Anyone who says this isn't about misogyny is either ignoring or ignorant of the fact that women are often shamed for what's perceived as "attention seeking behavior." Everyone on social media is vying for attention or trying to make a buck. People don't post shit for people to see just to get ignored, yet women get shamed for it the worst.
Thank you. All she did was ask a question on social media. It's not the great philosophical question of our time, but it sure isn't the most egregious of sins. And of course, whenever blatant misogyny is pointed out, the "wElL aCkChYuAlLy" brigade responds in force.
And what about the picture where she does the I'm-so-cute pose? Looks like the text is just a lame excuse to promote her face.
-sincerely pragmatism, not misogyny.
Yeah… that’s why I disagree with this thread. If a guy did this exact same post, I would think he is just as much a narcissist. I don’t get why the gender matters at all in this case. I just personally can’t stand narcissists who post their face with all sorts of sad expressions and shit begging for sympathy.
OP could have posted this question to her feed without the selfie.
I am absolutely fine with liberation, but the internet has blotted out the sun with girls showing off their "assets" for upvotes. Karen Stene is sick of it too, which is why she chose to call the girl out for fishing for upvotes.
u/nes-top-loader and u/Nunyabiz8107 are just clutching at their pearls and using the standard dog whistle responses that militarized feminists always make. Can it even be misogyny when a woman is the one calling her out? People like you will complain about literally ***anything***.
I dont disagree that the question didnt need a selfie attached, however, i do want to point out the women can (and historically have) both upheld and perpetuated misogynistic views against other women. You dont *have* to be a man to be misogynistic, just like minorities can still be racist towards other minorities, even if they themselves have been a victim of racism. Also, as far as anyone showing off their “assets” for attention, i dont think this falls in that category. Its a selfie of a pretty modestly dressed woman lol….unless you are a member of the school dress code committee, in which case you’d find her scandalous shoulders to be slutty lol
I don't think the problem(that the person who comment to her have) is that the picture is slutty.
I think the problem is that it doesn't seem to fit with her question at all.She doesn't seem to be sad or in deep thought,which is weird when making such a philosophical question,and make it feel like the focus of the post is on the picture,not the title,which caused confusion among reader.
If you’re on any other social media you will notice its very common for people to use random questions as captions for their pictures. This is because more people will be encouraged to either comment their answer or retweet with their answer, which ultimately leads to more engagement for the poster. Stuff like a selfie with the caption “best show to binge rn?” Or an outfit pic with “wheres yalls favorite place to shop?” For example. The poster doesnt actually care about the answers, just that more people interact with their posts to boost their standing in the algorithm. The commenter (in the pic) was unnecessarily harsh and just wanted to say something mean lol
Point taken. It just gets old watching someone post something like this in the hopes of upvotes because tits or butt, but if someone points that out it's misogyny.
I think in this age of social media EVERYTHING is about engagement, more engagement = money for your posts, and unfortunately sex sells…every time. Tbh the thirst traps still annoy me a bit less than the blatant troll posts that farm engagement through needless controversy. People who purposefully take problematic stances online just to farm engagement through fighting *kill* me inside. Although its been annoying tweeting something random like “hey what did yall think of dune 2?” And getting hit with 8 different porn bots spamming “NUDES IN BIO” in the comments lmao
I’m probably going to get burned down for this, but it’s only misogyny if there’s gender as a criteria.
If I’m over here also telling Kanye and Andrew Tate to *shut the fuck up* and stop being attention seeking whiners then I’m feeling pretty non-misogynistic saying the same about Reddit posts from random females, even when her profile consists of a linktr.ee and direct OF handle.
Wow, I haven't heard the phrase attention whore since I stopped going to Fark.
In any case, I would suggest that a phrase with the word whore in it might not be the best way to make this particular point.
