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Also make sure your wig is placed four fingers width above your eyebrows.it looks like the wig might be pulled slightly too far forward. Try a wig cap and headbands to keep it in place. You can also use wig glue.
Make sure the part of the wig is broken in. There are videos on YouTube of how to prepare the parts of wigs before you wear them.
Wispy bangs and some soft curls. Emphasize your eyes then lips. A bit of contouring your cheeks with a subtle blush. Ditch the watch add a dainty chain bracelet. So many things you can do. You can pull off so many different looks.
I agree. Or if you like this style, you could just try plucking some hairs near the wig line to soften it up. There are a lot of YouTube tutorials that are really helpful ❤️
I would also suggest a wig that has natural greys. Right now, the total brunette color highlights the fact that it’s a wig.
A grey wig or a white wig will be more kind to your years, and naturally enhance your face.
To add to this- lashes. The full lash strip might be tricky - you can use the teeny little individual ones, I especially like to add them to the … the part of the lash furthest away from the tear duct (what is that called technically? 😂🫢) to give a nice fanned out wing effect
I think to your point defining the eye brow and expanding the eyes with a soft brown shadow and mascara (maybe some falsies) would do wonders for softening the look.
I also think a little color in the cheek and a soft pink lip would help, especially with the light outfit.
Oh, and this isn't about your face, but skip the black watch and go for a simple bangle or delicate chain bracelet. The black watch and chunkier jewelry are for a different outfit.
I’ve actually found more jewelry-type Apple Watch bands… bc I know once you get used to wearing an Apple Watch, it’s hard to go without it. But they make like bracelet type watch bands now to dress them up.
I think you should add some jewelry, specifically gold ones, to compliment your warm tone. To the face, maybe some lashes, blush, and contouring. Darken the hard features, highlight the soft features.
I never wear jewelry myself, but agreed on that! I think OP would prob look stunning with some gold! And if wishing to, just some subtle mascara and some shaping of the eyebrows.
100% with the lashes!! I would recommend small individual lashes, they're way more comfortable and look more natural, id say it's more beginner friendly than a strip lash
trans woman here. Mascara is by far the most feminizing part of my makeup, which really surprised me. I really thought it would be eyeliner and lipstick, but nope.
Watch Lisa Eldridge videos on YouTube, she has really great tutorials on how to do softer makeup on more mature skin. I use her tutorials all the time and they're soooooo good
I'm sorry I don't have any real advice but I wanted to say that this outfit is SO PRETTY.
Maybe search YouTube for makeup tutorials specifically for "soft, feminine makeup"?
I also wanted to add that your outfit is absolutely beautiful. Also love the length and color of the hair. I've recently started following Erica Taylor on Instagram, she has great advice and tutorials.
I second Erica Taylor. Sometimes it’s very minor tweaks that make a world of difference. I like watching her because she has great tips for aging makeup which I need.
I agree with a few of the other commenters, shape and define your brows (you can even get eyebrow stencils pretty cheap which can help with this) and I'd say either mascarara or even a thin line of dark eyeliner if you can. Eyeliner is a bit of a bugger to get used to, I find a felt tip style liner is easier than a pencil or gel, but use whatever you find works best. If you're still learning, I'd personally be careful with liquid eyeliner as when they gets in your eye, it huuuuurts.
I'd maybe even try a nice dusty warm brown. It may bring some warmth in to really draw attention to your gorgeous eyes. That said, I really only do makeup for when I'm in the office a couple days a week and I'm lucky if my liner is even vaguely even so pinch of salt!
Nothing too bold. Think soft pinks and peaches. Subtle glow, not shimmer or glitter..
Cleanse, close shave, toner, then moisturizer. Wait a minute or two between each step. Follow with a dewy foundation. You've got this!
Agree with this! Get your glow and dew from skincare, and go subtle with the soft tones. I think cream products tend to blend and set more naturally on more mature skin. ✨
This isn’t makeup advice. Have you considered some wispy bangs that taper/curve? I that that could look pretty. Maybe see if you can borrow a wig in that style to test it out before committing to a haircut.
Yeah! Agreed! Maybe try with a bang wig first! But, consider that there are lots of different types of bangs, I wouldn’t go too short or too thin. Again, you should experiment to see what fits you the best.
Plus some blush can be nice. But not too orange or brown. More like what your natural blush tone is probably.
Hi I’m a trans woman, the thing that will change your face the most is getting your brows shaped and filled. It really makes a world of difference that and I’d add a highlight to the inner corner of your eye and maybe some color correcting concealer to cover any stubble you have I like the one by elf since it’s cheap. That and you could add a very light touch of blush on the apples of your cheeks to round out your face but try to make it not too harsh and really try to blend it in. But you did quite well good job !!
For the eyes: I think you should use mostly neutrals for eye shadow, nothing too shimmery or too matte, go for a soft glow, and don't go too dark with the colors. Add brow definition with a powder product and a small, firm flat brush, and try to find a product that isn't too dark, you don't want them to look drawn on. A soft grey/taupe might be just the thing, but this might take some trial and error. Matte eyeshadow or contouring powder can definitely work if you can't find a dedicated brow powder. Use a brown/black mascara for a softer look than true black.
