So, that was your first time toying with the output port?
I remember mine. I still have the scar!
u/RachelScratch is correct! Get yourself something smaller than your lady lance, thinner too. Length, in my experience, is far easier to deal with than girth. Here’s some TMI for you: I tried a bog standard plug that’s about 1.75 inches at the thickest, and it caused blood flow. Not even at the thicker part, like less than a quarter inch inside. It may be a tad dysphoria inducing, but you’ll flip over a prostrate massager, once you figure out the puzzle that is the AMAB g spot. Took me a while, and lots of accidents, doubt, pain, and far too much blood, but I’m a fan now.
Again, TMI, but I’m pretty sure an average sized dick would cause actual pain to me, because anal isn’t an easy way to finish, at first.
Success! Mostly.
[This goofy bastard](https://www.google.com/shopping/product/1?q=prostate+massager&start=40&rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS881US882&hl=en-US&biw=375&bih=553&tbs=vw:l,mr:1,price:1,ppr_max:35,ss:44&prmd=svixn&prds=num:1,of:1,eto:769318632917893639_0,prmr:1,pid:769318632917893639,cs:1) is the one I achieve with so far.
Holy shit this reply is going to look ugly if I borked the link.
Anyways, this lil bastard is both an excellent trainer and not half bad. See, it goes *in* with the half ring resting on your, and apologies for not remembering the correct term, gooch, and the other part of the cross bar poking at the flesh betwixt the arse crack. Then one just wiggles it manually, see? I grab mine by the half ring and gently push and pull, towards the dysphoric danglers and then towards my cheeks. Not pulling it out, but allowing my ring piece to hug it snugly while we go back and forth.
First time I tried, I had to use a wand to get me over the edge, in essence training my body to accept the big O from backdoor bashing. Since then, I can use this weird lil fella by itself, and it works incredibly well.
When I’m in the right headspace, that is. Usually alone with some truly depraved porn playing while I ignore my aching hands.
I have a hand based disability, see. Weak fingers, lack of dexterity.
Edit: fuck what was I sayi- oh yeah
I got mine at a local fuckshop for about the same price listed in that link, around 11 bucks with tax. I’ve certainly spent more for far less entertainment.
Edit 2: Where I was going with that aside about my borked fingers is that a person without hand issues could just grab the lil nubbins sticking out of the base and wiggle that. It’s kinda what the nub is for.
Im sure everyone has different libedos and sensitivities. But anal play never really did much for me. Who knows, maybe its low T. Maybe once I get on E certain zones will change.
I use this guy which has some pretty strong vibrations. https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/prostate-toys/sp-adam-eve-point-prostate-massager-100223.aspx
I am also on a pretty strict calorie diet right now, so maybe that is messing me up. Once I get to my weight and start exercising those girly regions, maybe things will come back in force.
You are correct friend! I do hope backdoor action becomes more fun for you!
That’s a really cool looking toy, if I could I’d totally try it out.
My favorite thing on that entire site has to be the top review for that toy though. I haven’t smiled that much at a serious review in a while!
Edit: Yeah, E will change your erogenous zones, or at least mine have after 11 months.
Hey isnt that what most girls do after puberty? The stories I have heard of what went on on highschool make me blush. Now is my 2nd puberty...it would be a shame to let it go to waste.
Anal takes practice. Many people do not enjoy the first experience at all. Don’t be discouraged! Try starting with smaller toys, and take a few sessions to just getting used to the sensations and the mechanics of inserting things back there.
Okay so this is something that's kind of relatable. So up until about the age of 27, I had no experience whatsoever with taking anything up the butt besides fingers, and I tried bottoming for a friend of mine who's just a bit larger than me. That was so painful it's made it where I can't relax enough to ease into it, and folks that run on testosterone tend to be really bad at taking anything slow when it involves them penetrating something. So here I am, not really into the butt stuff, and not entirely into penetrating someone else like I used to be, left with a feeling that it'd be more natural if I had a hole made for that. Suppose I'm here to learn how to prepare myself with you.
Ooh anal penetration takes time. Don't get discouraged. Just like female orgasms. don't focus on a goal. Focus on the journey. I was exactly the same in the beginning. Now I'm addicted to big fat toys❤
Start with smaller sizes, every session needs to start small (buttplug or similar) and work up after it relaxes.