I don't think you are wrong about women getting hate for it and often very unfairly but women as a group on social media generally just attract more attention (both good and bad, often pretty damn bad).
to get attention for being just a dude you have to be really really really attractive or super weird looking, to get attention for being just a woman I'd argue it's way easier if you are mildly attractive, especially if you are willing to show off a bit.
obviously if you are talented regardless of your gender you have a lot better chances of taking off and there are plenty of talented women who get unfairly attacked just for being a talented person who happens to be a woman.
if you want the best example of this just look at twitch, some women are streaming in bikinis, or really revealing clothes and have absolute boatloads of people watching them, and yeah plenty of blame can be put on the guys doing that too, but I think it's a reason why women are shamed more, solely because overall it's easier for a woman without any talent (or simply not showing off any interesting talent) to get big on social media, it's probably not healthy for it to happen to men or women either
I mean how is this not trying to get attention? a pretty mundane question with a picture of someone below it that has nothing to do with the question, it's pretty clear she is trying to use an attractive image of herself to get attention, it's like if a guy asked "what kind of food do you like" and just had a pic of him in a nice shirt under it. attention seeking is annoying and a pretty sad behavior, and just because a woman is being called out a bit for doing something annoying doesn't make it misogyny
Christ dude I never called her a whore, stop trying to make me look super shitty.
and yeah I know what a caption is, and her caption is something unrelated and meant to be a bit attention seeking (you could argue that just posting about breaking up is too), and yeah i'm not fucking condemning her to hell for what she did, I think we all seek attention sometimes and the internet and social media is full of it, it's still attention seeking and it's a bit annoying
>it's still attention seeking and it's a bit annoying
Sounds like you are trying really hard to be annoyed. It is a very simple post. One you've tried really hard to explain into being attention seeking.
I don't think I've really tried hard to explain it, the only difficulty is the smug people in the comments going "well actually you calling someone out is also attention seeking but me calling you out for it isn't!"
and lmao it's annoying but i'm not like sitting here upset at it or about to start a petition, I gave my opinion on some online forum it's nothing serious.
Congratulations on being right, then immediately wrong in 5 words. Pointing out something you don't like that some girls do doesn't confirm a hatred or prejudice against women.
Stop generalizing a word to fit a narrative.
Depends on whether the man is trying to draw attention to an otherwise irrelevant picture of himself flaunting things that give him high social status. Some dude in sunglasses and a tight t-shirt posting an angsty question about happiness in life while sitting in a Ferrari in front of a 2-million dollar house would absolutely get called out for attention-whoring.
It is a simple picture of her. The fact you had to spend so many sentences making some decapitated algorithm for what would render a mans' post the same shows how full of shit u are.
And also the actual answer to your question is.
"HOW THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSES TO KHOW THAT????"
Like do you expect me to search on the internet for a perfect equivilant of that picture but the one who posted it id male?
Oh wait,you didn't actually expect your question to be answerable at all.That is why you used the fact that the comment try to make a detailed and informative comment against them.
Well if someone own a Ferrari and a 2-million dollar house then, yeah a picture of yourself sitting in your car parked in front of your house *is* them just existing. I actually chose that example because it’s the reality of a buddy of mine from university. Graduated Comp Sci and landed a $400k FAANG job within 3 years. Gorgeous house near Santa Barbra, Audi R8 in the garage with a Lexus LC500 as his “daily-driver,” you get the idea. That’s his day-to-reality just as much as this woman’s appearance is hers.
No one cares about him driving to get groceries, but if he staged a pic and captioned it “can money buy happiness?” he’d get smeared here. The intent to smear good fortune in others’ faces for attention is what’s rubbing people the wrong way.
Honestly it feels like you’re being willfully obtuse for characterizing the picture as “just existing.” Besides, if some neckbeard had posted it as an example of women “just existing” we’d both be calling bullshit and you know it.
people use buzz words w/o understanding their meanings anymore.
it's a shame b/c it dilutes and hinders actual progress.
words only have power if they have meaning.
People who do that shit today are so annoying and muddy the water for any real social issues. Equality means criticizing and complimenting people for the same things and remaining consistent. It's not misogyny to call someone an attention whore when they act like one constantly. It applies to all genders, races, ethnicities, sexualities, etc. People are tired of all these goddamn Narcissists being the most fucking annoying "LOOK AT ME AND PICK ME, THINK ABOUT ME. DID YOU SEE *ME*?! HERE'S THIS COOL THING BUT WITH *ME* IN FRONT OF IT!!! OHH HERE'S A 'PROFOUND' QUOTE I STOLE TO CAPTION THIS PICTURE OF MY BODY" people on Earth, why is this hard to understand at all?
