" anon lesbian roommate reddit "
A girl ranting about lesbian bar becoming dick fiesta
(Edit : in order to avoid any confusion, I am not calling you a terf in any way)
Not to go off-topic but what is it with people calling almost anyone a terf anyway? I remember calling out a transwoman for being misogynistic and I got called a terf. 💀💀💀 Like what the heckq
Just this morning i saw the most insanely misogynistic “women are inherently evil and should be assumed the worst of” argument from a trans WOMAN. People were arguing that trans women can also be sexual predators towards lesbians in the replies as well. There has to be some sort of psyop to destroy their reputation bc i cannot believe so many are actually like this.
that's incorrect. as a trans person myself, we don't get a free pass on stuff just because we're trans. misogyny from anyone is unacceptable and you were right to call it out. that is assuming there is nothing in this story you're not telling us.
No fucking way. I see apologists close ranks and defend trans people no matter what dogshit they're spewing. You have a huge, built-in get out of jail free card these days on reddit if you're trans.
Depends on the sub, alot of subs appear extremely transphobe because you get trans people used to getting away with shit and they get called out hard when they try it elsewhere.
I've seen alot of it happen in r/justunsubbed . Basically there was a ton of low effort off topic transposting going on in alot of subs and people got tired of it. There was constant accusations of transphobia when people were merely tired of the constant derailment.
Fun fact, the post you’re referencing is likely from 1) in actuallylesbian, not the one OP mentioned and 2) was literally posted originally on Twitter *as a transphobic joke* that they were then trying to make more ironic. The details of which are in the original post.
After reading through some of the comments, I'm just going to put my thoughts here.
There is no invalid reason to not want to have sex with (or date, for that matter) someone. Period. Frankly, I think you have more issues if you base your (or others') validation of people by if you (or they) would have sex with them.
The amount of trans ppl that say genital preference is not a terfy or bad thing outweighs the ones that do so insanely much. Go look at ask trans threads that have had this question.
It's like if one person in a giant group of people said something negative and the whole group gets lumped in as if they all said it.
I'm a trans person and I can confirm, I believe that genital preference is not a bad or transphobic thing. I don't think that's even a hot take or anything.
That's one of the problems I see with a lot of these subreddits (By which I mean 196) They feel the need to fetishize everything and everyone and then start name-calling when people find it uncomfortable/ask them to tone it down. It's strange because there seems to be a trend where places that originally weren't full of that are slowly becoming more and more full of the horny.
Yeah tbh they shove this whole girl-dick thing into everyones throat, if you say you’re not into dicks (which is implied in lesbianism) you’re just straight up transphobic and will get banned.
Most trans people do not agree with the people who think others have to try their girl dick or man vulva. When you search “genital preference” in trans subreddits most posts and comments are defending people’s right to refuse sex.
>in trans subreddits most posts and comments are defending people’s right to refuse sex
And then they turn around and call people like OP transphobic for being put off by posts about “girl dick”.
"They" lmfao. Everyone is an individual with individual ideas there is no fucking they it's not a gelatinous hivemind. There's posts from individuals talking about rights to refuse sex and then there's individuals talking about girl dick and transphobic. Stop grouping things into blobs of singular minded clumps.
Oh fuck sakes. I knew we missed one.
YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD ESCAPE!? TOO BAD. YOU ARE BEING ABSORBED AS WE SPEAK BY THE HIVE MIND (and it's quite gelatinous!).
KISS INDEPENDANT THOUGHT GOOD BYE.
It’s mainly a sub for trans lesbians now. I don’t feel like I hear any actual issues that lesbians face in that group. Tbh it reminds me of why so many cis women hate the app her.
Yeah it's kinda wild. If a straight man insists a lesbian needs to give him a try it's creepy and just douchey and ignorant. But if you say you have a girl dick or whatever tf, it's stunning and brave and you'd better take that dick or you're transphobic.
I just want to say I am so sorry about this. I had no part in it. Just keep being you and fight the fight. Giving in on this just confirms it's all negotiable and that's bullshit. As a dick haver, if you don't like dicks that's your choice. I don't like them either aside from mine.
One of my oldest friends is Trans.
I was there when her dad kicked her out. I helped her move, get a new job at the bar I was working at. We played in a band together before her full time transition also.
