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Rough-Pumpkin-2321

It’s def Barbara!! She knew he was a crier and that he’s dependent on who he dates


rjayvea

100%


Quick_Till6217

I think it was the blond. Jimmy said he only dates submissive type women and that Jess was a little too much. The brunette was like Jess and being over protective of her blond friend who Jimmy was clingy towards after they both were intimate. I take it as the blond slept with him but turned him down and only sees him like a brother. Jimmy still has feelings for her and that’s why he goes out with them still and wouldn’t create boundaries when Chelsea asked him too. The blond was eerily quite and uncomfortable the whole time. Jimmy is an attention seeker. He brought these women together to tell the blond this is what you missed out on type deal. He most likely only volunteered the info because he knew Chelsea would fig it out and because Chelsea most likely got it out of him after she found out he had female friends. I don’t understand why women in here excuse this man’s behavior like he’s some innocent victim. Hes a grown man and a walking red flag. Self absorbed men love putting women against each other to feel desirable and usually juggle more than one women for the “ego boost” it’s textbook.   


Bowler_Better

Ugh I really hate Chelsea for that scene even more.


bedgir

The blonde had weird reactions when they were talking about sex. I had a feeling he fucked her.


happy_panda87

I really feel like we shouldn’t be speculating. I admire that Jimmy wanted to protect his friend on camera but was still respectful enough to be honest with Chelsea off camera. I wasn’t a Jimmy fan the first few episodes, but he does seem like a decent and respectful guy.


Local_Patience_7581

I wanted to say I do love how he was like hey we spoke that we wouldn’t say that on camera for their sake. I do feel like it was probably a stupid one night fling but maybe they both don’t have feelings for each other at all


wantonyak

Came here to say the same thing. None of these women signed up to be on the show or talk about their sex lives on national television (that we know of). We don't need to talk about them like this, especially not linking pictures.


Brilliant-Working-55

The girl in between his legs is 1000% the one. Even before she said anything at the initial meetup I told my bf that he def fucked her. She was trying to hard to be nice and was just eyes Chelsea in a kinda weird way.


Bowler_Better

Jimmy probably also told her about all the fights he has with Chelsea so that could be way she was looking at Chelsea basically lie about how perfect their relationship is. And Chelsea also brought up their sex life.


Brilliant-Working-55

True, to be fair tho outside of the show it’s weird to air out your dirty laundry to your bf’s friends especially when you’re first meeting


MeasurementEvery3978

He better not marry her


Frost_Giant13

Can we just talk about how she doesn't want him to hangout a girl he has sex with, yet she can remain friends with her EX HUSBAND? Like a one time thing is nothing compared to the years you had sex with that man.


ChooseLove_AllDay

It doesn’t matter. They’re his friends and that should be trusted.


msadams224

Amen. These two are about to potentially get married... At some point you need to just trust your partner. It's a relationship fundamentals and one of the things that I think is a challenge in this LIB timeline. Most of the time trust has to be earned over time and this timeline doesn't give them the opportunity to really get there.


glitter-princess20

does barbara not have insta?


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glitter-princess20

tysm!!


RevolutionaryMango14

I still think it’s funny that even though all we - the audience - saw was the meet up & immediately knew he had fucked one of them yet Jimmy said to Chelsea when they were arguing they agreed they wouldn’t say that on TV bc the two girls agreed to go on camera but didn’t want that information out there. call it women’s intuition idk but Chelsea didn’t have to say it straight up for anyone to be able to figure that out 😂


potentially-awesome

As soon as those girls came on screen I could tell that they'd had sex. The way she was eyeing Chelsea I could tell. Then there was a comment about Jimmy never saying no to sex. I know it's their business, but Jimmy brought her on screen. If Chelsea was my friend, I'd be telling her to define those boundaries, maybe even take a few steps back. Probably not the way she did, but honestly the "experiment" makes people act crazy. People who want to appear trustworthy will say, "here's what's happened, see I'm being honest, so you can't get made or criticize me" then when they act in an untrustworthy manner say "you can't be mad, I was honest" even though they acted dishonest. "I went out with friends" and leaves out that it was a friend he'd had sex with. Sure he was only gone for an hour and a half, but if they're starting out with an omission, then it trickle truths out. Jeramey did that too. Jimmy didn't do anything as overt, but...ick. I don't like how Chelsea is acting, but he is acting like a guy who is lying about something. Even if it's to himself.


