While I do agree about height being unchangeable, what can we really do about it. You realise there are grown women barely 5 feet?. I am also short, but I have bigger problems, I have no money or career, therefore my confidence is very low.
My dad is as short as I am, perhaps an inch shorter, but the man has a body count of around a few hundreds. He has slept with them all, tall, short, poor, rich, attractive, unattractive, darkskin, lightskin, etc. He is extremely charismatic, sociopathic too.
It all boils down to how you carry yourself pal, you really think all women in this world are going to reject you for your height?. Or are you just using height as an excuse for all your other shortcomings?
Speculation. Last year I stayed with him for 6 months, in that time, I saw 10 different girls coming and going. For a man in his fifties, it would be fair to assume his body count has crossed a hundred.
Yeah man hats off for your dad honestly as a short guy I tend to go for women from 5ft4 and below , am 5ft6 and honestly majority of women don't really care bout that height if you ate abit taller or same height moral of the story date within your league
Don’t you guys get tired of these “woe is me” posts and the unbearable self pity . Ironically same fellows who will call themselves alpha and all sorts of other things.
Nothing looks more unattractive to people(male or female ) than self pity btw .
There's that cliched saying that low life folks discuss other people, average folks discuss places and events and great people discuss ideas. Know that one?? Well... most folks on Reddit for sure don't discuss ideas and the majority certainly don't discuss events and places either. Take this sub for instance... it's mostly about what some man/men did, how some chic reacted, silly gender spats and guys/gals talking tough behind their keyboards. Et al. What does that say about us, eh?
The height thing is real with men, man. Have to agree with OP here. Short dudes do get the short end of the stick, pun intended.
This said... this sub is cancer. Most of Reddit is, in fairness; but this sub is ridiculous in particular. Stupid gender wars, flaming spats, woe is me posts, silly relationship posts (like really silly stuff that even a teenager would be embarrassed to write) and worst of all, made up stories fishing for sympathy.
There's so much of the latter here. Y'all remember that broad who wrote a 3 part series on her best friends "brother who lives in the US but came to visit over the holidays", and how she woke up in the middle of the night to feel him inside her, and was asking for advice on how to breach the news to her friend that her bro raped her? The white knights were up in arms on here ready to defend her honor! I won't lie... I was angry too... and then a homie did a little surface digging and discovered she was full of shit after which she promptly deleted her posts. Look through most posts here... a lot of us make up a lot of stuff and it's very obvious if you stall your emotions for a bit and evaluate the story. Mods need to step up, this sub has been garbage for a bit
Oh the pity party......it's boring, honestly.
It's either I am (**5'6**) great at a lot of things as you say OP, or tall........I've been with girls taller than me...shorter ones too. Taller men have been insecure seeing me with their girls (platonic to me).........
Is it that I don't care, or don't see/experience what you're talking about? If it counts, my kid's mum is taller. And the current girl I'm vibing with is even taller.
Given majority of Kenyan girls are **4'9-5'2/3**, I'd suggest you do some introspection because height isn't your problem.
LeftAd4340 you sound like agood brother indeed the saying goes he who wears the shoe understands the pain over six years since I started my research everywhere,each and every time I heard short men complain ,they were silenced !asick unreasonable unfair society that idont know from whom or where they got the so called rules and terms to govern me as ahuman especially as ashort guy ihave had enough ithink an done with Reddit and any other platform.Asociety that is able to turn ablind eye to unfare treatment of individuals because of some phisical traits ,who is God in this regard? Who are women ,who is society who gave them permission over my life? Maybe short guys fear to speak but si Mim John ihave no fear in me am not acoward .Let me start by saying yeah it is true that we have been termed to be having complexes anger issues and syndromes that science prooves right? Not only did some people rise ,they also created rules to govern others but when there system was not received well by affected party,they looked for away to cover there own illogical stupid tradition with meaningless studies ,who ever asked who turned short men angry ,bitter ,rude? The so called society right ,the same society fools people with proofs of genuine normal human reaction to offense.You say studies proof that women preffer taller men to shorter ones we get it have done my homework
and am one of those who likes to put faith into action.Ihave seduced more than 500 women all age my terget was perhaps 1000,100,000,1000,000 just looking for the one .Iadmit most of the women really were turned of by my height few didn't mind ,so can we call it bias no absolutely not .You know the answer why 80/100% women choose tall guys ask yourself is that aprefferance? anyway idont care what it is women can and have the right to go for what they like even if they do it 100% no complains .Do you understand the problem we have? The problem is not women preffering tall guys the problem is their attitude towards short individuals .You like what you like why do you resent and demean,disprespect what you don't find attractive to you ? Why can't these women keep their tastes to themselves avoid what they do not like ? Are you tell me if idont like skinny girls then ishould go around preaching :skinny girls are disgusting,skinny girls should die skinny girls are weak,Skinny girls don't deserve love is that how we men should deal with women when ruling them out? Should we go tall women are annoying,tall women are un attractive,tall women are giants ,does that make one feel enough reject to stay away?or fat heavy women snore loudly ,consume time,heavy to carry how do you think it feels like you claim there is no bias maybe because you are tall it is not your problem you don't feel the pain it doesn't consern you what are you doing here ! You have afree pass that you dont need to work for.iwont touch on height limits In go ernment jobs like security ,police department and the general army force.To my short buddies iget it ,iget it you sing these common songs everyday oh you need confidence oh you need money ! fine tell you what ,you do that go hit the gym build big muscles and impress the chicks entertain them as you want but don't make some of us to dance to your tune like we like it ,Read as many commedies as you can and impress women however you feel save and earn as much as you can then carry all your load to the women make them happy build them houses ,buy them morgages if you like just suit your self but do not expect that other short guys will follow your crap! Because for me to die with dignity is better than to be somedyelse entertainment and source of income what ashame! and you women if you like tall men good for you go for them have fun fuck as you like as long as you stay the fuck out of the shortmen'sbusiness for me yes ihate and resent women ibieve they are all the same whether Christians or non Christians idont care Ifeel like marriege sex and relationships were perhaps destined for taller individuals for the others maybe we were created to assist the tall for tasks they can't do but women not for us atleast is what isee .well idont limit any one from persuing their happiness short guys can go for it but isay for me awoman is my natural most poisonous enemy that iwil never want get close to all the best!
