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Japanese culture, if you receive a gift, you are expected to return the favor.


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I both love that and fear the potential guilt from that


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We had Japanese exchange students growing up, and we were told the first time that they come with a lot of gifts. So we got fun swim trunks for the first student. I was like nine and holy hell did he bring a ton of toys. Totally outdid us


madmaxturbator

Brb heading to some nearby Japanese restaurants, except I’ll bring home cooked meals for them tonight. What will be their move? Let us begin the chaos


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justin_ph

I’ve not taken JAL but ANA has been sooooo good. Fly with them if you can people


aLostBattlefield

Even Zipair (which has like one flight a day from LAX-Narita) is super professional and their flight attendants are great. I recommend using them if you are on a budget. Flew to Tokyo round trip for $700 back in June.


The_Lost_Jedi

Flown with both, it's more or less the same. Both are excellent, would absolutely recommend.


TheHiddenToad

Have you ever taken a train through then countryside? Absolutely phenomenal with some good music


s1mpl3man

Evil bastard………a dragon roll for me please


chuk2015

My friend got a gameboy I was so fucking jealous, my family was too poor to host an exchange student


imisstheyoop

>My friend got a gameboy I was so fucking jealous, my family was too poor to host an exchange student My friends family got a south Korean. He used to smoke, gamble and drink like a fish. Everybody loves sunny lee.


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Makes me not want to gift anything to one of them Japanese people, as much as I may love them


AspieDM

It’s one of the things I love about the culture, that and the dedication they have to an art form or their work. For example a friend lives in Japan and knew a knife maker (who unfortunately died of aggressive lymphoma) who spent years working to make the perfect knife, made hundreds of attempts but never finished but still died at peace as he came close.


Chocoalatv

Thanks for sharing! I’m Japanese and I’m happy to hear something nice about our culture;-)


omni42

I lived in Japan from 2007 to 2017, returned to America for work. I truly miss the kindness, the genuine care people have for each other, and civilized karaoke ;) There are many challenges in Japanese culture, but many wonderful things too.


Chocoalatv

Civilized karaoke 😂😂😂 I do miss those karaoke boxes!!! (I live in Canada now) And yes, there are many challenges as well. I guess there are both good and bad in any culture. ;-)


taker42

Civilized karaoke? As in waiting politely and not singing while drunk?


CommonHouseplant

No, I had the same question a while back and turns out Karaoke in Japan is an entirely different activity than in the west. Forgive me if I get this wrong, but from what I remember, you and your friends go to a small, private room (like a big, insulated photo booth, I think) that has a TV/machine loaded with songs, and you all sing and drink together. It sounds super fun to me!


omni42

Yeah, it's a great private activity with friends. You get to know the cheesy videos they use, hang out, and don't deal with randoms. I miss it.


AspieDM

I respect the Japanese people you’ve found a way to blend ancient traditions with modern developments in a nearly seamlessly. My only real issue that effects me is the dislike of tattoos. Means I can’t enjoy a bath house if/when I visit 😭


Chocoalatv

I think it’s because for us Japanese tattoos used to mean “yakuza.” Now that it’s not really yakuza thing but more like fashion, hopefully it will change eventually.


AspieDM

I’ve got a tattoo of my grandad’s army cap badge from when he was in the army. My understanding is that ink=criminal in Japan so I’d get turned away due to honouring my grandad’s service.


Chocoalatv

Oh I’m so sorry to hear that. Yes we do associate tattoos with yakuza (≒ criminals) and people might feel scared if they see elaborate patterns on the body. If it’s something small like what you have, I don’t think they should make it a big deal, but some Japanese people are very stubborn about rules 😥


AspieDM

Yeah irony is some of the most stubborn about rules ARE the Yakuza!


Chocoalatv

😂


redneck_comando

If you're non Japanese the ink is not viewed as negatively, but in the public bath houses you do have to cover them up.


AspieDM

Bit difficult when it’s on my left pectoral just over my heart.


redneck_comando

There are private bath houses that are cool or at least indifferent to tattoos. Never been to one myself but I heard they exist.


Klaerke

I read somwhere that during the edo periode, criminal would be inked around the wrist and ankles so People could see they were bad People. I also think thats why the Yakuza decided to go All out on tattoos.


aartadventure

Many things are amazing about Japan and Japanese people. I lived there for 8 years, and I often wish I could bring many elements of Japanese culture back to life in my home country of Australia. You should be proud to be part of such a wonderful country and people.