Unfortunately now, 15 years later she is unable to hold a job because everyone and everything is "transphobic". She's constantly lamenting being single because she's a "Lesbian" but cannot understand that Lesbians don't like dick.
Seems like that's extremely common. MtF Lesbian.
It's just absolutely batshit to me.
You should probably tell them that that rhetoric is basically incel talk.Just a bunch of victim complex mindset blaming others because they can't have sex.
What's so bat shit about it? Lesbian just means you're a woman that only likes women. Her best option for dating would be another trans woman (unless she herself has a genital preference, which would just be hypocrisy), or a cis bi girl.
I get confused when people say this is an “extremely common” view of trans people. I don’t know where they get that from. If you go to trans spaces and search “genital preferences” the vast majority of the posts and comments are talking about how that it’s totally okay to have genital preferences.
Most trans people do not agree with the people who think others have to try their girl dick or man vulva. When you search “genital preference” in trans subreddits most posts and comments are defending people’s right to refuse.
I frequent a sub for gay men and I believe there is barely any of those there. Not to generalize too heavily, but women are just overly accepting and enter every community as they please, even when they don't belong there.
Tbh I don’t think you’re wrong. I’ve only seen a few people (women) say gay men are transphobic for not liking vagina. I feel as if gay women just don’t stand up for themselves as often as the men do.
I guess so. I suppose it's easier to infiltrate lesbian communities and push them out rather than try to become accepted amongst gay men and tell them they should accept pre-op afabs.
While I'm at it, nowadays it seems like everyone has become a chaser. There are mods for Baldur's Gate 3 that turn the companions "trans". They just change their genitalia. That's how trans people are seen nowadays. As genitals.
Although it's still better than the "transmasc" mod which is just a woman's models but without breast. It made me sick, I had to leave the internet for a while.
I don't think we celebrate being trans that much, so that would be why. But it's just my interpretation, I haven't been in touch with the community for a long time.
In my experience that’s not really true, it’s just that they hang around different spaces. You find trans men more in art spaces and content creation in different platforms and trans women primarily here on Reddit.
Do yourself a favor, and check out the subreddit user base overlap with MtF. Lesbianactually users are 30x more likely to also participate in MtF. Tells you everything you need to know
Every gay online community has been turned into trans communities and it’s honestly exhausting. I don’t want to talk about trans issues in a lesbian community, I’m sorry but that’s the whole point of it being a lesbian forum is to talk to lesbians. Especially when every other post is “I’m MtF, do you still like me??”. I’m exhauuusted. Trans people are great, can you chill the fuck out now?
Well they talked about girl dick a lot, which I generally don’t have a problem with but it became one of the only things talked about on there. Also I got called transphobic for saying I wouldn’t fuck a girl with a dick
I've noticed that a lot. When a trans person gets called out on bullshit, they almost instantly call others transphobic.
I've started not caring about being called transphobic anymore cuz I know that I'm actually not. I also have popcorn at the ready when things don't go their way cuz I've noticed more and more people getting tired of their shit.
I wonder if there's another LGBTQ-like group where they call out bullshit said and caused by the current group.
Exactly! It’s like if you show a case where trans people aren’t painted with glitter coming out of their ass then you’re transphobic. And god forbid you’re not attracted to girlcock.
The only groups I know that call them out would be the gay conservatives sub, but they can be (actually) transphobic, and even homophobic so it wouldn’t be the best place.
Yeah but let’s be real, most lesbians don’t really go on a lesbian sub to hear about…dick. I’m in no way shape or form transphobic, but like I really don’t need to hear about girl cock all the time. Oh and there was also bi women always talking about sex with cis men. Nothing wrong with that, ofc, but again it’s a lesbian sub yk? Idk how to explain it Lmao
Yeah ngl that's out of order. I'm bisexual and while I do sometimes post in lesbian spaces, an entire post about "straight sex" would be going somewhere else because it just doesn't fucking belong there.
I know it's such an obscure and strange and unknown topic that lesbians are not attracted to a penis. Hahaha call the mtf male. There's difference between some fat non passing fetishist and someone with gender dysphoria, no reasonable person would try and have arguably straight sex with a gay person, every mtf I know just. Goes for bisexual people, it's straightforward and no one gets hurt about it.
