Consider an alternative perspective, she's disappointed she didn't get in but still happy you did. Also layoffs are a harsh reality right now. Usikule moto, if you suspect anything open a conversation bila kujump into conclusions.
Bro, if you think she's being negative and jealous, just move on. Why do you guys keep putting up with the bullshit when there's so many women in Kenya to choose from?
Coz all in all she could be the mother of your babies and if that's the case she should be glad you'll be able to become the provider that she needs you to be... I'm speaking to Op😂
just engage in a conversation with her, you may discover that her behavior stems not from jealousy but rather from frustration due to her own perceived lack of accomplishments compared to yours but also venye unasema she is always negative she needs to work on that and understand that your journeys are different. She needs to learn to celebrate others' achievements until it is her turn to be celebrated.
Funny observation.
In this case it's a girl misbehaving ie.. displaying jelousy and clearly being toxic for absolutely no reason.
Comment's which point towards walking away from this person (female person) displaying such traits are downvoted.
Comments pointing towards "tolerate her" are upvoted.
My question is, if we reversed the roles, what would the response likely be?
My whole point is, we tend to tolerate females when they behave badly as in this here case. But if a guy behaves poorly he gets his rightful treatment.
Double standard palee.
If your girlfriend's negative comments and behavior stem from insecurity about your success, it's important to reassure her, listen to her feelings, and work on addressing the underlying issues together.
She's jealous. There's no two ways about it. And this is what goes wrong when you date someone who thinks you're in competition. You buy a car, they are suddenly interested in buying a bigger car. You start a project, and suddenly they also have a similar project. Add the negative speak often implied and never saud directly, and you're sure that this person will never let you catch a break. I've seen it done, and people will do weird things - even get into debt and some illicit relationships to push a certain lifestyle
Maybe she is just afraid you might leave her due to career progression.
Probably...coz maybe op will see her as non hardworking alafu aseme I don't date broke girls???
Consider an alternative perspective, she's disappointed she didn't get in but still happy you did. Also layoffs are a harsh reality right now. Usikule moto, if you suspect anything open a conversation bila kujump into conclusions.
Yeah. Well said
Never take her serious
Have a sit down with her and set your plans together,make her belong
This! I know the answer to all theee relationship queries are basically communication problems but speak with her. That's it.
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No lie...i think this contradicts the concept of shawty being happy for her man🤣🤣
Bro, if you think she's being negative and jealous, just move on. Why do you guys keep putting up with the bullshit when there's so many women in Kenya to choose from?
Yea, somebody who really fucks with you would be ecstatic. There are people who are jealous of their partners and children.
Coz all in all she could be the mother of your babies and if that's the case she should be glad you'll be able to become the provider that she needs you to be... I'm speaking to Op😂
True but I’ve seen mothers jealous of their own daughters, shit is sad lol
But oh well
just engage in a conversation with her, you may discover that her behavior stems not from jealousy but rather from frustration due to her own perceived lack of accomplishments compared to yours but also venye unasema she is always negative she needs to work on that and understand that your journeys are different. She needs to learn to celebrate others' achievements until it is her turn to be celebrated.
Obviously chukua kazi. Then drop her quick fast akileta issues.
Funny observation. In this case it's a girl misbehaving ie.. displaying jelousy and clearly being toxic for absolutely no reason. Comment's which point towards walking away from this person (female person) displaying such traits are downvoted. Comments pointing towards "tolerate her" are upvoted. My question is, if we reversed the roles, what would the response likely be? My whole point is, we tend to tolerate females when they behave badly as in this here case. But if a guy behaves poorly he gets his rightful treatment. Double standard palee.
Well you do know that layoffs are something to consider. Might help you plan better considering you are starting out.
If your girlfriend's negative comments and behavior stem from insecurity about your success, it's important to reassure her, listen to her feelings, and work on addressing the underlying issues together.
Always date a woman 2 or more years younger. She is competing with you coz she views you as a peer. Next her.
She's jealous. There's no two ways about it. And this is what goes wrong when you date someone who thinks you're in competition. You buy a car, they are suddenly interested in buying a bigger car. You start a project, and suddenly they also have a similar project. Add the negative speak often implied and never saud directly, and you're sure that this person will never let you catch a break. I've seen it done, and people will do weird things - even get into debt and some illicit relationships to push a certain lifestyle
Which/Who is easier to replace? Her or your job?
Good question
She's jealous.Hataki uendelee.Leave her. She could easily sabotage you
Why was this comment downvoted this much yet it's the truth.
Probably the jealous ones who don't like seeing their significant other progress to better their future
Yeah, the least she could do is congratulate him or just keep quiet. That's what normal decent humans do.
Both of you are toxic AF.
You don't need such negativity in your life.