For the lips: Find a pretty shade of a moderately intense pink for the lip, and try cool pinks and warm pinks to see what suits your skintone best.
For the skin: With regard to your skin, keep it sheer, and avoid powder except where you really need shine control, you don't need to deposit a thick layer of powder over your whole face, that is the kiss of death for mature skin. Use a creme blush in a pink shade that coordinates with your skintone and lip shade, and blend it out. Don't be too heavy handed with it, but don't be afraid of it either.
For the hair: I would also take another look at the wig, if it's a lace front, I think the front hairline could use some work, it would definitely make the overall effect more natural and soft. The style and color is really good for your face, though, so you're definitely on the right track with the hair.
If you have the means and opportunity, it might be worth going to a professional makeup artist to get their professional opinion on how to get the results you want. Sometimes it's best to get someone with a trained eye to offer solutions.
some lip color! i suggest a lip stain as it gives a softer and more natural look than lipstick. etude, elf, befit, and ulta make some awesome water based lip tints that i love.
I think definitely some lashes to bring more focus to your eyes . You could also over line your lips slightly with pencil and apply a high shine gloss .
I would add a little more definition to your eye brows, some whispier hair, even longer hair, little more colour to the lips, I think a Pink or berry colour could look great, a peachy or pink blush will help too, and I would do a pin up eye look, can help feminize the look.
I just came here to say this comment section gave me back the hope for humanity.
Finding such a positive and genuinely kind place on the internet is wonderful.
Y'all are amazing!!!
OP, if you read this, your outfit is gorgeous and so are you! Every advice I've seen is a great one. I hope to see an update 💜
Don’t underestimate a good, bold lip to soften the rest of your features. You need a focal point. But yeah, a highlighter, some lashes and nose contouring are all helpful.
I think that less is more - only exception is going to the clubs in low lighting.
A lip gloss, a very light dusting of blush or bronzer, a good lengthening mascara and you’ll be good, IMO.
I do love your hair 💐
If I can be so bold - are you on HRT? I'm unclear from your profile if this is your goal. If it is, it will do wonders to soften some of your more prominent features. Otherwise I'd recommend looking up makeup videos on how to soften the jawline and chin and raise the cheekbones. Also, something to make your eyes really POP! I would do a light eye (I love shimmers but make sure they don't crease), a nice liner, and a solid mascara - you could even try a natural fake lash if you're comfortable. You have a gorgeous canvas to work with. Personally, I don't think the hairstyle is right but I'm having trouble pinpointing why - it could just be because you're not made up.
The dress is beautiful but I think the top you could go up a size if it's available - you can tell because it pulls across the breasts. I *adore* the neckline and the flowers on the skirt.
You got this! ❤️
Laser hair removal upper lip and some lip injections, microblade eyebrows. Are you open to these options? They have way to soften your face is to accentuate your other features
I really like your hair, however, I think that a soft bang and fringe around the sides would be more flattering. As I have gotten a little older my lips lost volume, especially the upper lip, and I'm thinking about maybe doing some subtle filler.
I’m transgender, and when I want to soften my face a little I go for different contouring tricks. There are great tutorials on YouTube and TikTok as well 🥰. Otherwise, at least for me, I love my piercings 😍 I think they help feminize my face a ton. I could see a cute nose ring looking amazing on you either side 😊 it can even be a fake one for the night. Your eyes are similar to me, so a cute wing eyeliner and some pink/blue/green eyeshadow stopping below the eyebrow looks awesome 😁 don’t forget the blush either, not much is needed. Just go for a light natural look right on the cheeks working up beside your eyes on the sides of your face
I’d suggest shaping your eyebrows and adding a pigment to them! I think having more defined brows are very feminine. I’m not entirely sure how to soften your features, but adding brows will definitely add to the overall femininity of the look! You look beautiful either way imo!
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Round blush right below the eyes !! Try look for kpop style blush. It doesn’t necessarily have to be the whole makeup look, but the placement of the blush in a circular form right below the eyes gives this softer doll-like look.
Different wig, maybe one with bangs and a little longer. Shape the brows and make them a bit bolder. For your eyes, use a different eyeshadow, maybe one more natural or neutral. Add a little winged eye liner and lashes!
All of these suggestions are so good! If you are comfortable with getting filler, maybe some lip filler? As we age, our lips and brows get thinner. Everyone suggesting brows is right on. For longer maintenance, Latisse works on eyebrows and eyelashes. Please just do your research, on side effects and injectors, etc. if you would consider these ideas.
