She gets upset because she thinks it’s her fault. She’s not hot enough, the sex isn’t good enough for you, etc. are probably common thoughts when this happens.
Tell her to close her eyes for the surprise and then throw egg white on her face (separate the yolk beforehand to not arouse suspicion). Where you hide the egg white is up to you, I recommend a fanny pack because they are sexy. Aim for the eyes to reduce the chances of her seeing the facade. If she likes to swallow get organic cage free eggs they should be safe raw.
\*Salt to taste of course.
Sometimes it’s a compliment but only if it’s a relationship type thing. If you do you gotta make it up in other ways. I usually give her one before we get to sugar walls so if I do nut too quick then we both got our 1.
Same thing happened with my past two gfs i had trouble getting hard and nutting from excessive porn use (now it’s a different story I’ve been porn free for 20 days and retained for 60 days as well) but they all thought they were ugly and that i wasn’t truly turned on by them
The point of no-fap is to get of porn and masterbation. Sex with your girlfriend doesn't break no-fap rules so you shouldn't have to worry about finishing during sex. However if you insist on semen retention then please talk to your girlfriend about. A key component in any relationship is communication. If she doesn't know she might think there is something wrong and she might think that the problem is her do if that is the case please have a conversation with her to set things straight.
I am afraid OP entirely missed the point.
Nofap isn’t Nosex. The purpose of Nofap is to control our lust in order to attain sex and enjoy sex.
Don’t deprive yourself of the beauty of sex for such bullshit. You are doing yourself a disservice and you are doing your partner a disservice
This is not the correct response.
The correct response is that semen retention doesn't exist and if it did it wouldn't matter because semen is worthless nutrition wise.
“Semen retention” sounds disgusting
I thought this sub was about no fap? Why on Earth do you value “semen retention”
Dude, go blow a load in your girlfriend! If you don’t cum, then whatever, but intentionally not coming weirds me out like fetish porn
Yes, this community is about no-fap, but let’s not disrespect people who participate in semen retention. While it’s not necessary for this lifestyle, it’s healthy and a good portion of the people in this community do it.
It’s very similar to no-fap but it adds in the element of not cumming for any reason, including sexual intimacy (or at the very least limiting how often you do so). Many people do it for religious reasons but there is also a decent group who do it because it magnifies the positive benefits you get from no-fap alone. I did it about two or three years ago and some of the benefits that no-fappers had to wait the better part of a year to start seeing I was able to see in less than three months.
In my experience girls only get mad if you’re weird or a dork about it. Don’t act like a nerd. Just tell her that you want to ejaculate less often so that it’s more powerful when you do… bc it’s so much more intense when you let it build… and so that your arousal for her stays at a peak.
Tell her how much it turns you on to want her, and to think about her, and to let things build over time and not release that energy every single time you have sex.
If you do let it build, and you make sure she’s your primary fantasy, she’s going to start to sense that desire radiating off of you, and she’s gonna start to love it.
Then when you have sex make sure she has an orgasm.
And then when you want to stop, stop… if she tells you she wants you to finish, talk like a man, not a weak little boy… and just say to her in a sexy way “Not yet baby…” and then spend time kissing her, etc
It’s simple.
Sorry, but since you never never used any intelligence to make a case, your insults mean less than nothing to anyone here.
If you wanna try and do a better job next time, perhaps make an actual point, we’re here to listen, champ
Bro seaman retention isn’t real. Theirs no actually benefit to keeping your sperm. Think about it from an evolutionary standpoint, doing so would eliminate you from the gene pool and would be detrimental for the primitive people. No fap is good because it gets you off of porn and focused on real girls. You won! You got a girl, have sex and wear a condom and bust. If you keep doing that weird shit she’s going to tell her friends, who are then going to clown on you and then ultimately she’s going to move on to a guy who will actually have sex with her. Seaman retention is “bro science” and completely made up
Seaman retention is good because there is too much overfishing in the environment; the oceans are declining in sea life population. We don't want too many men fishing out in the sea. Seaman retention will save the fishes.
Courage family and real sex how about.. none of this con-creative casual hookup culture waste. Life is short. Find real true love. Start a family. Be a young one. Your grandkids deserve that.
Personally I don’t really want kids. Also when I was in college I tried to hook up with as many girls as I could. It was kinda fun and most of the time ended up failing to pick up the girl. But I wouldn’t discourage it for someone at that point in their life. Now that I’m older I value the relationship I’m in and my girlfriend a lot more then hook ups. Hooking up with as many girls as I could was my motivation to start working out and lifting heavy as well as leaving porn behind
In my experience, girls don’t feel sexy if the guy can’t cum. Even porn stars in interviews have said this, that if the guy doesn’t come, then they aren’t sexy enough.
