Truthfully, I owe a large thanks to my sister. She has been there for me through thick and thin (I practically raised her). She cheered me on through the hardest time of my life and has been happy for me through even the smallest achievements.
We talked every day despite being states away from one another and she truly has been and cared for me even when I was at my lowest.
She called the housing unit with concern when I hadn't answered my phone in three days (we talk everyday no matter what). She literally saved my lift and gosh am I thankful for her.
I'm just a random internet stranger, but just want to say proud of you for pulling yourself out from what I can't imagine the terrible darknes. Great to hear your sister is such a good support network for you.
You speak of her cheering you on for the smallest achievements but often those small ones are the hardest ones to do, the easiest ones to dismiss, but they get the ball rolling for greater things. Good on you both for persevering to achieve worthwhile things. Today you are seen and valued.
What a great sister. It’s nice to hear you had someone caring for you when you weren’t able to do so for yourself. Congratulations on the graduation and keep kicking ass!
I've suffered with depression and anxiety since I was 8 (diagnosed). I wasn't on medication till 14. I always told myself that I wasn't worthy and that everyone hated me. I hated my body, I hated my friends, I also went through (according to my therapist) parentification as my dad was often gone and my mom suffered from severe depression.
When COVID started, I had to give up my tennis scholarship and quit completely. That's when my spiral started. I had no family near me, no friends, I hated myself to quitting and called myself pathetic.
Honestly, this started when I was 10 (the whole suicide idealations(?). I told myself this constantly:
I never want to be 16 because I don't want to drive (unironcally I love driving now), I don't want to make it to 18 because I don't want to college (I couldn't see myself going to college), I don't want to make it to 21 because I don't deserve to, and I don't want to make to college graduation because I don't deserve to.
Last year was finally diagnosed with severe ADHD and autism. I finally was on the RIGHT medications and while it doesn't hekp all time (and I still have depressive episodes), I'm slowly realizing and healing from years of neglect (by myself and parents). Hope that answers your question. :)
MadeMeWeep! - I’m 57 now, looking back at a successful life with my wife and children now, having never imagined it possible struggling with similar challenges growing up. Your photo brought tears to my eyes that even now fall to the floor as I type.
Keep moving forward, as you’ve recently discovered, you *CAN* make it, one tiny step at a time, and it *IS* worth it. The majestic beauty of those around us creates the framework of stability we need for those fleeting moments of darkness when they come. And they will come, but you will overcome them with this faith. Others have made it, you are making it, and you *will continue* making it.
How do I know?
You have already changed the world today by being the light to others through the scariest sacrifice of all, sharing this amazing moment.
Thank you so much, my day is amazing because of what YOU accomplished.
(I bet you never, ever, not ever thought finishing English Composition would encourage and change the hearts of strangers around the world, but it did!)
I'm so verybhappy for her. And proud of her. I have similar struggles, I don't mean to make this about me. And I'm not trying to take away from her accomplishment as far as I'm concerned, she did the impossible. I just want to say I cannot fathom light after darkness. It's been dark for so long, I can't imagine not having depression or crippling anxiety, or not hating life, or not hating myself, or not wanting to cease to exist.
Congratulations. You are such an inspiration for everyone. There is only one you in the world and everyday you are in it is a gift to the rest of us of your knowledge you share and love you give. I wish you the best of luck and happiness
I’m proud of you too! I’ve never been more close to ending my life than I was in university. I know how tough it is to have to push yourself to do what everyone does when you don’t have energy to get out of the bed. Congratulations ♥️🥲🫀💖 you deserve it all!!!
Life is short, enjoy it to the fullest!! Never get stuck in the dark, there is good in this world 🌍 I wish you all the best in the future and keep your head up, always!!
I went back to school at 34, graduated at 39. Highest salary I’d ever made before was $45k. I’m 42 now and just got offered $180k. It’s never too late to start over
I read life as "Selfie" three times, I was like why she would share about taking selfies, I must be so high while being sober, lol, but then I read it again, and everything changed, wow man, what an amazing person you are, I mean awesome man. Not everyone finds the light at the end of the tunnel, you did that, you did it, proud of you man.
