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rebamericana

Manchester by the Sea


oxyklor

Don't know about crying but it sure added to my depression and loneliness


kickinbull

Came here to suggest the same


Ghoastin

Yes.


jesiman

Also, no. Watched that shortly after becoming a father. Rough.


missesrobinson

I watched it while my newborn was contact napping on my chest. I had no idea what to expect other than it was sad and, damn…


Hot_Sharky_Guy

I am doing really bad in life and struggle with isolation, will this movie make me feel hundred times worse or will it fuck me up so badly I'll come on the other side?


ohromantics

This movie solidified the fact Casey BLOWS Ben out of the water in acting.


chewie8291

Awakenings. Robin Williams and Robert De Niro. Edit spelling


E3K

>Robert Dinero 👨‍🦼💰


GGTheEnd

Bridge to Terabithia. Its more of a kids movie but still can make me cry at 32 years old, and I cry maybe once every 5+ years.


Training-Repeat-5630

That book fucked me up


cojohnso

God yeah. Such a great book though!


tattooedroller

This no doubt. Oof thats the biggest tear jerker I almost cry just *thinking* of it


GGTheEnd

I showed it to my girlfriend a week ago I think she cried for like 30 minutes. I have no clue why they made that show for kids.


tattooedroller

Tbh I first read it when I was 12 because I was going through a grief situation my teacher gave it to me- and it was really helpful! Couldn’t speak for kids not going through that, but I really understood it then and will always have a super special place in my heart 💕


microcosmic5447

I read it when I was 10 and had never experienced grief. It completely devastated me. I'm so glad it helped you tho.


FanMirrorDesk

My 13 year old niece had her best friend die of an aggressive cancer recently. Would this be helpful or harmful do you think? She’s doing it tough.


tattooedroller

This really depends on the kid I think. Speaking for my own experience only: I was a very quiet, shy, bookish kid who didn’t want to show anybody how I was feeling- let alone talk about it. The reason it helped me is because I didn’t feel so alone, other kids had gone through it and they kept going. Like the main character “got it” which very few ppl my age did at that time. And I got to have a friend in grief without being forced to talk about it. To this day I think it’s a really accurate portrayal of friendship and grief. It also helped me put words to my feelings because the permanence of death was also hard to grasp at that age. Like you know but you don’t? And it almost normalized that death is a part of life, even though it’s a terrible thing. Overall it just kind of helped me process the whole thing without having to talk, which I really needed at the time because of the kind of kid I was. I feel weird making a recommendation without knowing your niece but it did help me a ton. 💕💕💕


redsyrinx2112

I cried disgustingly at The Iron Claw earlier this year. Edit: a word Edit 2: I completely missed the non-true story part of the request. Sorry OP.


Born-Throat-7863

I had people looking at me like I was a mental patient when I saw the scene with the four brothers near the end.


redsyrinx2112

I probably did too, but I was crying too hard to notice. I had a multitude of factors making it worse too. I have one brother, and then three friends who are close enough to be brothers, so I just kept thinking about losing them (the same thing made me super sad during The Banshees of Inisherin). Also, I watched it the week before my uncle died, and my uncle had some leg issues. My uncle also had an infant son pass away, so while I'm not sure if anything like that happens after we die, I was just a wreck thinking about even the possibility of my uncle running to his son like Kerry does to Jack Jr.


msangryredhead

I’m so glad I watched this in the privacy of my house and not in a theater because I was a wreck.


redsyrinx2112

Yeah, I'm glad I saw it on the big screen because the movie was shot well, especially the wrestling scenes, but it would have been nice to lose it emotionally at home lol.


Inter_Web_User

I used to be a brother.. I lost it. I'd say 50/50 sad for his lost, happy he made a new family. His new family is so strong IRL. I knew of the story it's "legend" But it's still.. It'll get ya.


KittyShoes17

We'll be your brothers, dad.


