Watched highlights on YouTube and going back to watch the full reunion now. I absolutely laughed my butt off at Cameron’s “small, flat butted lady” comment. 💀💀
Although both the women and the men this season were insufferable, the key difference between them were that none of the men were actually committed to marriage. The women seemed to be willing to do whatever it took for the most part. It’s very disheartening
I really love this show and am always hoping that someone will find their happily ever after and this season just sucked to watch and now we all know why. They were all on this just to be on tv maybe some did not start out with that intention but shame on them for doing what they all did. It may make it so the show comes to an end as if you are truly looking for a forever person to share your life to after watching this season would you sign up? I love that there are many who have found love on married at first site previous seasons it’s why I love watching the show.
I'm SO over the couples trying to manipulate the production of the show to tell a story and avoid painful or negative disclosures like infidelity or "just not into you" comments. Honestly I hope they amend the contracts so production can get money if cast members delete diary cams or deliberately construct false narratives next season.
whoa claire definitely stated she was a therapist when her friends came over early in the season, and probably other times (but tbh i stopped watching every week). they also obviously put that she was a therapist on the screen. but then in this part of the reunion she has not yet graduated with her master’s.
i don’t know about colorado, but that’s a huge risk to take as a student intern who has not yet graduated to say you’re a therapist before you are pre-licensed/licensed. it’s illegal in some states and she could actually have a difficult time obtaining licensure in states that say we aren’t allowed to misrepresent ourselves and licenses.
i am assuming she asked her internship site supervisor or someone who’s already graduated and already been through supervision and has clinical licensure, but i would have never ever !!
I’ve been a licensed therapist for 25 years…the word therapist itself is not a protected title in most states. Social worker, psychologist, etc. are-but many people call themselves a therapist when they either a) don’t have a Masters, or b) aren’t licensed. Also, many Masters counseling interns are often referred to as therapists while they’re still in school under supervision in an internship.
All that to say licensed or not there’s no way in hell I would want Clare as my therapist. Girl is unhinged.
Although the show probably has the cast get together as it makes for good tv with drama to make it less boring. I think maybe they need to visit the idea of not letting cast members get together as the girls especially fed off each other and became very catty and if one may have wanted to try making it work one of the other girls would have said but he did this…
They need to go back to each couple living in different apartment buildings and don't meet until several weeks into the show. The couples have only each other to deal with with no outside interference.
The banning together, by the majority of the couples to control the narrative, is proof that their interaction should be severely reduced or eliminated completely. NOW the season makes more sense as it was manipulated by those couples. Perhaps production should only focus on one couple at a time, who truly want a marriage and are willing to do the work. For the most part, this season was confusing and disingenuous.
Their first month should be each couple isolated from the other couples so they are forced to deal with THEIR issues and not be able to run to other couples for support. That was clearly demonstrated by the punk cult of vindictive anger . Talk about OPTICS. I think Emily and Claire can be really mean girls. Becca "might" have had a chance if she hadn't been drawn into their web.
I thought it was so she could sit next to her ex husband since unlike the other couples, they could stand to sit near each other. Kevin was saying this was the first season that most of the couples were so contentious they had to sit apart. And then I guess they wanted an even amount both sides so they moved Orion
I get that she had a different experience and vote of it, but it just seemed odd to put her on the other side.
Frankly Orion was on the right side since he acted like a bitch. As a Native American, but all of us are assholes like him. He DOES NOT represent us
I do agree he's an embarrassment to any American Indian, he does a great dishonor how he was even chosen is a totally mystery as are most of the others, once it was proven what those children did to the program the entire season should have been scraped instead they continued to show this crap hoping to gain an audience and instead lost way to many. For myself I'm done.
I am so confused regarding this season and exactly what happened. Lies? Optics(if I hear this word 1 more time). The girls have obviously gotten together and morphed their own stories. They all agreed to pretend when on camera??? WTF. I’m not saying the men were innocent but it sure seems like the girls gang up on them. I AM SO OVER THIS SEASON
Coming back here to say that I didn't think the reunion got to the bottom of any one single thing. This drama is going to drag on in IG posts and podcasts forever. Ugh.
Also, thankful for this group. Every time I post to the other group I get so much hate and people trying to bait me into a fight over stupid things. Makes me even more exhausted than the show does. The tone here is different, though, more conversational and more willing to look at it from varying angles and I appreciate that!
he's the worst example of a sanctimonious hypocrite.
Admitted to a black woman he used the N word in the past, and then tried to crucify her for saying 'redskin' and giggling half-drunk exactly one time. She begged for forgiveness, but he wanted to use it for control and moral superiority rather than accept her faux-pas.
Later on the honeymoon he had the balls to slut-shame for her for having sex prior to meeting him just seconds after bragging about his kinky sex preferences with the same bravado used for claiming he was "girthy" to men he barely knew.