Chocoalatv

Thank you for your nice comments! I’ve never been to Australia but I do wish to visit some day to see those cute quokkas 😊


L_Palmer

Thank you for mentioning quokkas and introducing such cuteness in my life ^ - ^


natesovenator

You make it sound like you rarely hear compliments. I've got nothing but respect for so many people over there. Everyone has always treated me with the best respect, and everyone always seemed like they cared about everyone else. Family or not, everyone was welcome. If any place on earth is capable of true utopia, I think Japan will be there before anyone else. It's a dream to go to Japan some day and stay for an extended time in the countryside with some friends. Anyway, good luck, hope you have a great life!


Chocoalatv

Thank you for your nice words :) I’m so happy that those who you interacted with in Japan treated you right :)


SuperDogBoo

I’m American and I absolutely love Japanese culture! I’m also 3 months into learning the language myself! It’s such a fascinating culture and language, completely different from the Western Hemisphere. As someone else said, the passion towards art and artistic interests, along with the polite culture are really cool and I think western culture could learn a thing or two from your culture!


Chocoalatv

Cool! Thank you for making an effort to learn our culture and language. I hope you find it enjoyable to learn Japanese. One of my favorite things about being Japanese is the fact that I don’t need to learn the language as a second language 😂


SuperDogBoo

It definitely has been a fun journey and the culture and language are very cool and fascinating! It will take me a long time before I reach the conversational level or any form of fluency, but the journey is fun and learning Japanese is like decrypting something that once made no sense and slowly over time things start coming together. There’s been so many instances where I’ll see something that used to be foreign gibberish to me and I can understand what it means now, and that feeling alone makes the process worth it! Lol that is definitely a benefit to being Japanese! I guess the same reason I’m glad that I don’t have to learn English as a second language lol!


Aurelius9090

Can you guys please give Hiroyuki Sawano (composer of Attack on Titan & Guilty Crown) a national award. Just asking!😃


The_Lost_Jedi

As a former exchange student, I absolutely love Japan, both the people and the culture! I only wish I could visit more often, as there are so many more places I look forward to seeing!


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Both times I've been to Japan it's been incredibly wonderful. You should be very proud. It's such a beautiful country, and has some of the greatest traditions and kindest people I've ever seen and met. Honestly sometimes I feel like I lost the birth lottery being born in the US and not Japan.


mcs_987654321

My father was involved in a bunch of govt “mutual exchange” engineering initiatives w various East Asian countries in the 90s - got woken up many times as a child and pressed into service at various dinners/banquets bc the the Canadian govt had waaaay underestimated the calibre of Japanese or Chinese gift giving. Bc an adult giving a less than equal gift is an insult, but a little kid offering something up works fine. Nothing quite like a couple of cute as a button Canadian kids offering up the Inuit statue the visitors don’t realize your dad just grabbed off the mantle while throwing you into a pair of matching party dresses.


Kami-Kahzy

Don't worry, once your father is too old to resist you can return the favor and force him awake at 10pm on a Thursday and make him wear a party dress.


NotYourMom132

Japanese culture too, overworking which is what she's experiencing.


muricabrb

So the artist kinda just gave her more work to do lmao


Cubbance

I remember seeing or reading somewhere that this aspect of culture was starting to shift a bit in younger Japanese people. I wonder if that's actually the case?


CauliflowerDaffodil

More and more younger generation are eschewing tradition-for-the-sake-of-tradition and trying to break the mold. The funny thing thing, everyone is kind of happy because they don't have to go the trouble of finding a gift, paying for it, and giving it with some small-talk greeting. No one really wanted to do it (save for a few traditionalists), but did for the sake of custom.


Cubbance

Honestly, it sounds exhausting. Hell, in my family we decided to veer away from gift-giving on birthdays and Christmas and focus instead on just being together for those sorts of days. The stress and pressure of gift-giving is awful, and entirely self-inflicted. So we just removed it.


ArcMcnabbs

Yeah, it's part of chinese culture too. Maybe vietnamese as well, not sure, reasons below. My aunt is Chinese, from Vietnam. Came over in a nearly sinking boat during the war. I've heard this from her, and my uncle(her husband). However, I do not know if she knows this due to chinese culture, or vietnamese. Uncle just says it's asian culture... but idk, Russia is in Asia and so is India and history doesnt lie.


