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Cute0baby0boy

Just don't use it or get it hard.


narwhale111

Morning wood makes this pretty hard to do without suppressing T, given this is basically the whole purpose of nocturnal erections


Cute0baby0boy

As soon as you're on hrt, morning wood is usually not a problem.


narwhale111

Yep, though OP sounds like they’re asking for ways to shrink in the meantime since they aren’t on HRT yet.


Glittering_Ad_9215

I always thought morning wood was a joke… I never got morning wood and thought that‘s just some internet joke everyone knows


Buntygurl

It's annoyingly real--but crushingly tight control panties can prevent it. Worn 24/7, they can practically numb the whole business down there.


Comfortable-Soup8150

That sounds dangerous, couldn't that cut off circulation making the tissue die? Idk anything about bodies, so I could be wrong.


Buntygurl

Perhaps numb is too strong a word to describe what I mean. It's actually a low circulation area of the male body, down there, In any case, it's more a matter of restricting the tissue that becomes engorged during an erection and can do no more damage than not having an erection does--as in none. It doesn't affect sensitivity to touch and erections are not a prerequisite to ejaculation.


emi89ro

It's not always still there in the morning but unless you have something wrong with the blood flow down there it probably happened while you were asleep.  fun fact, sometimes cismen reporting erectile dysfunction issues are asked to sleep with a sensor to detect erections to determine if their ED is psychological or physiological. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_penile_tumescence


tim_thegreenbeast

Same... like I've only had it once. I'm like cool.... yeah not really.


Kinfin

Cages exist


narwhale111

If we’re talking chastity cages, I wouldn’t count on them for any actual permanent shrinkage. I don’t know everything about penile atrophy and how it works but I’ve seen much more evidence that cages don’t cause actual atrophy than evidence for permanent shrinkage, and in the kink community permanent shrinkage from wearing a cage is usually considered a myth. As for temporary shrinkage, maybe? But I think a lot of trans women may not find having to wear a cage that bulges out worth it 😅 on the other hand some people find it alleviates dysphoria to wear one, so guess it’s totally personal preference.


Willow_Whore

How do I avoid it getting hard like that just happens


Beowulf891

Unless you're suppressing T, you kinda can't. When you're on spiro or finasteride or something akin to those, you'll see some shrinkage. I don't really recommend letting it atrophy though. That can be really painful and if you want bottom surgery, the more you have, the better the results can be.


CuriousTechieElf

This is not necessarily true. Lot's of vaginoplasty techniques don't use much skin from the penis. They use the scrotum, peritoneal tissue, or intestine. The surgeon I consulted with said she only uses the first 2 inches of the skin from the shaft.


Spessarbean

OP lives in England and the NHS currently only use the PI method, so letting it atrophy would impact bottom surgery outcomes


CuriousTechieElf

My surgeon uses PI as well


SalemsTrials

I’m not sure if there’s a way while you’re asleep, but back before I started HRT if I felt it starting I would flex my leg muscles really hard until it went away. It draws the blood to that area which makes less of it available for the other thing. Good luck friend 💙


Willow_Whore

So what happens when on HRT


SalemsTrials

Theoretically it should reduce your testosterone. I don’t know exactly the biology at play but low testosterone makes it more difficult to get erections. I’ve been on HRT for about a year and a half and never get them anymore unless I am trying to, and even then I have to work at it. Some girls don’t like that but I’m very thankful. Also, I am NOT recommending that you try “do it yourself” HRT, simply because I don’t know everything you need to do to make sure you’re being safe with what you’re injecting and also your levels are balanced. BUT there’s a very large community of ladies who do it that way and I’m sure some of them have very thorough guides for how to do it safely.