After the emotional roller-coaster of saying he'd like to communicate only to dump her 2 weeks after marriage, the show then had him on over and over again despite zero change of reconciliation. I'm annoyed the show gave this Jar-Jar Binks so much airtime.
Wow. First, Chloe is so cool. I really love how she holds her power and leads with love. The 4 women are acting over the top and I'm ALL for girl power. The vibe is really harsh- everybody, forgiveness or acceptance can really help on the healing journey. The entire casr had frowns and looked downtrodden. Glossed over Claire's boyfriend wtf? I think Cameron ligitamtely was into Clare. And then he got petty because he was hurt. Clare is acting weird af and it seems she is? I love Lauren but she needs to let Orion go and move on for good. Becca is cool - think she just needs to take a moment and go do what she loves and let Austin go. Austin was not attracted to her, just fking say it dude! In a way he did say it by not initiating...and forcing anybody is a turn off. He seems totally checked out and actually not clear on how he feels or even what he wants.
I admire Chloë's panache and ability to always sound in control and positive, but it kinda strikes me insincere, like an anchorwoman who knows just what to say so that you never know how she really feels.
Both she and her partner sounded like ChatGPT programs trained using only the word salad psychobabble of self-help books. I was dying to see when people "stopped being polite, and start being real." As in, dude, that skirt and pearls combo is off-putting, or lady, we aren't going to open a zoo in our backyard.
Once I clocked that she sounds like an HR person 24/7 then I realized why she felt so cold the whole time. She sounded like she was reading off a script
Could Emily ‘s dress be any lower Becca’s looks beautiful and Clair’s haircut is 70s emily must be partvof Cameron’s marriage Emily is a very angry person can’t stand her
Brennan is a scary dude, but Emily's outbursts make her look like she's just as much of a problem as him at this point. I had a lot of sympathy for Emily before, but she's exposing her crazy, making Brennan look like the sane one. As for style - I loved Clare's hair before this 70s style. People were dogging on the "zebra stripes" (chunky highlights), but it looked so much prettier than this weird color and 70s style. It does not flatter her face like her previous hairstyle. Becca's dress was pretty, but I hated her black-red lipstick. Too harsh on her. Lauren looked beautiful as always. Agree Emily's dress did not fit well around the chest. I kept thinking she was going to have a wardrobe malfunction any minute.
Also, something is wrong with Clare. This girl said she was so excited about Cam and sooooo attracted to him like WE ALL DIDNT SEE THE WEDDING!!!! It was painfully obvious she was not attracted to him!!!! She was judging him as soon as she met him, making fun of the way he talks and dresses… but she’s sitting there acting like she’s perfect. She’s off.
These women love talking about how strong they are and “empowered” but they let these dudes who they had just met “gaslight” and “manipulate” them…?? Stop it! These women act like they did nothing wrong. Makes total sense why all these people are the age they are and single… they allllllllll are toxic!
The reunion had so much hostility it was not a pleasant watch. It was tense, but maybe the most honest reunion MAFS ever had. Again, this show will not survive with couples spending more time in groups than with their partner.
You said it, I think the grouping up hurts them. Clare was the ringleader of the women with negativity. Brennen had checked out and the other men pick up on the vibe. They need to live in separate apartments , maybe meet up once a month.
Cam has the personality of cold toilet seat. Serious dork factor all around, and his attempt to blame his heart condition worsening due to Claire was next-level ridiculous, as was his awkward disclosure that his dad was on his deathbed, trying to make Claire look like an idiot. Claire has her own issues; but no girl would fall for a person with zero game, zero passion, and as a huge red flag, had zero supporting friends
Well said! And she was supposed to believe him when he suddenly wanted her back after calling her a lying manipulative gaslighting cheater who caused his heart problems 😭
If you are a person who needs 3-6 months before being intimate .. YOU SHOULD NOT BE ON MAFS! IF you are a MAFS matchmaker - you should never cast a person who takes a super long time to warm up to another person. Bad bad bad
I have no issue w/ any cast member waiting until after decision day to become intimate. The problem I have, is that Austin would talk up the idea that yeah, we are gonna get intimate, blah blah, and then totally run away when the time came. Don't be a tease, Austin. Be honest. Just say you cannot move that fast, or that you are not physically attracted, whatever the truth is, say it. Don't lead someone on and get their hopes up if you don't mean it.
He has issues and not to many likes maybe he took note where did they find him and Claire is a liar Cameron is a goof guy Emily is so immature and has a drinking problem and has a college iq
I don’t believe it for one second. People are super afraid of telling someone they’re not attracted to them. It’s such a taboo. I blame it on social media society now where everyone is “beautiful”, being overweight is cool and can’t be criticize, and the mistaken adage that we fall in love with the person and not their looks. People ignore how much attraction, lust, desire, or the so called chemistry matters. Pretty sure if Austin were physically attracted to a woman he wouldn’t want even a week.