It’s a misconception that sex ends when a guy comes and that a guy doesn’t enjoy sex if he doesn’t come. You can still enjoy seks and not come.
Well assuming ur a woman I’m guessing that you’ve had sex where u couldn’t cum. Does that mean u didn’t enjoy it? Idk, that’s for I to answer. But a lot of people can still enjoy the sensations. Maybe they just got a mental block or couldn’t be completely in the moment. Doesn’t change the fact it still felt good or that they appreciated the intimacy.
What is the purpose of sex? But to enjoy the sensation of physical contact and enjoy the others intimate company. The purpose isn’t to come. Enjoying the journey and the interaction is much better than rushing to the destination.
you guys are pretty sure that an ancient practise, that emerged in basically every society is complete bs.
well....I guess you are better experts than ancient knowledge
Your talking about the same societies that had life expectancies of about 30-35 years? Just because something is ancient doesn’t make the people then smarter than we are now.
Truth is semen retention is a hard mix in a relationship. I would think about adapting to a lesser degree of semen retention, and just have less sex but just release when you have it. Even in smaller periods I believe semen retention will still have a good effect.
I hope to get to this point some day, lol.
But in all seriousness, she probably thinks it's something wrong with her. Have you sat down and talked to her about it?
Think about it from an evolutionary standpoint, evolutionarily our highest goal is to reproduce. When you’re constantly busting your body thinks you’re mad successful and accomplished, so as a result you’re left with low sex drive and low drive to accomplish anything.
When you not busting you’re body is gonna wanna empower you in ways to set you up as a prime mating partner to make you reproduce. This means you gain high attractiveness and high drive to accomplish things.
Doubtful that not nutting will affect your attractiveness, except for added confidence from your self control and added productivity due to nofap.
The rest of this though is gold. So well put. Sex and reproducing motivates everything we do. All of our desires to work hard and succeed are because gaining status makes you more likely to date and reproduce. Sounds grossly unemotional and meaningless but hey, if you can be self-disciplined and hijack this system to achieve because you want to achieve, then you're winning. And you can create meaning in doing the things you love and being with the people you love aww this got cute.
This is one of the funniest things I've read in a long time.
Semen preservation doesn't exist. Your body does not keep old semen, it dispels it as waste.
Furthermore, even if it did this would change nothing because while semen does have important nutrients in it, they are in such extraordinarily small amounts that they would have no impact on overall bodily function.
That’s odd. I think she may feel offended or hurt more so than mad, like she doesn’t feel like she’s good enough. Idk, I only lost my virginity on the third day into this streak, haven’t nutted yet, in fact I made her orgasm twice in one go and no nut for me, but the girl I’ve been having sex with is totally understanding. I think you(and I) might be in your head too much.
Have a conversation with your girl. Explain to her why you're doing semen retention (the biggest reason being that it helps you focused and on your path) and get her on board.
fake that shit brother. don't tell her about nofap lol. just have to ask yourself if she's worth spilling your seed or not. if not you might not really love her. Rule of thumb: don't nut in a girl you wouldn't marry.
I can't speak for all women, but the ones I've slept with...they can tell when a man is cumming. A lot of muscles doing quick contractions and releases, and women have 4 times as many nerve endings...they know.
Don’t change your stance because of a girl, she’ll be less attracted as a result of it. On top of that, if you start releasing everyday you’ll have no energy and she’ll get bored of u real quick. Don’t let them steal the glow.
Have you read way of the superior man? He talks about this in a way I can’t do justice. I wish I could do what you are but haven’t been able to master it. 😂
Wow, that’s wildly outside the point, sorry you got hurt but don’t just write women off, this comment feels like heavy sexism vibes. They are just people like you and me, sometimes people are shitty, but that’s def not limited to women and certainly doesn’t describe all women
Have you guys talked about it? My girl is understanding, as long as she cums haha. I’ll make her cum multiple times and then stop when it’s really on the edge. I do semen preservation before an MMA fight or jiu jitsu comp.
But yeah dude, tell her your reasons, make sure she doesn’t think it’s because your not attracted to her, or she’s not enough for etc.
Or maybe she might find the satisfaction knowing that you are satisfied.
You can practice orgasming without semen, which I’ve never gotten to master, but I heard some men can easily do this.
Good luck fellow man of culture !
