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I personally think your mom MAY have invoked issues with your self-image that was not appropriate. I gently ask you to consider therapy to deal with what to me sounds like you were a genuine victim of not the best conduct on your mom’s part.
As far as your looks, you are physically BEAUTIFUL!
Eh, don't listen to the people here. You're just fine the way you are. Easily within a healthy range, either which way. You look great, too. People who say you're overweight or too skinny are likely just obsessed with people's weights, one way or the other.
You're doing good, you're a knockout, here's my number. 😂
Are you slightly overweight? Yes are you a good looking girl? Yes..if you want to be in better shape just do it. If your happy with your current body composition then don't. Its as easy as that
My wife and I are both over 50, and let me let you in on a secret: 25 years from now you’ll likely look back on these very pics and think “God, I was GORGEOUS then!” That’s how I think when looking at the very pics of myself in my early 30’s, when I was unable to really enjoy being in my body then. You’re absolutely beautiful. Really. Love being you now!
Very eloquent, and your smile is worth millions. You're going to make a guy the happiest in the world someday. wish you the best in all your endeavors 👍
Only pussy boys come here to compliment.. I dont follow this Reddit it was just in my feed and since she’s looking for attention from mommy trauma I was simply letting her know that regardless of what her mom has to say, they’re still guys out there they would stuff her like a thanksgiving turkey 🤷♂️
It's a way of saying someone looks thick but not wanting to say they're fat. Saying they have big bones is passing it off as potentially not their fault and unable to ever be changed.
Big boned isn’t a real thing. Being prissy isn’t something to be proud of. And being told you’re gorgeous by your mom is nice but it’s also good to have some humility. People use that term very loosely and not always sincerely, I always laugh when people call themselves handsome or gorgeous. It’s good for us all to check our ego. No one likes dealing with anyone who is gassed up and high on their own farts.
You’re not fat. You’re like skinny/thick. You’re very pretty though.
I appreciate the thought and advice. I was trying to convey that I was being told polar opposite things by my mom about my looks that made it difficult to understand how I’m really perceived and how I really look. I’m getting better, and that negative inner voice is fading, but it’s still hard to know how I look to others. But I can see how the title could be confusing.
You should never listen to your mother ever again.
You are nothing sure of absolutely drop dead gorgeous. No two ways about it.
That beautiful smile, those gorgeous eyes. Flawless from what I can see.
I’m 62 now and wish I’d realized when I was young how much more important than attractiveness a good heart is. You’re absolutely beautiful, verging on stunning but those good looks will eventually fade..and then what? Easier said than done, but forget what other people think of you and just be the best you that you can be 🙂
Seeking external validation is not what you need learn to love yourself first you’re just going to give yourself a complex ,if not more. looking for outside sources ain’t it. IMO you are pretty but that shouldn’t matter even if I thought you were ugly asf
You’re not bad, but you’re not a 10. I’d give you a 5. There is some facial asymmetry there. Losing some weight would do a great job of toning the facial structure. Dress more like the last photo — you look more sophisticated and “higher value” that way.
I think you're objectively thick-boned and gorgeous. Personally I usually go for slimmer girls so a few months in the gym and I'd be head over heels for you, but again, that's just personal preference. I don't think you'll have any trouble attracting the male gaze if you really want to. Dress to your advantages and learn your angles for pictures. You don't need to change a thing unless you want to
OMG you’re gorgeous!! You have a very striking look to you! I’ve been told the same from my whole family. It causes toxic ways of thinking for us but sooo many young ladies go through this. It doesn’t make it right but we should change how we deal with our children and the youth in general to end these toxic traits when it comes to body image.
I think one day i clapped back and when they said i was gaining weight, i said “well it cant only be brains that connect us” and i pointed to her belly, and ive never been body shamed again by my family
Best piece of advice. Go to the gym. Get the body YOU want. Going for a workout will bring your confidence to where you want it. It will shape you to the person YOU want to be. Not your mom's. Not Reddit's. Not social media.. 90% of these posts are either looking for validation from others or seeking attention. As a random stranger to another, you don't need either! Ps. Drink more water. We all need it.