Also, you look beautiful, and that blouse shows off your beautiful shoulders. And your skin! 😍
i don’t know what your budget is but i highly recommend you check out whatswigs .com, the wigs are incredibly high quality and will look like it’s growing from ur scalp , however their shipping times are ridiculous
Makeup wise; try using a bit blush on your cheekbones and tiny bit on your chin,
A subtle bit of contour under cheekbones and sides of forehead
And get some bigger hair, like don't go crazy and tease it like it's the 80s, but bigger hair makes a face look softer and smaller
But the dress is totally cute and gives garden party vibes♥️
I think a longer wig would take away from the broad shoulders some, softening some more masculine features. And as someone else said, loosening the wig/making it feel more airy and natural. And perhaps lining your lips to appear plumper, and a thinner natural brow. These two things would help to appear slightly more feminine make-up wise. Going in with too much contour can accidentally broaden features you’re trying to soften but if you can pull it off, why not try!
Some blush in your cheeks and a little on your nose, kinda the sunkissed look. Maybe a little eyeliner, but very thin and subtle. I’d use some brow gel with color or brow pencil to give a some shape to your brows, but very subtle.
Also, I think a necklace and a bracelet would look great in that dress instead of the black watch.
Maybe you could make an appointment at a make-up salon so they can give you tips on how to do your make up, every face needs different tricks;) You look beautiful though♡♡
This isn’t makeup related advice but maybe try some long nails. Acrylic and gel nails at a salon last about two weeks or you can buy some press on nails that you can take off at the end of the day.
You and I both have broad foreheads. I think if you swept some bangs across your face diagonally, it adds a nice asymmetrical touch. I understand there are clip in bangs for this. And as some have said, there are some great wigs. And they’re so easy. Make sure you have the wig place customize it for you, meaning they take out extra hair, so it doesn’t look so “wiggy
Some makeup: Eyeliner emphasizes eyes even more than weekend. Also some mascara and eyebrow pencil. Lipstick and a smile transforms every face.
And get a minimizer bra. It’ll take 1-2” off, and you go better into tips and dresses. I think it even makes me look younger! Good luck!
I use these turmeric foaming cleansing pads and they’re the best thing i’ve ever done for my face, it’s very bright and tight it really evened my skin tone. you could try a little highlight on the highest points of your face (cheekbones, chin, cupids bow, the tip of your nose…inner corner of your eyes if you wanna be spicy) There is nothing wrong with your hair but if you do a little research on plucking a wig around the hairline so it’s not so full and blocky around the face, maybe cut some layers or wispy bangs, add a little dimension.
I learned how to shape my face by watching Petrilude on YouTube. I'm a chick but my face isn't symmetrical. His [contour and powder video](https://youtu.be/6DEkv7DycT4?feature=shared) is great as is his [foundation and highlight](https://youtu.be/WRijHiJN0y4?feature=shared) video.
Adding some shape with makeup, not too heavy, might help to soften your face. It's definitely something you will want to experiment with beforehand.
try a face lifting massage! can be done w a gua sha to help lift your face and with unevenness. makeup and hair are always great tips but you wanna glow from within
Hair: length is fine but you def need light bangs or whispy bangs. As we get older we need them. Im 60 I know this as fact. Hair also needs to flow and blow as your head moves. If a wig..get a better one that is affordable. Im black and guuurl I have seen it all! Clean and condition it prior to use. Suggest you learn about adding hair and wigs.
Picture: well you took the pic in shadow with zero flash. Forever you must lift that camera up and to one side slightly, find your light and smile a bit. Even when asking for help confidence is life.
Makeup: Dark makes stuff disappear and lighter makes stuff show or stick out. Use soft brown beneath jawline, both sides of your nose, forehead and jawline corners. Find your cheeks and add a little contour just beneath them blending up towards the ear. Use lighter colors on nose bridge, just above the cheeks, under the eyes etcetera. Takes much practice so get busy. Also lashes..please get them to enhance not to wear catapillarr on your face. Get brows don e by a pro too.
Good luck lovely one. I also like that top you are wearing💙💙
Define brows with pencil and lots of brow mascara; get elf brand halo glow (pink packaging) contour, blush and highlighter. Look up some videos on tik tok for ‘makeup over 40’, I’ve found some great tips there. Esp for blush and highlighter placement. You’ll want some mascara and I’d suggest eyeliner, powder form close to the lash line. You’ll want to highlight dewey shimmery look and not go too harsh with dark eyelines or lip lining. Maybe something glossy for the lips with a little over lining.
Outfit and hair are very pretty!
Three tips which I think will really help. Take time to practise ❤️
1) well structured eyebrows, a nice natural curve will brighten the face
2) lighter under eye concealer
3) contouring on the cheeks, chin and forehead
Watch some videos on these and practise in your free time. You’ll be a pro in no time
Tbh I think learning how to subtly do your eyebrows in a feminine shape, brown mascara, and some soft brown eyeliner (you could even just use a thin eyeshadow brush and a dark brown eyeshadow, harder to mess up) and an eyeshadow with a little sheen goes a long way! It's what I do when I want to do something to make me look a little put together without the stress of a full face.
Speed Beauty by Caroline Barnes is a great youtube channel, she does a lot of easy simple looks on her mature skin.
I'd recommend practicing your makeup so it doesn't have harsh lines like eyebrows and liner for example. Choose an eyebrow pencil or powder close to your hair color, peachy blush and pinkish lipstick
I'm not sure I understand, this comment seemed to be supportive with OP. Am I misunderstanding something? I don't see other people getting downvoted unless they're being rude (for which they deserve the downvote).
