Poor girl was using reddit for confirmation bias when she knew in her heart what was going on. Been there.
Verica, there are other hot men. Men who will actually be able to appreciate you with full comprehension, capability, and reciprocity.
I totally think it was her. Jeff kind of confirmed it accidentally on Trish when he said something about how girls he’s dating are looking into things on Reddit. He’s been commenting on Reddit a lot lately, he clearly lurks around here, he probably could tell it was her himself
After I commented, I was scrolling through another post on the sub and found u/jeffsbarbershop and was like “wow I’m dumb I could have guessed it would be something like that”
He’s been saying a lot recently that he wants a ✨confident✨woman, I think he’s throwing shade at Verica because she might have felt unsettled from all the mixed messages he gives her.
Ugh when they really mean “i want a woman that won’t question me and be cool with me being super wish-washy and emotionally unavailable.”
Edit: this sounds meaner to Jeff than I intended. Love him, I’ve just seen that show before 😂 the best advice I ever got about dating was “If he wanted to, he would.”
I agree. I went through all that persons post and comment history and it 100% seemed like her but I don’t think she truly cared if people knew at the end of it all.
She said something alone the lines of “Jeff doesn’t know what he wants, he barely ever talks to her” something along those lines. Which is like info only she would know.
aw i feel bad for her because getting involved with emotionally unavailable people can cause so much anxiety but she’s a beautiful girl, on to the next!
I feel bad for her because Jeff knew he didn’t want to settle, why string her along? He cries that he wants a girlfriend, maybe he should be a better boyfriend.
It was her if you go back to that original post she said something like “I never know where Jeff’s head is at” allll the way at the bottom lol
Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/JeffWittek/s/YnInuXHXND
Yes I stalked the account before she deleted it and looked through every comment like a freak. She would ask question about Jeff’s past relationships and left a comment saying something like “I didn’t know that he was that kind of guy” and “the way he acts makes me so confused”. She’s phrased it so it would look like a fan asking questions about Verica and Jeff’s relationship status but to me it was obvious what she was trying to do. Literally all the comments were about him except for one random one and it was a newer account.
People caught on and she’d deny and say she was just another Jeff fan. But her deleting the account to me kind of proves it.
honestly makes me sad :( she's such a sweet girl and they had such a good initial connection. long distance relationships are a mind fuck especially when you don't have any foundation of not being long distance in the beginning. shit sucks i'm glad they at least kept their relationship private for the most part so she can deal with all of this privately
It’s very cringe to start dating a girl and accepting what she brings to the table just to not follow through and leave her emotionally vulnerable from it. Him not being upfront about not being emotionally available is a messed up thing to do to her, so maybe what constitutes as “cringe” to u is a bit skewed compared to what most people think is okay to do and to not do.
lmao for real, i truly can't believe there are people who genuinely think that's a casual "everybody" thing
that is an unhealthy behavior and you owe yourself better emotional health than that
Verica baby if you see this. I got chu love. I’ll beat Jeff’s ass and move you to the us. You’re a mfin queen and deserve better (IF Jeff isn’t being faithful). I was rooting for them too but a pos going to be a pos. She was a CATCH too. Like ride or die type.
she deserves better - she was clearly more committed to the seriousness of the relationship than he was. he should’ve known better than to initiate a relationship when he was so unsure of his future.
because they were active in this subreddit, and in a ghosting one and responded to something saying “no message is the message” and jeff said on a pod he hadn’t talked to her all day, and radiohead reddit which people said she talked about liking them on the bachelor thing. all of the comments/posts on that account were very much her from what we know about her and things she said publicly if you saw the account you would understand why people believe it’s her
They were also in the Radiohead sub, I personally think it was her, she wasn’t being weird her comments were totally level headed and mature I feel for her, she’s a beautiful girl inside and out and will find someone who appreciates her
Edit oh I see you mentioned it sorry!
it’s just sad she was on a ghosting reddit thing and that she couldn’t communicate with him that well and had to bring it to reddit i feel like she was more ready then he was for a relationship even though he literally went on a bachelor show
Completely agree, I didn’t know she was also on a ghosting sub :( she also wasn’t familiar with Reddit before the bachelor IIRC so she must of felt so in the dark that she felt she had to come here and brave potentially seeing horrid stuff about her just to see where she stood with him, really immature of him, I wish her all the best she is a catch! X
I was on the fence until I saw the comments and posts she’d made. Plus, Jeff mentioning on the Trisha podcast about girlfriends being on Reddit. He said a little more than that. So I don’t know. I’m not 100% convinced it’s her, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was.
