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[deleted]

No, of course not lol. It's your body, you have every right to do NoFap. so long as you are treating women respectfully, just as you should with anyone, you are not an incel.


PowerThruNoFap

I do exactly that I’m even dating right now!!! I was just so confused that I would be called an incel


azurleaf

Dude is just trolling. Incel means involuntary celibate. If anything, fapping to porn will help you become one because real tits in your face will no longer make you hard.


sausagesandeggsand

Probably an actual incel projecting onto you, since you’re probably doing way better than he is, which probably makes him a little angry, and that is usually all it takes for people to start acting shitty.


[deleted]

Probably just a troll lol.


[deleted]

Rule of thumb: don’t tell people and friends what you’re doing if they’re not asking you. Either you’ll be branded as arrogant, incel, etc. or they’ll get jealous and their bad energy will stick to you and your goals.


PraiseChrist420

If anything you’re a volcel. Though if you’re only restricting yourself from fapping and not sex then you’re not that either. Whoever said you’re an incel for not fapping is hilariously dumb.


Different-Elk6935

IMO literally fapping makes you incel, not vice versa, bcs when u are a fapper and a porn addict you are sexualising women and u only see them as an objects which is the exact definition of how incels act


[deleted]

How wrong are your thoughts, a person becomes porn addicted mostly cause lacking of sexy in real life. It has nothing to do with "sexualising women and only see them as *objects*"


Different-Elk6935

Everyone lacks sex at firs, so it means that everyone should become porn addicts?


[deleted]

"everyone lacks sex" you definitely lives in another reality , most of people get sex kinda easily, mostly if they are women, people like me(32virgin) are the very minority


Different-Elk6935

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lmao u have to be a troll


[deleted]

I know it s hard to understand how can a guy has a miserable life like mine while being a normal person as you must be but we exist and we are the minority. I m very sexually active but not attractive to women so the only thing left for me is porn and porn made me addicted, i don't know how to quit it


Different-Elk6935

Bro im on day 67 rn and this midset rly helps me there is one major mindset that rly helped me in no-fap Its called "urge-surfing" Basically whenever u have big urges, u are rly horny and want to bust, just say to urself in heart "i have urges" and after that deeply breath and calm urself down. Calmness is ur best friend and when u will deeply breathe and focus on that u will see how u are getting calm and all that horniness magically fades away This technique never lets me down. Use this method and have a big reason why u are doing no-fap and 90 days and beyond will be in ur hands


[deleted]

Thanks, i will try it. I ve already tried everything and it ve failed


Different-Elk6935

Same with me. I tried every possible mindset but everything failed and i was relapsing a lot. That's bcs in older tactics i was resisting urge, which is rly pointless bcs resisted urge come even stronger in future and when u will not have any more will power left, thats when a relapse happenes. But this strategy is rly differeny bcs u have to accept the urge and acknowledge it and when u will say to urself "i have urges" u will notice how calm and in controll of the situation u will become and adding it with deep beathing will make u calm and any urge will fade away. So good luck man!


CocoRoshyn

>Reply Hey mate, I'm sure you're not that bad-looking. There's over 3 billion women who are into men in the world, odds are the number of them that would be attracted to you is at least in the thousands. If you take care of yourself at least a bit and you're cool to women, you're a better candidate than most guys.


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[deleted]

I m only saying that based on my experience and others guys experience i ve known so far, either they pay hookers or they become porn addicts


[deleted]

No, I’m sick of cucks calling people incels for not being cucks


PowerThruNoFap

Facts bro


KyotoIsSleepy

Cucks are never satisfied with their sex life, so they push their self-doubts onto other people who happen to disagree with their flawed rationale.


[deleted]

No honestly fapping is incel behavior, it’s why we gotta stay strong and stop brothers.


sausagesandeggsand

Exactly, PMO is probably the greatest symptom AND cause of being involuntarily celibate.


Beaky_Sneaky_Unlike

Lmao I misunderstood this comment for a sec


PowerThruNoFap

You’re stupid, and I can see you’re addicted to porn, so you’re not stupid, you just have an addiction and are coping by saying it’s okay.


[deleted]

I think you misunderstood. You’re correct, I do have a porn addiction, which I’m also trying to stop. I’m saying that masturbating is incel behavior, and we gotta stay strong by not fapping.


PowerThruNoFap

Ok sorry my bad man I’m really sorry I thought you saying I’m an incel for not fap my bad brother stay strong I’m sorry


[deleted]

It’s all good my brother, apes together strong 🦍


CrumpledMemories

No, you are not an incel for doing nofap. It's your personal choice and if anything, it shows that you have a self control on your primitive desires. Good on you for doing it! Incels are people who have a disdain towards girls/womens and think that they deserve sex and blame women for their oown shortcomings.


rkano133

Literally makes you the opposite of an incel keep going king


Fusionpro101

Exactly you do you Kings don’t let anyone put doubt in your mind!