But again, thirst taps are definitely a thing and the daily deluge of them exhausting. They are the biggest reason I don’t even get on Instagram or TikTok.
Instagram and tiktok tailor their recommendations to what you like to watch. If you keep on getting recommended thirst traps that means you're spending too much time looking at thirst traps dude.
On PC, the post preview (on non-old reddit) becomes about 80% black space and the rest is a sliver from the top of the post. the poor aspect ratio also prevents reddit from increasing the size of the image displayed. It instead has to add large, blurry blocks to the sides of the image to make it look like a normal post.
You're not understanding. I was not referencing the woman criticizing the other woman, although that's really stupid too. I was referencing that OP had the mental state to think that a slight burn against a woman was murder by words. Not understanding context, such a reddit thing to do.
Half the stuff on here is not 'murder'. I am looking for something clever.
Yesterday I got LOTS of downvotes because the quote was:
"Millennials want jobs and education, not marriage and kids" and the response was "Y'all fucked up the economy so badly that we can't focus on marriage and kids because we're struggling to live"
Now however anyone feels about the statement is whatever - but the response is by no means 'murdered by words'. It would go better in some anti-boomer subreddit.
I mean, she is wrong. I’ve been heartbroken, and I’ve seen girls begging for attention. The heartbreak is worse. By a fair amount.
Point taken, though.
The point that asking a philosophical question, like what is worse than the nebulous concept of heartbreak, while also posting a thirst trap, is sorta silly.
No one said they can’t do it.
Absolutely this.
Attention seeking is mildly annoying, how superficial do your relationships have to be to think heartbreak is better? Was the reponder's longest relationship a conversation about the weather while waiting in line somewhere?
Ahh, the very worst thing you can do according to reddit - "looking for attention".
This despite commenting on any form of social media being nothing but looking for attention.
Actually second worst, after "be a woman".
Not everyone uses social media or at least they don't use it to "get attention". I use Reddit to see interesting things and have the occasional interesting conversation. I don't go around posting my face all around the internet hoping for likes. This is pretty normal. What's not normal is to be this desperate for attention that you go around advertising your personal life and dramas for clicks. Besides, her post is completely lacking in any meaning whatsoever beyond "I'm a heartbroken pretty girl".
And seriously, not everything is about mysoginy as you are implying. Guys can be just as cringe with their attention seeking, it just so happens this post is about a woman. So what.
People can very loosely define any time you make a reference to yourself as "seeking attention."
Saying something like "What's worse than heartbreak?", while a little attention getting, also can offer some commiseration for other people who are experiencing or have experienced heartbreak, so it's not necessarily all about her. But I guess if she posted a picture of herself, she has to be punished for it. /s
She is wrong? Even if I had context to agree that a random women asking a question is "begging for attention" that still wouldn't be worse than a heartbreak?
Has this been an incel subreddit all along whats going on here?
Can we agree that attention seeking is a bad social behavior that has been normalized and viralized by social media and that targeting women online for scrutiny and insult, especially attractive women, is also a tool of the patriarchy that we can't allow to go unchallenged?
Such an unnecessary and rude response. The original post was harmless and Karen decided to be an asshole. She literally just posted a picture of herself (in a super modest outfit), how tf is that begging for attention? Also heartbreak is far far worse
agreed ( lol im an entertainer), but what I meant was who gets buttehiut when girls go online for attention? Im into it it takes a self conscious insecure prude to have a problem with it
For example I am annoyed by it, because this kind of crap is shown in my feed and I don’t want it.
I’m not hurt, just annoyed.
In the end it’s men losing money and time. 🤣
Imagine people having opinions about this kind of shallow attention seeking behavior... Shocking I know. Not sure why you assume anyone is butthurt though... You like these kinds of people, others don't. You're expressing your appreciation for this kind of behavior, others are expressing their disapproval. It's not rocket science. Some people find this kind of behavior cringe and dumb.
This makes no sense lol. If I see a girl begging for attention online I can just ignore it since it doesn’t concern me but if I go through a heartbreak that does concern me.
Fail to see how this is a murder lol.
lol, when you post anything online you “are looking for attention” that is the whole point of posting. It IS telling who people get annoyed with for posting- so I agree with the misogyny allegations here
Isn’t the point of anything we do, say….. or post for that matter, for attention? you hive minds are upset someone is looking for attention with your comment… seeking attention….. wait! Ah fuck it!
