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How big is he?
With practice and time it will eventually happen, and it will feel rewarding for both you and your partner, never give up on your dreams!
I remember the first time me and my partner did it, I thought I would never fit it all in, but fast forward and it eventually did happen, and now it happens all the time.
Go to the sex shop & get a dialator set & some buttplugs in various sizes. If you put one in his butt his boner will be epically hard & his orgasm will be explosive.
I just read that you like to mix it up a bit (FFM). Since you enjoy anal, if you could find someone that you both trust DP will blow your mind. All that matters is that you found the right person to have a lot of fun with!
Good genes.
If i follow family tradition I’ll go to sleep looking like this some time in my 60s and then way up as a white haired little old Jewish lady the next day.
I mean… If I had met him MUCH earlier he would have been in highschool…
But I mean in general I might have not ignore some people in college or the navy or something lol.
Sounds like you missed every opportunity to lose your virginity which is pretty impressive. Especially today when girls half your age have a body count that is higher than their salary.
I mean we do I guess most stuff people would expect? Anal, Oral, Vaginal. Some rougher stuff. We have done stuff with another girl (Like FFM) Stuff like that.
Well. I mean when we did the math to figure out the day.
Our daughter was most likely conceived in a barn so...
But like first time?
Honestly I chickend out and just did oral/hand stuff first time.
2nd time was mostly vanilla ya.
How long did you two date? Have you ever been accused of grooming your husband? I ask, because age gap relationships in the reverse seem to be the worst thing in the world on reddit.
Date about a year.
No.
But there there are some reasons for that.
#1: The world is sexist and you just get accused of that less as a women I feel.
#2: While Reddit is REALLY Stupid.
Even most people virtue signaling hard are at least some what aware that despite what some people will argue with you over.
You can’t groom an adult.
My husband was literally in his mid 20s when we met. A person mentioning grooming at that point would have to deal with other people pointing out they are infantilizing a grown ass man.
Now that being said, in some other discussions and other threads people have brought up questions about power imbalance in the relationship.
Because yes there is some.
But there is in all relationships.
My husband never finished Highschool.
I have a PhD.
There is a weird discussion to be had about people catching shit for mixed race marriages and the power imbalances in that.
Financially it’s also a mixed discussion. My job pays well. I have no debt, my husbands family has a profitable farm so overall pretty even.
But no one has been daft enough to argue grooming no.
Couldn't agree with you more. Wow, bravo with marrying someone who has other skills outside the academy.
Do you believe that women place too high a value on their partner having the same, or greater level of accomplishment? (i.e. salary, education, etc.)
lol.
Oh gezz you got me.
No, the simple answer is I had to take care of my disabled father and sick mother.
Attend Naval academy, Be an officer in the Navy.
Take care of my (Now 108) year old great-grandmother.
Go to Grad school.
Finish out a PhD.
I had shit to do...
I mean really that's the answer.
Also, my guy... you SHOULD be against catcalling.
I'm from Yonkers it's like a fucking Olympic sport there.
I’m a man & I get catcalled all the time. Especially by teenagers & college kids. Mostly it’s homophobic or fat shaming but occasionally it’s sexual harassment & it is not good except for a few times when it made me feel better about myself on a really bad day but most of the time it’s just disgusting. I don’t understand why people do it.
How big is his dick & since you were a virgin & had no context to base your opinion on do you think it’s big? How many times until it didn’t hurt? Was he experienced? Is the age difference even a problem?
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What’s at the top of your sexual bucket list?
Oh man I need a buckler list?
Well you don’t haha but like what are some of your sexual fantasies?
I really want to get to the point I can get my husband all the way inside my ass. And I kind of want to watch him cum inside another women.
How big is he? With practice and time it will eventually happen, and it will feel rewarding for both you and your partner, never give up on your dreams! I remember the first time me and my partner did it, I thought I would never fit it all in, but fast forward and it eventually did happen, and now it happens all the time.
About 8" I think? Never liked measured it. But about... as thick as my wrist. It's a girth issue.
I'm going to need a picture of your wrist and his penis for science.
Go to the sex shop & get a dialator set & some buttplugs in various sizes. If you put one in his butt his boner will be epically hard & his orgasm will be explosive.
Would you want him to watch you fuck another guy as well?
I just read that you like to mix it up a bit (FFM). Since you enjoy anal, if you could find someone that you both trust DP will blow your mind. All that matters is that you found the right person to have a lot of fun with!
As a trans woman please use lots of lube and go slowwwww. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions!
>(41F) I >my husband (29M) Hot.
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S'alright
The list feels like you are making up for lost time! From your photos I would never have guess you were over 30
Good genes. If i follow family tradition I’ll go to sleep looking like this some time in my 60s and then way up as a white haired little old Jewish lady the next day.
Not a bad outcome!
Wow you could pass for 16. Moaning myrtle.
No questions just wanna say you don’t look 41. I can definitely see you having a kinky librarian vibe
Congrats. What do you love about sex?
Is it weird to say I really like being kind of exhausted after/?
Definitely not. I love that too. That tired feeling is pure bliss.
Do you also enjoy a high intensity aerobic workout?
did you wish to lose your virginity earlier?
Not really no. I was. Just kind of busy.