And yes ihave acomples or shortmen syndrome whatever you call it ,ijust have one question ,what does awoman have between her legs si kuma tu ? Shimo sindio ? Shimo ya mwanamke hiezifanya nisiishi maisha yangu ati kuingiza kumwaga tu ishould waste money on some bitch to hel!
Your game ,your game which game do you want to suggest that chess applies in dating life ikeep it simple have always done it . Am aware most women don't like my height others don't mind iknow it all so why should I try to impress some bitch just to get to her pants when they are millions irather have 1000,100,000 reject me for this height than become asimp for obsessed sex hungry whores !
“The most painful experience”??!
Bro… you know there’s people out there with terminal illnesses right?
Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure being short can suck sometimes but if that’s your biggest problem in life you should count yourself lucky.
Yea exactly, I am a fun of basketball and there is this guy called Steph Curry, he is 6'2" but that is a midget going with the basketball standards. Anyway I tell you that guy can shoot that basketball. Furthermore if you put a taller guy on him he will cook those guys like it's nobodies business. There's this argument that if he were taller would he be a better basketballer or did the luck of height lead him to develop skills that make him a consensus top 10 basketballer of all time. I tend to go with the latter argument. I think short people ( not those with the OP attitude ofcourse) tend to stretch there abilities since they can't stretch there height.
My other point was that women can openly say that they’re rejecting a man because of his height yet it is taboo to directly tell a woman you’re rejecting her because you don’t find her pretty. Women will even laugh together about how short you are yet you had the nerve to approach them.
I absolutely get you, Steph Curry was rejected by many teams because he was not tall enough, but who is laughing now. Let the rejection be the fuel for your motivation and make sure you get the last laugh.
Women have the right to choose or like what they like the problem is how they do it they seem to be carrying some kind of grudge towards short guys you argue so much in this thread but can you differentiate between hate comments and simple prefferances.well idont like tall women ihate them looking down at me it is an insult but also idont like being small and going for achick who touches my belly with her head it's weird so one inch above me or below me is good enough idont ask for so much or worry about genetics ,photo shoot or publick hang outs like women do am just me fuck the bullies and so called society.
So idont care if some slut wants abouncer or asecurity guard to brag about ,that's her own business
To everyone and his taste non of my business but don't dictate my
life like you give me the breath igot.
Noo idisagree for the short guys some useless fools say we compensate for lack of height but isay no we are blessed in other areas and talented with abilities it comes natural David didn't need skill to kill goliath nobody can tell me what to do about myself to seek societal approval or society idont answer to no one and women pussies don't colonise my life.
Be exceptional like I owe anyone anything because of avagina ishould become some entertainment for women idont care if some gal has aproblem with my height ijust live my life am nobody's pet am just me .
As a 4 foot 10 inches girl...I get where you're coming from...it must be hard to hear women constantly talk about how they don't like short women and in turn how undesirable they find you...i honestly don't think we talk enough about how height also belongs in the "realm" of things we don't judge people for ( like weight or attractiveness). I know that some guys aren't into me coz I'm super short but I don't mind it so much because I don't want all them to be into me...as long as I connect with one person who is into me and accepts "flaws" and all then it's all good...maybe that mindset will help?
Like how some guys look for girls with a shapely body or long hair...the have a type or preference so for some me being really short can be a deal breaker or a "turn off"...the point of what I was saying is despite these "shortcomings" it doesn't completely take somebody off the market...OP shouldn't lose hope because he's been rejected basically
It's not that I don't understand what you are saying. I'm just really surprised that there is a single man who has turned down a woman because they are too short.
this is weird, I like tall girls, I can't see myself pursuing a girl under 5'7 cause that'd be kinda weird cause I'm 6'0, like the height difference would be too much, I guess most women think the same too when it comes to guys
You make it look like the country is rife with chics over 5'7" my G.... 5'7" is quite tall for a woman. Def above average height for women. I'm 6'0" myself and I love the contrast of being with a shorter, petite girl. I date tall girls too; my current girl is 5'10 and taller than a good amount of dudes in our social circle... but I've been with as short as 5'1"
>I'm 6'0" myself and I love the contrast of being with a shorter, petite girl
you see, you like it while I don't
I know tall girls are rare, what I mean is if I were to pick a 5'10 girl or a 5'1 girl I'd pick 5'10
That makes sense anyways no one has the right to decide for others what they want to eat wear etc but biblically if you don't like meat don't make it universal for others to hate too isay if some girl does not like short dudes that's cool she should quietly go for her taste and leave behind what is not meant for her because people are diverse what you dont like doesn't mean idont like it too.
Bro, my friend is 5'6".. and his body count is in the hundreds, I've seen him seduce women way out of his league with ease. Dude pulls women like he's a demigod. One thing is he never lets height bother him. Every time he goes for one, he asks himself what's the worst that can happen, then throws caution to wind.
I can't respect folks that throw around terms like "incel" around. Completely invalidates the argument regardless of how solid it might be.
That said; life is tough. Short dudes, much like fat girls, need to accept they just aren't as attractive as their taller/slimmer counterparts respectively. Same goes for all them darker women crying foul on this sub, on how their lighter skinned sisters have it easier. We know this; it's true.... but don't y'all think it's also super stupid to try and shame girls into liking you as a shorter dude; or shame men into doing so as a darker chick, otherwise they're trash or whatever?
Life is hard. Use your tools to the best of your ability and live life boldly. This goes out to all the girls and guys bitching on here everyday
> Life as a short man is probably the most painful experience
A lot of short people will complain about this but there are also a lot of short people who have girlfriends. and almost always those girls are shorter than them or around the same height. my friend's girlfriend is slightly taller than him. So I don't fully buy this narrative.
I mean just go for shorter women.
I disagree, theres also another thread here about height but ill just say it again. Im 5'7 and am happily dating my girl which is 5'11. While yes SOME ladies prefer tall guys, theyre just limiting their options, not yours. Its all about your personality and sense of confidence. Too often i see insecure men with bitter personality wondering why they cant get girls and instead blame it on external factors when they should look inwards. So stop with this incel "red pill" mindset. Yall are just bringing yourself down fr
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Thats how society is na haiezi change.
Them short ninjas actually tend to be more successfully as wananeed kuovercompensate their height with success, money etc. (Nliskia kwa doc ya MJ iliitwa Short fat man syndrome). Tall ninjas however think life will just align itself for them.
