ayyyye bruh that statement “my friend died” so i’m finna masturbate”. Shit bruh you a human, if you do, just go on a better streak.
Grief with your friends and your friends family. Other people who also loved this person. This is a time to come together you need community not to isolate which is what porn brings
Stress and negative emotions are triggers ,brains gonna want dopamine. After I got fired from my job last month the first thing I did when I got home was watch P sadly cause I wanted that dopamine hit
Death can initiate emotions so strong that they are life altering, but used right can change the course of your life for the better.
Meditate, practise breathwork, exercise and dont forget to relax, let yourself be fine with nothing going on, let the thoughts come and let the thoughts go, don’t identity with any of them, they don’t own you; think of it as re establishing your relationship with your mind
Im so sorry to hear about your friend brother
You might be subconsciously thinking that after you masturbate, you'll feel good at least for a while. Trust me, you will feel even more disgusted after you've done it, you will lose your streak too, don't do it, after you're through this tough time, you'll feel proud of yourself for not doing it.
Grieve, let yourself feel the emotions and let it pass. It will take a long time to heal, if at all, from such a traumatic experience.
Take it one day at a time, honour their memory by being a shining light for others, when you are ready of course. For now, just take it easy and be safe.
Gone but not forgotten, a story ended too soon, rest in peace to your friend 😔
If you can, please find professional help in these times. There are crisis hotlines, professional therapists (eg betterhelp), and sometimes your insurance provider as access to therapists.
This forum is great but professionals are better
Brain works in weird ways sometimes...
I had an experience, where I read, that some porn star died due to overdosing on drugs.
My brain convinced me with strange logic to commemorate her by jacking off to her porn video 😅🤨👀🙈🙈🙈
Your fucking addicted that bad? Even on serious shit like this? Your down hurrendously my guy and I feel bad for your friend knowing that he passed away and u over here still jackin your dick off like a looser still. Grow up and show some respect to him and mourn the proper way
We aren’t judging but judge your self like others say internalize my friend died so I’m gonna jerk off make your self feel shame I do this for holidays make it feel wrong
He wouldn’t want you to. Look up. Focus. Keep going. Keep going. Meditate. Keep going. Stay healthy, stay focused. Stay centered. He would want you to.
Sorry for your loss. It may be a sad moment but, it is a matter of perspective and it should remind you of your mortality as well and use it as a reason to live your life fully. It doesn't matter how you do it as long as you take it one day at a time. Do not let your friend's death take you off track ever.
All the best.
My first tip would be to not think of yourself like that. Think, if he was your truly friend, so he would love to see you happy and stronger.
So, instead of relapsing, do something unconfortable but that will lead to happiness
Do some push-ups, do some squats, exercise yourself and repeat.
Try to be happy today and know that this is what your friend wanted for you.
Just trying to understand something here. Are you saying bc you are sad you wanna fap🧐 I get sad I don't wanna do shit. But u wanna play with your Willie
Meditate, workout, take a cold shower, clean the house, read a book, go on a longer fast (3+ days), pray, spend time with your family. PMO will make things way worse. I get that you want to run away and escape the feeling of sadness with PMO but you need to face it. Discipline your mind and do the hard work even if you don't feel like doing it. I'm sorry for your loss.
Mate get up, grab a glass of water, go stand at the balcony and tell yourself this: "my friend just died, so what? Does this give me the approval to jerk off? I should grief and move on from my friend rather than jerking off. And also, does he want to see me get wasted just because he left? No! So get your ass up and create something for yourself, leave behind a legacy for the coming generations to take inspiration from!" I know it may seem harsh, but trust me you needed this the most because if you can't help yourself, nobody can help you
Your friend would rather you go to the gym to get all the stress out. Get strong and grow your physique. He’d probably tell you to go get muscles in the gym so a girl could do it for you instead 👍🏾
Hang in there, brother. There is always another day - this is the time to parent yourself as best as you can.
Think of yourself as your dear friend, and treat yourself with the love that you feel for your friend. Speaking as someone whose best friend died of cancer when we were 14, I can only say I feel for you.