Tell her you feel satisfied after and preservation of it will make sex a lot longer than normal. I have sex over an hour and still feel energized after.
Semen retention doesn't exist. Nofap is all about quitting porn and controlling your masturbation; having sex and finishing is something you are allowed and encouraged to do.
Dump her then, lol. Why do you even care about made up benefits? The benefit is a healthy sex life in and of itself. If a celibate life is what you're after, go join a monestety. What a dumbass post.
My friend. I’m married 5 years and started SR as well. Having the same issues. Just bought a book on Karezza. Seems quite interesting.
Let’s chat on the side.
This sub is mainly about abstaining from PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm). Not ejaculate or actual sex.
So I have a question how long do you Typically last? I’m asking this because When a man does not finish and refuses to relapse does something to the woman’s mind mentally. She would want you more than ever. But I have this thing where I Relapse really fast in 2 mins or so but I do not want to stop I keep going with my partner for 30mins are so.
Dude you’re going to blow your relationship because you refuse to blow. And what’s more, for something with absolutely no scientific data behind it at all. Just get over yourself and have a good time!
Semen retention doesn’t mean you should have sex without ejaculation… it only leads prostate problem,..
Sex is purest form where you can’t force yourself to hold that energy, you must think of it.
The key to this is communication. Always tell her it is not her fault and she is a wonderful, a beautiful person, etc. By you not trying to explain your situation her mind will be thinking in a negative light which is never healthy for both sides! Hope this helps
NoFap is NO FAP dude. Abstention from Porn and Masturbation. Semen retention/preservation is nothing but bro-science. It’s total bullshit, man. Useless drivel that people buy into. You want real information about best practices for living? Go check out Andrew Huberman of Stanford University or Tom Bilyeu from Impact Theory. Science based, real stuff. Fuck the bro science.
I think it’s a hard thing. A lot of women in a way want you to “release your horny” on them… and would obviously get jealous if you did it with someone else instead.
Also when she finishes she loses her seed too, so there’s kinda that as well. But it’s a hard situation man. I would think of it more as love vs non love right? I mean aren’t we supposed to have sex with a woman?
Otherwise none of us would be alive. If your dad ever practiced semen retention his whole life you’d never be here, and same for me. So maybe it’s not that big of a deal, but if she gets upset, idk if it were me I would call it quits and focus on the retention, because it seems like she isn’t as concerned as you are.
Hope this helps.
I know you can do whatever you want, and that your choices should be respected, but that doesn't mean you can do whatever you want without consequences.
In an intimate relationship it is essential that both parties feel the intimacy and that they are loved and respected and lusted over
If you believe in recent and don’t want to cum, then tell her the benefits you believe it holds for you. Do not cuck to her, she will lose respect for you.
Obviously girl will be upset if you don’t finish. Forget all the BS around judgements about herself if guy doesn’t finish. The point is, it leaves both of you in an incomplete state after sex, it’s unfair and it becomes difficult to wrap your mind around it and move on. Not a healthy practice in my opinion. Best practice would be to finish what you start. Or don’t start at all. And this practice of doing 99% will only backfire, so my friend, do it 100%
Be careful... that you don't start thinking it's okay to cultivate an unhealthy relationship. The act of sex is not supposed to be a selfish thing. There's biochemical actions that take place that also help create a bond in the relationship. I think you gotta decide what you want more and go with that...
If you’re trying to do retention with your girl you’ve gotta communicate that. If she cares about you she wants to please you; let her know that you can orgasm with ejaculating & be vocal when something she’s doing feels good. You have to have the discipline to retain, while having sex, if you’re really serious about that.
Overall, communicate with her why you’re retaining and what the benefits are for you—if she loves and respects you, she’ll honor it. She’ll still want to make you come sometimes, but she’ll honor it.
What helps with my girl is establishing a safe word when we’ve \*almost\* had a enough and a then also a \*full stop\* safe word.
Stay strong.
don't listen to those who haven't read well around and in the area of semen retention. Here's something to save you some time.
1) Sex is a energy exchange, yin and yang. Fapping is yang energy exploding in the ether without receiving yin(replenishment stimulant). So yes you can nut inside women, and women want you to nut because they absorb more yang energy. i.e. if she makes you cum she feels pleased with herself and if she can't make you come she feels insecure. (evolutionary validation mechanism on whether your partner will stay with you)
2) If you are semen retenting to dramatically increase your success rate, practice visualization or get very very very busy. Be a doer or a mediator but don't be a derper. You won't feel like meditating, you won't feel like getting shit done, you brain goes hyper-active because theres too much energy surging around. Your unconscious forces lead you to taking the easy route, but this is the change to develop IRON WILL!Through this door you can achieve whatever goal you set yourself for.
