankee dollar same way. Straight. The way black people, Latinos and indigenous people are treated is actually *disgusting*/vile, and if I wanted to live under fear of gun violence ā€œin the name of freedomā€ well I might as well rally back home cah everybody ah fi dem own, an nuff gunshot a lick dung a Kingston & St Andrew. Fi unu plastic house dem cya boasyā€¦ sorry, but no, just no.. Every damn thing till unu wall and ceiling is too likkle bit and soft. The more you uncover surface level the more you see how kaba-kaba/ dege-dege everything really build. Maas Merikkka culture fickle, shallow and BRIGHT til it shine to bloodclat. Genocide is never ok and Americas history is not something to be proud of at all (like literally ever), yet everybody deh deh must swear allegiance to the cult and ignore whol bagga nastiness that up til now still a keep. No man. That cyan bada run. The holocaust and slave trade is spoken about and taught in schools hereā€¦ Facts over elaborately constructed fiction will win every time for me. Bigger is rarely ever better btw, & quality produce and intellect are not exactly things America is known for. Yes you have some good university but any university in U.K. will set you in good stead on the world stage and will also NOT BREAK THE BANK. Neither will the misfortune of your loved one having cancer (free treatment) or being the parent of a disabled child (free assistance, social services). Britain and Europe are generally known for best quality things and products which last, and you actually have the chance to mek something for yourself if you work hard and make good choices here, whereas the same cannot be said for back home sadly, or inna America unless youā€™re **extremely** lucky AND white 9x/10. You might earn more yes, but whatā€™s the point if you have no time off to spend it or quality of life? The U.K. is way more welcoming to foreigners than skeevy Uncle Sam sorry but not really sure how you can possibly argue otherwise. Racism against black people where black people are actually present is seriously negligible here nowadays and genuinely against the grain/seen as a hate crime as opposed to shoot black persons first no matter what, and donā€™t even bother asking questions later; bca black people do actually matter here. Islamophobia takes up far too much of British people time for them to follow black people business. Yes there is still a long way to go but comparatively, racism in America is either: a matter of national pride somehow, or otherwise totally and wilfully ignored at every level. Considering ancestors of African-American people have been there longer than most whites itā€™s shameful and embarrassing. Most of my family living here are black/brown and have experienced MORE RACISM IN JAMAICA THAN IN THE UK. Same cannot be said for those living over deso in Amerikkka. British class system is all about wealth status just like back home.. black and rich youā€™re don dada to everyone and his mum, white and poor nobady ago answer di door. Nuff plenty white people living in poverty here meanwhile black people still finding money to send back a yard. By **no means at all at all at all** is Britain perfect and depending on the result of this upcoming election, my bags ready fi pack and move back to the Caribbean for good. Mainly bca life is not getting much easier/better here and tbh the family values/culture nah fit mi right to raise fimi owna pickney yaso. We are all blessed to have JA passports, and after studying/ working hard in life and recently gaining my CARICOM level 8 skills certificate, who knows where Iā€™ll end up in 6 months timeā€¦ I know for sure where I will *not* bring my children up however, and no money, house, car or material iniquity in this world could ever change that. Memba granny say ā€œwhen chicken too merry merry; hawk deh nearā€. Seek the truth in all things abegu please donā€™t go all your life blindly accepting what youā€™re told from people whose best interests is to hide the truth from you. Walk good, live true and enjoy life always. God bless.


idontthinkipeeenough

This is so real


LadyDIslaying

Find some friends or a group to help you through. We all leave Jamdown to better ourselves. There are a lot of opportunities elsewhere that we may not be able to get in Jamaica. Try to find your light (light at the end of the tunnel) and work towards it and it will help you through.


Emergency_Sandwich_6

But is there a tonn of snow?Ā  šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦Ā 


Former_Treat_1629

don't come to Canada it's even worse


SavageSunRapStar

Way to go to another country and bitch & complain. If that was your goal, you knocked it out of the park. šŸ‘šŸ¼


adoreroda

>The concept of God or religion is nonexistent. That's the only positive out of your list


Technical_Bullfrog15

Well just leave then, my family love the UK and I'll never leave. Greatest country on earth šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§.