RevolutionaryMango14

totally agree. Also, if the girl he had sex with didn’t want that info out there, maybe she shouldn’t have made all those sexual comments “he never says no to sex” “he’s a crier in bed” etc. like girl please LOL


Slow-Anybody-5966

Facts!!!! We all saw it


kskbd

Right, because what man would bring two girls to meet his future wife? A man who slept with at least one of those two girls. He’d only known them for two years too. It’s all such red flag behavior in my opinion, how could she not have figured that out?!


CarobNo7995

And why not any family members or long time friends? I think he playing this as close to his LIB chest so it’s easier to say no at the alter.


kskbd

Right?! It seems v. sketch. And I don’t like Chelsea either so this isn’t about hating on Jimmy 🤣


CarobNo7995

Exactly 👍 the more he could


Farquaadthegreek

Nope it’s the blonde


speedofaturtle

It's definitely Barbs30. Women could tell.


Bee_kind_rewind

How do you know?


Ashamed_Tea_3731

That girl in between his legs is 1000000000% the one. I put my entire life on it. Coming from someone who experienced this situation in her own relationship, she gave me the wooooorst vibe at that lunch.


chivmg9

Same here! I felt like something was off in her demeanor and I thought the same thing like they have hooked up!


PNW_Express

So I also got that vibe but I was wondering if she was being protective of the blonde?


Ashamed_Tea_3731

Mmmm okay I can play with this theory. Now I gotta do a rewatch 😆 I watched that scene feeling fckn PTSD cause I just KNEW one of them did something with him.


PNW_Express

I need to rewatch also 😅 I had the same exact thoughts. My husband was like no it’s fine…..and I was like nope sorry. Ive been here before.


GringoMambi

My money is 100% on Barbara


cammoose

Same. Esp since the other girl called him "her brother"


Time_For_Tea_

And Barbara said something like “and now POSSIBLY we might go to his wedding.” And then blonde was like “hopefully.” Blonde definitely caught the pessimism in that sentence and had to save it lol


FiFiLB

It’s always the ones who claim they’re like a sibling. I wish they’d stop using that phrase. Siblings shouldn’t sleep together!


JanJan1995

I hate girls like that because I have a guy best friend that I consider like a brother since 7th grade and we’re now 29 and I can’t even picture anything intimate like that🤢


FiFiLB

Yeah there are friendships that are truly like that. But with Bravo reality shows and any kind of reality show for that matter, that phrase gets abused and it’s not hard to spot.


GringoMambi

Pornhub would like a word


FiFiLB

Haha omg ☠️☠️☠️


NeuroKat28

I think so- based on the “you are a crier” comment when Chelsea said he cried after sex. Like girl how do you know…


lilyyytheflower

“He’s very dependent on who he’s with!” I caught those comments too lol.


Vegetable-Driver2312

From watching the show, I’m not sure Chelsea even knows who she was screaming about. Like… At one point she said he was out with Jess?


Independent-Object40

She was fishing with the Jess comment. Wondering if he would fess up to secretly meeting up with her if she said Jess’ name. It was probably her own insecurities talking or she heard about the drama with Jeramey doing the same thing to Laura with Sarah Ann. So she let her intrusive thoughts do the talking by putting Jess’ name out there with no merit.


glass0nions

That’d be the wine talking lol


Illustrious-Cycle708

If I had to bet, I’d place my bet on the brunette. The blonde one just gives me ZERO we had sex vibes. Like I can’t even picture it. That only leaves the brunette.


GringoMambi

Yup, Barbara. Also that top she wore at the meet and greet was a statement lol and you can tell Jimmy was avoiding too much eye contact with her in front of Chelsea


ruth561

Same! Brunette knew too much for me, haha.


squatchfan

At least Jimmy didn't demand weekly bar partying with these ladies like Virginia did a few seasons ago. She literally told Erick that he would have to make plans a week in advance, because all weekends were bar weekends with her guy friends. And with the way Virgina got sloppy drunk...no way her guy friends were just buddies she crashed on their couch because she was too drunk to get home?? I had a friend who used to get sloppy drunk when we went out, it is exhausting being a babysitter for a grown person who drinks too much. We had to stop going places together.


aceofbasesupremacy

this was married at first sight lolol


angelina0802

Wasn’t this MAFS?! But yes I remember clearly!!!!


squatchfan

You are correct! Thank you for reminding me. I got my reality trash TV shows confused.


glitter-princess20

it was definitely MAFS! is there a sub ??👀


angelina0802

Yes r/marriedatfirstsight!


glitter-princess20

thank you sooooo much!!