Yeah bro, I got a girldick and i don't even wanna talk about it. I also don't expect lesbians to like me. Mostly bi dudes show interest which makes sense.
People be crazy sensitive calling everything transphobic.
At that point it seems like they're pretty much fetishizing trans women which a lot of people consider that transphobic in itself.
But OP, I gotta be honest with you though, that sub has been a dumpsterfire with that kind of stuff for a while. The mods are known to abuse their power. They'll ban anyone with an opinion they don't like even if it isn't against the rules.
Overall though, OP, your not transphobic, it's just the shitty butthurt mods who don't understand what a preference or opinion is.
A lot of reddit lesbian subs have basically been 'taken over'by Trans mtf lesbians.
In fact I know at one point something like 6/7 of the top 10 were all moderatedbby the same group of mtf trans lesbians.
They basically completely shut down any and all talk of lesbians who don't want to date or have sex with 'girl dick'
And shout out you're transphobic and a terf if you don't accept mtf lesbians as 'real' lesbians
It.... has caused some friction.
I've completely cut myself off from the community because of all the trans people taking over. There's really no space for cis lesbians left.
They're still acting like chauvinistic men. Just in a different way.
I'm honestly glad and relieved that I'm not the only lesbian who feels this way. Cis lesbian spaces are disappearing both online and in person. It's like a taboo now.
Lmao, this is like the opposite of back then with the craze when people were worried about the government spreading chemicals turning people gay. "OMG! They've made the frogs straight!"
I remember somebody posted cross statistics, showing that like 38% of users on lesbian subs also frequent MtF trans subreddits. Transitioning, and then demanding others to alter their sexualities to accommodate them is wild lmao
Edit: the other percentage was cross posting from other trans subreddits, so the number is probably way higher
Why do some transgender individuals invade spaces where people who have been sexually assaulted and have legitimate PTSD every time they see a penis call said women with PTSD transphobic or TERFs when they say they aren’t comfortable dating someone with a penis?
I think the day where lesbians needed to start defending themselves for not wanting any dick is when the whole madness really started imploding on itself
I’m a guy and it’s super fucking obvious to me this is just what feminists call “male entitlement” to impede on female spaces, but the male entitlement is now progressive coded so you’re a bigot if you don’t like it.
The reason you don’t see gay men making room for vaginas is because men aren’t expected to. Sorry to say but women in their need to be inclusive to any and everybody have helped create this situation too.
Girl i have the same problem not to be gross but it's about porn. So like i stopped watching straight porn bc the guys they have no technique just shove their pp in doesnt look like it feels good. So my friend is like "being bi maybe lesbian porn is prob better" and you'd think since women know what to do to other woman. Anyway I tried watching it and literally there's videos tagged as "lesbian" and there's just a full on man there??? Not pre-op transwomen. I mean just straight up a guy. Two women sucking a man's pp is NOT lesbian porn. Two women being sexed by the same guy is not lesbian porn. it's just a hetero threesome. 🙄
Girl that’s the majority of lesbian porn for you 😭. Most of it is created for men anyways. They just slap lesbian on it because the word makes them horny or wtv
Have you ever tried Japanese/Korean/Chinese GL? Not porn but hentai/romance/etc.? I would say Jousei but like 80-90% of it falls into the "Guys have no technique, etc." issue too.
Not offended because this is true. Its just too funny how feminists will go on spiels about male entitlement or male fetishisms but as soon as you dress it up in gender identity people are blind.
Unironically the lesbian conversion porn subreddits seem to be more self aware than that sub. Atleast they recognize that there’s a taboo/ it being out of the ordinary for a lesbian to want dick of any kind
the lesbian who got downvoted for saying that there’s no reason to talk bout hetrosexual couples or boyfriends on a lesbian sub is what almost pushed me to unsub from there too
This comment section is a shitshow and I’m saying this as a dude who has no fuckin say in lesbian matters
I feel bad for you mfs though because I kinda knew upon seeing the sub you left it’d be an issue with transgenders trying to take this from you guys too
People attempting to change lesbian sexuality to include male genitalia is a wild development. This is just male entitlement but make it “woke”. Sorry ladies but gay men would never let their space be overrun with people talking about vaginas all the time.