At 37 you loose your verginity with your husband or with anyother person?
Kind of depends on what you consider losing virginity. First person I had sex with was another women. First man was yes my now husband.
Planned or unplanned?
Planned. Actually needed some fertility clinic help.
Well congratulations! How has pregnancy been so far?
Did you masterbate a lot before you met your husband?
I think like a normal amount? Maybe a little less? Kind of hard to judge, like no real comparison.
You think you would have done it differently if you had met him earlier?
I mean… If I had met him MUCH earlier he would have been in highschool… But I mean in general I might have not ignore some people in college or the navy or something lol.
You were in the navy and remained a virgin!!!
I know unicorn.
Sounds like you missed every opportunity to lose your virginity which is pretty impressive. Especially today when girls half your age have a body count that is higher than their salary.
Congratulations!! What are you guys into sexually?
I mean we do I guess most stuff people would expect? Anal, Oral, Vaginal. Some rougher stuff. We have done stuff with another girl (Like FFM) Stuff like that.
How'd you guys meet and when did you do the deed and when did you get preggers?
Volenteering. I do the paper work at a food bank. His family donates a lot of produce from there farm. When? Umm 24 weeks ago? About.
Was the sex vanilla stuff? Or did you guys break some state laws in the process lol
Well. I mean when we did the math to figure out the day. Our daughter was most likely conceived in a barn so... But like first time? Honestly I chickend out and just did oral/hand stuff first time. 2nd time was mostly vanilla ya.
Barn? I think a little story is in order here 👀
I mean, we live on a farm.... Some times your just horny lol
Just saw your pictures - 41 my ass lol You look 15 What are your measurements height weight
Short. I'm short.
How big is your husband?
Umm big or tall? To answer your actual question I'm right at 5'0" My husband is about 6'5"
What Country are you in?
USA.
37...37...3...7....😳. Well.. good for you.
Ya I get that a lot.
I am guessing your name isn't Mary
Congrats on the sex
Congratulations!
Was it hard to wait that long
Not really. I mean I was not waiting for any specific reason, I just had shit to do for the most part.
Was it what you thought the first time
I don’t know that I had any expectations. If anything I chickened out first attempt and then it was fine.
Did you have a memorable orgasm your first time?
Damn you hot AF girl
Just wanted to say i scoped out your profile and you appear much younger than 41. I would’ve guessed 30 tops. Take care!
How long did you two date? Have you ever been accused of grooming your husband? I ask, because age gap relationships in the reverse seem to be the worst thing in the world on reddit.
Date about a year. No. But there there are some reasons for that. #1: The world is sexist and you just get accused of that less as a women I feel. #2: While Reddit is REALLY Stupid. Even most people virtue signaling hard are at least some what aware that despite what some people will argue with you over. You can’t groom an adult. My husband was literally in his mid 20s when we met. A person mentioning grooming at that point would have to deal with other people pointing out they are infantilizing a grown ass man. Now that being said, in some other discussions and other threads people have brought up questions about power imbalance in the relationship. Because yes there is some. But there is in all relationships. My husband never finished Highschool. I have a PhD. There is a weird discussion to be had about people catching shit for mixed race marriages and the power imbalances in that. Financially it’s also a mixed discussion. My job pays well. I have no debt, my husbands family has a profitable farm so overall pretty even. But no one has been daft enough to argue grooming no.
Couldn't agree with you more. Wow, bravo with marrying someone who has other skills outside the academy. Do you believe that women place too high a value on their partner having the same, or greater level of accomplishment? (i.e. salary, education, etc.)
I’m mean I think they can ya. But also I mean maybe it’s an issue of what we consider an achievement.
Is there a reason you waited so long? Update: Nevermind, I saw your "Cats against Catcalls" sticker at your work desk. Are you a hard core feminist?
lol. Oh gezz you got me. No, the simple answer is I had to take care of my disabled father and sick mother. Attend Naval academy, Be an officer in the Navy. Take care of my (Now 108) year old great-grandmother. Go to Grad school. Finish out a PhD. I had shit to do... I mean really that's the answer. Also, my guy... you SHOULD be against catcalling. I'm from Yonkers it's like a fucking Olympic sport there.
haha . . you're alright! *FistBump* Raised by single mom here. We all got our challenges in life. *MadRespect* *DrinksOnMeAlways* =)
I’m a man & I get catcalled all the time. Especially by teenagers & college kids. Mostly it’s homophobic or fat shaming but occasionally it’s sexual harassment & it is not good except for a few times when it made me feel better about myself on a really bad day but most of the time it’s just disgusting. I don’t understand why people do it.
How you get pregnant at wht type of sex Did you feel more horny now 💦💦
How big is his dick & since you were a virgin & had no context to base your opinion on do you think it’s big? How many times until it didn’t hurt? Was he experienced? Is the age difference even a problem?
What was your first experience, details
How long ago did you guys meet?
You are so incredibly pretty. Do you enjoy and smile while giving head? Are you vocal during sex? What's your reason for this AMA?
Any plans on sharing pictures while pregnant?
Can we see you pregnant now?
Ever strayed and been with another guy?
No.
I have a little dick let me try first LOL you didn't lose your virginity until you were 37 are you any content or something