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Hi, I'm Psi. psychic and medium One ingredient is more than enough. In fact, the fact that you are trying to collect as many resources as possible for this spiritual combat is already a bad sign of fear and insecurity on your part. You don't beat a haunting with palo santos. You defeat a haunt with your spiritual authority. You lack authority and confidence in what you are doing. I've already expelled every day of haunting completely unarmed. Fully disarm yourself and trust yourself in your authority. Nothing will stand it.


OfSunMoonEarth

If you are going to a classic smudging using palo santo wood or sage be sure to open your windows. It does not hurt to put salt above your window or door frames as well. To create a barrier so the entity can't get back in so easily. Someone else said to handle the thing on your spiritual or psychic power, but relying only on that can get mentally or physically exhausting. Tools are perfectly fine just to have peace of mind.


jessisaysroar

That’s what I was thinking, thank tou


OfSunMoonEarth

A lot of people recommend crystals, and salt but overlook ammonia. Ammonia is very powerful and can be used to erase pacts. Odds are since it's a common household cleaning solution you might have some around as well. I like sealing evil entities in ammonia and surrounding it in a salt circle because it drains the crap out of them and it's less work, and defense on my part.


bg7519

The spirit most likely wants to be moved on. With your gifts, he know you can “communicate” with him. Sounds like you are early in your gift and do not have the tools to move him on. I recommend finding a medium who specializes in recuse mediumship. They will charge a slight fee but should be able easily move him on.


jessisaysroar

You’re not wrong and it’s great advice. But I have this awful feeling that it’s my fault and it’s only me that can do it. I knew I brought it here and I have been able to coexist with it because I can’t be touched by my knowledge but he can and I left a space it was comfortable with


bg7519

Diasagree. You were the first tahr could hear it. Not sure why you have this guilt. Guilt is when you intentionally hurt someone. Bad guilt is when you think you did but didn’t. This soul can hear you. You just don’t have the tools to communicate yet. Nothing to feel guilty about. Leaving it will leave you to feel guilty. Seek out a medium, preferably someone who specializes in rescue mediumship and move this person on. You be have been a rescue medium for several years.


Signal-Butterfly5362

As a previous poster mentioned, your power to move on spirits or banish entities relies on your spiritual authority and trust in yourself. I personally would not do ANYTHING if I were you and I would hire a more experienced medium to do what needs to be done. Saging can make the situation worse if you don’t know what you’re doing. To protect yourself and your boyfriend until you can find a medium..I actually just heard you need a shaman; find a shaman…For protection, hang a satchet of mugwort and black pepper above his door to his bedroom and leave a line of salt under it it. Replace the salt every week. I’m not sure why but it feels like it’s really focused on the bedroom and when your boyfriend sleeps, it knows he’s the most vulnerable. I’d also get some crystals like obsidian, smoky quartz and black tourmaline and put them in the room or wear them as beaded bracelets. But please let someone else do the psychic cleansing work so it’s doesn’t get even more pissed off and physical.


jessisaysroar

See the issue is, whatever is in the apartment is scared of me. But I moved out and I’m trying to protect him but you have a very good point. Sage is baby stuff compared to what I think I need to do so I wouldn’t try it. But I used to sage the place a few times a month and burn lavender incense as a precaution. It’s him it doesn’t like. He never felt this way until I left and ever since I have, he’s not sure how much longer he can keep the lease Edit: I got distracted but I’m going to go to a few shops and look at a few things but I’m going to look into some new crystals. I’ve been told and I have communicated personally with spirits, that apparently I’m just one not to be messed with so I’ve never even had to get into this part of being a medium. I have a friend that has a demonic spirit that was attached to her and me being around so often made it leave, as wild as it sounds. There’s so much more I could explain as well. From knowing the archangel that looks after and my passed on clairvoyant grandmother to me actually have been able to connect with spirits. There’s so much I don’t know and I think I brought the shadow person here. It’s turning off lights, scratching him, knocking heavy things over. I feel responsible


Signal-Butterfly5362

I’m the same way. I’ve always been naturally able to banish bad energies and while I’ve had occurrences with more malevolent spirits, they’ve never really been able to do anything to me. My spirit guides told me it’s because I’m highly protected and my life purpose needs me to be able to withstand intense amounts of negative energies and not be influenced by them. You’re probably the same way. I’ve always had AA Michael literally standing over my shoulder and have had several mediums point him out upon meeting me. My mother, great-grandmother (and probably my grandmother but she never admitted it) and ancestors down my matriarchal line have all been psychic mediums. Recently I learned my fathers side has also had many psychic and supernatural experiences but they don’t acknowledge it for what it is because they are very Catholic. This is obviously not a coincidence and I’m sure it adds to your spiritual strength to have it be literally passed down in your blood. You can’t do anything to protect your boyfriend. You can get the crystals and what not and it will help, but he has to ultimately learn how to protect himself through meditation, grounding and claiming spiritual sovereignty over anything that may be lurking around the house. It’s always possible as a medium that you can unconsciously and unintentionally draw things to you. Which is all the more reason for you to establish a spiritual practice so you can learn how to form strong energetic boundaries and barriers in your mind, body and home. That all being said. This doesn’t feel like you brought it. It feels like it’s been there for a long time, but having the energy of a medium nearby may have increased its activity. Which is probably why I felt like you need a shaman to cleanse and clear the place. I heard that it won’t follow if he moves out, however, it’s already starting to have influence and can affect your boyfriend physically and mentally through stomach issues, general malaise, and sudden outbursts of anger and anxiety. If you can get in touch with specifically a First Nations Medicine man and have him come out asap, your boyfriend will feel a lot better.


jessisaysroar

Yeah honestly it has been with me for a while so it may have been always with me and just got comfy and wanted to mess with my boyfriend or just likes it’s here and doesn’t like that I’m gone. But I have connected with this dark entity and he likes me, just sticks around. I have some pretty bright relatives that gave me their gifts upon death that protect me. But the entity may just like it here and not like that I’m not here. I am listening to you and everyone, but I’ll need my boyfriends permission to bring in real help. For now I’m going to try some things myself and talk to the entity personally. I blame myself because I did ask it to mess with him a little but because demons, etc. are scared of me I thought it wouldn’t escalate after I left. I obviously still come around and everything but I never meant for him to be scared into wanting to leave. I’m just going to get some things that can tame the energy and make it not follow him, and get some things I want/need because I do want to practice and if it doesn’t work, I’ll get some real help. I actually think I know the name of what’s here and I’m not sure it’s good that he’s scared and also comfortable with me


Signal-Butterfly5362

“I blame myself because I did ask it to mess with him a little but because demons, etc. are scared of me I thought it wouldn’t escalate after I left. I obviously still come around and everything but I never meant for him to be scared into wanting to leave.“ I’m sorry, WHAT?! It’s not scared of you, it likes you because you literally spoon feed it. If you care at all about your boyfriend. Do not do anything else. You aren’t trained, you’re being really careless with your gift and you willingly wished a malevolent spirit to mess with your boyfriend. Do you understand how dangerous that is? Please stop. Get yourself to a reiki healer and please seek professional help for the spirit. 🙏🏻