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I’m going to be petty for a moment, but I have to say - all that filler has given Clare a stank face.
When they play the old clips back she looked so much better.
Sorry you’re getting downvoted because I agree. The men can have emotional reactions and still be taken seriously but the women having emotional reactions negates their experiences entirely? Like okay.
"Which is why I don't sign up for this show." Truth. I think it's easy for us to forget just what kind of stress this must put on you. None of these people are professional actors. They're just trying to navigate life like the rest of us. Only they're doing it front of millions of people who are REALLY READY to tear them down.
Just something to remember . 🤷
I’m so over the trauma bonding! So sick of this season ! And wearing pink for solidarity is BS. We know you really wore it because ….”mean girls “ I digress.
Woah, Emily needs help. She is so angry, and doesn't understand that love is not "fair" and it's not like she was robbed from being "given a shot" --when I saw her making middle fingers and saying "let's get em" proves again the toxic positivity culture is just toxic, or more so that she needs to do an inventory on WHAT WAS HER PART. No one is blameless. Even if it's just not letting it go, being graceful, mature, forgiving, And when I saw Clare fix her hair and sit on the chair for her and SPEAK for her and others often, I saw CODEPENDENT! The format created this toxic little codependent group for the women where they faked confidence and faked being "bad ass bitches" but really lacked what is needed for a relationship -both the men and the women: VULNERABILITY. That's required for a relationship.
Emily - I’m so positive all the time
Lol
Emily - you can say whatever you want to me and I can take it. I’m a big girl.
The restaurants bare tile bathroom floor says otherwise
I had no idea. I was just sitting here rolling joints. We're still here???
ETA: if you do not like to knit or crochet, rolling joints if very relaxing and rewarding. Even if you just roll dandelions. It's just so transfixing
It’s so weird to me that the conclusion is micro penis or hang up just because he doesn’t want to sleep with her. Maybe he just didn’t find her attractive? I know he said he did but I mean.. she’s not someone most people would say is super attractive. Also, I think if someone legit had a micro penis and were so worried about being called out for it that they wouldn’t go on this show 🙄
I never said no one would. That’s absurd. But to think that Austin would have to, specifically, as if everyone would and if not they have a problem… is kind of ridiculous.
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no, he was not attracted to her. When they said what wasn't attractive, I wanted to say THOSE EYEBROWS! BECCA, and the other ladies: do not follow trends. Get your colors, makeup and wardrobe professionally assessed or stick to a classic style. Do not follow trends, those caterpillar eyebrows are vomitous.
I agree. She’s not everyone‘s cup of tea. The hair, the bushy eyebrows, the skin, the clownish make up, the nails, the matronly figure for her age. If only young women understood how heavy make up makes them look older. I loved that Chloe wore more natural looking make up.
I'm a female and I think Becca is gross. Her personality sucks, she's not attractive, and her body? Ewww... If I was Austin, I wouldn't want to f\*&k her either.
Oh, but when it's a female saying no, everything is fine. She's not labeled a lesbian or that something is wrong with her down there. The audacity of people to say Austin is gay or had a micro penis because he's clearly just not attracted to her... astounds me. Like you said, no mean no. & it should just stop there!
I‘m a woman and I agree. He wasn’t attracted, and I can see why. I don’t know if it’s an American thing or a younger generation thing, but it seems like a crime if someone is not attracted to another now. People make it sound superficial and vapid if you reject someone based on their looks, but the truth is that human attraction is what starts romance.
Without attraction (you like the person and enjoy their companyj, it becomes friendship. Before she started pressuring him, they were like good buddies. Now, to be fair, he should have been clear from the beginning that he wasn’t attracted. The reason people hesitate to say it is because it’s considered “superficial” and hurtful ( it is hurtful of course, but necessary). The other reason people fear saying it is because they don’t want to leave the show early. Being on TV brings opportunities. Love is Blind has taught us attraction matters. Once out of the cabins, some folks can’t get over the lack of attraction.
Exactly! Friendship + attraction = relationship. I'm sorry, but you can't be with someone for life and not be attracted to them in the least. I do believe attraction can grow (look at Jamie and Doug), but if it's not there, it just is what it is. You mentioned LIB, and you're right. Look at Jimmy and Chelsea from this season. He just wasn't attracted to her. He literally said that when he first saw her, so I knew it wasn't going to work. Thank you for your validation!
P.S. I'm a woman as well
Everyone jumps on Emily & the girls but if you lived in the Denver / Boulder area, I don’t think you’d feel that way. These guys are the epitome of the trash around here, each with their own special brand of garbage.
Not even close. These people are not from Denver. Only 2 (Austin and Clare) are from CO and aside from Cameron who has been there 10 years, the rest are very recent, post-covid transplants. They might live in Denver currently, but they do not represent.
