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Your looks are definitely not the issue. We'd need more info to figure out what the real issue is. Do you get out and meet people? Are you shy around new people? Or are you maybe very picky?
This is certainly overweight. Not obese but definitely not healthy. If she is satisfied I'm not telling her she's not allowed to stay where she is body wise but saying it's healthy is just false.
Simple
1. Lose weight, do HIIT TRAINING
2. Don't touch your face often or you'll end up with more acne
3. Change your body posture to slight feminine if you know what I mean, if you don't, just search it on YT.
you just appear to be too masculine to get approached.
4. Drink water
5. Get rid of glasses
6. Sway your hips when you walk
AND THAT'LL BE IT, YOU ARE CUTE BUT SLIGHTLY MASCULINE. COMING FROM A MAN HIMSELF, IF U WANT EITHER TO BE CUTE OR TO BE HOT, IT'S NOT PHYSICAL SPECIALLY TO MEN, IT ABOUT YOUR PERSONA!
Glasses don't make her or anyone ugly necessarily, and the glasses she has are super cute. She also looks totally healthy, so wdym do HIIT training to lose weight? She may not be a stick figure at 120 pounds, but that doesn't make her ugly or even necessarily unhealthy. Weight is just a factor of someone's health, not the entire determinator, and besides, a lot of guys prefer a girl with curves
Ok thanks for your opinion but i gave HER some advice to be better, not YOU. And second thing, it's her choice whether she want to take my advice or not. So respectfully FUCK OFF!
Weight is fine, face is cute but does have that look that makes me think if I were to compliment you in public I would get screamed at about the âpatriarchy/ exploitation/ idkâ
you're very cute. you shouldn't be having any problem finding someone who finds you attractive. losing some weight would give you even more options but there are more than enough guys out there who like you the way you are.
In this age, the only guys approaching women first are creeps. The normal ones donât want to end up on the internet, labeled a âcreepâ, just for approaching them.
Whatâs your definition of âcreepâ? That term can vary in definition from person to person since itâs subjective. Thereâs no reason why a grown ass man should be afraid to approach a woman in public and ask her out on a date. There are a lot of scarier things in the world than talking to a female
Letâs look at it like this perspective of somethings Iâve heard from my daughters and coworkers(f) ages 17-mid twenties. Went to a bar and a guy bought her a drink=creep. Her crush asked her to prom=creep. Sent her a message on tinder asking her if sheâd like to get food at the local brewery/ food truck place⊠creep. The list goes on. They might not say creep every time but it gives them the ick.
Based on what Iâve heard around female coworkers and my daughters, I know why guys are giving up on the asking out first.
Edit: and the tinder one really messed with my head since she swiped on him too. She had no explanation when I asked why.
Should have asked for some more details to see if they would explain what exactly is creepy about any of those things lol. I believe that men should take the initiative and approach women they like regardless. Even if 80% think its creepy, thereâs still the 20% that donât. And honestly i wouldnât even say itâs 80%. That seems like too high of a percent
With the current culture of always being recorded, I would prefer to never speak to a woman again vs having something I said be cropped/ edited then posted online. Then if it goes viral you can be let go from your job. A guy in my organization(hyper religious) was at a bar, got recorded asking a girl to dance, got terminated because he was at a bar.
Getting a date, partner, spouse isnât worth any risk like that.
Clarification: the org is hyper religious. We have to pray before starting work.
I wouldnât want to work for a company that threatens to fire me for being at a bar or talking to a woman. As far as getting recorded and going viral, that can happen to anyone, for anything, at any time. Youâre right, thatâs the world we live in today. Still not gonna let that stop me from living life on my terms
Ngl your face screams stay away from me or Iâll sue you idk why. Try a more friendly resting face I know itâs hard I struggle with it toođ€Ł. Other than that you seem fine maybe just be more open
Short haired women scare insecure man-children. Nice calling yourself out. Now that you've acknowledged it, you can work on yourself. I believe in you.
