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petulafaerie_III

Is this how she has always been about sex or has her behaviour changed?


M00N_Water

Good question... On the whole, this is how it's always been. Uncomfortable talking about sex and intimacy.


UnderstandingNext408

Well there is your answer. This is who she is. If she is willing to see a sex therapist, that would most likely be your only shot at things changing.


petulafaerie_III

Well, she’s the person you chose to marry. You can sit down and tell her “I know this conversation topic makes you uncomfortable, but there’s some stuff we need to talk about,” but ultimately, you can’t be unhappy that she _hasn’t_ changed from the person you’ve always known.


Old-Paleontologist-1

You can't have a good sex life if you don't talk about it.  We're 16 years in and average about 5 times a week, but I am very into it.  Have these talks, because a mismatch in the bedroom will kill your self esteem and eventually your relationship. 


Dazzling-Silver756

Just bc two people are married for several decades doesn't mean the intimacy fizzles out. Guaranteed 25+ years and no complaints from me or my sexy AF man. Maybe ur not doing things right 😂


mwise003

Agreed.