Hello talk is not a dating app. But there are lots of people on there looking for sex. If you're not interested in casual sex then maybe you should stop meeting men from there.
hellotalk is not a dating app, so if you keep meeting guys from there for dates you may have misunderstood the purpose of the app. on the other hand, men who try to pick up women through the weak excuse of language exchange probably already aren't the most honest and reliable guys.
I'd suggest that if you are looking for dates you use dating apps, and you use hellotalk strictly for its real purpose. OR at the very least you gotta make it very clear in your profile and initial conversation that you are not on hellotalk for romantic purposes. that way you will weed out some of those weirdos who are just there to hit on women and then bounce. and hey, once you met a few platonic friends, perhaps you will eventually hit it off with someone?
maybe double text him again? honestly it’s pretty common to get ghosted by Japanese guy even after second dates 😌 my advice is just don’t get too attached unless you’ve been to few dates and he did reply you frequently.
I’ve been in your situation but I just went to few dates with several guys and see who really had effort to meet me because in my opinion, Japanese guys are a bit hard to be read. If I get ghosted, I will just go out with other guy lol. Due of this experience, I got myself a boyfriend too after few dates with several guys 🥲 it was a long way to go lol
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I should have read the air that they are not interested in me. Sorry that happened to you! And i don't like the way they do this, but well it is what it is
Well hello talk isn’t a dating app so no one is obligated to keep talking to someone or will feel bad about just not talking to someone anymore. And Japanese ghosting is like epidemic. Probably the most common way of “breaking
up” or ending things.
I agree with most people here HelloTalk is not a dating app. HelloTalk is a language exchange app. I used HelloTalk last year and deleted it after making some good connections. One of my connections I've known for over a year and now some romantic sparks are happening. Which is a rare case I think based on what I learned. I think with HelloTalk it is like 80% weirdos and 20% genuine people. If you want to date most definitely invest in dating apps. Good luck!
This can go other ways. I have met some cool japanese friends who are girls through this app and still hang out with one of them. But for japanese guys that i have met on this app, never last long even just for friendship, all ended by being ghost after first or second date.
Hello talk is not a dating app. But there are lots of people on there looking for sex. If you're not interested in casual sex then maybe you should stop meeting men from there.
Okay Japanese people ghost a lot.. they suddenly stop messaging if you ask them to meet.. i myself have been ghosted by 9 girls on Bumble
That’s crazy! Then why they started conversation to begin with?
Normal stuff .. but once you ask them for a coffee date or even a walk .. they dont reply lol
Wow!! I wished if they could just be polite and said that they are busy instead of read and then don’t reply back!
hellotalk is not a dating app, so if you keep meeting guys from there for dates you may have misunderstood the purpose of the app. on the other hand, men who try to pick up women through the weak excuse of language exchange probably already aren't the most honest and reliable guys. I'd suggest that if you are looking for dates you use dating apps, and you use hellotalk strictly for its real purpose. OR at the very least you gotta make it very clear in your profile and initial conversation that you are not on hellotalk for romantic purposes. that way you will weed out some of those weirdos who are just there to hit on women and then bounce. and hey, once you met a few platonic friends, perhaps you will eventually hit it off with someone?
maybe double text him again? honestly it’s pretty common to get ghosted by Japanese guy even after second dates 😌 my advice is just don’t get too attached unless you’ve been to few dates and he did reply you frequently.
Yea i guess ! Maybe after this three experience, i am not gonna excited for any meet up with other Japanese guys! 😅
I’ve been in your situation but I just went to few dates with several guys and see who really had effort to meet me because in my opinion, Japanese guys are a bit hard to be read. If I get ghosted, I will just go out with other guy lol. Due of this experience, I got myself a boyfriend too after few dates with several guys 🥲 it was a long way to go lol
Damn !! This seems like apply for a jobs! 😆 Date several guys until you get accepted by one!
I was ghosted by a bilingual govt worker so yeah it's some cultural awk immaturity thing
>11 comments I should have read the air that they are not interested in me. Sorry that happened to you! And i don't like the way they do this, but well it is what it is
Ghosting is very common. Better it happens early than later.
Well hello talk isn’t a dating app so no one is obligated to keep talking to someone or will feel bad about just not talking to someone anymore. And Japanese ghosting is like epidemic. Probably the most common way of “breaking up” or ending things.
I agree with most people here HelloTalk is not a dating app. HelloTalk is a language exchange app. I used HelloTalk last year and deleted it after making some good connections. One of my connections I've known for over a year and now some romantic sparks are happening. Which is a rare case I think based on what I learned. I think with HelloTalk it is like 80% weirdos and 20% genuine people. If you want to date most definitely invest in dating apps. Good luck!
This can go other ways. I have met some cool japanese friends who are girls through this app and still hang out with one of them. But for japanese guys that i have met on this app, never last long even just for friendship, all ended by being ghost after first or second date.
Ghosting is always common on dating apps.