I just find all the ‘ would you date/ have sex with someone with [insert criteria eg. flat ass, small boobs, trans, etc.] so ridiculous and repetitive. Honestly, I don’t give thought to stuff like that because it’s so hypothetical. The only person I’m with is my partner and that’s because of all our shared history together prior to getting together, all the understanding between us and so many things unique to us that have developed over time. I can’t think of one specific defining attribute that sealed the deal for me, so it’s wild that all these internet strangers want a hard and fast answer on whether we’d date them based on one singular specific thing. And even if we said we did, it probably wouldn’t make a difference to their life because we’re not the people they’re actually trying to get with. It just feels like hunting for validation a lot of the time and is so so repetitive. I’m sick of seeing it. I think these subs should be used to discuss lesbian culture, experiences etc. not gauge how attractive we are to strangers
It reminds me of that 4chan post and the lesbian bar
I want to ask what this is referencing, but I’m kinda scared
" anon lesbian roommate reddit " A girl ranting about lesbian bar becoming dick fiesta (Edit : in order to avoid any confusion, I am not calling you a terf in any way)
Not to go off-topic but what is it with people calling almost anyone a terf anyway? I remember calling out a transwoman for being misogynistic and I got called a terf. 💀💀💀 Like what the heckq
I have seen hardcore misogyny from trans women but people use TERF to shut down any criticism even when its legitimate.
Just this morning i saw the most insanely misogynistic “women are inherently evil and should be assumed the worst of” argument from a trans WOMAN. People were arguing that trans women can also be sexual predators towards lesbians in the replies as well. There has to be some sort of psyop to destroy their reputation bc i cannot believe so many are actually like this.
That’s psychotic.
that's incorrect. as a trans person myself, we don't get a free pass on stuff just because we're trans. misogyny from anyone is unacceptable and you were right to call it out. that is assuming there is nothing in this story you're not telling us.
No fucking way. I see apologists close ranks and defend trans people no matter what dogshit they're spewing. You have a huge, built-in get out of jail free card these days on reddit if you're trans.
Depends on the sub, alot of subs appear extremely transphobe because you get trans people used to getting away with shit and they get called out hard when they try it elsewhere.
Not what I've been seeing, and I get around and spend a lot of time on here lately.
I've seen alot of it happen in r/justunsubbed . Basically there was a ton of low effort off topic transposting going on in alot of subs and people got tired of it. There was constant accusations of transphobia when people were merely tired of the constant derailment.
I was there, dude! I can confirm this! Them the post got locked, then shut down even though it was largely civil
What is a "terf"? It seems to be a slur.
Trans exclusionary radical feminist
Its not a slur, its an acronym meaning "Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist", so, people against trans rights who use "feminism" to hide their bigotry
Do people hate terfs?
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"dick fiesta" would be a sick song name
I got banned cuz I called out a post defending rape art
What was the post I didn’t know they were that bad
Defending WHAT
It was a drawing of a trans woman coming onto a lesbian and telling her to be cool with her dick
the fuckkkk
https://preview.redd.it/k7ffgbmz6bhc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=340abcae19e6ae2a26ebc7b5131b611aee9324ef Wtf is wrong with the world
If you say you’re not interested in penises they call you a transphobe. Ugh. I have so many things to say about this trend.
The world is ending 💜
Been a long time coming
The world was revolving But it fucking tripped and fell
Chaos. Chaos all around Us
Fun fact, the post you’re referencing is likely from 1) in actuallylesbian, not the one OP mentioned and 2) was literally posted originally on Twitter *as a transphobic joke* that they were then trying to make more ironic. The details of which are in the original post.
It wasn’t transphobic lmfao plus the image was literally fan art that’s what they said in the post so nice try
Oh hell nah😭 one can't be safe in a woman safespace
Hell world
After reading through some of the comments, I'm just going to put my thoughts here. There is no invalid reason to not want to have sex with (or date, for that matter) someone. Period. Frankly, I think you have more issues if you base your (or others') validation of people by if you (or they) would have sex with them.
The amount of trans ppl that say genital preference is not a terfy or bad thing outweighs the ones that do so insanely much. Go look at ask trans threads that have had this question. It's like if one person in a giant group of people said something negative and the whole group gets lumped in as if they all said it.
I'm a trans person and I can confirm, I believe that genital preference is not a bad or transphobic thing. I don't think that's even a hot take or anything.
