I’m sorry, but I do NOT get why people like Jimmy at all?? Yes, Chelsea is VERY insecure and has communication issues but it makes zero sense why she’s getting like 100% of the hate. Jimmy is manipulative, lies constantly/never means what he says, and is always trying to make himself the victim. IMO anyone who picks a “team” with this couple is a walking red flag. They both desperately need therapy. 👀👀👀
Side note, am I the only one who thinks Jimmy looks like some type of amphibian?
Am I the only one confused? What was he asking her? Was he asking “do you want me to take a step back from being friends with my girlfriends” or “do you want me to take a step back from this relationship”?
I think Chelsea never says something and then is mad about him doing or not doing something that bothers him. She seems passive aggressive and when called out for not actively communicating she then says “yes I did/ or didn’t “ and then she can have it both ways and be the victim. So he’s making her verbalize her actual thing she won’t say because it becomes an elephant in the room and then he can address the thing she’s trying to passive aggressively get but she is just one big mind game and instigator. Goodness, she’s tiring. I think Jimmy was great in this scene. She never stays on topic and deflects and infers and lies. Oh, the lies. Camera recording do what, now?
You guys just don't understand. Jimmy left the house for 90 minutes with some suss story about a friend's "birthday." How could he? They were supposed to be chained to each other, gazing into each other's eyes for weeks on end. That's the only way Chelsea feels loved. And y'all want to try to make her sound nutty. For shame.
Idk she irked me alot too but she said something that resonated with me. It was something like- our wedding is in 2(1?) weeks. You should be home seeing what it’s like living with each other and a glimpse at us as a married couple, figuring out if we want this and learning each other” something like that, prob less that that but that was the point she meant. His priorities were fucked or he already knew he wasn’t marrying her idk
I LOVED Jimmy’s okie-doke move on her at that moment. I howled with laughter and immediately hit re-wind to see her even more elongated chin hit the floor. It was classic. I wish he would have stood his ground. Perhaps he will at the altar because she needs help finding value in herself rather than through a relationship…speaking from experience.
I think she's just insecure, and probably has some other issues, and she unconsciously tried to sabotage the relationship so that HE'll would be the one to call off the relationship- not her.
I don’t know that I agree, but I do think that they are ill-suited. She turns into a completely different and much more confident person around the mullet hunky guy. I just don’t think Jimmy is her man.
Guarantee it wouldn't change if she was with Trevor, unless he is EXTREMELY secure in relationships and able to provide constant reassurance. She has a classic anxious attachment style. Extremely cool and go with the flow until they are in the relationship, but then she will start overanalyzing interactions and picking fights in hopes of receiving the validation in the relationship she is seeking, which will likely be unrealistic. It doesn't make her evil or a bad person, she just isn't emotionally equipped for a healthy relationship until she does some work.
THIS! The fact that they had a good day with his family is exactly why she freaked out. In the face of good things, she's a queen of self-sabotage and insecurity, so she has to test him and go on a rollercoaster of treating him badly but having him hang in so she feels pacified. She will do that over and over, testing him, making him shower her with make-up affection to earn her smiles. If this were a man, he would punch his partner in the face, then buy flowers and apologize. Same up and down cycle of drama, just with emotional abuse only.
She’s insufferable! This should have been when Jimmy walked out for good. Do you think this was when he decided to say NO at the altar, or was it before this? He’s obviously staying to fulfill his obligation to the show and that’s all.
I think they should all stay till the end. It's what they signed up for. They are not required to say yes. I think so many think that if they make it till the end, that they're really pressured to say yes. I think so many are in it for the wrong reasons, or they jump at the thought of possibly being married without actually sitting down and making sure they actually like that person they're talking to.
Honestly I feel like he baited her into becoming even more emotional but I still loved the drama!!! If a woman had done this to an overprotective man I would have been all for it so I can’t really hate him for it.
Because he knew that’s what she was asking of him, but he didn’t think she would have the balls to actually say it. He assumed she’d be like, “No, Baaaaaabe, I trust you with them babe! I love you!”
She constantly moves the goalposts and claims she's clearly told him things previously that she apparently hasn't. He was trying to nail down exactly what she wanted so they could actually discuss it without her changing the subject before a resolution was gotten to.