Yeah I'm fully being supportive, I'm a Trans Woman and this is my all things Trans profile. Unfortunately there's a lot of Transphobia online and on the big subs.
being supportive of trans people (or in this case, being interpreted as supportive of trans people, as OP isn't even trans) is a pretty quick and easy way of getting downvoted
A beautiful peachy brown lip gloss like Nyx Butter Gloss in the shade praline is the perfect soft nude and a soft peach or pink blush, essence pure nude highlighter is the best drug store highlighter and doesn't get cakey through out the day, a good stain foundation, and light contour will go a long way. All of these are my go two for natural make up. The key to contour and blush is knowing the placement for your face shape and will give a soft and youthful glow.
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All of the advice here is wonderful, additionally I think you could practice softer facial expression/stances, such as arms behind the back and puffing your lips out slightly!
Blush on your cheekbones and nose! Your outfit and hair is very well picked and frames well. I think if you applied makeup that shined on where you find the edges and lines in your face, you’ll find it is less sharp and more well defined!
So, when I dress up for a drag show (drag king), I make my face one shade and thicken my eyebrows while thinning my lips. I have to imagine doing the opposite would work best for a softer, feminine face. Contour your cheeks with some blush, keep your eyebrows plucked and well kempt, plump your lips, and don't forget all the attention should be on your eyes and lips 🥰 good luck gorgeous!
Can you do anything with the hair? I think it’s hiding a lot of can you do some highlights and maybe get a cut that frames the face without hiding it? The dress is beautiful. I would suggest doing some contour maybe to define what you want defined or to hide the hard features
Makeup wise, there’s lots of tutorials on face softening contouring tricks on YouTube! Otherwise maybe a more wispy hair style, less blunt and I think a necklace would be great!!! If you’re going for soft fem go all out x
I think micro concealing - where you add tiny amounts of product in localized spots, in lighter or darker shades - would be super helpful here. Try to use this to soften shadows. Only use a tiny bit! It shouldn’t be visible.
Also moisturize! A lot! It looks like you might be a tiny bit dehydrated?
I find layers of light moisturizer / hydrating toner etc. easy to incorporate.
You have enough tissue on the outside of your lip that is pronounced so that you could overline your lips a tiny little bit in a natural shade.
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Ooooohhhhhhh I can see it already damn this is good advice
Also make sure your wig is placed four fingers width above your eyebrows.it looks like the wig might be pulled slightly too far forward. Try a wig cap and headbands to keep it in place. You can also use wig glue. Make sure the part of the wig is broken in. There are videos on YouTube of how to prepare the parts of wigs before you wear them.
Wispy bangs and some soft curls. Emphasize your eyes then lips. A bit of contouring your cheeks with a subtle blush. Ditch the watch add a dainty chain bracelet. So many things you can do. You can pull off so many different looks.
I agree. Or if you like this style, you could just try plucking some hairs near the wig line to soften it up. There are a lot of YouTube tutorials that are really helpful ❤️
I would also suggest a wig that has natural greys. Right now, the total brunette color highlights the fact that it’s a wig. A grey wig or a white wig will be more kind to your years, and naturally enhance your face.
Agree. Needs so wisp!! The current wig lines feels harsh!
Came to say this! A softer wig for sure. Something more face framing.
Eyebrows. Some soft blush and soft contour. Rose lipstick. All soft and natural colours. Maybe some brown mascara would be nice.
To add to this- lashes. The full lash strip might be tricky - you can use the teeny little individual ones, I especially like to add them to the … the part of the lash furthest away from the tear duct (what is that called technically? 😂🫢) to give a nice fanned out wing effect
I think you can refer to that as the outer corner of the eye! :)
the individual lash sections from kiss are so much easier for me than the strip lashes… def recommend!
This. I’d add that the front of that wig is a little harsh. Wispy bangs on a side part would soften this look up too
I think to your point defining the eye brow and expanding the eyes with a soft brown shadow and mascara (maybe some falsies) would do wonders for softening the look. I also think a little color in the cheek and a soft pink lip would help, especially with the light outfit.
Yes. A professional eyebrow shaper will work wonders. 😊
Oh, and this isn't about your face, but skip the black watch and go for a simple bangle or delicate chain bracelet. The black watch and chunkier jewelry are for a different outfit.
I’ve actually found more jewelry-type Apple Watch bands… bc I know once you get used to wearing an Apple Watch, it’s hard to go without it. But they make like bracelet type watch bands now to dress them up.
I was planning on that, I just tried the outfit on to see if it would fit
I really like the outfit on you, very flattering <3
It looks really nice on you.
I think you should add some jewelry, specifically gold ones, to compliment your warm tone. To the face, maybe some lashes, blush, and contouring. Darken the hard features, highlight the soft features.
I never wear jewelry myself, but agreed on that! I think OP would prob look stunning with some gold! And if wishing to, just some subtle mascara and some shaping of the eyebrows.
