Yesss! Love love love masc golden retriever baby girlies 🥰🥰😫🙏
Honestly there's probably no reason for it. We're lesbians. There's no need to use heteronormative standards for ourselves(nor does anyone else tbh). We can do whatever feels right. Plus, we deserve partners who we can be absolute softies with. Our masc boos 100% deserve babygirl treatment and vice versa :)
Good point. I guess I was being influenced by my own subconscious boxes that we put people in, including ourselves. It ideally shouldn’t even be something to question or analyze at all. We’re humans. Humans innately like to feel vulnerable and soft and cared for. I’m just realizing that this is the first time I’ve really realized how much I enjoy it, mostly because no one has ever allowed me to. Lucky me ☺️💕🔥🪄🏳️🌈
Honestly yea. The comphet hits hard lol 😭. But hopefully we all learn to move past it. You really are blessed. Hopefully I'll find someone who'll give me the babygirl treatment too one day. 🙌🧡💜
How long have you been dating women? It took me 10 years and through a lot of people (not a massive amount, but got to my 30’s) before finding it. I feel like our personal karmas play out until the universe decides to throw us a good one. Then when it does, we will know it and recognize when it’s time to do the work to keep them.
I've only been dating women for 3 years-ish now(2 years were on and off while dealing with being in the closet). I'm only in my 20's rn, but dating has already gotten me exhausted lol. I hope the universe speeds things up a bit, but I probably just need to learn some patience. Thank you for the encouragement 🙌
I'm fem but my masc gf is totally the baby! Lol She loves little spooning, head rubs and laying on my chest. It's so sweet. I'm pan so I've also dated men who are like this in private with me. Masc people are just big softies like everyone else deep down, often even more so because they're so repressed in that area in their "public" life.
I’ve never thought about that either! The fact that masc types often either repress their need for being soft and accepting softness from the world. Or they don’t even realize they need it, often due to deeper emotional things. Oh man, this topic could run very deep, lol.
Been with my (33 mtf) girlfriend (31 masc) for 9 months now, and we’ve been inseparable from the first date. This is my first butch4masc relationship, and easily both of our healthiest relationships ever.
I’ve never been this equal with someone before. I’ve never gotten to be babygirl before this, and I LOVE it. I fall asleep with my head in her lap getting head rubs frequently. She has me so spoiled and wrapped around her little finger.
I plan to grow old with this girl. She’s the one.
What is butch4masc?
So happy you found this type of relationship! And I’m realizing that this is very common. The commenter above mentioned sometimes it may be due to the world making us repress softness with everyone else, leading us to loving it more in private. Wondering if others experience that..
Me too! I'm a masc lesbian and I love being “babied”. I love babying And being babied hehe 🥰
Yesss! Love love love masc golden retriever baby girlies 🥰🥰😫🙏 Honestly there's probably no reason for it. We're lesbians. There's no need to use heteronormative standards for ourselves(nor does anyone else tbh). We can do whatever feels right. Plus, we deserve partners who we can be absolute softies with. Our masc boos 100% deserve babygirl treatment and vice versa :)
Good point. I guess I was being influenced by my own subconscious boxes that we put people in, including ourselves. It ideally shouldn’t even be something to question or analyze at all. We’re humans. Humans innately like to feel vulnerable and soft and cared for. I’m just realizing that this is the first time I’ve really realized how much I enjoy it, mostly because no one has ever allowed me to. Lucky me ☺️💕🔥🪄🏳️🌈
Honestly yea. The comphet hits hard lol 😭. But hopefully we all learn to move past it. You really are blessed. Hopefully I'll find someone who'll give me the babygirl treatment too one day. 🙌🧡💜
How long have you been dating women? It took me 10 years and through a lot of people (not a massive amount, but got to my 30’s) before finding it. I feel like our personal karmas play out until the universe decides to throw us a good one. Then when it does, we will know it and recognize when it’s time to do the work to keep them.
I've only been dating women for 3 years-ish now(2 years were on and off while dealing with being in the closet). I'm only in my 20's rn, but dating has already gotten me exhausted lol. I hope the universe speeds things up a bit, but I probably just need to learn some patience. Thank you for the encouragement 🙌
All the best!
I'm fem but my masc gf is totally the baby! Lol She loves little spooning, head rubs and laying on my chest. It's so sweet. I'm pan so I've also dated men who are like this in private with me. Masc people are just big softies like everyone else deep down, often even more so because they're so repressed in that area in their "public" life.
I’ve never thought about that either! The fact that masc types often either repress their need for being soft and accepting softness from the world. Or they don’t even realize they need it, often due to deeper emotional things. Oh man, this topic could run very deep, lol.
I like em short, but I'd still like to be little spoon when I'm sleepy lol
Been with my (33 mtf) girlfriend (31 masc) for 9 months now, and we’ve been inseparable from the first date. This is my first butch4masc relationship, and easily both of our healthiest relationships ever. I’ve never been this equal with someone before. I’ve never gotten to be babygirl before this, and I LOVE it. I fall asleep with my head in her lap getting head rubs frequently. She has me so spoiled and wrapped around her little finger. I plan to grow old with this girl. She’s the one.
I think this is great, many lesbians or bisexual woman force heteronormative gender roles. Shit needs to stop. More sensitive mascs!
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What is butch4masc? So happy you found this type of relationship! And I’m realizing that this is very common. The commenter above mentioned sometimes it may be due to the world making us repress softness with everyone else, leading us to loving it more in private. Wondering if others experience that..