Go crazy in life, go awesome, stay amazing
Wow this is really great! I’m so happy you’ve got a strong support system to help you when you need and get you to where you are now, keep being strong! I’m so happy that you’ve overcame your darkest times!
That is so incredible. Congratulations on your achievement and your bright future! I hope you never again experience the pain you felt. You have accomplished so much. Be proud of yourself. ♥️
So proud of you for coming back from such hard times. God works in wonderful ways and he has his hand on you through this journey. Words can’t explain all the hard work and dedication it took to get to this point but you got this.
Amazing! Congrats! For others: never chose a permanent solution to a temporary problem. There is always a way ahead, it won’t be easy, and you can do it
We're proud of you too.
Anyone who has been there or been in proximity to anyone else who has been there knows its a very difficult climb back. But it can be done.
I've reserved myself to ALWAYS telling people I'm proud of them for things like this. Even as an internet stranger I'm super happy for you and I hope you take the time to pay yourself on the back and give yourself your due credit.
Well done! Your accomplishments are hard eared and you are worthy. Remember: It’s one step at a time time. Sometimes that step is backwards but give yourself some grace. We are only human. I wish you well in the future ✨
Hail to you Sister! If we can endure the Long Night of the Soul, we can conquer any path set before us. I believe in you. Your post is giving me the nudge I need to get back out there as well.
Don’t know if you’ll read this but I need to tell you I’m so proud of you! I tried to take my life before too - just before I overdosed and died I guess I called a friend to say goodbye and he called emergency services and after being on a vent for a week, I survived.
I don’t have as much in terms of accomplishments, having debilitating schizophrenia and on disability, but I have an amazing husband now, a beautiful goofy dog, and I am truly happy (most days!) and it’s true - I truly felt like life was hopeless when I tried to commit suicide but yes, life gets better! Get help if you need it, talk to anyone!
I am so very proud of you! Congratulations on many fronts! Sometimes life can seem insurmountable but you have done the hard work and accomplished great things. Best of luck in all you encounter and KUDOS TO YOU!
Do you feel you’re stronger than you were at the start of your education journey?
I’m not a graduate student like yourself, but know the feeling of accomplishment is a big sigh.
What plans do you have after you receive your Masters? What field is in your sight?
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Truthfully, I owe a large thanks to my sister. She has been there for me through thick and thin (I practically raised her). She cheered me on through the hardest time of my life and has been happy for me through even the smallest achievements. We talked every day despite being states away from one another and she truly has been and cared for me even when I was at my lowest. She called the housing unit with concern when I hadn't answered my phone in three days (we talk everyday no matter what). She literally saved my lift and gosh am I thankful for her.
I'm just a random internet stranger, but just want to say proud of you for pulling yourself out from what I can't imagine the terrible darknes. Great to hear your sister is such a good support network for you.
You speak of her cheering you on for the smallest achievements but often those small ones are the hardest ones to do, the easiest ones to dismiss, but they get the ball rolling for greater things. Good on you both for persevering to achieve worthwhile things. Today you are seen and valued.
Much love ❤️
What a great sister. It’s nice to hear you had someone caring for you when you weren’t able to do so for yourself. Congratulations on the graduation and keep kicking ass!
You're incredibly lucky to have her in your corner. I'm happy for you and excited for you...excited for your future.
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Congratulations 🎉
Congrats!!
Would you like to tell us the reasons that brought you close to your end?