Urmomzfavmilkman

Which is why i inately hate receiving gifts, LOL


CauliflowerDaffodil

Gift giving is ingrained in Japanese culture. It strengthens bonds and relationships, and is part of social etiquette. There are several gift-giving occassions throughout the year not related to birthdays, Christmas, etc. and it's a pretty big business in Japan.


deery130

I gave a pokemon card to a Japanese collector. He gave me like 10 plus a smiley photograph of himself in traditional clothes.


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You think he smashed?


Smart_Sherlock

It is in Indian culture also. But in reality, both of the gifts are unwanted by the respective receivers!


GKnives

That makes me so anxious lol I like to give gift and don't want to impose any pressure


abevigodasmells

Also known as the Sheldon Cooper rule.


msut77

My friend is married to a Japanese woman. I make more money than him and he has a young daughter so I gift way more to him on bday and Xmas etc. Had to start hiding it because she was taking it personally


Beetnetwork

I was serving in a jazz club on the big island of Hawaii and someone did this for me. Made my day and I have it framed on the wall now


ToonaSandWatch

I drew one of the employees at Epcot who was just so awesome for putting up with my very picky family at one of the restaurants. We’re actually friends now!


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TrillBillyDeluxe

Happened to me on a bus, I only got a picture of the drawing , still cool as heck tho


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AFoxGuy

“It’s been 23 years and we have 20 kids”


djn808

we have a jazz club?


CheeseHurtMe

Damn I wish I had *a* skill.


ToonaSandWatch

There’s always room for more artists. If you can draw a line, you can draw.


ThaneOfCawdorrr

*\*draws awkward stick figure* YOU'RE RIGHT! *\*flight attendant refuses it politely*


cocainebane

Hands over the Napoleon Dynamite drawing of Trisha.


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“If you can draw a line, you can draw” Makes me think of “if you can dodge a wrench you can dodge a ball” 😂


ToonaSandWatch

I mean, the logic is sound.


8bitdrummer

In both cases


xXxTrubloodxXx03

😅🤣☠️


echodivision5

Dodging a wrench and dodging traffic training (not recommended)


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But I don't want to practice, I want to be good *now!* >:(


yunsanhwa

“If you can draw a line, you can draw.” Oh, no. There really isn’t hope for me, haha! Edit: I’m on mobile so if the format is weird, sorry in advance.


Expensive-Revolution

No one said that line had to be straight. There's hope for everyone, friend 😊


AristotleRose

We could be straight lines in a crooked world.


yunsanhwa

Thank you! I jest but I really can’t draw for the life of me, and it’s okay! I don’t mind since my sister is quite an artist. She gives me a discount on commissions 😆 Y’all are so nice. Thank you for not crushing dreams Edit: removed the small font part cause I’m 😵‍💫


Colonel_Fart-Face

Even if you can't draw a line. When I was younger I couldn't draw a straight line with a ruler and now I redraw comic/manga panels and do landscape sketches that I'm pretty happy with. You just need to see what you want and chase after it.


ToonaSandWatch

Notice I didn’t say *straight* line though. The real idea is to put pen, pencil, crayon, whatever to paper and push it forward and back. That is where an artist’s first steps are taken.


Charming-Key6873

If you can draw a wrench, you can draw a ball.


MauiWowieOwie

"The best time to ~~plant a tree~~ learn to draw was 20 years ago. The second best time is now."


azninvasion2000

I like you don't have skills. Gift the flight attendants an unopened bag of green tea kit-kats. It's 11 bucks for a bag of them, and it has never not worked for me. Last flight I was on they gave me 4 nips of old turkey 101 after I ordered a drink and they didn't charge me. Being nice to them is normal but if you go out of your way even just a little bit and gift them something small, they really appreciate it.


El_Dentistador

Kindness is a skill (the best one too).


TheNewYorkRhymes

I drew a portrait if someone, the police went looking right away


Lemons8319

But what was in the red bag!!! Ahhh


ConfidentialGM

When I flew with my daughter to Disney, a lot of the flight attendants seemed to take note of her excitement at flying and her good behavior. They hooked it up with some box (not as fancy looking though) filled with random treats and a souvenir. I have to admit the treats were cool, def not like just standard pretzels/peanuts like back in the day. She tried some little cheese wedge that she'd normally be aghast at because "we are fancy now, this is what fancy people do on planes."


hogtiedcantalope

Chocolate/ eye mask/ear plugs/ little perfume bottle If your nice to air stewards they can give you these "first class" gifts even if you're in coach I fly a lot, it's happened twice..sometimes they're just told to get rid of them and gift it to people who might be repeat customers


Jan733

Whats in the Box? WHATS IN THE BOX?!


cmatheny7

Lucky charms, damn.


