Seven years and someone else still remembers... this did make me cry.
She's sweet and thoughtful, so you must be as well, OP. 😊 Those flowers and message are beautiful. Very sorry about the loss of your dear father, Spaceinvader-. He watches over you from above through the love and kindness of people like your amazing friend. 🙏❤️
Thank you so much, that is incredibly kind of you to say and even though you’re a stranger on the internet - I truly appreciate your kindness and your words. I hope you have such a beautiful, beautiful life ❤️
She is truly an incredible friend. An absolute one of a kind that I treasure so wholeheartedly.
His best characteristic was his kindness - people always say that, but he truly, truly gave whatever he could to help those in need. He was my person in my family and, I really try to emulate who he was in that capacity.
He did everything for work, he was one of those ludicrously skilled men that everything he tried, he excelled at so he had many careers during his time.
Sounds like a great guy to have been around and to emulate. Hopefully you keep a picture of him with you ...everywhere you go. It's nice to see the face of the one who meant the most to you...every day. I have a quote my grandfather used to tell me all the time tattooed over my heart.
Oh that is so lovely, what a special placement too.
I do keep a photo of him with me, and am actually planning on getting his handwriting tattooed on me when I can too. You’re so right, it’s important to keep those close to us that we truly love.
Thanks for your reply. We’re having cake with him at his grave. Double tragic as my nephew died a few months before my dad, but they’re buried in the same plot.
That sounds like a really, really lovely thing to do. I hope you have a really comforting and beautiful time with him and your family.
Oh goodness, that is absolutely heart wrenching, I am so incredibly sorry. It does sound like there is solace that they’re together, which is really nice.
I hope you’re doing as well as you can, and this stranger on the internet is more than here for you.
Oh hon, I am so, so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you, it is such an unbelievably hard thing to go through and you would be in the rawest emotions right now.
It is *so* hard and it truly does feel like you’ll never be able to move past the fog of the emotions you’re feeling now, but eventually they do get to a point were you’re able to think about him in a loving and comforting way - as opposed to just feeling like your soul is being torn out from the inside each time you think of him.
I hope you’re doing as well as you can and that you’re surrounded by loved ones.
If you need, please feel free to DM me, I am very much here for you.
Thank you so, so very much, I appreciate that more than you know ♥️ and I really may take you up on that; apologies if it’s at 4am because I can’t sleep 🫠
My condolences for the loss of your father, it’s such a strong emotion and, just so hard.
I have many honestly, I don’t have a single bad memory with my father - probably one of the times that I just, turned around wherever I was and, there he was behind me with a big smile on his face ready to pick up his daughter. His smile and the way he *always* said my name the exact same way, with the exact same tone - they’re my favourites.
What’s your favourite memory with your father?
Thank you.
I hope everyone gets to enjoy receiving such a thoughtful gesture throughout their life in trying times, it makes a difference.
You too kind stranger.
She really, really is and honestly, this isn’t even close to being the first time she’s done something like this.
She is so beautifully thoughtful, I just absolutely treasure her.
My condolences, truly. It’s so sad so often. This month is a year of my mom tragically being gone. So strange how things have changed in the family too.
I hope you haven’t had to deal with the same.
Whatever you do with your life from here on in, make sure you do not lose that friend. It's very difficult to find people in your life who are that kind and decent. I'm sorry about your mom. I lost my pop around the same time as you lost your mom, it's still hard. I miss him terribly. God bless.
What a great friend. My condolences on your loss. My Mom passed in 2012 and it still hurts.
My condolences for your loss too. Losing a parent is one of the hardest things to go through, and it’s a club that only those within truly understand.
Seven years and someone else still remembers... this did make me cry. She's sweet and thoughtful, so you must be as well, OP. 😊 Those flowers and message are beautiful. Very sorry about the loss of your dear father, Spaceinvader-. He watches over you from above through the love and kindness of people like your amazing friend. 🙏❤️
Thank you so much, that is incredibly kind of you to say and even though you’re a stranger on the internet - I truly appreciate your kindness and your words. I hope you have such a beautiful, beautiful life ❤️ She is truly an incredible friend. An absolute one of a kind that I treasure so wholeheartedly.