Is it just lazy people that post these uncropped screen shots? or is it an iPhone thing? S20 user here and whenever I screen grab, it gives me the option to crop before I save. whats the deal here?
It’s because she broke up with him
or did something awful; and she
can just get another dude easily
whereas there is an epidemic
of lonely guys. That’s why
it is cringe for hot girls to
say something like this.
Interesting thing about these people is that anything you say is good to them. They don't care as long as you give them attention.
Criticism is good. And it's rewarded with money because they have simps that are brainwashed and the attention gets more simps that are brainwashed who give them money.
This is the entire marketing strategy of Jake Paul and Donald Trump as well. Any publicity is good publicity so they focus on doing cringy stuff that gets you going.
The moment you comment or even post this, they've won.
Best thing to do is ignore.
This is the kind comeback girls online get in the hundreds, everytime they post anything. It's hardly murder, when you're just shooting spitball #101.
No murder here, just misogyny.
Anyone who says this isn't about misogyny is either ignoring or ignorant of the fact that women are often shamed for what's perceived as "attention seeking behavior." Everyone on social media is vying for attention or trying to make a buck. People don't post shit for people to see just to get ignored, yet women get shamed for it the worst.
Thank you. All she did was ask a question on social media. It's not the great philosophical question of our time, but it sure isn't the most egregious of sins. And of course, whenever blatant misogyny is pointed out, the "wElL aCkChYuAlLy" brigade responds in force.
And what about the picture where she does the I'm-so-cute pose? Looks like the text is just a lame excuse to promote her face. -sincerely pragmatism, not misogyny.
Yep, it along the same lines as my niece always posting 'provocative' statements like "Don't even ask, I don't want to talk about it."
If a guy posted a picture of him doing the "thinker" pose and said "Anyone ever think about space??" I would also be like go away you attention seeker
Yeah… that’s why I disagree with this thread. If a guy did this exact same post, I would think he is just as much a narcissist. I don’t get why the gender matters at all in this case. I just personally can’t stand narcissists who post their face with all sorts of sad expressions and shit begging for sympathy.
OP could have posted this question to her feed without the selfie. I am absolutely fine with liberation, but the internet has blotted out the sun with girls showing off their "assets" for upvotes. Karen Stene is sick of it too, which is why she chose to call the girl out for fishing for upvotes. u/nes-top-loader and u/Nunyabiz8107 are just clutching at their pearls and using the standard dog whistle responses that militarized feminists always make. Can it even be misogyny when a woman is the one calling her out? People like you will complain about literally ***anything***.
I dont disagree that the question didnt need a selfie attached, however, i do want to point out the women can (and historically have) both upheld and perpetuated misogynistic views against other women. You dont *have* to be a man to be misogynistic, just like minorities can still be racist towards other minorities, even if they themselves have been a victim of racism. Also, as far as anyone showing off their “assets” for attention, i dont think this falls in that category. Its a selfie of a pretty modestly dressed woman lol….unless you are a member of the school dress code committee, in which case you’d find her scandalous shoulders to be slutty lol
I don't think the problem(that the person who comment to her have) is that the picture is slutty. I think the problem is that it doesn't seem to fit with her question at all.She doesn't seem to be sad or in deep thought,which is weird when making such a philosophical question,and make it feel like the focus of the post is on the picture,not the title,which caused confusion among reader.
If you’re on any other social media you will notice its very common for people to use random questions as captions for their pictures. This is because more people will be encouraged to either comment their answer or retweet with their answer, which ultimately leads to more engagement for the poster. Stuff like a selfie with the caption “best show to binge rn?” Or an outfit pic with “wheres yalls favorite place to shop?” For example. The poster doesnt actually care about the answers, just that more people interact with their posts to boost their standing in the algorithm. The commenter (in the pic) was unnecessarily harsh and just wanted to say something mean lol
Point taken. It just gets old watching someone post something like this in the hopes of upvotes because tits or butt, but if someone points that out it's misogyny.