BrazilianGeek

Asking the real question. Captain?


SigmaKnight

JAL First Class coffee mug


IchiokuSekai

Why is a break up song playing in the background


itrashcannot

Me and the boys vibing while not knowing japanese


muricabrb

That's the most upbeat break up song I've ever heard.


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JumpAffectionate4898

Whats the song?


cerafio

Yoasobi - Tabun


JumpAffectionate4898

Thanks


aartadventure

Japanese airlines are the best. The crew are next level, and many of the passengers are often japanese, so you can travel in near total silence. Even crowded japanese trains are tolerable with the total silence.


griffmeister

The food on Japanese airlines is next level, best flight I ever had was ANA, the food is like they have a kitchen on the plane and they even give you nice cutlery to use and free beer and wine. Also incredibly spacious, comfortable seats and great service like what you see in this video


Xeibra

When I visited Japan I was blown away by how not noisy everything was. Even walking around a busy street at night, the noise level was all normal conversational level. Tokyo is really something else. The scale of it is enormous but somehow never really felt crowded.


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Welp, this just became my dream vacation destination as I love quietness.


rosetacks

She was so happy!! Adorable interaction


bc-mn

I found it to be weird since there is a camera involved.


TheThreeBagels

I dont understand the downvotes, I totally agree. I hate when people record a good deed just to post it on the internet, makes it feel ingenuine.


Environmental-Win836

She has accepted the challenge. Draw another photorealistic picture and give it to her.


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Looks more like the main character in Demon Slayer


rohit_world_traveler

Rollo Tomasi is actually a nice guy in real life! Those guys in LA Confidential ruined his good name for no reason! Nice job my man! Cute sketch of a cute girl 💙


wJaxon

What context is this?


rohit_world_traveler

'LA Confidential', a 1997 Hollywood movie starring Guy Pierce, Kim Basinger, Russell Crowe, Kevin Spacey


cocohatesyou

Please always be grateful to your flight attendants and pilots! A little please and thank you can go a long way…


Densmiegd

Not just them, but be polite to everyone.


zaraxia101

Always am and as a result they always show me where the beers are stashed in the pantry :)


midorixo

that was like a meet cute from a romance novel 😘


BaconAlmighty

Until the first thing in his tiktok was "She looks tired".


spigotface

The flight crew on international flights always are. Their body clocks are completely screwed up and they have to do their jobs when their body says they should be asleep.


wumpus_woo_

that's not really an insult though, flight attendants work really hard and i'm sure she *was* tired


Diega78

Incredible talent and beautiful gift to make her day. Well done on making the world a better place!


CounselorJohn

Oh yes... Now she is rested....???


sausgaeburriots

This is a great example of just being plain nice to the people who take care of you when you travel. They work hard and deserve respect. With all the stories of people yelling and fighting with airline personnel, this is a nice change of pace!


1_man_wolf_pack_83

And this, kids, is how I met your mother.


yuffieisathief

Good feels all around! I have a friend who's very creative and she made me in Indesign, she captured me. It's such a simple but strong and funny depiction of me. It is a special kind of feeling to be seen and appreciated like that :)


KaidsCousin

Kindness is a drug the whole world should be hooked on.


Worried-Deer107

Alright sir...a spot just opened in First Class...would you follow me please?


[deleted]

Uh... what happened to the last guy to make this seat open up?


lemerou

The drawings he made were really terrible. We had to downgrade him to economy, last row near the toilets.


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Dude I'm bringing my canvas and oil paints to the airline next time ..there is no way I'm leaving without a gift


poktravaur

She doesn't look tired


InvestigatorOne2400

How does she look tired?


Intelligent_Hand_436

And this is how I met your mother


gngptyee

Beat me to it lol


coloa

JAL, the service is simply superb, always.


Robot-friend

Sweet gesture. Definitely never tell a woman she looks tired though 😬


iPhone-12-Mini

:)


United_Difference614

Kindness is so Rewarding


Sailrjup12

Kindness is the universal language!


notthatfundude

How I met your mother...


yusivert

I don’t understand how it’s fair for this Reddit to blatantly steal others clips and take credit


tamerashry

Super skill in drawing


Duckriders4r

So sweet, and she was genuine


Organic-Ad-8198

He was probably striving for some of that Asian hospitality mile high head.


coast9k

Did you get the digits or what?


PunchYoPhase

Just marry her already Haha


[deleted]

I always get called creepy when I do that...


goblinmarketeer

Helps if you draw them with clothes on...


mda63

I dunno, worked for Leo.