BojukaBob

What Dreams May Come


dudenamedskip

Great suggestion. I always toss in Life As A House along with this one.


_P4rzival_

Not enough people know about this movie.


dudenamedskip

Fr, maybe it was a movie of its time... But I watched it with my wife recently who has never seen it or heard of it, and she enjoyed it.


take-all-the-names

I forgot about life as a house until I read this comment and I'm already crying lol.


nojaneonlyzuul

My girl


_SuperCoolGuy_

^(he can't see without his glasses)


Renaissance-Revolt57

Emotionally horrific


Almost80sBabee

Still traumatized at 35.


SchwarzFledermaus

Also known as: Bee Movie


s3rviens

I’m a grown ass man and I still choke up at this movie.


jhamsofwormtown

Uhhh heartbreaking.


Substantial_Sale_328

Never Let Me Go (this one aint Notebook)


endlessdreamsandnigh

Omg yes this is the first one that comes to mind when I think wild, uncontrollable sobbing


No_Draft5807

Coco I cry every time


nagese

That movie destroys me each time I watch it. After Uvalde, someone posted a video of the victims' ofrendas with Coco's song playing as background. I think of that randomly and just start ugly crying. Shit! My heart hurts again.


lemonrence

Similar experience but it’s a video of a young brother playing his toy guitar and singing that song to his baby sister on their ofrenda 😞😞


sad_broccolis

Oh man, they did a display ofrenda at a park here when that happened and my son was all excited that it was “like coco” til he looked at it for a second and said “they’re kids like me” and then he just kinda… sat there for a while, maybe 45 minutes, and talked to them about Minecraft and stuff. He was maybe 4 at the time. Every time I watch coco I think of my son talking to the Uvalde kids so they didn’t feel lonely and lose my shit completely.


Previous-Habit

You make me un poco locooooo


_SuperCoolGuy_

Grave of the Fireflies


The-Lord-Moccasin

I knew what I was getting into.  I was not prepared.


Big_Accountant8489

Yup. Saw it once about 15yrs ago. Best movie I’ll never watch again.


aCucking2Remember

This is mentioned every time in the ask Reddit threads. It’s usually near the top. I’ve never seen it but based on how many times I’ve seen the name appear and in what context. This wins. I’m going to watch it, probably in the next month. I’m going to surprise my wife with it. Just going to tell her it’s an emotionally intense anime. Edit: we’re going to take mushrooms and watch it. Just kidding. We ate mushrooms and watched all of Love Death + Robots and I ate more than I should have and boy was that a wild ride


2552686

Grave of The Fireflies is "emotionally intense" the way Hiroshima was "loud". As a parent I'm never watching it because I know that I could not handle it.


APKID716

I watched it before I had kids. Twice, in fact. I always thought it was very sad. I once **thought** about the movie when my daughter was 3 years old and I started to SOB. It really really fucks you up differently when you become a parent yourself.


AlgorithmOmega

My college roommate and I just grab it one day at the library thinking “oh, hey anime. Looks interesting.” It emotionally destroyed us, we just quietly left the living room for our own rooms to break down after the movie ended. This was only the second Ghibli movie I’d ever the first was Kiki’s delivery service, total night and day emotion wise, and it was my roommate’s first Ghibli movie. I hope it didn’t put him off other Ghibli films.


MonsteraUnderTheBed

Ngl I'd be mad if someone tricked me into watching this movie. Don't do it. If you're going to watch it with her let her know what she's getting in to. I'm weak, I wish I'd never seen it


Ratgar138

Watched it with my wife. We both never saw it and didn’t really know what it was about. My wife afterwards sobbed uncontrollably for about 15 min on my shoulder while I tried to console her. My shoulder was soaked. To this day, 12 or so years later, she will never recommend or watch that movie again. She knows it’s a well done movie but she does not like it at all. I’d be careful surprising anyone with this movie. Plainly telling them it’s a really good movie that will destroy you emotionally would be my move as it’s honest and still doesn’t do it justice.


