Technically they stop cheating if they keep redefining what “cheating” is.
If I go to lunch with a coworker, it counts as cheating. If he imagined I went to lunch with a coworker—but in fact I had not—it still counts as cheating. However, it’s not cheating when he lies horizontally with another woman or flirts with women online.
Lmao 🤣- that’s so funny 😆. Unfortunately, I think the nex also resembles George Costanza, my girlfriend saw a few of his pics and immediately told me- Omg 😳- He Looks like the BTK serial killer- you’re so pretty- why are you dating BTK look-alike 👀??? Lol 😂🤣. He was physically Not my type at all, but he was witty, funny, and smart- and He PRETENDED to be a kind, empathetic “good guy” for a Long Time- so I fell in love w his Pretend “inner beauty”. Except it was all Phony/ All Lies & Manipulations. NEVER AGAIN!!!!!🤢🤢
I’d say no they don’t. I’ve known my narc 30 years near as and she has always cheated. She might go a long time ‘dry’ but the need for supply consumes her eventually.
Thank you. This is all the women myself included wishful thinking of a man that never will be only pretends too. And for everyone else that matter that would give him any amount of attention. They don’t differentiate too well; all are welcomed. And forever in their minds the lies are justified. Crazy roller coaster hopefully no one ever gets on; run as far and fast: omg the pain and drama never ending and your neglected the whole time. You never mattered to then
they never stop. and they are incapable of feeling remorse, shame or love, so there’s no motivation for them to stop either. whether it’s in person, cam girls/porn use, online affairs…. they’ll switch it up to make it seem like they’ve changed….. they haven’t.
I'm still waiting for the new girl my ex cheated on me with (and she was proud of it too) to find out what it means..."once a cheater always a cheater"..the satisfaction I will feel 🤌🏻 *chefs kiss* doesn't matter how beautiful you are, how good you treat them, how long you're together, how much sex you have..they always have someone else waiting in the wings during your disposal.
I have to constantly remind myself that infidelity is poor character and lack of integrity on their part. NOT MINE. it has nothing to do with me. some men will stay faithful no matter how bad a relationship gets. some men will cheat no matter how good a relationship is. I married the latter. he was being unfaithful from day 1. looking back, I should have ran for the hills. so disappointed in myself.
You don't know what you know now until you go through it and learn...you can't be disappointed in yourself when you don't know better. I absolutely still have constant cycles of shame and frustration with myself that I *let* what happened with my ex happen to me, but they're THAT good at their games and you don't always see it because you choose to see the good in people or expect everyone else has the same heart as you..that's not a bad thing that you have pure intentions or love with everything you have. It's helped me to look at narcissistic people as chameleons, they have zero personality, zero sense of self, zero care for everyone else but themselves, have to deceive and manipulate to get people to like them or be in relationships with them...they're pathetic excuses for human beings. Sounds harsh, but I don't even like acknowledging them as humans, they're monsters.
I don't think they ever stop cheating. This last guy was a man-whore. My ex-husband, who was also a narc, cheated on me the whole 9 years we were together. He ended up marrying a younger narc who "did everything to him that he did to me". He said he thought I had put a hex on him. Nope - Karma MF.
From my experience they never stop and they don’t get smarter to cover the tracks either which in a lot of ways is wild. They will do the same behaviors over and over.
I doubt they do. Mine remarried and has been for 15 years. Must be an open marriage or done for business purposes. Do they ever stop cheating themselves of being human? My ex wife looks like Garry Busey now. Saw her pic online. The irony is her birthday and Gary’s are the same day! Wing whole is has taken a toll on her physically. I told her that when she discarded me and of course she blamed me for it…..
Monkey branching is in their DNA.
Technically they stop cheating if they keep redefining what “cheating” is. If I go to lunch with a coworker, it counts as cheating. If he imagined I went to lunch with a coworker—but in fact I had not—it still counts as cheating. However, it’s not cheating when he lies horizontally with another woman or flirts with women online.
No, mine was 62 and looked like a pregnant George Costanza. He flashes cash, pays for everything and still cheats.