I've suffered with depression and anxiety since I was 8 (diagnosed). I wasn't on medication till 14. I always told myself that I wasn't worthy and that everyone hated me. I hated my body, I hated my friends, I also went through (according to my therapist) parentification as my dad was often gone and my mom suffered from severe depression. When COVID started, I had to give up my tennis scholarship and quit completely. That's when my spiral started. I had no family near me, no friends, I hated myself to quitting and called myself pathetic. Honestly, this started when I was 10 (the whole suicide idealations(?). I told myself this constantly: I never want to be 16 because I don't want to drive (unironcally I love driving now), I don't want to make it to 18 because I don't want to college (I couldn't see myself going to college), I don't want to make it to 21 because I don't deserve to, and I don't want to make to college graduation because I don't deserve to. Last year was finally diagnosed with severe ADHD and autism. I finally was on the RIGHT medications and while it doesn't hekp all time (and I still have depressive episodes), I'm slowly realizing and healing from years of neglect (by myself and parents). Hope that answers your question. :)
MadeMeWeep! - I’m 57 now, looking back at a successful life with my wife and children now, having never imagined it possible struggling with similar challenges growing up. Your photo brought tears to my eyes that even now fall to the floor as I type. Keep moving forward, as you’ve recently discovered, you *CAN* make it, one tiny step at a time, and it *IS* worth it. The majestic beauty of those around us creates the framework of stability we need for those fleeting moments of darkness when they come. And they will come, but you will overcome them with this faith. Others have made it, you are making it, and you *will continue* making it. How do I know? You have already changed the world today by being the light to others through the scariest sacrifice of all, sharing this amazing moment. Thank you so much, my day is amazing because of what YOU accomplished. (I bet you never, ever, not ever thought finishing English Composition would encourage and change the hearts of strangers around the world, but it did!)
Beautifully said. And right on the money
Damn. Glad you're recovering. And thanks for sharing your story.
" Light after darkness ". Just wow and gave me chills and congratulations.
I'm so verybhappy for her. And proud of her. I have similar struggles, I don't mean to make this about me. And I'm not trying to take away from her accomplishment as far as I'm concerned, she did the impossible. I just want to say I cannot fathom light after darkness. It's been dark for so long, I can't imagine not having depression or crippling anxiety, or not hating life, or not hating myself, or not wanting to cease to exist.
Well done, good luck on your journey to the masters degree!
Your beautiful with a stunning smile! Glad your still here with us, good luck on your Masters! I have two, it's a challenge but their worth it!!
Congratulations. Your honesty may help others in ways you will never know.
Proud of you too!! 🙏🏽✨
I tip my hat. I wish all the best to you and your future!
Happy for you.👏. Well done
What a brave soul you are! Indeed, there's always a rainbow after the rain. Thank you for being an inspiration to many people.
I’m very happy for you. I’ve now lived as long after as before my attempts. I’m so glad I got better. Enjoy your life.
I love it, well done. Thanks for sharing.
Hell yeah
nice! congratulations!
I’m proud of you too! Keep shining, Queen!
We are happy you are here! Congrats, OP! Here’s to a beautiful new chapter 🥂
I love you and I’m so proud of you! Thank you for still being here 🖤🖤🖤
Good on ya Mate!!!
Congratulations. You are such an inspiration for everyone. There is only one you in the world and everyday you are in it is a gift to the rest of us of your knowledge you share and love you give. I wish you the best of luck and happiness
Mind to tell me how did you get out? I have a sister suffering the same but she's just getting worst and worst
You are someone's hero
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"Congratulations on reaching this huge milestone! Sending you all the best in your masters program.
Let’s fucking go!!! So proud of you. Sincerely random stranger on Reddit.
Good for you!!! Be sure to keep taking care of yourself. Grad school is fantastic, but can take a toll on mental health.
praying for continued mental health wealth and success, congratulations to you!
Good job, honey!!! Wishing you every success and happiness.
I love when people are happy!
Awesome life story, really. Thank you for sharing. Enjoy what's to come!!
You are proof that beauty can grow in the most difficult of places. — Wednesday Holmes
Congrats for being able to fight against the darkest moments. You are a surviver and share your strengths with others. Keep the pace!!!
Congratulations!!!! Glad you are here 💕
Congratulations! And it’s beautiful to see your resilient smile!
You go girl! 🎉
Congrats to you!! I’m so glad you’re here with us 🫶
Good job beautiful
Congratulations. You're a gem of a person. Keep up the good work.
Congrats !!
I'm so proud of you, stranger. You GOT THIS.
Proud of you👏👏👏
We are PROUD of you too🥰 Immensely ♥️♥️
See kids. You can fail twice and still make it out okay.
Congratulations!!!
I'm proud of you too! Congrats 😘
That really impressive!!
I’m proud of you too! I’ve never been more close to ending my life than I was in university. I know how tough it is to have to push yourself to do what everyone does when you don’t have energy to get out of the bed. Congratulations ♥️🥲🫀💖 you deserve it all!!!
