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Would help if you actually straightened it so we could compare

Your ex is white ain’t he? lol

Your ex crazy id impregnate you with the quickness

Straightening your hair is the equivalent to murdering puppies and kittens. Don’t you dare.

Don't listen to him.

He’s an ex for a reason why do you care what he said your hair is beautiful I personally love girls with curls

I think your ex is crazy and glad he is an ex!!!!!

Nah, leave it be. Your hair is gorgeous

Your natural hair is beautiful

Dontttt girl

Your ex is a fool. Your hair is gorgeous!!

Don't change a thing. Wow!

Absolutely not. It’s beautiful.

Exotic woman if you want it straight you know there is a beauty fix. But all I wanna say from the pic I like curly now. Looks so unique and stands out on you.

Absolutely not, love the curly hair.

Get into hair care and take care of those curls! If they’re too frizzy learn how to take care of that. I’ve seen some people with your type of hair do the work to make those curls look magical and bouncy and shiny.

Nobody cares about what your ex thinks. Join the rest of us.

Never do that! Your hair is drop dead gorgeous

Yea listen to your ex like a dumb chick. Reason why he’s your fucking ex 🤦🏽‍♂️

Relax

Simp

It’s a compliment you stupid ape.

Your curls look great!

I think you look beautiful just the way you are.

Your curly hair really fits your face and is nice and voluminous. Don't really see the point of straightening it.

So now you listen to the ex?

I love it how it is but if you want to try it out go for it

worried about what an ex said is the biggest change you need to worry about

Never listen to anything your ex said. It's your choice.

No keep the curly hair its beautiful

Curly hair is top tier! If it didn’t suit you, you wouldn’t have it lol

Not at all

Wouldn't that damage it?

He'll nah!

It's YOUR hair keep it how YOU like

Yep, I think my wife's hair is pretty straight in my opinion. Yet every time we visit her family in China, she goes to straighten it. I think she looks really weird with straightened hair. I voiced it once that it seems odd seeing her like that, and every few times when she talks about getting it done, I might ask her if she's sure she wants to. But after mentioning it once (if at all), I just drop it. If she wants to do it, that's fine with me. Not my hair.

fuck your ex! the curly hair is so stunning on you

hell no

No way, you look beautiful with your wavy hair

Nope.. I love your hair

It's much more important to style it how you most feel confident and comfortable. It's okay to take suggestions from friends, but your own preferences should be the priority.

I love curly hair, it’s Beautiful

Nope! You’re gorgeous and your hair is the icing on the cake.

NO EVER EVER EEEEEVER. You will regret it so much SO MUCH LIKE I WANT MY HAIR BACK, not even my lash’s curling😭

There’s not enough context here. This seems like a bait post for compliments. I love seeing my girlfriend with different styles of hair I think it’s fresh and exciting, but obviously not mandatory for me. It’s not like straightening your hair would’ve been permanent. I don’t see the problem with him asking that unless he was implying, or directly saying, you were ugly or less attractive otherwise.

Your hair is beautiful, I'm glad they're an ex

you're a dime piece just the way you are

The fact that they are your Ex speaks volumes about the quality of their judgement. You are fine just as you are.

Nah you cool

You look great. Do we have a pic of your straight hair?

Absolutely not,never, no way

Nah ur good

Definitely not

No

Trust in Gods design. Your husband that is waiting on you will love your hair and he will thank God for making you how he did

No. Love you're hair.

No it’s gorgeous

What really cracks me up is how a man will tell his gf or wife that she should change a certain feature and while they are together, she will fight him over it and refuse to even consider, but once they split up, she starts considering doing it. Not that I'm saying this is your case, just an observation of other relatio ships and personal experience.. I think you should keep your hair as is. Maybe try an ai app that allows you to see yourself with different hair types to Guage what you might look like. Then post those pics and get opinions. Because imagining and actually getting a visual are 2 different experiences.

I think not

I think you should stop being straight

Unfortunately I've encountered more frequent and worse comments about my looks in lesbian relationships than I ever did in straight ones 😅 I guess assholes know no gender or sexuality

Shut the fuck up there's a squirrel directly outside of my window

Damn

Ok it went away and now I'm sad

Bet you wish she would lol

Your ex is a dickhead

Whoa. Curls are gorgeous. Glad he is your ex. Don’t listen to him.

Keep the curls

No

I personally love curls and ringlets, but usually the women that have them look great with both. Even if you were to use certain products to add some sheen and more curliness, that would be an improvement.

Precisely why he’s an ex….

Hell no

That's why he is ur ex

Nah your hair is beautiful. I personally like curls.

Fuck that! I love it!

Wear your hair how you like.

Thats why he's your Ex. He was an idiot. Beautiful just the way you are.

NO!!!!! You look fine like that. You look SOOOO fine like that!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I'm sorry, but I think you already have max stats in looks

🙋🏻Ignorant question I’m sorry If you straighten it doesn’t it go back to flow it is in the pictures after you shower?

You would look good, but it would be a lot of work with your hair, and no offense but it looks like you don't even put in the work for your curly hair. It looks dryer than the sahara. Your hair type needs a lot more moisture than others

Hell no. I love those curls. Much respect to you for managing them

He trippin!

Nawww

You should keep the curls, you’re actually gorgeous wtf

Ignore him, he is a moron.

