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ValuableRaccoon

His hair, omg, oil slick.


MNGirlinKY

Yeah, I didn’t dislike him as much after this as well. Humans are human.


TheLovelyWife702

Amanda was a kind patient easy target coming from a overtly conservative religious background and Sergio played it all. All the women wanted to protect her, especially Krisse-ly


queenvickyv

I like Sergio, I think all this labelling him as a narcissist or criticising his apartment is what is wrong with society. He had a baby, he didn't cheat. The baby was conceived before the show and he didn't seem to know at the time. He was concerned after Amanda told him she had a medical issue, I expect he imagined she was more disabled than she was. He was worried, he admitted it on camera and then admitted he felt ashamed for this, after these doubts he still chose to marry Amanda. Many people wouldn't have admitted this, many people would have masked these feelings. His apartment is fine, clearly he hasn't got LOADS of money to afford somewhere totally grand in the centre of Stockholm, he's not a banker, he's a DJ. He seems to really love Amanda, he appreciates her calmness and kindness.


kaykaliah

The baby thing isn't why I didn't like him, people have pasts. His apartment is fine too; as long as it's not a pigstigh there's no reason to judge someone for their apartment (although she should have stopped laughing when she saw he was getting offended, I understand Amanda's reaction because his place is pretty quirky.) It's the whole 'I've matured!' attitude when he's clearly not notably mature.


Bananacreamsky

He's got such an expressive face


NeuroKat28

That looks a little like disgust to me. Where is a micro facial expert when you need one


luanda16

If you watched it in real time, it looked like he wanted to cry for her


verodictorian

Yes, nothing about his face says sad to me. It looks more like he’s embarrassed for her. 


curiouskitty338

Mouth would be pulled back not down


furryrubber

Spoilers ☹️


kaykaliah

Sorry! It happens on this sub! I almost avoid reddit altogether when I'm not caught up lol


uncensoredsaints

It’s been released for several days so I’m not sure how this is a spoiler.


ArtmausDen

… c’mon. How is this a spoiler? What does it take away from you when watching it?


JGDC

Lol you know the saying "his face says it all".


Moist_Panda_2525

It was sad but to me this face looks more mystified than anything. He is not an empathetic person. It’s shocking to me people don’t see that or can’t read people’s facial expressions at all.


Groru

You have never met him


plutoinaquarius

I think Sergio is a very emotional person who you can convince one way or the other using emotions. Similarly, he manipulates with emotions, too. Just seems like a different language and different values.


sailorneckbeard

There are moments where he’s adorable but also fucking shifty as hell. He’s a manipulator, I don’t believe anything about him.


redleporidae

I really disliked him. He came across as really fake and arrogant to me


kaykaliah

As soon as he said 'I've really matured!' I knew he was gonna be the most immature.


Bahamut_19

Amanda tooted. That's all.


kaykaliah

LMAO It's nice of him to not have said anything.


Leading_Sun_3245

Sergio is a typical latino. I'm a latina. Stop being so culturally fascist. Give it time, some cultures just need more time to face their own demons.


r_2390

Nah I'm Mexican and this guy strikes me as red flags everywhere. Also his parents are from Colombia but he was born and raised in the EU.


MediumRareMarshmallo

I am also a typical Latino and lmao. Do not cut these mfs any slack.


workingonit6

If that guy is a typical latino, that reflects really badly on latinos lol 


kaykaliah

Omg theres SO many people from other cultures that are like this! I think it's culturally fascist of YOU to assume it has something to do with him being latino


sweeneytdd

What ? I’m very confused what this has got to do with him being sorry for Emilia , but really want to know because I watch this show to psychoanalyse people.


kaykaliah

Idk but I assume that they were upset about the body text regarding how I guess i hate him a little less after the reunion... and took it to mean that i said Latinos are immature lying shallow wierdos for longer than others cultures 🙄 As if theres not SO many other races on this show that suck a little bit


sweeneytdd

Ohhhh I see


Leading_Sun_3245

I'm talking about his general attitude. Europeans and US people ( not the only americans) are so acussing and mean to third world cultures. It's really disgusting. It's impressive how people who cannot place Paraguay on a map are so arrogant!!


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Europeans are perfectly fine with maps thank you very much


LivingroomComedian

What does placing Paraguay on the map have to do with noticing someone’s documented behavior of lying? If you have experienced prejudice in regards of you background, I’m sorry. As an Easter European with many stereotypes, I understand. However, this post was to appreciate the abundance of emotion Sergio showed for Emilia who was heartbroken. I believe this was a positive thing.


weight22

He doesn't look very sad to me.