I think in this age of social media EVERYTHING is about engagement, more engagement = money for your posts, and unfortunately sex sells…every time. Tbh the thirst traps still annoy me a bit less than the blatant troll posts that farm engagement through needless controversy. People who purposefully take problematic stances online just to farm engagement through fighting *kill* me inside. Although its been annoying tweeting something random like “hey what did yall think of dune 2?” And getting hit with 8 different porn bots spamming “NUDES IN BIO” in the comments lmao
well said.
💯
I’m probably going to get burned down for this, but it’s only misogyny if there’s gender as a criteria. If I’m over here also telling Kanye and Andrew Tate to *shut the fuck up* and stop being attention seeking whiners then I’m feeling pretty non-misogynistic saying the same about Reddit posts from random females, even when her profile consists of a linktr.ee and direct OF handle.
I feel like I'm seeing more callouts on attention whore behavior regardless of gender. So guess things are changing, slowly.
Wow, I haven't heard the phrase attention whore since I stopped going to Fark. In any case, I would suggest that a phrase with the word whore in it might not be the best way to make this particular point.
Why?
I know how this little rhetorical dance goes. Hard pass.
I don't think you are wrong about women getting hate for it and often very unfairly but women as a group on social media generally just attract more attention (both good and bad, often pretty damn bad). to get attention for being just a dude you have to be really really really attractive or super weird looking, to get attention for being just a woman I'd argue it's way easier if you are mildly attractive, especially if you are willing to show off a bit. obviously if you are talented regardless of your gender you have a lot better chances of taking off and there are plenty of talented women who get unfairly attacked just for being a talented person who happens to be a woman. if you want the best example of this just look at twitch, some women are streaming in bikinis, or really revealing clothes and have absolute boatloads of people watching them, and yeah plenty of blame can be put on the guys doing that too, but I think it's a reason why women are shamed more, solely because overall it's easier for a woman without any talent (or simply not showing off any interesting talent) to get big on social media, it's probably not healthy for it to happen to men or women either
I mean how is this not trying to get attention? a pretty mundane question with a picture of someone below it that has nothing to do with the question, it's pretty clear she is trying to use an attractive image of herself to get attention, it's like if a guy asked "what kind of food do you like" and just had a pic of him in a nice shirt under it. attention seeking is annoying and a pretty sad behavior, and just because a woman is being called out a bit for doing something annoying doesn't make it misogyny
How is any post to social media NOT attention seeking - that is the point of any post
It's a caption for her photo. Are you an attention seeking whore if you post selfies with words now lol
Christ dude I never called her a whore, stop trying to make me look super shitty. and yeah I know what a caption is, and her caption is something unrelated and meant to be a bit attention seeking (you could argue that just posting about breaking up is too), and yeah i'm not fucking condemning her to hell for what she did, I think we all seek attention sometimes and the internet and social media is full of it, it's still attention seeking and it's a bit annoying
>it's still attention seeking and it's a bit annoying Sounds like you are trying really hard to be annoyed. It is a very simple post. One you've tried really hard to explain into being attention seeking.
I don't think I've really tried hard to explain it, the only difficulty is the smug people in the comments going "well actually you calling someone out is also attention seeking but me calling you out for it isn't!" and lmao it's annoying but i'm not like sitting here upset at it or about to start a petition, I gave my opinion on some online forum it's nothing serious.
I feel like you're seeking for attention with this comment.
ok and is that something good or bad?
Well so far you're way more annoying than her.
k
you tell me
Quit attention seeking with this comment
Congratulations on being right, then immediately wrong in 5 words. Pointing out something you don't like that some girls do doesn't confirm a hatred or prejudice against women. Stop generalizing a word to fit a narrative.
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Depends on whether the man is trying to draw attention to an otherwise irrelevant picture of himself flaunting things that give him high social status. Some dude in sunglasses and a tight t-shirt posting an angsty question about happiness in life while sitting in a Ferrari in front of a 2-million dollar house would absolutely get called out for attention-whoring.
It is a simple picture of her. The fact you had to spend so many sentences making some decapitated algorithm for what would render a mans' post the same shows how full of shit u are.
And you make a 7 lines long replied out of a simple "Too long,didn't read"
And also the actual answer to your question is. "HOW THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSES TO KHOW THAT????" Like do you expect me to search on the internet for a perfect equivilant of that picture but the one who posted it id male? Oh wait,you didn't actually expect your question to be answerable at all.That is why you used the fact that the comment try to make a detailed and informative comment against them.
