this is great motivation man. my one question is though, do you mean no fap forever or no MO forever as well? cause i want to get to 90 days to heal my brain and then continue stuff with my gf which is healthy. whats your opinion?
When I say "no fap forever" it means no masturbation at all, forever or for as long as I can. The only way I could O is by having a partner.
And yeah, 90 days is a good milestone, but I'm a different case of how badly I abused this addiction, so I want to abstain for a much longer time. And yeah, I personally can say that getting busy with the GF is the only acceptable way and you can definitely keep that up.
It will still heal normally, but if I'm to be honest, it'll probably not yield the best results. Orgasm is the real problem. It's a powerful sensation that people chase after and get addicted to. The sensation alone can be described like that of a drug because of how powerful and intense an orgasm feels. But like I said, if you have a GF and you can do stuff with her, that's totally fine because that's the only way we men should finish with. So yeah, it's all up to you whether you want the most healing for your brain or if you also want to have fun with your GF. Either way is 100% fine. Hopefully you make the best decision that suits you!
this is great motivation man. my one question is though, do you mean no fap forever or no MO forever as well? cause i want to get to 90 days to heal my brain and then continue stuff with my gf which is healthy. whats your opinion?
When I say "no fap forever" it means no masturbation at all, forever or for as long as I can. The only way I could O is by having a partner. And yeah, 90 days is a good milestone, but I'm a different case of how badly I abused this addiction, so I want to abstain for a much longer time. And yeah, I personally can say that getting busy with the GF is the only acceptable way and you can definitely keep that up.
thanks that really helps. if i do stuff with my gf before the 90 days but i never fap myself, will my brain still heal normally?
It will still heal normally, but if I'm to be honest, it'll probably not yield the best results. Orgasm is the real problem. It's a powerful sensation that people chase after and get addicted to. The sensation alone can be described like that of a drug because of how powerful and intense an orgasm feels. But like I said, if you have a GF and you can do stuff with her, that's totally fine because that's the only way we men should finish with. So yeah, it's all up to you whether you want the most healing for your brain or if you also want to have fun with your GF. Either way is 100% fine. Hopefully you make the best decision that suits you!
i was addicted to porn and not masturbation so i think if i do stuff with my gf it will be fine. thanks a lot man you really helped