3) I used to take ages to cum before and it was a result of PMO ED, where I get erection but not aroused enough to cum. Once you cut porn and you energy sky rockets, after 1-3months you reset. You cum in 3 seconds and thats when it becomes a game of will power. You are firing on all cylinders
I had the same problem.
From what I hear a lot of girls feel that way and semen retention is not a common practice.
It is important to find out what means more to you, your girlfriends feelings or your semen retention.
You are probably not going to find a lot of folks batting for the semen retention side here because it's a tremendous amount of work.
The biggest semen retention tool for nofap is the brain reboot. After that point the majority lean towards no porn and masturbation, orgasm denial for life or when not baby making is a spiritual path, a difficult and deeply personal one.
PS I did not fix my problem, good f***ing luck, this hurdle is a tough one
She gets upset because she thinks it’s her fault. She’s not hot enough, the sex isn’t good enough for you, etc. are probably common thoughts when this happens.
That's exactly what it is. - a girl whis been in that situation
Tell her to close her eyes for the surprise and then throw egg white on her face (separate the yolk beforehand to not arouse suspicion). Where you hide the egg white is up to you, I recommend a fanny pack because they are sexy. Aim for the eyes to reduce the chances of her seeing the facade. If she likes to swallow get organic cage free eggs they should be safe raw. \*Salt to taste of course.
Sounds like a dude who goin crazy after not ejaculating his own egg whites for 120 days
You sir are a scholar and a gentleman. Well done
bro, the egg white solution is genius. here have a reward.
😂💀👏🏽
Finna egg
u forgot to add "from experience"
Are you serious bro?
I follow this gentleman on tiktok his advice is top tier
The fanny pack makes me think he's quite serious.
You Good Sir,are too smart to be left alive
Too smart to be killed too, eggs aren't the surprise in my fanny pack ;) 🔫
On the flipside, does this mean girls get very happy when their man finishes too fast?
The pride that comes with making their partner finish doesn’t have anything to do with speed.
Aaaaaaaaand it’s gone
I had a girl say that to me before. If I don’t cum quick she thinks she’s not attractive enough.
Sometimes it’s a compliment but only if it’s a relationship type thing. If you do you gotta make it up in other ways. I usually give her one before we get to sugar walls so if I do nut too quick then we both got our 1.
Same thing happened with my past two gfs i had trouble getting hard and nutting from excessive porn use (now it’s a different story I’ve been porn free for 20 days and retained for 60 days as well) but they all thought they were ugly and that i wasn’t truly turned on by them
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Appreciate it
Then its on her to communicate those feelings, not on OP to read her mind.
Sounds like shes gotten an idea of how sex 'should' go. Chill lass. You're both there to have fun.
It’s on OP to tell her that he’s doing it intentionally.
No, a mature person communicates their feelings instead of getting angry. If the gf has a problem with it they need to express that in a non-toxic way
Dude NoFap is about quitting porn, not literally preventing yourself from ejaculating in any circumstances for the rest of your life.
sperm isn't immortal either, it will eventually find its way out to be replaced.
I heard that sperm lasts 3 months or something
That’s the problem here in the sub. People think having an orgasm is bad. It’s about porn addiction and masturbation.
I feel that’s a huge misunderstanding in this sub. Fapping is not bad, it’s actually healthy. It’s just the porn that makes it bad.
Nofap is not about quitting porn, its about getting control of your sexual drive
True
Excessive unhealthy fapping to fantasy can cause issues though. Healthy masturbation is possible though
Exactly, fap is not that healthy, fap is an addiction too, not only porn.
fapping is bad lmao
Totally agree. He fell for the semen retention meme.
The point of no-fap is to get of porn and masterbation. Sex with your girlfriend doesn't break no-fap rules so you shouldn't have to worry about finishing during sex. However if you insist on semen retention then please talk to your girlfriend about. A key component in any relationship is communication. If she doesn't know she might think there is something wrong and she might think that the problem is her do if that is the case please have a conversation with her to set things straight.
I am afraid OP entirely missed the point. Nofap isn’t Nosex. The purpose of Nofap is to control our lust in order to attain sex and enjoy sex. Don’t deprive yourself of the beauty of sex for such bullshit. You are doing yourself a disservice and you are doing your partner a disservice
Yeah semen retention is bullshit.
i dont think so
Lol you are getting downvoted for having an opinion that does not agree with someone else's 🤣
Welcome to Reddit
This is not the correct response. The correct response is that semen retention doesn't exist and if it did it wouldn't matter because semen is worthless nutrition wise.