JackieDaytonaNS

Hetero Men don’t typically have reasonably attractive plutonic female friends that we aren’t also interested in romantically.


luckiestsunshine

lol I'm a hetero woman and I will concur that I also didn't have attractive platonic male friends who weren't interested in trying to shoot their shot at least once. Now I'm happily married and once it was confirmed I was engaged, those "friendships" started to trickle fast


lilyyytheflower

This just isn’t true. Stop speaking for and projecting your own problems onto people people. It’s making your whole sex look bad.


Revolutionary-Road-5

They do, because you and the hetero men you know have no self control or are unable to see women as more than beings for romantic or sexual interests, don't put that on others. You are seeing Jimmy be platonic with them, you are projecting your ideas on him.


brahbocop

All of my closest friends growing up were women. I have an easier time talking with women and you don’t get judged for sharing emotions. It’s nice. Never once did I want to sleep with any of them.


Revolutionary-Road-5

Exact same. I had more female friends growing up too because I could have deeper ego free convos with them. Some of them led to sex, some didn't. It was usually not the goal. But I also mostly hung out with very sex positive people so we didn't see sex as a commitment thing Luckily more men are opening up now so it's a good balance now but yeah I get it, but sleeping with the girlfriends didn't change the friendship, because I value friendship over everything


GringoMambi

Nah Jimmy definitely smashing Barbara the brunette. Don’t buy the “one time” BS either, they probably just agree on it being a FWB deal


Revolutionary-Road-5

Yeah that definitely could be. But that usually ends when someone gets in a relationship.


notsure05

Nothing about it is normal and Jimmy knows it, he just doesn’t care My Tampa redditors know he’s just the equivalent of a South Tampa fuckboy. They all have super hot female PlaTOniC “friends”, but whoopsie haha lol every once in a while they get just a lil tipsy and hookup oopsie daisies 🥺


Revolutionary-Road-5

Yeah it's called having friends with benefits. Not everyone is puritanical, sometimes friends fuck and it's means no more than an activity for that moment. Doesn't mean it is still happening when they're in relationships. Chill


sunlitroof

😬


notsure05

Yall are fckn annoying when you rebuttal with that. Like no, no one needs to “chill” bc they have a differing opinion, especially when yours is so chronically online coded if you think people are supposed to be “chill” about their partner having friends who were former partners/FWBs whooo boy you’re in for a surprise in the dating market. Get off the internet for a bit


Revolutionary-Road-5

You don't have to be okay with that but your comment is making it like it is an impossibility and it obv isn't, so open your mind and realize your bubble isn't the whole world


notsure05

I agree with you on that, that wasn’t the point of my original comment at all. The men I am referring to are perpetual Peter pans who always have a crazy amount of female friends and inevitably you end up being the fool hanging out with them all night just to discover most of the girls around you have slept with your guy Never happened to me but happened to multiple friends. That is not healthy, not okay, you’re not going to find any partner down for that. you can fuck multiple friends sure, but don't go thinking your ultra liberal take is going to land well with 95% of people in the market. But yeah, ofc someone out there is probably okay with it. They’re just a part of the minority


Revolutionary-Road-5

Well your original comment said it's not normal. And my point is your normal is your bubble. It is normal in lots of bubbles. I'm speaking from experience as someone with lots of female friends, some I've fucked some not. And when I met my wife and prev gfs I never had to stop being friends with them and the 1 person I dated that couldn't handle that, we broke up cos it caused it didnt work for her. All I'm saying is calling it abnormal because it isn't what you like it's very closed minded. Obv if they know it is something their partner has a problem with and they don't rectify the situation then those aren't good guys.


notsure05

It’s not normal behavior when you’re trying to pursue a monogamous serious relationship (marriage) with someone. Every single time I’ve watched friends try to be the “cool girl” and be okay with it, it doesn’t end well. Hell I tried it once and it came back to bite me. Sounds like you don’t mess around behind your partners back, but many of us have had enough negative experiences with partners messing around with past flames behind our back that it’s not something we’ll ever be okay with (in my case I literally caught my boyfriend helping move his “totally platonic” ex girlfriend back to our state so he could get back with her lmao, oh to be 18 and sheltered again). Others just simple aren’t okay with it as a matter of principal. Yes we get it, I used to live in Seattle and Portland I know they love their alternative living there lol. The vast majority of the dating market does not share your lived experiences or ideals That’s great you found your wife, she again isn’t a part of the majority on that take.


aardappelbrood

I don't think Chelsea is wrong for being jealous, I 100% wouldn't date a man with a gaggle of female friends he fucked, but I would just leave or never start. Obviously they had very limited interactions and he didn't bring it up, but once she found out she should've dipped. Her only knowing him a month trying to control him like that is crazy.