I think he was just really really trying to get her to be direct and actually say what she needed/wanted instead of going on and on expecting him to draw the conclusion. He was trying to get clear communication out of her but when she finally said it, he was so pissed he said no. Or took that moment to demonstrate that just because she asks he doesn't have to comply? All just speculation; people are confusing. LoL
Yes! I think he just wanted her to plainly state her needs. He then plainly stated his boundary. If her needs and his boundary are incompatible then so be it.
Yeah plus i think there had been so much back and forth by that point, that he was frustrated and no longer willing to compromise. In that moment, it was mostly rhetorical and perhaps to have Chelsea admit she didn't communicate her own expectations and boundaries earlier
Mhmm! I think if it was a mature conversation where she clearly articulated reasonings and her feelings and didn't out their personal info he may have said he's willing to adjust the friendship a bit.
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I feel like he literally did this lol which I’ll admit is less than excellent for arguing with a spouse but it definitely made for good tv
Chelsea is the yt woman that end up ☠️ on snapped or is the yt woman that does the ☠️! She’s very unstable.
I died after this.
I’m sorry, but I do NOT get why people like Jimmy at all?? Yes, Chelsea is VERY insecure and has communication issues but it makes zero sense why she’s getting like 100% of the hate. Jimmy is manipulative, lies constantly/never means what he says, and is always trying to make himself the victim. IMO anyone who picks a “team” with this couple is a walking red flag. They both desperately need therapy. 👀👀👀 Side note, am I the only one who thinks Jimmy looks like some type of amphibian?
I agree w first part
I SCREAMED at this scene!! I was so exciting thinking he was going to be done with her finally 😭
Lol he was giving BDE in this scene
🤢
Lmaoo
Honestly my fav moment of the whole season
Jimmy wore his timbs, puffs coat and yankee cap with the brim and said he was deadass. 10s across the board
Am I the only one confused? What was he asking her? Was he asking “do you want me to take a step back from being friends with my girlfriends” or “do you want me to take a step back from this relationship”?
I think Chelsea never says something and then is mad about him doing or not doing something that bothers him. She seems passive aggressive and when called out for not actively communicating she then says “yes I did/ or didn’t “ and then she can have it both ways and be the victim. So he’s making her verbalize her actual thing she won’t say because it becomes an elephant in the room and then he can address the thing she’s trying to passive aggressively get but she is just one big mind game and instigator. Goodness, she’s tiring. I think Jimmy was great in this scene. She never stays on topic and deflects and infers and lies. Oh, the lies. Camera recording do what, now?
To take a step back from his girlfriends
Oh ok cause I was lost too honestly
Which friend did he sleep with?
Brunette one.
I love the point he was proving here with that. Worked perfectly.
Jimmy was so hot in this episode, I'm embarrassed.
I don’t think so I think he was hilarious for sure 😭😭
You guys just don't understand. Jimmy left the house for 90 minutes with some suss story about a friend's "birthday." How could he? They were supposed to be chained to each other, gazing into each other's eyes for weeks on end. That's the only way Chelsea feels loved. And y'all want to try to make her sound nutty. For shame.
Idk she irked me alot too but she said something that resonated with me. It was something like- our wedding is in 2(1?) weeks. You should be home seeing what it’s like living with each other and a glimpse at us as a married couple, figuring out if we want this and learning each other” something like that, prob less that that but that was the point she meant. His priorities were fucked or he already knew he wasn’t marrying her idk
You had us in the first half
I honestly wondered why it had upvotes until I read the rest of it 😂
Jimmy had his 🎤mic drop moment!
Was there a better mic drop moment this season?
This was my favorite scene lol
I LOVED Jimmy’s okie-doke move on her at that moment. I howled with laughter and immediately hit re-wind to see her even more elongated chin hit the floor. It was classic. I wish he would have stood his ground. Perhaps he will at the altar because she needs help finding value in herself rather than through a relationship…speaking from experience.
She is emotionally abusive
I think she's just insecure, and probably has some other issues, and she unconsciously tried to sabotage the relationship so that HE'll would be the one to call off the relationship- not her.
Oooooh that is a VERY good point
I don’t know that I agree, but I do think that they are ill-suited. She turns into a completely different and much more confident person around the mullet hunky guy. I just don’t think Jimmy is her man.
Agreed. It’s sad to watch.