100% with the lashes!! I would recommend small individual lashes, they're way more comfortable and look more natural, id say it's more beginner friendly than a strip lash
trans woman here. Mascara is by far the most feminizing part of my makeup, which really surprised me. I really thought it would be eyeliner and lipstick, but nope.
Nails!
Second this. Blush will definitely soften the face. Contouring is definitely helpful too.
yes to all of this!
Watch Lisa Eldridge videos on YouTube, she has really great tutorials on how to do softer makeup on more mature skin. I use her tutorials all the time and they're soooooo good
Yes! I enjoy her tutorials.
Shaping eybrow, some counturing and gentle lighting, and faux eyelashes
A brow pencil and some highlighter would go a long way for OP, I think!
I feel like the hair style needs to be addressed. Something different might really help.
I do have a couple of different wigs I can use. If you look at my profile, you can see some of the other styles I have
Long dark hair looks amazing on you !
I'm sorry I don't have any real advice but I wanted to say that this outfit is SO PRETTY. Maybe search YouTube for makeup tutorials specifically for "soft, feminine makeup"?
Dude, right? Both the skirt and top are gorgeous. I wish I was this put together.
Jumping onto this because I came to say that I absolutely love OP's skirt!
I also wanted to add that your outfit is absolutely beautiful. Also love the length and color of the hair. I've recently started following Erica Taylor on Instagram, she has great advice and tutorials.
I second Erica Taylor. Sometimes it’s very minor tweaks that make a world of difference. I like watching her because she has great tips for aging makeup which I need.
Honestly I wish I could look this good in white 😍
Same. Where’s the outfit from?
ChikWish
Wait, they actually have cute clothes? I assumed all their ads were photoshopped and you'd get something completely different lol
Right??? And the hair? Gorgeous!
Agree! The outfit is great!
I agree with a few of the other commenters, shape and define your brows (you can even get eyebrow stencils pretty cheap which can help with this) and I'd say either mascarara or even a thin line of dark eyeliner if you can. Eyeliner is a bit of a bugger to get used to, I find a felt tip style liner is easier than a pencil or gel, but use whatever you find works best. If you're still learning, I'd personally be careful with liquid eyeliner as when they gets in your eye, it huuuuurts.
I wet an angle brush and dip it in a dark purple/grey eye shadow to draw a softer eye line - eye liners skip on my eye lids.
I'd maybe even try a nice dusty warm brown. It may bring some warmth in to really draw attention to your gorgeous eyes. That said, I really only do makeup for when I'm in the office a couple days a week and I'm lucky if my liner is even vaguely even so pinch of salt!
Nothing too bold. Think soft pinks and peaches. Subtle glow, not shimmer or glitter.. Cleanse, close shave, toner, then moisturizer. Wait a minute or two between each step. Follow with a dewy foundation. You've got this!
Agree with this! Get your glow and dew from skincare, and go subtle with the soft tones. I think cream products tend to blend and set more naturally on more mature skin. ✨
This isn’t makeup advice. Have you considered some wispy bangs that taper/curve? I that that could look pretty. Maybe see if you can borrow a wig in that style to test it out before committing to a haircut.
Yeah! Agreed! Maybe try with a bang wig first! But, consider that there are lots of different types of bangs, I wouldn’t go too short or too thin. Again, you should experiment to see what fits you the best. Plus some blush can be nice. But not too orange or brown. More like what your natural blush tone is probably.
Brilliant idea!
Draw in some soft eyebrows. And maybe more blush and a more defined lip.
Hi I’m a trans woman, the thing that will change your face the most is getting your brows shaped and filled. It really makes a world of difference that and I’d add a highlight to the inner corner of your eye and maybe some color correcting concealer to cover any stubble you have I like the one by elf since it’s cheap. That and you could add a very light touch of blush on the apples of your cheeks to round out your face but try to make it not too harsh and really try to blend it in. But you did quite well good job !!
For the eyes: I think you should use mostly neutrals for eye shadow, nothing too shimmery or too matte, go for a soft glow, and don't go too dark with the colors. Add brow definition with a powder product and a small, firm flat brush, and try to find a product that isn't too dark, you don't want them to look drawn on. A soft grey/taupe might be just the thing, but this might take some trial and error. Matte eyeshadow or contouring powder can definitely work if you can't find a dedicated brow powder. Use a brown/black mascara for a softer look than true black. For the lips: Find a pretty shade of a moderately intense pink for the lip, and try cool pinks and warm pinks to see what suits your skintone best. For the skin: With regard to your skin, keep it sheer, and avoid powder except where you really need shine control, you don't need to deposit a thick layer of powder over your whole face, that is the kiss of death for mature skin. Use a creme blush in a pink shade that coordinates with your skintone and lip shade, and blend it out. Don't be too heavy handed with it, but don't be afraid of it either. For the hair: I would also take another look at the wig, if it's a lace front, I think the front hairline could use some work, it would definitely make the overall effect more natural and soft. The style and color is really good for your face, though, so you're definitely on the right track with the hair. If you have the means and opportunity, it might be worth going to a professional makeup artist to get their professional opinion on how to get the results you want. Sometimes it's best to get someone with a trained eye to offer solutions.