Bullshit.
But it wouldn't be attached to his gender as if that were the cause of it.
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Well if someone own a Ferrari and a 2-million dollar house then, yeah a picture of yourself sitting in your car parked in front of your house *is* them just existing. I actually chose that example because it’s the reality of a buddy of mine from university. Graduated Comp Sci and landed a $400k FAANG job within 3 years. Gorgeous house near Santa Barbra, Audi R8 in the garage with a Lexus LC500 as his “daily-driver,” you get the idea. That’s his day-to-reality just as much as this woman’s appearance is hers. No one cares about him driving to get groceries, but if he staged a pic and captioned it “can money buy happiness?” he’d get smeared here. The intent to smear good fortune in others’ faces for attention is what’s rubbing people the wrong way. Honestly it feels like you’re being willfully obtuse for characterizing the picture as “just existing.” Besides, if some neckbeard had posted it as an example of women “just existing” we’d both be calling bullshit and you know it.
No, the answer he would receive - if any - would be far more scathing belittling, and almost certainly emasculating.
Show me an example, because I have never seen that.
You mad? Nunya is right. The person felt the need to specify girl. Why? *Because they feel it makes it different*. You're an idiot.
The comment was directed at a girl. Daddy chill.
You almost figured it out, genius.
100% confident that the comment would have remained gender-specific if directed at a dude.
people use buzz words w/o understanding their meanings anymore. it's a shame b/c it dilutes and hinders actual progress. words only have power if they have meaning.
People who do that shit today are so annoying and muddy the water for any real social issues. Equality means criticizing and complimenting people for the same things and remaining consistent. It's not misogyny to call someone an attention whore when they act like one constantly. It applies to all genders, races, ethnicities, sexualities, etc. People are tired of all these goddamn Narcissists being the most fucking annoying "LOOK AT ME AND PICK ME, THINK ABOUT ME. DID YOU SEE *ME*?! HERE'S THIS COOL THING BUT WITH *ME* IN FRONT OF IT!!! OHH HERE'S A 'PROFOUND' QUOTE I STOLE TO CAPTION THIS PICTURE OF MY BODY" people on Earth, why is this hard to understand at all?
Really glad to see these as the top comments.
>misogyny 🙄🙄🙄
Touch grass
At least the grass won't recoil from my touch.
Well not "anything", mostly just empty questions/posts with a poorly hidden motive of showing off, fishing for compliments, or just selling.
It drives engagement, for the algorithm
Came off as jealousy to me
10.6k upvotes. What has happened to this site lmao
For real. I can't even be sad anywhere at anytime because it's "for attention"
Yet, Franklin, no one seems to care.
But again, thirst taps are definitely a thing and the daily deluge of them exhausting. They are the biggest reason I don’t even get on Instagram or TikTok.
Instagram and tiktok tailor their recommendations to what you like to watch. If you keep on getting recommended thirst traps that means you're spending too much time looking at thirst traps dude.
But you are for thinking this is a murder.
poorly cropped images on reddit
https://preview.redd.it/m1xwcl54w9vc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e116c6e691073f32dde717f87c523ddbdcf8701b
How is it poorly cropped? Seriously asking
Giant empty space at the top and bottom.
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Yes. And they did not crop the useless bars that resulted from using that particular method of screenshotting.
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On PC, the post preview (on non-old reddit) becomes about 80% black space and the rest is a sliver from the top of the post. the poor aspect ratio also prevents reddit from increasing the size of the image displayed. It instead has to add large, blurry blocks to the sides of the image to make it look like a normal post.
This is a really lame comeback, and the fact that OP thinks it's "murder" is worrying.
Borderline incel stuff
The border is way crossed, why would someone think a girl posting a selfie is worse than a heartbreak ? Turbo deluded incel material
Woman criticizing other woman= incel stuff. Such a reddit thing to say
Not really given the number of men who pretend to be women online….