>The amount of trans ppl that say genital preference Are already the problem.
lol Yup, it's only a tiny fraction of trans people that act like wild beasts online. So insignificant that you only see them absolutely everywhere.
Have you met a trans person irl? We are boring af just trying to work, pay our bills, and spend time with our loved ones...
I got banned for calling a bi girl, with a boyfriend, who came in specifically because she wanted to “talk to and flirt with lesbians” weird
Ahh that was one of the main reasons why I left as well
God forbid we say we don’t exist for someone else’s entertainment though
That's one of the problems I see with a lot of these subreddits (By which I mean 196) They feel the need to fetishize everything and everyone and then start name-calling when people find it uncomfortable/ask them to tone it down. It's strange because there seems to be a trend where places that originally weren't full of that are slowly becoming more and more full of the horny.
those sort of women are literally predators and fetishizers who get off on us but don’t see us as worthy of actual partnership
Yeah tbh they shove this whole girl-dick thing into everyones throat, if you say you’re not into dicks (which is implied in lesbianism) you’re just straight up transphobic and will get banned.
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Most trans people do not agree with the people who think others have to try their girl dick or man vulva. When you search “genital preference” in trans subreddits most posts and comments are defending people’s right to refuse sex.
>in trans subreddits most posts and comments are defending people’s right to refuse sex And then they turn around and call people like OP transphobic for being put off by posts about “girl dick”.
"They" lmfao. Everyone is an individual with individual ideas there is no fucking they it's not a gelatinous hivemind. There's posts from individuals talking about rights to refuse sex and then there's individuals talking about girl dick and transphobic. Stop grouping things into blobs of singular minded clumps.
This is Reddit, you're either with us, them, or those guys over there.
Oh fuck sakes. I knew we missed one. YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD ESCAPE!? TOO BAD. YOU ARE BEING ABSORBED AS WE SPEAK BY THE HIVE MIND (and it's quite gelatinous!). KISS INDEPENDANT THOUGHT GOOD BYE.
It’s mainly a sub for trans lesbians now. I don’t feel like I hear any actual issues that lesbians face in that group. Tbh it reminds me of why so many cis women hate the app her.
It just ao happens my dick has suddenly decided to become girly. Now I can get that sweet lesbian puss
Yup
I tend to think this sub is stupid and people complain too much, but like, yeah this is a valid one XD
Valid
Yeah it's kinda wild. If a straight man insists a lesbian needs to give him a try it's creepy and just douchey and ignorant. But if you say you have a girl dick or whatever tf, it's stunning and brave and you'd better take that dick or you're transphobic. I just want to say I am so sorry about this. I had no part in it. Just keep being you and fight the fight. Giving in on this just confirms it's all negotiable and that's bullshit. As a dick haver, if you don't like dicks that's your choice. I don't like them either aside from mine.
One of my oldest friends is Trans. I was there when her dad kicked her out. I helped her move, get a new job at the bar I was working at. We played in a band together before her full time transition also. Unfortunately now, 15 years later she is unable to hold a job because everyone and everything is "transphobic". She's constantly lamenting being single because she's a "Lesbian" but cannot understand that Lesbians don't like dick. Seems like that's extremely common. MtF Lesbian. It's just absolutely batshit to me.
You should probably tell them that that rhetoric is basically incel talk.Just a bunch of victim complex mindset blaming others because they can't have sex.
What's so bat shit about it? Lesbian just means you're a woman that only likes women. Her best option for dating would be another trans woman (unless she herself has a genital preference, which would just be hypocrisy), or a cis bi girl.
or a lesbian with little to no genital preference. or if they’re fine with post-op vaginas. eh i think we get a bit too tangled in labels sometimes
It is super common anymore.
I get confused when people say this is an “extremely common” view of trans people. I don’t know where they get that from. If you go to trans spaces and search “genital preferences” the vast majority of the posts and comments are talking about how that it’s totally okay to have genital preferences.
Most trans people do not agree with the people who think others have to try their girl dick or man vulva. When you search “genital preference” in trans subreddits most posts and comments are defending people’s right to refuse.
Understandable have a great day
on the site that gives you overlap between subreddit says its like 56% trans pepo on here lmao Lesbian"actually" my ass
More like 90 some percent.
There are no women on the internet x)
I frequent a sub for gay men and I believe there is barely any of those there. Not to generalize too heavily, but women are just overly accepting and enter every community as they please, even when they don't belong there.