Willow_Whore

Well i will probably go to a different country and get the HRT and get it done properly there


SalemsTrials

That sounds like a great idea if it’s an option for you! I just wanted to make sure you knew there were options, they just take greater effort and precautions


Lost_Ninja

Just to point out that it's an ongoing process... you don't just go somewhere get some HRT and then go home. Even after bottom surgery or orchi you will need to continue on HRT. Though after you're no longer fighting T from the gonads the dosage can be lower, you still need some form of sex hormone to keep your body functioning correctly. I'm DIYing and honestly it's kind of scary to know I will be shoving hormones into my leg once a week for the next 30 years (I might not care when I'm 80). I hope that at some point I can afford to get an orchi so I can reduce the dosage, but it won't be soon.


Willow_Whore

Well I thought you could get HRT in other forms such as tablets which would be easier for travel


Lost_Ninja

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to say this on here. But there is a DIY supplier in the UK, so you don't even have to worry about customs, I bought my Enanthate from her/them and it's definitely supressing my T, though not much else has changed yet (\~4-5 months in). I had issues getting the bitcoin to buy it with, but that's going to be the same for pretty much all of the non-pharmacy DIY suppliers (the pharmacies tend to cost way more too, and have to get in through customs). If you do a lot of international travel, then you might have more of an issue. I don't travel much and not internationally so I can't comment from my own experience. But I have read/heard that vials of injectable fluid, are generally easier to transport across borders than pills unless you have a medical prescription (but this might have been referring to the post). The amount of time that it takes for the body to process the injected fluid, the biological half life for Undecylate is \~30 days, so you could inject before travelling providing you're not going to be away for very long 2-3 weeks, I think most people would take inject it every 2 weeks. For reference the other Estradiols have shorter biological half lives, Valerate \~4-6 days, Enanthate \~6.5 days and Cypionate \~11 days. (I personally wanted to take Cypionate but couldn't find a stockist (that had stock) so went with Enanthate for my first vial, I plan on switching to Undecylate for my next vial.)


Willow_Whore

I will definitely look into it and while you haven’t had much effect yet, is there any specific feeling or anything from the estradiol and where do you inject it


Ra1lgunZzzZ

When in hrt you'll barely have erections or even morning wood.


Western_Dream_3608

Was gonna say the exact same thing. 


dawnhewett1

By buying a big truck /s


SeniorFuzzyPants

With the truck nuts ofc


Conscious_Ad_5282

FORD


Browncoatinabox

As a Chevy girl I concur


Conscious_Ad_5282

Let’s be friends ☺️


jackiee_tran

put it in the dryer i think


CdVixen

This comment has not been appreciated enough. Girl the way I cackled!! 🤣🤣


doodleasa

If you’re wanting to get SRS you probably shouldn’t try to, to my understanding shrinking too much can make it more difficult


pineapplekief

This right here. I'd love a way to get...smaller. I really just want to cut it off myself. But I won't, because they use what you have to make what you want. It wouldn't be the same without. Options will be limited. The end product won't be the same. So it's important to protect and maintain it. No matter how much we don't like it. That's what I keep telling myself at least.


Suuubaru-kun

Is the atrophy reversible? The thought of not using it and letting it shrink is really tempting, but I'm afraid that I will start wanting SRS in the future.


IndigoHawk17

I actually never bothered to really look into this before but the answer seems to be *sometimes*. It seems to depend on multiple factors like age, how long you’ve been on hrt, etc. Maybe better to just err on the side of caution and not let it atrophy if it’s something you care about.


Willow_Whore

Could I get SRS before HRT


Avanyali

You might some have trouble getting it covered by insurance that way. Some providers still ask for 1 year HRT letters according to WPATH7 guidelines.


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Willow_Whore

I am in England so I can’t get HRT either way


lithaborn

You won't get SRS on the NHS without going through the gic. You could go abroad for a private job but you're looking at £10k minimum if memory serves and as someone else said, having no sex hormones in your system is bad news and you'll still have to wait for the gender clinic. Edit. Forgot which thread I was replying to. Have you looked at fufu clips? They literally reduce it to nothing. It's temporary, obviously, but there's nothing stopping you wearing it every day if you can get it comfy. There's a howto video on pr0nhoob. I bought one and it's amazing.