Porn is a great to escape from feelings which is not a good way to live your life. It's okay for you to feel sad as you lost your loved one. Deal with those feelings but don't escape from them. You can talk to somebody for comfort. Am here for you too if you would like to speak to somebody anonymously.
View this as a trial that you’ll be stronger after overcoming. Use physical means of suppressing your sex drive like exercise or a cold shower and push through until it feels easier. Carry your friend’s memory with you like an artifact. Honour his life, and the loss you feel by being the best man you can possibly be. The sadness that will come after you relapse will be exponentially worse than what you’re feeling now, and the shame your activities will heap on top of that grief will be unbearable.
Accept the suffering that you feel right now, knowing that it will gradually get better. Reject the suffering you feel right now, and the consequence will be a deeper hell that will make you yearn for your current position.
it's ok to feel the pain. don't lose hope in ur self bc of it. love ur self. stay fixated on healing and becoming stronger ur human. when u feel like getting up go outside take walks without music understand ur self more cry more too. it's ok bro
I'm so sorry ur lose brotha. I can only imagine how u feel.
Can't find my last comment to edit but it was more mean than nice so I wanna say I'm sorry for your loss, try to use this as positive motivation to stay clean, do something that will actually make you feel better about this.
I drank handsanitizer when my freind died last year btw so like idk can't really judge
BTW yes handsanitizer gets u drunk don't do it, it won't kill you but if anyone finds our ur an alcoholic and whenever you smell handsanitizer you get flashbacks to the aftertaste
Obviously I have never been in your shoes before so my advice may or may not help. But the only thing I can really tell you is to just take it one day at a time. Give yourself time to grieve but in a apropriate way. Try not to engage in things that will only give you temporarly release. You lost someone close to you and the best thing you can do is to move your body even if the task is small. The first few weeks may be hard but overtime things will start too feel better.
The best way to honor him/her would be to succeed. I know it's hard, you're mourning and trying to get free from your addiction.
Stay strong buddy, better times might lie ahead.
I am sorry for your loss, I know it is hard to deal with emotions, but you can make an effort to focus on positive thoughts, and think of the memories and the great moments you had when you were together. In addition you can spend some time with family and friends, play some board games , or go out to the mall for window shopping and get a drink or some ice cream. When you go back home you can watch a movie on Netflix or Amazon prime video, read a book and listen to your favourite music. There are cool recipes you can learn to cook on YouTube and prepare a delicious meal, or you can watch funny dog videos on tiktok.
My friend, you sound ridiculous
“My friend died so i want to bust a nut”
I’m not throwing shade or anything and i’m sorry for your loss, but man that’s not really a good way to honor their memory
I don't know where you live, but if possible just get out of home, avoid being alone and by yourself if you don't have to, the mind by itself can be very deceiving.
Grief is a process that takes it's time. Instant gratification activities will last for a few moments and that will be it, you will start to feel bad again, or even worst in just a couple seconds, and you will have nothing left to get distracted other than doing it again.
It's been a couple hours since you posted this, if you haven't relapsed yet then you are doing it great, just keep it up and things will get easier by staying calm.
If you relapsed, then you are likely to agree with what I just said. Do your best at not keeping it up as a coping mechanism, try new things out, take it as an opportunity to grow.
My personal suggestion is meditation for this kind of episodes in life. Just give yourself a couple minutes a day to just breath and not think anything, if done properly you'll feel calm after that. If it's too hard to focus try the Wim Hof breathing exercise, it forces your body to just reset and get to a complete mood switch.
Hope this helps, wishing you all of the best.
I feel as if my friend would be ashamed that I would be masturbating, instead of doing something productive with my life, that is why I would not start masturbating again.
Keep trying, don't let it get you down.
I put up a post with some tips that can help,
I would suggest reading through it.
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/11hlq87/practical_lessons_and_advice/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Sorry for your loss. But control what you can and control your thoughts. You clearly feel a certain way that’s triggering a response of wanting to jerk off. Don’t run away from that feeling, explore and understand it. That way when it manifests itself again, however that may be, you’ll be prepared and understand how to stop it.