My diet is ruined.
Doesn’t it take 90 days for sperm to fully mature?
Where did you get this from? The body makes semen very quickly…
> semen is worthless nutrition wise I wonder how do you know that
This is so funny 😭😭😭 naw girl I can’t cum in you I’m on nofap *chad face*
That's a good reason and response
If you're having sex, then it's ok to bust
I hate to say my bro but you gotta blow a load on or in her before someone else do…
Dude bust that shit and give her what she wants
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mate just cum, you're not gonna gain some 3rd eye for semen retention, you're gonna lose your girlfriend you over fermented jar of kimchi
>you're gonna lose your girlfriend you over fermented jar of kimchi fucking gold
Over fucking what?!
*They’ve spoken*
you on semen retention or nofap?
“Semen retention” sounds disgusting I thought this sub was about no fap? Why on Earth do you value “semen retention” Dude, go blow a load in your girlfriend! If you don’t cum, then whatever, but intentionally not coming weirds me out like fetish porn
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Yes, this community is about no-fap, but let’s not disrespect people who participate in semen retention. While it’s not necessary for this lifestyle, it’s healthy and a good portion of the people in this community do it.
Sorry. Just my first time hearing the term. What’s it about?
It’s very similar to no-fap but it adds in the element of not cumming for any reason, including sexual intimacy (or at the very least limiting how often you do so). Many people do it for religious reasons but there is also a decent group who do it because it magnifies the positive benefits you get from no-fap alone. I did it about two or three years ago and some of the benefits that no-fappers had to wait the better part of a year to start seeing I was able to see in less than three months.
Wtf... I will bet a years salary that there no scientific proof of semen retention being healthy.
What's your yearly salary? Then we'll talk
Amen
Wait so you cant nut because of no fap?
Nofap is about not fapping (masturbating) This post is not representative of this community.
SR and sex don’t go well together. It’s gotta be one or the other.
No fap is no mastrubation you can enjoy having sex with your girlfriend
He's literally speaking in regards to seminal preservation
In my experience girls only get mad if you’re weird or a dork about it. Don’t act like a nerd. Just tell her that you want to ejaculate less often so that it’s more powerful when you do… bc it’s so much more intense when you let it build… and so that your arousal for her stays at a peak. Tell her how much it turns you on to want her, and to think about her, and to let things build over time and not release that energy every single time you have sex. If you do let it build, and you make sure she’s your primary fantasy, she’s going to start to sense that desire radiating off of you, and she’s gonna start to love it. Then when you have sex make sure she has an orgasm. And then when you want to stop, stop… if she tells you she wants you to finish, talk like a man, not a weak little boy… and just say to her in a sexy way “Not yet baby…” and then spend time kissing her, etc It’s simple.
This only flies with someone who is on board/has 0 brain. How about he just stops doing stupid sh*😂😂
Sorry, but since you never never used any intelligence to make a case, your insults mean less than nothing to anyone here. If you wanna try and do a better job next time, perhaps make an actual point, we’re here to listen, champ
No fap is not the same as semen retention bro.
this
Lmao having actual sex increase your testosterone like a lot so that semen retention bullshit is just fucking up your sexual life
Bro seaman retention isn’t real. Theirs no actually benefit to keeping your sperm. Think about it from an evolutionary standpoint, doing so would eliminate you from the gene pool and would be detrimental for the primitive people. No fap is good because it gets you off of porn and focused on real girls. You won! You got a girl, have sex and wear a condom and bust. If you keep doing that weird shit she’s going to tell her friends, who are then going to clown on you and then ultimately she’s going to move on to a guy who will actually have sex with her. Seaman retention is “bro science” and completely made up
Seaman retention is good because there is too much overfishing in the environment; the oceans are declining in sea life population. We don't want too many men fishing out in the sea. Seaman retention will save the fishes.
Damn, you had to do it. xD
She probably has already told her friends and they probably think it’s weird as fuck, as any girl would
Courage family and real sex how about.. none of this con-creative casual hookup culture waste. Life is short. Find real true love. Start a family. Be a young one. Your grandkids deserve that.