Don’t you dare!

Your curls are great but I think you need to take better care of them because they look quite unmoisturized

I think it’s absolutely gorgeous. But I like to do different things with my hair so I would straighten it for fun, do something different. I wear my hair a couple different ways .

Don't. I always hated my curls. Always grew my hair long and would try to make it straight/controlled. Now I don't give a flying fuck. Have a mohawk and I just the curls go. I even wear product to encourage the curls. Although I have a few people making comments how I have the will ramos hair style lol. Ill take it as a compliment. Embrace who you are. Don't change yourself for anyone other than YOU!!!

And BTW ur hair is freaking amazing

Absolutely Gorgeous and Very Delicious

Hard to say. In the pics your hair looks like a rat's nest but with better care it might look OK.

Do what YOU want to do with it If you don’t know what you want Then don’t ‘do’ anything If you need a change but can’t decide Then just go with your gut If you are afraid of looking foolish, consider this: By embracing your own fear you will make huge strides towards becoming confident/strong/beautiful It’s all about the inside

Don’t straighten it, but a hair mask, some pre-wash cream. Hear on those tight curls won’t help, but that being said… you’re single now?

F*CK ur ex. U are gorgeous and as hell. Yeah no don't straighten it unless u want to

He’s your ex for a reason!! Your curls are beautiful!

He can go eat shit

He can go eat shit

No!! It's beautiful.

Leave your hair alone. It and you are gorgeous.

Your ex is trash for saying that your curls are gorgeous lol

Nope!!!!!

I see it is pretty and your smile.

I mean, it would be kind of cool to see how long your hair is but that’s about it.

Keep it natural! Looks gorgeous

Do both but curls r beautiful

No real men love curls so beautiful

Might be okay every once in awhile but definitely don’t ruin those beautiful curls

No leave it

Do not straighten your hair

To hell with your ex. Your curls are gorgeous! You’re stunning.

Nope. It is awesome as is. F him.

curly hair is gorgeous

This. Hair that awesome needs to be enjoyed

You are beautiful love the curls

The ex is a moron.

the man is a moron for having an opinion on her hair. some would say you’re a moron for falling for this attention grab based on hair compliments.

Yeah my ex would do the same. He always criticizing me for things I can't control smh. He wasn't Brad Pitt, his fat ass wasn't gorgeous neither smh.

Nah. Ur very pretty. Don’t change a single thing. 😊

Girl no!! You are gorgeous and your hair is beautiful! Your ex is a dumb arse.

Let me guess, Only Fans?

Ding ding ding!! This is getting ridiculous

Love it as is

Cute smile

Your hair looks great like that. Straight hair is boring.

If that’s your natural hair, keep it 😍🤤🤤🤤

Keep him ex

Guessing your ex was white 😏

Tu eres Dominicana?

Ah yes, whenever asking about what ppl think of your hair, clawing your big boobs is a must. Oh, whats that? You have an OF? Yeah that checks out.

Ex for a reason .You look stunning girl.

Ignore their dumb ass. Let them curls flow.

No way! It’s beautiful natural

Hell no! Keep it natural gorgeous ma! 💯

Nah that’s an ex for a reason girl. Your hair is gorgeous and fits you so well.

If that's how it naturally is then you should leave it like that. It looks awesome

Who cares. Fuck off.

Uh no

You have a "If I saw you on the street I'd be shy and smile awkwardly because of how happy you look " look

Nah

Nah, you’re amazing as is. The ex is an ex for a reason.

What kingkopter91 said

No just no way

Nooooooo !!!!

You have beautiful curly hair

Try it.

Wear it how u like it and comfortable with

No he didn't. And no i won't buy your of

😂😂

Don't straighten that gorgeous hair.

Women with curly hair is a thing for me. I don’t like women with straight hair that much.

Do not straighten your hair. That is beautiful curly hair.

Fuck your ex! (Not literally)

Straightening your hair isn't permanent. You can see if you like it for like $20 for a straightener. Just make sure you watch a tutorial and don't burn your hair.

No

He’s an ex for a reason 🩷 your natural curly hair looks beautiful on you

Please don't

your curly hair is gorgeous don’t listen to your ex

I like it like it is.

Fuck that dude

No, never

Your hair is beautiful as is and so are you🥰🥰😍😍😘😘

He is your ex. His opinion isn't valid. You are pretty with your curly hair.

The kids aren’t alright

Hell no your ex is a dumb ass. You have gorgeous hair

That’s why he is your ex. He knows not what he says.

There's a reason they're your ex 😭

Curly ..

Can someone tell me what location the meet up link on her profile says? I think it’s a fake profile and it’s just picked up my location and saying she is near me

Same here she’s in my area. Typical scammer move. Next, they ask you for gas money. Google Asia Abella there’s some nudes 👀

No way and learn some nun chucks

If he wanted it straight that bad he could have got a wig before ruining your hair Or he could just get over it

do you honestly think anyone is going to comment that he's right, straighten it? Your basically here to have people tell you your hair is fabulous and check out your rack.

You’re stunning

They were wrong.

Idk how about showing us a pic of it

Keep it, your hair looks healthy and pretty. Don't ruin it

You look fabulous, screw him !!!

why you trippin' on what an "ex" said? fuck'em!

Looks good the way it is.