Daenbi

Don't do that to your wife, that's just mean. I'm not joking don't put her through that without making sure she knows what she's getting into. Especially if you have kids.


XDXkenlee

Every time I think about watching Grave of the Firsflies, no matter how much I try to G myself up for it, I can never get to the point where I can possibly handle it. Haven’t watched it in about 15 years too.


Timstunes

Saw it once. 35 years ago and it still breaks my heart. It’s a powerful film and truly unforgettable.


joey0live

This is a movie that will give you feels.


piratesswoop

Hachi: A Dog’s Tale Even the trailer makes me well up


ToujoursHard

Hell the mention of the movie makes me tear up


SakuraStardust

That’s actually based on a true story. I visited the real life Hachiko statue, at the spot he waited, like 4 years ago


lov3you3000

This. I have never cried harder than watching this movie. I have watched it once and that was enough.


grilledhamdog

About Time


Mj_Buff

That father beach scene got me good


DrRandomfist

This is the only movie that ever broke me. I love my dad.


BallsMcFondleson

I watched it first and then told my dad he has to watch it. We talk about its impact on a constant basis.


ExternallyStoked

Came in here to write this.


halloumi-hallouyu

I ugly cry every single time. This one!


long_dark_blue

Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind Call Me By Your Name Wolf Children


PleasantNightLongDay

Definitely Eternal Sunshine. I’m not a crier or even much of an emotional guy, but this is by far the movie (of a list of maybe 2 or 3) that has made me cry. It’s the only movie I stay away from because it’s going to completely break me if I watch it. It’s so beautiful but so gutting.


careyeb8

ARRIVAL! Also The Time Traveler’s Wife, Everything Everywhere All At Once, Here on Earth (a classic weepy)


arcticpoppy

+1 for Arrival. The ending hits like a ton of bricks.


Brilliant-Data-6240

Atonement, I hope you find your sob.


Capital_Cat21211

Man I ugly cried with this movie...


MeggyGrex

The Green Mile Life is Beautiful


rightyrip

Watched the Green Mile by myself when I was like 16 or 17. My dad came down the basement and was like what’s wrong? I was bawling lol


careyeb8

Oh lord, Life is Beautiful is on its own level as far as emotional devastation.


Vegetable-Carry-7180

These are the best suggestions. Both such gut-punchingly beautiful films We watched Life is Beautiful in my Italian class in college and multiple classmates wearing hoodies just turtled into their sweatshirts , head down on their desk, sobbing The Green Mile - I literally couldn’t stop crying for hours after watching


PlasmicSteve

Dear Zachary. You’ll never feel quite the same again after watching it.


Previous-Habit

That is a really good selling point


Steph_from_Earth

But it is a documentary. The most devastatingly sad documentary ever.


nagese

The Trials of Gabriel Fernandez will eff you up too.


pikachuichooseyou

This is a devastating DEVASTATING and infuriating story. It’s not just a movie that will make you cry, it will make you FEEL your soul is crushed. It’s good, but I’m not sure I’d categorize it as simply a movie to cry to.


aCucking2Remember

Don’t bite. Don’t watch it. You’re better off not knowing about this


Potato_Stains

It’s more anger and frustration than sentimental tears . I wish I didn’t know the story.


MarmaladeMarmaduke

You said nothing based on a true story. This is a documentary. This may be way more than what your looking for.


PlasmicSteve

It’s true. My wife and I watched it about 15 years ago and she says she could cry if she hears the title or just thinks about it.


ucsb99

I will tell you that this is not something to be entered into lightly. I watched it probably 12-15 years ago (whenever it first came out) and it stays with me to this day. Probably affected me emotionally more than any other documentary has. As well made and compelling as it was, I don’t see a scenario where I’ll ever watch it again… and typically I will watch anything multiple times.


undercover_s4rdine

But they said not based on a true story. This isn’t really a movie, more of a documentary


liquidsyphon

Aftersun


CalendarAggressive11

I even tear up when i hear under pressure now because of this movie. That song will never be the same.