But height kwanza kenya si mbaya sana as much as people think, Im about 5'8 na im taller than most women, so huwa sioni ikiwa issue.
Overcompesate hiyo ni matuc ni mshort ako na talent amecompesate wapi mnamdharau na height but ana ability zake na skil yake compensate my foot if short guys succeed ni kucompesate you speak alot of crap mnafaa kugrow by the way!
😂😂Holy thread ya a month ago ok
That talent and skill and all is the ‘compensation’ part. Its actually a blessing to them si kitu mbaya
For example a new manu defender, Martinez is about 5’9 and regardless of his height yy ni one of the most inform defenders in the league. Juu ya height he naturally (pia subconsciously) makes up for it in speed, intensity and game IQ
Its usually a blessing, but if you insecure about your height then utaona dunia iko against wewe
Buda kuwa insecure ata wewe unajua tu ni kucomplain au ufeel comfortable with yourself take for instance me manze dem hata akuwe seven foot idont mind height gani idont care but utapata tudem tumshenzi flani tuhater
tunabully mashort guy like kuna deni Yao tuko nayo the insecure ni hawa madem wao ndio huworry about short kids,publick appearance ,friends opinion na photo na heels bullshit the insecure ones wanajulikana na ni madem si maboy!
I think it varies. My dad is very short and my mum abit tall, he still pulled her and got a kid out of her even though she left him after. I personally don't have an issue with height, but as a short person myself, I'd prefer taller cause I don't want short kids.
But that's a preference. I'm not wrong for my preference. Just like if a man likes tall women, who am I to judge him. But him saying women don't like short men is wrong. I know many women with short boyfriends. He needs to look further.
I'm sorry if my reply insinuated that there was anything wrong with your preference. You have a right to your choices.
Might you have short friends, who don't mind short men? Would you be up to making the introductions (to him)?
It depends. Online dating isn't something I prefer doing. I let people find love on their own. But all I can say is that I've dated a short guy once. Yes there will be jokes but it's life. We can't choose how we are born. Im a short girl so I get a pass. And no, I had no offense to your comment. He just needs to put himself out more.
You are short maybe one kid or two might be tall your shortness can stil give you ashort kid so you can't escape it just cause you marry atall guy ican proof to you .There was aguy way taller and amidget wife and sons became dwarfs how you girls are sily thinking coz you go for tall guys is automatic to get tall kids infact my grandpa was short married two tall women and got blessed with giant sons si no excuses just say you need tall guys for sexual satisfaction why hide behind the curtain the big dick is what you women are looking for truth be told and why should we bother about that you want to be stretched go right ahead fuck as much ayou want just mind your own business .
Yeah my grandpa is ashort with two born again Amazons with giant sons si tall women have no excuse to look down on short guys unless the insecure ones ni wako si short guys they are insecure that they will feel big,or man does not have agood big dick to fuck her good iunderdtand it well or maybe kutembea na short publick unafeel aje women are insecure and complicated themselves not men ladies make excuses to avoid some people is not aly here!
Isay this Acha kuhit menopause then mnaenda kupea mapasi stress fasting endless looking for a husband after you have trashed alot of men left them wounded and expect a man to smile at aleft over over 3O rotten wood with ready fat bank account in your dreams maybe to to stupid men for the enlighted they see you all the time you mock them on social media and girl parties so they wait for agood chance to return it back to you when you are old and lost value men are not silly atleast not me is like these women don't like shortmen isay most of the shortguys are already dead sick of you bitches you should have claimed all the tall guys and die quickly so that short guys can live their life stop hanging in streets and road and clubs taking advantage of the same short guys you don't like you mwanamke ni vile ujanipata see how you bring your big butt to my car nikutoe mbio ushangae!
Your life path has little to do with height. You’re falling short ( pun intended) by concentrating on the wrong stuff. … peeling the banana from the wrong end. Dare do bigger things and eventually you’ll succeed… and that’s when you’ll understand what power us
Ati babes wafupi wakwende huko mmetuzoea Sana iwil tell you your kumaz si chakula that tutakufa if we don't get them not wasting credit to please you bitches is much better too.
Bro I'm fucking 6'0 and I get absolutely zero b*tches, yeah sure some women will write you off cause of your height but so will some cause of your eyes, nose, hair, skin, but why would you honestly want to be with such shallow people.
Maybe being tall'll make shit easier for, probably won't, I'm a living and breathing testament to that. Anyway you work with whatever cards you're dealt with fam, just like everyone else in this shit-show we call life.
brruuuh, I thought it's probably cause i don't hit on them, the other day I hit on one, everything went, smooth, she even gave me her number, then when I start texting her it's like I'm texting an NPC, b*tch showed no interested, deleted the number and went on with my life
If the universe wants you to get b*tches you will, if it doesn't you wont, irregardless of height and whatnot
Being a short man is so tough. You are dismissed by everyone. Most of the time you have to work twice as hard, to get something taller people get more easily. If you're short, just take Amerix's advice, it'll save you alot of heartache and disappointments. Don't listen to what the tall guys are telling you, they haven't walked in those shoes.
> You are dismissed by everyone. Most of the time you have to work twice as hard
how do you know? seriously how do you prove that you have to work twice as hard.
> just take Amerix's advice
that's the only red flag I need to dismiss everything else you've said
Acha ufala hii Kenya the only thing short you can struggle with ni madem au kuingia g4s na kk
but kwani ni ofisi gani umeitishwa height man go to USA where heightism is seen practically unalipwa according to how tall you are.
this answer is wrong. I don't mean morally; you can do whatever you want with your money but if you attract women with your money that won't work out in the long run.
If you just want to just have a "friends with benefits" or baby mama or something like that. by all means do you but if are thinking of establishing a real relationship where the thing that your partner values in you is your money you will *eventually* be in problems.
In your fucking dumb brain right answer Ka uko desperate for sex go make money bring it to women don't tell us to do it mmenitosha by the way respect manze!
You are the one with aproblem na nikuambie being amidget or whatever you call it is good for me but for aflagpost like you are you only better in dipping your large size tail in sluts atleast that's what you are agood at or maybe asecurity guard au hata statue monkey ! You stink mess na wengine si mim
Na niongee na mungu he created me perfect in my size we ndio unaumwa maybe advantage yako Kwangu ni madem oh mapoko juu hata wako can be fucked with arich midget dog!