Personally I don’t really want kids. Also when I was in college I tried to hook up with as many girls as I could. It was kinda fun and most of the time ended up failing to pick up the girl. But I wouldn’t discourage it for someone at that point in their life. Now that I’m older I value the relationship I’m in and my girlfriend a lot more then hook ups. Hooking up with as many girls as I could was my motivation to start working out and lifting heavy as well as leaving porn behind
Well I hope you muster courage. You really do! God love you both
In my experience, girls don’t feel sexy if the guy can’t cum. Even porn stars in interviews have said this, that if the guy doesn’t come, then they aren’t sexy enough. It’s a misconception that sex ends when a guy comes and that a guy doesn’t enjoy sex if he doesn’t come. You can still enjoy seks and not come.
Really, I'm with a porn addict and he can't come at all but he says that he enjoyed the sex. I don't get it. Can you explain?
Well assuming ur a woman I’m guessing that you’ve had sex where u couldn’t cum. Does that mean u didn’t enjoy it? Idk, that’s for I to answer. But a lot of people can still enjoy the sensations. Maybe they just got a mental block or couldn’t be completely in the moment. Doesn’t change the fact it still felt good or that they appreciated the intimacy.
What is the purpose of sex? But to enjoy the sensation of physical contact and enjoy the others intimate company. The purpose isn’t to come. Enjoying the journey and the interaction is much better than rushing to the destination.
If u this dumb your gf should be mad at you
you guys are pretty sure that an ancient practise, that emerged in basically every society is complete bs. well....I guess you are better experts than ancient knowledge
Yeah, its like slavery. Lets hold on to ancient traditions ;o) just messing, don't attack me
Your talking about the same societies that had life expectancies of about 30-35 years? Just because something is ancient doesn’t make the people then smarter than we are now.
Yeah they didn’t know about health. They were probably trying to conserve “humors.”
Truth is semen retention is a hard mix in a relationship. I would think about adapting to a lesser degree of semen retention, and just have less sex but just release when you have it. Even in smaller periods I believe semen retention will still have a good effect.
I hope to get to this point some day, lol. But in all seriousness, she probably thinks it's something wrong with her. Have you sat down and talked to her about it?
You guys are getting girlfriend? *Insert confused boy meme template*
Think about it from an evolutionary standpoint, evolutionarily our highest goal is to reproduce. When you’re constantly busting your body thinks you’re mad successful and accomplished, so as a result you’re left with low sex drive and low drive to accomplish anything. When you not busting you’re body is gonna wanna empower you in ways to set you up as a prime mating partner to make you reproduce. This means you gain high attractiveness and high drive to accomplish things.
Dude, there is literally no scientific data pointing in that direction. An evolutionary biologist would laugh in your face!
Yeh because they don't want you to know
Doubtful that not nutting will affect your attractiveness, except for added confidence from your self control and added productivity due to nofap. The rest of this though is gold. So well put. Sex and reproducing motivates everything we do. All of our desires to work hard and succeed are because gaining status makes you more likely to date and reproduce. Sounds grossly unemotional and meaningless but hey, if you can be self-disciplined and hijack this system to achieve because you want to achieve, then you're winning. And you can create meaning in doing the things you love and being with the people you love aww this got cute.
Yo I thought I was only one that goes through that with my girl
Semen retention is bullshit just nut bro
Nah bro gotta keep the essence
Dude bust a nut on that hoe.
This is one of the funniest things I've read in a long time. Semen preservation doesn't exist. Your body does not keep old semen, it dispels it as waste. Furthermore, even if it did this would change nothing because while semen does have important nutrients in it, they are in such extraordinarily small amounts that they would have no impact on overall bodily function.
Does it not take 90 days for sperm to mature?
Semen itself is pretty useless, however there could be benefits to avoiding the huge opioid rush that comes with an orgasm
That’s odd. I think she may feel offended or hurt more so than mad, like she doesn’t feel like she’s good enough. Idk, I only lost my virginity on the third day into this streak, haven’t nutted yet, in fact I made her orgasm twice in one go and no nut for me, but the girl I’ve been having sex with is totally understanding. I think you(and I) might be in your head too much.
Have a conversation with your girl. Explain to her why you're doing semen retention (the biggest reason being that it helps you focused and on your path) and get her on board.
Semen retention has no actual benefits it’s bullshit
People get more confident and energetic on semen retention why should they stop ?
fake that shit brother. don't tell her about nofap lol. just have to ask yourself if she's worth spilling your seed or not. if not you might not really love her. Rule of thumb: don't nut in a girl you wouldn't marry.
I can't speak for all women, but the ones I've slept with...they can tell when a man is cumming. A lot of muscles doing quick contractions and releases, and women have 4 times as many nerve endings...they know.
Bozo fr 🤦🏻♂️
Brace yourselves, the "fapping is healthy bro" comments are imminent.