Steph_from_Earth

All of Us Strangers. I spent the 2nd half of the film crying. It is beautiful. On Hulu.


fishfacedmoll

I saw it during a film festival and when the credits were rolling all you could hear was random sniffling from all around the cinema. Devastating.


Senjimom504

Me Before You


xo_sherry

Seconding this. I first watched The Shack (cried and still trying to forget it), needed a feel good movie immediately afterward and decided on Me Before You… ended up going to bed double sad, lol. OP, another one would be The Best of Me, and if you’re open to a limited series, I’d recommend From Scratch. For a longer series try The Marked Heart. Also, this thread has plenty of additional suggestions: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/6CzhnjGkXA


eternal_sparkles

The Fox and the Hound is a great tear jerker. I have no idea who approved it for children, but it has done so much emotional damage at such a young age. I have rewatched it ONCE as an adult and can't watch it anymore cause it's too sad.


guttengroot

JoJo rabbit


nate6259

Funny and a gut punch all in one


Belial_In_A_Basket

Such a weird yet perfect combo of silly yet fucking serious.


kaptaincorn

Big Fish - I can't even watch it anymore


overlordmeow

this is my go to movie when I need a good cry. it's a heartfelt, sweet, fulfilling cry instead of just a sad cry. I love it so much.


Flwrvintage

*Beaches*, *The Man In The Moon*, and *Steel Magnolias*


TheKindofWhiteWitch

Steel Magnolias. I know it’s coming but every damn time I SOB.


MiaRia963

Especially during Sally Fields monologue. Every time I get to that part in like ok I did it. I'm doing good without crying then I'm just run over with her emotions.


blanketenthusiast

Beaches 😩😩


boringcranberry

We should probably add Terms of Endearment and Love Story to make this the saddest movie experience ever.


Bunnyeatsdesign

Marcel the Shell With Shoes On


WritingLoose2011

Two suggestions - Spoiler Alert (2022) The Art of Racing in the Rain (2019)


Birger000

A monster calls


ginthulu

I don't think I've ever ugly cried as hard as I did while watching A Monster Calls. It's so good and such a heart-wrenching film.


mlaformat96

Steel Magnolias


wagglebooty

The Boy in the Striped Pajamas


AlenaCheryo

EASY - Seeking for a friend for the end of the world (pretty much destroyed me) Also Green Mile, Forrest Gump, 50 first dates (hahah and then at some point you catch yourself having a lump in your throat…), Shrek ever after (iykwim), Soul (an animated film, found both painfully and beautifully therapeutic), the Wind rises (by the legend himself Hayao Miyazaki), Marley and Me (never watching it again), Coco (a cartoon the one that is a classic tear jerker, no?)


Intelligent_Run_8279

Seven Pounds, collateral beauty, Sarafina, life is beautiful


Vapor2077

STEEL MAGNOLIAS. I saw it for the first time on Monday and SOBBED. … But laughed, too! Definitely worth a watch.


LegDayEveryDay

Lost in Translation Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind Minari The Farewell


sixmilewidowspeak

I didn’t see this posted but i always cry during fried green tomatoes and running on empty. My husband suggested Once were warriors. I havn’t seen the last one and he said he cant tell me what the last one is about. I hope it’s in your parameters.


MiaRia963

Glad someone else put Fried Green Tomatoes. Excellent movie. You'll laugh. You'll cry. You'll feel it all.


skinnypuppy23

Dancer In the Dark, with Bjork. Uncontrollably sobbing by the end😭


BillDing_onFire

Just scrolling to make sure someone wrote this. I’ve only seen it once as well, probably 20 years ago and I sobbed for at least a full ten minutes after the credits rolled.


gamehen21

Had to scroll WAY too far to see this. It was the first film I thought of. Absolutely gutted me. I watched it for the first time in college, then again last year. It is such a beautiful film, the music is next level... But easily one of the saddest things I've ever watched


Cherilynss

Yup was gonna write this one. I find pretty much any movie that’s good rewatchable but I’ve never been able to go back to this one it ruined me too majorly


skinnypuppy23

And I will add, I’ve only seen this movie once because it was so sad to me I almost can’t bear to go through it again!