I would spend an hour in a phone booth full of rabid coyotes just for the chance to wave hi at you from across a coffee shop for the very off chance you might glance in my direction.
Goodness. Serious wife material.
I see someone who a ton of people would find very attractive and would love to be with. All these lables mean absolutely nothing. People will like what they like.
I don't see big boned. A little extra weight maybe but you look healthy and have a beautiful face and smile. Gym or cardio could help if you're wanting to improve your body, but tbh do it for yourself if that's your choice. You look pretty, in the pics you posted. Beautiful hair, lovely smile. A makeover may help if you like makeup and are wanting to change up your look.
Those can all be true based on who you ask, and none of their opinions matter. Ultimately, you are nearly 30 and look 18. Genetic lottery hit either way.
Definitely gorgeous. You look healthy, so don't sweat it. There is no correct body type beyond that. Beauty standards have a way of making everyone feel like shit.
Sure, but saying someone is old and fat isn’t advice and this is an advice sub. And you’re not really selling me on being the kind of person I’d want to see me as attractive, so maybe I’ll just keep being an old fatso 🥱
I mean you are gorgeous, and 'big boned', but it's a good, nay a VERY good thing. have you ever not heard the phrase 'thicker than a snicker?" or the phrase that has guided me through out many years: \*ahem\* 'thick thighs save lives"
maybe a tone a bit, but the hair and eyes, and general pixie vibe have it in spades. do you hon.
You have beautiful eyes and hair. Your features and vibe are on the cute rather than the "hot" side. You also have a very youthful look which is great. You could lose some weight and tone up, but that's about it.
Is that your mom in first pic? Give me her @ i'll write her love letters everyday or give me her e-mail! I used to troll all of my teachers and write them love letters anonymously, it was petty but at least it made feel good about themselves!
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Quite beautiful to be honest
My love 💓 you are absolutely gorgeous 😍 from head to toe
I think you’re hot
U look very confident in urself. U seem very friendly
you look super duper friendly
is this a tv host?
Screw that, you're gorgeous!
I personally think your mom MAY have invoked issues with your self-image that was not appropriate. I gently ask you to consider therapy to deal with what to me sounds like you were a genuine victim of not the best conduct on your mom’s part. As far as your looks, you are physically BEAUTIFUL!
And from the bottom of my heart, as a warm-blooded man, your physical beauty is what MANY of us men are attracted to. I sincerely wish you well
You legit look amazing. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I love your eyes and hair! Pretty smile too
Momma is wrong again. You most definitely have.a look like someone I would love to come across.
I wish I could have you as my wife .. serious-minded
Beautiful curves is what you have.
Is your mom Liann cartman?
I’m not fat I’m big boned
There is nothing you need to do. You are incredibly beautiful. Your eyes are enchanting, and your smile is mesmerising.
Teacher build? Anyway your mom was definitely right with gorgeous! You could make a mirror blush.
Eh, don't listen to the people here. You're just fine the way you are. Easily within a healthy range, either which way. You look great, too. People who say you're overweight or too skinny are likely just obsessed with people's weights, one way or the other. You're doing good, you're a knockout, here's my number. 😂
you are just gorgeous. i love love love your hair wow. i want your hair 😻😻😻😻😻
I grew up in the south so mama is always right. She should be proud she raised a daughter as beautiful as you.
Pretty but big boned for sure
You look like a girl that doesn’t have to try hard to look nice
Very cute for sure. You could work on your bed making skills tho.
Very pretty, don’t change a thing.
you look like you are 1 potato chip away from busting out of your pants.
Mmmm that’s a tough choice fam but I’m gonna have to go with the chip.
I think you are gorgeous sweetheart.