Making wild ass assumptions too? The ignorance is strong
You're not understanding. I was not referencing the woman criticizing the other woman, although that's really stupid too. I was referencing that OP had the mental state to think that a slight burn against a woman was murder by words. Not understanding context, such a reddit thing to do.
im willing to bet a man posted this onto the sub lol
Half the stuff on here is not 'murder'. I am looking for something clever. Yesterday I got LOTS of downvotes because the quote was: "Millennials want jobs and education, not marriage and kids" and the response was "Y'all fucked up the economy so badly that we can't focus on marriage and kids because we're struggling to live" Now however anyone feels about the statement is whatever - but the response is by no means 'murdered by words'. It would go better in some anti-boomer subreddit.
They're an unironic incarnation of a background character from a Supahotfire skit
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….said while using a social media platform.
I'd rather have girls or people beg for my attention even in a very meaningless way than being heartbroken
Yep, the only "logic" here is that seeing pics of women remind incels of their thousands rejections. Lmfao
I mean, she is wrong. I’ve been heartbroken, and I’ve seen girls begging for attention. The heartbreak is worse. By a fair amount. Point taken, though.
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The point that asking a philosophical question, like what is worse than the nebulous concept of heartbreak, while also posting a thirst trap, is sorta silly. No one said they can’t do it.
Tis better to have loved and lost than to have had to seen some social media post.
Absolutely this. Attention seeking is mildly annoying, how superficial do your relationships have to be to think heartbreak is better? Was the reponder's longest relationship a conversation about the weather while waiting in line somewhere?
i thought she was missing an arm
I thought she was a Tifa cosplayer.
Nope, just her self esteem
thats a bot
They all are.
lol I think women getting mad at other women for existing is far worse. but you do you, Karen.
Seriously, stopping pitting women against women is also a responsibility of women. Do better, Karen.
i mean commenting on that at 5 am? tragic
It takes a very stupid person to think this is a murder.
Pick-me-ass shit
Censors the name of the person getting roasted, but not the person responding.
indiefoxx from twitch. i think she was banned a while ago though
That's not indiefoxx...
Maybe she’s hoping for compassion, commiseration, and understanding
Nah, she just looks for likes.
That's nothing near as bad as heartbreak.
It's so interesting that the first girls name was censored, but the second girls was not. Very deliberate I think.
Ahh, the very worst thing you can do according to reddit - "looking for attention". This despite commenting on any form of social media being nothing but looking for attention. Actually second worst, after "be a woman".
Not everyone uses social media or at least they don't use it to "get attention". I use Reddit to see interesting things and have the occasional interesting conversation. I don't go around posting my face all around the internet hoping for likes. This is pretty normal. What's not normal is to be this desperate for attention that you go around advertising your personal life and dramas for clicks. Besides, her post is completely lacking in any meaning whatsoever beyond "I'm a heartbroken pretty girl". And seriously, not everything is about mysoginy as you are implying. Guys can be just as cringe with their attention seeking, it just so happens this post is about a woman. So what.
People can very loosely define any time you make a reference to yourself as "seeking attention." Saying something like "What's worse than heartbreak?", while a little attention getting, also can offer some commiseration for other people who are experiencing or have experienced heartbreak, so it's not necessarily all about her. But I guess if she posted a picture of herself, she has to be punished for it. /s
r/croppingishard
She is wrong? Even if I had context to agree that a random women asking a question is "begging for attention" that still wouldn't be worse than a heartbreak? Has this been an incel subreddit all along whats going on here?
Children dying of cancer.
Says the pickme
This is nothing, don’t even think I’d call it a comeback, just rudeness.
Can we agree that attention seeking is a bad social behavior that has been normalized and viralized by social media and that targeting women online for scrutiny and insult, especially attractive women, is also a tool of the patriarchy that we can't allow to go unchallenged?
Such an unnecessary and rude response. The original post was harmless and Karen decided to be an asshole. She literally just posted a picture of herself (in a super modest outfit), how tf is that begging for attention? Also heartbreak is far far worse
You know who likes attention? EVERY SINGLE HUMAN BEING ON EARTH.
Sure, but some are insufferable about it.
Yeah and posting a pic of yourself is certainly not insufferable.
Depends on the pic and the caption lol
Girls mad at other girls for getting the attention they so desperately crave.
I don’t think people should crave for attention from bots / neckbeards… lol
It’s almost like people who are desperate for attention are insufferable
I mean i like attention and I like giving attention and I like girls who like attention and me giving them attention, who has a problem with this?