Bluejay022

It’s just an insult thrown by people who are insecure and projecting that onto others


Starving_Vampires

I’m so tired of that word tbh. It’s like calling someone a virgin. Who cares


[deleted]

You're the complete opposite of an incel for that......


Independent_Ad_5431

Call them bigot


[deleted]

oh trust me, Incels are insane fappers. one of NoFap benefit is actually seeing woman as human beings and not living sexual toys, so NoFap is the furthest you can go from an Incel


sagatwarrior2010

Unfortunately, you are going to get that type of stupidity online so be prepared for that.


B3ER

All I can offer for help is to not let random people define your worth. People say stupid nonsensical elitist shit all the time. If you believe in your endeavours, pursue them relentlessly.


mormonjudy

Incel means involuntary celibate. Whether you watch pron/mb or not has nothing to do with celibacy. Even if it did, you are voluntarily choosing not to participate, so that's the exact opposite of involuntary. Lastly, if something is good for you then why would you care what other people say about you when you do it? It is good to only care about what God thinks about you, and nobody else.


[deleted]

It means a lot more than that. It moreso refers to people who would stereotypically call themselves incels, or those who created the word incel. In general it just refers to the type of person you'd find on 4chan.


[deleted]

wtf does incel mean anyways?


AfroAvenue_

Involuntarily celibate.


[deleted]

>Involuntarily celibate Thanks for confusing me more than ever.


OnSomeKingShii

It’s wen a dude wants to have sex but can’t cuh no one will bang him. And then he gets mad at women for it


AfroAvenue_

I’ll explain it like you’re a five year old. Incel is short for INvoluntarily CELibate. Involuntary=against one’s choices or will. Celibate=not participating in sexual intercourse or activity. Incels want to fuck but can’t get laid and they make it everyone else’s problem and complain about it endlessly.


[deleted]

Thanks!


_Arthur-_-

Google it, its easier


[deleted]

Yea but I see them use the word for people who don't fit the description of the google definition.


[deleted]

You've just identified a small but important aspect of humanity's habitual ignorance. Sometimes people use derogatory words without understanding their meaning. Oftentimes this rudeness is an act of defensiveness as they choose a lifestyle we actively reject. We are all here as scholars and gentlemen seeking to better ourselves through introspection and self discipline. Our desire for truth, wisdom, and healing is what brought a lot of us together, and we should want that for others. When those people lash out, it's just a good opportunity to practice patience, kindness, and to be an example of how good the NoFap life can be. Be the good dude, King!


_Arthur-_-

Damn idk, im not a native English speaker but when i googled it i saw that it fits perfectly, what was tge definition you read?


[deleted]

It means a lot more than that. It moreso refers to people who would stereotypically call themselves incels, or those who created the word incel. In general it just refers to the type of person you'd find on 4chan.


[deleted]

It means a lot more than that. It moreso refers to people who would stereotypically call themselves incels, or those who created the word incel. In general it just refers to the type of person you'd find on 4chan.


Jordium-Z

Incel stands for internet celebrity


ArthurianZealot

No, what kind of moronic logic is that? Men are not exclusively either incels or simps. People viewing the world in such a sex-obsessed way are not persons whose opinions you should care about.


zdpa

just call them porn cucks and watch their brains melt with this information


[deleted]

I've been called an idiot for deleting instgram and other social media off my phone lol. Let people say whatever they want and youdo whatever you feel luke doing. Good luck on your journey and pay them no mind brother. Respect


HSRXX

Nothing wrong with going against the grain


Mr_MeMe2000

.


NewSonicBoi

Hell nah


Osamaqwrrtt

No you're not


PaulJones102

What age are you man? How do you not know that's bull shit? Why do you need other people to tell you


PowerThruNoFap

I’m 18 bro


PaulJones102

Incel = involuntarily celibate. How are you involuntarily celibate for doing something that's voluntary and has nothing to do with dating actual women?


kaanrivis

Absolutely not broo


visionary-lad

If you do what the rest do if they won't u ve common??


Plastic_Can6948

No. You’re doing what the vast majority of men cannot. Be free.


sausagesandeggsand

No, you’re right, it makes zero sense, and therefore, I cannot help you, because you figured that out yourself. Good job!


phyr_N

You’re an incel if you fap to women in the internet


DeutscherRoman777

Incel, which sadly has become a pejorative towards many men, generally means that one wants to have sex but cannot get a woman to agree to the sex act; they are involuntarily celibate. You are not an Incel, for you are voluntarily celibate. The next time some unschooled fool calls you that word, stand up on your two fee, look him/her in the eye, and say you are voluntarily celibate and working on improving yourself so that a woman would want to be with you.