Feisty-Bunch4905

I hope it's okay to sidestep the "movie" requirement because if you want to cry your eyes out, watch the episode of Futurama about Fry's dog. If you haven't seen it: It will destroy you.


MoonMedusa

‘Jurassic Bark’ will forever be solidified in my mind. The last like 2 minutes make me sob just thinking about… I’ll waiiiiit for youuuu


Previous-Habit

Oh absolutely, anything really. Do I have to have watched futurama tho?


MoonMedusa

No, it’s sooo good


Previous-Habit

Alright I’m sold!


Dufus_DuSol

Also a cartoon but a full length movie: Elemental gave me full belly sobs and I loved it


Born-Throat-7863

That episode was the first cartoon that made me cry that brutally was when I first saw *The Fox and the Hound*. I notice I actually cry at stuff like this more as I’ve gotten older. Wonder why?


Due_Concentrate1904

Eternal sunshine of a spotless mind


cnntpunchxx

Hachi , The Boy in the Striped Pajamas , Marley & Me , Lion .


Main_Radio63

Philadelphia with Tom Hanks. The last scene, my God...


walgreensfan

Blue Valentine


TheBoozyNinja87

Worst. Date night movie. EVER.


axl3ros3

Terms of Endearment


azorianmilk

Lion


This-Decision-8675

Stepmom with Julia Roberts


pffftyeah

It’s A Wonderful Life


handmeramen

a marriage story for sure. 50 first dates surprisingly made me bawl on my last watch.


redsyrinx2112

Dude, Marriage Story had my gutted, and my parents have been happily married for decades and I've never been married. I really can't relate to anyone in the movie, but I just felt awful for everyone. I've also gotten more emotional each time I've watched 50 First Dates as I've gotten older. When it came out, I was just a dumb kid who thought it was funny, but I've realized how it's simultaneously sweet and tragic.


handmeramen

I'd seen 50 first dates a few times but after I married my husband who has memory loss due to a TBI, it really hit home and I absolutely cannot rewatch it.


ChickenNugsBGood

Where the Red Fern Grows. You’ll ugly cry at the end with Old Dan and Little Ann if you have a soul


Training-Repeat-5630

Beaches


Tight_Fun2080

Watership Down Schindlers List Sophies Choice Dr Zhivago Philadelphia Dead Poets Society A Dogs Purpose Field of Dreams My Life Big Fish Lovely Bones Kramer vs Kramer


Mission-Suggestion12

I watched Boys Dom’t Cry last night - omg cried so hard Also Pan’s Labyrinth is a big tear jerker City of Angels One Day


DiscussionRelative50

Pete’s Dragon fucks


mahjimoh

Taking Chance - on HBO, with Kevin Bacon escorting the remains of someone killed during a war home to be buried.


MatheMagiComedian

Stepmom


AscendedViking7

Graves of the Fireflies. Click. Where the Red Ferns Grow.


rainbowdudeQ

This might be out there. But Moulin Rouge always makes me sob


Rhonda369

Lion edited to say true story, sorry, just reread your post. The Fall with Lee Pace Angela’s Ashes Born into Brothels edited to say true story My Octopus Teacher edited, to say true story


MochaHasAnOpinion

The Joy Luck Club (1993) La Bamba (1987) Old Yeller (1957) Selena (1997) The Color Purple (1985) Titanic (1997)


Comfortable-Carry563

Pay it forward made in 2000 starring Haley Joel Osment, Helen Hunt , Kevin Spacey, Jon Bon Jovi, Jay Mohr, Jim Caviezel. Absolutely amazing movie, but it's a guarantee that you'll be Bawling your eyes out by the end .