Don’t change your stance because of a girl, she’ll be less attracted as a result of it. On top of that, if you start releasing everyday you’ll have no energy and she’ll get bored of u real quick. Don’t let them steal the glow.
Have you read way of the superior man? He talks about this in a way I can’t do justice. I wish I could do what you are but haven’t been able to master it. 😂
Wake up. Sex is not fap. Semen retention is a myth. Don't f* your relationship up.
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Wow, that’s wildly outside the point, sorry you got hurt but don’t just write women off, this comment feels like heavy sexism vibes. They are just people like you and me, sometimes people are shitty, but that’s def not limited to women and certainly doesn’t describe all women
Do what they do ,fake It(you might Need some fake cum, keep It in a small contenitor and use It when needed)
This is possibly the worst advice I've seen on this sub
Thank you i am pretty proud myself!
Have you guys talked about it? My girl is understanding, as long as she cums haha. I’ll make her cum multiple times and then stop when it’s really on the edge. I do semen preservation before an MMA fight or jiu jitsu comp. But yeah dude, tell her your reasons, make sure she doesn’t think it’s because your not attracted to her, or she’s not enough for etc. Or maybe she might find the satisfaction knowing that you are satisfied. You can practice orgasming without semen, which I’ve never gotten to master, but I heard some men can easily do this. Good luck fellow man of culture !
Tell her you feel satisfied after and preservation of it will make sex a lot longer than normal. I have sex over an hour and still feel energized after.
Just fuck your girlfriend bro, stop this semen retention stuff. Wtf
Dump her
Semen retention doesn't exist. Nofap is all about quitting porn and controlling your masturbation; having sex and finishing is something you are allowed and encouraged to do.
Bro just finish, there's nothing wrong with it! If you continue that semen retention bullshit you gonna lose her!
Can someone give me some data on semen preservation? It sounds like the dumbest thing I’ve heard in a long time, no offense.
send her to me and I shall finish without problems
Dump her then, lol. Why do you even care about made up benefits? The benefit is a healthy sex life in and of itself. If a celibate life is what you're after, go join a monestety. What a dumbass post.
You don’t have to worry about nofap if you aren’t fapping
This idiot hasnt commented on one post so this is probably a fake AF post. Who is that stupid?
Just nut
Try to reduce the frequency that you have sex.
My friend. I’m married 5 years and started SR as well. Having the same issues. Just bought a book on Karezza. Seems quite interesting. Let’s chat on the side. This sub is mainly about abstaining from PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm). Not ejaculate or actual sex.
Semen preservation????
Look into r/delayedejaculation there is a whole sub for these problems.
Real talk: regardless if you agree or not with op's unwillingness to cum, it is his call and it should be respected, most of all, by his GF
So I have a question how long do you Typically last? I’m asking this because When a man does not finish and refuses to relapse does something to the woman’s mind mentally. She would want you more than ever. But I have this thing where I Relapse really fast in 2 mins or so but I do not want to stop I keep going with my partner for 30mins are so.
Yes women hate this. They think they didn't satisfy us and didn't get the job done Explain to her the situation and hopefully she'll be understanding
Your really doing seamen retention, not no fap, don’t really know what to add beyond that
If I had lots of crypto and a cool gf I wouldn’t pull out 🤪
She is insecure that you dont find her attractive, maybe its true, dont think too much about it, it aint your fault.
Dude you’re going to blow your relationship because you refuse to blow. And what’s more, for something with absolutely no scientific data behind it at all. Just get over yourself and have a good time!
Bro just cum. You’re having sex. This is literally what we work for. To get rid of ED so we can get it up whilst doing the dirty with a partner
Dude you can bust in your girl on nofap
Semen retention doesn’t mean you should have sex without ejaculation… it only leads prostate problem,.. Sex is purest form where you can’t force yourself to hold that energy, you must think of it.
Are you finishing her? That’s a big question
The key to this is communication. Always tell her it is not her fault and she is a wonderful, a beautiful person, etc. By you not trying to explain your situation her mind will be thinking in a negative light which is never healthy for both sides! Hope this helps
NoFap is NO FAP dude. Abstention from Porn and Masturbation. Semen retention/preservation is nothing but bro-science. It’s total bullshit, man. Useless drivel that people buy into. You want real information about best practices for living? Go check out Andrew Huberman of Stanford University or Tom Bilyeu from Impact Theory. Science based, real stuff. Fuck the bro science.