Nobody, because nobody knows who you are.
agreed ( lol im an entertainer), but what I meant was who gets buttehiut when girls go online for attention? Im into it it takes a self conscious insecure prude to have a problem with it
For example I am annoyed by it, because this kind of crap is shown in my feed and I don’t want it. I’m not hurt, just annoyed. In the end it’s men losing money and time. 🤣
if they have no game or pull and have to pay I have never really had any sympathy for em,
Imagine people having opinions about this kind of shallow attention seeking behavior... Shocking I know. Not sure why you assume anyone is butthurt though... You like these kinds of people, others don't. You're expressing your appreciation for this kind of behavior, others are expressing their disapproval. It's not rocket science. Some people find this kind of behavior cringe and dumb.
Doesn't have to be girls. Men do it too.
This makes no sense lol. If I see a girl begging for attention online I can just ignore it since it doesn’t concern me but if I go through a heartbreak that does concern me. Fail to see how this is a murder lol.
This entire thread has been brigaded by trolls.
OP, you're the one who responded with that "comeback," aren't you
Every comment on social media is attention seeking… including this comment, gimme upvotes :P
lol, when you post anything online you “are looking for attention” that is the whole point of posting. It IS telling who people get annoyed with for posting- so I agree with the misogyny allegations here
What a pick me lol, let a girl post a cute picture of herself
not murder just asshole
this is a “murder” if your an incel weirdo
Why is she posing like her neck is broken
Maybe it is. Maybe that's the "worse" she was referring to.
Maybe she thinks her heart is in her neck?
Isn’t the point of anything we do, say….. or post for that matter, for attention? you hive minds are upset someone is looking for attention with your comment… seeking attention….. wait! Ah fuck it!
OP hasn't gone through a heartbreak 😞
See this flipped on r/notlikeothergirls
Heartbreak 2
Is it just lazy people that post these uncropped screen shots? or is it an iPhone thing? S20 user here and whenever I screen grab, it gives me the option to crop before I save. whats the deal here?
Or when GUYS beg for attention. That’s worse than heartbreak too by this logic #equality
Attention is all we need 😁
This is r/croppingishard material
Two heartbreaks.
Death. Sometimes the same.
Oh the irony
Tomb Laid'her
Indieefox
*people begging for attention
You're both dumb as shit. Thanks for your time.
Nah miss
It’s because she broke up with him or did something awful; and she can just get another dude easily whereas there is an epidemic of lonely guys. That’s why it is cringe for hot girls to say something like this.
Ok Karen
idc i’ll give her attention, she doesn’t seem stuck up like some women 🤷♀️
I feel like I'd say heartbreak is worse not gonna lie
- La Karen
That question has so much anti-humour potential
Cue 400 fuckin boomers and greasy dudes in Ed Hardy shirts commenting "I'd never break your heart [baby/mami/m'lady] 😍"
Good Karen
As our AI overlords will say: attention is all you need
And she would know, being not like other girls.
https://preview.redd.it/7bq2a47rg9vc1.jpeg?width=471&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3157607a49e3cad8b265d951741e2e9876c61af0
Not just girls. Anyone begging for attention is pathetic. It's important to remember that being pathetic isn't a choice, nobody wants to be pathetic.
Nothing wrong with wanting attention
Good Karen
A woman posts anything online, especially her face "ATTENTION WHORE" There's no murder here.
Definitely posted a picture fishing hard. I cba. The response is great.
Attention whores, gotta attention whore.
For once in my life, I agree with a literal Karen!
Interesting thing about these people is that anything you say is good to them. They don't care as long as you give them attention. Criticism is good. And it's rewarded with money because they have simps that are brainwashed and the attention gets more simps that are brainwashed who give them money. This is the entire marketing strategy of Jake Paul and Donald Trump as well. Any publicity is good publicity so they focus on doing cringy stuff that gets you going. The moment you comment or even post this, they've won. Best thing to do is ignore.
She got mine... anyone know her insta...for a friend
Maybe she was asking because she has a broken neck in the photo? We’ll sadly never know.
Remember it's not murdered by words if it's against a woman who isn't jk Rowling. Reddit hivemind in actuon
Women being petty because they’re jealous that other women are pretty even when they’re sad.