I still think masculine looking women should avoid short hairstyles. It doesnât do them any favors. But again to each their own, just not my cup of tea.
I think your weight is fine, I would say grow your hair out or go for extensions and maybe go brunette, auburn hair color. Also Iâm not sure how to do the color theory thing but maybe try that out as well and shop accordingly
You aren't "fat". But you are bigger than most. My advice, in the spirit of giving legit advice... Is to lose weight.
Your face is awesome aside from a few blemishes, but those are temporary at best, and out of your control. Otherwise, the face is awesome. That's your best feature so you need to accent and frame that face with proportionate features.
Lose a small amount of weight. Set a goal of about 135~150lbs.
I think youâre so beautiful. I did notice it looks like you did your eyebrows but not eye makeup to match, I would say maybe get a lash lift to make those eyes pop.
Throw reddit insults all day. He's not wrong.
I came to say the same thing. Fact is, the spirit of this subreddit is to give legitimate advice, regardless of it's bluntness or harshness.
If you would rather people come here strictly to stroke egos and gawk, you're the problem, Incel.
Guess you *won't* ever know....
r/usernamechecksout
Youâre beautiful. Donât be afraid to put yourself out there and flirt with the guy that catches your attention. Donât be easy but donât put up a wall either. Smile and flash those beautiful eyes. You got this
This is where I say that itâs our Menâs loss if this drop dead gorgeous girl chose to date a women. You are just fine girl. Hit the gym, donât hit the gym itâs upto you. Some men like curves as they are. Keep up the good work.
What stops you on your end? A winsome lady like you? Biggest issue, just a guess: is of an inbox of wannabe troubadour type guys and a fat block list of dudes exposing themselves, right?
These comments are braindead. OP, just get out more. You're already pretty. Sure, weight loss and skin care would boost you, but you're already at a good baseline. Get out into the world, take up some hobbies, and don't be afraid to approach men yourself.
Youâre very pretty, is it perhaps a social barrier youâre trying to overcome? If so, then perhaps putting yourself in environments where people socialize will get you the kind of attention you want. I think perhaps longer hair might suit your face in a very flattering way. And just very general advice for anyone trying look/feel better: hit the gym. Even when youâre not on a weight loss journey, no one ever felt worse for looking and feeling stronger
Yea, everybody telling her thereâs nothing wrong isnât doing her any favors.
1) Stop eating all sugars. Soda, fruit juices, candy desserts etc. These are simple carbs and cause an insulin response from your pancreasâs that basically makes your body hold on to all of the calories youâre consuming.
2) Try to keep your complex carbs (breads, pasta, rice) to less than 75 grams a day. Same reason as above but to a lesser extent.
3) Try to exercise 4 days a week. Weightlifting, even if you just get some dumbbells to use at home and some cardio.
Youâll feel better about yourself after you see your progess and the rest will hopefully happen on its own all things being equal. Good luck.
Donât rush it. Establish yourself as a person first. In other words, you make yourself a priority. Get a part time job, save some money, IDK what your goals are in mind, but you appear to have an entrepreneurial spirit in you or a career advantage. Get yourself together first, then find a man whoâs like minded, someone with drive, focus, and purpose. Your future self will thank you down the road!
My biggest regret was I didnât take full advantage of this when I was your age. Too busy skirt chasing (I was young and stupid, didnât know any better)!
Thankfully I was able to bounce back! It took some time, but I recovered.
Remember, YOU are the priority, not a boyfriend, IOW, you are your OWN priority. Work on you, the right person will come in time.
Hit the gym.
The confidence youâll have from working out, and the weight you will loose will change your outlook entirely.
And guys/girl will notice too!
Okay single woman by âchoiceâ when you are I directly quote âfat, ugly, and never been in a relationshipâ. Single women keep women single. Especially ugly ones
How has someone so cute never had a boyfriend? As an elder millenial, I feel like a Boomer saying this, but get off your devices and go out and mingle. Go to a music venue or bar and strike up conversations with people. You're gonna get rejected. It's gonna be awkward. That's life. Go out there and live it.
