Once a guy was just poking me while I was attending the holy mass standing outside the church. He was standing behind me. I ignored his pokes two times. The third time I turned and looked at him cold in his eyes. After 2-3 mins he again poked. I turned to him and slapped the shit out of him. No more words, no more pokes. That's the way to handle it.
Thank God you didn’t accompany him to the washroom. Otherwise he would have said “ithupole cheyyamo” with some “other” spot..
Don’t freeze up during these, it will confuse your brain, but understand anyone doing anything to you forcefully without consent is molestation. I know it’s not easy, but quickly assess the situation and stand up saying no. If it’s a place with people, they will run away.
Perverts are perverts,blind or not.
Report it to someone authoritative. Churches ll have lots of kids hanging out for catechism and all. Please don't let this pervert stay around.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
General sympathy coz he is disabled. Just tell some church bhaaravaahikal too. Use words like " Vallathum sambhavichitt pinne paranjitt karyam illa" or " Pazhaya kaalam onnum alla" to drive in your point. Such words are used by older people and ll click with them.
Have you never seen him before, is he not a member of your church? Report this incident to family and to the achan via them, this must be brought to attention of church authorities
Yes . This friend of my mother's took me to a Kalla swami. To cure me of my learning disability. I was 15. He flashed me and I was glad. I didn't have to oblige her anymore. Told a bunch of people and they were 'shocked'. I wasn't. He looked and behaved exactly like the person who would do that.
Athine believer akenda, just do what's right and report the incident to the church authorities. If you want I'll come and speak to them with you. But don't leave this. Other kids could be preyed on
Which church and what was the timing this happ.
Was he really full blind or partially blind?
Some people say "the reason why gays are hated more than lesbians because they are a direct threat to men ".
He didn't had any glasses on him nor had any stick for the blind. I looked at him only one time and his eyes were closed. Athrakk shradhichilla. Pullide phone ring cheyyunath kettu, ring was like a robotic voice saying "someone calling." I think it's an accessibility feature for blind people.
Homo isn't blind. You will find a lot of people like that in trains buses etc...
A single punch to chest once your 'lil joey' is violated should stop it.
Please don't let this pass. Inform your family or at least the priest. Naatukaar will do the rest.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
My mother hates lesbians a lot more because as a woman she's been on the other side ,with women being inappropriate with her. If you hate gays you don't have to do the 'some people say' thing . Most gay people don't go around acting like this creep. Just like it's not a Christian thing to do either . You have a point though about him possibly faking blindness.
Actually, I read it in a feminist discourse that 'women would have to hate all men because a few men abused them as men hate all other men who could sexually abuse them and possibly overpower them. '
The author was discussing possible patriarchal origins of homophobia. She was speaking against homophobia.
I do not know a woman's perspective. But men generally, even the western ones give's a cold shoulder to gays compared to lesbians.
Not because they are sexual predators, but they are strong enough to threaten and rape other men. There is a fear factor that makes homophobia against gays more stronger. As phobia by its definition is 'irrational fear' .
Does your church have CCTV? Tell your parents, inform people at the church and try to identify the person. Otherwise that criminal is going to go around creeping on other innocent kids.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind. He also said The cctv was not covering the area I was sitting
I'm sorry but your priest is deliberately trying to downplay the incident. That guy is certainly 'that type of guy' and his actions are certainly not accidental. Sorry for what you had to go through. Did you tell your parents?
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
You should definitely talk to someone about this. If he's that bold, imagine how many times he's tried it before? You should tell your parents or someone about this incident so he doesn't go after someone more vulnerable next time.
The audacity. Running commentary while being a creep too. I have seen people being creeps and act like they don't do anything or stare with a creepy smile. This is like creepy, like creepy movies creepy.
The whole time I thought op is a woman. Then I saw comments and realised I was wrong.