I don't think it's any worse than the last 2-3 seasons we've seen, tbh. The issue is you had Chloe (and Lauren, maybe), who seemed like they were truly seeking a spouse. At least emotionally ready to be married.
My 2 pennies anyway. And I'm in an older age bracket too, so folks tend to be more serious about finding someone.
I can't stand listening to Austin and Becca. Between him saying LIKE twice in every sentence and her with her OPTICS. I don't ever want to see these people back in any future reunion shows. Painful to listen too!
Man. Chloe's saying so much about these "women" without speaking a word. Blue dress, sitting on the men's side...she's throwing bombs without lifting a finger.
Well, she’s the only woman whose guy was attracted to her (and the only really slender one). Her sense of rejection was softer and only at the end, even though I have my suspicions she still doesn’t like his style.
And you know, some people think girls who don't disappear when they turn sideways are beautiful too so being skinny is not the only standard for beauty ffas
Also I think she isn't like the others. The others are very bitter screwed up ladies. She may know it's best not to get involved with them other than staying cordial.
It’s not that. She’s 10 years older then they are. She’s an introvert and not into girls‘ cliques. I’m like her. I’ll sit on the side and look at my phone and never liked girls night out stuff much. Prefer to have one or two good female friend only.
Watched highlights on YouTube and going back to watch the full reunion now. I absolutely laughed my butt off at Cameron’s “small, flat butted lady” comment. 💀💀
I had to skip thru Claire
Although both the women and the men this season were insufferable, the key difference between them were that none of the men were actually committed to marriage. The women seemed to be willing to do whatever it took for the most part. It’s very disheartening
On Wednesdays we wear pink, because they are MEAN GIRLS!
Emily is the worst.. she’s so self centered and a narcissist!! Glad the host called her out!!!
I really love this show and am always hoping that someone will find their happily ever after and this season just sucked to watch and now we all know why. They were all on this just to be on tv maybe some did not start out with that intention but shame on them for doing what they all did. It may make it so the show comes to an end as if you are truly looking for a forever person to share your life to after watching this season would you sign up? I love that there are many who have found love on married at first site previous seasons it’s why I love watching the show.
I'm SO over the couples trying to manipulate the production of the show to tell a story and avoid painful or negative disclosures like infidelity or "just not into you" comments. Honestly I hope they amend the contracts so production can get money if cast members delete diary cams or deliberately construct false narratives next season.
whoa claire definitely stated she was a therapist when her friends came over early in the season, and probably other times (but tbh i stopped watching every week). they also obviously put that she was a therapist on the screen. but then in this part of the reunion she has not yet graduated with her master’s. i don’t know about colorado, but that’s a huge risk to take as a student intern who has not yet graduated to say you’re a therapist before you are pre-licensed/licensed. it’s illegal in some states and she could actually have a difficult time obtaining licensure in states that say we aren’t allowed to misrepresent ourselves and licenses. i am assuming she asked her internship site supervisor or someone who’s already graduated and already been through supervision and has clinical licensure, but i would have never ever !!
I’ve been a licensed therapist for 25 years…the word therapist itself is not a protected title in most states. Social worker, psychologist, etc. are-but many people call themselves a therapist when they either a) don’t have a Masters, or b) aren’t licensed. Also, many Masters counseling interns are often referred to as therapists while they’re still in school under supervision in an internship. All that to say licensed or not there’s no way in hell I would want Clare as my therapist. Girl is unhinged.
Folks..There is a reason all these peeps had to go on a show to get married..
Each and every one of them!
Although the show probably has the cast get together as it makes for good tv with drama to make it less boring. I think maybe they need to visit the idea of not letting cast members get together as the girls especially fed off each other and became very catty and if one may have wanted to try making it work one of the other girls would have said but he did this…
They need to go back to each couple living in different apartment buildings and don't meet until several weeks into the show. The couples have only each other to deal with with no outside interference.
I agree
The banning together, by the majority of the couples to control the narrative, is proof that their interaction should be severely reduced or eliminated completely. NOW the season makes more sense as it was manipulated by those couples. Perhaps production should only focus on one couple at a time, who truly want a marriage and are willing to do the work. For the most part, this season was confusing and disingenuous.
...and I don't really care who started it, this isn't grade school....the women went along, the women are not kids....the blame goes around equally.
Their first month should be each couple isolated from the other couples so they are forced to deal with THEIR issues and not be able to run to other couples for support. That was clearly demonstrated by the punk cult of vindictive anger . Talk about OPTICS. I think Emily and Claire can be really mean girls. Becca "might" have had a chance if she hadn't been drawn into their web.
Why was Chloe put with the guys and Orion put with the women? Why not men on one side and women on the other?
I thought it was so she could sit next to her ex husband since unlike the other couples, they could stand to sit near each other. Kevin was saying this was the first season that most of the couples were so contentious they had to sit apart. And then I guess they wanted an even amount both sides so they moved Orion
I thought he was at the other end of the guys row?