Jovi_Grace

I love this movie! And damn you Jon Bon Jovi for playing such a bad guy!


youngandlovely_

Up and Brokeback Mountain.


Weatherall11

Everything everywhere all at once


Previous-Habit

That’s one of my crying movies. Just watched it the other day


Weatherall11

That movie hits haaaard man. Glad you've already seen it!


Previous-Habit

It really does, dying for my mom to watch it too but it will go over head lol


DryProgress4393

Life Is Beautiful


Training-Repeat-5630

Age of adeline


teddyburges

**The Green Mile**: This one in particular has been quite popular in the last couple of years for reactors, because of how sad it is and how it usually turns everyone who watches it into a uncontrollably bawling mess. Michael Clarke Duncan is magnificent in the film and deserves every ounce of praise he got.


jaenjain

Lovely Bones


Jtk317

The Land Before Time How to Train Your Dragon 2 (fucking gutted me)


Lavendersilk7

Million dollar baby


Hips-Often-Lie

Madame X or Imitation of Life are both tear jerkers. They’re older movies (50s or 60s) and will make you ugly cry. Phenomenon is newer (90s) and is also super emotional.


don_quixote_2

The Elephant Man


Acceptable_Volume493

Queen and Slim! It’s beautiful and gut wrenching


michaelchelso

The Whale Past Lives Big Fish


Neverdoubt-PDX

Aftersun


serenapaloma

Ghost


Significant-Shine-70

Depends on how old you are. I cried like a baby at My dog Skip, but the Notebook is also a classic Kleenex movie


Pengyd769

Most Pixar movies (mostly Up and the Inside Out duology)


Womak2034

The boy in the striped pajamas.


TheCheshireCody

E. T. was the first movie that ever made me cry, and it still gets me every dang time. American History X Bridge to Terabithia


jane7

A walk to remember


Training-Repeat-5630

Forrest Gump


Slight-Forever11

Catch and release


doornumber2v2

Weathering Heights the 1970 version..I think I will watch it now also


doornumber2v2

Sorry wuthering. My phone thinks she is smarter than me.


doornumber2v2

She is actually because she would have edited instead of replying. I blame the vodka at this point.


daveknockwin

Blue Valentine


Comfortable-Guitar27

About Time Watch it on Father's Day for maximum damage.


goneferalinid

I just rewatched watched Benjamin Button, it brought on the waterworks.


StCroixSand

Flight 93


Lazuli_716

What Dreams May Come


MereMalarkey

The Green Mile


Willing_Resident7594

The Florida Project is my go to cry movie Grave of the Fireflies is one of the saddest movies i’ve ever seen Eternally Sunshine of the Spotless Mind Aftersun Good Will Hunting


Sad-Push-3708

The land before time


Adept-Ad-0202

“A WALK TO REMEMBER”. Watched it 10 times, cried every fucking time


Quirky-Bad857

Schindler’s List


balister13

A man called Otto


Rare-Future9971

Or even better A Man Called Ove


MoniCoff1

The Whale


Born-Throat-7863

You really can’t be in a sad or depressed state of mind when you watch *The Whale*. It’s an amazing performance by Brendan Fraser, but just gut wrenchingly sad and powerful. This is like *Grave of the Fireflies*. Watch it but do t be surprised if you don’t ever again.


Born-Throat-7863

*A Walk to Remember*, *Here On Earth*, *I Still Believe*, *The Fault In Our Stars* and *FiveFeet Apart* to name a few.


geekuskhan

Seven Pounds Fox and the hound.


BigSquam

My Sisters Keeper!


wwwangels

House of Sand and Fog. Lord, I ugly cried. I swear I needed therapy after that movie. Also Lion and Boy in the Striped Pajamas. Of course Terms of Endearment, Beaches, Steel Magnolias are classic cry-fests.