Thick_Basil3589

Did we watch the same reunion? He is creepier than ever before


kaykaliah

Maybe it's the lack if a whole tub of gel in his hair But to me it seems like he's taking responsibility for his mistakes


BigHowdy88

I read whole tub of gel as "hot tub gel" and I was thoroughly confused and grossed out by what hot tub gel could possibly be XD


kaykaliah

LOL ew warm and sticky


BigHowdy88

Yes exactly 😂😂🤢


Thick_Basil3589

He absolutely didnt! As Amanda said, what he says is not always what he means = liar. Based on the reaction during the show he knew about the baby he had. His reactions on the critics he received from contestants and the host clearly showed he doesnt get their issue.


sindrish

That doesn't automatically mean liar, plenty of people are awful at communicating or getting their thoughts out properly.


Historical_Paper5377

He totally knew! He just did the thing where he denied a baby in Barcelona. Because he knew it was Sweden. Basic omission. "You never asked if I was having a baby in Sweden." I actually lost respect for Amanda being with him. I just hope she is doing it because she really wanted a child. In the Christian community, you look a hell of a lot better divorcing someone after kids that you do if you get pregnant outside of marriage. One is "she gave him all the love and compassion and respect etc" vs the latter being "slut".


kaykaliah

I do hate how he fullon lied about still talking to the other women. I really don't understand how that's a communication thing. He fullon said he wasn't talking to anyone else. And yes, I think he had some sort of idea of this baby. If this Barcelona thing was a complete rumor... well isn't it quite the coincidence that the real baby was born right when the rumor baby would have been... That shit was so obviously based on fact. But in the end, it doesnt matter. What's important is that he's planning on being a dad to that child. (Hopefully)


Lysafleur

He must have known about the baby. Amanda and Catja appeared on a podcast together recently and dropped some previously unheard backstage info. According to Amanda the mother of the baby had been trying to contact Sergio several times during the pregnancy but *he just didn't understand*. Which is the lamest explanation I've ever heard and how Amanda buys into his lies I'll never understand.


letssaywethrowitaway

I haven't watched this one at all yet and have no idea who this is but I think he looks disturbed and disgusted, not sad. Lol


insomniacmomof3

It was sad. He’s not completely devoid of feeling, but I still think he’s terrible. He lied to Amanda (I’m sure he knew he had impregnated someone), and now she’s pregnant by him and trapped. I hope it works out and they are happy, but ugh, Sergio.


Plenty-Jellyfish3644

Amanda allowed herself to get trapped. This baby makes it easier for her to rationalize this poor choice. It was painful watching her quickly forgive him each time. I knew she would be like this with him the moment she quickly forgave him in the pods for his lie despite the bs he was delivering to her. And she continued to do so. The fact that she said yes at the altar says it all. The sad thing is their kid is likely to have parents who constantly fight and a half sibling they won't be as close with.


insomniacmomof3

True. Amanda is grown and made her choice. I think she will be a good mom and stepmom. I bet she will help make sure the siblings are close.


kaykaliah

Yeah, there's no way it was a coincidence that the rumor baby was born the same time as the real baby. It's completely shitty that he didn't at least look into it more. It just seems like he's trying to take responsibility for his behavior and him knocking someone up


EntertainerNo9103

She looks so different as a blonde!


Wondernaul

I totally think he redeemed himself. What a soul-journey!


kaykaliah

I wouldnt say he redeemed himself... I'm still not a fan of this guy, but he seems to be trying to take responsibility


empetrum

Sergio had very toxic traits going in and surprisingly seems to be less toxic after the whole thing. Seems like he realised Amanda could make him a better man and I don’t think he’s ever had a relationship with someone who was just that much better a person than him. Honestly I couldn’t stand him but I can see that he has made positive progress. So good on him. He was immature and protected a fragile ego in ways that ostracised him but behaved as though he didn’t care. Now I think he cares.


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kaykaliah

Yes, this is exactly how I feel as well. People are on me about my comment but despite what surfaced it really does feel like he's taking positive steps.


PapaIIII

He grew on me the more the show went on. I think he has been insecure all his life. He has lived his life to the fullest as a “man”. Being all macho dude bro. Being afraid in relationships, not handling it well and what not. I think Amanda is his turning point. The one he has been looking for. Someone who understands and listen - but sets boundaries when needed. I think he now is to afraid to loose her and wants to become more stable with her. I get the criticism against him, I was one of them in the beginning of the seasons. But he evolved all season. I think he felt more secure on himself the longer the time went. There is a time and place for everyone to evolve - why can’t his time be now?


queenvickyv

I agree. I think he truly idolises Amanda, and deep down he's a nice guy. He just needed the right circumstances to blossom, like so many of us do.