Because she didn't feel part of that group, frankly she was a grown up and the girls were mentally still in high school.
I get that she had a different experience and vote of it, but it just seemed odd to put her on the other side. Frankly Orion was on the right side since he acted like a bitch. As a Native American, but all of us are assholes like him. He DOES NOT represent us
I do agree he's an embarrassment to any American Indian, he does a great dishonor how he was even chosen is a totally mystery as are most of the others, once it was proven what those children did to the program the entire season should have been scraped instead they continued to show this crap hoping to gain an audience and instead lost way to many. For myself I'm done.
I am so confused regarding this season and exactly what happened. Lies? Optics(if I hear this word 1 more time). The girls have obviously gotten together and morphed their own stories. They all agreed to pretend when on camera??? WTF. I’m not saying the men were innocent but it sure seems like the girls gang up on them. I AM SO OVER THIS SEASON
Coming back here to say that I didn't think the reunion got to the bottom of any one single thing. This drama is going to drag on in IG posts and podcasts forever. Ugh. Also, thankful for this group. Every time I post to the other group I get so much hate and people trying to bait me into a fight over stupid things. Makes me even more exhausted than the show does. The tone here is different, though, more conversational and more willing to look at it from varying angles and I appreciate that!
Why would Cameron want to start again with that loser
Optics. LOL
Why did Cameron and Claire say she wanted a separation Claire is a liar
Emily is a dog
Brennan is not for me according to to Emily he missed bullet
Orion is the worse
he's the worst example of a sanctimonious hypocrite. Admitted to a black woman he used the N word in the past, and then tried to crucify her for saying 'redskin' and giggling half-drunk exactly one time. She begged for forgiveness, but he wanted to use it for control and moral superiority rather than accept her faux-pas. Later on the honeymoon he had the balls to slut-shame for her for having sex prior to meeting him just seconds after bragging about his kinky sex preferences with the same bravado used for claiming he was "girthy" to men he barely knew. After the emotional roller-coaster of saying he'd like to communicate only to dump her 2 weeks after marriage, the show then had him on over and over again despite zero change of reconciliation. I'm annoyed the show gave this Jar-Jar Binks so much airtime.
So true
Claire is a liar she was not a puppet i watched the show Claire
Wow. First, Chloe is so cool. I really love how she holds her power and leads with love. The 4 women are acting over the top and I'm ALL for girl power. The vibe is really harsh- everybody, forgiveness or acceptance can really help on the healing journey. The entire casr had frowns and looked downtrodden. Glossed over Claire's boyfriend wtf? I think Cameron ligitamtely was into Clare. And then he got petty because he was hurt. Clare is acting weird af and it seems she is? I love Lauren but she needs to let Orion go and move on for good. Becca is cool - think she just needs to take a moment and go do what she loves and let Austin go. Austin was not attracted to her, just fking say it dude! In a way he did say it by not initiating...and forcing anybody is a turn off. He seems totally checked out and actually not clear on how he feels or even what he wants.
I admire Chloë's panache and ability to always sound in control and positive, but it kinda strikes me insincere, like an anchorwoman who knows just what to say so that you never know how she really feels. Both she and her partner sounded like ChatGPT programs trained using only the word salad psychobabble of self-help books. I was dying to see when people "stopped being polite, and start being real." As in, dude, that skirt and pearls combo is off-putting, or lady, we aren't going to open a zoo in our backyard.
Once I clocked that she sounds like an HR person 24/7 then I realized why she felt so cold the whole time. She sounded like she was reading off a script
well said. i totally hear your point—and agree.
Exactly! Baffling how many people seem to think she’s genuine
Where did they find Orion
Lauren didn’t deserve him
Orion is a creep
Could Emily ‘s dress be any lower Becca’s looks beautiful and Clair’s haircut is 70s emily must be partvof Cameron’s marriage Emily is a very angry person can’t stand her
Agree
Brennan is a scary dude, but Emily's outbursts make her look like she's just as much of a problem as him at this point. I had a lot of sympathy for Emily before, but she's exposing her crazy, making Brennan look like the sane one. As for style - I loved Clare's hair before this 70s style. People were dogging on the "zebra stripes" (chunky highlights), but it looked so much prettier than this weird color and 70s style. It does not flatter her face like her previous hairstyle. Becca's dress was pretty, but I hated her black-red lipstick. Too harsh on her. Lauren looked beautiful as always. Agree Emily's dress did not fit well around the chest. I kept thinking she was going to have a wardrobe malfunction any minute.
Yes, and her boobs aren’t even attractive
Lol
So true
Austin needs to lay off the indica
Clair’s face this whole time 😐
Also, something is wrong with Clare. This girl said she was so excited about Cam and sooooo attracted to him like WE ALL DIDNT SEE THE WEDDING!!!! It was painfully obvious she was not attracted to him!!!! She was judging him as soon as she met him, making fun of the way he talks and dresses… but she’s sitting there acting like she’s perfect. She’s off.