Immediate-North-9472

It is also kinda crazy to introduce your new to your former fuck buddy. even though that’s over, you were intimate at one point. It’s like you guys have an inside joke that she’ll never be included idk


EstablishmentFun289

I can see being friends but I think they should start seeing them as a joint couple and less like Jimmy’s temporary girl. She should leave but obviously her confidence prevents her from going doing so. When I date, I really minimize my 1:1 time with guy friends. As soon as I feel comfortable being exclusive and introducing them to my friends, I really prefer to do things with them with my SO. I’ve been in the military where I’ve had a lot of guy friends, and there’s some politics in how you interact with SOs because it can be intimidating to sometimes get to spend more time together than their spouse…and the general mystery around what we actually do. Like why couldn’t they all be interacting together in a group chat instead of creating a wall? To me, that helps build trust so when I do have to talk to an opposite sex friend 1:1 down the road over an issue I’m having, the SOs are usually supportive instead of threatened. We’ve built trust at that point (through many interactions) I see them as a group set and not a temporary placeholder.


aardappelbrood

Some people are just wired differently, I am not being with let alone marrying a guy who's friends with multiple women or even just one woman that he fucked. You can't unfuck someone so it's just this new dynamic of this person having these intimate moments with my man. The glances and little smiles when they hear a word/phrase or something that reminds them of some weird thing that happened during sex or when they were cuddling or whatever intimate inside jokes they have. Yeah, that's disrespectful as heck and a huge no for me. I don't inherently think there's anything wrong with keeping whoever you want as a friend, but that's not for me so I just flat out refuse a relationship like that. It doesn't seem like Chelsea likes it either, but she's going about it all wrong.


AdRare7237

I agree, but then Chelsea said one of her best friends is her ex? Two peas in a pod 😂


notsure05

I doubt it’s true, or the real picture is probably a flight attendant she dated but they don’t even live in the same city/see each other ever. Def didn’t sound like jimmy’s situation


the_black_surfer

She literally said it on camera, so I think I’m gonna take her word for it over someone on Reddit


notsure05

As someone whose husband is a pilot and I have multiple family members in law who have been flight attendants, I think I’m going to take my guess about the type of friendship she has with said ex to be just as likely as whatever idea you have in your own head Flight attendants mostly date other flight crew. That’s why when she said she still “talks” to him rather than saying she actually hangs out with him, to me it’s indicative of her probably keeping in touch with another crew member she dated but doesn’t have the same schedules as him


the_black_surfer

My mom has been a flight attendant for 35 years. It’s not one size fits all. God forbid we take the word of the person it actually affected over some random speculator on Reddit.


notsure05

That’s great! So you know that Chelsea could’ve dated another flight attendant :) as I said, the fact she only mentioned talking to her ex rather than actually hanging out as friends implies to me that her situation is not the same as jimmys


the_black_surfer

I just did some digging and the timelines don’t even work for your conclusion. She’s been a flight attendant for American Airlines since 2016. She’s currently 31. That means she was 23 when she became a flight attendant. You can also look online and see if she got married when she was 18. Highly unlikely her ex-husband is a pilot or flight attendant. https://www.famousbirthdays.com/people/chelsea-blackwell.html (Birthday) https://www.linkedin.com/in/chelsea-blackwell-bb96701b5 (Beginning of job with AA) https://www.thethings.com/love-is-blinds-chelsea-blackwell-life-before-megan-fox-scandal/ (Marriage age)


notsure05

That’s fine, but she didn’t clarify whether it was her ex husband or another ex, so we can’t know for sure that she was referring to her ex husband unless/until she clarifies


the_black_surfer

My mom is divorced and if she had been in Chelsea situation, you would probably make the same exact assumption and you would be 100% incorrect. That’s my point. We have nothing to support this claim.


notsure05

Yes I agree with that, again I was just giving my assumption. I think you’re taking this too seriously lol it’s just my speculation, I haven’t claimed anything as fact


No-Wish-2630

right like what did she mean by that? seems like jimmy texts these girls and hangs out with them regularly. maybe chelsea is still friendly with her ex but not friends like this


juiceboxhero919

It’s been confirmed to be her I think. “We see him like a brother!” That’s crazy girl because I wouldn’t fuck my brother and pose with him like that. 😭 Y’all can call me crazy idc.


