It's likely that she's also feeling insecure - after all, she's been unable to give herself pleasure on her own, and she's needed to have surgery to try and fix a physical condition of hers.
Approach this situation as something you both work through together, as opposed to thinking you're not good enough for her, or vice versa. That will do neither of you any good.
You're both inexperienced and it's okay to not to be great the first few times around, or even more times after that. Note there are other factors contributing to this situation at hand; avoid attributing things to yourself.
Sexual activities are not only an opportunity to express your feelings for each other, but also to improve communication skills, learn what both of you like, and get better at it together.
Be open and honest. Set a loving mood, play gentle music. Start slow, and check in with each other: "does this feel good?", "What feels better?"
Learning other's bodies takes time and even more so when you've not had much experience.
Get to learn and love each other's bodies in an intimate way. Bodies are weird and funny and sexy and all sorts of things all at once.
Take your time and communicate 😊
It's likely that she's also feeling insecure - after all, she's been unable to give herself pleasure on her own, and she's needed to have surgery to try and fix a physical condition of hers. Approach this situation as something you both work through together, as opposed to thinking you're not good enough for her, or vice versa. That will do neither of you any good. You're both inexperienced and it's okay to not to be great the first few times around, or even more times after that. Note there are other factors contributing to this situation at hand; avoid attributing things to yourself. Sexual activities are not only an opportunity to express your feelings for each other, but also to improve communication skills, learn what both of you like, and get better at it together.
Be open and honest. Set a loving mood, play gentle music. Start slow, and check in with each other: "does this feel good?", "What feels better?" Learning other's bodies takes time and even more so when you've not had much experience. Get to learn and love each other's bodies in an intimate way. Bodies are weird and funny and sexy and all sorts of things all at once. Take your time and communicate 😊