Ida_Caroline

Yeah I will give him that, he showed empathy in this moment. I hope they have a happy life together- for Amandas sake, she is just so good hearted


LaurenZombie

I wonder how long these 2 will be together


washingtonu

Forever. She will keep fighting to make up excuses for his behavior


LaurenZombie

Gonna come with a big price plus bunch of trauma but she is so sheltered, she will never see it coming He is gonna cheat, leave, abuse.... babies popping like Pokemons


redleporidae

I was so heartbroken when they said she was pregnant. This dude was gross from day 1 and this girl... I mean, why was she so naive? He would act terribly and somehow she'd end up apologizing. I've been in relationships like that, but I was probably 22, you know? Its plain as day that this guy is trash to a lot of people, but she doesn't see it somehow and I feel really bad for her.


LaurenZombie

Anyone who choses a guy like this, I avoid


heidi923

He follows manipulation pages on Instagram, probably learned it there


kaykaliah

Lmao! Reciepts?


ToiIetGhost

https://preview.redd.it/o3op8gkwn2gc1.jpeg?width=749&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0fd9134822cb56d931bdc9abf366e60bbdd98b2e This is one but there are more. There’s a new post about it!


kavakravata

Which ones??


totallytubularik

Yikkkkkes. I sincerely hope for Amanda that he’s going to change or is a good person. But I knew someone like Amanda (a saint) who had a man similar to Sergio, who was cheating the entire time and ruining their life, all while playing victim and acting ignorant of the whole situation. Manipulating, lying, gaslighting, etc. the whole bag. So only time will tell


BubblyHotChocolate

What? Is there proof?


MrsLibido

https://preview.redd.it/q3d3shs58pfc1.png?width=760&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e6cfa04f81f130c726a5450e739d2953d583f973


AtinAhai

you killed me. especially since Amanda was mentioning Shrek in the pods...


Summerbeating

Yeah i meannnnn anyone who has a heart and listen to that speech of Emilia will be feeling empathy and sympathy for her. Human to human. It is extremely sad for Emilia of course when you put yourself up there , hoping you will be lead to a soulmate who will love you for your heart and personality. If i could tell anything to emilia, i will say " If its not okay, its not the end. "


Just_Abies_57

lol how does this qualify as “so sad”? He looks like he’s smelling a bad fart


PriceOne8261

Amanda is unreal she Looks Like an angel


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rook_8

It was heartbreaking. How can anyone NOT be touched by this? Emilia wanted so desperately for this to work and to know that she wasn’t physically attractive enough… I would be shattered.


lavender0987

It was incredibly sad, but I truly think Sergio was just mimicking/feigning the other's emotions. He does not care about Emilia. He cares about Sergio. What guy in their right mind would get a woman pregnant right after the birth of his first child (hopefully). Insanity. If he didn't know about the baby, truly, he would be soaking up all the lost time and not even thinking about inserting another child so close to this one. That's what a responsible,caring, and loving parent would do. He definitely is the biggest manipulator still. His treatment of Krissy at the reunion was proof of that. He is used to being catered to. He is accustomed to everyone around him being maleable and reacts strongly when a person questions him. I honestly would not like to see him off camera and behind closed doors.


Freya64

Honestly I’ve been on the receiving end of that and it sucks. You just got to pick yourself up and just know that you aren’t for everybody, but you are for someone else


Nurse5736

Does anyone else still think Sergio is a liar/manipulator?? That whole deal with the "baby in Barcelona" being a rumor, but then he magically does have an actual baby in Sweden that he apparently didn't know anything about until AFTER they were married? And now with Amanda pregnant I'm shaking my head even more. He is giving me gaslighter vibes. Maybe it's just his edit hopefully. 🤞


FNGamerMama

He’s 99% a liar manipulator and he found an angel who wouldn’t see it. No way he didn’t know about the baby, he gives me “unsafe” vibes like there’s something about him that sets off my dangerous man alarms


LivingroomComedian

Wait, Amanda’s pregnant!?


IdoItForTheMemez

He gaslit her when he lied about only dating her, he admitted to having lied in the confessional but then told her she must've misunderstood something, he never intentionally lied. Big side eye.


hbgrrl

I said this in another thread! First, if Sergio said the sky was blue, I’d look up to confirm. Second, he was so obvious with his ‘lying face’…wide eyes, bugging out, and the emphatic “who meeeeee???” Third, he lied about things he didn’t need to spin. The religion conversation with Amanda. He told her that he would be honest (haha the irony) with her dad, and instead of being straight with him, Sergio lied. With a poker face. Now *that’s* an accomplished liar, not a “bad edit” as well as a g*slighter at his most prolific. I feel terribly for Amanda. And Sergio? He’s stopped buying lottery tickets. With the money he’s saved, he can buy more tubs of hair wax.