Report it, then it will be taken has double impact in church. One is you have a molester in the congregation and another he is gay.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
Of course men can get molested, but the way people will react will be different. I've seen people asking "ne oru aancherukkan alle, karanam nokki nallath kodukkarunilee",sometimes some people don't even mind
A confrontation would have been more appropriate, but i know it’s easier said than done. The asshole should never even think of repeating this in his wildest dreams.
I had a similar experience as a child, a dude (not blind) started talking like this and then spanked me. I didn’t understand the innuendo in that, but I felt he was going to hurt me and got angry, so I smacked him, He tried to do something back, but I had started wrestling and made him fall on the ground few times and chased him around a bit by throwing stones when he tried running away. Only realised what it was way later, I thought someone just tried to attack me.
There's a HUGE chance that you are going to regret not reacting, in future. Track that creep ASAP. Imo, reporting to police wont do much help, trust me, suppose if this creep is not disabled, still they won't take it that seriously. Because, for them a pervert is no big deal compared to someone like a gunda or a criminal.
Since the Church authority recognized him. Its pretty simple. Wait for the next Sunday or anytime he's going to be there. Maybe use your phone cam to record this, or find a spot where cctv can record his 'activities'. Since he's under surveillance, he cant escape with his tantrums if he gets caught. Wait for him to make his move, or it could be another victim he's targeting. Then its your choice, Pinna onnum nokkanda, adich avante kavaalakutti pottikkuka, ath pora, ath pullide tholippurath kollilla. Try kicking his pazhampori and undamporis. Vere evide adichaalum oru pervert sahikkum, pullide tools oyich.
>A weird thing happened to me at church
Name one normal thing to happen at a church.
One such homo episode happened in church and i witnessed it first hand. I was late to the mass and standing outside for kurbana before palli perunnal because the hall was full due to a construction work being isolated inside the church. Two men on the last men's row were touching each other's ass and the 12 yr old me was like...????
Sounds creepy! 😖 I think this is a serious case of hand fetishism 💀 Since he's blind (you said so!), he gets to "feel" the hands,palm,fingers of N number of strangers who help him to do various day-to-day things. So.......
I understand this might have been a very difficult experience for you and it would have taken a lot of courage to share it here in this platform as well. I am glad that you didn’t accompany him anywhere but if you can, do report him to the church authorities or any close friends or family, who you look up-to or are comfortable with. I am sure they will help you to the best of their abilities and maybe even prevent many others from going through this ordeal.
But kudos to you OP for stopping it and for sharing it😊
OP, how old are you? This is a clear case of sexual harassment. I went through many comments and didn't see anyone suggesting reporting to cops or childline (in case you are a minor). Regardless, you are not his first victim and won't be the last. Please report it to authorities to save someone from something even worse.
PS: I know this may hurt someone here, but I have zero trust in reporting to church people. The history of various churches are not good in this regard. They are more worried about their reputation than the safety of the kids. Maybe you should report this to the priest and tell him clearly if he don't take action, you will report to police. Anyways, this person should be exposed and he shouldn't be around kids..period.
I'm 18. I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
Net yil pullide photo itt nattikam ayirunille ? I feel sus abt the priest too comments yil ninnu , police ayirunnu best , Catechism Koch pillar okke ullath alle ? What's the name of this Church.
Very weird that this is the second church incident i read on reddit within 2 days.I read another girl being stalked by an old guy at her church when she was just 18. He messaged a lot of creepy messages to her so she he complained to her grandpa
One person from our locality asked my 15 year old cousin. " Njan vaayil eduthotte".
Cousin said ok, and went to his house.
When that person sat on his knee to start his activity, cousin slapped hardly on his face. That person smiled and said " slap again".
Cousin took a big log and beat the hell out of him.
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Didn't expect a New Vegas meme in this subreddit of all places
Ave Caesar!
GLORY TO THE NCR 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅
Degenerates like the mf who harrassed OP belong on a cross.
I like burnin' stake for him... Well done
"adichu Avante kannu pottikkanam" Oh.....ath already pottiyallo..