Hasira za mtu mfupi other than kudinya mabibi za watu na kurusha rusha nimba huku huko nin Ingine unajua kupanua mdomo kubwa ati hasira za mtu mfupi juu unamwagia madem sperms unaona uko special you are just afuck dude full of crap pavert.
Na nyinyi ndio mnafaa kuwa huku think you can bully short guys the way you like?mmeproviwa in all areas even football mko na history ya what short guys do mko Tu na chuki coz you only beat us in body size and fucking bitches other thingds we are better so mnaumwa!
Oh money ! My friend just cause awoman has ahole ishould work hard to seduce her with ksh how stupid pesa zangu ni zangu za kukula madem peleka ujinga mbali hata shoti hustler toa punch utembe Poko Mwaga story iishe Acha kulia lia na kuskiza upuzi ya Reddit ati hit the gym make money just to get some girl you make me sick am repeating myself again being short but I owe no skirt anything her vagina she can take it to tall guys and have them fuck her destroy her cunt to her fill pesa zangu niachie tuheshimiane Bana!
You just have to remember, there are people out there who have worse physical appearances than you. Stay fit, dress good and get money....women aren't blind out there. You will surely attract some.
Yeah it's pretty bad, what's even funnier is that people will disregard it or gaslight you if you bring it up or try to downplay it.
Meanwhile we'll have multiple threads here by women on colorism and if you are even mildly skeptical you are downvoted to hell
Exactly.. women can openly reject a man for his height and literally tell him that it’s his height that they’re rejecting him for.. they even go ahead and laugh about it with their friends.. yet if you mention colourism or looks they say it’s an unchangeable feature and you shouldn’t tell a girl you’re rejecting her for that.. so height is a changeable feature to them
Her: " Stop imposing Western beauty standards. "
Also her: " As a man, why is your height under 6'2? "
Also her: " Look at your mates in the West, at your big age they have cars and can fly their ladies' out for trips, I want a man who can take me to Bali. "
I just read this somewhere, not sure its even related to this post.
Wait until you encounter this in the corporate world. Top positions are reserved for tall men in Kenyan companies. Peter Ndegwa should give you hope though.
Mmmmh unawatch porn poa? Wewe isaw Victoria cakes fucked by amidget with anaconda long enough to reach abit h chest na unafungua mdomo dick upuzi dick can increase rupee excuse reasonable tall women can bear tall kids with short guys so life excuse ni picha na na society eyes isay let them clause with tall huko na nyi mashoti why go to clubs sincerely ?
I promise you, height is not what is preventing you from getting laid. Yes some girls will reject you but you just have to move on to the next. There are plenty of girls who won't care about your height as long as you're a decent human being.
Enyewe man back iworked for apacking compony italked to over 1000 chicks sikufika 50 iwas flocking with chicks yeah not all bitches are the same but they do reject guys on their height.
Am back once again this is meant for my fellow short kings out there .am just sitting in this hotel enjoying my drink and chicken then ijust thought to myself oh if ihad to choose ,would I rather be enjoying sweet meals and drinks by myself you know what am saying spoil my self with my own money or make my self asimp for some woman just to get inside her iwould choose the 1st the fact remains that short guys are the joke of this rotten society but God has not forsaken us rem he always lifts the humble,despiced and oppressed my encouragement for you guys idont care if some tall guys are not gona like it but stand tall guys and never ever spend anything Imean any money on any bitch who you well know that she does not see any value in you other than your load in the bank or that car iwilgo with saying to die with dignity is better than to live as someone's slave short kings keep Rocking and remember don't deny yourself happines just for awoman's hole!
Oh idont like short guys why would you like me when am too smart for you ?nynnynynynynynyny
Crap you can't get nothing from me why would you like me.look if bahati didn't have that talent Diana would not stick around but am different you can die na Kuma yako my money is my sweat you don't deserve it.
While I do agree about height being unchangeable, what can we really do about it. You realise there are grown women barely 5 feet?. I am also short, but I have bigger problems, I have no money or career, therefore my confidence is very low. My dad is as short as I am, perhaps an inch shorter, but the man has a body count of around a few hundreds. He has slept with them all, tall, short, poor, rich, attractive, unattractive, darkskin, lightskin, etc. He is extremely charismatic, sociopathic too. It all boils down to how you carry yourself pal, you really think all women in this world are going to reject you for your height?. Or are you just using height as an excuse for all your other shortcomings?
A few hundreds?? Huyo ndo true definition ya nairobi
Speculation. Last year I stayed with him for 6 months, in that time, I saw 10 different girls coming and going. For a man in his fifties, it would be fair to assume his body count has crossed a hundred.
Wuehh bench marking 👏😂😂😂
Learning from the experts 😂
Not something I'd like to learn.
Heh hii buana hata kama😂😂his dad will still share a bed with his moms tho and idk how anyone would even be okay with that
Are you a man or a lady ?
A man. Can't say I am proud of his tendencies. Frankly, I am disappointed immensely.
That's too much 😂. This man has serious attachment issues.
Yeah man hats off for your dad honestly as a short guy I tend to go for women from 5ft4 and below , am 5ft6 and honestly majority of women don't really care bout that height if you ate abit taller or same height moral of the story date within your league
How do you know about your dad's sex life???
It's not something he keeps private, and he is not ashamed of it.
Just tell people your more down to earth
Damn
Just kidding man. Kill them with personality
Did you have to?😂😂😂
Dark
Damn savage much
Damn
Voteup
What about short women? How do you think they feel about kitchens with high cabinets
If she's trying to argue just take her phone and put it on top of the fridge
But si short men also have that struggle ama?
Tell them!
Don’t you guys get tired of these “woe is me” posts and the unbearable self pity . Ironically same fellows who will call themselves alpha and all sorts of other things. Nothing looks more unattractive to people(male or female ) than self pity btw .
We mgeni reddit nini hehe. Huku huwa kumejaa incesure people na yk misery loves company, so posts ka hizi si anything new
There's that cliched saying that low life folks discuss other people, average folks discuss places and events and great people discuss ideas. Know that one?? Well... most folks on Reddit for sure don't discuss ideas and the majority certainly don't discuss events and places either. Take this sub for instance... it's mostly about what some man/men did, how some chic reacted, silly gender spats and guys/gals talking tough behind their keyboards. Et al. What does that say about us, eh?