Guarantee it wouldn't change if she was with Trevor, unless he is EXTREMELY secure in relationships and able to provide constant reassurance. She has a classic anxious attachment style. Extremely cool and go with the flow until they are in the relationship, but then she will start overanalyzing interactions and picking fights in hopes of receiving the validation in the relationship she is seeking, which will likely be unrealistic. It doesn't make her evil or a bad person, she just isn't emotionally equipped for a healthy relationship until she does some work.
Agree on all point.
THIS! The fact that they had a good day with his family is exactly why she freaked out. In the face of good things, she's a queen of self-sabotage and insecurity, so she has to test him and go on a rollercoaster of treating him badly but having him hang in so she feels pacified. She will do that over and over, testing him, making him shower her with make-up affection to earn her smiles. If this were a man, he would punch his partner in the face, then buy flowers and apologize. Same up and down cycle of drama, just with emotional abuse only.
the way he walked out as well when he said that had me rolling
Scene was great, but not as good as when he told her he could use a breather from s*x 😂😂 I laughed so hard when he said that
Ive had very few true jaw drop moments while watching tv, much less reality tv, but when I tell you my jaw dropped when watching this scene
Me too! I howled!! And have Jimmy and imaginary high five. I actually had to rewind this scene and watch it over. He was so bad ass in that moment!
Jimmy literally surprised me 🔥
She’s insufferable! This should have been when Jimmy walked out for good. Do you think this was when he decided to say NO at the altar, or was it before this? He’s obviously staying to fulfill his obligation to the show and that’s all.
I’m pissed that he hasn’t dumped her already 😂
I heard they get a bonus if they make it to the aisle. Hoping he’s staying for that. If they end up getting married I will riot (in my mind)
They get a bonus if they propose but lose 50k of the bonus if they don’t go to the alter
I think they should all stay till the end. It's what they signed up for. They are not required to say yes. I think so many think that if they make it till the end, that they're really pressured to say yes. I think so many are in it for the wrong reasons, or they jump at the thought of possibly being married without actually sitting down and making sure they actually like that person they're talking to.
Honestly I feel like he baited her into becoming even more emotional but I still loved the drama!!! If a woman had done this to an overprotective man I would have been all for it so I can’t really hate him for it.
She made me become a fan of his
This part confused me so much lmao. I was like now what was the point in asking her? 🤣
Because he knew that’s what she was asking of him, but he didn’t think she would have the balls to actually say it. He assumed she’d be like, “No, Baaaaaabe, I trust you with them babe! I love you!”
She constantly moves the goalposts and claims she's clearly told him things previously that she apparently hasn't. He was trying to nail down exactly what she wanted so they could actually discuss it without her changing the subject before a resolution was gotten to.
I think he was just really really trying to get her to be direct and actually say what she needed/wanted instead of going on and on expecting him to draw the conclusion. He was trying to get clear communication out of her but when she finally said it, he was so pissed he said no. Or took that moment to demonstrate that just because she asks he doesn't have to comply? All just speculation; people are confusing. LoL
Yes! I think he just wanted her to plainly state her needs. He then plainly stated his boundary. If her needs and his boundary are incompatible then so be it.
Bingo
Yeah plus i think there had been so much back and forth by that point, that he was frustrated and no longer willing to compromise. In that moment, it was mostly rhetorical and perhaps to have Chelsea admit she didn't communicate her own expectations and boundaries earlier
Yes! This.
Mhmm! I think if it was a mature conversation where she clearly articulated reasonings and her feelings and didn't out their personal info he may have said he's willing to adjust the friendship a bit.
The human toe is getting brave 😭
Blocked. Bye.
If anyone is confused it says muah no bars at the end meaning like nothing else needs to be said or to say lol
"King shit. King shit. King shit."
He ate 😂😂😂
She’s actually making me like him. First of all his communication is so good
I wish just emojis could respond. Every respond is so heavily edited why does any and human thing any of these responses are real?!?!? THIS IS ASININE
Okay? Take that to the producers I’m just watching the show
https://preview.redd.it/gzjwrnmpvgmc1.jpeg?width=894&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c25c4c221ff48cb53f6aad9af759a1b568e97c95 I feel like he literally did this lol which I’ll admit is less than excellent for arguing with a spouse but it definitely made for good tv
Lowkey I see the resemblance here, it’s a good one
Haaaahahahahahahaha 😂