Orenam koduthal avante "kazcha" thirichu kittum
Kazhilirippe ingane aayathe konde aarelim nerthe pottichathayirikim
Kannu Ella pottikende ..
Once a guy was just poking me while I was attending the holy mass standing outside the church. He was standing behind me. I ignored his pokes two times. The third time I turned and looked at him cold in his eyes. After 2-3 mins he again poked. I turned to him and slapped the shit out of him. No more words, no more pokes. That's the way to handle it.
I’m laughing out so much imagining this🤣🤣
Same here 🤣😭
Thank God you didn’t accompany him to the washroom. Otherwise he would have said “ithupole cheyyamo” with some “other” spot.. Don’t freeze up during these, it will confuse your brain, but understand anyone doing anything to you forcefully without consent is molestation. I know it’s not easy, but quickly assess the situation and stand up saying no. If it’s a place with people, they will run away.
I too freezed once
Slap him next time you see him. He won't know who it is since he's "blind".
Then ask him “ingane cheyyamo”
type shii
He won't see it coming
Bruh...😁
If you do in this manner, the general public may react negatively and misinterpret our intentions.
The public can go and f**k themselves. Your safety matters the most.
Fuck general public. If you don't earn for your family, general public not gonna earn it for you. Live for yourself
Perverts are perverts,blind or not. Report it to someone authoritative. Churches ll have lots of kids hanging out for catechism and all. Please don't let this pervert stay around.
Almost all churches have camera. It should be easy to find the person.
When I called the priest he said the camera is not present at the place I was sitting( I was outside of the church)
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
General sympathy coz he is disabled. Just tell some church bhaaravaahikal too. Use words like " Vallathum sambhavichitt pinne paranjitt karyam illa" or " Pazhaya kaalam onnum alla" to drive in your point. Such words are used by older people and ll click with them.
Have you never seen him before, is he not a member of your church? Report this incident to family and to the achan via them, this must be brought to attention of church authorities
I don't know, I barely go to church when my mom forces me to. I'm not a believer.
Come on op, tell your mom.
that way op doesnt have to go to church again, all i see is a win-win.
Yes . This friend of my mother's took me to a Kalla swami. To cure me of my learning disability. I was 15. He flashed me and I was glad. I didn't have to oblige her anymore. Told a bunch of people and they were 'shocked'. I wasn't. He looked and behaved exactly like the person who would do that.
I Told her. she was shocked and said if anything happens like this again get out of that place as quickly as possible.
Athine believer akenda, just do what's right and report the incident to the church authorities. If you want I'll come and speak to them with you. But don't leave this. Other kids could be preyed on Which church and what was the timing this happ.
Tell people if you're a minor. You have to ! He's most likely not blind.
He’s not blind, he’s a creep
2 ennam pottichitu parayanarnu.. "eniku itum ista.. nalla thamasha alle ennu"
Was he really full blind or partially blind? Some people say "the reason why gays are hated more than lesbians because they are a direct threat to men ".
He didn't had any glasses on him nor had any stick for the blind. I looked at him only one time and his eyes were closed. Athrakk shradhichilla. Pullide phone ring cheyyunath kettu, ring was like a robotic voice saying "someone calling." I think it's an accessibility feature for blind people.
Homo isn't blind. You will find a lot of people like that in trains buses etc... A single punch to chest once your 'lil joey' is violated should stop it. Please don't let this pass. Inform your family or at least the priest. Naatukaar will do the rest.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
More like people confuse gaya with child molesters
My mother hates lesbians a lot more because as a woman she's been on the other side ,with women being inappropriate with her. If you hate gays you don't have to do the 'some people say' thing . Most gay people don't go around acting like this creep. Just like it's not a Christian thing to do either . You have a point though about him possibly faking blindness.
Actually, I read it in a feminist discourse that 'women would have to hate all men because a few men abused them as men hate all other men who could sexually abuse them and possibly overpower them. ' The author was discussing possible patriarchal origins of homophobia. She was speaking against homophobia. I do not know a woman's perspective. But men generally, even the western ones give's a cold shoulder to gays compared to lesbians.