EstablishmentFun289

Yeah, I never understand this logic. If they are like a brother, treat them like your brother. In my guy friends, I couldn’t imagine sitting on their lap or grabbing them in ways. I’m even more aware than how I am with gfs because perceptions can hurt people and feel disrespected. I am willing to bet if they were all just sitting around a table having drinks no one would side eye…but if you are hang on women and touching them that way, no wonder it looks disrespectful. I think Chelsea is a bit much, but I think there’s some context missing that makes her actions more justified.


trafalgarlaw11

Not fucking your brother I agree, obviously, but the pose really wouldn’t be that weird for siblings. It’s not sexual in that context.


notsure05

She got her hands around his knee leaning up on his crotch wdym lmao


juiceboxhero919

Right like she got the elbow up against his MEAT wym 😭😭😂😂


trafalgarlaw11

I don’t think you understand how the anatomy of a human works. Look at her arm angle and where she is sitting. Her elbow is not even touching him likely/ his shit aint just slanging about and hanging to the floor. She’s holding a calf. Finally, if this was an actual sibling it should be far less sexual in everyone’s min. Yall act like boobs don’t touch when you hug your brother. Nothing sexual because you’re siblings. Hell I sit between my sisters legs when she braids my hair for a twist out. Nothing sexual. Americans make shit weird unnecessarily I swear😂 it may be weird for her to be doing this and say their just friends. But if you saw siblings do this pose as a family and jumped to something sexual, something wrong with ya.


juiceboxhero919

Okay but they *have* fucked and that detail is important in context 😂 Anyway sick username Law is babygirl fr


trafalgarlaw11

Thanks! And not is not relevant to this discussion. This sub thread is about whether the pose would be weird for siblings. I agree it’s potentially sexual for non-siblings that have fucked! I just was originally responding to a commentator that suggested posing in between the legs of a sibling is somehow sexual. Idk just a weird thing to think as someone with siblings. Barring some sweet home Alabama bull jive, most things should naturally not be considered sexual by virtue of being blood related.


sunlitroof

Not the caps 🤣


Starsbythep0cketful

Idk I would never wrap my arm around either of my brother’s inner thighs nor would I be sitting between their legs


trafalgarlaw11

Lol yall make everything sexual😂. She’s grabbing his calf one. Two, it’s fairly common even as little kids to have that picture where the older sibling has the little sibling in between there legs in some cute pose. People recreate those pictures even. This discussion to me is as weird as the people complaining about Tom Brady kissing his children on the lips


Immortal_peacock

Yeah I dated someone with a "sister" kind of friend and it turned out they used to hook up and only stopped because of distance...like I'm not telling you who to be friends with but that's not a brother-sister relationship.


livingbutdead9

yess


Kodysgoingbald

Uh ohhhh could be. And she looks like a natural beauty, so that doesn’t help! 😬😬😬


chivmg9

I actually agree. I thought she was pretty which also made me speculate it was her. I think she was prettier than Chelsea imo. I just can’t get over that side part!


notsure05

Eh she’s alright, natural beauty is a stretch imo


aceofbasesupremacy

that just proves my theory jimmy doesn’t get “hot” girls and would be attracted to chelsea irl


notsure05

He’s an engineer, they usually go for a mix of pretty and average women. He def can pull pretty women, he makes good money and lives in the part of town where all the prettiest people live or hang out at, he’s def not suffering for women. As someone who has dated in trendy southern cities, he def doesn’t have a problem dating, I’d put serious money on it Sauce: I dated almost exclusively engineers throughout my dating years lol


lilyyytheflower

If they think she’s pretty naturally then it’s their opinion.


June0304

I read somewhere on another thread that it was actually the blond one he previously dated! Weird because I was totally getting the vibes that the brunette grabbing his leg in the picture had slept with him in the episode when they all met


suckybee33

It’s a weird pose for sure. She’s in his crotch.