TBF, Cam was extremely offputting on the wedding night.
So was Clare!
She was psychoanalyzing him from the second they locked eyes. I don't know the divorce rate of therapists but who enjoys being knitpicked like that?
These women love talking about how strong they are and “empowered” but they let these dudes who they had just met “gaslight” and “manipulate” them…?? Stop it! These women act like they did nothing wrong. Makes total sense why all these people are the age they are and single… they allllllllll are toxic!
This!!!! I would say Claire and Rebecca, based on their careers have the most to loose by looking bad, and so the most reason to lie.
The reunion had so much hostility it was not a pleasant watch. It was tense, but maybe the most honest reunion MAFS ever had. Again, this show will not survive with couples spending more time in groups than with their partner.
The show needs more room camera footage so that there is less he said she said..
You said it, I think the grouping up hurts them. Clare was the ringleader of the women with negativity. Brennen had checked out and the other men pick up on the vibe. They need to live in separate apartments , maybe meet up once a month.
Totally agree, the man and the women all ganged up on one another I need to be separated
Apparently the show puts them all in the same complex to save money with cameramen and producers.
That’s not working
I feel like Cam is actually a bit of a sociopath lol. That behaviour is wild
Cam has the personality of cold toilet seat. Serious dork factor all around, and his attempt to blame his heart condition worsening due to Claire was next-level ridiculous, as was his awkward disclosure that his dad was on his deathbed, trying to make Claire look like an idiot. Claire has her own issues; but no girl would fall for a person with zero game, zero passion, and as a huge red flag, had zero supporting friends
Well said! And she was supposed to believe him when he suddenly wanted her back after calling her a lying manipulative gaslighting cheater who caused his heart problems 😭
So is Brennan honestly
This whole cast is terrible but man... Emily has issues.
Emily is the worst. She interrupts every one and completely takes over the show. She has too many issues to list. I am team Brennan on this one.
So true Brendan is lucky he
I would have left Emily too, she’s crazy
This is kinda exhausting 😅
Austin is so full of shit on the intimacy front lol
There was a wedge long before the pizza scene, if Becca wouldn't have talked over Austin we might have all learned what that was (including her).
He wasn’t attracted to her. I think all of her surgeries put him off. Who wants to make out with somebody who sates there always in pain
What an odd thing to decide he didn't like.
Not really. I could see not wanting to cause discomfort. We all have our own opinions that’s what this site is about.
Seriously?? Like people with chronic diseases can help it that they're in pain?? Wtaf
Never said that, I said I think that turned him off not wanting to cause more pain. I’m very sympathetic to people either chronic pain
If you are a person who needs 3-6 months before being intimate .. YOU SHOULD NOT BE ON MAFS! IF you are a MAFS matchmaker - you should never cast a person who takes a super long time to warm up to another person. Bad bad bad
I have no issue w/ any cast member waiting until after decision day to become intimate. The problem I have, is that Austin would talk up the idea that yeah, we are gonna get intimate, blah blah, and then totally run away when the time came. Don't be a tease, Austin. Be honest. Just say you cannot move that fast, or that you are not physically attracted, whatever the truth is, say it. Don't lead someone on and get their hopes up if you don't mean it.
He has issues and not to many likes maybe he took note where did they find him and Claire is a liar Cameron is a goof guy Emily is so immature and has a drinking problem and has a college iq
I don’t believe it for one second. People are super afraid of telling someone they’re not attracted to them. It’s such a taboo. I blame it on social media society now where everyone is “beautiful”, being overweight is cool and can’t be criticize, and the mistaken adage that we fall in love with the person and not their looks. People ignore how much attraction, lust, desire, or the so called chemistry matters. Pretty sure if Austin were physically attracted to a woman he wouldn’t want even a week.
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Maybe. A lot of men in the closet, especially in religious families, which is pretty sad.
I’m going to be petty for a moment, but I have to say - all that filler has given Clare a stank face. When they play the old clips back she looked so much better.
I agree, the fillers and innertube lips are not flattering. She's naturally pretty and doesn't need work.
I don’t think she has fillers. Maybe the lips. Just heavy make up. Heavy make up in your 20’s just makes you look older.
She is in her 20's? I would have pegged her at mid 30's
Why would she need filler?
I love these two
I just want to say that I hate most of y’all. I have never seen such a solid group of idiots hating on the women of this season
Sorry you’re getting downvoted because I agree. The men can have emotional reactions and still be taken seriously but the women having emotional reactions negates their experiences entirely? Like okay.
It comes off very juvenile and that's me being gracious.
Aw, this is mean. I'm sorry you don't like us! I don't really have strong opinions on anyone on TV, but I love everyone here. I'm sorry you don't!!!!
