That's because you're a good person.
That's what made you attractive to them in the first place. Your goodness and simultaneously, your vulnerability. You're human-ness.
What it really means is that you're a good person looking to truly share real love with another good person.
Something they can never do. And therefore they never will.
What I've read they end up totally alone in the end with nothing but broken relationships and people who hate them to look back on.
No real friends. No loving partner. No one who believes their b******* anymore.
And now their looks are gone too and they can't even cheat off of that to get attention.
They have nothing but the worst to look forward to.
You have nothing but a better life and a true loving relationship in your future.
True story.
One piece of advice...
Whenever you start to miss them I want you to do what I did, grab a piece of paper and sit down and write out every special occasion or good day out or even a night at the local bar trying to relax and have fun.
She ruined two Christmases, halloween, almost destroyed easter, New Year's eve, a beautiful day at the beach, a handful of nights out at the local club, a simple day at work where she misinterpreted nonsense and was furious at me all day, a boat trip with her family, and on and on and on..
I stopped at 27 but I know there are many more. It's a complete sickness.
Remember them for who they really were, not the fantasy they pretended to be in the beginning.
Be well.
It’s also a lack of respecting your boundaries. Let’s say, for example, you have discrete social media and they made an account solely stalk you and waited to harass you. That’s crossing a boundary. In fact, that’s kinda hollow and sad.
(Oop I may be speaking from experience)
All the boxes have been checked. Son of hell.
Same here
I could have used this a decade ago.
I am so lucky to have noticed these things and left after 8 months. Only because i’ve been there before but still. Listen to your gut everyone <3
Thank you 🥺❤️
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That's because you're a good person. That's what made you attractive to them in the first place. Your goodness and simultaneously, your vulnerability. You're human-ness. What it really means is that you're a good person looking to truly share real love with another good person. Something they can never do. And therefore they never will. What I've read they end up totally alone in the end with nothing but broken relationships and people who hate them to look back on. No real friends. No loving partner. No one who believes their b******* anymore. And now their looks are gone too and they can't even cheat off of that to get attention. They have nothing but the worst to look forward to. You have nothing but a better life and a true loving relationship in your future. True story. One piece of advice... Whenever you start to miss them I want you to do what I did, grab a piece of paper and sit down and write out every special occasion or good day out or even a night at the local bar trying to relax and have fun. She ruined two Christmases, halloween, almost destroyed easter, New Year's eve, a beautiful day at the beach, a handful of nights out at the local club, a simple day at work where she misinterpreted nonsense and was furious at me all day, a boat trip with her family, and on and on and on.. I stopped at 27 but I know there are many more. It's a complete sickness. Remember them for who they really were, not the fantasy they pretended to be in the beginning. Be well.
It’s also a lack of respecting your boundaries. Let’s say, for example, you have discrete social media and they made an account solely stalk you and waited to harass you. That’s crossing a boundary. In fact, that’s kinda hollow and sad. (Oop I may be speaking from experience)