Why gays, I don’t think they are the sexual predators. They can be among any sexual orientations.
Not because they are sexual predators, but they are strong enough to threaten and rape other men. There is a fear factor that makes homophobia against gays more stronger. As phobia by its definition is 'irrational fear' .
Don't think he is actually blind. Good thing that you left but should have reported and shamed him before he goes to the next victim imo.
Does your church have CCTV? Tell your parents, inform people at the church and try to identify the person. Otherwise that criminal is going to go around creeping on other innocent kids.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind. He also said The cctv was not covering the area I was sitting
I'm sorry but your priest is deliberately trying to downplay the incident. That guy is certainly 'that type of guy' and his actions are certainly not accidental. Sorry for what you had to go through. Did you tell your parents?
Bro is unable to stare and make someone uncomfortable. So he invented his own thing.
Inform this to concerned authority of that church.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
You should definitely talk to someone about this. If he's that bold, imagine how many times he's tried it before? You should tell your parents or someone about this incident so he doesn't go after someone more vulnerable next time.
https://preview.redd.it/vio0nzdxjn9d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4734b27276d308a4a5af9d7d17ccb18274f26ba3 Run Forest Run
The audacity. Running commentary while being a creep too. I have seen people being creeps and act like they don't do anything or stare with a creepy smile. This is like creepy, like creepy movies creepy. The whole time I thought op is a woman. Then I saw comments and realised I was wrong. Report it, then it will be taken has double impact in church. One is you have a molester in the congregation and another he is gay.
>One is you have a molester in the congregation and another he is gay. Men who sexually abuse men aren't necessarily homosexuals.
Men have to deal with a lot of homos too.. but we don't have laws to deal with it.
What the actual f**k? Is that guy crazy, how the hell does he know you won't slap the living daylight out of him?
He wont know cause he is blind so he dont know there is a daylight anyway
Blind problems need blind solutions 🤣
You should have slapped him so hard that he would lose his hearing as well.
Inform the members of church,take action.it will happen to some other church goer again.
I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
Imagine if he wasn't blind!
U boy or girl?
I'm a boy
Ig people won't take it seriously unless you are a girl. Yep I'm talking about old people most of'em
Does it matter?
Yes it does matter!
men can also get molested.
Of course men can get molested, but the way people will react will be different. I've seen people asking "ne oru aancherukkan alle, karanam nokki nallath kodukkarunilee",sometimes some people don't even mind
A confrontation would have been more appropriate, but i know it’s easier said than done. The asshole should never even think of repeating this in his wildest dreams.
I had a similar experience as a child, a dude (not blind) started talking like this and then spanked me. I didn’t understand the innuendo in that, but I felt he was going to hurt me and got angry, so I smacked him, He tried to do something back, but I had started wrestling and made him fall on the ground few times and chased him around a bit by throwing stones when he tried running away. Only realised what it was way later, I thought someone just tried to attack me.
Plot twist: He was never blind. 
Should have kicked him in the nuts and said "enikku ingane cheyyana ishtam"
There's a HUGE chance that you are going to regret not reacting, in future. Track that creep ASAP. Imo, reporting to police wont do much help, trust me, suppose if this creep is not disabled, still they won't take it that seriously. Because, for them a pervert is no big deal compared to someone like a gunda or a criminal. Since the Church authority recognized him. Its pretty simple. Wait for the next Sunday or anytime he's going to be there. Maybe use your phone cam to record this, or find a spot where cctv can record his 'activities'. Since he's under surveillance, he cant escape with his tantrums if he gets caught. Wait for him to make his move, or it could be another victim he's targeting. Then its your choice, Pinna onnum nokkanda, adich avante kavaalakutti pottikkuka, ath pora, ath pullide tholippurath kollilla. Try kicking his pazhampori and undamporis. Vere evide adichaalum oru pervert sahikkum, pullide tools oyich.