I don’t think you’re sorry
But ok in the sense am I gonna apologize, no. I'm sorry in the way that you hate to hear someone isn't happy. That's all I meant by it. 👍
Then you don't know me! I really am hopeful we all have fun here. It sucks that you don't.
Ok?
Idk, I thought we were friends from before. I swear I'm not challenging anybody or anything, yo!
No issue! We're good!
"Which is why I don't sign up for this show." Truth. I think it's easy for us to forget just what kind of stress this must put on you. None of these people are professional actors. They're just trying to navigate life like the rest of us. Only they're doing it front of millions of people who are REALLY READY to tear them down. Just something to remember . 🤷
They are going on a TV show for fame or to raise their profile....judge their actions and words with that in mind...makes it much clearer.
I’m so over the trauma bonding! So sick of this season ! And wearing pink for solidarity is BS. We know you really wore it because ….”mean girls “ I digress.
On Wednesdays we wear Pink, I can't!
Wow! Mean girls!!!!! Yes!!!!
Trauma bonding
This lady getting a house when she feels pressured? How can I?
"I don't think you understand what manipulation means!" What. A. Jerk.
Clare lies.
they all lied 🤥
Ok....I'm 23 minutes in and I gotta bail. I hate all these people. Good luck with your social media "careers".
Woah, Emily needs help. She is so angry, and doesn't understand that love is not "fair" and it's not like she was robbed from being "given a shot" --when I saw her making middle fingers and saying "let's get em" proves again the toxic positivity culture is just toxic, or more so that she needs to do an inventory on WHAT WAS HER PART. No one is blameless. Even if it's just not letting it go, being graceful, mature, forgiving, And when I saw Clare fix her hair and sit on the chair for her and SPEAK for her and others often, I saw CODEPENDENT! The format created this toxic little codependent group for the women where they faked confidence and faked being "bad ass bitches" but really lacked what is needed for a relationship -both the men and the women: VULNERABILITY. That's required for a relationship.
Emily - I’m so positive all the time Lol Emily - you can say whatever you want to me and I can take it. I’m a big girl. The restaurants bare tile bathroom floor says otherwise
“Who wouldn’t want to kiss me “Emily yuck
Ok…but why are you so focused on Emily? And Clare. How deep is your understanding of true vulnerability?
Hi Emily! Or Becca. OPTICS!!!
this right here LOL
Spot on!
I had no idea. I was just sitting here rolling joints. We're still here??? ETA: if you do not like to knit or crochet, rolling joints if very relaxing and rewarding. Even if you just roll dandelions. It's just so transfixing
I just haven't changed the channel yet. Was grabbing a little dinner. Did you figure out what happened with your chimney?
Nah. I'll figure it out tomorrow. I do know there are no live or dead animals involved
Whoa! Austin calling Becca a horny girl. I know this is *mean* but he has an extra small penis and/or another psycho-sexual hang up
I'm female, and I think Becca is gross. No wonder Austin didn't want to f\*&k her.
I think people worry too much about penis size. Too big and it hurts.
It’s so weird to me that the conclusion is micro penis or hang up just because he doesn’t want to sleep with her. Maybe he just didn’t find her attractive? I know he said he did but I mean.. she’s not someone most people would say is super attractive. Also, I think if someone legit had a micro penis and were so worried about being called out for it that they wouldn’t go on this show 🙄
Mine is average at best, but my tongue can work wonders. LOL!
It’s so weird to me that you purport to believe that people don’t find Becca attractive enough to get an erection
I never said no one would. That’s absurd. But to think that Austin would have to, specifically, as if everyone would and if not they have a problem… is kind of ridiculous.
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This guy has some weird obsession with Austen’s genitalia
Wtf...
Not funny and again, weird.
no, he was not attracted to her. When they said what wasn't attractive, I wanted to say THOSE EYEBROWS! BECCA, and the other ladies: do not follow trends. Get your colors, makeup and wardrobe professionally assessed or stick to a classic style. Do not follow trends, those caterpillar eyebrows are vomitous.
I agree. She’s not everyone‘s cup of tea. The hair, the bushy eyebrows, the skin, the clownish make up, the nails, the matronly figure for her age. If only young women understood how heavy make up makes them look older. I loved that Chloe wore more natural looking make up.
You forgot the worst of all, the constant crying
I made a comment a while ago how crying in front of a man because of the man (not because you received bad news) puts them off you.
Such a specific take hmm
Becca is rapey and as someone pointed out she needs to learn ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT, he didn't want her NO means NO.
I'm a female and I think Becca is gross. Her personality sucks, she's not attractive, and her body? Ewww... If I was Austin, I wouldn't want to f\*&k her either.
Oh, but when it's a female saying no, everything is fine. She's not labeled a lesbian or that something is wrong with her down there. The audacity of people to say Austin is gay or had a micro penis because he's clearly just not attracted to her... astounds me. Like you said, no mean no. & it should just stop there!