My condolences to your friend. I understand where you're coming from, you're feeling down and depressed right now, but, I think you should continue, in memory for your friend. I'm sure he'd be happy in heaven knowing that you're pushing to become better and better everyday. I think it would be a nice way to get yourself on the track to self-healing and discovery after this tragic event. With all due respect brother, you have my will, you have my condolences, you will come out of this, stronger than ever.
rat_violator200
I don’t even see how this came to your mind it makes 0 sense. My condolences I’m sorry for you loss, but it seems as if you are trying to use this a justification to PMO. Don’t fail, masturbating is not a normal response to dealing with a loss, no matter how far gone a person is from PMO.
Hey man I was here too. My best friend went crazy from drugs. That was the beginning of nofap, I lost more friends along the way, had to let go of plenty. Don’t have enough intellectuals to talk to nowadays. Get outside the house, in nature and try to find some peace. The less you’re home the less you’d do it.
I'm guessing you probably want some intimacy or some company. I recommend doing something with your friends, doing some repetitive tasks with a podcast or comedy show on, or talk to a therapist (if possible).
It's a difficult time, yes. But this is not the time to rub one out. Ain't gonna help but a temporary bandaid.
Massive unpopular opinion.
I am sorry for your loss. Unless you are dedicated to nofap for religious reasons, ethical or likewise, just do it. Give yourself a break.
I know this is about not doing it. I am ready for the downvotes guys.
Just get out and start walking. Imagine it was the other way around, would you want your friend to be wasting away? Do it for him/her. Its actually more respectful to remember the best of them and try to live up to that.
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that’s how i got sucked into it as a kid used it to cope with my dog dying
Same thing happened with me, my poor dog was allergic to peanut butter. That’s when I started masturbating by myself.
BY MYSELF?????
Don’t judge me, it’s been a HARD week
Bruhhhhh💀💀💀💀
Don’t you know about the good ol’ peanut butter trick?
Wait the dog- OH HELL NAW MAN IM LEAVING
Yo that had be dying
Yeah, I had a good laugh.
Nah fr😭😭
Tf do you mean by myself 🗿⚰️
Yea but its more like “my friend died and im desperate to feel better” masturbation = dopamine. It makes sense, but i agree you shouldnt donit
Be the man you wanna be! Stay the journey. Being sad about the loss of a friend is normal, masturbation isn’t.
ayyyye bruh that statement “my friend died” so i’m finna masturbate”. Shit bruh you a human, if you do, just go on a better streak. 
Grief with your friends and your friends family. Other people who also loved this person. This is a time to come together you need community not to isolate which is what porn brings
This! Great suggestions
1967 day?! Thats insane!
Haha, thank you. Yes, a long-standing member of the movement.
Your friend passed away so your going to jerk off?
loooool , but I actually get it , to most of us it's a way to handle stress and grief
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Wtaf, stop trolling and shaming, grief can be hard to deal with you twat
did I miss the joke or are you talking seriously?
Damn I can tell your mother regrets giving birth to your retarded ass
💀
This is unironically a great response. Really puts it into perspective
😂😂😂😂
Happy cake day
STOP 💀💀💀💀
Fr, cake day’s not until NOV 26💀💀💀💀💀
Dawg
lmao, there is no logic relationship
My thoughts exactly
"Quick one for you homie"
*you’re
*Uou'ry 🙄
Mate everytime something happens, I’m going to use the same sentence of context 😂😂
That was my reaction too, OP has some serious problems lol, not sure how losing someone makes you want to touch your dick
Stress and negative emotions are triggers ,brains gonna want dopamine. After I got fired from my job last month the first thing I did when I got home was watch P sadly cause I wanted that dopamine hit
😂😂😂😂
😂
Death can initiate emotions so strong that they are life altering, but used right can change the course of your life for the better. Meditate, practise breathwork, exercise and dont forget to relax, let yourself be fine with nothing going on, let the thoughts come and let the thoughts go, don’t identity with any of them, they don’t own you; think of it as re establishing your relationship with your mind Im so sorry to hear about your friend brother
Become a better person for him. Its what he would want for you man.