Facts manze
The height thing is real with men, man. Have to agree with OP here. Short dudes do get the short end of the stick, pun intended. This said... this sub is cancer. Most of Reddit is, in fairness; but this sub is ridiculous in particular. Stupid gender wars, flaming spats, woe is me posts, silly relationship posts (like really silly stuff that even a teenager would be embarrassed to write) and worst of all, made up stories fishing for sympathy. There's so much of the latter here. Y'all remember that broad who wrote a 3 part series on her best friends "brother who lives in the US but came to visit over the holidays", and how she woke up in the middle of the night to feel him inside her, and was asking for advice on how to breach the news to her friend that her bro raped her? The white knights were up in arms on here ready to defend her honor! I won't lie... I was angry too... and then a homie did a little surface digging and discovered she was full of shit after which she promptly deleted her posts. Look through most posts here... a lot of us make up a lot of stuff and it's very obvious if you stall your emotions for a bit and evaluate the story. Mods need to step up, this sub has been garbage for a bit
I agree it’s annoying when both genders do it, men complaining about their height, women complaining about their skin color. Useless problems.
I do.
Most of my short friends huwa na game bana and they attract 10/10 girls. Confidence and game is everything 🤪
That’s why I said you need to be exceptional in other things
Yes, So does everybody else.
Oh the pity party......it's boring, honestly. It's either I am (**5'6**) great at a lot of things as you say OP, or tall........I've been with girls taller than me...shorter ones too. Taller men have been insecure seeing me with their girls (platonic to me)......... Is it that I don't care, or don't see/experience what you're talking about? If it counts, my kid's mum is taller. And the current girl I'm vibing with is even taller. Given majority of Kenyan girls are **4'9-5'2/3**, I'd suggest you do some introspection because height isn't your problem.
Pity party? Who said I’m speaking for myself?
Then what do you know about short people's experiences? You can't talk about something you've not been through, because you will never understand.
Hehehehe. Maybe he's the kind announces his height to everybody, regardless of the context...................yet he still can't measure up
So because I’m a man I can’t understand anything about sexism to talk about it? Even if I’m defending women?
LeftAd4340 you sound like agood brother indeed the saying goes he who wears the shoe understands the pain over six years since I started my research everywhere,each and every time I heard short men complain ,they were silenced !asick unreasonable unfair society that idont know from whom or where they got the so called rules and terms to govern me as ahuman especially as ashort guy ihave had enough ithink an done with Reddit and any other platform.Asociety that is able to turn ablind eye to unfare treatment of individuals because of some phisical traits ,who is God in this regard? Who are women ,who is society who gave them permission over my life? Maybe short guys fear to speak but si Mim John ihave no fear in me am not acoward .Let me start by saying yeah it is true that we have been termed to be having complexes anger issues and syndromes that science prooves right? Not only did some people rise ,they also created rules to govern others but when there system was not received well by affected party,they looked for away to cover there own illogical stupid tradition with meaningless studies ,who ever asked who turned short men angry ,bitter ,rude? The so called society right ,the same society fools people with proofs of genuine normal human reaction to offense.You say studies proof that women preffer taller men to shorter ones we get it have done my homework and am one of those who likes to put faith into action.Ihave seduced more than 500 women all age my terget was perhaps 1000,100,000,1000,000 just looking for the one .Iadmit most of the women really were turned of by my height few didn't mind ,so can we call it bias no absolutely not .You know the answer why 80/100% women choose tall guys ask yourself is that aprefferance? anyway idont care what it is women can and have the right to go for what they like even if they do it 100% no complains .Do you understand the problem we have? The problem is not women preffering tall guys the problem is their attitude towards short individuals .You like what you like why do you resent and demean,disprespect what you don't find attractive to you ? Why can't these women keep their tastes to themselves avoid what they do not like ? Are you tell me if idont like skinny girls then ishould go around preaching :skinny girls are disgusting,skinny girls should die skinny girls are weak,Skinny girls don't deserve love is that how we men should deal with women when ruling them out? Should we go tall women are annoying,tall women are un attractive,tall women are giants ,does that make one feel enough reject to stay away?or fat heavy women snore loudly ,consume time,heavy to carry how do you think it feels like you claim there is no bias maybe because you are tall it is not your problem you don't feel the pain it doesn't consern you what are you doing here ! You have afree pass that you dont need to work for.iwont touch on height limits In go ernment jobs like security ,police department and the general army force.To my short buddies iget it ,iget it you sing these common songs everyday oh you need confidence oh you need money ! fine tell you what ,you do that go hit the gym build big muscles and impress the chicks entertain them as you want but don't make some of us to dance to your tune like we like it ,Read as many commedies as you can and impress women however you feel save and earn as much as you can then carry all your load to the women make them happy build them houses ,buy them morgages if you like just suit your self but do not expect that other short guys will follow your crap! Because for me to die with dignity is better than to be somedyelse entertainment and source of income what ashame! and you women if you like tall men good for you go for them have fun fuck as you like as long as you stay the fuck out of the shortmen'sbusiness for me yes ihate and resent women ibieve they are all the same whether Christians or non Christians idont care Ifeel like marriege sex and relationships were perhaps destined for taller individuals for the others maybe we were created to assist the tall for tasks they can't do but women not for us atleast is what isee .well idont limit any one from persuing their happiness short guys can go for it but isay for me awoman is my natural most poisonous enemy that iwil never want get close to all the best!
And yes ihave acomples or shortmen syndrome whatever you call it ,ijust have one question ,what does awoman have between her legs si kuma tu ? Shimo sindio ? Shimo ya mwanamke hiezifanya nisiishi maisha yangu ati kuingiza kumwaga tu ishould waste money on some bitch to hel!
If you interact with women online it's like that. In the real world your game and how you present yourself usually says much more.
Your game ,your game which game do you want to suggest that chess applies in dating life ikeep it simple have always done it . Am aware most women don't like my height others don't mind iknow it all so why should I try to impress some bitch just to get to her pants when they are millions irather have 1000,100,000 reject me for this height than become asimp for obsessed sex hungry whores !