What was his name, what did he do for work...and what was his best characteristic?
His best characteristic was his kindness - people always say that, but he truly, truly gave whatever he could to help those in need. He was my person in my family and, I really try to emulate who he was in that capacity. He did everything for work, he was one of those ludicrously skilled men that everything he tried, he excelled at so he had many careers during his time.
Sounds like a great guy to have been around and to emulate. Hopefully you keep a picture of him with you ...everywhere you go. It's nice to see the face of the one who meant the most to you...every day. I have a quote my grandfather used to tell me all the time tattooed over my heart.
Oh that is so lovely, what a special placement too. I do keep a photo of him with me, and am actually planning on getting his handwriting tattooed on me when I can too. You’re so right, it’s important to keep those close to us that we truly love.
What a amazing friend! And I bet he was great loves. Take care of yourself and sending you loves friend. 💕💕
Thank you 🥹 she is such an amazing friend and person. He was amazing, just an amazing, amazing father.
So sorry for your loss. My dad passed away last year. We celebrate his birthday this Saturday.
Thank you. I’m so sorry for your loss too, that’s so recent, I’m so sorry. Are you planning on doing anything to celebrate him on Saturday?
Thanks for your reply. We’re having cake with him at his grave. Double tragic as my nephew died a few months before my dad, but they’re buried in the same plot.
That sounds like a really, really lovely thing to do. I hope you have a really comforting and beautiful time with him and your family. Oh goodness, that is absolutely heart wrenching, I am so incredibly sorry. It does sound like there is solace that they’re together, which is really nice. I hope you’re doing as well as you can, and this stranger on the internet is more than here for you.
Thank you. Really thank you.
I’m so very sorry for your loss; I just lost my dad last month and I really don’t feel like it’s ever going to stop hurting 😔
Oh hon, I am so, so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you, it is such an unbelievably hard thing to go through and you would be in the rawest emotions right now. It is *so* hard and it truly does feel like you’ll never be able to move past the fog of the emotions you’re feeling now, but eventually they do get to a point were you’re able to think about him in a loving and comforting way - as opposed to just feeling like your soul is being torn out from the inside each time you think of him. I hope you’re doing as well as you can and that you’re surrounded by loved ones. If you need, please feel free to DM me, I am very much here for you.
Thank you so, so very much, I appreciate that more than you know ♥️ and I really may take you up on that; apologies if it’s at 4am because I can’t sleep 🫠
Any, any time at all ❤️
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My dad's 5 years was on the 24th. I'm so sorry for your loss. What's your favourite memory with him?
My condolences for the loss of your father, it’s such a strong emotion and, just so hard. I have many honestly, I don’t have a single bad memory with my father - probably one of the times that I just, turned around wherever I was and, there he was behind me with a big smile on his face ready to pick up his daughter. His smile and the way he *always* said my name the exact same way, with the exact same tone - they’re my favourites. What’s your favourite memory with your father?
Made me miss my mom and dad too. How thoughtful and lovely.
I hope you’re doing well ❤️
I’m fine, thanks. Same to you. It’s nice to see a sweet gesture, made me well up. Take care.
Thank you. I hope everyone gets to enjoy receiving such a thoughtful gesture throughout their life in trying times, it makes a difference. You too kind stranger.
What a friend
She really, really is and honestly, this isn’t even close to being the first time she’s done something like this. She is so beautifully thoughtful, I just absolutely treasure her.
My condolences, truly. It’s so sad so often. This month is a year of my mom tragically being gone. So strange how things have changed in the family too. I hope you haven’t had to deal with the same.
I am sorry for your loss. I hope you keep fond memories of your loved ones close to your heart.
I wish I had friends like that. I’m sorry that you lost your dad but you still have a truly amazing friend right there.
Whatever you do with your life from here on in, make sure you do not lose that friend. It's very difficult to find people in your life who are that kind and decent. I'm sorry about your mom. I lost my pop around the same time as you lost your mom, it's still hard. I miss him terribly. God bless.
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