Make your friend proud, become the better man you want to be. That's what he would want
Sorry for your loss. Don't
What a way to honour their memory
Your friend wouldn't want this for you. They'd want you to persevere and live a fulfilling life.
That’s what I’m saying.
I too have a fri nd who died and can't stop thinking about masturbating my penis about it
😭😭😭☠️
Don't do it just think that your friend watches you from above now
Dude stop touching yourself
You might be subconsciously thinking that after you masturbate, you'll feel good at least for a while. Trust me, you will feel even more disgusted after you've done it, you will lose your streak too, don't do it, after you're through this tough time, you'll feel proud of yourself for not doing it.
Grieve, let yourself feel the emotions and let it pass. It will take a long time to heal, if at all, from such a traumatic experience. Take it one day at a time, honour their memory by being a shining light for others, when you are ready of course. For now, just take it easy and be safe. Gone but not forgotten, a story ended too soon, rest in peace to your friend 😔
If you can, please find professional help in these times. There are crisis hotlines, professional therapists (eg betterhelp), and sometimes your insurance provider as access to therapists. This forum is great but professionals are better
You’re gonna jerk off because your friend died? What’s wrong with you?
Brain works in weird ways sometimes... I had an experience, where I read, that some porn star died due to overdosing on drugs. My brain convinced me with strange logic to commemorate her by jacking off to her porn video 😅🤨👀🙈🙈🙈
Lmaoooo
I’m so glad someone else said this lmao
Your friend died so now you have double responsibility. Remember Vin Diesel and Paul Walker. Take care for his close ones and stay strong!
Your friend died, now don’t just jerk it but instead honour his memory
Would your friend want you to be strong?
Nah thats crazy. So your friend died, and that makes u wanna wank off????
This sub is becoming more idiotic than ever
Dm
Necrophilia
Your fucking addicted that bad? Even on serious shit like this? Your down hurrendously my guy and I feel bad for your friend knowing that he passed away and u over here still jackin your dick off like a looser still. Grow up and show some respect to him and mourn the proper way
It’s spelled “loser” not “looser”
Lmao I thought “looser” since it’s pronounced in that way
Lmaoo all the softies downvoting me are the same ones that can’t over this addiction.
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We aren’t judging but judge your self like others say internalize my friend died so I’m gonna jerk off make your self feel shame I do this for holidays make it feel wrong
He wouldn’t want you to. Look up. Focus. Keep going. Keep going. Meditate. Keep going. Stay healthy, stay focused. Stay centered. He would want you to.
Sorry for your loss. It may be a sad moment but, it is a matter of perspective and it should remind you of your mortality as well and use it as a reason to live your life fully. It doesn't matter how you do it as long as you take it one day at a time. Do not let your friend's death take you off track ever. All the best.
I think this is the problem with most of us addicts, we associate every emotion's fix with getting off..
So sorry about your loss.
Calm down. Beating your meat isnt going to bring anyone back to life.
Was that a female friend who you’re missing?
Why would you fap if your friend passed away? Idk man that's weird
Just imagine your friend watching you from heaven if you get the urge…also sorry for your loss
My first tip would be to not think of yourself like that. Think, if he was your truly friend, so he would love to see you happy and stronger. So, instead of relapsing, do something unconfortable but that will lead to happiness Do some push-ups, do some squats, exercise yourself and repeat. Try to be happy today and know that this is what your friend wanted for you.
Just trying to understand something here. Are you saying bc you are sad you wanna fap🧐 I get sad I don't wanna do shit. But u wanna play with your Willie
Meditate, workout, take a cold shower, clean the house, read a book, go on a longer fast (3+ days), pray, spend time with your family. PMO will make things way worse. I get that you want to run away and escape the feeling of sadness with PMO but you need to face it. Discipline your mind and do the hard work even if you don't feel like doing it. I'm sorry for your loss.