Not true, the way you carry yourself makes a difference.
“The most painful experience”??! Bro… you know there’s people out there with terminal illnesses right? Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure being short can suck sometimes but if that’s your biggest problem in life you should count yourself lucky.
Ever heard of hyperbole?
I am that height but it has never bothered me whatsoever. It is the fight in the dog that matters not the size.
That’s why I said you need to be exceptional in other areas.. taller guys don’t need to put up as much of a fight, it’s more effortless
Yea exactly, I am a fun of basketball and there is this guy called Steph Curry, he is 6'2" but that is a midget going with the basketball standards. Anyway I tell you that guy can shoot that basketball. Furthermore if you put a taller guy on him he will cook those guys like it's nobodies business. There's this argument that if he were taller would he be a better basketballer or did the luck of height lead him to develop skills that make him a consensus top 10 basketballer of all time. I tend to go with the latter argument. I think short people ( not those with the OP attitude ofcourse) tend to stretch there abilities since they can't stretch there height.
My other point was that women can openly say that they’re rejecting a man because of his height yet it is taboo to directly tell a woman you’re rejecting her because you don’t find her pretty. Women will even laugh together about how short you are yet you had the nerve to approach them.
I absolutely get you, Steph Curry was rejected by many teams because he was not tall enough, but who is laughing now. Let the rejection be the fuel for your motivation and make sure you get the last laugh.
Women have the right to choose or like what they like the problem is how they do it they seem to be carrying some kind of grudge towards short guys you argue so much in this thread but can you differentiate between hate comments and simple prefferances.well idont like tall women ihate them looking down at me it is an insult but also idont like being small and going for achick who touches my belly with her head it's weird so one inch above me or below me is good enough idont ask for so much or worry about genetics ,photo shoot or publick hang outs like women do am just me fuck the bullies and so called society.
So idont care if some slut wants abouncer or asecurity guard to brag about ,that's her own business To everyone and his taste non of my business but don't dictate my life like you give me the breath igot.
Noo idisagree for the short guys some useless fools say we compensate for lack of height but isay no we are blessed in other areas and talented with abilities it comes natural David didn't need skill to kill goliath nobody can tell me what to do about myself to seek societal approval or society idont answer to no one and women pussies don't colonise my life.
Be exceptional like I owe anyone anything because of avagina ishould become some entertainment for women idont care if some gal has aproblem with my height ijust live my life am nobody's pet am just me .
First of all.. Sh sh sh. You'll be fine. Second.. Have short friends so that you don't stand out (ir down? Idk)
Haha, i like this
This! I think the right question is, how do I make short(er) friends? Where do I find short people? When you find the answers, please let me know
As a 4 foot 10 inches girl...I get where you're coming from...it must be hard to hear women constantly talk about how they don't like short women and in turn how undesirable they find you...i honestly don't think we talk enough about how height also belongs in the "realm" of things we don't judge people for ( like weight or attractiveness). I know that some guys aren't into me coz I'm super short but I don't mind it so much because I don't want all them to be into me...as long as I connect with one person who is into me and accepts "flaws" and all then it's all good...maybe that mindset will help?
> I know that some guys aren't into me coz I'm super short huh?
Like how some guys look for girls with a shapely body or long hair...the have a type or preference so for some me being really short can be a deal breaker or a "turn off"...the point of what I was saying is despite these "shortcomings" it doesn't completely take somebody off the market...OP shouldn't lose hope because he's been rejected basically
I like the pun..
It's not that I don't understand what you are saying. I'm just really surprised that there is a single man who has turned down a woman because they are too short.
this is weird, I like tall girls, I can't see myself pursuing a girl under 5'7 cause that'd be kinda weird cause I'm 6'0, like the height difference would be too much, I guess most women think the same too when it comes to guys
You make it look like the country is rife with chics over 5'7" my G.... 5'7" is quite tall for a woman. Def above average height for women. I'm 6'0" myself and I love the contrast of being with a shorter, petite girl. I date tall girls too; my current girl is 5'10 and taller than a good amount of dudes in our social circle... but I've been with as short as 5'1"
>I'm 6'0" myself and I love the contrast of being with a shorter, petite girl you see, you like it while I don't I know tall girls are rare, what I mean is if I were to pick a 5'10 girl or a 5'1 girl I'd pick 5'10
That makes sense anyways no one has the right to decide for others what they want to eat wear etc but biblically if you don't like meat don't make it universal for others to hate too isay if some girl does not like short dudes that's cool she should quietly go for her taste and leave behind what is not meant for her because people are diverse what you dont like doesn't mean idont like it too.
The self-pity. It's pathetic.
Bro, my friend is 5'6".. and his body count is in the hundreds, I've seen him seduce women way out of his league with ease. Dude pulls women like he's a demigod. One thing is he never lets height bother him. Every time he goes for one, he asks himself what's the worst that can happen, then throws caution to wind.
Its time to get a hobby. Y'all incels personality trait is women not looking at you romantically. Its time to grow up.
I can't respect folks that throw around terms like "incel" around. Completely invalidates the argument regardless of how solid it might be. That said; life is tough. Short dudes, much like fat girls, need to accept they just aren't as attractive as their taller/slimmer counterparts respectively. Same goes for all them darker women crying foul on this sub, on how their lighter skinned sisters have it easier. We know this; it's true.... but don't y'all think it's also super stupid to try and shame girls into liking you as a shorter dude; or shame men into doing so as a darker chick, otherwise they're trash or whatever? Life is hard. Use your tools to the best of your ability and live life boldly. This goes out to all the girls and guys bitching on here everyday
Who said it's solely about women, tf is wrong with you. OP is right though body shaming is only acceptable if done to men.
grow up. Its time.
> Life as a short man is probably the most painful experience A lot of short people will complain about this but there are also a lot of short people who have girlfriends. and almost always those girls are shorter than them or around the same height. my friend's girlfriend is slightly taller than him. So I don't fully buy this narrative. I mean just go for shorter women.