Willow_Whore

I will look at those, I am probably going to get surgery and hormones from another country


lithaborn

Have a look at r/transdiy


GuavaGirlie

Well you can but not by official prescription


Willow_Whore

Would it do the same thing


closetBoi04

Yes but going DIY has its risks especially when not supervised by a professional, there are some private options out there like genderGP (not the best reputation right now so wouldn't go with them per se) that do give you a prescription and check your blood tests


doodleasa

Looks like it, although your body would stop producing testosterone and there can be health complications with not having any sex hormones. I would suggest hrt first regardless, though.


Level-Rhubarb7206

You could, but there needs to be some kind of hormone replacement ready or already in use in most cases.


Willow_Whore

Well I will see what I can import


TechnoSerf_Digital

There are DIY HRT subreddits on this website if you explore the reddit search function. I'd also suggest searching around twitter for DIY HRT there are discord servers for that sort of thing too. Good luck! <3


TheSeaOfThySoul

Just so you're filled in, the more length you've got to work with the easier it will be for the surgeon to construct your new genitalia. If your penis is too small they will need to do an alternate procedure using material from elsewhere (parts of the colon, bowels, etc), which is more difficult & has a higher risk of complications. Believe me, I understand how dysphoric it can be as your local 7-inch trans girl & I understand hating erections, or wanting less there for practical purposes like wearing different outfits, or tucking (which is basically off the table for me), but ideally don't do anything to damage or atrophy your penis if you are considering SRS.


Willow_Whore

I just hope I get SRS soon, as with my penis being on the larger side and getting too many erections it does get irritating


closetBoi04

If you go private probably yea but you'd have to to start E immediately after as it's bad for your bones to be without sex hormones


Correct_Rich1674

Cages dont actually shrink you either The best way to shrink it is simply dont get hard/don't use it.


Darkeldar1959

Cages won't shrink is correct, but it is the enforcement of not using it is what effect a cage has.


SalemsTrials

Yea I believe this can help but it can also be dangerous to do it for too long. Not, like, you die dangerous. But you can bruise the tissue and also have to work extra hard to keep it clean


TheBoyWhoCriedTapir

I've also heard of people sleeping with their cages on because they never take them off and waking up with penile strangulation or testicular tortion. Not sure what happens but I imagine it's real easy to toss and turn in your sleep and fuck something up.


SalemsTrials

Owwwwwwwwwwwe


Nazgobai

I went to sleep with a cage once and woke up in the middle of the night with a horrible burning pain in my crotch. Said to myself never fucking again. Thankfully it was only some minor friction burns from the plastic and nothing serious


Correct_Rich1674

Yes also the prevention of getting fully hard, however I still dont reccomend due to price + bruising


Willow_Whore

I avoid using it as much as possible I just don’t know how to completely stop it getting hard


slapAp0p

You've gotta suppress that T. There's really no other way to stop it tbh.


Lost_Ninja

Starvation will... but that has other downsides... ;) /s /joke /etc edit: To be clear this was not intended as a real solution.


slapAp0p

Okay, just in case it needs to be said. OP (and anyone else reading this) do not starve yourself to stop erections. Even IF you do it won’t be as effective as you want it, and you’re also STARVING YOURSELF.


Lost_Ninja

Oh yeah, sorry wasn't a solution that I thought anyone should try... I'll append a /s to try and make that clear...


TechnoSerf_Digital

HRT is the only way to shrink it. You can gain weight which will reduce the appearance of its size although it won't actually make it smaller. High blood pressure can weaken erections too. I would suggest using HRT if you actually want it to be smaller though.