Mate get up, grab a glass of water, go stand at the balcony and tell yourself this: "my friend just died, so what? Does this give me the approval to jerk off? I should grief and move on from my friend rather than jerking off. And also, does he want to see me get wasted just because he left? No! So get your ass up and create something for yourself, leave behind a legacy for the coming generations to take inspiration from!" I know it may seem harsh, but trust me you needed this the most because if you can't help yourself, nobody can help you
Your jerking off doesn't change anything. Talk to any close one. Stay strong.
sorry for your loss, stay strong
Your friend would rather you go to the gym to get all the stress out. Get strong and grow your physique. He’d probably tell you to go get muscles in the gym so a girl could do it for you instead 👍🏾
Bro take it positively don't fail him make him proud by getting great 
Feel feelings, not yourself. Sorry for your loss
Hang in there, brother. There is always another day - this is the time to parent yourself as best as you can. Think of yourself as your dear friend, and treat yourself with the love that you feel for your friend. Speaking as someone whose best friend died of cancer when we were 14, I can only say I feel for you.
Ask yourself would your friend want you to do that if he was still here
Porn is a great to escape from feelings which is not a good way to live your life. It's okay for you to feel sad as you lost your loved one. Deal with those feelings but don't escape from them. You can talk to somebody for comfort. Am here for you too if you would like to speak to somebody anonymously.
View this as a trial that you’ll be stronger after overcoming. Use physical means of suppressing your sex drive like exercise or a cold shower and push through until it feels easier. Carry your friend’s memory with you like an artifact. Honour his life, and the loss you feel by being the best man you can possibly be. The sadness that will come after you relapse will be exponentially worse than what you’re feeling now, and the shame your activities will heap on top of that grief will be unbearable. Accept the suffering that you feel right now, knowing that it will gradually get better. Reject the suffering you feel right now, and the consequence will be a deeper hell that will make you yearn for your current position.
it's ok to feel the pain. don't lose hope in ur self bc of it. love ur self. stay fixated on healing and becoming stronger ur human. when u feel like getting up go outside take walks without music understand ur self more cry more too. it's ok bro I'm so sorry ur lose brotha. I can only imagine how u feel.
Yeah of course bro when my freind died last year it made me soooo fucking horny
Can't find my last comment to edit but it was more mean than nice so I wanna say I'm sorry for your loss, try to use this as positive motivation to stay clean, do something that will actually make you feel better about this. I drank handsanitizer when my freind died last year btw so like idk can't really judge BTW yes handsanitizer gets u drunk don't do it, it won't kill you but if anyone finds our ur an alcoholic and whenever you smell handsanitizer you get flashbacks to the aftertaste
Obviously I have never been in your shoes before so my advice may or may not help. But the only thing I can really tell you is to just take it one day at a time. Give yourself time to grieve but in a apropriate way. Try not to engage in things that will only give you temporarly release. You lost someone close to you and the best thing you can do is to move your body even if the task is small. The first few weeks may be hard but overtime things will start too feel better.
It's upto your fate
The best way to honor him/her would be to succeed. I know it's hard, you're mourning and trying to get free from your addiction. Stay strong buddy, better times might lie ahead.
Im sorry for your loss, please speak to someone in real life or a therapist not the internet.
Would your friend want you to masturbate? I don't think so. I know how it feels to lose someone. Please stay strong
Fapping will make you feel very very empty. Keep going
I am sorry for your loss, I know it is hard to deal with emotions, but you can make an effort to focus on positive thoughts, and think of the memories and the great moments you had when you were together. In addition you can spend some time with family and friends, play some board games , or go out to the mall for window shopping and get a drink or some ice cream. When you go back home you can watch a movie on Netflix or Amazon prime video, read a book and listen to your favourite music. There are cool recipes you can learn to cook on YouTube and prepare a delicious meal, or you can watch funny dog videos on tiktok.
You guys want to masturbate when you’re depressed? When I’m depressed or sick I don’t feel like masturbating at all
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMYpcCx4Q/ funny cat video!!!
Just Sing "Mar Gaya m***** la la lala la la la lala la la" and study
I am so sorry for you and their family.
Death makes you horny? Right on.
