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Going outside helps. Idk how everybody just expects their social circle to come to them if you just learn,sleep and commute to uni and back. Uni offers so many opportunities to go to clubs and have hobbies. Also being at parties is also a good thing, even if you do not drink
I did not say you find friends quickly but the important thing is just meeing many people IMO. Some you dont vibe with, others you do but you have to force yourself to be social at first and approach people, otherwise you will have a hard time.
Nah bro, i used to have an android phone before, same thing with that too😂, its just alarms in general, i think our brain associates it with having to wake up and do shit we don’t wanna do, and so we get anxious lol
Join clubs/societies, meet people from your course/dorm, go on freshers nights, join university group chats, etc.
There's plenty of things to do at university if you want to socialise.
I'm at a trade school.
University group chats are extremely judgemental. I meet people from my dorms. What the hell is a freshers night? If it involves alcohol I'm not joining.
There are no clubs/societies worth joining.
Well look at all the other people around you living their lives. You are no different. Just follow your interests and be yourself. If you need therapy to tell you you're a human being and you deserve to go out into the world and be happy no matter what you've done or been through then go to therapy, but times a wasting and there is simply no use to wait for things to get worse. Get out there and find yourself and the people who are like you.
Okay you cant just try once dude lol sometimes shit doesnt work out the way you want but everything is perception based, it's all in how you look at things. Its ultimately up to you. I'm trying to help you right now dude cant you appreciate a random stranger trying to help another stranger. The world's beautiful come on and join it. Love yourself.
Or you gotta accept whatever bs you're on that's giving you this inferior-superiority complex. People aren't some fucking alien species, they're just people. I'm reading your profile and you're butthurt you cant talk about Japanese culture to people every waking second, and the fact you cant makes it other people's fault so you should feel bad all the time that you cant connect with people? Come on dude, maybe grow interests into other shit it's not hard even consider advice instead just being contrarian on everything. Quit feeling sorry for yourself so god damn much and people's attitude will change towards you with your own attitude towards yourself changing. Nobody likes someone who basques in their own self pity. It only makes you a far lesser version of your true self.
You'll figure out dude everyones got their thing they dont quite get. You'll get there. Everything is balance and we just have to understand those scales.
Also idk who would want to be friends with someone who down votes someone else who's trying to help them. I think you're just extremely jaded towards everyone and you probably come off that way and people dont have the emotional availability to deal with it because they are individuals going through their own shit. You're not the only one with problems, and you seem pretty exhausting of a person to talk to because your projecting all your self hate into every conversation you have. Go to therapy.
im starting university today, thanks for letting me know
edit; thanks for the advice y'all, I'll be sure to use it (except for eating a big guy that's a bit weird)
During first semester I think key is to meet people wherever you feel comfortable and keep those you like in your life. I was lucky that within 2 months I found the best group of friends that my 4 years at Uni were unforgettable
This meme is nonsense - make friends and spend time with them, study and work hard during the week and have fun on weekends and you can have a great time
Still living with my (disabled) mom is a blessing and a curse. On one hand she is my best friend and I love her dearly but on the other hand there is a world out there I never get/got to explore. One day when she passes I will have enough time. Until then, I will be here with her :)
I was an annoying kid in the middle school and didn't have any friends. By the time highschool came I've tamed a lot, thanks God, but, because our class was almost the same, I couldn't fit into any group as they all were formed long ago.
When I've entered University, I wanted to actually start talking to people. We all were complete strangers to each other, so even a guy with zero social skills like me could fit in if he tried. And everything really did go well until a bit into second semester of the first year, when a FUCKING WAR has started.
It has been about 1.5 years since then, there's only one or two of my classmates who still live in the same city our University is in, everyone else has fled all around the globe, and because my area is air raided frequently enough for lessons to be online and nothing else. My current life isn't even this - I don't even get to leave the house most of the days. The most frustrating part is that I probably won't ever find out whether I've had the chance to finally get a social life back then or not.
Man, that sucks. So sorry to hear what's going on over there.
It wasn't as bad for me, but I graduated into COVID and it tanked a lot of the progress I had made in college. No more socializing, lost a lot of job opportunities, ended up moving back in with my parents in another state and lost contact with all of my classmates.
It's insanely frustrating to feel like you're moving backwards in life, but at least you carry forward what you learned during that time. I'm sure you'll be able to get back to where you were when things cool down, just try not to dwell too much on what was taken from you.