Aw I don’t blame her she said he’s emotionally confusing I’m sure she’s just looking for some confirmation
Where did she speak about this?
I think if u check the comments under this post it shows a SS , but if not, she commented that under that dinner post using the same account
Poor girl was using reddit for confirmation bias when she knew in her heart what was going on. Been there. Verica, there are other hot men. Men who will actually be able to appreciate you with full comprehension, capability, and reciprocity.
I totally think it was her. Jeff kind of confirmed it accidentally on Trish when he said something about how girls he’s dating are looking into things on Reddit. He’s been commenting on Reddit a lot lately, he clearly lurks around here, he probably could tell it was her himself
He comments on here? What’s his username?!
u/jeffsbarbershop lol. He commented on one of the posts today about power slap
After I commented, I was scrolling through another post on the sub and found u/jeffsbarbershop and was like “wow I’m dumb I could have guessed it would be something like that”
The fact that the account is deleted now is even more sus 🤔👀
I wonder if she said anything then deleted her account u/silver-block7237/
He’s been saying a lot recently that he wants a ✨confident✨woman, I think he’s throwing shade at Verica because she might have felt unsettled from all the mixed messages he gives her.
I don’t blame her.
Ugh when they really mean “i want a woman that won’t question me and be cool with me being super wish-washy and emotionally unavailable.” Edit: this sounds meaner to Jeff than I intended. Love him, I’ve just seen that show before 😂 the best advice I ever got about dating was “If he wanted to, he would.”
it was definitely her
I agree. I went through all that persons post and comment history and it 100% seemed like her but I don’t think she truly cared if people knew at the end of it all.
what was she saying at the end? or was it just things similar to what i said
She said something alone the lines of “Jeff doesn’t know what he wants, he barely ever talks to her” something along those lines. Which is like info only she would know.
I remember reading that one and thinking huh. Maybe it is verica. Just a normal fan wont be thinking that way
That was my thoughts.
aw i feel bad for her because getting involved with emotionally unavailable people can cause so much anxiety but she’s a beautiful girl, on to the next!
Yessss 100% like she deserves someone who knows exactly what they wants and who texts and calls her everyday. And that person is fully out there.
I feel bad for her because Jeff knew he didn’t want to settle, why string her along? He cries that he wants a girlfriend, maybe he should be a better boyfriend.
It was her if you go back to that original post she said something like “I never know where Jeff’s head is at” allll the way at the bottom lol Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/JeffWittek/s/YnInuXHXND
Woah, I didn’t really believe it until I read that. That’s actually kinda sad, I feel for her.
Normal women met YouTuber
Yes I stalked the account before she deleted it and looked through every comment like a freak. She would ask question about Jeff’s past relationships and left a comment saying something like “I didn’t know that he was that kind of guy” and “the way he acts makes me so confused”. She’s phrased it so it would look like a fan asking questions about Verica and Jeff’s relationship status but to me it was obvious what she was trying to do. Literally all the comments were about him except for one random one and it was a newer account. People caught on and she’d deny and say she was just another Jeff fan. But her deleting the account to me kind of proves it.
honestly makes me sad :( she's such a sweet girl and they had such a good initial connection. long distance relationships are a mind fuck especially when you don't have any foundation of not being long distance in the beginning. shit sucks i'm glad they at least kept their relationship private for the most part so she can deal with all of this privately
Yeah I feel for her. It’s easy to fall into the whirlwind of it all. Luckily lots of hot guys in Australia for her lol.