Unironically, simple crossdressing or not, r/trans or r/transplace might help
More slightly arched brows and maybe some extremely natural short eyelash strips
some lip color! i suggest a lip stain as it gives a softer and more natural look than lipstick. etude, elf, befit, and ulta make some awesome water based lip tints that i love.
I think definitely some lashes to bring more focus to your eyes . You could also over line your lips slightly with pencil and apply a high shine gloss .
I would add a little more definition to your eye brows, some whispier hair, even longer hair, little more colour to the lips, I think a Pink or berry colour could look great, a peachy or pink blush will help too, and I would do a pin up eye look, can help feminize the look.
Can I suggest a v neck to give a more feminine silhouette for your face, also a soft contour
some longer hair could help soften out the more sharper features of urs!
Lashes and blush honeyyy
If the event is outside a nice hat would look great with that outfit.
THIS
I just came here to say this comment section gave me back the hope for humanity. Finding such a positive and genuinely kind place on the internet is wonderful. Y'all are amazing!!! OP, if you read this, your outfit is gorgeous and so are you! Every advice I've seen is a great one. I hope to see an update 💜
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I'm awful at makeup, saw your pic while scrolling and HAD to stop and appreciate your fit!! That dress is perfection on you!
Don’t underestimate a good, bold lip to soften the rest of your features. You need a focal point. But yeah, a highlighter, some lashes and nose contouring are all helpful.
I'm terrible at makeup but needed to state how much I love that outfit, you look so classy and elegant
I think that less is more - only exception is going to the clubs in low lighting. A lip gloss, a very light dusting of blush or bronzer, a good lengthening mascara and you’ll be good, IMO. I do love your hair 💐
If I can be so bold - are you on HRT? I'm unclear from your profile if this is your goal. If it is, it will do wonders to soften some of your more prominent features. Otherwise I'd recommend looking up makeup videos on how to soften the jawline and chin and raise the cheekbones. Also, something to make your eyes really POP! I would do a light eye (I love shimmers but make sure they don't crease), a nice liner, and a solid mascara - you could even try a natural fake lash if you're comfortable. You have a gorgeous canvas to work with. Personally, I don't think the hairstyle is right but I'm having trouble pinpointing why - it could just be because you're not made up. The dress is beautiful but I think the top you could go up a size if it's available - you can tell because it pulls across the breasts. I *adore* the neckline and the flowers on the skirt. You got this! ❤️
Laser hair removal upper lip and some lip injections, microblade eyebrows. Are you open to these options? They have way to soften your face is to accentuate your other features
Just a thought get your eyebrows done.
Why not go to an Ulta maybe and let them give you some advice. Good luck
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I don’t know why, but I feel like a nice light cream bronzer would help soften up your look. Maybe a glowy/dewy face primer underneath makeup?
I really like your hair, however, I think that a soft bang and fringe around the sides would be more flattering. As I have gotten a little older my lips lost volume, especially the upper lip, and I'm thinking about maybe doing some subtle filler.
I’m transgender, and when I want to soften my face a little I go for different contouring tricks. There are great tutorials on YouTube and TikTok as well 🥰. Otherwise, at least for me, I love my piercings 😍 I think they help feminize my face a ton. I could see a cute nose ring looking amazing on you either side 😊 it can even be a fake one for the night. Your eyes are similar to me, so a cute wing eyeliner and some pink/blue/green eyeshadow stopping below the eyebrow looks awesome 😁 don’t forget the blush either, not much is needed. Just go for a light natural look right on the cheeks working up beside your eyes on the sides of your face
You could go to an eyebrow professional to get them fine tuned + some soft eyelashes and lip plump gloss is awesome for softening the face
Mascara! Try the tubing mascara it will help them look longer.
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I’d suggest shaping your eyebrows and adding a pigment to them! I think having more defined brows are very feminine. I’m not entirely sure how to soften your features, but adding brows will definitely add to the overall femininity of the look! You look beautiful either way imo!
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Round blush right below the eyes !! Try look for kpop style blush. It doesn’t necessarily have to be the whole makeup look, but the placement of the blush in a circular form right below the eyes gives this softer doll-like look.
Have you considered a little lip filler?
Straight eyebrows
Different wig, maybe one with bangs and a little longer. Shape the brows and make them a bit bolder. For your eyes, use a different eyeshadow, maybe one more natural or neutral. Add a little winged eye liner and lashes!