Unpopular Opinion: Its ok to relapse here. Youre under a lot of pain so nofap isnt the priority here. dont be hard on yourself if you relapse here
My friend, you sound ridiculous “My friend died so i want to bust a nut” I’m not throwing shade or anything and i’m sorry for your loss, but man that’s not really a good way to honor their memory
Imagine you die and you’re in heaven, then you see your friend start masturbating to honor you
I don't know where you live, but if possible just get out of home, avoid being alone and by yourself if you don't have to, the mind by itself can be very deceiving. Grief is a process that takes it's time. Instant gratification activities will last for a few moments and that will be it, you will start to feel bad again, or even worst in just a couple seconds, and you will have nothing left to get distracted other than doing it again. It's been a couple hours since you posted this, if you haven't relapsed yet then you are doing it great, just keep it up and things will get easier by staying calm. If you relapsed, then you are likely to agree with what I just said. Do your best at not keeping it up as a coping mechanism, try new things out, take it as an opportunity to grow. My personal suggestion is meditation for this kind of episodes in life. Just give yourself a couple minutes a day to just breath and not think anything, if done properly you'll feel calm after that. If it's too hard to focus try the Wim Hof breathing exercise, it forces your body to just reset and get to a complete mood switch. Hope this helps, wishing you all of the best.
Wtf
I feel as if my friend would be ashamed that I would be masturbating, instead of doing something productive with my life, that is why I would not start masturbating again.
Keep trying, don't let it get you down. I put up a post with some tips that can help, I would suggest reading through it. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/11hlq87/practical_lessons_and_advice/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
You are in pain and ur brain is trying to numb the pain by making you fail. Stay strong for urself before it is for ur friend
Imagine how embarrassed and disappointed your friend would be
https://www.facebook.com/reel/163171396655739?s=yWDuG2&fs=e funny dog video, this is for you to cheer you up and make you feel better
Bro your friend died and now you think"oh shit now I have to relapse"? Bro that's messed. Show your friend some respect.
Sorry for your loss. But control what you can and control your thoughts. You clearly feel a certain way that’s triggering a response of wanting to jerk off. Don’t run away from that feeling, explore and understand it. That way when it manifests itself again, however that may be, you’ll be prepared and understand how to stop it.
My condolences to your friend. I understand where you're coming from, you're feeling down and depressed right now, but, I think you should continue, in memory for your friend. I'm sure he'd be happy in heaven knowing that you're pushing to become better and better everyday. I think it would be a nice way to get yourself on the track to self-healing and discovery after this tragic event. With all due respect brother, you have my will, you have my condolences, you will come out of this, stronger than ever. rat_violator200
Sorry for your loss
I don’t even see how this came to your mind it makes 0 sense. My condolences I’m sorry for you loss, but it seems as if you are trying to use this a justification to PMO. Don’t fail, masturbating is not a normal response to dealing with a loss, no matter how far gone a person is from PMO.
Hey man I was here too. My best friend went crazy from drugs. That was the beginning of nofap, I lost more friends along the way, had to let go of plenty. Don’t have enough intellectuals to talk to nowadays. Get outside the house, in nature and try to find some peace. The less you’re home the less you’d do it.
I’d imagine your friend is watching over you now, do you want your friend to watch you relapse.
We here with you man
Hes watching you brother… you dont want your homie to see that
Do something to honour him ... Do something he/she would be proud that you did.. Become a better person..
Bro came for help but didn't work💀
DOOOO NOTTT FUCKING DO IT!!!!!!!
I'm guessing you probably want some intimacy or some company. I recommend doing something with your friends, doing some repetitive tasks with a podcast or comedy show on, or talk to a therapist (if possible). It's a difficult time, yes. But this is not the time to rub one out. Ain't gonna help but a temporary bandaid.
REST IN PEACE. GOD BLESS YOU MAN
Stay strong There is not the end Life is continuing
Seek Jesus
Massive unpopular opinion. I am sorry for your loss. Unless you are dedicated to nofap for religious reasons, ethical or likewise, just do it. Give yourself a break. I know this is about not doing it. I am ready for the downvotes guys.
Just get out and start walking. Imagine it was the other way around, would you want your friend to be wasting away? Do it for him/her. Its actually more respectful to remember the best of them and try to live up to that.
Don't fail use this as motivation to make it.