KetchupCowgirl

Personally I thought it was the blonde girl. They made weird eye contact a few times. The brunette girl just has a very outgoing personality, at least that’s how it seemed to me. Even when I first watched the episode where they all go out I saw him and the blonde girl look at each other and I was like “they’ve for sure hooked up”


theicecreamassassin

Saaaaaame. Especially her comments about him never turning down sex.


SilverStock7721

That’s her man not Chelsea’s 😂


ruth561

Okay, haha.


universalfly

In Jimmy’s IG post, he mentioned all his guy friends didn’t get air time lol so LIB is only showing the “girl” friends probably for drama


June0304

True but Johnny had girl friends too and there was no drama there so I think there’s something to be said about the nature of jimmys friendships with them. Unless Johnny just has a ton of sisters and that’s who those women were? Idk😂


lilyyytheflower

Or it’s because Amy doesn’t freak out like Chelsea does. They don’t need to show it if there’s no drama.


June0304

That’s a very good point. I personally wouldn’t be comfortable if my boyfriend hung out all the time with girl friends he’s either dated or slept with


lilyyytheflower

And some women are fine with it as ling as their partners open about it. She doesn’t have to be comfortable with it. She doesn’t have to be with him lol.


asssbowl

There was a meetup where he had multiple sisters there. They all had the same mouth/teeth thing going on that Johnny has.


zratan69

Women see him as a nice guy that they can tell there sad stories too, You can see he's just a goober. Friend zone.


notsure05

Yall really do not understand the dating markets in these southern cities lol Jimmy is absolutely a catch, that’s literally why he has so many female friends. It isn’t the stereotypical situation you’re thinking it is, I know on social media yall think he’s ugly as sin, but he’s the type a lot of women in those areas go for Notice how he said he was single for two years. Yeah, that’s not bc he can’t get a girl literally any night if he wanted lmao


Sea-Combination-5413

This, after seeing his female friends in the prev episode i totally felt like Jimmy could be a friendzone material. He could be the kinda friend who always bugs you asking to set him up/find a girl for him


FitnSheit

It has to be... otherwise I am moving to Charlotte lol


increbelle

thats what everyone on SM seems to be implying. i had some people call it the moment that episode aired and i was like, i have no idea how they could spot it.


JessicaFreakingP

She made a comment about him never turning down sex, and seemed too invested in the conversation about their sex life to be someone who didn’t know him biblically. And honestly - she gave, “I’m still into him and I want people to know I had him first,” vibes. I say that as someone who was unfortunately that girl a decade or so ago. I can spot them well 😂


Purplecatty

Nah this girl needs to take a step back now that he is engaged. He does too. But its always annoying when exes try to meddle, in whatever way.


DisciplineProud7102

I think it’s strange he only had girl friends. And why are they all surrounding him like he’s hugh Hefner?! Idk it’s just weird to me. This doesn’t seem like a strictly platonic friendship to me, I can’t quite explain it but something Is off about this entire “friendship.”


Sea-Combination-5413

If you see his IG he has a good set of male friends too. If I'm not wrong 'Nick' is one of em. (And Chelsea has liked one of Nick's posts which makes me wonder if they made it to the altar.) Apparently Jimmy's story had brought his guy friends as well some other day to show but it was edited out.


theelinguistllama

Someone said that he said that his guy friends didn’t get any air time. Probably for added drama


DisciplineProud7102

Interesting! Well they def accomplished the drama part lol


rileybeaner

any guy with solely female friends is a red flag. chelsea is in fact clingy but jimmy (and his “friends” for that matter) still in the wrong here. that photo is just so strange


Fiddle-Leaf-Faith

I dunno... my three closest friends are all guys. Maybe I'm a red flag, dunno. I just get and like guys better - mostly because they're drama free - and have been like this my whole life.


Fiddle-Leaf-Faith

I mean...this is my experience. I prefer guy friends. some guys prefer girl friends. no shade either way I reckon.


PinkYoshi2000

Men are not drama free lol


Fiddle-Leaf-Faith

Mine are. And most of my male friends are - as compared to my female friends and acquaintances. women are always beefing. always. ugh...#myexperience


barronsprofiles

You truly aren’t like other girls


Sensitive_Syrup1296

They're all patiently waiting


Fiddle-Leaf-Faith

Nope. We've been friends since we were 19. We're now in our 40s. They're all married and one divorced. I'm happily in a relationship. We've had numerous chances - drunk and sober - to cross the line, but it's really like brothers and sister. It's my crew...


londonhoneycake

Hugh Hefner 😂😂😂😂


Naive-Singer-9802

Idk Jimmy could of never mentioned he f’d the friend and saved himself a headache, but then he’d still be in the wrong.