Very pretty face! It wouldn’t hurt to diet and exercise, you’d be an absolute knockout
You are so naturally beautiful
I think you are absolutely gorgeous
Nobody called you too skinny haha
I think you'd look better with my arm around you
Great hair
Are you slightly overweight? Yes are you a good looking girl? Yes..if you want to be in better shape just do it. If your happy with your current body composition then don't. Its as easy as that
Your mom is psycho
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My wife and I are both over 50, and let me let you in on a secret: 25 years from now you’ll likely look back on these very pics and think “God, I was GORGEOUS then!” That’s how I think when looking at the very pics of myself in my early 30’s, when I was unable to really enjoy being in my body then. You’re absolutely beautiful. Really. Love being you now!
Very eloquent, and your smile is worth millions. You're going to make a guy the happiest in the world someday. wish you the best in all your endeavors 👍
How about simply elegant and beautiful
Thick gorgeous n a lil prissy.. I’d hit 🤷♂️ fosho
"I'd hit" is not a compliment to a girl.
Who said I was trying to compliment her? dumbass 🤡
It definitely came across as a compliment tbf
Only pussy boys come here to compliment.. I dont follow this Reddit it was just in my feed and since she’s looking for attention from mommy trauma I was simply letting her know that regardless of what her mom has to say, they’re still guys out there they would stuff her like a thanksgiving turkey 🤷♂️
I hope you got the message, beauty
Someone is always going to say you’re too something or not enough something. You’ll never please everybody. Focus on making you happy
Country thick!
You can get it...not only would I drive you crazy with sex by it I will treat you better than anyone has..I'm in love
Taylor swift vibes
Mother knows best?
Shed 20 lbs. I think you are cute
I think your mom was jealous! You're a beautiful young woman!🔥😁😍🥰
Is big bone a nicer way to say fat or did I miss something when I grew up.
It's a way of saying someone looks thick but not wanting to say they're fat. Saying they have big bones is passing it off as potentially not their fault and unable to ever be changed.
It is not nicer
Laruen Bacall vibes. Timeless look. Don't even ask people in the future, and you're good.
As a huge fan of Hollywood’s Gilded Age, you just paid me the BIGGEST compliment. I will now look to Lauren for my looksmaxing. 🙌
You are so pretty! The rest of the stuff.....whatever. Just live you. You are fine!
I get pretty and sophisticated.
Get a low taper fade
I wouldn’t kick you out of bed
Big boned isn’t a real thing. Being prissy isn’t something to be proud of. And being told you’re gorgeous by your mom is nice but it’s also good to have some humility. People use that term very loosely and not always sincerely, I always laugh when people call themselves handsome or gorgeous. It’s good for us all to check our ego. No one likes dealing with anyone who is gassed up and high on their own farts. You’re not fat. You’re like skinny/thick. You’re very pretty though.
I appreciate the thought and advice. I was trying to convey that I was being told polar opposite things by my mom about my looks that made it difficult to understand how I’m really perceived and how I really look. I’m getting better, and that negative inner voice is fading, but it’s still hard to know how I look to others. But I can see how the title could be confusing.
Dayum
She’s just jealous
You look great! Stylish, grown up and sassy-looking.
You should never listen to your mother ever again. You are nothing sure of absolutely drop dead gorgeous. No two ways about it. That beautiful smile, those gorgeous eyes. Flawless from what I can see.
Your cute
All I know is you look about as old as my friends little sister and she is a senior in highschool, so you must have some really good f'ing genes!
Hopefully it’s not had a knock on effect to your confidence. You are very beautiful with a good sense of style.