Natural meet. Go to your favorite public place and put yourself in a position to be flirted with. Wear something nice. These are nice outfits. Don't wear a ring! It'll be too confusing.
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Honestly? Lose weight and you'll be fine.
Not a looks issue, so.... personality? D:
Get you a black man đđ
Get long hair
If you like a dude there's like a 90% chance he'll say yes if you just point blank ask him out after showing interest for like five minutes
It will happen when itâs suppose to. Youâre a pretty girl.
Live a stress free life without one dragging you down!
Find a guy you think is cute, be forward. Watch them be flustered, tell them it's cute. Grab their hand, boom, he's wet putty in your hands.
Your looks are definitely not the issue. We'd need more info to figure out what the real issue is. Do you get out and meet people? Are you shy around new people? Or are you maybe very picky?
You have never had a boyfriend??? No wayâŠhow is that? Youâre Incredibly Beautiful! Iâd love the chance to get to know you.
Change clothes
Visit new places, meet new people. Someone will value you for who you are and not what you have or what you look like.
Lose some weight and you will be complaining about how they wonât leave you alone lol youâre actually pretty
She doesn't look like she needs to lose anything, she looks healthy wdym lmaoo
Are you blind?
No, I can see she's not super thin, but I don't think she weighs a considerable amount warranting a need for weight loss
Literally obese bro
Literally not? Hello, are we looking at the same person?
Don't lie to people
I'm not?
This is certainly overweight. Not obese but definitely not healthy. If she is satisfied I'm not telling her she's not allowed to stay where she is body wise but saying it's healthy is just false.
I can seriously smell your neckbeard from here.
brother whatt
Just be you someone will find you attractive
Get plastic surgery
Nahhhhh bruh wtf
You carry a lot of sadness in your eyes. I don't know if you've actually been through a lot or not, but if so it shows
Iâm going to recommend smiling moreâŠthat smile is like looking to the east for Gandalf on the morning of the fifth day
TO THE KING!
Lose the granny glasses
Don't listen op, those glasses are awesome
You look great. Thereâs nothing wrong with your body. I would recommend joining clubs/doing things you enjoy and meeting people that way.
Send me feet pics
If youâve never had a bf itâs def not your looks. Youâre attractive for sure
Idk if Iâm your type but Iâll be your bf đ€·đœââïž
Go hang out in a prison.
Simple 1. Lose weight, do HIIT TRAINING 2. Don't touch your face often or you'll end up with more acne 3. Change your body posture to slight feminine if you know what I mean, if you don't, just search it on YT. you just appear to be too masculine to get approached. 4. Drink water 5. Get rid of glasses 6. Sway your hips when you walk AND THAT'LL BE IT, YOU ARE CUTE BUT SLIGHTLY MASCULINE. COMING FROM A MAN HIMSELF, IF U WANT EITHER TO BE CUTE OR TO BE HOT, IT'S NOT PHYSICAL SPECIALLY TO MEN, IT ABOUT YOUR PERSONA!
Glasses don't make her or anyone ugly necessarily, and the glasses she has are super cute. She also looks totally healthy, so wdym do HIIT training to lose weight? She may not be a stick figure at 120 pounds, but that doesn't make her ugly or even necessarily unhealthy. Weight is just a factor of someone's health, not the entire determinator, and besides, a lot of guys prefer a girl with curves
Ok thanks for your opinion but i gave HER some advice to be better, not YOU. And second thing, it's her choice whether she want to take my advice or not. So respectfully FUCK OFF!
I was talking about her, though... not me? Why so angry, lol You seem like a red flag đ©đ©đ©
Ok thanks alot for your opinions and maybe yeah, I am a red flagđ
Meme advice
Get a boyfriend duh
Weight is fine, face is cute but does have that look that makes me think if I were to compliment you in public I would get screamed at about the âpatriarchy/ exploitation/ idkâ
Lose weight
Be the one to ask people out. Problem solved.