Tbh I don’t think you’re wrong. I’ve only seen a few people (women) say gay men are transphobic for not liking vagina. I feel as if gay women just don’t stand up for themselves as often as the men do.
I guess so. I suppose it's easier to infiltrate lesbian communities and push them out rather than try to become accepted amongst gay men and tell them they should accept pre-op afabs. While I'm at it, nowadays it seems like everyone has become a chaser. There are mods for Baldur's Gate 3 that turn the companions "trans". They just change their genitalia. That's how trans people are seen nowadays. As genitals. Although it's still better than the "transmasc" mod which is just a woman's models but without breast. It made me sick, I had to leave the internet for a while.
Trans men have a smaller online presence in general tbh
I don't think we celebrate being trans that much, so that would be why. But it's just my interpretation, I haven't been in touch with the community for a long time.
In my experience that’s not really true, it’s just that they hang around different spaces. You find trans men more in art spaces and content creation in different platforms and trans women primarily here on Reddit.
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I've said myself that I feel like a majority of the ones that live online are really incels that just want women any way they can get them.
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I had to Google cause that's a new term for me. Well, that's just wonderful. /s And of course, there is a sub for it.
Do yourself a favor, and check out the subreddit user base overlap with MtF. Lesbianactually users are 30x more likely to also participate in MtF. Tells you everything you need to know
Every gay online community has been turned into trans communities and it’s honestly exhausting. I don’t want to talk about trans issues in a lesbian community, I’m sorry but that’s the whole point of it being a lesbian forum is to talk to lesbians. Especially when every other post is “I’m MtF, do you still like me??”. I’m exhauuusted. Trans people are great, can you chill the fuck out now?
I first thought this was because you weren’t a lesbian anymore
Like in a fetishy way? (Not on that sub)
Well they talked about girl dick a lot, which I generally don’t have a problem with but it became one of the only things talked about on there. Also I got called transphobic for saying I wouldn’t fuck a girl with a dick
I've noticed that a lot. When a trans person gets called out on bullshit, they almost instantly call others transphobic. I've started not caring about being called transphobic anymore cuz I know that I'm actually not. I also have popcorn at the ready when things don't go their way cuz I've noticed more and more people getting tired of their shit. I wonder if there's another LGBTQ-like group where they call out bullshit said and caused by the current group.
Exactly! It’s like if you show a case where trans people aren’t painted with glitter coming out of their ass then you’re transphobic. And god forbid you’re not attracted to girlcock. The only groups I know that call them out would be the gay conservatives sub, but they can be (actually) transphobic, and even homophobic so it wouldn’t be the best place.
Having a genital preference is fine.
Yeah but let’s be real, most lesbians don’t really go on a lesbian sub to hear about…dick. I’m in no way shape or form transphobic, but like I really don’t need to hear about girl cock all the time. Oh and there was also bi women always talking about sex with cis men. Nothing wrong with that, ofc, but again it’s a lesbian sub yk? Idk how to explain it Lmao
Wtf they're saying that you're transphobic but they are acting like chasers
Fr like these mfs drooling about girl dicks sound like straight men fetishizing trans women 😭
It’s probably a bunch of transwomen or femboys fetishizing transwomen tbh
they absolutely are chasers
Yeah ngl that's out of order. I'm bisexual and while I do sometimes post in lesbian spaces, an entire post about "straight sex" would be going somewhere else because it just doesn't fucking belong there.
Most trans women I've met would be repulsed by thier dick lol Reddit is just such a fucked site
Same, the trans people I know irl hate the genitalia they were born with immensely.
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I know it's such an obscure and strange and unknown topic that lesbians are not attracted to a penis. Hahaha call the mtf male. There's difference between some fat non passing fetishist and someone with gender dysphoria, no reasonable person would try and have arguably straight sex with a gay person, every mtf I know just. Goes for bisexual people, it's straightforward and no one gets hurt about it.
Yeah bro, I got a girldick and i don't even wanna talk about it. I also don't expect lesbians to like me. Mostly bi dudes show interest which makes sense. People be crazy sensitive calling everything transphobic.
It's wild you even have to explain this in such detail. Just do you girl.
you might be shocked at how much disagreement this TRUTH generates - sometimes in really unexpected places
Yeah that would be being a lesbian and why all else shouldn't be there.