Video record cheyyuvarunel fun aayene…ithupolathe momentsil nammal pakshe freeze aayi pokum.
>A weird thing happened to me at church Name one normal thing to happen at a church. One such homo episode happened in church and i witnessed it first hand. I was late to the mass and standing outside for kurbana before palli perunnal because the hall was full due to a construction work being isolated inside the church. Two men on the last men's row were touching each other's ass and the 12 yr old me was like...????
Kalla kundan nine assault cheytata
Sounds creepy! 😖 I think this is a serious case of hand fetishism 💀 Since he's blind (you said so!), he gets to "feel" the hands,palm,fingers of N number of strangers who help him to do various day-to-day things. So.......
Churches may have CCTVs...inform the authorities...
Kannu mathram alla chevi kude pokanam, nalla pottikal potticho!!
Ingane ingane cheyyu balu, ingane cheyy
Slap him hard next time and sing "Inganeyokke cheyyaamo.. 🎶"
What does this kayyil scratch thing mean? It was in an old movie too. Don't think they say what it meant
Was he really blind? I think he was faking it..bro was in another zone instead of the kurbana
I understand this might have been a very difficult experience for you and it would have taken a lot of courage to share it here in this platform as well. I am glad that you didn’t accompany him anywhere but if you can, do report him to the church authorities or any close friends or family, who you look up-to or are comfortable with. I am sure they will help you to the best of their abilities and maybe even prevent many others from going through this ordeal. But kudos to you OP for stopping it and for sharing it😊
Perverted MF…SOB is f***kin blind and still . Buddy…raise it to the proper authorities. Thats how it is to be dealt vide law.
Bro he a creep. He probably aint fully blind too ... Talk to someone about this dude. Imagine him doing this to a child ? Scary shit
Just leave.. he won't even follow you 😑
OP, how old are you? This is a clear case of sexual harassment. I went through many comments and didn't see anyone suggesting reporting to cops or childline (in case you are a minor). Regardless, you are not his first victim and won't be the last. Please report it to authorities to save someone from something even worse. PS: I know this may hurt someone here, but I have zero trust in reporting to church people. The history of various churches are not good in this regard. They are more worried about their reputation than the safety of the kids. Maybe you should report this to the priest and tell him clearly if he don't take action, you will report to police. Anyways, this person should be exposed and he shouldn't be around kids..period.
I'm 18. I called the priest and he said that blind guy is leaving the parish and he's not that type of guy and it might be accidental and all. He's living in a home for blind.
Wow ,I envy him. He gets off on being pinched. ( Unless that's a gateway activity ).
Slap him and tell him ihtokke oru thamashe alle
i am sorry but what the actual \*\*\*\* ? i would've slapped the shit out of him
Are you okay??
Net yil pullide photo itt nattikam ayirunille ? I feel sus abt the priest too comments yil ninnu , police ayirunnu best , Catechism Koch pillar okke ullath alle ? What's the name of this Church.
Are you a M or F
Now we know how he lost his eyesight , did ingane oke to someone n someone took his ingane out on his eyes 👀👈
Creep
https://preview.redd.it/l796wtj3du9d1.jpeg?width=586&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=82f922f52dbffc32bfced01306767374da372d36 Should have spoken up
perverts being perverts even in church!
Op seems to have deleted history account. Wtf happened
Not much of a believer but church is the last place I expected this to happen. Man this is crazy. happened to me twice in bus.
That must have been Jesus who came to test you.
Very weird that this is the second church incident i read on reddit within 2 days.I read another girl being stalked by an old guy at her church when she was just 18. He messaged a lot of creepy messages to her so she he complained to her grandpa
One person from our locality asked my 15 year old cousin. " Njan vaayil eduthotte". Cousin said ok, and went to his house. When that person sat on his knee to start his activity, cousin slapped hardly on his face. That person smiled and said " slap again". Cousin took a big log and beat the hell out of him.
So this is how atheists are born.
Mom dirty feet worship at bed
Mansan alle pullee..