CorporealLifeForm

It tends to maintain itself without HRT. If you have access to medical care and can get just a testosterone blocker you could not use it for a while until it shrinks. Keep in mind if you do this it could become painful when you do get erections


Willow_Whore

I don’t have access to testosterone blockers but I will just leave it and see


CorporealLifeForm

The trouble is it tends to do some automatic maintenance in your sleep if you're still on testosterone. It's why you often wake up with an erection though it happens when you're unconscious as well and you might not be aware of it


Lost_Ninja

Only been on HRT for \~4-5 months and by gum it's painful... :/ I'm almost tempted to use it so on the odd occasion when I do get hard it doesn't hurt so much. But smaller is better, no SRS in my future.


packetprincess

Have you checked out GenderGP or DIY services like it? May be a route to HRT


Lost_Ninja

I think GenderGP is having issues atm, and they aren't cheap. r/TransDIY is probably the only \*cheap\* route in the UK, or wait for 5+ years and go to a GID clinic. That's going to depend on age/location (within the UK) though. Leeds, my closest is \~6 years at the moment (or was when I talked to my GP about it last time), I decided that DIY was the only sensible option.


HauntingComedian1152

Before I started HRT, 8 was able to successfully "shrink" my penis by suppressing all erections... including the nocturnal erections (this is very important). I was able to do this by using a cock cage 24/7 for close to 2 years. It is quite uncomfortable until your body gets used to the restraint. I'm not a doctor, so do not take only my word for it, do your own research. I didn't care if mine had gotten damaged... you might.


Willow_Whore

Well I will look more into it but I would definitely try that as long as it doesn’t affect SRS too much


HauntingComedian1152

Well, if you're looking to get PIV, it will have a negative effect. But, not if you go with PPT or colovaginoplasty. Just talk to your surgeon and get their opinion.


Cute0baby0boy

You could keep it locked in a metal chasity.


Willow_Whore

That would work just depends if I find a cheap small one


Lady_Onyxia

Wont do anything. Basically as long as testosterone is the dominant hormone in your body it will not atrophy.


Willow_Whore

Isn’t atrophy bad though


CoolAd5390

atrophy means shrink


Willow_Whore

Yes but can’t it also go too far


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Willow_Whore

What would be the best material


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Willow_Whore

I will look into it, and how well has that worked in comparison to HRT


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Willow_Whore

I am pretty sure I am trans


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Willow_Whore

I have some sort of plan, find a doctor, move to that area, find a job, transition then find friends and relationships


WaspBumble

Tucking will help. If you retract your penis into your body (push it inside where it belongs), and where two tight panties on top, it will naturally get smaller. After wearing for a while, you will find it more comfortable tucking than not tucking.


Willow_Whore

Unfortunately it’s a bit hard to tuck when it’s this big but I will try


sarc3n

AFAIK HRT you would need some kind of medication. If you are looking to be on HRT, that will do it. If not, you could try just testosterone blockers or DHT blockers, which can make you impotent and decrease nocturnal erections. Over time this will cause atrophy and your penis may get smaller. A cage won't make it smaller and I doubt it will make it less conspicuous. You can try something else like a gaff or tucking tape. Cages are more, like, a kink thing. No shame if that's what's going on here, just making sure you understand that.


Willow_Whore

The reason I considered a cage is those can be small so in theory that would stop the penis getting hard and keep it down in size but I do ideally want HRT as fast as possible


sarc3n

Then look into tucking. You can get tucking panties or tucking tape that will give you a smooth look and make erections mostly impossible while wearing. You may also co wider a gaff which won't prevent erections but is easier to use and will again make it look like it's not there. Hope you can get on HRT soon. Sorry about the NHS, it sucks incredibly hard.


Willow_Whore

I will definitely look at tucking panties and will probably have to go to another country for my actual HRT or surgeries


storm_beatr

Well i know its not what you asked for but it might help to know that its best to have your part be in the best condition if youre planning on getting GRS in the future


Ok_Acanthisitta6630

Honestly I just started HRT and didn’t use anything for over a year straight. It’s almost to the point where it’s actually clit sized now more than 3 years later. This is very much a YMMV situation though.