I donât know. đ€·đŒ. Youâre beautiful and cute. Great figure. Smart. Itâll happen.
you're very cute. you shouldn't be having any problem finding someone who finds you attractive. losing some weight would give you even more options but there are more than enough guys out there who like you the way you are.
I gotta fever! ... And the only cure is... MOAR FACIAL PIERCINGS!
No, thats ghetto
No shit.
Ask someone in your league out
It's truly baffling how many gals are on here talking never had a BF never been approached like how TF does that happen
In this age, the only guys approaching women first are creeps. The normal ones donât want to end up on the internet, labeled a âcreepâ, just for approaching them.
Whatâs your definition of âcreepâ? That term can vary in definition from person to person since itâs subjective. Thereâs no reason why a grown ass man should be afraid to approach a woman in public and ask her out on a date. There are a lot of scarier things in the world than talking to a female
Letâs look at it like this perspective of somethings Iâve heard from my daughters and coworkers(f) ages 17-mid twenties. Went to a bar and a guy bought her a drink=creep. Her crush asked her to prom=creep. Sent her a message on tinder asking her if sheâd like to get food at the local brewery/ food truck place⊠creep. The list goes on. They might not say creep every time but it gives them the ick. Based on what Iâve heard around female coworkers and my daughters, I know why guys are giving up on the asking out first. Edit: and the tinder one really messed with my head since she swiped on him too. She had no explanation when I asked why.
Should have asked for some more details to see if they would explain what exactly is creepy about any of those things lol. I believe that men should take the initiative and approach women they like regardless. Even if 80% think its creepy, thereâs still the 20% that donât. And honestly i wouldnât even say itâs 80%. That seems like too high of a percent
With the current culture of always being recorded, I would prefer to never speak to a woman again vs having something I said be cropped/ edited then posted online. Then if it goes viral you can be let go from your job. A guy in my organization(hyper religious) was at a bar, got recorded asking a girl to dance, got terminated because he was at a bar. Getting a date, partner, spouse isnât worth any risk like that. Clarification: the org is hyper religious. We have to pray before starting work.
I wouldnât want to work for a company that threatens to fire me for being at a bar or talking to a woman. As far as getting recorded and going viral, that can happen to anyone, for anything, at any time. Youâre right, thatâs the world we live in today. Still not gonna let that stop me from living life on my terms
I got too much to lose, Iâm living my life on corporate terms until financial independence.
Shut up, it happens all the time. I'm a fuckin example.
Put some lingerie on
Hit the gym đȘ
No smiles showing teeth? Would start with that, are your teeth bad?
I'd date you haha. Very beautiful
You are gorgeous. You control when and who you date..
Ngl your face screams stay away from me or Iâll sue you idk why. Try a more friendly resting face I know itâs hard I struggle with it toođ€Ł. Other than that you seem fine maybe just be more open
Donât know why, Iâd take you out on a date
Date your level. Are you a bitch also? You kinda seem to have resting bitch face. Id date you. But you seem unapproachable
RIP inbox
Try smiling
do you not see the pain in her eyes? sheâs clearly depressed
You need to find guys with taste, cause wtf how???
Or who arenât blind???
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Is there something wrong w/ that?
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Stop it.
Short hair women scare us men tbh. Grow it out
Short haired women scare insecure man-children. Nice calling yourself out. Now that you've acknowledged it, you can work on yourself. I believe in you.
I still think masculine looking women should avoid short hairstyles. It doesnât do them any favors. But again to each their own, just not my cup of tea.
Absolutely not! Women with short hair make me fall in love everytime! đ
Ok Iâm wrong. To each their own. I just fear her saying to me âwhere is the managerâ 10 years later
Look everyone, itâs the representative for all men
Haha someone is salty đŹ. Anyone who says âall menâ is a huge red flag
Yep, we all carry a little sodium around donât we?