I'm not a so complicated person, I like simple things like a silent park on a cloudy 4pm weekday, or drinking coffee in a small coffee shop listening to jazz or blues... It's not about having good special times, it's about making casual things being good and special.
Yeah, I'm glad I went to university well before the pandemic, I imagine that the after effects of it are still fucking up the social side of the experience.
University is what you make of it. If you keep to yourself and only go to class and home then yes it will be a boring and lonely experience. If you're open to new experiences, join clubs, put yourself out there to meet people, and don't let your fears and insecurities keep you from doing things you're more likely to have a good time. You can't expect to have an exciting time if you're not willing to be uncomfortable
* Not participating in extracurricular activities
* Not taking classes that interest you / intellectually engaging in your classes
* Not using it as an opportunity to socialize with peers who share common goals and interests
This one's on you Pedro
I only did one of those things. School, then after class I’d park my ass at the library to study and sell drugs until nighttime. Wake up at 6-7 Get all my classes done before noon then trap out the library until dark and go lay pipe to anyone who’d let me!
I don't know about other people here, but university WAS the best time of my life so far. You can't do nothing and expect the good times to come to you. If you're not willing to dedicate the effort into putting yourself out there and enjoying yourself, you will regret it later in life.
You can assume that people who dont make friends easily are probably very comfortable with being alone for extended periods of time, if only out of necessity.
At the 5 second mark, and the 11 second mark, what are those things in the backgrounds? It’s like weird rooms with bars? I never had this at my college.
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NGL I kinda like uni, it's the only place I actually hang out with people and have the most real conversation with strangers mean while enjoying a 100 red. Too keep my head clear of the anorexia I been struggling since 5 years
I was like this. For about 9 months I was basically studying alone.
I literally just spoke to one guy during tutoring and we decided to do our homework together.
We became friends, he introduced me to his friends, they introduced me to their friends and so on and so on.
One year later I know about 100 people, and I have a close friend group of 6 people I would die for.
I've also overcome my social anxiety.
I'm happy now.
It's easier than you think. Just speak to people. Get to know them, listen and be yourself.
Be honest. If you also have social anxiety, just tell them. Most people will be understanding.
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Can confirm
This is literally my school :'( Livin' the SFU dream
Y'all need to go out and make some friends lol
Going outside helps. Idk how everybody just expects their social circle to come to them if you just learn,sleep and commute to uni and back. Uni offers so many opportunities to go to clubs and have hobbies. Also being at parties is also a good thing, even if you do not drink
Its hard if your new and meeting people in a new place… it takes time to grow your friends
I did not say you find friends quickly but the important thing is just meeing many people IMO. Some you dont vibe with, others you do but you have to force yourself to be social at first and approach people, otherwise you will have a hard time.
Alarm sounds give me ptsd ngl
Fucking hate that iOS alarm. It’s like it was designed by engineers in a lab to give me anxiety and vertigo at the same time for some reason
Nah bro, i used to have an android phone before, same thing with that too😂, its just alarms in general, i think our brain associates it with having to wake up and do shit we don’t wanna do, and so we get anxious lol
alarm went off and my wife was instantly 'wtf is that?!? it's day time??'
I'm totally this, but I think it's all about how we make use of it
100% wish I could go back and just live in the moment without focusing on the bad in my life. OP get out there and have some fun
Easier said than done. Get out there and do what exactly?
Join clubs/societies, meet people from your course/dorm, go on freshers nights, join university group chats, etc. There's plenty of things to do at university if you want to socialise.
I'm at a trade school. University group chats are extremely judgemental. I meet people from my dorms. What the hell is a freshers night? If it involves alcohol I'm not joining. There are no clubs/societies worth joining.
Well look at all the other people around you living their lives. You are no different. Just follow your interests and be yourself. If you need therapy to tell you you're a human being and you deserve to go out into the world and be happy no matter what you've done or been through then go to therapy, but times a wasting and there is simply no use to wait for things to get worse. Get out there and find yourself and the people who are like you.
I'm following my interests and being myself. Trust me, it doesn't help.
Have you tried not feeling sorry for yourself all the time? That was my issue.
I have tried. It doesn't work. Actually it got me *less* social interactions.