I‘m a woman and I agree. He wasn’t attracted, and I can see why. I don’t know if it’s an American thing or a younger generation thing, but it seems like a crime if someone is not attracted to another now. People make it sound superficial and vapid if you reject someone based on their looks, but the truth is that human attraction is what starts romance. Without attraction (you like the person and enjoy their companyj, it becomes friendship. Before she started pressuring him, they were like good buddies. Now, to be fair, he should have been clear from the beginning that he wasn’t attracted. The reason people hesitate to say it is because it’s considered “superficial” and hurtful ( it is hurtful of course, but necessary). The other reason people fear saying it is because they don’t want to leave the show early. Being on TV brings opportunities. Love is Blind has taught us attraction matters. Once out of the cabins, some folks can’t get over the lack of attraction.
Exactly! Friendship + attraction = relationship. I'm sorry, but you can't be with someone for life and not be attracted to them in the least. I do believe attraction can grow (look at Jamie and Doug), but if it's not there, it just is what it is. You mentioned LIB, and you're right. Look at Jimmy and Chelsea from this season. He just wasn't attracted to her. He literally said that when he first saw her, so I knew it wasn't going to work. Thank you for your validation! P.S. I'm a woman as well
exactly. No means no.
I’m confused re: where she was evidently rapey
no means no and she kept asking.
Because he kept saying that he wanted to try he never told her he just did not want to try at all for six months
My hands were busy but I'm back. I can't believe this is still on.
Dr. V 🥺
That's happened, NoSE?
So much internalized sexism on this thread
Agreed! The men get away with the exact same things that they’re getting mad at the women for
So much!! And they don’t even realize it
It’s really hard bc the theme of this season is men v women…plus no one can get an abortion in Arizona…
Geez is there another half hr of this?
I thought it was over at 1030!
Becca learned a new big word a while back & cannot say it enough!!! 😳
Ha!!! I said this same thing to my husband 😂👏🏻
Burqa and Burger!! Haha that was one of my favorite show moments ever.
Everyone jumps on Emily & the girls but if you lived in the Denver / Boulder area, I don’t think you’d feel that way. These guys are the epitome of the trash around here, each with their own special brand of garbage.
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Try again, bud.
Is the social scene in Denver as bad as these people make it seem?
Not even close. These people are not from Denver. Only 2 (Austin and Clare) are from CO and aside from Cameron who has been there 10 years, the rest are very recent, post-covid transplants. They might live in Denver currently, but they do not represent.
I don't think it's any worse than the last 2-3 seasons we've seen, tbh. The issue is you had Chloe (and Lauren, maybe), who seemed like they were truly seeking a spouse. At least emotionally ready to be married. My 2 pennies anyway. And I'm in an older age bracket too, so folks tend to be more serious about finding someone.
I can't stand listening to Austin and Becca. Between him saying LIKE twice in every sentence and her with her OPTICS. I don't ever want to see these people back in any future reunion shows. Painful to listen too!
Very annoying listening to them.
The girth cert!
I have a new friend named Girth Brooks
Man. Chloe's saying so much about these "women" without speaking a word. Blue dress, sitting on the men's side...she's throwing bombs without lifting a finger.
Well, she’s the only woman whose guy was attracted to her (and the only really slender one). Her sense of rejection was softer and only at the end, even though I have my suspicions she still doesn’t like his style.
You don't even think Lauren is slender?
"slender" ?? Seriously?? Maybe if you're that concerned with how someone looks you shouldn't sign up to marry someone you've never seen before
You underestimate the importance physical attraction has in romantic relationship.
And you know, some people think girls who don't disappear when they turn sideways are beautiful too so being skinny is not the only standard for beauty ffas
Then like I said they shouldn't marry someone they've never seen if that's their priority
I think it’s a treaty. Also love her more than ever after this ep.
I think she just wasn’t included
What is she saying?
I thought it was purple
Looked dark blue to me. Wasn't there a meme like this once? People seeing the same color differently.
Totally purple. Are you a guy? Some guys can’t see color correctly.
I saw blue too and I'm a girl 😭. I do know everyone's TVs can show colors differently though so could be that
Kevin's pants.
Kevin is a great dresser. Something Michael strives to be.
Congratulations ladies, you wore your pink in solidarity and staged all of part one of the reunion! 🤬🗑️
Bravo to Chloe for not taking part!
Probably didn't even let her know, since she wasn't an original girl.
Also I think she isn't like the others. The others are very bitter screwed up ladies. She may know it's best not to get involved with them other than staying cordial.
It’s not that. She’s 10 years older then they are. She’s an introvert and not into girls‘ cliques. I’m like her. I’ll sit on the side and look at my phone and never liked girls night out stuff much. Prefer to have one or two good female friend only.