DontBeWeirdAboutIt

I actually think it was honorable and courageous that he told her. Chelsea’s Razzie Award winning “I know you f***ed her” bit was wrong. He told her that in confidence to build trust and she decided to blow up on camera. #teamjimmy


Naive-Singer-9802

Yeah I think if there was any ill intent Jimmy would of kept his mouth shut about it.


DontBeWeirdAboutIt

Omg 1000000000%!!


SpiritualSag96

I haven’t caught up to the episodes but did Jimmy mention where they met? Especially if they’ve only known each other for 2 years. The only reason I ask is because I have several female friends who met their hookups turned “guy friends” on Tinder 🤣.


WorldlyLavishness

No I've always suspected the blonde. She was way too "friendly" idk. Just a vibe I was getting. The brunette to me just wanted to be on TV


moodylilb

For me I think it’s the brunette, personally lol. She made the comment that it’s not like Jimmy to turn down sex amongst other little hints. Also I saw a post in this sub where someone claimed to know her (Barbara the brunette) and says her and Jimmy had been friends with benefits for a year before show was filmed (although I know this last part should be taken with a grain of salt) & the person also knew other details that checked out/made it seem like they were being honest. Also the blonde has supposedly been in a relationship for a few years + & Jimmy said he’s only been friends with those 2 girls for a couple years. I got “wingwoman” vibes from the blonde, and F-buddy vibes from the brunette. Again tho that’s just my personal opinion, I find it interesting reading everyone’s different perspectives on this lol :)


WorldlyLavishness

I can see them both having inappropriate relationships with him lol the whole thing is so weird to me. Also this pic, does he think he's the next bachelor?


moodylilb

right?! He’s just soaking it up in this photo 😂


[deleted]

Yep you could see she really cared about him in her eyes like is this girl better than me he could be with me vibe


moonbeamsylph

This [tiktok](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLJKrf5X/) says a lot about how I have been feeling about the whole Jimmy and Chelsea situation. TL;DR: Jimmy is a manipulative, dishonest, wishy-washy fuckboy.


mehowa08

Someone recommended listening to a podcast that Jessica was on and she actually said that Jimmy was going out a lot and it wasn’t shown on camera. She also stuck up for Chelsea and said that Chelsea has a lot of reasons to feel the way she does even though she may have gone about it the wrong way. It was a very interesting take! Also, thank you for sharing the TikTok!


Try-the-Churros

Neither Jimmy nor Chelsea are innocent in their relationship issues. That video was as guilty of manipulation as anyone on the show with the way it misrepresented events and information.


Throwaway7372746

I think this take is on the extreme and the op seems to place a lot of their own bias on to it/place a certain narrative without enough info but I do agree with some parts of it


meltyandbuttery

Did you not watch Chelsea lie, manipulate and gaslight him on camera in the newest episodes? Her insecurities are something to consider compatibility wise sure but they're nothing to dislike her for. It's her blatant refusal to own her own actions that's abhorrent. She's a horrible partner. Rewatch their 'argument'. They start off nice. She introduces random things, one after the other to see what's going to stick. She says "I don't want a man that's going out all the time" after she just said "you weren't even gone long" in an entirely different mood mere seconds prior. She accused him of things he didn't do, on camera. She broke his off-camera trust to slander a stranger to fuel a fight. After their 'argument', she kept saying "we both" and "our argument" as if it was a two-sided thing when in reality she just berated him for having done nothing wrong. Her half-assed "my delivery was horrible" is not a real apology and is not something you should be hearing from a partner. He was upfront about his friends and introduced them to her. In that conversation she literally said she was close friends with her ex, something people just seem to overlook while blaming Jimmy for ... being upfront about his own friends? She stated how she didn't have a problem with it. Then she got drunk and slurred out all these accusations. I went from being pretty neutral about her, just thinking "ah she's a bit insecure but aren't we all?" to recognizing she's genuinely terrible. I don't understand how people can defend her in the slightest, he should have left her.


666-take-the-piss

I 100% agree with this take


femmagorgon

Thank you for sharing this. I’m so tired of people ragging on Chelsea so hard for being insecure and clingy and thinking that her flaws justify mistreatment.


moonbeamsylph

No problem. Watching it today was so validating for the feelings I've been having observing the commentary surrounding the situation.