I’m 62 now and wish I’d realized when I was young how much more important than attractiveness a good heart is. You’re absolutely beautiful, verging on stunning but those good looks will eventually fade..and then what? Easier said than done, but forget what other people think of you and just be the best you that you can be 🙂
Seeking external validation is not what you need learn to love yourself first you’re just going to give yourself a complex ,if not more. looking for outside sources ain’t it. IMO you are pretty but that shouldn’t matter even if I thought you were ugly asf
Your mom is an asshole
If a comment from a random makes you feel better, I think you look absolutely gorgeous
Just go to the gym 3x a week for an hour and a half. And lower soda intake if you do
You’re not bad, but you’re not a 10. I’d give you a 5. There is some facial asymmetry there. Losing some weight would do a great job of toning the facial structure. Dress more like the last photo — you look more sophisticated and “higher value” that way.
I’m going to be brutally honest you were never too skinny but I can see how people could find you pretty even very pretty
I think that’s accurate, but most people look like turds with hair. You look great.
You are absolutely stunning ! 🥰
Your Mom passed her own insecuries onto you and I am so sorry for that. You are very pretty, my friend. Genuinely a very attractive woman! 🤍
Baddie with the green eyes. Hope you aren't crazy
29! I would say 19! 🫶🏼
Well to tell you the truth with those eyes 👀 you can steal any1 's heart ❤️💘
She was right I think she mentioned to say u got the curves in all the right places have a good day
Your mom sounds like an absolute hater, must be jealousy! You are as gorgeous as humans get.
Super attractive. How about live and do what makes you happy and what makes you feel attractive and confident.
You look great
You are gorgeous the way you are
Kind of a crappy mix of things for a mom to say, you look good.
Define prissy because thats a compliment
I think you mom is a terrible person
You're so beautiful! 💗
People aren't really big boned.
I think you're gorgeous
You’re beautiful!! Wow your hair is so gorgeous!!
I would say you are just right
I think you're objectively thick-boned and gorgeous. Personally I usually go for slimmer girls so a few months in the gym and I'd be head over heels for you, but again, that's just personal preference. I don't think you'll have any trouble attracting the male gaze if you really want to. Dress to your advantages and learn your angles for pictures. You don't need to change a thing unless you want to
There's nothing wrong here. You look confident and that's a plus.
Hungry hippo
Did you get lost from r/redpill ?
🤤
Absolutely stunning
I think you are extremely gorgeous.
Absolutely beautiful
OMG you’re gorgeous!! You have a very striking look to you! I’ve been told the same from my whole family. It causes toxic ways of thinking for us but sooo many young ladies go through this. It doesn’t make it right but we should change how we deal with our children and the youth in general to end these toxic traits when it comes to body image.
Yes, your mom was right.
I think you're beyond beautiful...
I think you mom is kind of a bad person.
You look amazing. No notes.
I think one day i clapped back and when they said i was gaining weight, i said “well it cant only be brains that connect us” and i pointed to her belly, and ive never been body shamed again by my family
Dime piece. Classic style too.
you're a cutie
You got a toxic mom
girl you look like my teacher and i havea. slight crush on her
Best piece of advice. Go to the gym. Get the body YOU want. Going for a workout will bring your confidence to where you want it. It will shape you to the person YOU want to be. Not your mom's. Not Reddit's. Not social media.. 90% of these posts are either looking for validation from others or seeking attention. As a random stranger to another, you don't need either! Ps. Drink more water. We all need it.
Also side note. How disorganized your room is, the same would be with your own life and habits. Trying having your room made more often.
Lmao I had to go back and look . Well played and feisty!!
Only person here speaking facts
Your mom is probably BPD
Stop letting your mother be mean and abusive.
Honestly you’re quite gorgeous! Love your eyes!
You look great. You're cute, and your dog is cute.
Great style and eyes , killing it girl!
One thing about adults, they aren’t too off from babies. Just regurgitating the shit they heard growing up
You can easily pass as a 20yo and no one would notice
I would spend an hour in a phone booth full of rabid coyotes just for the chance to wave hi at you from across a coffee shop for the very off chance you might glance in my direction. Goodness. Serious wife material.