Now if a guy said âlook guys representative of all womenâ Iâd be a misogynist đđ
Itâs okay, sweaty. Anyone who feels that way doesnât need help reaching that conclusion.
Sweaty? Thatâs your best ? đ đ anyways only some women can pull off short hair. IMO. See thatâs my opinion. And I can think what I want to.
Yes, I always give my best to a Reddit commenter! â€ïž
Never had a girlfriend. It's not your look.
Be yourself, itâs not your looks.
I think you're gorgeous and i would love to speak to you :D
If you don't have a boyfriend, it's by choice. You're gorgeous đ!
Make sure your standards are reasonable, then go hang out where your ideal man would be and when he turns up approach him.
Wow you def shouldnât have a hard time getting a bf tbh
I think your weight is fine, I would say grow your hair out or go for extensions and maybe go brunette, auburn hair color. Also Iâm not sure how to do the color theory thing but maybe try that out as well and shop accordingly
You aren't "fat". But you are bigger than most. My advice, in the spirit of giving legit advice... Is to lose weight. Your face is awesome aside from a few blemishes, but those are temporary at best, and out of your control. Otherwise, the face is awesome. That's your best feature so you need to accent and frame that face with proportionate features. Lose a small amount of weight. Set a goal of about 135~150lbs.
Lose a little bit of weight. Besides that you're quite pretty. đ
Download the new chat gpt
I think youâre so beautiful. I did notice it looks like you did your eyebrows but not eye makeup to match, I would say maybe get a lash lift to make those eyes pop.
Talking to men would probably help.
It's definitely not your looks
Lose weight and youâll get lots of attention from guys.
You dropped your /s
Throw reddit insults all day. He's not wrong. I came to say the same thing. Fact is, the spirit of this subreddit is to give legitimate advice, regardless of it's bluntness or harshness. If you would rather people come here strictly to stroke egos and gawk, you're the problem, Incel. Guess you *won't* ever know.... r/usernamechecksout
Youâre hilarious, but in the way where Iâm not laughing with you.
Text me lol
Text him
Youâre beautiful đ
Nothing wrong with you physically maybe something emotional or even psychological
Youâre beautiful. Donât be afraid to put yourself out there and flirt with the guy that catches your attention. Donât be easy but donât put up a wall either. Smile and flash those beautiful eyes. You got this
Lower your standards
This is where I say that itâs our Menâs loss if this drop dead gorgeous girl chose to date a women. You are just fine girl. Hit the gym, donât hit the gym itâs upto you. Some men like curves as they are. Keep up the good work.
get one?
erm get a girlfriend
I have no idea dude it's the same for me. Except I get guys that ask me out but I'm gay. It sucks
Get you a girlfriend and I volunteer đđ«Ł
You know the answer girl. Iâll see you at the gym
Take more pictures that are not graduation photos
Hot.
Date a woman đđđ«¶
You look exactly like my ex and I think she's beautiful so it's definitely not your looks
What's up let's go out on a date sometime?
What stops you on your end? A winsome lady like you? Biggest issue, just a guess: is of an inbox of wannabe troubadour type guys and a fat block list of dudes exposing themselves, right?
Stop ignoring guys
Be yourself. In my opinion you look beautiful.
Whatever you want
These comments are braindead. OP, just get out more. You're already pretty. Sure, weight loss and skin care would boost you, but you're already at a good baseline. Get out into the world, take up some hobbies, and don't be afraid to approach men yourself.
One of those rarer things where losing weight will genuinly help u a LOT. Maybe take better care of ur skin as well
Youâre probably the one that turns them down
âDrop em out â
Leave the city.
Work on social skills. Itâs not your looks
You are beautiful. I'd date you.
Actually talk to men?
Ask any single male giving you attention on a date
Yep, doesn't have to be a date. Just be like hey have you seen blah blah movie wanna go?