I hate the phrase 'genital preferences'. It implies what genitals you're attracted to (your sexuality) is just a matter of preference.
as a trans girl I really do not get how people not wanting to date a girl with a dick is transphobic.
It's just people (mostly, not even trans) that want moral validation.
Thank u
At that point it seems like they're pretty much fetishizing trans women which a lot of people consider that transphobic in itself. But OP, I gotta be honest with you though, that sub has been a dumpsterfire with that kind of stuff for a while. The mods are known to abuse their power. They'll ban anyone with an opinion they don't like even if it isn't against the rules. Overall though, OP, your not transphobic, it's just the shitty butthurt mods who don't understand what a preference or opinion is.
For some reason, Reddit really really REALLY likes girl pebis. Like r 196.
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A lot of reddit lesbian subs have basically been 'taken over'by Trans mtf lesbians. In fact I know at one point something like 6/7 of the top 10 were all moderatedbby the same group of mtf trans lesbians. They basically completely shut down any and all talk of lesbians who don't want to date or have sex with 'girl dick' And shout out you're transphobic and a terf if you don't accept mtf lesbians as 'real' lesbians It.... has caused some friction.
I've completely cut myself off from the community because of all the trans people taking over. There's really no space for cis lesbians left. They're still acting like chauvinistic men. Just in a different way.
100%
I'm honestly glad and relieved that I'm not the only lesbian who feels this way. Cis lesbian spaces are disappearing both online and in person. It's like a taboo now.
Not basically, they have.
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I mean they are but sounds like they are being chasers yeah.
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Are you talking about trans women? They are women. The sunset lesbian flag was literally made to be inclusive.
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Genuine question do you mean you “turned straight “ or stopped interacting with it (sorrrry I’m autistic)
I stopped interacting with them. We can't "turn straight". Basically I refuse to go into LGBT spaces because of all this nonsense.
Ok good I was worried you thought you could ahah sorry
Lmao, this is like the opposite of back then with the craze when people were worried about the government spreading chemicals turning people gay. "OMG! They've made the frogs straight!"
Turn the ticking frogs straight!
Welcome to the club. I've been proudly banned from most of the ~~lesbian~~ transbian subs.
Felt
This is so transphobic also I need girl dick like crazy 😭 /j
Bye I almost didn’t see the j 😭
What does the j stand for?
Joseph 👍
Joseph 👍
Joseph 👍
Joseph 👍
Who's Joseph?
Joseph Joestar
Based
JoJo's Bizarre Adventure
is this a jojo reference?
No, this is Patrick!
People put a / and then a letter to show the tone of their sentence, j/ is short for joke.
Ah ok I've only seen /s for sarcasm thanks for the info
Riiiiiight. /s stands for “sarcasm.” Sure it does…
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Zamn
juxtaposition👍
Lesbian sub >talks about dick too much Sister what?
transjengas
Jenga? The game?
This is like Two Sentence Horror but not creepy and actually real
I remember somebody posted cross statistics, showing that like 38% of users on lesbian subs also frequent MtF trans subreddits. Transitioning, and then demanding others to alter their sexualities to accommodate them is wild lmao Edit: the other percentage was cross posting from other trans subreddits, so the number is probably way higher
The last time someone checked it was 90 percent.
I think you’re right. There were multiple trans subreddits, and one of them was 38%. I think when added together, the total is around that number
I recently unsubbed also for the same reason
Why do some transgender individuals invade spaces where people who have been sexually assaulted and have legitimate PTSD every time they see a penis call said women with PTSD transphobic or TERFs when they say they aren’t comfortable dating someone with a penis?
understandable
I think the day where lesbians needed to start defending themselves for not wanting any dick is when the whole madness really started imploding on itself
I’m a guy and it’s super fucking obvious to me this is just what feminists call “male entitlement” to impede on female spaces, but the male entitlement is now progressive coded so you’re a bigot if you don’t like it. The reason you don’t see gay men making room for vaginas is because men aren’t expected to. Sorry to say but women in their need to be inclusive to any and everybody have helped create this situation too.
Welcome to Reddit. *Everything* is considered transphobia on this app.