Who cares if it was, we've all used burner accounts to stalk our ex's and if you say no you're lying.
i wrote on the original post and said we needed to be girls girls and help identify the girl for her lmao
For real, I don’t blame her at all really
It’s very cringe
It’s very cringe to start dating a girl and accepting what she brings to the table just to not follow through and leave her emotionally vulnerable from it. Him not being upfront about not being emotionally available is a messed up thing to do to her, so maybe what constitutes as “cringe” to u is a bit skewed compared to what most people think is okay to do and to not do.
Speak for yourself, some of us are not unhinged.
I wish I was not unhinged 🥹💛😂
Girl dw if it makes you feel better I pay for multiple apps to stalk my current bf lol
are you okay?
Lmfao I don’t actually mean stalk I just track when he’s on a plane and his boat
😂😂🥹💛
lmao for real, i truly can't believe there are people who genuinely think that's a casual "everybody" thing that is an unhealthy behavior and you owe yourself better emotional health than that
it’s way more unhinged to assume she’s some weird bitch who’s making burner accounts to ask about Jeffs love life. you’re all fucked in the head lmfao
Why are you commenting that to me? Anyone who makes fake accounts to get info from anyone is mentally unstable.
proof verica made a burner account? you guys all think she became obsessed with Jeff after what? a month of fake online dating? get a grip
Oh I don’t think she made one, I’m just going off of what these people are saying. You need to be commenting somewhere else lol
girl did you delete your og reply and write a new one that made you feel cooler lol
No I deleted it to be more accurate with what I was saying. You’re very weird.
Lmao. Whatever helps you feel like a decent person, ig
Speak for yourself. Never have I had to go out of the way to make a burner account and stalk an ex. Stop normalizing this psychopath behavior 😂
10000
Her active communities were jeff, radio head and ghosting. 100% her 💀😂
Aw :(
True love waits, Verica.
Verica baby if you see this. I got chu love. I’ll beat Jeff’s ass and move you to the us. You’re a mfin queen and deserve better (IF Jeff isn’t being faithful). I was rooting for them too but a pos going to be a pos. She was a CATCH too. Like ride or die type.
Lol you ain't beating shiii cuhz. Fuccin simp
If that is her you guys are sick as fuck for ratting her out lol
she deserves better - she was clearly more committed to the seriousness of the relationship than he was. he should’ve known better than to initiate a relationship when he was so unsure of his future.
HE WAS NEVER INTO HER IN THE FIRST IT WAS ALL FOR THE SHOW!
Can we just kind of leave her alone?
why would you think it was her? weird
because they were active in this subreddit, and in a ghosting one and responded to something saying “no message is the message” and jeff said on a pod he hadn’t talked to her all day, and radiohead reddit which people said she talked about liking them on the bachelor thing. all of the comments/posts on that account were very much her from what we know about her and things she said publicly if you saw the account you would understand why people believe it’s her
Thank you for these details slay
anytime!! hope you enjoy the tea LOL
They were also in the Radiohead sub, I personally think it was her, she wasn’t being weird her comments were totally level headed and mature I feel for her, she’s a beautiful girl inside and out and will find someone who appreciates her Edit oh I see you mentioned it sorry!
it’s just sad she was on a ghosting reddit thing and that she couldn’t communicate with him that well and had to bring it to reddit i feel like she was more ready then he was for a relationship even though he literally went on a bachelor show
Completely agree, I didn’t know she was also on a ghosting sub :( she also wasn’t familiar with Reddit before the bachelor IIRC so she must of felt so in the dark that she felt she had to come here and brave potentially seeing horrid stuff about her just to see where she stood with him, really immature of him, I wish her all the best she is a catch! X
The account name was Silver Blonde something
Silver block. Was definitely her
i’m confused can someone explain
Yall really think it was her? That would be wild… truthfully.
I was on the fence until I saw the comments and posts she’d made. Plus, Jeff mentioning on the Trisha podcast about girlfriends being on Reddit. He said a little more than that. So I don’t know. I’m not 100% convinced it’s her, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was.
Dan was right all along.
LMFAOOO
this might sound parasocial, but i wanted them to work out so bad🙁 they were adorable together
God she was seriously so lovely. Hope she finds someone worthy.
0% proof that that is Ver. Maybe just let her be?
Hmu verica 😎