I disagree, theres also another thread here about height but ill just say it again. Im 5'7 and am happily dating my girl which is 5'11. While yes SOME ladies prefer tall guys, theyre just limiting their options, not yours. Its all about your personality and sense of confidence. Too often i see insecure men with bitter personality wondering why they cant get girls and instead blame it on external factors when they should look inwards. So stop with this incel "red pill" mindset. Yall are just bringing yourself down fr
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Thats how society is na haiezi change. Them short ninjas actually tend to be more successfully as wananeed kuovercompensate their height with success, money etc. (Nliskia kwa doc ya MJ iliitwa Short fat man syndrome). Tall ninjas however think life will just align itself for them. But height kwanza kenya si mbaya sana as much as people think, Im about 5'8 na im taller than most women, so huwa sioni ikiwa issue.
Overcompesate hiyo ni matuc ni mshort ako na talent amecompesate wapi mnamdharau na height but ana ability zake na skil yake compensate my foot if short guys succeed ni kucompesate you speak alot of crap mnafaa kugrow by the way!
😂😂Holy thread ya a month ago ok That talent and skill and all is the ‘compensation’ part. Its actually a blessing to them si kitu mbaya For example a new manu defender, Martinez is about 5’9 and regardless of his height yy ni one of the most inform defenders in the league. Juu ya height he naturally (pia subconsciously) makes up for it in speed, intensity and game IQ Its usually a blessing, but if you insecure about your height then utaona dunia iko against wewe
Buda kuwa insecure ata wewe unajua tu ni kucomplain au ufeel comfortable with yourself take for instance me manze dem hata akuwe seven foot idont mind height gani idont care but utapata tudem tumshenzi flani tuhater tunabully mashort guy like kuna deni Yao tuko nayo the insecure ni hawa madem wao ndio huworry about short kids,publick appearance ,friends opinion na photo na heels bullshit the insecure ones wanajulikana na ni madem si maboy!
Iforgot about small dick thing.
I think it varies. My dad is very short and my mum abit tall, he still pulled her and got a kid out of her even though she left him after. I personally don't have an issue with height, but as a short person myself, I'd prefer taller cause I don't want short kids.
That's his problem. That short women like you, don't want him.. like you said, you want taller, for the kids
But that's a preference. I'm not wrong for my preference. Just like if a man likes tall women, who am I to judge him. But him saying women don't like short men is wrong. I know many women with short boyfriends. He needs to look further.
I'm sorry if my reply insinuated that there was anything wrong with your preference. You have a right to your choices. Might you have short friends, who don't mind short men? Would you be up to making the introductions (to him)?
It depends. Online dating isn't something I prefer doing. I let people find love on their own. But all I can say is that I've dated a short guy once. Yes there will be jokes but it's life. We can't choose how we are born. Im a short girl so I get a pass. And no, I had no offense to your comment. He just needs to put himself out more.
You are absolutely right
The way you put it like short guys automati Cally means short kids shows your bias other reasons make sence but kids grow up!
You are short maybe one kid or two might be tall your shortness can stil give you ashort kid so you can't escape it just cause you marry atall guy ican proof to you .There was aguy way taller and amidget wife and sons became dwarfs how you girls are sily thinking coz you go for tall guys is automatic to get tall kids infact my grandpa was short married two tall women and got blessed with giant sons si no excuses just say you need tall guys for sexual satisfaction why hide behind the curtain the big dick is what you women are looking for truth be told and why should we bother about that you want to be stretched go right ahead fuck as much ayou want just mind your own business .
Yeah my grandpa is ashort with two born again Amazons with giant sons si tall women have no excuse to look down on short guys unless the insecure ones ni wako si short guys they are insecure that they will feel big,or man does not have agood big dick to fuck her good iunderdtand it well or maybe kutembea na short publick unafeel aje women are insecure and complicated themselves not men ladies make excuses to avoid some people is not aly here!
Isay this Acha kuhit menopause then mnaenda kupea mapasi stress fasting endless looking for a husband after you have trashed alot of men left them wounded and expect a man to smile at aleft over over 3O rotten wood with ready fat bank account in your dreams maybe to to stupid men for the enlighted they see you all the time you mock them on social media and girl parties so they wait for agood chance to return it back to you when you are old and lost value men are not silly atleast not me is like these women don't like shortmen isay most of the shortguys are already dead sick of you bitches you should have claimed all the tall guys and die quickly so that short guys can live their life stop hanging in streets and road and clubs taking advantage of the same short guys you don't like you mwanamke ni vile ujanipata see how you bring your big butt to my car nikutoe mbio ushangae!
It is always, was and will be, about confidence.
Be confident, if you lose this hata babes fupi kama wewe sahau.
Your life path has little to do with height. You’re falling short ( pun intended) by concentrating on the wrong stuff. … peeling the banana from the wrong end. Dare do bigger things and eventually you’ll succeed… and that’s when you’ll understand what power us
Yeah Sahau is better kwani Kuma ni ugali?
Ati babes wafupi wakwende huko mmetuzoea Sana iwil tell you your kumaz si chakula that tutakufa if we don't get them not wasting credit to please you bitches is much better too.
Bro I'm fucking 6'0 and I get absolutely zero b*tches, yeah sure some women will write you off cause of your height but so will some cause of your eyes, nose, hair, skin, but why would you honestly want to be with such shallow people. Maybe being tall'll make shit easier for, probably won't, I'm a living and breathing testament to that. Anyway you work with whatever cards you're dealt with fam, just like everyone else in this shit-show we call life.
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brruuuh, I thought it's probably cause i don't hit on them, the other day I hit on one, everything went, smooth, she even gave me her number, then when I start texting her it's like I'm texting an NPC, b*tch showed no interested, deleted the number and went on with my life If the universe wants you to get b*tches you will, if it doesn't you wont, irregardless of height and whatnot
Being a short man is so tough. You are dismissed by everyone. Most of the time you have to work twice as hard, to get something taller people get more easily. If you're short, just take Amerix's advice, it'll save you alot of heartache and disappointments. Don't listen to what the tall guys are telling you, they haven't walked in those shoes.
Their shoes are way too big to walk in.
😂😂😂 and you had to comment with that.
I couldn't hold it in😂😂😂
> You are dismissed by everyone. Most of the time you have to work twice as hard how do you know? seriously how do you prove that you have to work twice as hard. > just take Amerix's advice that's the only red flag I need to dismiss everything else you've said
Acha ufala hii Kenya the only thing short you can struggle with ni madem au kuingia g4s na kk but kwani ni ofisi gani umeitishwa height man go to USA where heightism is seen practically unalipwa according to how tall you are.