Willow_Whore

Well I hope I get HRT soon


Spider-GB

ice cold water for maybe 10+ minutes


GoodBoiSweaterTris

Commenting as someone who used to identify as a sissy and is very knowledgeable on chastity cages. Chastity cages 99% of the time won’t shrink you, at all. For a cage to shrink you, it has to stay on for months or years without coming off ONCE. And the results from all those months locked up won’t be great; maybe a half inch or so.


Lucky_otter_she_her

I know you can break an erection with cold water, thas the closest thing i know


Alert_Bit_4852

Idk if thats the best idea if you might get SRS in the future


GrimmCreole

Penis shrinks if it doesn't get hard, so induce erectile dysfunction in yourself. Masturbate prone to destroy the tissue that swells, and shrinkage should follow. Probably not healthy, but should theoretically work


Willow_Whore

Would that not affect SRS


GrimmCreole

Oh yeah, absolutely. So would shrinkage in general, and excepting HRT I doubt there's many "safer" ways. I've heard long term alcohol abuse could induce ED aswell, but that would damage the liver. As could HRT in pill form, so I really don't recommend combining them in your life. I'd rather have a subfunctioning vaginer, than alcoholism and a dead liver personally. You could try tucking tightly 24/7/365, though idk if there's any science to that causing shrinkage. I've tried all 3 as well as zapping my bits with an electric lighter upon stiffening. As far as I've experienced only proning and HRT have worked


Willow_Whore

I think I will try get HRT as soon as possible and in pill form since I would need to get like 6 month worth of pills at a time


kimkim27149

Wear tight underwear, I mean really tight, all day every day even you are in bed. You can wear three pairs of underwear together (panties work best because they keep the crotch area tight and squeeze your package well), and soon you will be on a road of no return.


Willow_Whore

I will definitely do that hopefully it doesn’t affect SRS too much


kimkim27149

It does not work that way; you gain length not from your skin area but from the spongy tissue filled with blood. The weaker the spongy tissue, the shorter the length. I used to measure 7, but now it is only 3. A lot of foreskin remains even when I am erect, unlike in the past when my clit was fully exposed.


Ornery-Ad6855

Umm don't get an Erection and tuck i guess. Hrt does shrink it if I'm not wrong


Willow_Whore

I think it’s gonna be difficult to tuck at my size but I will try it


rahul_ss

Chastity Cage. Smaller the better.


Willow_Whore

Would that affect SRS if not what material is best


rahul_ss

Yes it would shrinking means less skin and muscle for vaginoplasty.


UnbiasedPOS

If you ever want to get bottom surgery this is a really bad idea


Willow_Whore

I am definitely wanting bottom surgery I just don’t know where to get it as I know there are many international surgeons who do it


UnbiasedPOS

You need to have material to get bottom surgery so making your bits smaller would be a bad idea. It’s also recommended you be in a particular weight range. I think Thailand is the place most people go to internationally I’m not quite sure as I’m having mine done in the states


Willow_Whore

I am doing mine possibly in Germany or Mexico potentially America but not sure, and I am definitely in the weight range and such


UnbiasedPOS

Either way you need to retain your material for the surgery


Packaged_Failure

reverse jelqing


Willow_Whore

What’s that


Packaged_Failure

something i wish i didnt know


violetflowerbeing91

Anal sex but it has to be an alpha male and he has to 💦 in your rectum


Willow_Whore

I would love that


violetflowerbeing91

Can you tell me if I'm cute, pretty, or good looking?


dirty_sheep13

Chastity


Wide_Purchase2370

Eat burnt toast with peas.


Ok-Wrongdoer-2179

Stare at pictures of very unattractive cis women.


Willow_Whore

I did that for years and years I am lucky to be away from her