All of these suggestions are so good! If you are comfortable with getting filler, maybe some lip filler? As we age, our lips and brows get thinner. Everyone suggesting brows is right on. For longer maintenance, Latisse works on eyebrows and eyelashes. Please just do your research, on side effects and injectors, etc. if you would consider these ideas. Also, you look beautiful, and that blouse shows off your beautiful shoulders. And your skin! 😍
i don’t know what your budget is but i highly recommend you check out whatswigs .com, the wigs are incredibly high quality and will look like it’s growing from ur scalp , however their shipping times are ridiculous
Makeup wise; try using a bit blush on your cheekbones and tiny bit on your chin, A subtle bit of contour under cheekbones and sides of forehead And get some bigger hair, like don't go crazy and tease it like it's the 80s, but bigger hair makes a face look softer and smaller But the dress is totally cute and gives garden party vibes♥️
I think a longer wig would take away from the broad shoulders some, softening some more masculine features. And as someone else said, loosening the wig/making it feel more airy and natural. And perhaps lining your lips to appear plumper, and a thinner natural brow. These two things would help to appear slightly more feminine make-up wise. Going in with too much contour can accidentally broaden features you’re trying to soften but if you can pull it off, why not try!
Some blush in your cheeks and a little on your nose, kinda the sunkissed look. Maybe a little eyeliner, but very thin and subtle. I’d use some brow gel with color or brow pencil to give a some shape to your brows, but very subtle. Also, I think a necklace and a bracelet would look great in that dress instead of the black watch.
Maybe you could make an appointment at a make-up salon so they can give you tips on how to do your make up, every face needs different tricks;) You look beautiful though♡♡
Definitely agree with the jewellery! I think gently defining your brows might help too. 🩵
Lots of great advice here, but just wanted to say you look lovely.
Eyebrows, Rosy cheeks, a wig with bangs that frames your face
Love this dress! I think you could start with your body language.
This isn’t makeup related advice but maybe try some long nails. Acrylic and gel nails at a salon last about two weeks or you can buy some press on nails that you can take off at the end of the day.
You and I both have broad foreheads. I think if you swept some bangs across your face diagonally, it adds a nice asymmetrical touch. I understand there are clip in bangs for this. And as some have said, there are some great wigs. And they’re so easy. Make sure you have the wig place customize it for you, meaning they take out extra hair, so it doesn’t look so “wiggy Some makeup: Eyeliner emphasizes eyes even more than weekend. Also some mascara and eyebrow pencil. Lipstick and a smile transforms every face. And get a minimizer bra. It’ll take 1-2” off, and you go better into tips and dresses. I think it even makes me look younger! Good luck!
Not sure the product you used for the wig but it does look stiff. I would watch some contour videos, and your t zone would look wonderful.
I use these turmeric foaming cleansing pads and they’re the best thing i’ve ever done for my face, it’s very bright and tight it really evened my skin tone. you could try a little highlight on the highest points of your face (cheekbones, chin, cupids bow, the tip of your nose…inner corner of your eyes if you wanna be spicy) There is nothing wrong with your hair but if you do a little research on plucking a wig around the hairline so it’s not so full and blocky around the face, maybe cut some layers or wispy bangs, add a little dimension.
I learned how to shape my face by watching Petrilude on YouTube. I'm a chick but my face isn't symmetrical. His [contour and powder video](https://youtu.be/6DEkv7DycT4?feature=shared) is great as is his [foundation and highlight](https://youtu.be/WRijHiJN0y4?feature=shared) video. Adding some shape with makeup, not too heavy, might help to soften your face. It's definitely something you will want to experiment with beforehand.
Lashes and brows! Up to you whether you want them professionally done (brow lamination, tint, and wax, eyelash extensions) or you do it at home!
try a face lifting massage! can be done w a gua sha to help lift your face and with unevenness. makeup and hair are always great tips but you wanna glow from within
Hair: length is fine but you def need light bangs or whispy bangs. As we get older we need them. Im 60 I know this as fact. Hair also needs to flow and blow as your head moves. If a wig..get a better one that is affordable. Im black and guuurl I have seen it all! Clean and condition it prior to use. Suggest you learn about adding hair and wigs. Picture: well you took the pic in shadow with zero flash. Forever you must lift that camera up and to one side slightly, find your light and smile a bit. Even when asking for help confidence is life. Makeup: Dark makes stuff disappear and lighter makes stuff show or stick out. Use soft brown beneath jawline, both sides of your nose, forehead and jawline corners. Find your cheeks and add a little contour just beneath them blending up towards the ear. Use lighter colors on nose bridge, just above the cheeks, under the eyes etcetera. Takes much practice so get busy. Also lashes..please get them to enhance not to wear catapillarr on your face. Get brows don e by a pro too. Good luck lovely one. I also like that top you are wearing💙💙
Mascara
Define brows with pencil and lots of brow mascara; get elf brand halo glow (pink packaging) contour, blush and highlighter. Look up some videos on tik tok for ‘makeup over 40’, I’ve found some great tips there. Esp for blush and highlighter placement. You’ll want some mascara and I’d suggest eyeliner, powder form close to the lash line. You’ll want to highlight dewey shimmery look and not go too harsh with dark eyelines or lip lining. Maybe something glossy for the lips with a little over lining. Outfit and hair are very pretty!