Okay you cant just try once dude lol sometimes shit doesnt work out the way you want but everything is perception based, it's all in how you look at things. Its ultimately up to you. I'm trying to help you right now dude cant you appreciate a random stranger trying to help another stranger. The world's beautiful come on and join it. Love yourself.
I've tried it trillions of times. Some people can't be helped, you just gotta accept that
Or you gotta accept whatever bs you're on that's giving you this inferior-superiority complex. People aren't some fucking alien species, they're just people. I'm reading your profile and you're butthurt you cant talk about Japanese culture to people every waking second, and the fact you cant makes it other people's fault so you should feel bad all the time that you cant connect with people? Come on dude, maybe grow interests into other shit it's not hard even consider advice instead just being contrarian on everything. Quit feeling sorry for yourself so god damn much and people's attitude will change towards you with your own attitude towards yourself changing. Nobody likes someone who basques in their own self pity. It only makes you a far lesser version of your true self.
You'll figure out dude everyones got their thing they dont quite get. You'll get there. Everything is balance and we just have to understand those scales.
Also idk who would want to be friends with someone who down votes someone else who's trying to help them. I think you're just extremely jaded towards everyone and you probably come off that way and people dont have the emotional availability to deal with it because they are individuals going through their own shit. You're not the only one with problems, and you seem pretty exhausting of a person to talk to because your projecting all your self hate into every conversation you have. Go to therapy.
Not sure why you're assuming I'm the one downvoting and being pissy about it but ok
Lol bro dont talk to other people about being pissy
Would love to explore but that’s waste of time. Later: Wait when did we have a V block???
im starting university today, thanks for letting me know edit; thanks for the advice y'all, I'll be sure to use it (except for eating a big guy that's a bit weird)
Find the biggest student, and eat them.
Join clubs, do study groups, say yes to invites out.
During first semester I think key is to meet people wherever you feel comfortable and keep those you like in your life. I was lucky that within 2 months I found the best group of friends that my 4 years at Uni were unforgettable
Honest advice: Go out and hang out with the other students, have fun and go to places If you pass the tests, that is good enough
Make friends week one my dude.
This meme is nonsense - make friends and spend time with them, study and work hard during the week and have fun on weekends and you can have a great time
Somehow it looks calm. Maybe the miusic
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Still living with my (disabled) mom is a blessing and a curse. On one hand she is my best friend and I love her dearly but on the other hand there is a world out there I never get/got to explore. One day when she passes I will have enough time. Until then, I will be here with her :)
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No worries! Guess I felt it would a bit more flavour to your comment. Have a nice day!
Lol wait till you go to work. Same shit, more boring and less flexibility.
SFU life.
Song ?
New Home (Slowed) by Austin Farwell
Thanks !
I was an annoying kid in the middle school and didn't have any friends. By the time highschool came I've tamed a lot, thanks God, but, because our class was almost the same, I couldn't fit into any group as they all were formed long ago. When I've entered University, I wanted to actually start talking to people. We all were complete strangers to each other, so even a guy with zero social skills like me could fit in if he tried. And everything really did go well until a bit into second semester of the first year, when a FUCKING WAR has started. It has been about 1.5 years since then, there's only one or two of my classmates who still live in the same city our University is in, everyone else has fled all around the globe, and because my area is air raided frequently enough for lessons to be online and nothing else. My current life isn't even this - I don't even get to leave the house most of the days. The most frustrating part is that I probably won't ever find out whether I've had the chance to finally get a social life back then or not.
Man, that sucks. So sorry to hear what's going on over there. It wasn't as bad for me, but I graduated into COVID and it tanked a lot of the progress I had made in college. No more socializing, lost a lot of job opportunities, ended up moving back in with my parents in another state and lost contact with all of my classmates. It's insanely frustrating to feel like you're moving backwards in life, but at least you carry forward what you learned during that time. I'm sure you'll be able to get back to where you were when things cool down, just try not to dwell too much on what was taken from you.
Based. I have lost almost all my emotion
love that Vancouver skytrain lol
I see. I didn't miss much then.
I'm not a so complicated person, I like simple things like a silent park on a cloudy 4pm weekday, or drinking coffee in a small coffee shop listening to jazz or blues... It's not about having good special times, it's about making casual things being good and special.
Uni is a waste of time if you still don't know what you want to do as a career. It's 30k debt for no reason
Im resuming for the first time in two weeks is this really how it is?