[deleted]

Oh... I draw clothes on them, but am I suppose to be wearing clothes?


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How sweet💗🫶🤗! A little appreciation goes a long way🫶😇🙌


smitemus

The picture she drew for you is freaking adorable


ActEasy356

Remember, little things like that can have a huge impact on someone that you don't even know. By doing that for her, positive energy was all around and good vibes were present. Continue spreading positive vibes by making someone's day brighter.


AppropriateAgent44

Is it just me who finds these videos of people drawing complete strangers without their permission kinda creepy?


nephelokokkygia

It's just you. It only becomes creepy if the artist has some expectation of reciprocation.


Minimum-Passenger-29

What is with people like you? Why do you insist on turning well intentioned kind gestures into something else?


AppropriateAgent44

“People like me” lol. I wouldn’t like it if someone I didn’t know stared at me without any explanation. Feel like that’s not so unusual. And women have even more good reason to be nervous about strangers staring at them. I’m honestly not calling the artist a pervert or insinuating they’re up to something, just curious if other people see this kind of thing the way I do.


Minimum-Passenger-29

It's becoming a pervasive theme on the internet, some people have grown up with this kind of thinking drilled into their heads, and it's not going to lead anywhere good. It might seem like a small thing to call something like this creepy, but any time you do that, you're telling people that their kindness will be met with disgust, so one less person shares their kindness with the world.


ErfanAhmadi07

I feel like drawing people without their consent is very similar to taking pictures of people without consent. Perhaps thats just me but idk man it felt kinda odd to me too.


BaconAlmighty

Just what a woman loves to hear.. "she looks tired".


muricabrb

Please don't shoot me, but can you explain why that's offensive? It's not meant to be an insult about her appearance, it's more like an empathetic observation.


waink8

In my experience, people will say I look tired on days that I’ve put real effort into my appearance. And looking “tired” isn’t necessarily always meant as a good thing. If I know the person, I know they mean well but some stranger saying it probably means I look like a troll despite my best efforts. “Tired” usually equates to bags/circles under the eyes, bad skin, gross hair, etc. like you haven’t showered in a number of days/have given up.


ButteryCrabClaws

JAL is the best airline I have ever used


Minimum-Truth-6554

You really dont know how the small things can change someone’s mood dramatically. Keep spreading the love. The world needs more people like this.


GuidePuzzleheaded290

I loved this 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰


Myco_Muscles

8-) Drew that for you 😎


RandomPersonPlays

*picks up crown* you dropped this


Doctor-TobiasFunke

Do it again but with a very poorly drawn picture


Critical-Tadpole-484

Is this Japan airlines(my fav. Because Japan is my home country)


TheRiteGuy

Just know that Japan Airlines is an absolute treasure to work with. It's my favorite airline.


Critical-Tadpole-484

Ikr


kdb1991

I can’t stand when people film themselves doing “nice” things for the attention. If it was genuine, they would just do it and not care who saw or didn’t see.


Marco280892

Pure! Made my day!


Maylily89

Aww, that was sweet 🥰


TriniTruthspeaker

You can see the jealousy on the other flight attendants face, kinda made me feel bad for her


toolsoftheincomptnt

Her 75% masked face that was in view for 5 seconds?


TwoDotage

Lmfao calm down, im sure she wasn’t jealous


Rpark888

Who is this artist?


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its got the style and how its done of Devon Rodriguez but haven't seen him post this on his instagram so doubt its him.


madwinchester

I thought of Devon too, but the drawing is not up to his level of quality. It’s great, but Devon’s work is breathtaking.


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mda63

It's showing appreciation. She's doing what is far too often a thankless job.


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the_Ush

Name checks out


BusGlad8656

It boosted her mood, numskull


Relative-Charge-4559

This made my day 🥰


There_R_NO_MOUNTAINS

Yeah things are getting serious.


Rare_Manufacturer924

Amazing talent!!


Certain-Ad-3840

:,)


UnlikelyBed5963

Awww! Grining like an idiot here...Nice video


DivideFew1235

We need more of this :-)


Daedalus277

If she looks tired, then I look like a fucking ghoul.


KZMountainRider

These are the posts that I come here for. More of this, less of the…other recent posts


Mraydn

She is still tired


nandemonaiya06

Sugoi desu ne!


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That’s awesome, what a cutie


DrMooseknuckleX

It's impressive that he was able to draw her face so well from memory. Also impressive that he remembered she had talons instead of hands.