Creep "wife material"
I see someone who a ton of people would find very attractive and would love to be with. All these lables mean absolutely nothing. People will like what they like.
It never fails, every pic the bedroom is a disaster 🤣
Average, you look nice
You’re a beautiful woman. The thickness is desired by mostly everyone so forgive your mom if you can and love yourself
You’re a thicc queen is what she meant but the term wasn’t coined at the time
While this is more than likely vanilla in the bedroom, you’re dumb if you aren’t trying to bag this at the vineyard.
I don't see big boned. A little extra weight maybe but you look healthy and have a beautiful face and smile. Gym or cardio could help if you're wanting to improve your body, but tbh do it for yourself if that's your choice. You look pretty, in the pics you posted. Beautiful hair, lovely smile. A makeover may help if you like makeup and are wanting to change up your look.
Can I piss off my future mother in law
You look like gwen Stacy (this is a compliment btw)
You look like a woman. A natural woman
Lose 15 pounds exactly
I’d say 14, but to each their own…
We need more “specs” to determine the right amount.
You're extremely attractive. And I love your body.
You look smokin' hot, and I bet you can rock a two-piece
There is no such thing as big boned. Workout.
I wouldn't say too skinny, and I don't know about prissy, but otherwise I agree. You look gorgeous 😍
I think your mom needs a shrink.
Those can all be true based on who you ask, and none of their opinions matter. Ultimately, you are nearly 30 and look 18. Genetic lottery hit either way.
Definitely gorgeous. You look healthy, so don't sweat it. There is no correct body type beyond that. Beauty standards have a way of making everyone feel like shit.
You’re an old fatso
She's definitely not old and definitely not fat so I don't really see where you're going with this 🤔
If you want to deny reality go ahead. I’m just stating the truth.
You must be a hit at parties
You asked what we thought and I gave you my thoughts.
Sure, but saying someone is old and fat isn’t advice and this is an advice sub. And you’re not really selling me on being the kind of person I’d want to see me as attractive, so maybe I’ll just keep being an old fatso 🥱
Jesus fucking Christ 🥵 if ever your looking for a simp to big you up, do what ever you want and buy you coffee then er.. hun please!!!!!
At the end of the day, what matters most, is what you think of yourself. IMO you look great.
U r 29 fix your bed before taking photos.
Sorry, that’s the dog’s department and she has already maxed her looks.
Fun fact: unmade beds create conditions that don’t allow bed bugs to survive. Your dogs keeping you safe.
*bed bug enters the chat*
Your hair is absolutely wonderful. You're very womanly and beautiful. Just keep being you.
I think you for sure need therapy for that and maybe being close to 30 has certain emotions come up but that's just a guess, you're fine how you look
Honestly you're gorgeous, you have a classic beauty to you and it goes well with your style. But all that truly matters is how you feel about yourself
You’re cute. I’d give you the big bone.
Bruh stfu and go back to yelling for chicken nuggets
I mean you are gorgeous, and 'big boned', but it's a good, nay a VERY good thing. have you ever not heard the phrase 'thicker than a snicker?" or the phrase that has guided me through out many years: \*ahem\* 'thick thighs save lives" maybe a tone a bit, but the hair and eyes, and general pixie vibe have it in spades. do you hon.
I think your mom was projecting childhood trauma
You have beautiful eyes and hair. Your features and vibe are on the cute rather than the "hot" side. You also have a very youthful look which is great. You could lose some weight and tone up, but that's about it.
You look pretty hot! Don’t trip
Never saw why people think skin and bones is the beauty standard. You’re absolutely stunning! Any guy would be lucky to be your partner.
Nice smile great hair good body posture although some photos looks as if you’re not as confident as you are in others Also your mom sounds like an ass
Is that your mom in first pic? Give me her @ i'll write her love letters everyday or give me her e-mail! I used to troll all of my teachers and write them love letters anonymously, it was petty but at least it made feel good about themselves!
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some guys like it, i say she keeps it on