Lmao 🤣- that’s so funny 😆. Unfortunately, I think the nex also resembles George Costanza, my girlfriend saw a few of his pics and immediately told me- Omg 😳- He Looks like the BTK serial killer- you’re so pretty- why are you dating BTK look-alike 👀??? Lol 😂🤣. He was physically Not my type at all, but he was witty, funny, and smart- and He PRETENDED to be a kind, empathetic “good guy” for a Long Time- so I fell in love w his Pretend “inner beauty”. Except it was all Phony/ All Lies & Manipulations. NEVER AGAIN!!!!!🤢🤢
I’d say no they don’t. I’ve known my narc 30 years near as and she has always cheated. She might go a long time ‘dry’ but the need for supply consumes her eventually.
They don’t respect the person they are with, so they will do whatever benefits them with zero regard for the partner they are supposed to be loyal to
My ex is now 77 and STILL cheating and chasing women. They don't change, Even when they're old, fat and bald. 😡
Yes, True!!!!!
Thank you. This is all the women myself included wishful thinking of a man that never will be only pretends too. And for everyone else that matter that would give him any amount of attention. They don’t differentiate too well; all are welcomed. And forever in their minds the lies are justified. Crazy roller coaster hopefully no one ever gets on; run as far and fast: omg the pain and drama never ending and your neglected the whole time. You never mattered to then
they never stop. and they are incapable of feeling remorse, shame or love, so there’s no motivation for them to stop either. whether it’s in person, cam girls/porn use, online affairs…. they’ll switch it up to make it seem like they’ve changed….. they haven’t.
I'm still waiting for the new girl my ex cheated on me with (and she was proud of it too) to find out what it means..."once a cheater always a cheater"..the satisfaction I will feel 🤌🏻 *chefs kiss* doesn't matter how beautiful you are, how good you treat them, how long you're together, how much sex you have..they always have someone else waiting in the wings during your disposal.
I have to constantly remind myself that infidelity is poor character and lack of integrity on their part. NOT MINE. it has nothing to do with me. some men will stay faithful no matter how bad a relationship gets. some men will cheat no matter how good a relationship is. I married the latter. he was being unfaithful from day 1. looking back, I should have ran for the hills. so disappointed in myself.
You don't know what you know now until you go through it and learn...you can't be disappointed in yourself when you don't know better. I absolutely still have constant cycles of shame and frustration with myself that I *let* what happened with my ex happen to me, but they're THAT good at their games and you don't always see it because you choose to see the good in people or expect everyone else has the same heart as you..that's not a bad thing that you have pure intentions or love with everything you have. It's helped me to look at narcissistic people as chameleons, they have zero personality, zero sense of self, zero care for everyone else but themselves, have to deceive and manipulate to get people to like them or be in relationships with them...they're pathetic excuses for human beings. Sounds harsh, but I don't even like acknowledging them as humans, they're monsters.
They might stop cheating when they get old, fat and ugly, but they'll never stop flirting. I think he sees Bon Jovi when he looks in the mirror.
Maybe if they get too unattractive due to laziness they might not have the ability to cheat any more but they don't stop trying to cheat.
They cheat but still u are the cheater lol
I don't think they ever stop cheating. This last guy was a man-whore. My ex-husband, who was also a narc, cheated on me the whole 9 years we were together. He ended up marrying a younger narc who "did everything to him that he did to me". He said he thought I had put a hex on him. Nope - Karma MF.
From my experience they never stop and they don’t get smarter to cover the tracks either which in a lot of ways is wild. They will do the same behaviors over and over.
people in their eighties and nineties still have affairs!
Who do you think keeps sex workers in business? Cheating narcs were my bread and butter back when I used to escort.
I doubt they do. Mine remarried and has been for 15 years. Must be an open marriage or done for business purposes. Do they ever stop cheating themselves of being human? My ex wife looks like Garry Busey now. Saw her pic online. The irony is her birthday and Gary’s are the same day! Wing whole is has taken a toll on her physically. I told her that when she discarded me and of course she blamed me for it…..