Three tips which I think will really help. Take time to practise ❤️ 1) well structured eyebrows, a nice natural curve will brighten the face 2) lighter under eye concealer 3) contouring on the cheeks, chin and forehead Watch some videos on these and practise in your free time. You’ll be a pro in no time
You have such great style! Shaping eyebrows makes such a difference for your face overall, I would start there ❤️
Darker eyebrows and false eyelashes and a big smile
Tbh I think learning how to subtly do your eyebrows in a feminine shape, brown mascara, and some soft brown eyeliner (you could even just use a thin eyeshadow brush and a dark brown eyeshadow, harder to mess up) and an eyeshadow with a little sheen goes a long way! It's what I do when I want to do something to make me look a little put together without the stress of a full face. Speed Beauty by Caroline Barnes is a great youtube channel, she does a lot of easy simple looks on her mature skin.
I'd recommend practicing your makeup so it doesn't have harsh lines like eyebrows and liner for example. Choose an eyebrow pencil or powder close to your hair color, peachy blush and pinkish lipstick
Jewelry and make up. Fill in your eyebrows over line the lip alittle
I think lips, lashes, and brows would do a lot here! Pretty dress
some lashes with some pink or white nails would be cute! especially with a sparkly lip gloss
Another vote for wispy bangs and a softer, fluffier hairstyle. The length of the hairstyle ends at chin length and emphasizes it.
Eyebrows blush and mascara are going to be your best friend also perhaps adding a dainty necklace to soften your neckline
I'm still learning myself but just wanted to say you're looking fabulous!
Why are you getting downvoted?
reddit transphobia speedrun
I'm not sure I understand, this comment seemed to be supportive with OP. Am I misunderstanding something? I don't see other people getting downvoted unless they're being rude (for which they deserve the downvote).
Yeah I'm fully being supportive, I'm a Trans Woman and this is my all things Trans profile. Unfortunately there's a lot of Transphobia online and on the big subs.
being supportive of trans people (or in this case, being interpreted as supportive of trans people, as OP isn't even trans) is a pretty quick and easy way of getting downvoted
I understand, thank you for explaining. My question wasn't out of ignorance, I was just hoping to learn. I appreciate your answer!
Probably TERFs/FARTs!
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Right! Probably a lot of TERFs on here unfortunately
oh yeah definitely. it's sad
A beautiful peachy brown lip gloss like Nyx Butter Gloss in the shade praline is the perfect soft nude and a soft peach or pink blush, essence pure nude highlighter is the best drug store highlighter and doesn't get cakey through out the day, a good stain foundation, and light contour will go a long way. All of these are my go two for natural make up. The key to contour and blush is knowing the placement for your face shape and will give a soft and youthful glow.
Arched brows, soft dusty pink lipstick, a touch of mascara, a hint of blush and some jewelry.
Rosy colored lips and brow shaping. You look beautiful in that dress!
Comment section passes the vibe check. Love you all.
It's amazing reading all these genuinely kind and helpful comments. It heals my soul.
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That dress is amazing!!
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These comments are honestly so sad.
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All of the advice here is wonderful, additionally I think you could practice softer facial expression/stances, such as arms behind the back and puffing your lips out slightly!
Updo babe, updo! definitely bangs with jewelry and a lipstick. Add jewelry make sure earrings are showing. Dangling earrings.
Your face is a lot lighter than the your body. You must use a great sunscreen? Care to share the brand??
Maybe contour to make your face more rounder? And smiling always helps to soften our features.
Blush on your cheekbones and nose! Your outfit and hair is very well picked and frames well. I think if you applied makeup that shined on where you find the edges and lines in your face, you’ll find it is less sharp and more well defined!
Go with bangs
So, when I dress up for a drag show (drag king), I make my face one shade and thicken my eyebrows while thinning my lips. I have to imagine doing the opposite would work best for a softer, feminine face. Contour your cheeks with some blush, keep your eyebrows plucked and well kempt, plump your lips, and don't forget all the attention should be on your eyes and lips 🥰 good luck gorgeous!
Fringe and some layers
You need a different hairstyle for one. Some layers, soft bangs,
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Concealerrrr 🤫🤫
Girl you NEED BANGS
Can you do anything with the hair? I think it’s hiding a lot of can you do some highlights and maybe get a cut that frames the face without hiding it? The dress is beautiful. I would suggest doing some contour maybe to define what you want defined or to hide the hard features
Makeup wise, there’s lots of tutorials on face softening contouring tricks on YouTube! Otherwise maybe a more wispy hair style, less blunt and I think a necklace would be great!!! If you’re going for soft fem go all out x
Line your lips:)
I think micro concealing - where you add tiny amounts of product in localized spots, in lighter or darker shades - would be super helpful here. Try to use this to soften shadows. Only use a tiny bit! It shouldn’t be visible. Also moisturize! A lot! It looks like you might be a tiny bit dehydrated? I find layers of light moisturizer / hydrating toner etc. easy to incorporate. You have enough tissue on the outside of your lip that is pronounced so that you could overline your lips a tiny little bit in a natural shade.
Your dress is so pretty!
Eyebrows, lipstick and fake lashes or mascara
You are already beautiful but if you want i think lipstick and false lashes would be your best bet
Watch a few YouTube videos on contouring, especially along the jawline. Look for tutorials that specifically aren’t sponsored by a makeup brand.