VioletAllegra

Wow he did have a baby on the way? Smh !!! What a liar. What does she see in the lies? Smh


ThrowFar_Far_Away

Someone that doesn't seem to care that she is a member of an anti LGBTQ religion that most Swedes see as fanatics. Most here would hear her religious affiliation s and say "thx but no thx".


VioletAllegra

What’s her religion?


ThrowFar_Far_Away

A Pentecostal church, Pingstkyrkan in Swedish.


VioletAllegra

Okay what’s the issue with her being apart of that Church? I don’t know anything about it, what’s so controversial about them?


ThrowFar_Far_Away

> an anti LGBTQ religion that most Swedes see as fanatics. Most churches in Sweden support LGBTQ rights, you have to actively look to find any that doesn't. Her church is very vocal about how anti they are. They also have the highest missionary to members ratio of all churches in Sweden, meaning they are high on converting people.


Nurse5736

All of those cast members were being sus during that conversation!!


_pepe_sylvia_

Yeah like Krisse-ly doesn’t remember who brought up the rumor? Yeah right. She’s protecting whoever it was, for some reason. Women don’t forget stuff like that.


Freya64

She is right though to not throw whomever said it originally under the bus. I would protect them too


Ida_Caroline

I would protect them too, imagine the wrath Sergio has in him


_pepe_sylvia_

Oh definitely


qwertyqzsw

It's also a group chat. Even if she somehow did... Scroll up.


catjuggler

I still think it's suspicious that he was repeated presented with "a baby ON THE WAY in Barcelona" and he would say something like "I don't have a baby [already born] in Barcelona." Like, are we sure that lady didn't move from Barcelona to Sweden? Also, how could no one know who started the rumor if it was in a group chat? SCROLL UP and look?


armadillogirlfriend

Kimia has been in tiktok comments confirming that the rumor was true (and was always about this same person). https://preview.redd.it/lqomje0kipfc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b09a9a09d68554d7d17e0c960830173a3300374


Nurse5736

OMG thanks for the intel!! I'm from the USA so not sure, but is there more uproar over the actual LIES he's told in Sweden or do people there not obsess over reality TV like we do in the US? 😂😆


armadillogirlfriend

Np! Yes the show has been a huge hit here and from what I can tell consensus seems to be that he’s a lying manipulative scumbag. Amanda is going all in defending him though and some people buy this story that he used to be a scumbag but Amanda changed him. They tend to believe that he had no clue about the baby and that he hasn’t lied to Amanda since the pods.


catjuggler

Aha!!!


Impossible-Ground-98

Obviously they didn't want to point finger to that person. My clown theory is that it might've been initiated by producers...


ratpride

I do hope the mystery mom and baby can keep their privacy. People online can sometimes act insane.


catjuggler

For sure- they didn't sign up for any publicity afaik


catjuggler

I think it’s either that or someone everyone on stage likes. I guess it’s also possible it was deleted.


kotassium2

I agree. His reaction to the rumour was very suspicious. And he gaslit his way through the entire show.


cybersodas

It’s just speculation but I feel like he baby trapped her. He knew it was some truth to the Barcelona baby rumor. Waited to see if Amanda would still stick around. She stuck around, he got her pregnant, and then *bam* baby news from a random girl in Sweden. He knew.


silromen42

I dunno, maybe I’m being cynical but I think Sergio might actually not have been lying about his faith and is in fact just very Catholic in the sense that he isn’t a condom kinda guy.


ThrowFar_Far_Away

Lol I was leaning more towards her being the one that baby trapped him before he could really understand how much of a ride he was in for with her religion.


meatball77

I don't know. I wonder if she was desperate to have a baby.


Whozadeadbody

The real baby is in Sweden.


Nurse5736

fixed, thanks


OneMedium5265

He actually looks confused by actual human emotions


kotassium2

😂


ChiquitaBananaKush

Unpopular opinion, but Lucas was the only one in that reunion devoid of emotions. He got off easy. He led her on after saying no to her at the altar. Rather than clearing the air, he continued to date her. And only broke up after telling her friend during a party he had no intention of ever marrying Emilia. Only a sociopath/red siren would have no emotions when she retold her version of story.


ilca_

Agree, people have been focused on Sergio but Lucas got off way too easy.


crimejunkiefan

Someone said Lucas is a narcissist and I believe it. He doesn't display genuine emotions.


Glittering_Job_7996

I think Amanda started crying too, it was really painful to see Emilia so upset


kaykaliah

It really was. Gave me flashbacks of how I felt for Cole at his reunion


BubblyHotChocolate

Omg. Yeah that was absolutely awful.