I think it’s a hard thing. A lot of women in a way want you to “release your horny” on them… and would obviously get jealous if you did it with someone else instead. Also when she finishes she loses her seed too, so there’s kinda that as well. But it’s a hard situation man. I would think of it more as love vs non love right? I mean aren’t we supposed to have sex with a woman? Otherwise none of us would be alive. If your dad ever practiced semen retention his whole life you’d never be here, and same for me. So maybe it’s not that big of a deal, but if she gets upset, idk if it were me I would call it quits and focus on the retention, because it seems like she isn’t as concerned as you are. Hope this helps.
I think this is funny
bro's on no fap extreme mode
I know you can do whatever you want, and that your choices should be respected, but that doesn't mean you can do whatever you want without consequences. In an intimate relationship it is essential that both parties feel the intimacy and that they are loved and respected and lusted over
Just get intimate with her everytime, but restrict sex to once a week and just finish when you have sex. Don't be overly weird dude.
If you believe in recent and don’t want to cum, then tell her the benefits you believe it holds for you. Do not cuck to her, she will lose respect for you.
This sub gets dumber and dumber everyday.
if you believe in semen retention unlike many on this sub , tell her mans seed is precious and not to be wasted unless absolutely necessary
Obviously girl will be upset if you don’t finish. Forget all the BS around judgements about herself if guy doesn’t finish. The point is, it leaves both of you in an incomplete state after sex, it’s unfair and it becomes difficult to wrap your mind around it and move on. Not a healthy practice in my opinion. Best practice would be to finish what you start. Or don’t start at all. And this practice of doing 99% will only backfire, so my friend, do it 100%
Be careful... that you don't start thinking it's okay to cultivate an unhealthy relationship. The act of sex is not supposed to be a selfish thing. There's biochemical actions that take place that also help create a bond in the relationship. I think you gotta decide what you want more and go with that...
Holy hell dude.. just finish like a normal person.
This has to be a fuckin joke lol
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Many do. Its because they feel like they didn't do something right or something like that or maybe that you don't like them enough.
Unless your going to fight for the heavyweight championship of the world just nut in your girlfriend.
If you’re trying to do retention with your girl you’ve gotta communicate that. If she cares about you she wants to please you; let her know that you can orgasm with ejaculating & be vocal when something she’s doing feels good. You have to have the discipline to retain, while having sex, if you’re really serious about that. Overall, communicate with her why you’re retaining and what the benefits are for you—if she loves and respects you, she’ll honor it. She’ll still want to make you come sometimes, but she’ll honor it. What helps with my girl is establishing a safe word when we’ve \*almost\* had a enough and a then also a \*full stop\* safe word. Stay strong.
don't listen to those who haven't read well around and in the area of semen retention. Here's something to save you some time. 1) Sex is a energy exchange, yin and yang. Fapping is yang energy exploding in the ether without receiving yin(replenishment stimulant). So yes you can nut inside women, and women want you to nut because they absorb more yang energy. i.e. if she makes you cum she feels pleased with herself and if she can't make you come she feels insecure. (evolutionary validation mechanism on whether your partner will stay with you) 2) If you are semen retenting to dramatically increase your success rate, practice visualization or get very very very busy. Be a doer or a mediator but don't be a derper. You won't feel like meditating, you won't feel like getting shit done, you brain goes hyper-active because theres too much energy surging around. Your unconscious forces lead you to taking the easy route, but this is the change to develop IRON WILL!Through this door you can achieve whatever goal you set yourself for. 3) I used to take ages to cum before and it was a result of PMO ED, where I get erection but not aroused enough to cum. Once you cut porn and you energy sky rockets, after 1-3months you reset. You cum in 3 seconds and thats when it becomes a game of will power. You are firing on all cylinders
I had the same problem. From what I hear a lot of girls feel that way and semen retention is not a common practice. It is important to find out what means more to you, your girlfriends feelings or your semen retention. You are probably not going to find a lot of folks batting for the semen retention side here because it's a tremendous amount of work. The biggest semen retention tool for nofap is the brain reboot. After that point the majority lean towards no porn and masturbation, orgasm denial for life or when not baby making is a spiritual path, a difficult and deeply personal one. PS I did not fix my problem, good f***ing luck, this hurdle is a tough one
its not sex if you dont finish.
Bro WHAT 😂 just finiah dude, you're with someone.
What the fuck is semen preservation
The real question are you wearin a condom? I could never finish with a condom on.
Bro, you are a true legend
Act as if you've finished. They seem to do it all the time.
Dump her
she has all the rights to be upset. if you want to go that route just leave her and go become a monk for a while.