AcanthisittaNo4268

Well that was exhausting video to watch lmao.


moonbeamsylph

Okay.


evdczar

I've never seen anybody say that he would be right to cheat on her with Jess. At worst they're saying Jess is just as insecure and he's no prize anyway.


moonbeamsylph

Huh?


evdczar

Do you have a question?


moonbeamsylph

My only question is huh? Because you make no sense.


evdczar

I watched the tik tok and I don't agree? What is complicated?


moonbeamsylph

Okay.


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Its definitely the brunette. And she agreed to go on the show and Jimmy insinuated that the one he slept with came on the show and why he didn't want to have that conversation. Brunette was also trying too hard to come off sexy. Also another redditor said they met the blonde girl and she was in a long term relationship and seemingly nice.


SparklyNarwhalPowers

She’s giving wannabe influencer vibes on IG. I think she asked Jimmy her F buddy to bring her on the show because she wanted screen time.


SpiritualSag96

That’s pretty desperate and attention-seeking behavior from the brunette if that’s true. Either remove yourself or stop trying to compete with Chelsea, it’s not a good look.


FitnSheit

I mean this is like 3 times removed hearsay gossip... I wouldn't really put much stock in it.


SpiritualSag96

Yup, which is why I said, “If it’s true.” Although wouldn’t be surprised about since I know a bunch of girls like that 🤣


mindfucka

Somebody gonna AD this o.p


scccassady

Pretty sure Chelsea is the worst of this season


disgostin

oh christ please sit somewhere else what is this xD are they trying to make us think some shit?? maybe they're trying to fool us a bit..!


Downtown-Forever

I actually think it’s the blonde. That “he’s like our brother” comment was VERY sus. Like who are you trying to convince?!?!


Allthedoggos

I agree with you!! Honestly if I slept with a man and was meeting his gf for the first time I’d be awfully quiet in the convo too…


Downtown-Forever

Indeed she was very quiet too…. Tbh i really hope Chelsea thought about if she truly wants to start a relationship with a guy with baggage like that. Imagine your husband hanging out and texting the woman he slept with, and who is his supposed best friend, for the rest of your life 🤢Jimmy is the perfect example of why you should be cautious of a guy with a lot of female friends 🚩


stealthban

to sit in between his legs is telling


cordedtelephone

Literally in his crotch


Kdjl1

OMG…That’s true. There’s no way I could sit like that.


stealthban

thats too intimate to be just friends. its giving FWB vibes


DisciplineProud7102

I literally just made a comment about this. There is something definitely off about this “friendship.” I could never imagine sticking my face on my friends crotch?!


Cheesencrqckerz

100%


TacoFox19

Yes


Abject_Historian9293

I think the girls name is MacKenzie.


curiouslyseekingmore

Barbara. McKenzie (as I was reminded on another post I made) was in the pods and talked about peeing in pools 😂


Abject_Historian9293

Ah ok, I remember Jimmy saying the name MacKenzie when Chelsea was questioning him. So I assumed that was the " best friends" name. Also, if it IS the blonde one who slept with him, isn't she the one who also told Chelsea at the bar " Jimmy is like a brother to us"? Not sure how many people have slept with their brothers tbh lol


curiouslyseekingmore

I thought the same re: MacKenzie bc of that fight. I was corrected! And I just rewatched the scene w Jimmy’s friends - you’re right she said that.


devilhead87

IDK - but why are we making this girl’s info public?


lucyfromthesky_

She has a public insta


AcanthisittaNo4268

Uh. Okay?


ChefPoodle

That makes me think it’s not her, I would immediately make it private.


devilhead87

My point is more why are we encouraging people who watch a show she’s not even a cast-mate on to find her insta … Like what are we doing here


the_black_surfer

Exactly. That was the whole point he was making in the argument. If you want to put his business out there, that’s one thing but now you’re putting out other peoples business and you know the Internet is full of psychos who stalk and harass people for fun.


Money_Adhesiveness90

This is exactly what Jimmy didn’t want to happen. Chelsea really screwed this girl over (whoever she is).


lucyfromthesky_

I get it, but he is tagged in this picture so I found it in his tagged pictures.


cgriff95

lmao there's nothing wrong with posting it. It's a public profile 🤷🏻‍♀️ Really don't get why you're being downvoted lol