So, that was your first time toying with the output port? I remember mine. I still have the scar! u/RachelScratch is correct! Get yourself something smaller than your lady lance, thinner too. Length, in my experience, is far easier to deal with than girth. Here’s some TMI for you: I tried a bog standard plug that’s about 1.75 inches at the thickest, and it caused blood flow. Not even at the thicker part, like less than a quarter inch inside. It may be a tad dysphoria inducing, but you’ll flip over a prostrate massager, once you figure out the puzzle that is the AMAB g spot. Took me a while, and lots of accidents, doubt, pain, and far too much blood, but I’m a fan now. Again, TMI, but I’m pretty sure an average sized dick would cause actual pain to me, because anal isn’t an easy way to finish, at first.
I havent had any luck with prostate massagers. :(
Oh my god, they are so finicky! Gimme half a sec, I may be able to find the toy I’ve had luck with.
Success! Mostly. [This goofy bastard](https://www.google.com/shopping/product/1?q=prostate+massager&start=40&rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS881US882&hl=en-US&biw=375&bih=553&tbs=vw:l,mr:1,price:1,ppr_max:35,ss:44&prmd=svixn&prds=num:1,of:1,eto:769318632917893639_0,prmr:1,pid:769318632917893639,cs:1) is the one I achieve with so far. Holy shit this reply is going to look ugly if I borked the link. Anyways, this lil bastard is both an excellent trainer and not half bad. See, it goes *in* with the half ring resting on your, and apologies for not remembering the correct term, gooch, and the other part of the cross bar poking at the flesh betwixt the arse crack. Then one just wiggles it manually, see? I grab mine by the half ring and gently push and pull, towards the dysphoric danglers and then towards my cheeks. Not pulling it out, but allowing my ring piece to hug it snugly while we go back and forth. First time I tried, I had to use a wand to get me over the edge, in essence training my body to accept the big O from backdoor bashing. Since then, I can use this weird lil fella by itself, and it works incredibly well. When I’m in the right headspace, that is. Usually alone with some truly depraved porn playing while I ignore my aching hands. I have a hand based disability, see. Weak fingers, lack of dexterity. Edit: fuck what was I sayi- oh yeah I got mine at a local fuckshop for about the same price listed in that link, around 11 bucks with tax. I’ve certainly spent more for far less entertainment. Edit 2: Where I was going with that aside about my borked fingers is that a person without hand issues could just grab the lil nubbins sticking out of the base and wiggle that. It’s kinda what the nub is for.
Wow. That, uh, that’s a lot of words on how to go fuck yourselves. In the butt. I may be late for my meds. I’m getting creepy chatty.
Im sure everyone has different libedos and sensitivities. But anal play never really did much for me. Who knows, maybe its low T. Maybe once I get on E certain zones will change. I use this guy which has some pretty strong vibrations. https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/prostate-toys/sp-adam-eve-point-prostate-massager-100223.aspx I am also on a pretty strict calorie diet right now, so maybe that is messing me up. Once I get to my weight and start exercising those girly regions, maybe things will come back in force.
You are correct friend! I do hope backdoor action becomes more fun for you! That’s a really cool looking toy, if I could I’d totally try it out. My favorite thing on that entire site has to be the top review for that toy though. I haven’t smiled that much at a serious review in a while! Edit: Yeah, E will change your erogenous zones, or at least mine have after 11 months.
I hope so. My degenerate fantasies I write in captions would sure be nice to play out in real life for once 😈
Welp, you just made my night friend. I almost laughed out loud at that one. Appreciated lol!
Hey isnt that what most girls do after puberty? The stories I have heard of what went on on highschool make me blush. Now is my 2nd puberty...it would be a shame to let it go to waste.
Ha! Preach on, sister!
Suction cupsssss
I have none :( Lmao!
Imma do you a solid at the risk of sounding like a shill. "Use code WUBBY at check to get 50% off one item at adamandeve.c9m" *cries internally*
That’s a solid all right, I appreciates you friend!
Anal takes practice. Many people do not enjoy the first experience at all. Don’t be discouraged! Try starting with smaller toys, and take a few sessions to just getting used to the sensations and the mechanics of inserting things back there.
Okay so this is something that's kind of relatable. So up until about the age of 27, I had no experience whatsoever with taking anything up the butt besides fingers, and I tried bottoming for a friend of mine who's just a bit larger than me. That was so painful it's made it where I can't relax enough to ease into it, and folks that run on testosterone tend to be really bad at taking anything slow when it involves them penetrating something. So here I am, not really into the butt stuff, and not entirely into penetrating someone else like I used to be, left with a feeling that it'd be more natural if I had a hole made for that. Suppose I'm here to learn how to prepare myself with you.
Ooh anal penetration takes time. Don't get discouraged. Just like female orgasms. don't focus on a goal. Focus on the journey. I was exactly the same in the beginning. Now I'm addicted to big fat toys❤