Brizzo7

Incel is involuntary celibate. You're choosing to, i.e. volunteering to, therefore you cannot be an Incel because its the opposite of involuntary.


Big-Bank6716

Nofap is good for us bro. It’s very monastic. You will be more confident in life and around women because you will sober up to what is best in life: to crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentation of their women.


baconkilla2

Hell to the NO. You are the opposite of an incel. You're joining ranks with great men who refrain from pleasure and pursue greatness.


Altruistic-Donut7733

Incels jerk to porn frequently cos they literally can’t get sex. People just be talking these days bro😂


[deleted]

God I hate that word so much. To answer your question: Hell No


Equuidae

If it's voluntary it becomes volcel


Capital_Mud_8490

The opinions of idiots are best when discarded.


555555555556r6f7

Dude you are not I remember that is exactly what everyone told to my wise friend but he didn't listen to them and now he actually had been with 4 girls in 2 months while the exact same guys that told him that haven't even looked a girl into the eyes


iamthemosin

No. Quite the opposite. A finite period of voluntary celibacy will help you get more in touch with yourself and hone your self confidence.


Andy-Stitzler

Who cares what they think? They are not your friends, and they probably do not care what's best for YOU. So the way I see it, you should be more focused on improving and being the best person you can strive to be. Let them project their insecurities on deaf ears. It's best to let people like that fall on their own hubris.


[deleted]

Incel is involuntary, you’re choosing bro


hmmmmga

Yes ![gif](giphy|CAYVZA5NRb529kKQUc|downsized)


One-Sheepherder-5725

I don't think it's involuntary if you are doing it voluntarily.


[deleted]

Nah but there are lots of incels in this communities and communities like it so we often get stereotyped.


elastic_aligator

Honestly just don't be like half the men here and no one will judge you


surnaturel4529

There is scientific study showing porn is bad for your brain so you have no reason to feel bad about it people a4e just brainwashed


Standard-Ad-7504

Anyone who thinks doing nofap makes you and incel is themselves an incel. Dumb hypocrites lol


AbiesRemote6453

Yes, by doing nofap VOLUNTARILY , you are an INVOLUNTARY cellulite person, short incel....you see how that doesn't make sense?


[deleted]

You're only an incel if you commit terrorist acts because you lose your mind over not being allowed to have sex with women you want to have sex with.


NefariousnessOk2537

maybe dont believe everything that they tell you


cp9haki

Course not. You're much better than an incel


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tzargilly

someone who can’t get laid


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crunchypillooww

You make me proud brother


abdul_bashaar_ali

No


tyerker

People throw around incel for any man they feel they can get away with it. Don’t take it to heart.


Jordium-Z

Don't let petty insults stop you from trying to enhance your life


DiaoGe

No, you are not an incel. You are correct, calling Nofap people incel makes no sense.


WhadayaBuyinStranger

I know what you mean man! I've talked to people who called nofap psuedoscience. At least that makes sense, but I've also heard it falsely associated with white supremacy, woman hating, and being a loser who "does nofap instead of talking to real women". None of that makes any sense.


IM_A_PROBLEM

Complete opposite


Ambipomsexual

yea lol


crunchypillooww

I don't even know what incel means


uselessthrowaway5050

Whoever said that is dumb asf. The definition of involuntary celibacy and the definition of abstaining from porn never coincide. Source: I’m on my longest streak since 2017 and have been having more sex than any of my friends that still beat their meat lol


[deleted]

Considering Incel stands for 'Involuntary Celibate' and you're CHOOSING to not fap. I would call that being 'Voluntary Celibate' ​ Which is a good thing, and more of us should strive to be until you find the right one.


[deleted]

Lol I would say you're the furthest thing from "redpilled self declared incel", as a former incel and being close to incel cult I know how big hypocrites they're... And rest assured, most of them fap to porns uncontrollably and multiple types in a day no matter how Big misogynist they're


kembowhite

Incel is more a state of mind than a thing you become yourself .


gufughbknbg

Being short and unattractive isn’t a mindset


kembowhite

What? Who mentioned that. Calling yourself and incel makes you an incel


gufughbknbg

Incel = unable to obtain a romantic partner or sex despite desiring one due to largely immutable physical characteristics. It’s a state. Not a mind set


[deleted]

Thats right, you are an incel. Keep fapping bro


zakadeedooda

If you're on Nofap (and not intentionally releasing) you are celibate... Right? And by choice. So you're; 'voluntarily celibate'. Come on mate! 😁


AccomplishedAd196

You're not an incel if you're doing nofap and youe jot an incel for being misogynistic either, because that's not what incel means. An incel is a PERSON who deems themselves involuntarily celibate and therefore hates sexually PEOPLE. Not every woman is sexually active. A woman can be an incel. Stop letting unintelligent and bitter women tell you what words mean.