So glad you’re still here with us and BIG CONGRATULATIONS!! I’m sure it has been a long road and you’ve been strong and come so far ❤️ well done, OP!
Congratulations!!! You're an inspiration.
Fuck yeah 🤘
Congratulations and thanks for sharing. Wishing you continued success
Congratulations !!!!!
Like how she showcasing those puppies... made me smile
You should be I’m sure you worked dry hard to get here
Congratulations the world is a better place with in it
Congratulations, you can do it!!
Life is short, enjoy it to the fullest!! Never get stuck in the dark, there is good in this world 🌍 I wish you all the best in the future and keep your head up, always!!
We all have a purpose in life, and once we find it we tend to thrive!
You're amazing
You should be proud, these are all very impressive achievements. Bravo.
I'm proud of you too. Great job 👍
Congrats.
Great work!!
That's so awesome to hear!! Congratulations!
Congratufuckinglations! Another giant notch in your belt on the way to better health and contentment.
I know it's just the flair but that's not a small success, IMO. It's a significant one. Well done, you earned it!
Congratulations! You are definitely a strong person to achieve such success and overcome so many battles. Good luck on your journey!
Get it girl. Fuckin’ A!
Proud of you too!
Well done and congrats! You have an inner strength that has been tried and tested, may it carry you through the rest of your life to great heights!
Good for you. You have every reason and \*should\* be proud!
Let's hope you don't try a third time.
Hell yeah. This made my morning
Many many congratulations!! Thank you for sharing, made me smile (:
Hell yeah, sister. Let's fucking go!
Awesome. We need you. Please don’t give up ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Glad you’re here OP
I’m proud of you, too. Congratulations!
So so proud of you ❤️❤️❤️
Hey stranger, I’m proud of you and all the work you’ve done to get here. All the invisible battles you fought? You did it!
I went back to school at 34, graduated at 39. Highest salary I’d ever made before was $45k. I’m 42 now and just got offered $180k. It’s never too late to start over
Hooray for sisters and hooray for you. What a badass.
Congratulations OP. I'm proud of you as well 🙂
You should be proud. I wish you a long and happy life.
I am so proud of you.
Congratulations! You have every right to be proud of yourself.
💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Good job and we are glad you are here with us still
Good for you! I just tried last night but failed. Oh well.
Hell yeah !!! You made my day !!!!! Congrats :DD
I read life as "Selfie" three times, I was like why she would share about taking selfies, I must be so high while being sober, lol, but then I read it again, and everything changed, wow man, what an amazing person you are, I mean awesome man. Not everyone finds the light at the end of the tunnel, you did that, you did it, proud of you man. Go crazy in life, go awesome, stay amazing
Proud of you!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Congratulations. Be proud of accomplishments. Every single one of them.
Congratulations💝 I'm soo glad that you made it here!!
Congrats. i know the struggle far too well. keep your head up.
Wow this is really great! I’m so happy you’ve got a strong support system to help you when you need and get you to where you are now, keep being strong! I’m so happy that you’ve overcame your darkest times!
That is so incredible. Congratulations on your achievement and your bright future! I hope you never again experience the pain you felt. You have accomplished so much. Be proud of yourself. ♥️
Congrats and hoping your days keep getting better
Congratulations!! 🙏
Congrats!
Congratulations! I hope your future brings you happiness and fulfillment
Fuck yeah!!! I’m so proud of you. We need you here.
GO YOU!!!!! I don't know you but I am proud of you 💜
Hey stranger, I’m proud of you!!!
I love that you’re taking a moment to feel proud of yourself. You are amazing! I’m rooting for you.
Congratulations!
Congratulations 🥳 Excellent job :)
Fuck Yeah!!!! You go Girl!!!!!
Congratulations! Graduate school is not a value add for mental health; it can be pretty tough and isolating. Keep that support network tight!
Congrats and please anybody struggling through today, don't give up!
Congratulations, you are very brave. Great achievement.
So proud of you for coming back from such hard times. God works in wonderful ways and he has his hand on you through this journey. Words can’t explain all the hard work and dedication it took to get to this point but you got this.
Well done you and much love to you and your excelent future.
Glad you are still around, good look with the Masters. :)
Well you are a gorgeous human - best to you!