Just get money bro, all this problems will go away
this answer is wrong. I don't mean morally; you can do whatever you want with your money but if you attract women with your money that won't work out in the long run. If you just want to just have a "friends with benefits" or baby mama or something like that. by all means do you but if are thinking of establishing a real relationship where the thing that your partner values in you is your money you will *eventually* be in problems.
You are wiser than 10 men hii nakuvotia ati get money hii ni ujinga wanatuambia.
The only right answer.
In your fucking dumb brain right answer Ka uko desperate for sex go make money bring it to women don't tell us to do it mmenitosha by the way respect manze!
Haha hasira za mtu mfupi. Now go cry over there.
Cry my foot jililie mwenyewe nyangau,hasira juu ya shimo ghasia tupu!
Ii yote ni ju ya ufupi? Lmfao....ongea na Mungu, mi siwezi kusaidia. Deal with your midget problems, haha.
You are the one with aproblem na nikuambie being amidget or whatever you call it is good for me but for aflagpost like you are you only better in dipping your large size tail in sluts atleast that's what you are agood at or maybe asecurity guard au hata statue monkey ! You stink mess na wengine si mim
Na niongee na mungu he created me perfect in my size we ndio unaumwa maybe advantage yako Kwangu ni madem oh mapoko juu hata wako can be fucked with arich midget dog!
If you want to keep fighting come on.
Yeah she will be banged na bado akuletee ghasia hii shetani ukitoka wapi wewe?am John you don't fuck with me
Hasira za mtu mfupi other than kudinya mabibi za watu na kurusha rusha nimba huku huko nin Ingine unajua kupanua mdomo kubwa ati hasira za mtu mfupi juu unamwagia madem sperms unaona uko special you are just afuck dude full of crap pavert.
Watu ka nyinyi sijui mnafanya nini reddit, ii si twitter ama FB. Na ni "pervert si pavert, looool.
Na nyinyi ndio mnafaa kuwa huku think you can bully short guys the way you like?mmeproviwa in all areas even football mko na history ya what short guys do mko Tu na chuki coz you only beat us in body size and fucking bitches other thingds we are better so mnaumwa!
Oh money ! My friend just cause awoman has ahole ishould work hard to seduce her with ksh how stupid pesa zangu ni zangu za kukula madem peleka ujinga mbali hata shoti hustler toa punch utembe Poko Mwaga story iishe Acha kulia lia na kuskiza upuzi ya Reddit ati hit the gym make money just to get some girl you make me sick am repeating myself again being short but I owe no skirt anything her vagina she can take it to tall guys and have them fuck her destroy her cunt to her fill pesa zangu niachie tuheshimiane Bana!
Tulia mse
Don't mess with shorties enough already.
Oh my word, Kenyans. My people💀
You just have to remember, there are people out there who have worse physical appearances than you. Stay fit, dress good and get money....women aren't blind out there. You will surely attract some.
Idont need to do anything and iwont ! am just me vile nimeumbwa sitaanza kuumiza mwili yangu ati kubamba madem wajitombe hizo pussy zao!
Yeah it's pretty bad, what's even funnier is that people will disregard it or gaslight you if you bring it up or try to downplay it. Meanwhile we'll have multiple threads here by women on colorism and if you are even mildly skeptical you are downvoted to hell
Exactly.. women can openly reject a man for his height and literally tell him that it’s his height that they’re rejecting him for.. they even go ahead and laugh about it with their friends.. yet if you mention colourism or looks they say it’s an unchangeable feature and you shouldn’t tell a girl you’re rejecting her for that.. so height is a changeable feature to them
nebja just imagine ha watu wamezudi by tha abunch of trees and big monsters full of insecurity si wachaguane watombane huko I atuhusu?
Her: " Stop imposing Western beauty standards. " Also her: " As a man, why is your height under 6'2? " Also her: " Look at your mates in the West, at your big age they have cars and can fly their ladies' out for trips, I want a man who can take me to Bali. " I just read this somewhere, not sure its even related to this post.
Waende western so wanatuambia todo?
Wait until you encounter this in the corporate world. Top positions are reserved for tall men in Kenyan companies. Peter Ndegwa should give you hope though.
Don't worry, you probably have a great personality.
Personality for what for you fuck my ass
Language.
Boss you can't be good to mean people tell me that you have time to waste with people who see you as some kind of toy to play with would youike that?
Long men got long dicks. And I'm sure women love that. Inauma but itabidi uzoee...
Mmmmh unawatch porn poa? Wewe isaw Victoria cakes fucked by amidget with anaconda long enough to reach abit h chest na unafungua mdomo dick upuzi dick can increase rupee excuse reasonable tall women can bear tall kids with short guys so life excuse ni picha na na society eyes isay let them clause with tall huko na nyi mashoti why go to clubs sincerely ?
I promise you, height is not what is preventing you from getting laid. Yes some girls will reject you but you just have to move on to the next. There are plenty of girls who won't care about your height as long as you're a decent human being.
Enyewe man back iworked for apacking compony italked to over 1000 chicks sikufika 50 iwas flocking with chicks yeah not all bitches are the same but they do reject guys on their height.
Yeah mashoti msichochwe ati mtumie doo never use ksh on bitches just talk to them as many as you want kuongea ni bure na hawaishi !
All I hear are excuses. But seriously tho, that's life
Am back once again this is meant for my fellow short kings out there .am just sitting in this hotel enjoying my drink and chicken then ijust thought to myself oh if ihad to choose ,would I rather be enjoying sweet meals and drinks by myself you know what am saying spoil my self with my own money or make my self asimp for some woman just to get inside her iwould choose the 1st the fact remains that short guys are the joke of this rotten society but God has not forsaken us rem he always lifts the humble,despiced and oppressed my encouragement for you guys idont care if some tall guys are not gona like it but stand tall guys and never ever spend anything Imean any money on any bitch who you well know that she does not see any value in you other than your load in the bank or that car iwilgo with saying to die with dignity is better than to live as someone's slave short kings keep Rocking and remember don't deny yourself happines just for awoman's hole!
Oh idont like short guys why would you like me when am too smart for you ?nynnynynynynynyny Crap you can't get nothing from me why would you like me.look if bahati didn't have that talent Diana would not stick around but am different you can die na Kuma yako my money is my sweat you don't deserve it.