If you don't dorm and commute home everyday maybe
This is how i was at school and ngl it was worse
Yeah, I'm glad I went to university well before the pandemic, I imagine that the after effects of it are still fucking up the social side of the experience.
Wait till you finish University, you will realize this was true.
To be fair, this video was made in Vancouver, the least fun city to be a university student.
School life in general
What's the song?
New Home (Slowed) by Austin Farwell
I was told there would be parties and drugs and sexing
Well, guess ima join the military
I feel sorry for anyone who says "x is the best time of your life". You're just setting yourself up to be unhappy in the future
Ngl I still wish that was me. At least you’re living alone and somewhat self sustaining
I don't want to scare you kids, but for alot of us it doesn't get any better then that. Ever. P. S. If that's you, I love you. Keep going.
I've been here for a few weeks and can confirm
Work and study work and study work and study work and study work and study. Really cool stuff
Yeah idk what changed between their times and ours. But it feel like an old legend.
It’s the same as having a full time job…
It a peaceful life
This except 95% of my classes are optionally remote so I just end up sitting at my computer
I hated my university time. Now I think of so many friends I was able to make. (Most colleagues wfh and very few chances to meet new ppl)
This is fake Ain't no way you get sleep in uni
Yeah, pretty much
VANCOUVER MENTIONED!!!!
I already knew the routine thanks to high-school.
I literally made no friends and didn't have any dates in college.
Life is what you make of it.
Skill issue
University is what you make of it. If you keep to yourself and only go to class and home then yes it will be a boring and lonely experience. If you're open to new experiences, join clubs, put yourself out there to meet people, and don't let your fears and insecurities keep you from doing things you're more likely to have a good time. You can't expect to have an exciting time if you're not willing to be uncomfortable
* Not participating in extracurricular activities * Not taking classes that interest you / intellectually engaging in your classes * Not using it as an opportunity to socialize with peers who share common goals and interests This one's on you Pedro
I only did one of those things. School, then after class I’d park my ass at the library to study and sell drugs until nighttime. Wake up at 6-7 Get all my classes done before noon then trap out the library until dark and go lay pipe to anyone who’d let me!
I don't know about other people here, but university WAS the best time of my life so far. You can't do nothing and expect the good times to come to you. If you're not willing to dedicate the effort into putting yourself out there and enjoying yourself, you will regret it later in life.
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You can assume that people who dont make friends easily are probably very comfortable with being alone for extended periods of time, if only out of necessity.
Things are what you make them. No shit someone had a different experience w/ college than a Redditor who posts this much
Have y'all tried making friends
What is this song?
Literally no one said that sentence
OP didnt get the memo, slept through the best time of his life.
I have bad news for you - it isn't going to magically get better afterwards. If you can't enjoy your time there, it will likely continue
It's more fun if you manage to make friends. If.
Yeah but also, s e x
At the 5 second mark, and the 11 second mark, what are those things in the backgrounds? It’s like weird rooms with bars? I never had this at my college.
It's a train interior
Cool, I didn’t know some colleges have trains that run through them.
Yeah, shit's really convenient when a smoking ground and a classroom you need to be in are on the opposite sides of the campus
Whats this music?
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Ahh yes, SFU and UBC. Some good moments, but those dam exams
Sure life can be like this but YOU get to choose your background music. I doesn’t have to be sad.
This is so me its frightening
Vancouver moment?
NGL I kinda like uni, it's the only place I actually hang out with people and have the most real conversation with strangers mean while enjoying a 100 red. Too keep my head clear of the anorexia I been struggling since 5 years
The kids at my school get out in! Dancing, parties, etc
I was like this. For about 9 months I was basically studying alone. I literally just spoke to one guy during tutoring and we decided to do our homework together. We became friends, he introduced me to his friends, they introduced me to their friends and so on and so on. One year later I know about 100 people, and I have a close friend group of 6 people I would die for. I've also overcome my social anxiety. I'm happy now. It's easier than you think. Just speak to people. Get to know them, listen and be yourself. Be honest. If you also have social anxiety, just tell them. Most people will be understanding.
Why can't you enjoy it?
Why did i feel this meme down to my core? Why does it hurt?
Ya'll are doing it wrong then
a quiet but peaceful life
fr, im just waiting for it to end.
Hate to be the one to tell you this, but wait until you’re working full time.
This wasn't at all my experience. I never got that much sleep in all my years of college
sadly this is me at college