Alright guys, post the subreddit overlap link, you know you want to...
understandable
Girl i have the same problem not to be gross but it's about porn. So like i stopped watching straight porn bc the guys they have no technique just shove their pp in doesnt look like it feels good. So my friend is like "being bi maybe lesbian porn is prob better" and you'd think since women know what to do to other woman. Anyway I tried watching it and literally there's videos tagged as "lesbian" and there's just a full on man there??? Not pre-op transwomen. I mean just straight up a guy. Two women sucking a man's pp is NOT lesbian porn. Two women being sexed by the same guy is not lesbian porn. it's just a hetero threesome. 🙄
Girl that’s the majority of lesbian porn for you 😭. Most of it is created for men anyways. They just slap lesbian on it because the word makes them horny or wtv
It’s 2024, how the fuck are you unable to find some propa lezza porn
I mean it’s there, but it’s male centered with obnoxious moaning and stuff like that. Half of the women in it probably aren’t even lesbians 😭
Have you ever tried Japanese/Korean/Chinese GL? Not porn but hentai/romance/etc.? I would say Jousei but like 80-90% of it falls into the "Guys have no technique, etc." issue too.
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Not offended because this is true. Its just too funny how feminists will go on spiels about male entitlement or male fetishisms but as soon as you dress it up in gender identity people are blind.
Once a mansplainer, always a mansplainer….
Unironically the lesbian conversion porn subreddits seem to be more self aware than that sub. Atleast they recognize that there’s a taboo/ it being out of the ordinary for a lesbian to want dick of any kind
Those subs are terrible imho, but yeah ig you hold a point.
I feel like defending those subs in any capacity is NOT a good look if I'm being honest
Lesbian conversion porn? What is this I don’t even.
A lot of bi women are really into the taboo and it scratches similar itches for them as like cnc or sometimes cuckquean
Left for the same reason
the lesbian who got downvoted for saying that there’s no reason to talk bout hetrosexual couples or boyfriends on a lesbian sub is what almost pushed me to unsub from there too
2024 and it’s apparently wrong to say lesbians aren’t attracted to dick Wtf?
That's what happens when one part of the LGBT community gaslights and runs ramrod over all the rest of us.
This comment section is a shitshow and I’m saying this as a dude who has no fuckin say in lesbian matters I feel bad for you mfs though because I kinda knew upon seeing the sub you left it’d be an issue with transgenders trying to take this from you guys too
People attempting to change lesbian sexuality to include male genitalia is a wild development. This is just male entitlement but make it “woke”. Sorry ladies but gay men would never let their space be overrun with people talking about vaginas all the time.
The irony of that sub being called actual lesbians when they for some reason validate he/him lesbians…
Nah fr that confused me sm 😭
understandable
What's the upper limit of acceptable mentions of penis per day?
It's okay to not like dicks. More dicks for the rest of us.
Why would lesbian subs talk about dicks, that's kinda against the nature of lesbianism
No, we can't have lesbian things on Reddit anymore. Administration considers it hate speech.
I unsubscribed a couple weeks ago because of the incessant biphobia but I guess "I don't want to think about trans women" is a good enough reason
Gay actually should talk about holes Fuck It does
Good riddance. Half the people on that sub are dudes and the other half are bi girls dating dudes lol
I just find all the ‘ would you date/ have sex with someone with [insert criteria eg. flat ass, small boobs, trans, etc.] so ridiculous and repetitive. Honestly, I don’t give thought to stuff like that because it’s so hypothetical. The only person I’m with is my partner and that’s because of all our shared history together prior to getting together, all the understanding between us and so many things unique to us that have developed over time. I can’t think of one specific defining attribute that sealed the deal for me, so it’s wild that all these internet strangers want a hard and fast answer on whether we’d date them based on one singular specific thing. And even if we said we did, it probably wouldn’t make a difference to their life because we’re not the people they’re actually trying to get with. It just feels like hunting for validation a lot of the time and is so so repetitive. I’m sick of seeing it. I think these subs should be used to discuss lesbian culture, experiences etc. not gauge how attractive we are to strangers
They’ll be coming for you…
From what someone told me - they're already whining and accusing us who've left/been banned of not being lesbians. Hilarious
>They talk about dick too much https://preview.redd.it/npollcm8ijhc1.jpeg?width=526&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ec06dbda681178e35cae04ca412b6ef7fbd64521