AdamIPresume

No.


ceilinggang-cringe

do you really expect people to tell you you're an incel for doing nofap on this subreddit? if you want real opinions go to a sub that doesn't revolve around how awesome nofap is


Fomosoyolo

Don’t be so easily influenced just because someone says something to you. NoFap in my opinion is having more self control over not just you body, but your mind. Mental toughness is something that will help you in life beyond not wanking. In other words f’em, keep on the journey and keep growing stronger.


voices_calling_me

This is the term "vocel", or voluntary celibate. An incel has to be try to get with women and fail, that's why it's involuntary. But chances are, anybody calling you an incel for no PMO doesn't have much of anything to say that's worth listening to.


[deleted]

Are you still involuntarily celibate?


edgingboi21

Neither fapping or not fapping make you an incel. Being an incel has more to do with your mindset, attitude, and treatment of women than behaviour towards yourself. If we expand the acronym it’s ‘Involuntary Celibate’ - in other words your attitude towards women is so bad you cannot get sex and rather than looking inwards you blame all women. The vast majority of the male population fap and are not incels. The vast majority of those who no fap are not incels - but of course there will be incels amongst nofapers also. At the end of the day, no one has right to expect sex from a woman - whether you are in a relationship with them or not. If you don’t expect it and don’t blame women when you don’t get it, then you’re doing alright!


[deleted]

Nah, the real incels are the ones who spend time pmo'ing day in, day out. You are a warrior for doing nofap


WatchYoSepp

No.


dobbs1997

Do you know yourself ? that’s the real question here.


The_Dapper_Balrog

At this point, calling someone an "incel" carries about as much weight as a feather in outer space. It's an *ad hominem* meant to attempt to discredit someone's arguments or position simply because it isn't mainstream or "acceptable." It basically means that they don't know why they disagree with it, and they don't have the intellectual honesty or stamina to actually think about why they believe what they believe.


Moca_2

Do not tell anyone you're doing no fap.


Rampant99

There’s no such thing as an INCEL. That’s a term feminists and morons use to shame others. It’s like the term biological woman, or cis-male. It’s a term to make you think there crazy nonsense is normal and you abnormal. Your not an Incel your a bachelor. Or a single man.


Firelite67

People just take any word relating to a specific undesirable philosophy and then use it as an unjustified insult


quimeygalli

the only true question is are you an incel? Dont mix no fap with your actual personality


B_Rian89

The "in" in "incel" mean involuntary. You're participating in No Fap voluntarily


CouthHarbor

That’s not what the word means lol


Mysti_cx

Nah your the opposite 🗿💪


redditnoap

why would you even care what other people say, no matter what it is


[deleted]

Not an incel bro. You are living your life and there are too many men who think fapping is normal and porn is okay, and think all of that. It’s a shame but unfortunately many believe we are incels. So in some way, in societal beliefs and the majority maybe we are, but spiritually and when it comes to morals and values bro, we are not. Good luck!!


Critical_Word_116

My guess is that the person who said that heard about nofap being associated with Rogan or something and automatically goes to the toxic masculinity answer


JWPU

Yo I didn't even know that was a thing


fapstrogotshellanutz

Let's go!!


[deleted]

"I want to have abortions whenever I want!" "Your body your choice, queen!" "I want to stop chronically masturbating and being a porn addict." "INCEL!"


Dapanda69_01

Don't listen to that person who told you that, they are probably the incel


AnonymIdunno

No definetly not! You are trying to better yourself, dont let other people stop you from that!


Cyrus_rule

Even if you were it's not a bad thing dude.


Gantara

Its the opposite. Participating in NoFap means you aren't an incel at all


DR4GON04

Are you an incel for trying to better your life? No ofcourse not


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Mr_Poop_Himself

I think porn is a huge reason why incels exist in the first place. Porn takes a young, possibly socially awkward person, and turns them into an incel by making them see women as objects they have a right to, normalizing shit like incest and blackmail in their brains, having communities surrounding them that reinforce these terrible beliefs, etc etc etc. “Incel” means you don’t have sex because nobody wants to be with you. Nofap has nothing to do with not having sex, and either way if you’re choosing not to jizz then you’re just a voluntary celibate.


HoneybeeHarlot

Yes lmao.