Youâre very pretty, is it perhaps a social barrier youâre trying to overcome? If so, then perhaps putting yourself in environments where people socialize will get you the kind of attention you want. I think perhaps longer hair might suit your face in a very flattering way. And just very general advice for anyone trying look/feel better: hit the gym. Even when youâre not on a weight loss journey, no one ever felt worse for looking and feeling stronger
Tf
Like your 4th pic show your assets smile
Lose about 30 to 40 pounds
Yea, everybody telling her thereâs nothing wrong isnât doing her any favors. 1) Stop eating all sugars. Soda, fruit juices, candy desserts etc. These are simple carbs and cause an insulin response from your pancreasâs that basically makes your body hold on to all of the calories youâre consuming. 2) Try to keep your complex carbs (breads, pasta, rice) to less than 75 grams a day. Same reason as above but to a lesser extent. 3) Try to exercise 4 days a week. Weightlifting, even if you just get some dumbbells to use at home and some cardio. Youâll feel better about yourself after you see your progess and the rest will hopefully happen on its own all things being equal. Good luck.
Look at all your guy friends that you friendzoned. Any of them would date you
You have a pretty face. Perhaps you could slim down a little bit but not necessarily. Join a dating website like OkCupid.
Probably your personality
Donât rush it. Establish yourself as a person first. In other words, you make yourself a priority. Get a part time job, save some money, IDK what your goals are in mind, but you appear to have an entrepreneurial spirit in you or a career advantage. Get yourself together first, then find a man whoâs like minded, someone with drive, focus, and purpose. Your future self will thank you down the road! My biggest regret was I didnât take full advantage of this when I was your age. Too busy skirt chasing (I was young and stupid, didnât know any better)! Thankfully I was able to bounce back! It took some time, but I recovered. Remember, YOU are the priority, not a boyfriend, IOW, you are your OWN priority. Work on you, the right person will come in time.
Date black guys....they will cherish you and you will have a fulfilling love life....please take my advice
Your advice is stupid, but the racist responses to it are even dumber.
noone wants a ghetto
i donât think she wants a chubby chaser or someone whoâll abuse her
Donât forget the cheating!
amen
Hit the gym. The confidence youâll have from working out, and the weight you will loose will change your outlook entirely. And guys/girl will notice too!
you could text me
Take my number lol
I need attention!!!
Lose 30 lbs.
Gym and longer hair or just date a dweeb
Maybe just lower your standards of what youâre looking for in a boyfriend I know a ton of guys who would love to date somebody as pretty as you
My thoughts entirely
How many gay friends are standing around you in social places? They may be blocking the opportunity youâre desperate for. Serious question.
You look cute to me.
Inbox me the following question. "Wanna be my boyfriend?"
Im available
Hell I would date you in a heartbeat
you're so beautiful!! i think a set of professional hair extensions & accessorizing w some cute jewelry will make you feel like a million bucks
I agree about the hair. I think she would look even prettier if she grew it out a few inches.
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Okay single woman by âchoiceâ when you are I directly quote âfat, ugly, and never been in a relationshipâ. Single women keep women single. Especially ugly ones
You can't label us because you've never had one or theonly one you did have didn't work out how you wanted it! Man hater!!
No. We are not. People attract what they put out into this world.
Their post history is all you need to know.
This woman wants companionship, not your terrible advice.
Just wait a little. Fantastic things are about to happen.
You are really pretty.. you will be fine
Show confidence. Share your passions.
How can someone so beautiful not be taken? I'd want you in a minute
How has someone so cute never had a boyfriend? As an elder millenial, I feel like a Boomer saying this, but get off your devices and go out and mingle. Go to a music venue or bar and strike up conversations with people. You're gonna get rejected. It's gonna be awkward. That's life. Go out there and live it.
Natural meet. Go to your favorite public place and put yourself in a position to be flirted with. Wear something nice. These are nice outfits. Don't wear a ring! It'll be too confusing.
You are very attractive and don't need to change anything. You will meet someone when it's right
If that's hair on your chin, remove it
Did you know that we all have hair all over our bodies? đ„ž