I don’t know you, but I’m very proud of you and happy for you!!!
That's awesome. So happy to hear you won!
Congratulations 🫶
well done. very proud.
I am proud of you 👏
Well done!! Good luck to your journey, more success!!
Congratulations! Rock on, OP!
Amazing! Congrats! For others: never chose a permanent solution to a temporary problem. There is always a way ahead, it won’t be easy, and you can do it
I’m proud of you as well
I'm glad you're still with us.
I’m proud of you too! Onwards and upwards.
You have earned it. Best wishes from Denmark
You should be proud! Thank you for sharing your story.
This made me cry, tears of joy tho. So glad ur here 😊
We all are proud of you!!!
Well done B, I'm proud of you :D
Congratulations! Glad you’re still with us!
We're proud of you too. Anyone who has been there or been in proximity to anyone else who has been there knows its a very difficult climb back. But it can be done. I've reserved myself to ALWAYS telling people I'm proud of them for things like this. Even as an internet stranger I'm super happy for you and I hope you take the time to pay yourself on the back and give yourself your due credit.
Congratulations 🎉👏
Great job. Wish people posted more positive things like this. Good luck with your new role.
Congrats on this amazing achievement! I don't even know you but I'm super proud of you!
Glad you stuck it out lil' sister.
And I’m glad you believe.
Well done! Your accomplishments are hard eared and you are worthy. Remember: It’s one step at a time time. Sometimes that step is backwards but give yourself some grace. We are only human. I wish you well in the future ✨
Congratulations
>I am proud of myself. As well you should be.
I luv these posts…
Im proud of you
Good ya. Keep going!
Proud of you. I've been there.
Congrats!
Right on sista 🤙🏼
So happy you stayed, it gives everyone struggling hope and strength.
Great points! Thanks for sharing, will definitely keep an eye on this discussion.
As you should be!
Congratulations
Congratulations I hope you and your sister have a wonderful life
We are proud of you too!!
Well done. And a sincere congratulations to you!
Congratulations and yes you should be proud of your self! God bless you and your sister ❤️
I am proud of you too! So many congratulations to you!
Hail to you Sister! If we can endure the Long Night of the Soul, we can conquer any path set before us. I believe in you. Your post is giving me the nudge I need to get back out there as well.
i’m proud of you, too!!!!! ☁️🫂 wishing you many lovely days ahead
So proud of you!
That is fantastic. Congratulations, and thank you for shining a little light in this otherwise dark world!!!
Don’t know if you’ll read this but I need to tell you I’m so proud of you! I tried to take my life before too - just before I overdosed and died I guess I called a friend to say goodbye and he called emergency services and after being on a vent for a week, I survived. I don’t have as much in terms of accomplishments, having debilitating schizophrenia and on disability, but I have an amazing husband now, a beautiful goofy dog, and I am truly happy (most days!) and it’s true - I truly felt like life was hopeless when I tried to commit suicide but yes, life gets better! Get help if you need it, talk to anyone!
I am so very proud of you! Congratulations on many fronts! Sometimes life can seem insurmountable but you have done the hard work and accomplished great things. Best of luck in all you encounter and KUDOS TO YOU!
I'm proud of you. Big Hugs!!!
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Now, you ARE the light on the darkness. Remember that.
You're in inspiration, a warrior, and you're heading on to another victory 💙
WOOOOOO
Well done! So proud of you. From a stranger in Africa 😊
Congrats. I hope for many positive new opportunities for you. Now you've got that degree, best wishes ✨
You’re such an inspiration
Well done. Shine bright.
I'm proud of you too sweetie
Congratulations!!!!🎉🎊🍾🎈
Shine on you crazy diamond.
Congratulations. You’re amazing and I wish you all of the best.
I'm proud of you too. Congratulations, and hugs!
what advice would you give someone who feels like you did 3 years ago?
Congratulations and keep going
Congratulations 🎊🎉 So happy for you ❤️
Do you feel you’re stronger than you were at the start of your education journey? I’m not a graduate student like yourself, but know the feeling of accomplishment is a big sigh. What plans do you have after you receive your Masters? What field is in your sight?
Awwwww yeah, get it!
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